To the guy who wants to know why he's lonely and sad

Even the people who tell you what a bad person you are have felt the same pain that you have.
Every single person has a story, and that means that every single person is interesting. If you haven't had a conversation about how interesting your life is in a while, then you've got a lot to talk about with those people you haven't met yet.

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  • @lordrandolf1
    @lordrandolf12 жыл бұрын

    This video is eleven years old. Wow, I hope this young lady has wonderful people in her life today.

  • @addone5548
    @addone55482 жыл бұрын

    this video showed up in my feed after 11 years , i think the algorithm is trying to tell me something

  • @waynewhoever7041
    @waynewhoever704112 жыл бұрын

    I am a lonely alcoholic in a dead-end town and I just got out of prison. What in the world??? Thank you for your good words. Damn this is crazy.

  • @TheWho58
    @TheWho586 жыл бұрын

    this is a nice girl, wish i had girls like this in my depressing life right now

  • @idumpedinafrenchhorn6811
    @idumpedinafrenchhorn68112 жыл бұрын

    KZread recommendations on point today

  • @deavsmith2806
    @deavsmith28066 жыл бұрын

    I try to be nice to people everyday....still m lonely😣😣

  • @timwebb1000
    @timwebb100011 жыл бұрын

    Here's another tip. Everybody is basically like you. They all want people to be interested in them. So, instead of focusing on "Why am I so unhappy?" ( which is egocentric ) start asking other people questions about themselves. They will love it because you make them feel important and valued. So they will respond by not just liking you, but loving you. Problem solved. It's a paradox really, ie by giving, you get.

  • @MrSweGibzon
    @MrSweGibzon10 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes people don't have the hormones in their brain to make them happy. That's the hardest kind of depression

  • @mexodroid1848
    @mexodroid18482 жыл бұрын

    To everyone struggling with this - Don't worry, first few years are the hardest, later you get used to it.

  • @walkingtour79
    @walkingtour799 жыл бұрын

    you made me cry cuz you explained the same what I am going through

  • @mervinlee5963
    @mervinlee59637 жыл бұрын

    Hey broke, just wanted to say thank you, i was feeling so lonely today and your video made me a bit less sad.

  • @gypsykid894
    @gypsykid8942 жыл бұрын

    This video recommended at 2 AM in the morning after so many years hits different....

  • @rowsdower12
    @rowsdower1212 жыл бұрын

    What if you had close friendships but they turn into casual friendships. That's the hard thing. Or even if you do try to contact or imply you want to hang out but don't get much of a response. Sure I can find someone else but its sucks. Agree with what you said. I have come a long way. But just frustrated at feeling the "un-fullfilling" "friendships" I have. Sure they have stuff to do, that's fine but no real connection. Not to say I can be everyone's best friend.

  • @SuperDanReturns
    @SuperDanReturns2 жыл бұрын

    There's me expecting a video shitting on the sad bois, loved this and everything about it, wish I'd seen this 11 year ago 😂 but the message still rings true, even after doing it all the hard way 👌 more videos like this on the internet please 🥰

  • @jeremyrobinson424
    @jeremyrobinson4246 жыл бұрын

    What if people make you sad, even if they're not trying?

  • @sniperotrollador
    @sniperotrollador2 жыл бұрын

    ye rlly cool but youtube algorithm decided to bless your video

  • @juanitoblaugrana
    @juanitoblaugrana12 жыл бұрын

    wow, i wish i had heard these simple words 5 or 6 years ago... there is so much wisdom in your words, that just for being so simple, these words are disregarded all the time... i'm still overcoming these social fears, but it gets harder when you have notable physical defects..

  • @nickperez9915
    @nickperez99159 жыл бұрын

    Thanks I needed to hear this.

  • @josephjacobshagen5108
    @josephjacobshagen51086 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You explained what I have been going through as far as the dating scene goes.

  • @prabha24268
    @prabha242685 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. Going through this situation right now. Thanks for the advise.

  • @damedane913
    @damedane91310 жыл бұрын

    im not alone but lonely

  • @Thaleus
    @Thaleus14 жыл бұрын

    the world is a vampire

  • @mattclark9377
    @mattclark93775 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for posting this video it’s really opened my eyes

  • @davidcarlsson7146
    @davidcarlsson714610 жыл бұрын

    You put words on my emotions and soulutions to them to. But something that has grown on you for 8 or some years is hard to change the feling that nobody wants you is so hard to cope with :-( Maybe if i got a bit drunk it wouldnt matter what i thought others cared about me at a party since i would have entertained myself. I want to know more about you and it would be hugely appreciatead to get an answer from you :-)

  • @BrokeTheInterweb

    @BrokeTheInterweb

    8 жыл бұрын

    Hey David. I know this is late, but I can only tell you what I know myself to be true: Find what you love doing -- what you're really good at. You and I both know there's something, even if it's absurdly weird. That doesn't matter. Do that thing as well as you can, get better every day, and learn to love yourself for your inherent abilities. When you love yourself, good people flock to you and your confidence has a solid ground to stand on. I wish you the best of luck in this, and I'd love to hear what your "thing in life" is!

  • @davidcarlsson7146

    @davidcarlsson7146

    8 жыл бұрын

    BrokeTheInterweb i really apreciate the anwser :) I would say it's photogrophy, and matematics XD

  • @Ashbuster85
    @Ashbuster855 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice. I have been pretty lonely & taken much abuse from people so this helps.

  • @Jacob-od1bi
    @Jacob-od1bi7 жыл бұрын

    explains why i have been so sad in the past

  • @jantipo8096
    @jantipo809612 жыл бұрын

    I think you are wright, thanks for the advice, i will try to follow it. I felt depressed so many times...

  • @lukeshriner8423
    @lukeshriner84238 жыл бұрын

    thank you I try your advise and go out more instead of staying inside because I'm scared to get hurt again. I just need to move on from my past.

  • @jacobalexander1042
    @jacobalexander10426 жыл бұрын

    Thank You.

  • @gammaphoenix45
    @gammaphoenix4511 жыл бұрын

    I don't feel lonely in my (hostel) room up to the point where home work (maths home work, to be specific) is left. Problem comes when its finished. I go on looking on the net for maths questions, but it drives me nuts to find problems either too easy or too difficult. I abandon that search, and in a pathetic desperation try to find something that catches my interest. Unfortunately, nothing does. Needless to say, the feeling of loneliness only complicates the problem.

  • @thefightclubpodcast7281
    @thefightclubpodcast72815 жыл бұрын

    Wow, you just inspired me. Very special video and special person, god bless.

  • @erveyalanis
    @erveyalanis14 жыл бұрын

    i love your way of thinking!!! :)

  • @sheafyffe
    @sheafyffe13 жыл бұрын

    I don't know where you stand on this, like what type of person you are. However, being a social introvert, I think you have the right intention speaking about this but people will not get up after watching this video and go to a social event. I hate big crowds; I look down when I walk; I've always been this way. We do this to ourselves, and though we don't receive a lot of social interaction, I think most shy people are much more profound. The perk of being shy, is being special.

  • @JDPelayoPetit
    @JDPelayoPetit14 жыл бұрын

    you're so right... nice vid

  • @scottb7539
    @scottb75392 жыл бұрын

    I like her.

  • @Peewee1460
    @Peewee146014 жыл бұрын

    somebody's speaking from experience.

  • @allinite3807
    @allinite38077 жыл бұрын

    Well, I'm sad I'm trying to help myself and meeting new people.I'm trying to be happy the key word there being trying.. Thanks for the help It's really helping I Think..It's helping in really small increments but it's helping.. -Max.T

  • @IlIVICEROYIlI
    @IlIVICEROYIlI11 жыл бұрын

    im lonely, but im happy.. then what should i do about it? i played online game, listen to all my favourite songs and watch all my favourite movies.. and cook and eat my favourite food.. i think somebody became lonely and unhappy is because they lack of passion or they dont do what they love the most.. lucky me.. i always feel enough and thats alone makes me happy.. and i really hate crowds area or just talk to somebody face to face, idk just dont like it..

  • @redphantom85617
    @redphantom8561713 жыл бұрын

    Nice video, very true

  • @uncleankie9436
    @uncleankie94366 жыл бұрын

    at 1:18 was words of wisdom ..I thought I was the only one who thought to my self abouty "if people didn't really care what people thought of them ask them to walk outside naked"..wow we are all mentality connected..

  • @ThexMonarchy
    @ThexMonarchy5 жыл бұрын

    Hi, I was wondering if I could use your video for a song?

  • @BrokeTheInterweb

    @BrokeTheInterweb

    5 жыл бұрын

    go for it!

  • @buellerferris
    @buellerferris13 жыл бұрын

    As a fellow ADDer I love your videos :)

  • @uberschnack
    @uberschnack14 жыл бұрын

    i never feel this way BECAUSE I AM A ROBOT!!!

  • @wkmultimate
    @wkmultimate12 жыл бұрын

    very inspirational...

  • @samuraiwolf3669
    @samuraiwolf36692 жыл бұрын

    that was the best things said to me since 2020

  • @alexonofre5467
    @alexonofre54675 жыл бұрын

    I can't help to notice but is everybody sad ?

  • @Xpl1k3R890
    @Xpl1k3R8908 жыл бұрын

    i feel like this everyday

  • @Gold753
    @Gold75314 жыл бұрын

    It's awfully considerate of you to think of me here And I'm much obliged to you for making it clear That I'm not here...

  • @juliogloria7573
    @juliogloria75736 жыл бұрын

    I’m so lonely 😭 I want a friend

  • @TommyLellan
    @TommyLellan12 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @Van2Dan
    @Van2Dan13 жыл бұрын

    I like your video!

  • @austin2245psn
    @austin2245psn5 жыл бұрын

    🙂 I can’t sleep

  • @jessebudelman
    @jessebudelman5 жыл бұрын

    Spot on.

  • @jantipo8096
    @jantipo809612 жыл бұрын

    I think you are wright, thanks for the advice, i will try to follow it.

  • @MichaelDiPrima03201994
    @MichaelDiPrima032019945 жыл бұрын

    What's so interesting about a guy who listens to classical, and jazz music, to escape reality?

  • @thesniperpanda1
    @thesniperpanda112 жыл бұрын

    Thanks to your video I decided not to kill my self I found this video while I was uploading my last will and testament Ty for this great video

  • @nadeemmoabeer5411
    @nadeemmoabeer54116 жыл бұрын

    Same I don't have any friends

  • @JohnLumapaskeith
    @JohnLumapaskeith9 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @DoctorRobertBobby
    @DoctorRobertBobby13 жыл бұрын

    you are one smart lady.

  • @Chubbydubby09
    @Chubbydubby095 жыл бұрын

    mind if i use this for a song?

  • @BrokeTheInterweb

    @BrokeTheInterweb

    5 жыл бұрын

    sure! go for it

  • @juniettduarte4963
    @juniettduarte496311 жыл бұрын

    Eres real, me encanta lo que dices! Gracias. and i support what juanitoblaugrana said that you are so cute

  • @arpinz
    @arpinz13 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, moreover you have a very understandable american accent.

  • @MRROBBIEWATTS
    @MRROBBIEWATTS5 жыл бұрын

    Smart lady - :)

  • @TheMMCold
    @TheMMCold13 жыл бұрын

    great video , have this happened to you? :/

  • @jaimebellonio
    @jaimebellonio13 жыл бұрын

    My best whishes for you, from Chile...interesting way of thinking...gringa..:D Saludos....cuídate mucho...;)

  • @ZomgZomg007
    @ZomgZomg00712 жыл бұрын

    ty

  • @7272dre
    @7272dre13 жыл бұрын

    HELP!!!!!!!!! well noo i have tried all of that and none of that works i think everything you are saying is TRUE. but truth is i am a loser and people dont like me. none what so ever. and im not gonna change. sooo what nowww

  • @robinjakbravo3067
    @robinjakbravo30676 жыл бұрын

    no estés triste cantas maravilloso 👏👏👏👏 que vida la mía. , oye si enseñas ingles. vas a tener muchas pero muchas visitas y laik latinoamérica te espera

  • @iBridger
    @iBridger13 жыл бұрын

    Basically i knew everything u said. I just don't have the will to act on it!!! am lonely not stupid!!! no offence

  • @pacers10490
    @pacers1049013 жыл бұрын

    i just watched this entire video without hearing anything besides 'you're pretty' in my head

  • @MBKDProductions
    @MBKDProductions14 жыл бұрын

    Well, your videos are adorable and you don't look that old. but i asked because you have a great sense of mind and i was like holy shit she's mature, because you looked young. my bad. lol

  • @oztheman6177
    @oztheman61777 жыл бұрын

    Damn, you would make a great life partner. Who ever has you better keep you lol

  • @fernandoyanez2596
    @fernandoyanez259612 жыл бұрын

    why is the top comment from 2 years ago

  • @Van2Dan
    @Van2Dan13 жыл бұрын

    @BrokeTheInterweb I like your video

  • @jaimebellonio
    @jaimebellonio12 жыл бұрын

    hi...from chile...nie too see u...;)

  • @fernandoyanez2596
    @fernandoyanez259612 жыл бұрын

    are those your real eyes cause u r so pretty

  • @Aaron.Aguilar
    @Aaron.Aguilar12 жыл бұрын

    @BrokeTheInterweb wtf jaja parese mas joven unos 17-18

  • @robertrush8062
    @robertrush80627 жыл бұрын

    if you are sad , lonely or depressed then read this. my friend Jesus loves you very much and he is always with you. he cares so deeply and you and he can help you to feel loved and accepted he understands how you are feeling. he died for you and if you will believe in him you will be saved and have eternal life. you are very special and loved very much and you matter alot. god bless you

  • @MBKDProductions
    @MBKDProductions14 жыл бұрын

    How old are you?

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