To Get What You Want, You Must Give Up What’s Holding You Back

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I hope these tips inspire you to stay open to new experiences, even when you’re afraid. New experiences invite opportunities for a richer, more meaningful life. Even when the outcome isn’t what you wanted or expected, it’s the things you learn along the way that really count.
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  • @TheArtofImprovement
    @TheArtofImprovement2 жыл бұрын

    I'm getting reports of people not getting youtube notifications for my videos... again :( If you want to be notified, I've set up a mailing list: email.artofimprovement.co.uk

  • @waelfaraj6705

    @waelfaraj6705

    2 жыл бұрын

    Things get natural like a second nature with consistency and persistence . Love , peace and light from Lebanon to the world...

  • @waelfaraj6705

    @waelfaraj6705

    2 жыл бұрын

    Transcend fear into love , joy and peace...This enlightens up your soul and mind ...

  • @aakashailajan
    @aakashailajan2 жыл бұрын

    So true. Identify what is stopping you from taking action, and face those fears. Become fearless, and take action on your goals today 💪🏻

  • @waelfaraj6705

    @waelfaraj6705

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes , taking precautions while having a clearer vision before trial is good ... Getting through loving forgiving thoughts help get inspired action when taken ...

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good thing you were here to tell us this, because NO ONE knew it was 'just so easy peasy lemon squeezy'! LOL I am sure you are a nice fellow and all, But i seriously hope no one is PAYING for your advice! nearly everyone knows what to do; it's the how to do that prevents most of us!

  • @disebolekhu6098

    @disebolekhu6098

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @higherpurpose1212
    @higherpurpose12122 жыл бұрын

    I'm starting a new job next week, so what's the worst thing that could happen... let me count the ways: 1. I didn't meet the expectations when they hired me; 2. I would embarrass myself day in and day out and be found out that I'm an impostor; 3. The team and the manager decides it's not worth keeping me, so I get the termination papers; 4. I will end up jobless after a few weeks; OR 1. I will just go out there, do my darn best to do my job and be grateful for them trusting me and hiring me, even if I feel like I'm embarrassing myself, and hope that my first day will be over, then my first week, then my first month! So basically I'm giving myself a month to survive, I get paid, my bills will be covered for a short while, and I'll be back job hunting, until I find the one that fits my skills!

  • @anamitjot
    @anamitjot2 жыл бұрын

    A life without new experiences can‘t be a happy life… Learning something new makes life so interesting and helps to grow 💝

  • @mymentorjane6705
    @mymentorjane67052 жыл бұрын

    When I’m feeling stuck making progress on my KZread channel because I’m feeling insecure or defeated, I ask myself 2 questions. 1. How will I feel a year from now if I allow myself to stay stuck or give up? On some things, I can honestly say I don’t think I’d be that torn up. So maybe it’s time to let myself off the hook and admit I don’t really want it that badly. (For example, losing 20 lbs.) And that’s ok. Relief! For my channel, I would be disappointed because there’s a lot about it I enjoy and it’s important to me. So I keep going, taking one step (sometimes that’s just a 2 minute task). Then another one. 2. Why do I think it’s not ok to be afraid or feel insecure and that I should feel good all the time? For me, when I was a kid, I got a lot of messages about, “Don’t be a baby!” And “I don’t want to hear it!” What I’m trying to convey is that things worth doing won’t be fun or easy all the time. It’s normal and it’s ok. It’s part of life. So whine about it for a time, then celebrate progress. Keep going.

  • @waelfaraj6705

    @waelfaraj6705

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes , taking precautions while having a clearer vision before trial is good ... Getting through loving forging thoughts help get inspired action when taken ...

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is a GOOD comment! Unlike those who'd rather regurgitate the platitudes, you actually go to the uncomfortable places and speak to our inner timid child! Thank you for being so bold!

  • @mymentorjane6705

    @mymentorjane6705

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Thank you so much. I really appreciate you for reading my comment. Take care!

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mymentorjane6705 You are welcome and i appreciate you making it! It helped put some things into perspective for me! Take care and i wish you continuous success!

  • @Mindsetmastery1232

    @Mindsetmastery1232

    9 ай бұрын

    Yep it is normal to give up on your dreams, If you want to live a normal life and be average. Pls do so.

  • @seananih7609
    @seananih76092 жыл бұрын

    Right message at the right time. Thank you.

  • @diadesu7619
    @diadesu76192 жыл бұрын

    These messages are so powerful! and i hope people will have this video recommended to them especially at times when they needed it the most^^

  • @aishwaryalashmi9454
    @aishwaryalashmi94542 жыл бұрын

    "GO out & get busy" bang on... thanks for this great video... 👍

  • @Vanessa-yw7mv
    @Vanessa-yw7mv2 жыл бұрын

    I’m actually reading ‘How to win friends and influence people’ now! Thank you so much for the great contents as always!

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's a classic, BUT . . . .so many books have built on it, with our new knowledge, that i dont find it helpful for those of us who have been on the journey a bit. it's a nice primer for those who have never read anything of the type, but has long since been surpassed.

  • @thelightwecarry
    @thelightwecarry2 жыл бұрын

    Best advice I have seen all day👍

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @M_SC
    @M_SC2 жыл бұрын

    Ooh! I’ll sign up for the newsletter!

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee2 жыл бұрын

    Know what you want

  • @blablabla4744
    @blablabla47442 жыл бұрын

    Super inspiring video👻🏆

  • @Growwithzeeel
    @Growwithzeeel2 жыл бұрын

    *In the words of The Rock“Effort increases action. Action creates momentum. Momentum creates success.”* so take action on whever you wish to accomplish in life. - Seriously don't let your dreams die.

  • @josecorchete3732
    @josecorchete37322 жыл бұрын

    Fear is a natural instinct that advice us of troubles. You shouldn't disregard fear entirely, cause intuition is a very powerful mechanism rooted on fear that protects us, like noticing red flags in potential relationships that our mind refuses to see.

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! but most fear is about primal instincts and poorly adapted to modern situations. Not my opinion, but the opinions of the experts who study this.

  • @keciarideout1
    @keciarideout1 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Great Video!

  • @TheArtofImprovement

    @TheArtofImprovement

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you - glad you enjoyed it!

  • @annar6394
    @annar6394 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @TheArtofImprovement

    @TheArtofImprovement

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome, Anna, and thank you 🙏

  • @anawithout1709
    @anawithout17092 жыл бұрын

    Hello! I love your videos! Always so true, helpful and inspiring. I'd like to bring them to a broader audience, by translating them to my language. So our people can also be inspired by and take something from your wisdom. Do you think I can have your permission to do so?

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj67052 жыл бұрын

    Do your best ( and / or be your best ) and leave the rest ...

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 Жыл бұрын

    As long as it is something I can have, I will. I have to put my needs first, however.

  • @gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471
    @gabrielmoralesgonzalez64712 жыл бұрын

    If you have a lot in life, that means that you have more to lose. Like people you love dearly, if they pass away you will change as a person and never be the same. Love makes us vulnerable, every type of love actually. The romantic love on the other hand is not worth it if it makes you depressed and unhappy. That is why I refuse to get to know new people. I have a lot of trust issues, I have been hurt, rejected, abandoned, betrayed and I have learned that love really makes us vulnerable so I do not want to get to know more and new people because I do not want to have more things to lose...

  • @M_SC

    @M_SC

    2 жыл бұрын

    Take care

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is great honesty here! thank you for being willing to be vulnerable about this. So . . . . .your most beloved person in the world who you cherish above all is who right now? Say this person walks up to you one day and says how unhappy he/she is and how unfulfilled they feel in life, like it has no meaning & no direction. Then they tell you what you just told us. how they dont trust people because a handful of people behaved badly and hurt them deeply, how would you respond? how would you advise this person? Would you REALLY tell them they should settle on being fearful and apprehensive of ALL people ALL the time, because of the faults of a handful? Good luck Gabriel, wishing you great success in overcoming the roadblocks of your life! Go make us proud, man!

  • @xdflow021

    @xdflow021

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think you put some expection on other's people very high man and that's why you feel embarrassed yourself

  • @gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471

    @gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@M_SC Thanks.

  • @gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471

    @gabrielmoralesgonzalez6471

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@inconnu4961 Thanks for your reply. I would try to understand and just try to change the persons mindset to the better. I would probably say that there are a lot of opportunities in life and some of them may change life to the better. I have a family that I love and without them I would not be here.

  • @renatasabo9810
    @renatasabo9810 Жыл бұрын

    Hello, Just like "Ana Without"that sand a message saying: "Hello! I love your videos! Always so true, helpful and inspiring. I'd like to bring them to a broader audience, by translating them to my language. So our people can also be inspired by and take something from your wisdom. Do you think I can have your permission to do so?" I think pretty much the same. I love your videos and mind maps. Can I use yours as a guide to create mines, in Portuguese? Do you allow such a thing?? Hope to receive your answer.

  • @adissadi
    @adissadi Жыл бұрын

    Please respond to this. I want to do new things but don't know where to go and what to start from. Please tell me what should I do?

  • @metasamsara
    @metasamsara2 жыл бұрын

    I think learning to draw could be the key to learn to take action, but I can never get inspiration to stylize 3 dimensions I take in everything conceptually, because I have aphantasia. But creating in general, I block even tho I feel inspired to be creative.

  • @JDragon272
    @JDragon2722 жыл бұрын

    In my case… my example is more like Trying, but… Reality tells the real truth, that my plans are Not Meant To Be. No matter what I do, then more setbacks after setback after setback… making me think that this whole concept is only for those are considered “Worthy”, while… I feel Not Worthy, and feel “Limited”, so like I’m not born to do what I wished, instead I have to “Accept Reality” and just stay where I am, and nothing more.

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj67052 жыл бұрын

    Thete is a book called power versus force by David Hawkins... Love , joy and peace are amongst the highest energy frequency on the scale of consciousness allowing your best to unfold naturally ...

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is a good comment! thank you for the book suggestion!

  • @waelfaraj6705

    @waelfaraj6705

    2 жыл бұрын

    😊🤗

  • @dainlord
    @dainlord2 жыл бұрын

    What's holding me back: dopamine addiction =(

  • @SimsationalChar
    @SimsationalChar2 жыл бұрын

    Lol writing before watching but I don't think I can give up my kids 😅

  • @daveyt4802
    @daveyt4802 Жыл бұрын

    Getting a game plan. Can't just go in blindly.

  • @bigsarge2085
    @bigsarge20852 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @shivatrivedi6964
    @shivatrivedi69642 жыл бұрын

    ❣️

  • @thefive-brickfortress3394
    @thefive-brickfortress33942 жыл бұрын

    How you make these? Do you actually draw this stuff?

  • @TheArtofImprovement

    @TheArtofImprovement

    2 жыл бұрын

    I've listed the software I use here: artofimprovement.co.uk/approved-resources/

  • @alexandruduma7533
    @alexandruduma75332 жыл бұрын

    Paused at 3:05 for some reason and had to think deep for a second since all of those 3 are my fears... Man is my brain messed up...

  • @tommack8650
    @tommack8650 Жыл бұрын

    If all our needs are fulfilled, why should we have any wants? When we are fulfilled emotionally, spiritually and physically, we have attained life balance. Wants are just disguised as needs that are yet to be fulfilled. A want is an unfulfilled need. What do you really need? Happy exploring!

  • @iledwards13
    @iledwards132 жыл бұрын

    First one here 2022... 💪🏾 👑 💯

  • @JSFGuy

    @JSFGuy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sew

  • @inconnu4961

    @inconnu4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JSFGuy Doe, ray, me . . .

  • @Ohsey
    @Ohsey Жыл бұрын

    Actually, countless worse things can happen from asking someone out. I face severe harassment and assault on a near daily basis in one of the best cities in the world. If I were to ask the wrong person out where I live, I would be at risk of being murdered. And I live in a better area of my city!

  • @JSFGuy
    @JSFGuy2 жыл бұрын

    Now I'm getting a notification after a year?

  • @TheArtofImprovement

    @TheArtofImprovement

    2 жыл бұрын

    I notify everyone who is on my mailing list, even if youtube doesn't: email.artofimprovement.co.uk

  • @Zahra-vh9kb
    @Zahra-vh9kb2 жыл бұрын

    I don't know what I want :(

  • @sqkidd6669

    @sqkidd6669

    Жыл бұрын

    Identify who you want to be and then you'll know what you want ... what makes you happy ?

  • @xaviernutella2666
    @xaviernutella2666 Жыл бұрын

    honestly, the one thing that can solve this, is money. THINK ABOUT IT. how are you gonna live? eat? drink water? how do you get a job? you have. to. have. money. STOP LETTING THESE VIDEOS FOOL YOU. why do you think they make it seem so easy? because they have the money and resources to do so. you can tell yourself everyday youre a millionaire, financially free, living life on abundance. you can take steps and actions to do this, but when it comes down to it, money isnt given its earned, and you cannot earn a million dollars. if this isnt true, then you should be a millionaire. youre not. sit the hell back down. i rest my case.

  • @xaviernutella2666

    @xaviernutella2666

    Жыл бұрын

    whats holding you back from making a million dollars? you just answered it. a million dollars.

  • @VCaptures

    @VCaptures

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, finally someone who sees the logic of it

  • @capymusic6319
    @capymusic63192 жыл бұрын

    1st

  • @JSFGuy

    @JSFGuy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Translate to English