How To Win Friends & Influence People (in 20 Minutes)

This is a summary of Dale Carnegie’s amazing book “How to Win Friends and Influence People”
Why do some people make friends easily?... people just like them, you like them.... but you're not sure why.
Others don’t get noticed, don’t have many friends and find it tough to talk in difficult situations.
A book written almost 90 years ago offers all the tools you need to:
-Make people like you
-Win people to your way of thinking
-Change people without causing resentment
-Build lasting friendships
Not endless pages of theory, but actionable strategies you can start using in your next conversation.
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00:00 - How to Win Friends and Influence People
🟢PART 1
🟢Fundamental Techniques in Handling Someone🟢
00:46 - Principle 1 - Don’t Kick Over the BEEHIVE
01:57 - Principle 2 - The Big Secret
02:35 - Appreciation VS Flattery
03:10 - Principle 3 - Arouse Desire
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🟡PART 2
🟡 6 Ways to make people like you🟡
04:18 - 6 Ways to Make People Like You
04:22 - Principle 1 - Feel Welcome Everywhere
05:11 - Principle 2 - Something Simple
05:58 - Principle 3 - You are Destined for Trouble
06:58 - Principle 4 - Become a Great Conversationalist
07:50 - Principle 5 - How to Interest People
08:29 - Principle 6 - Make People Like You Instantly
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🔴PART 3
🔴 How to Win people to Your Way of Thinking 🔴
09:27 - How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking
09:31 - Principle 1 - Handling Arguments
10:48 - Principle 2 - You’re Wrong
11:50 - Principle 3 - Do it QUICKLY
12:20 - Principle 4 - Begin Like This
13:02 - Principle 5 - YES, YES
14:06 - Principle 6 - Zip it
14:52 - Principle 7 - That’s a Good Idea
15:22 - Principle 8 - Point of View
16:22 - Principle 9 - Sympathy
16:49 - Principle 10 - Noble Motives
17:26 - Principle 11 - Drama
18:07 - Principle 12 - Challenge
===========================================
🔵PART 4
🔵9 Principles of Leadership & How to Change People without causing Resentment 🔵
18:46 - Leadership & How to Change People without causing Resentment
18:52 - Principle 1
19:07 - Principle 2
19:31 - Principle 3
19:48 - Principle 4
20:07 - Principle 5
20:24 - Principle 6
20:38 - Principle 7
20:59 - Principle 8
21:13 - Principle 9
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  • @jasonkrick1614
    @jasonkrick16143 күн бұрын

    I learned all this by myself. It took 20 years. The hard part of reading a book about anything is putting it into practice and making it work for you.

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    @djcook19 күн бұрын

    he’s baccccck

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    18 күн бұрын

    DJCOOK?!?!?!

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    12 күн бұрын

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    @escaping.ordinary

    19 күн бұрын

    😂

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    @havatgodfrey4870

    19 күн бұрын

    No need to shout I am here.

  • @TheGoddon

    @TheGoddon

    18 күн бұрын

    No need to hype up, he is just summarizing a book.

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    @djcook

    18 күн бұрын

    @@TheGoddon hater

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    @HarshPatel-el1ib

    16 күн бұрын

    @@escaping.ordinary hey, trust me, based on true events! 🥹

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic18 күн бұрын

    As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.

  • @YOUARE_370HSSV

    @YOUARE_370HSSV

    15 күн бұрын

    Thanks for advice sir ❤

  • @emmythrasher

    @emmythrasher

    11 күн бұрын

    As a 25 year old woman, I can tell you that people have caught on to these tactics and in the workplace we call it corporate phoniness and it makes us feel manipulated.

  • @terenarosa4790

    @terenarosa4790

    11 күн бұрын

    ​@@emmythrasher yeah, I've heard a lot of people express anger towards women speaking this way specifically. They call them manipulative and indirect.

  • @vladyslavstepulenko8155

    @vladyslavstepulenko8155

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@emmythrashergot into this trap using those tactics as a teenager couple of years ago. The thing is I should have changed the shape of that advice and simply appear natural. Politeness still works and will forever

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    @Mantra17619 күн бұрын

    Still want this channel to go full time and masterpiece like this every week😢

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    @cleito001

    6 күн бұрын

    Bot

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    4 күн бұрын

    @@cleito001 this ain't instgram bro

  • @eltocatimbres
    @eltocatimbres12 күн бұрын

    I think its important to recognize that there will be people who also take advantage of certain kinds of kindness and then have expectations of you to treat them with the same level from then on without reciprocating the energy with you. sometimes its better to just keep to yourself.

  • @user-lp7wy9ui5r

    @user-lp7wy9ui5r

    12 күн бұрын

    That’s why sometimes it’s best not to care whether they like you or not.

  • @emmythrasher

    @emmythrasher

    11 күн бұрын

    I took this as less about offering kindness for its own sake, more about using kindness as tool to manipulate people

  • @HekaVerse

    @HekaVerse

    10 күн бұрын

    This, I feel it. I'm always genuine and give 100% energy to ppl, but they only give back 50%, it's so exhausting...

  • @user-lp7wy9ui5r

    @user-lp7wy9ui5r

    10 күн бұрын

    @@HekaVerse it’s time you say yes to yourself and say no to others. They come to you when they have issues anyways. Keep those who fuel you, I guess. I’m still working on this, so

  • @gracejennings9034

    @gracejennings9034

    9 күн бұрын

    i think no matter how hard it can be, how much easier it is to close yourself off and not trust anymore, it’s generally worse for you. You don’t have to continue that kindness to rude people but if you’re not open because of some peoples rudeness, you might miss out on the important people in your life

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    @quantlight19 күн бұрын

    Was thinking to read this book from 6 months. Read somewhat and forgot. Glad you posted the video now it will be fun to watch without any knowledge about it.

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    @the_simplify19 күн бұрын

    the animation this time is on another level

  • @sampicy
    @sampicy14 күн бұрын

    - Introduction of the video - Overview of the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - Part One: Fundamental Techniques in handling someone - Principle 1: Avoid criticism - Principle 2: Genuine Appreciation vs. Flattery - Principle 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want - Part Two: Six ways to make people like you - Principle 1: Show genuine interest in others - Principle 2: Use a smile to make a good first impression - Principle 3: Remember and use people's names - Principle 4: Become a great conversationalist - Principle 5: Talk about things that interest others - Principle 6: Make people feel important instantly - Part Three: How to win people to your way of thinking - Principle 1: Avoid arguments - Principle 2: Never say "You're wrong" - Principle 3: Admit when you're wrong - Principle 4: Begin in a friendly way - Principle 5: Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately - Principle 6: Let the other person do a great deal of the talking - Principle 7: Let the other person feel the idea is theirs - Principle 8: Try to see things from the other person's point of view - Principle 9: Give people sympathy - Principle 10: Appeal to nobler motives - Principle 11: Dramatize your ideas - Principle 12: Throw down a challenge - Part Four: Nine Principles for Leadership & how to change people without causing resentment

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    19 күн бұрын

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    19 күн бұрын

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    @Stierenkloot

    13 күн бұрын

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    @oneplus706215 күн бұрын

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    @deadbones23Күн бұрын

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  • @classygentleman8463
    @classygentleman84636 күн бұрын

    Hey ! Hoping that you'd make a video summarizing "The Art of Seduction" just like you summarized "The Laws of Human Nature"

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    @karthikeyan38216 күн бұрын

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  • @psiga
    @psiga13 күн бұрын

    One of my grandfathers learned How To Win Friends & Influence People from the man himself. He became a traveling salesman of the book back in the 1930s, and criss-crossed the nation while he did it. Went on to live to a ripe young age of 99! Watched America grow up, he did.

  • @Yellow.1844

    @Yellow.1844

    12 күн бұрын

    That is insane to me

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    @averyintelligence

    9 күн бұрын

    Awesome 😎💪

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    @sasquatchkidPS3Xx11 күн бұрын

    I greatly appreciate the application of direct quotes from the book! And the video has excellent presentation. I have been reading the book, but I fell off recently. I’m watching this summary to get me back into it, so thanks for uh…crawling into my algorithm? 🎉🎉🎉

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    @khanmd2112 күн бұрын

    Yess another one.

  • @KalujaFlizck
    @KalujaFlizck19 күн бұрын

    Be interested in others. Do unto others. It's deceptivly simple.

  • @dugs3862
    @dugs386217 күн бұрын

    I justed finished reading this book today then this title randomly pops up

  • @BlaxkEdits

    @BlaxkEdits

    13 күн бұрын

    How accurate is this summary?

  • @poisonouspotato1
    @poisonouspotato111 күн бұрын

    I liked everything about this video including but not limited to overall presentation, art style, structure, quotes and how well you connected the theory to concrete examples. If only I wasn't so lazy, I would make cue cards right away. I'm probably going to re-watch it many times. You did a great job at making the contents of the arguably old book fresh and engaging.

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    @ramisbookslibrary12 күн бұрын

    Great Production Quality, wish he could be my editor in my weekly book summaries... Great work of art

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    @Userizekai12315 күн бұрын

    Nice!

  • @nodaswardenaar
    @nodaswardenaar13 күн бұрын

    I've learned so much thank you :)! Might this be a guideline of how to shape a better community space if this happens to be all of the people? Not just the rare one that tries to change the person's personality of itself, but imagine it starts small and suddenly spreads like 🔥. Loved this vid, might look for more 😊

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    @letho685516 күн бұрын

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    Welcome back man

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    @noveltycrusade15 күн бұрын

    Good audio book 👍 good for practical manipulation 👍

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    @abdurrafayfarooq90817 күн бұрын

    Great animation.

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    @jg8587Күн бұрын

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    @entropy-ur6bg18 күн бұрын

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  • @TigerTee23
    @TigerTee2316 күн бұрын

    I’ve got BPD it makes keeping friends very difficult

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    @ankitshami112419 күн бұрын

    Long time no see 🙈.Cant believe you are back.Less Available things Gains more Respect 🤝

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    @abdullaalteneiji653313 күн бұрын

    Make sure to always manipulate people so that they feel good about themselves. Avoid expressing anything that could potentially backfire or hurt you..

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    @0yashupadhyay11 күн бұрын

    Finally a new Video 🎉🥳🥳🥳

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    @TheSelfUpgradeZone13 күн бұрын

    We so missed you !

  • @madamin_kh
    @madamin_kh18 күн бұрын

    Let's goooo ❤️‍🔥

  • @kaizenyasou6963
    @kaizenyasou696319 күн бұрын

    Damn the animation this time is on another level

  • @obachir194
    @obachir19413 күн бұрын

    we are appreciate to you bro also this summer we expect to post more summery books