Hope your day is filled with love.❤‍🩹🌹p.s. ILY. Thank you for existing.

@Wonyyy_stan

2 ай бұрын

I love your videos girl keep being real and yourself I love you💕💕

@splatz4669

2 ай бұрын

Love you!! 🫶✨

@Daemon1995_

2 ай бұрын

hoping to see an update from this story

@europaexpress4757

2 ай бұрын

you literally described my current situationship… i need to break out of it. thank you zoe❤️

@emilyshepherd8544

2 ай бұрын

You have a beautiful heart ❤️ This really made my day

If a guy ever makes you feel desperate… that’s when you know something is wrong.

@NA-vh1ny

2 ай бұрын

Very true!

@indian_skemmer69

Ай бұрын

Indeed

@MeghanAir-pb6tz

Ай бұрын

I need to hear this!

@khadana_raw

27 күн бұрын

not exactly, sometimes we have the problem. Why not to care about the feelings of your guy? They are not always the problem, thats why its important the communication.

@cloudfish1829

24 күн бұрын

I don't think op necessarily meant guy is the problem, just something is wrong. I agree with you that it's not always the guy's fault. Sometimes both ppl have problems too.

Girlies we need platonic relationships to be normalized to be just as important as romantic ones, love is so much more than a partner❤️

@Dean_Winchester__

2 ай бұрын

Right! People overrate sex. What if I love all people as a whole? Why I should minimize it just to regular-degular sexual relationship with a man which will be over anyways (when the sexual attraction is over?)

@h35biznez

2 ай бұрын

you mean friendzone ? XD BYE funny

@cityremade

2 ай бұрын

Agree. This world suffers from making everything about sex 😓

@puffii_

2 ай бұрын

@@h35biznezit's so sad how someone not wanting to be in a romantic relationship has gained a negative connotation:/

@shirag.rkarun9578

2 ай бұрын

isnt that what we mean by friendship?? its a relationship where people share a bond i mean that is exactly what her story said and stop with this lgbt aro ace stuff all you are doing is makin a depressed person make stupid decisions

Tldr: dont fall in love with an idea of a person, and love thyself.

@trajectoryunown

2 ай бұрын

How about "be willing to change and grow into your spouse's ideal"? What ever happened to building each other up? Why's everybody so selfish nowadays?

@blankriff

2 ай бұрын

@@trajectoryunown eryones delusional?

@martijnkoning3354

2 ай бұрын

​@trajectoryunown ah yes it's def not selfish to want your partner to grow into the dream version YOU want them to be. That's not growing together.

@trajectoryunown

2 ай бұрын

@@martijnkoning3354 And you grow into the person THEY want you to be. That IS growing together, but more importantly, growing FOR each other. It's two people being completely selfless for the sake of the other. That's what a relationship is supposed to be.

@martijnkoning3354

2 ай бұрын

@@trajectoryunown no its not. You help each other grow yes, but into a better version of the person you already are, not into a person someone else wants you to be. Thats toxic as fuck

"i just want someone to love me. Is that too much to ask?" are the exact same words I wrote in my own diary litteraly 1 week ago... Hits different

@zoeunlimited

2 ай бұрын

🫂❤‍🩹

@chocolateunicorn1883

2 ай бұрын

Don't worry, God will send you someone who will love you and respect you and be there for you, that is why you are single. I felt exactly like you, then i met my boyfriend 3 years ago. We are still together and we plan to get married. He is my first boyfriend and my true and only love

@tanyuhkleck8368

2 ай бұрын

Well love is not smth can be earned or deserved. So basically...yes. It is like "I just want the rain now, is that too much for ask?". I mean, it doesn't make you a bad person, if it doesn't rain)

@canaldamomonique

2 ай бұрын

If you change a little. "I want someone to love and i want to be loved and respected"

@jasonfanclub4267

2 ай бұрын

🫶

My dream was to experience teenage love, but it's too late for that. I'm still waiting to feel something extraordinary

@naonaokao

2 ай бұрын

I think one day you’ll make a true connection with someone special. And when you fall in love, it will make you feel youthful!

@Daemon1995_

2 ай бұрын

its never too late, feelings are feelings regardless of age, its better when you're older period

@martijnkoning3354

2 ай бұрын

You cant wait. Its about trying and failing and trying again until it works. Ofc I cant judge since I don't know if you are passive or not. Best of luck tho

@cakeandcats5860

2 ай бұрын

Trust me, if it were, I've had a crush ​:( @ville__

@TheKumor

2 ай бұрын

It's never too late, just focus on yourself

Why is this actually a universal experience though?

@Daemon1995_

2 ай бұрын

because you're human and human nature doesn''t always know better?

@abbytheredwolf174

2 ай бұрын

@ville__ I mean it is and it isn’t. Some people are “late bloomers” and some people just have no care for the matter. And doing personal things and not exactly a sensual feeling. Ace people can still be intimate but it doesn’t mean they do it for themselves, but rather for their partner which is a choice to be In that relationship.

@marbleb33s

2 ай бұрын

​​@ville__are you stupid? I thought we where over this. Being queer isn't a choice. That's like saying you chose to be born with blue eyes, or with a dark skin tone.

@nobodythenobody9779

2 ай бұрын

Movies warped your idea of men Sounds like most of you need to lower your expectations She even said there were cute and nice guys but she just wanted more lol

@maya_jones3411

2 ай бұрын

@ville__It’s NOT a choice lmao. My friend is Aro-ace and she just *CAN’T* fall in romantic love with anybody. She’s not sad about it because she doesn’t care and doesn’t want a relationship, but she’s literally born unable to be romantically attracted to anyone. Just like lesbian’s or gay’s who can’t control who they’re attracted to, she can’t control her’s either. It’s like telling a gay person their attraction to the same sex is by “choice”.

It’s the “hyperfantasization” of love and romance from growing up in such a media exposed age that’s lead to unrealistic expectations for our love lives. It works in tandem with our unrealistic expectations for ourselves. Thankfully, our generation values friendships deeply, and with such support from relationships with people that accept us for who we are, we can work towards recontextualizing what it means to love and be loved.

@Snickers4Kawaii

2 ай бұрын

Yes!!!

@nobodythenobody9779

2 ай бұрын

Yeah society really has crazy warped ideas of men We aren’t perfect and we’re definitely not interested in doing all the crap that’s demanded of us

@LovelyLittleLillies

2 ай бұрын

Nah. Men are just failing to meet women's needs and interests (like being romantic instead of explicit) - you act like the world wasn't just a little more romance-focused and had more romantic gestures more commonly in the 50's and earlier. The era when men acted a gentleman. It's reflected in how pg13 the lyrics in pop music were. Now it's just explicit degrading sht in rap videos. Women don't have unrealistic expectations - and some women's lives _are_ filled with romance. It could just be that Zoe is not socializing with enough men to have those opportunities (any woman who's a pure homebody is gonna complain that no man ever approaches her). Apart from living LA and LA culture - what's affecting her chances? Mind you, women are delivering on their end (satisfying men's need for s#x) for men of this generation to feel like they're in paradise: how common is non-committal s#x in this hook up culture? Men are sleeping with new women on the regular. But since many men are selfish they're not interested in satisfying women's needs, which is romance and romantic gestures. But if you were speaking of m e d I a that's degrading women rather the stereotypical romcoms then my bad and I misunderstood you.

@whocares897

Ай бұрын

Boom. This is it. We were raised with a lot of unrealistic expectations and people are struggling facing reality.

@citrezene

Ай бұрын

well yes but reading a lot of romance books probably has the same effect

Someone once told me "Do not lower your expectation because your standards are not being met" and it allowed me to be on my own for a while before i found the right partner for me.

It took me 23 years to learn that relationships are sometimes about make something work rather than running into the perfect person. So instead of sitting around waiting for the romantic love I've always craved, I started taking myself on dates and showering myself with love 💜(From someone who is also chronically single and obsessed over the idea of a perfect partner)

@watchtheworldburn6908

2 ай бұрын

Same

@kajjafeeluv__775

2 ай бұрын

yea i realise that spark and butterflies only last for a while, you know you find the one when both of you make the effort to make it work. emphasis on BOTH

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

that's it that's the answer

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

@bleepbloop101010101

11 күн бұрын

@@rachael5611 She said she's not interested in a relationship right now

the format, structure and storytelling here is masterpiece.

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

I think people wo don't edit videos themselves do not understand how much work and skill this video holds! much love and appreciation💌

@zoeunlimited

Ай бұрын

Twas a black hole but thank you🥹🤍

This video literally made me tear up. As a girl in her early 20s that has never experience romantic love but wants to so badly (and also doesn't want to at the same time) I felt so understood. I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship, but what I do know is that I'm so lucky to have truly experience the love of friendship being this young 💕

@gwenbar8144

2 ай бұрын

I feel like we want to be in a relationship for the wrong reasons, it's mostly because we want to do just like the others or because we're so drowned out by romance in series, books, and even in real life, that we feel like we're not normal because we haven't yet experienced love. So we pressure ourselves and even sometimes get scared thinking about the fact that maybe we would never find love. But everybody do, one day or another. I mean I don't know any adult who has never been in a relationship. But the older you get, the more pressure you put on yourself. And it's, let's be honest, only because of the societal scenery that only emphasizes love, marriage and children. That's why it's for the wrong reasons, cause we don't really want it (as you said it yourself), we do it unconsciously for others.

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

@gwenbar8144

Ай бұрын

@@rachael5611 creepy

@thelegion2184

29 күн бұрын

You actually can find love very easily. You just need to lower your standards.

@gwenbar8144

29 күн бұрын

@@thelegion2184 why would we lower our standard ? I don't wanna be with someone that I don't like or that don't have the same center of interest or values. I won't accept the first one who gives me a little bit of attention. I'm not that desperate. I respect myself and you should too, so please don't do that.

I’m in a domestic violence relationship. Let me say one thing. When you see red flags in the early stages walk away. It’s better to leave and be alone and try again. Once you’re fully in the abusive relationship and the cycles of abuse start, it’s almost impossible to get out. I have been trying to leave for a year now. Please please please make sure you pay attention. If you’re in the UK, you can call the police using Clare’s law to find out if the person you are interested in has any dv charges.

@NA-vh1ny

2 ай бұрын

Good luck

@GorgieClarissa

2 ай бұрын

are you CURRENTLY in a dv relationship????

@Natalie-vr2rt

2 ай бұрын

I know you feel trapped but you aren’t, you can leave it is just going to be very very hard. Do you have a supportive family? If so pls tell them. Once you admit you partners behaviour it’s a step forward

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

what were the signs?

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

Feels illegal to be this early... But this is super relatable... Never had a boyfriend but tbh I never felt a need to have one. After a point, I started feeling FOMO and wanted to have a lover too... Now I realise that I never really had a desire to date but wanted to feel included in the society. I'm actually willing to wait for THE ONE even if it's gonna take a while...

@shirag.rkarun9578

2 ай бұрын

good job dont give in to the people trying to change your mind

@duskybear-rq7of

2 ай бұрын

same, had the realization like yesterday after journalling and today she posts this jbcjhdb

@v1rzen

2 ай бұрын

are you, by chance, asexual and or aromantic? not feeling a desire to date is valid and perfectly fine

@MarijaDjordjevic8

2 ай бұрын

I think like you. But sometimes i wish I had a boyfriend, so that I can travel and share my love for anime😅

@tomaszbogucki1582

2 ай бұрын

I've never had my other half, i.e. a girlfriend. I guess they didn't take me seriously. I think they took me seriously.

i feel like all girls have gona through this phase at least once in their lifetime when u fantasize a relationship with someone who is not worth it but at the end u realise its yourself who u need to pour the love. The feeling after u realise is unreal and truly amazing ❤

@allisonkim934

2 ай бұрын

Real.

@tatiana-bi5fq

2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

@nobodythenobody9779

2 ай бұрын

Not just girls 😂🎉

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

a crush is a projection of animus

@whitemakesright2177

2 ай бұрын

I disagree. I think self-love is massively overrated. Yes, it's important, but it totally pales in comparison to giving love to and receiving love from another person. Interdependence >>>> independence.

Not so long ago, I really thought that I finally fell in love with a boy... Turns out I was actually just in love with the fact to be with someone that loved me, giving me the illusion to love myself through him.

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

that's all love though, it's a verb

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

@rhuonaChanel

Ай бұрын

Yup, that's a terrible place to be in especially if the guy is a really great person.

@sara13.88

8 күн бұрын

yeah i get it, the same thing happened to me...i wanted to believe i like him back so bad but...i just didn't

People need to understand that not having a patner is not a tragedy in life, same like it was before with not having children

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

@dreamypurrz

9 күн бұрын

somehow, it feels like a tragedy to me ☹️

never change yourself for a guy. he should love you the way you are. if a guy is trying to make me work hard to be his girlfriend, i move on to the next boy instantly

As an aro/ace person I really needed to hear this. I feel like platonic relationships aren’t talked about enough. Since I was a child I’ve felt like I needed to fall in love with someone romantically, when I really didn’t. So thanks for this.

When I met my fiancée, both of us didn't love each other at the beginning 😂 We met, because we both were dedicated to find a partner for life. We both were hurt too many times, so at the first date we discussed kids, family and plans for furure. I wold say, I startedd have a "feelings" to him after a week of us dating? My point is, true love not alway start with a "crush" or "he/she has perfect looks". Sometimes it starts with logical thinking, and you know what? It is okay ❤ All our love stories are unique and that was it makes them special. For all the girls out there, don't follow your heart or mind, follow both. Wish you all love ❤

@ruthnacht

2 ай бұрын

you say it started with logical thinking but you said you discussed family and kids on the first date? Jumping to end game conversations when you guys have literally no temporal connection in eachother seems very hastey and illogical. I dont know how long you guys have known eachother, but typically after 2 years the honeymoon phase neurochemicals run out. Hopefully your perception of him is real, because it sounds like you guys both did alot of fantasization (judging by the fact you rushed). Try listing out the positive attributes your partner has, but critically ask how unique those attributes are to him? is he really that special? Are those the things you fell in love with?

@Camelia_Ihrin

2 ай бұрын

@ruthnacht well, none of us is "special." We both are awarage people with awarage jobs that were seeking companionship and found each other attractive enough to start a conversation. The reason why we discussed life goals on a first date, mostly in order not to waste each other's time. Over time, we fell in love. All I'm saying is that sometimes love story doesn't start with "crush."

@kK-iv3hc

2 ай бұрын

​​@@ruthnachtyou make no sense. Getting the important things out of the way first to ensure you're not wasting your time with someone incompatible is not fantasizing. Does it make more sense to date someone for months and then find out you guys do not want the same things out of the relationship or life? You sound childish

@ruthnacht

2 ай бұрын

@@kK-iv3hc Because when two people 'are hurt so many times' and then talk about the 'important things first' it implies that it was the priority. Successful relationships (prolonged state of bliss) require connecting on a deeper level. NON of those relationships start from burnt out people settling down. That typically is just people with mediocre chemistry but similar ideals just hedging their bets. Its most of the time honeymoon phase neurochemicals giving the facade of love in that case. No where did they talk about unique characteristics of the individual they fell in love with. I cant stress enough how important it is. Peoples words are just a fragment of the time they said it, its immensly common for things to start off big but then fizzle out with time. Its also similar to how most of my friends parents met, and their parents are all divorced

@FoundSheep-AN

2 ай бұрын

If you don’t love each other and don’t have chemistry and attraction all the marriage plans will blow up when one of the two falls head over heals with somebody else. Make sure you are both in love and attracted as well

zoe I love your current editing style! I feel like you have gone away from the overstimulating editing to a more aesthetic, calm one and I really love the vibe

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

Thank you ❤ As a 24 years old "forever single" it felt so good to hear all of this. Even if my "why" is not the same, I needed those words

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

“It turns out the healing relationship that I longed for was the relationship I needed with myself” oof 😫😮‍💨😮‍💨 that hit hard 13:53

@AinhoaPerez-nk1cr

2 ай бұрын

Literally the perfect selection of words

@rachael5611

Ай бұрын

God loves you and has a purpose for your life He wants to have a relationship with you if you accept Him You are worthy in His eyes and i hope you can see how much love He has for you and has a purpose for you you dont need to feel this your battles can have a meaning with Him.

Was in my first ever relationship at 25 last year... I was dumped and felt so broken, I cried for weeks barely ate. My friends were even telling me to not mess things up to play it cool when I started dating him. As soon as I brought up something that bothered me, boom dumped in less than a day and this was after I was so vulnerable with this man. First boyfriend, first kiss, first love and he has literally destroyed the confidence and self esteem I worked on. Now I haven't been taking dating seriously, went on a few hinge dates and all of them went nowhere. Till to this day I think of him, how breaking and shattering my heart was just so easy for him and how he moved on so quickly and blocked me. I moved cities I made some new friends rekindled with other older friends and working on myself. I am still working on self love its hard but I am trying. I still wish him the best and I hope he finds a woman he wants.

You don't have to earn love. It is given.

@infj4w511

2 ай бұрын

You have to invest in it, though

@cream....

2 ай бұрын

​​@@infj4w511One has to invest in all of their relationships (type of relationship does not matter). Relationships are two way streets. All sides put something into the middle.

@nobodythenobody9779

2 ай бұрын

What a terrible entitled attitude

@nobodythenobody9779

2 ай бұрын

What a terrible entitled attitude

@cream....

2 ай бұрын

@@infj4w511 You have to invest to all of your relationships.

Crushes is how far it's gone, never further then that.. I've never been in love and don't know what it feels like.. I'm 23

@MariaPaula-uw3ds

Ай бұрын

Same here, and I'm 29

Posting this was reaaally brave, thank you so much for just showing the truth. I think the ones who have the most difficulties with dating are the ones who need to have strong emotional links with other people to truly want to be with them. It takes a while to find those people, but I swear there are so many amazing, beautiful people out there

@laseryzuo487

2 ай бұрын

Your words encouraged me, may I ask how old did you meet with your significant other, thanks

just knowing that i am not alone is this makes me feel better already, i am too desolved by the idea that only love can complete me, so weird that you can have toxic relationship with the idea of love and not the actual person sometimes

Just wanted to say, I'm very thankful you decided to put this part your life out there for the Internet to see 💕 it can be really helpful to someone who is living through something similar

I’ve recently started my healing journey as well… and it’s hard. Loving yourself.. Your video touched something in me. I felt seen, so thank you. I’m really looking forward to seeing more episodes in this format. Sending lots of love your way ❤️‍🩹🌸🌼

Hey Zoe, I really missed this kind of video, in which you show us your vulnerability and we see ourselves in you and your experiences inspire us all. Thank you for that. I loved it 💕

I usually never really comment on videos... but this one is definitly special. I suppose this is the kind of videos I would rewatch when in need of a reminder that selflove is what I should ALWAYS seek for in the first place. As someone who used to search for so long for validation from men, peers, and even family, I would really like to thank you very much for your work and content :)

Spent all Christmas with every cousin and every friend in happy and fulfilled relationships. Binge ate and threw up constantly all holidays because I was overcome with such self-hatred. Thanks for making this video Zoe ! Guess I’m not alone.

This was one of the few videos I will always remember. You really outdid yourself this time.

Thank you so much Zoe This comes at a time where I need to focus on myself, and it helps a lot Can't wait to see ep2!

@zoeunlimited

2 ай бұрын

excited for your growth 🤍🤍

I just want to express how much your content helps me when I feel down. Not in the "easy access dopamine" way, no. You give me hope for myself. Thank you so much for sacrificing so much and putting yourself out there on the internet for people like me.

Yeah.. I’m 30, and same. I feel so inexperienced with this. Yet I’m so successful in other parts of my life. Being single is easier but it’s hard going on trips by myself ALL the time. Sometimes I want a male friend for.. stress relief 😂 it’s hard being a girl boss.

@roxy4325

Ай бұрын

Not stress relief 😂 GIRL!

You don’t even understand how much this video meant to me, just finished it. I did get teary eyed, but You made me realize a lot. I’ve grown to love myself but not fully. I’ve been hurt many times too many to count, and I’m still pretty cautious when it comes to being with someone. I’ve been single for about four years now, and it sucks but I’ve learned to live with it. Thank you so much, I really needed this video ❤❤

I love you omg this is amazing. Like I have felt growing up with all of my friends in relationships has forced me to think that I need to have one. Which is false! I hate that society tells us that waiting or not loving like that isn’t allowed

hey! this showed up in my recommended and i felt sending a little love to all you guys. from a dude who has spent years looking for a queen, i will tell you all that finding your person certainly isn't as easy and simple as we wish it could be sometimes, but there's no need to worry :) go with the flow and work on being the best version of yourself personally, and i promise you that your soul mate will come eventually. i've spent a good long time working on myself physically, mentally, going to therapy, and making sure i'm making enough income to support whomever comes into my life, because in order to find a queen, i need to be a king first. i'm rooting for all of you guys!! best of luck with the journey :)

Hi Zoe! Loved and watched all of your videos, but these kinds of really personnal, "journal" videos really are my favorites of you! You have a unique voice and story and I can't wait for the next one!

I think the biggest thing i wanted was to experience teenage love but it turns out that I only have trust issues with people and my biggest fear is now loving the wrong person fully. I once liked a guy so blindly that all I did was imagine and idolize him for nothing but now i have realised that I was just stupid and wanted to loved by someone 🎀btw thanks for making such a helpful videos💗

@seabreeze4559

2 ай бұрын

limerence

You, Zoe, never dissapoint! Even for someone in a healthy relationship, I feel like every girl in the 2020s has felt this at some point.

I'm 20 and I feel this topic relatable. I have been since 15 waiting for falling in love and it hasn't happened yet

@stela8015

2 ай бұрын

Same

@stela8015

21 күн бұрын

@ville__ what?

This video is a masterpiece; the editing, the thoughts you shared, the structure of the video,…

Most of what you said is universal. You will only receive the amount love that you have given to yourself. Don't seek love in someone. This will only give the other person power to break you.

we love u🥹❤️

@abduwalimuse7482

2 ай бұрын

@ville__ whether its a choice or not that's exactly what i am lolllll

the video editing is insane! You're so talented, Zoe!

I think a big issue, is your ideal image of the "perfect boy". Yours is entirely looks based and, from the look of it, it seems like you go after one certain type of boy. Once you TRULY love yourself, I believe your idea of what the "Perfect boy" looks like from an appearance perspective starts to fade and then you start to open yourself up to many different types of people as you focus more on the character of each individual you're talking to. From my experience, falling in love with someone doesn't happen when you go on a few dates. Sure, there are sparks that may fly or a continuous piqued interest, but falling in love really happens after your relationship starts to settle down. It happens after that person no longer smells as good as they did the first few dates; after y'all didn't speak for a week because you got into a fight; supporting each other with issues that may involve finances. That's when you fall in love, and you feel strongly about it because you know inside that you still have heart eyes for your significant other even after you no longer get butterflies when you talk on the phone, or they don't smell as fresh as they once did. It's because that stuff becomes irrelevant once you realize that love for each other is the only thing you both share that ACTUALLY matters. So please truly love who you are, and you won't have to search hard for love. It will find you.

The "dont google it dont google it don't google it...... Agh" I felt that so hard 😂 at least from the past but still

@user-yt7zl4dz3d

19 күн бұрын

I tried analyzing a guy with chat-gpt. That's when I knew I was going crazy and he was just not good for me.

@navyblueskiess

Күн бұрын

Lol I did it once😂​@@user-yt7zl4dz3d

You made me cry . This is so relatable.

It's like watching a short movie 💗💗loved it!!!!

Thank God we have our besties! Having a friend is definitely a great blessing. ❤️

The Pandora Hearts clips throughout the video made me so so happy! One of my favorite series ever 🫶🫶🫶

@zoeunlimited

2 ай бұрын

I LOVE it sm. Such great art

Vulnerability is magic. I feel so fortunate to be tagging along on your journey. I'm so grateful you found the support you've been lacking.

this touched my heart ❤️ you are so loved zoe

I’ve never been in a relationship. I feel like I could pretty easily be in one if I wanted to, but that’s not what I desire. I want to be with someone I truly love and vibe with, and in my opinion this is different, and more difficult to archive. My moments of solitude are both something precious and a curse. I enjoy being by myself, but sometimes it kinda hurts. But overall I don’t think it hurts me enough to let someone enter easily this little place of peace I built for myself.

Something that applies to me is that I like when my boyfriend is my boy best friend. At the moment everyone things that my boyfriend is my brother (we look alike) or my best friend because we have such a vibrant vibe with each other. It's so much fun when you can express yourself to your bf the way you express urself with your friends. I think it's importants because you don't feel anxious or self-conscious at all!!

This is beautiful for a person who never been loved 😢 ❤ I been trying and not trying, I been kind and care, sweet and empatic, but all I get is a: "sorry, you are wonderful, but you are not enough" 💔

Zoe, thank you so much!!! I loooove your vlogs and personal videos. ❤ Can’t wait to see what happens next omg!

This was so beautifully and artistically done. I think this is so relatable in many women’s lives. From a young age, I feel like women are taught in the movies we watch and the media we are fed, that the perfect man will fix everything and bring us value and that once we have them, it’s all happily ever after. Thank you for sharing your journey and experience and being so open and vulnerable about what it means to find self love and finally treating yourself the way you wanted to be loved by “the perfect boy”. You are absolutely spectacular and deserve all the love in the world ❤

The pandora hearts references brought so many memories back from my teenage years... Girl, you are not alone. 22 here and never been loved romantically. I am learning to see my value and my worth. The one advice that I can give you: do not chase after love. Romantic love and relationships are not achievements to show off as people like to think. There is so much more to life, so much more to explore and experience, than sitting around thinking why it doesn't happen with the one guy who obviously is not interested in you. You are loved! You are very very loved.

this was such a visually pleasing video to watch, but also a completely relatable feeling that i’m sure most of us have come to terms with at some point in our lives. 😊

Lin is seriously a blessing 🤍

Waiting for the right one is a form of self love & respect. It’s how others know how you love by seeing how you treat yourself. Also, the perfect person doesn’t exist but the one for you will do their best!

@kaedecrystal

25 күн бұрын

Do you want to be friends?

@naonaokao

11 күн бұрын

@@kaedecrystal I would love a new friend

this is truly so beautiful and a message that so many people need to hear!! amazing job

Very immersive watch, I enjoyed it. We all have our lessons to learn but I fully agree that: other people cannot fill the void inside of you that only self-love and self-respect can fill. The person who stays by your side, no matter what, for your whole life, is YOU. Even if others come and go (relationships ending in peace or conflict, friends moving away, death), you will always have yourself.

This video is so helpful to a lot of people, including me. It's like you're showing my life as well. Thank you so much Zoe! ❤

I'm only five minutes in and the flow of the videos so satisfying❤

This video is visually amazing, Zoe!

thank you for sharing this.

Im glad i watched this video. Im a teenager that is obsessed with the idea of falling for the right one once im older. This taught me to love myself before loving someone else.

I cant even tell you how much i related to all of this. Thank you so much

I remember watching your videos when you were only at 5k followers, but still love ur videos ❤

@zoeunlimited

2 ай бұрын

🥹❣️ appreciate you so much

@Liviaa_23

2 ай бұрын

I appreciate you too my queen❤

LOVE YOU ZOE ❤️

Zoe, love your content generally, but this one especially hits different. as someone in my early 20s, i never got to experience romantic love. no one had a crush on me and i made myself believe that i don’t want relationships anyway. yet deep down i always felt bad for never being a loved girl. i wish we could make a girls’ group with all the girls in the comment section and encourage each other in our journey of self love. much love

Having a friend like Lynn is a true blessing.

this came at the right time. I am in love w someone for 3 years, and they love me back very much, but due to personal trauma and immaturity cant commit. I know how it sounds, but trust me it's deep. I am slowly realizing how unfair it is to me, and although my love for them will never die, Im starting to dislike that person. I just hope we could be friends forever, but that makes me extremely uninterested in dating anyone else, just for fun. I don't feel comfortable w anyone besides them. Idk how to get out, without getting out

I love this video so much. I only met my husband after I started loving and respecting myself. It was a long way to understand that you have to love yourself in order to be respected and loved by others. This video is a perfect description of life.

Thank you for showing this. I've never dated due to being asexual/demi, but it's scary and I'm not skinny, or the standard of pretty. Still, loving yourself is the first step and the ultimate step. Thank you for driving that home. And friends. What a wonderful world to have friends

This is exactly what I needed. Thank you Zoe ❤

exited for the vid!

Cinematic masterpiece. I am 36 but I felt like that when I was 21

I have been through all these stages and I felt so listened to, that someone else felt and did everything that I used to too. I’m so happy we’re wiser and better now

This was such a beautiful video and I appreciate how raw it was and how you shared such vulnerable moments with us ♥️ you’re also very beautiful btw and I hope that the love you deserve locates you ✨

Thank you for sharing this video! That helps me much! I wish you all the best, Zoe! your man will come one day, you are amazing!❤ I'm so glad you learned this important lesson! I am currently trying to learn this too.

As a guy thank you again for sharing your experiences, I’ve sometimes felt that “want” to have a partner but I realize that it just makes me see women as a means to an end instead of human beings (the very same mistake so many guys, especially groups like incels, make) and your conclusions have given me something to think about.

Superb storytelling! I could see a reflection of myself when you were narrating your experiences. That’s so true. Why aren’t we there for ourselves at rock bottom like our friends? Why do we think an inconsistent and emotionally withdrawing man could do that for us when we can’t even do that for ourselves? I loved your video and I honestly needed to hear your advice Zoe. Thank you ❤

This is like a movie. I adore this video!

This has such a cinematic vibe

I waited for 28 years, only to get married, arranged by my parents. 4 months later, i am filing for divorce (he's a gambling addict in huge debt). I realize that the beauty of love we create in our heads is more comforting than expecting that from a real person. But i do believe that there are people who found that living amongst us. I am not looking for it, but i do have hope & wish for it. Cheers, to the lucky ones ✨

Zoe I love your videos, but this one touch me the most, I watch you from El Salvador and even if you are on a different context you are speaking to me right now. Thank you❤

Thank you for this video ❤ I’ve been through a similar situation a few months ago so video is so relatable!

i found this video at the right time so thank YOU 💖

Honestly same also I loove the documentary style❤❤❤

Zoe , please don't cry . It is not worth it ! We want to see your pretty face smiling, and your smile is so contagious in many good ways ❤️

Some people just don't fall in love. I've dated a lot of guys, no love. I'm 43, I don't date, no bf, never been married, no kids, no pets. Been 7 years of no dating including simple intimacy like hugs or holding hands. Life for me is the same as when I was dating except it's more peaceful now. Would love for a partner, but honestly, I had no idea 7 years has gone by where I was by myself tbh. LOL I wasn't even trying to "find myself" or " do me" or " love myself" I was just living my life and time flew! Maybe when I am 60 and just waiting to die , I'll find a partner. bwhaha. You're in your 20s, you still got decades. I believe in you.

@thelegion2184

29 күн бұрын

Damn. If you dated tons of guys and didn't find anyone you liked. The problem is probably you.

@-schattenpflanze-3755

29 күн бұрын

@thelegion2184 obviously shes the problem, now shes a post wall pumped and dumped whore and worthless to Chad and even younger Normies

@Peechiness

29 күн бұрын

@@thelegion2184 def is

@justarandom-m3w

23 күн бұрын

​@@thelegion2184 or maybe no one was the problem, it's just her experience

@krrrrrrrrrrrr3372

23 күн бұрын

Maybe you're just aromantic/asexual

yeeeah, THANK YOU for being so RELATABLE.

If people weren't obsessing over romance and sex so much, we would all be more loving towards one another in general and platonic and familial relationships would be equally appreciated instead of treated as just insignificant placeholders. Growing into true healthy long-lasting love is way more important than "falling" in love and then act confused that your heart is in shambles.

@-schattenpflanze-3755

29 күн бұрын

No we wouldnt at all moron. In your case if it wasnt about sex and Romance, everyone would become Asexual and not give a shit about relationship whatsoever.