TikTok Dating Advice is TERRIBLE

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  • @rattales58
    @rattales582 ай бұрын

    Maybe the Tik tok ban will be good for society

  • @NetBattler

    @NetBattler

    2 ай бұрын

    Maybe? It is.

  • @user-zg1wm7fj9t

    @user-zg1wm7fj9t

    2 ай бұрын

    Come to Russia, TikTok has not been working here for several years :D

  • @thekangaroo42

    @thekangaroo42

    2 ай бұрын

    @craigularjoe6 Absolutely. Online dating is a low-trust environment. The ONLY aspect that matters in that environment is appearance. Not to mention that females are much more easily socialized than men. The current message from the media is very far left, so women are very far left. In the US, there was a time when the mainstream message was patriotism and Conservatism. During this time, women were MORE conservative than men. It is an evolutionary survival skill for females to belong to the larger group.

  • @Saboteur4

    @Saboteur4

    2 ай бұрын

    Well the ban will never happen. It's all about the US government controlling Tik tok. That's why they gave them six months to sell their shares.

  • @christianthomas8069

    @christianthomas8069

    2 ай бұрын

    Nah TikTok will make people spread to other social medias. It’s like hitting a mushroom full of spores

  • @emilythurman5040
    @emilythurman50402 ай бұрын

    It’s alarming that so many alleged adults are stuck at a teenage mental age

  • @kiravampira1456

    @kiravampira1456

    2 ай бұрын

    As frustrating as it often is, if everyone could afford being immature, *very few* (if any) people would not take the opportunity.

  • @dusanstojsin4938

    @dusanstojsin4938

    2 ай бұрын

    I am a teenager and I'm more mature than these mfs.

  • @TheOneTheyCallTim

    @TheOneTheyCallTim

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm 40 and my mother told me at 17, when frustrated with my own peers, to "get used to it bc most people stay mentally 16 forever." She wasn't wrong.

  • @gr-os4gd
    @gr-os4gd2 ай бұрын

    TBH, banning TikTok sounds like a pretty good idea.

  • @NoshikiYT

    @NoshikiYT

    2 ай бұрын

    Yeah Fr💀

  • @carlyellison8498

    @carlyellison8498

    2 ай бұрын

    No.

  • @NoshikiYT

    @NoshikiYT

    2 ай бұрын

    @@carlyellison8498 yes

  • @hughjasses317

    @hughjasses317

    2 ай бұрын

    no they need to regulate data better, every platform has a lot of brainrot just avoid that stuff.

  • @NoshikiYT

    @NoshikiYT

    2 ай бұрын

    @@hughjasses317 yeah better

  • @lordchaosmonkey552
    @lordchaosmonkey5522 ай бұрын

    I have 0 game when it comes to women, and yet I'm still not desperate enough to heed love advice from tik tok

  • @str1xt

    @str1xt

    2 ай бұрын

    You don't need game buddy, you just need you.

  • @anyamiranda9452

    @anyamiranda9452

    2 ай бұрын

    gAmE only works on objectively unattractive women with zero options. Just don't be the 50/50 type (or even worse, a freeloader) and you should be good.

  • @Vincent-ll7ov

    @Vincent-ll7ov

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@str1xt you need some game, but it does need to be authentic

  • @sheehase

    @sheehase

    2 ай бұрын

    You don't need game, women need to get off tik toc

  • @Robert-qw3lr

    @Robert-qw3lr

    2 ай бұрын

    I have no game. I always focused on my career and my hobbies. Mostly alone. In my 40s, I randomly met a great woman who absolutely adores me. My words weren't special, but it was apparent that I was on top of things in my life. She fell for me immediately. Also, she happens to be drop-dead gorgeous, that's a bonus. My point is to sharpen yourself like a samurai sword, and the rest will fall into place.

  • @Electron42
    @Electron422 ай бұрын

    Sociologically this is fascinating. Culturally this is so depressing. None of this is advice. It's narcissistic self-assurance.

  • @l__l2328

    @l__l2328

    2 ай бұрын

    It's sociopathic to manipulate and shapeshift

  • @jamienicole2122

    @jamienicole2122

    2 ай бұрын

    I totally agree, if you look at this stuff through the lense of a anthropologist, it’s fascinating to look at the way people seek out a new partner and all the crazy changes in dating afforded by all the new technology and dating apps to boot. But you are so very correct in how soul-crushingly depressing it is as well. 😮😢

  • @xcvxxos

    @xcvxxos

    Ай бұрын

    Im exited for the next 10-20 years because this is only the beginning say hello to a new world. 🎉

  • @cacagorilla7
    @cacagorilla72 ай бұрын

    "How to manipulate women" that's so healthy!!

  • @NoshikiYT

    @NoshikiYT

    2 ай бұрын

    People who thinks that healthy are delusional this ain’t an anime That = manipulation

  • @TabeaSerenety

    @TabeaSerenety

    2 ай бұрын

    Sarcasm? ​@@NoshikiYT

  • @NoshikiYT

    @NoshikiYT

    2 ай бұрын

    @@TabeaSerenetyyes

  • @sairamsoundararajan5190

    @sairamsoundararajan5190

    2 ай бұрын

    You're joking right?!

  • @NoshikiYT

    @NoshikiYT

    2 ай бұрын

    @@sairamsoundararajan5190 she’s not joking

  • @squirrelgirl1853
    @squirrelgirl18532 ай бұрын

    Shallow people giving shallow advice on how to have shallow relationships and by extension... A shallow existence....these are people who have a lot of inner healing ahead of them if they ever want anything real out of life... It is sad...

  • @ps200306

    @ps200306

    Ай бұрын

    I wouldn't call them shallow. I'd call them depraved and evil.

  • @tell-me-a-story-
    @tell-me-a-story-2 ай бұрын

    In Harry Potter a woman uses magic to drug a man into loving her. The result was Voldemort 😂

  • @nikkihoskins4607
    @nikkihoskins46072 ай бұрын

    How to make a generation of creeps.... "I'm not interested"....oh she must love me, I'm not gonna give up 😂

  • @spagooter1807

    @spagooter1807

    2 ай бұрын

    As an autistic guy I don’t date because I’ll always be seen as either a creep or a mommas boy. In any case I’ve learned a lot about women’s true nature and it’s completely turned me off ever dating them. My own mother’s best advice to me was be exceedingly cautious dating today because you can’t trust hoes and she’s a g for that because later in life I found out she was being entirely honest. You probably won’t like what else she told me but it’s all been completely true thus far I’m 23 now I’ll always respect the helm out of her for raising me how she did. I would like love but I know it’s unnatainable and we have raised a generation of insufferable narcissists that would have an anxiety attack if they saw my ugly mug on their social media feed I’m not dating until the market gets better until one day I might just say fuck it and find an Asian girl that believes in family. And before you get all pissed off and just say I want to use someone doing that consider that other cultures still value family yet American woman have been brainwashed on TikTok into forsaking family and replacing it with a workplace and it’s shockingly common among women I’ve met to be against it dating why the fuck would I plan my life with someone like that genuinely? You don’t get upset at job seekers for switching markets to get a better job do you this is the same shit and it’s guys like me’s only way to get a win and make a family you’d think they would be happy seeing guys like me they hate find love abroad but nope you can’t win. If I had a dollar for everyone some leftist girl tried to act pc around me but at the same time make it absolutely clear not to ask for her number without me even saying anything I’d have a lot of dollars for them it’s an act they want to be seen as moral and accepting not actually accepting of me. I’m just high functioning enough to have the pressures of being a man placed on me and just autistic enough to turn off every woman around me and frankly I’m beginning to think I might be one of the lucky ones for that. I make enough money after college that in the future my sexual needs probably won’t even need a woman ai is going to give a lot of women looking for love a rude awakening I promise you that much guys like me will finally have something that’s better than nothing and the market will completely shift. 10/10 will play dnd and warhammer 40K instead of letting a woman take half today no woman has even made me interested today in the last three years. Too much risk in her saying she didn’t consent to it later even if you did everything right and asked it’s not something himbos have to worry about but autistic and ugly guys like myself if they regret it the next morning and its probably a big reason as to why more men are single smart guys noticed this trend and said fuck that noise have fun with your cats. Our generation is insufferable as someone who doesn’t use social media besides youtube I feel like I’m an alien to them and they see me the same and I wouldn’t have it any other way because although I mask around them I’m good at seeing through others masks and I don’t like what I see under them usually it’s a narcissist from my generation. There’s a lot of people out there that got dealt worse hands than I did I don’t blame everything on my autism but i feel as if it makes finding love an almost impossible challenge which says a lot about human nature if you think about it. I knew so many women that went for douchebags and guys that would keep them down and control them they let guys they are attracted to do and say whatever they want rather than the guy that was actually trying for them and would be supportive of them and at this point in my life I have zero intentions of going back to dating it’s a sick game that makes me miserable through and through and I prefer the misery of being alone to the misery of acting for a date.

  • @efraim3364
    @efraim33642 ай бұрын

    if a woman tells you she "loves you like a brother" you need to leave.

  • @bradleyharris774
    @bradleyharris7742 ай бұрын

    I get the feeling if people follow this advice, the Loneliness Epidemic is only gonna get worse.

  • @xcvxxos

    @xcvxxos

    Ай бұрын

    Of course im exited for a broken society lets see🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @l__l2328
    @l__l23282 ай бұрын

    These sociopathic narcissists could never truly love anyone else except themselves. They see everyone as a resource.

  • @wonhur885
    @wonhur8852 ай бұрын

    Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

  • @wonhur885

    @wonhur885

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

  • @wonhur885

    @wonhur885

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

  • @ps200306

    @ps200306

    Ай бұрын

    @@wonhur885 , I just looked her up too. Clearly a scammer. Just like you and @josephregland. I'm fascinated to know how many idiots actually fall for these one-two sucker stories in youtube comments. Are there really people that gullible?

  • @mongo4utube
    @mongo4utube2 ай бұрын

    why do these 'boss girls' always have to dispense these words of wisdom while putting on make-up?

  • @zachkent2575

    @zachkent2575

    2 ай бұрын

    Subconsciously pretending to be Patrick Bateman putting on a facemask?

  • @narlowemcfarlowe2952

    @narlowemcfarlowe2952

    2 ай бұрын

    because their self-worth is embedded in vanity

  • @aaronharlow2137
    @aaronharlow21372 ай бұрын

    "To get someone completely obsessed with you---" I don't want that. No sane person wants that.

  • @TimeToStartOver
    @TimeToStartOver2 ай бұрын

    I'm 40 and never really was in that social media world. And I'm definitely against censorship, but seeing TikTok's like that I no longer wonder why today's youth is fucked up.

  • @user60521123
    @user605211232 ай бұрын

    Why do people want others to be obsessed with them? This is so sick and sad. It’s awful when someone is that into you. It’s not fun and certainly not a good way to start any kind of relationship

  • @justcallmecat263
    @justcallmecat2632 ай бұрын

    Narcissism is at an all time rise

  • @madamefluffy4788
    @madamefluffy47882 ай бұрын

    2:45 Sad fact - I've known at least two people (both in their 20s; one of them married to a RL person) who believed they were dating/married to fictional characters - and both would get insanely jealous/ticked off if you called them out on their foolishness/didn't play along with their delusion. What made things all the more infuriating was when other folks (who were aware of this weirdness) would defend these people by brushing off their delusions as harmless fun (yeah, no - it stops being harmless fun when both individuals would attack/vilify anyone who would 'disrespect' their fictional unions). Both people needed serious mental help - doubt either one got any, though.

  • @theden9123

    @theden9123

    2 ай бұрын

    so delusional weirdos are violent when people point out they are delusional weirdos...

  • @bitwize

    @bitwize

    2 ай бұрын

    "Sephiroth is my bishie" is reaching new, disturbing levels.

  • @deathbydeviceable

    @deathbydeviceable

    2 ай бұрын

    Yeah, the fictional characters deserve better

  • @genzi78514

    @genzi78514

    2 ай бұрын

    My God, we really believe this idiocy on "as long they are happy"... Happiness is not everything! Life is much more than that!

  • @mamc1986

    @mamc1986

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s okay to be married to a fictional person, but to be honest, if you want a real life full functioning marriage, then it’s better to find a real like person. It of course would mean getting to know someone and learning to know what it’s like to be married in real life. Also, if people don’t want to play along, they don’t have to. It’s best just to keep your imagination to yourself anyways.

  • @seasonstudios
    @seasonstudios2 ай бұрын

    This isn't "How to Date"... It should be called "How to Use".

  • @sn5806
    @sn58062 ай бұрын

    Most of this dating advice is just to tip the power dynamic of the relationship in their favor. Either "it works" and you've got a doormat to exploit or they leave.

  • @kiravampira1456

    @kiravampira1456

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly. And, sadly for the vast majority of them, they're nowhere near alluring enough to afford playing this game in the long run.

  • @Kureemy

    @Kureemy

    2 ай бұрын

    I think that actual relationships should have both partners on equal ground, and that they should actually support each other, not put the other down and/or manipulate them. Also, there should also be compromise; you can’t have a relationship without making sacrifices. This is why narcissistic people should never get into relationships.

  • @grayboats7741
    @grayboats77412 ай бұрын

    The moment i notice one playing head games with me, they are no longer worth dating.

  • @kiravampira1456

    @kiravampira1456

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here. Can't think of anyone worth this much unnecessary effort.

  • @jorgeoviedo870
    @jorgeoviedo8702 ай бұрын

    I'd rather get dating advice from a homeless, fentanyl addict with extreme paranoia outside of a Circle K at 3am, then some random shallow tik tok personality with no life experience.

  • @Ryan-cb1ei

    @Ryan-cb1ei

    2 ай бұрын

    At least their experience is based on struggle 😂 That should surely offer more wisdom

  • @clintonm2357
    @clintonm23572 ай бұрын

    Apparently “dark” means “stupid.” “Dark psychology,” “dark seduction.” What about being yourself? If I need to play mind games, I don’t want any of that. Supply is WAY higher than demand.

  • @sgt_slobber.7628
    @sgt_slobber.76282 ай бұрын

    One of the many reasons Why I stay the hell away from TikTok!!!!! BAN IT ALREADY!!!!!!

  • @MrsBees
    @MrsBees2 ай бұрын

    I love how all these people are single or divorced. Never take dating advice from someone that isn't married. It's like getting dieting advice from Lizzo.

  • @stobbi38
    @stobbi382 ай бұрын

    love how she‘s like „I‘m only telling you this so you can protect yourself“ and then continues to give instructions in the second person form

  • @SFJake250
    @SFJake2502 ай бұрын

    What I'm seeing here is essentially this: Teenager syndrome, except it doesn't end. Social media like TikTok enables their mindset and allows them to cling to it for a longer period of time, both men and women. I remember many of these types of people/arguments in my days, but the behavior was forced out by society before they even turned 18. Now, they find too many people sharing common grounds in some internet bubble and they don't grow out of it until its too late.

  • @89tothbianka
    @89tothbianka2 ай бұрын

    This is incredibly immature and should NOT be taken seriously.

  • @evanxdin3d317
    @evanxdin3d3172 ай бұрын

    ok at 7:46 i had to do some research: 1. "a woman's heart is 4x softer than a man's heart". because of biology, the male heart has greater mass, volume, and cardiac output than the female heart, while the female heart has slightly greater ejection fractions and heart rate (NIH); the female heart is also more sensitive to risk factors like smoking, diabetes, high blood pressure, and drug use; so while the male heart is stronger than the female heart comparatively, it does not say whether or not the male heart is x times stronger than the female heart 2. "a woman's sense of touch is stronger than a man's". yes; recent studies show that females are more sensitive to touch than males (ScienceDirect), but i am not too sure about the reliance of the source 3. "when a woman cries a small vain in her heart cuts". first of all, it's "vein"; second of all, this is not very accurate; excess adrenaline can cause the small arteries supplying blood to the heart to narrow, causing a decrease in blood flow to the heart (John Hopkins Medicine); torn veins happen by what is known as "blunt force trauma" where the vein is crushed, pinched, twisted, or stretched; it can also be harmed via needle injection if you are getting a vaccine, inserting harmful drugs, etc.; however, veins can go under the same category as vessels, as do arteries and capillaries; vessel walls are very fragile and can be injured in a variety of ways, including crying; however, the risk of long-term injury to the vessels are nil and can heal very quickly and acutely; so saying that a woman can cut her "vains" by crying is a complicated issue and ultimately not very accurate when meets the eye 4. "when she goes through disappointment she loses 72 hours of her memory". there is not a lot of proof of this; memory changes with age, hence why the elderly tend to suffer more from memory-related conditions such as dementia and alzheimer's (and i'm sure you know some people suffering from those); however, the evidence does not support the idea that human emotion affect human memory, and any arguments on the topic tend to come from x and reddit, so the validity of those claims are close to or at zero; but since depression and anxiety are such hot-button issues affecting many people, young and old, there might be countless discussions on those alone hopefully this was helpful! just goes to show that tiktok should NOT be the be all and end all to facts and logic. if you have any other research or ideas, feel free to leave them here! cheers!!!

  • @AxionSmurf

    @AxionSmurf

    2 ай бұрын

    The woman whose veins are cut when she cries must hang out with the woman whose eyes change color all the time. They both hang out at the barn where the bulls shit.

  • @natalia-uv1hh
    @natalia-uv1hh2 ай бұрын

    “is this advice on how to stay single?” yes misha you nailed it

  • @Josh_koolkeri4537.
    @Josh_koolkeri4537.2 ай бұрын

    2024 dating advice 😍😍😍

  • @0000zz2

    @0000zz2

    2 ай бұрын

    be toxic, lie, gaslight, be abusive.

  • @Ryan-cb1ei

    @Ryan-cb1ei

    2 ай бұрын

    These people all think they put out some novel piece of advice like they did something, it’s hilarious. All of these talking points have been regurgitated many times already, I don’t think they’ve realized that, or how dumb they look lol

  • @DarkAquaVII
    @DarkAquaVII2 ай бұрын

    I dated for marriage, I stopped listening taking advice from people who are single, single parents, or always failing in their relationships. Hell, I wouldn't even give out my own advice considering what I've been through, unless it's like stating something that's very obvious. I would only give common sense advice. The amount of people I've met with barely any common sense is shocking.

  • @shawnm2405
    @shawnm24052 ай бұрын

    Too many people suffer needlessly by their own hand

  • @sunshinemerlot9790
    @sunshinemerlot97902 ай бұрын

    Ok for most of them, I just rolled my eyes and thought they were clueless but that last woman I genuinely think is evil. There is something wrong with her. Using a person's past abuse to manipulate them is wrong on so many levels. When I was listening to her, I couldn't help but think about how they say Lucifer was the most beautiful angel in Heaven. And to me she is just evil. Very pretty but a complete sociopath. I worked with abuse children. It takes so much to get them to a point where they can trust other people and to trust themselves and to think that they may run into a person like that, who will use them like that just for a phone, it just makes my blood boil.

  • @Hardcrow777
    @Hardcrow7772 ай бұрын

    A woman asked me 30 years ago... if she could tell me a secret... ok i said... then she said, forget it... i said OK 🤣

  • @MeadowLovinElf
    @MeadowLovinElf2 ай бұрын

    lol the “marriage” to an anime/manga/fictional character is called hubando for women or waifu for men 😂

  • @anyamiranda9452

    @anyamiranda9452

    2 ай бұрын

    Now I finally know why do I keep seeing "husbando" in certain groups 😅

  • @MeadowLovinElf

    @MeadowLovinElf

    2 ай бұрын

    @@anyamiranda9452 yeah it’s used more as a derogatory term than an endearing one lol

  • @mamc1986

    @mamc1986

    2 ай бұрын

    Sometimes people don’t know how to socialize and decide this is the best idea. Not sure why, but if they just socialize more, then maybe they wouldn’t feel they have to resort to such things.

  • @MeadowLovinElf

    @MeadowLovinElf

    2 ай бұрын

    @@mamc1986 yeah I mean I’m not hating. I find it sad, as my belief is they will only be setting themselves back even farther.

  • @TheSpiderInUrWalls

    @TheSpiderInUrWalls

    2 ай бұрын

    Tbh having a crush on a fictional character isn’t that weird, it’s basically the same as having a crush on a celebrity. It’s only weird when you have an obsession, and most ppl grow out of that phase in their teens anyway

  • @DarkRaikon
    @DarkRaikon2 ай бұрын

    ive been reading a18+ romance books....the advice we get is what we see there....they think real life is the same as a bloody comic book

  • @narlowemcfarlowe2952

    @narlowemcfarlowe2952

    2 ай бұрын

    I'll never understand the appeal of those romance books, they all sound corny as hell

  • @Rose-sp3jq4dt5c
    @Rose-sp3jq4dt5c2 ай бұрын

    lmao the girl who thinks she's married to dabi...dabi would 100% set her onfire

  • @anyamiranda9452

    @anyamiranda9452

    2 ай бұрын

    I didn't know who that Dabi is and now I can't stop laughing at his face 😅

  • @overcomingthat2728
    @overcomingthat27282 ай бұрын

    As someone who is married... these are TERRIBLE ideas.

  • @SydneyCarton2085
    @SydneyCarton20852 ай бұрын

    "How to manipulate yourself to manipulate others"

  • @Guildofarcanelore
    @Guildofarcanelore2 ай бұрын

    Instead of watching Tiktoks.. Spend time with people whose company you enjoy. Be honest and accepting of your potential partner. Try to do things you enjoy together. It's not rocket science.

  • @nomadman5288
    @nomadman52882 ай бұрын

    So this is what happens when an an entire generation has been raised on their 'smart' technology and they have no idea how to be social in real life...

  • @xcvxxos

    @xcvxxos

    Ай бұрын

    interesting right

  • @dece870717
    @dece8707172 ай бұрын

    "Fake your personality", Yeah don't just be a better person, fake it. I'm so glad I'm married(8+ years), what's going on now out there is a horror show.

  • @calvinjames7032
    @calvinjames70322 ай бұрын

    Misha, thank you for your videos. I genuinely enjoy them. You are well spoken and approach everything with common sense. I love it!

  • @wolfsmaid6815
    @wolfsmaid68152 ай бұрын

    An ex bf of mine often lamented that I didn´t act stupid to boost his ego like the last girl suggested. That relationship was a total waste of time.

  • @davidsovadina1070
    @davidsovadina10702 ай бұрын

    Love you Misha. Keep up the good work and commentary.

  • @seasonstudios
    @seasonstudios2 ай бұрын

    There seems to be that underlying, smouldering anger with some of these fools and the anger comes from not always getting the high grade partners they want so it's really a defence mechanism.

  • @AGnorTheChannel
    @AGnorTheChannel2 ай бұрын

    A lot of these late-Milllennials/early-Alfas are suffering from crappy communication in childhood and, if they haven't already, using this advice before wondering why tf their relationships are all falling apart. Also, this bare-minimum chowderhead is basically telling you to emulate my dad: to compliment your spouse all five days of the year: birthdays, Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and your anniversary.

  • @timberwolfe1645
    @timberwolfe16452 ай бұрын

    Respecting boundaries......now NO ONE is allowed to even LOOK AT ANKTJER without being accused

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom752 ай бұрын

    11:27 no! You do not want anyone to be obsessed with you! No!! Dangerous territory there. 😢

  • @xAlphaSpiderx
    @xAlphaSpiderx2 ай бұрын

    These are very important topics and your presentation is so graceful. After all this is partly the psychology of our nation and people need to know what is happening to better navigate this thing we call life.

  • @DB-rp2gj
    @DB-rp2gj2 ай бұрын

    I hate to admit it but that first lady is right. If anything at all happens in my relationship I'm done. I'm not going to be out here trying to find a new partner in this world of psychos.

  • @thetraditionalist
    @thetraditionalist2 ай бұрын

    what a sad world. And then people wonder why so many people are single

  • @motodiablo

    @motodiablo

    2 ай бұрын

    Being single is pretty great to be real. There's a happiness in solitude and satisfaction that no one is going to betray you.

  • @thetraditionalist

    @thetraditionalist

    2 ай бұрын

    @@motodiablo that is called coping.

  • @motodiablo

    @motodiablo

    2 ай бұрын

    @@thetraditionalist I call it thriving, sir.

  • @thetraditionalist

    @thetraditionalist

    2 ай бұрын

    @@motodiablo it's not thriving. The fact that your happiness is based on giving up because of a fear of betrayal demonstrates you're not truly happy or satisifed.

  • @motodiablo

    @motodiablo

    2 ай бұрын

    I fail to see how having a significant other would increase my own happiness. This isn't out of fear, but rather recognizing the futility of it. Keep in mind that I can only speak for my own experiences. If anyone out there has established a successful union, that's terrific! If not, you can totally live a happy life all the same.

  • @richiebialek2618
    @richiebialek26182 ай бұрын

    I like watching your videos. You provide such great insights and perspectives. Keep up the great work !

  • @Whendidweloseit.
    @Whendidweloseit.2 ай бұрын

    In my dating years, i didnt play games. If i liked you, you knew it. If i didnt i told you right away. Literally told a friend of my, "listen im your friend, please contact me when you're past this."

  • @mikegeld1280
    @mikegeld12802 ай бұрын

    So glad I dodged this bullet, smh,geez,these people are serious, lol,btw great work Misha, as usual, catch you on the next one

  • @dearthditch
    @dearthditch2 ай бұрын

    If a woman says she sees you as a brother, you never talk to them again. Unless it’s Alabama

  • @brandonwilson9614
    @brandonwilson96142 ай бұрын

    LMAO I used to do the “I have something to tell you” or “can I ask you something?”, and then immediately saying “actually, nvm, you probably don’t care”, when I was a kid/teen lmao 🤣🤣 what horrible advice

  • @tonylarussa4046
    @tonylarussa40462 ай бұрын

    99% of things coming from Tik Tok are terrible!

  • @taylorplummer9185
    @taylorplummer91852 ай бұрын

    The pride in her face when she recognized the MHA acronym 😂😂 love her sm

  • @Qwerty-8644
    @Qwerty-86442 ай бұрын

    People are too awfully lonely, and I cannot believe everyone wants to manipulate each other. 😟

  • @Pen267
    @Pen2672 ай бұрын

    Off topic but can we just appreciate how beautiful Misha is? Love your videos girl! 💚

  • @supabiscuit
    @supabiscuit2 ай бұрын

    Your eyes are hypnotic…. Sorry to simp, it’s meant as a compliment

  • @Hans-nj6uv
    @Hans-nj6uv2 ай бұрын

    this all seems like broken people being broken. If someone seems broken, I will bail. I can’t heal them only they can.

  • @NationalistWarchev246
    @NationalistWarchev2462 ай бұрын

    Real manipulators wont share their tricks

  • @marraine7299
    @marraine72992 ай бұрын

    Tiktok has dating advice now? .... I want to get off this planet. I fear for the world

  • @OmarGarcia-uy7we
    @OmarGarcia-uy7we2 ай бұрын

    I love your videos! ❤

  • @TiaraMesiasPurbaningrum
    @TiaraMesiasPurbaningrum2 ай бұрын

    As a psychology student, I do wonder if those "psychology experts/therapists" that offer these toxic dating advices are actual therapists

  • @violetunicorn9188
    @violetunicorn91882 ай бұрын

    I am very surprised to have not seen the guy that says “you do not have to accept her rejection“ in this video

  • @nickcassettes
    @nickcassettes2 ай бұрын

    What ridiculous, shallow, vile people! Thank goodness for Misha

  • @JewishKeto
    @JewishKeto2 ай бұрын

    When I met my other half I made sure we were both getting into it looking for a future spouse. We are not going to waste our time.

  • @gravedigger1454
    @gravedigger1454Ай бұрын

    I never understood the point of these horrible dating games. Like when and if to text back and all that bs. Probably that is why I'm still single.

  • @-TriP-
    @-TriP-2 ай бұрын

    silly "love spells" have been a thing forever, I find it interesting how much gen Z seems to emphasize relying on manipulation tactics however. I feel like this is down to growing up in the "post-truth" social media era of the information age where psychological manipulation is the order of the day -- it's all they know.

  • @GemmaJadeYT
    @GemmaJadeYT2 ай бұрын

    Oh and that got who said fake your personality, he basically described what all narcissists do and as someone in a terribly miserable, very alone relationship with a REAL narcissist, that's just horrible to do to someone

  • @laprofessorapai
    @laprofessorapai2 ай бұрын

    Why...WHY are they always filming themselves putting on 100 layers of makeup?

  • @anniemacleod
    @anniemacleod2 ай бұрын

    10:22 This one I don't mind because she's warning people, and I once let a guy do this exact thing to me for ages 🙄

  • @madride1969
    @madride19692 ай бұрын

    Great video. Thanks.

  • @mikevasquez1103
    @mikevasquez11032 ай бұрын

    The one who invites is the one who pays.

  • @anyamiranda9452

    @anyamiranda9452

    2 ай бұрын

    Louder for all the 50/50 males that want tradition only when it suits them

  • @Whysoserious648

    @Whysoserious648

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@anyamiranda9452as if women don't want traditions only when it suits them 💀

  • @stephenkioko4205

    @stephenkioko4205

    2 ай бұрын

    Then poeple shouldnt invite ,problem solved ​@@anyamiranda9452

  • @kingmagikarp97
    @kingmagikarp972 ай бұрын

    3:29 that reminds me of that Japanese guy that married Hatsune Miku a couple years back

  • @kiravampira1456
    @kiravampira14562 ай бұрын

    To be fair, Orochimaru from "Naruto" is a *much* more interesting option than what was presented to me so far.

  • @dancostello4872

    @dancostello4872

    2 ай бұрын

    Savage 😂😂

  • @adarshskumar3170

    @adarshskumar3170

    2 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @kiravampira1456

    @kiravampira1456

    2 ай бұрын

    @adarshskumar3170 I wasn't joking.

  • @kiravampira1456

    @kiravampira1456

    2 ай бұрын

    @dancostello4872 And entirely true🐍

  • @adarshskumar3170

    @adarshskumar3170

    2 ай бұрын

    To be fair, I agree with you, these people are getting more delusional as years goes by.

  • @sarab2324
    @sarab2324Ай бұрын

    “I love me. I lovvee my own company.” Clearly.

  • @VultureUKmusic
    @VultureUKmusic2 ай бұрын

    My advice in any situation when it comes to love love yourself because nobody is better

  • @brooklynlay3509
    @brooklynlay3509Ай бұрын

    it's crazy to hear the lady talking about the 4B movement because you can tell she does not know what it means, and what it means in the Korean context and that is so sad, so many women their circumstances are forcing Korea to go to these extremes and face even more discrimination in Korea, now this lady has watered down the 4B movement to just marrying your bestie because something happens to their husband. I fear people have the skill to do research and think critically and that words have meaning, and it's not about vibes.

  • @ethanfrancis4527
    @ethanfrancis45272 ай бұрын

    Thank god for the 4b movement. Means we don't have to waste our time trying to pursue relationships with manipulative narcissists. Its just taking the sour fruits out of the basket.

  • @rothaarige3896
    @rothaarige38962 ай бұрын

    None of these manipulation tactics work if the woman isn't hot. They forgot to mention that part

  • @kiravampira1456

    @kiravampira1456

    2 ай бұрын

    They *intentionally* "forget". Always.

  • @novagalaxy342

    @novagalaxy342

    2 ай бұрын

    Actually, it does work regardless if the woman is hot or not. Sadly I've witnessed those manipulative tactics used on men by average looking and some are obese or dumpy out of shape women play mind games on men. Remember all women are tens, they're the prize right? This is the sick trend now. Lots of ugly women abuse and manipulate men too, this is in real life. No matter what the women look like on the outside, the games they play is wrong and sick, in the end of the day, nobody wins.

  • @Eldritchpi
    @Eldritchpi2 ай бұрын

    The interesting physcho social experiment here is If you enter a relationship with a fake persona, how long does that relationship need to last before you become it?

  • @meow-wv9yc
    @meow-wv9yc2 ай бұрын

    so i watched this one and the villian era video, mind you I grew up without a phone in the early 2000 but my sisters are younger and grew up with one. and their personalities are all making sense now, danm i thought i was cringe for being a little nerdy but this tik tok stuff is wild

  • @Josue-qb7cq
    @Josue-qb7cq2 ай бұрын

    Birth rates in developed countries are going down for a reason. Our leaders and corporations have created a landscape and culture in which we are discouraged to even get together in the first place. I for one have a harder time finding women that I could trust enough to share my life and wealth with, to be vulnerable with and be a team. I don't see many women that even believe in that kind of relationship/marriage.

  • @thetraditionalist

    @thetraditionalist

    2 ай бұрын

    indeed

  • @anyamiranda9452

    @anyamiranda9452

    2 ай бұрын

    "Share my wealth with" and "be a team" kinda contradict each other, as every single guy that I've heard wanting to "build" with a woman is the type that blatantly demands all the bills to be split (even on first dates that HE initiated).

  • @thetraditionalist

    @thetraditionalist

    2 ай бұрын

    @@anyamiranda9452 maybe it's because women simultaneously want to be provided for but also want equality. You can't have both

  • @anyamiranda9452

    @anyamiranda9452

    2 ай бұрын

    @thetraditionalist Neither can you. Either you're willing to provide and protect or you're ok with the woman not cooking + cleaning + taking care of you in the bedroom. The man0sphere wants tradition only when it suits itself just as much as the women you complain about.

  • @Josue-qb7cq

    @Josue-qb7cq

    2 ай бұрын

    @@anyamiranda9452 In my case I am of the mindset of providing and protecting, I'm at a point in life where I can afford not splitting anything without having to lower my standards of living as well, none of that is an issue, but I think that our culture/system discourages us in both obvious and not so obvious ways to try to get together, one of the consequences is that most normal men that manage to get their shit together feel disposable and don't want to put themselves in a vulnerable position, and most women think we're players and deserve to get played.

  • @1tommyday
    @1tommyday2 ай бұрын

    These people are all playing games. It's terribly inauthentic

  • @Zerg435
    @Zerg4352 ай бұрын

    Don't take dating advice from your friends, or random strangers in general, most of the time they are your competition on the dating market.

  • @AxlPatrol
    @AxlPatrol2 ай бұрын

    TikTok dating advice sounds like it comes from a disturbing alternate universe where everyone wants to be in a relationship but nobody wants to be in love.

  • @VaxxedStories
    @VaxxedStories2 ай бұрын

    As far as using magic spells, I blame Disney movies for teaching magical thinking. Pretty sure the children aren't reading actual metaphysical books...

  • @Abaddon231
    @Abaddon2312 ай бұрын

    When tic tak goes bye bye...the world will be better off

  • @diekenford3904
    @diekenford39042 ай бұрын

    Which is worse, trying to act smart with horrible advice, or following advice? 90% of Generation Zombie is doomed to be alone and scared. Relationship therapist are the worst people to give advice. It's fun to watch the blind lead the blind. Misha, you're great!

  • @FannyAdamsGhost
    @FannyAdamsGhost2 ай бұрын

    They don't wonder if he's a good person or if compatibility will be an issue, the first thought is, "How do I manipulate them?" That's not dating, that's figuring out ways to end up alone.

  • @banthatracks_gaffisticks
    @banthatracks_gaffisticks2 ай бұрын

    I love you, Misha.

  • @jeffmedlock2782
    @jeffmedlock27822 ай бұрын

    These women could marry their Trans women friends instead!😮💁🌈

  • @mamc1986

    @mamc1986

    2 ай бұрын

    Would their trans friends even want them? That’s the real question. Some trans women are gay, some trans women are straight. But most people, trans or not, don’t want a bimbo or a jerk for a partner.

  • @FormulaProg
    @FormulaProg2 ай бұрын

    Jesus Christ Misha you look incredible today.

  • @HappyHedgehog1
    @HappyHedgehog12 ай бұрын

    These reactions though 🤣 Misha is the funniest, most beautiful, and most intelligent youtuber. Those eyes and that smile though 😍

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