THIS IS WHY YOU WERE GHOSTED | HOW TO TREAT A GHOSTER

Have you ever been ghosted by someone? Was the ghoster someone you cared about? What do you do if someone ghosts you? Why do people ghost? Here is a relatable video that might help. I also shared a personal ghosting experience too.Ghosting is a norm in the modern dating world today. This video is information packed as i also shared the possible reasons for ghosting and helpful ways to move on.
i hope this video helps someone. Please share your opinions, contributions, experiences and views down in the comment section. You never know who your story can help.
#girltalk #ghosting #gettingghosted

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  • @hannahlouiseoldfield
    @hannahlouiseoldfield2 жыл бұрын

    I've been recently ghosted and it's hurt like hell, and watching this video made me realise what an absolute tool he is. He's not a man but a little boy with issues. Your video has helped me think positively, thank you x

  • @jeriahabdu1179
    @jeriahabdu11793 жыл бұрын

    Been through this several times and I began to question if I wasn’t good enough or something was wrong with me. Thanks for this I just deleted their numbers and blocked them on all social media platforms. Thanks, this video is for me.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy this was helpful! You're more than good enough. They're just unserious. A serious minded man won't leave you doubting .Thank you for watching!! ❤️

  • @Angiebee.

    @Angiebee.

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope things have gotten better for you. I was just ghosted by a guy I started to like and then he just disappeared and I mean I’m not surprised because it happens a lot. I just am tired. I was ghosted by a friend a month before and it really hurt. So at this point it is what it is… there’s nothing more I can do but live my life.

  • @krissy4447
    @krissy44472 жыл бұрын

    My first time to experience this, and I'm 35 yrs old I thought he is already the one. It pains me a lot now but good thing that I'm a goal oriented woman, so I'm hurting but I'm moving forward.

  • @shirllee9542
    @shirllee95423 жыл бұрын

    I just ghosted a guy because he was starting to gaslight and breadcrumb me. I find that disrespectful and I'm not going to take the high road. The onus is always on women to teach men how to treat us. I know he knows what he's doing, men are not stupid.

  • @laurelmalinowski1676

    @laurelmalinowski1676

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES YES YES. THIS!

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, that’s another angle, and another way to handle that. The guy would most likely know he pushed you away. Good move. Your Mental health first. 🙌🏻

  • @Werewolf0216

    @Werewolf0216

    3 жыл бұрын

    If someone is abusive, that's ok to ghost them and may be the only safe way to get out of the relationship. If a guy is a good guy though, ghosting is extremely unfair.

  • @bellydanza85

    @bellydanza85

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love your comment so much. You’re right; the onus is always on women to teach men how to treat us.

  • @sapiosag9306

    @sapiosag9306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I always ghost guys who are trying to play with me. They know what they’re doing! And when I ghost them they know I know what they’re trying to do too! Go play with the next one🤪😂😂😂

  • @elsquibbs
    @elsquibbs3 жыл бұрын

    I got ghosted by someone who was on the rebound. She was fresh out of a long term relationship. She tried to act like it was no big deal but it was clearly hurting her. I found out a month later that she actually had to get a restraining order against her ex. Anyway, she suggested that we make some plans when things open up (covid). Three weeks later when things started opening up, I invited her somewhere. She went ghost. I wasn't surprised. People on the rebound are all over the place emotionally. 14 MONTHS later, she reaches out to apologize. She said she realized that she was way too fast in suggesting we make plans together. She knew that the only reason I invited her out is that SHE brought it up. She was afraid that if she declined the invite that SHE suggested, that I'd get mad at her, and she already had a problem with a psycho ex boyfriend. The excuse was that she didn't know how to decline without risking a confrontation that she didn't have the emotional energy to participate in. It may be true. It may not. I do no reach out to ghosts. Once I realize what's happening, the ghost will NEVER hear from me again until they call me and make it right. If they never call me, then that is the end of it. If they call, you really need to be indifferent. That had worked best for me. You are right about what you say in this video.

  • @annemaidens229
    @annemaidens2293 жыл бұрын

    I was ghosted for 6.5 yrs. This is so true. Rejection is my protection.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending you love and light ❤️

  • @serenity1957

    @serenity1957

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 pop

  • @Teefine
    @Teefine3 жыл бұрын

    You definitely nailed this one. I've been on the receiving end of this and know exactly how it feels. Mehn! I wouldn't wish It on someone else. Thanks for this 👌🏾

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    YOU ARE WELCOME!!❤️

  • @joweeannazores2226
    @joweeannazores22263 жыл бұрын

    That's why we girls shouldn't sleep with a guy so quick so that if your guy ghost you atleast your still whole let him enjoy his immaturity,

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!! Preach sis!❤️❤️

  • @heatherlynn3438
    @heatherlynn34383 жыл бұрын

    Ghosting the narcissist is the right thing to do. If you are the victim of narcissistic abuse ghosting is the exact thing that you want to do if at all possible. We’re not even human when we’re in there with them. Take it all the way!

  • @ashleymandigo4406

    @ashleymandigo4406

    2 ай бұрын

    Or... the narcissist is the one ghosting

  • @OmgitsNeens
    @OmgitsNeens3 жыл бұрын

    I’m just sitting here so inspired by you right now. Like you must have such strong self esteem and value yourself so much that when you got ghosted, you didn’t even try to reach out because you knew you did nothing wrong. I am so insecure so I do the opposite. I worry if it’s something I said, if he didn’t find me pretty, or I did something wrong. Worry worry worry. And then I’ll send a text asking if everything’s okay, send another one expressing that I’m hurt, another expressing anger, and then a last text apologizing for texting so much. Like the fact that he did that to you didn’t even affect you that much because you knew that someone who deserves you won’t do that to you. I’m just so amazed and impressed and I hope I can develop my self esteem so I can be like you one day.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! This is SO DEEP and means so much to me. Thank you VERY MUCH! I’d like to say that I didn’t get here just like that. I actually struggled with insecurities for a very long time. I guess as life happens and I cry my way through hurtful times, I realize my worth and learn my lessons through those tears. I’m honestly still a work in progress but I get better every day. And I believe that you’re on that journey too. I believe that whatever made you watch this video, will make you stronger at the end of the day. And I believe SO MUCH, that sooner that later you’ll realize how far you’ve come as well. Give yourself some credit, I think you’re doing just amazing. We can only get better, with time and experience that shape us to be better versions of ourselves. I wish you the best in all you do. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lilexisentialcrisis
    @lilexisentialcrisis2 жыл бұрын

    "let's be immature together"🤣 gained you a follower, but thank you for this. You reminded me who tf I am so I unfollowed him(didn't block because I've been in a glow up season so I want him to keep watching lol(I know that's bad idc cause I see him watching my stories)🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @jossell911
    @jossell9113 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been ghosted and this is a great vid💯

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!! ❤️

  • @johnbingaman3645
    @johnbingaman36452 жыл бұрын

    Dated a girl 2 months everything was gone fantastic no red flags ghosted went back to her ex-boyfriend

  • @Yuricilina
    @Yuricilina3 жыл бұрын

    Amazing advice . Thank you so much

  • @rosalynaddai9255
    @rosalynaddai92557 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! Your video was really helpful ❤

  • @ionuttoma140
    @ionuttoma1402 жыл бұрын

    Finally a reasonable video about ghosting , thank you .

  • @bizdickson6561
    @bizdickson65613 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your video. I’ve been ghosted by a close friend. It’s very painful but each week I feel better. I went through so much self-doubt and sad ness. Luckily, I had my sisters to help me through and gave me the strength not to respond my ghoster. My confidence is coming back but it was very damaging to me. It’s good not to be the only person going through this.

  • @keneciaesson420
    @keneciaesson420 Жыл бұрын

    When someone ghost you respect the dead!

  • @yo-sai
    @yo-sai2 жыл бұрын

    i was at such a low point.i thank you so much really appreciate it.and i decided to glow grow to my maximum potential.i really appreciate it

  • @drheenapatel6346
    @drheenapatel63462 жыл бұрын

    V well said ,we need more mature women like you! Thanks for the information ☺️

  • @TheRealSultana
    @TheRealSultana3 жыл бұрын

    This was such an amazing video.. thank you so much for your insight and tips and for being so authentic... It definitely resonated with me since I have recently gone through this myself... :(

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    So happy when I get comments like these ones!! You are welcome!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nessaavril
    @nessaavril2 жыл бұрын

    Best advice ever!!! Love this video and your accent💕🦋🙏🏻

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!🥰❤️🙏

  • @bellydanza85
    @bellydanza853 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video. I’ve sure been through it. You’re so right about them coming back when you’ve moved on - they even have the nerve to come back years later. You’re right, they don’t respect us.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah!! And when they come back, remember how it hurt when they left, that’ll make you tougher not to fall back so easily. ❤️

  • @ellesansmakeup118
    @ellesansmakeup1183 жыл бұрын

    I've been ghosted by girls ("friends") most of my life. It really was energy draining. I never understood why...

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww must hurt a whole lot. Would’ve been helpful to know the reason why if there was a pattern to being ghosted by others.

  • @lsls-lb7qv
    @lsls-lb7qv Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sweetheart for this great video. I agree with everything you have said. It this person leaves you, it is on him/ her to work hard to re- gain your trust if they come back

  • @chethanareddy4112
    @chethanareddy41122 жыл бұрын

    Lots of love to you for this amazing video!!❤

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you soo much!🥰❤️

  • @wendyk6875
    @wendyk68752 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the great advice I really needed it today. You give me the strength to be stronger

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are welcome!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kaushikaushis
    @kaushikaushis2 жыл бұрын

    Great advice! I have been through it too. I went through comments that say ghosting a narcissist is okay. I think that is a different thing..

  • @cleopatrabonne7582
    @cleopatrabonne75823 жыл бұрын

    Well said and so helpful. I feel so much better after watching this. I unfortunately was ghosted continuously for a whole year. Like you, I had pride and never messaged him when he disappeared. Whenever he returned he carried on like normal. I was left so disoriented and dizzy, not to mention hurt. Sadly, I allowed him to come and go because I thought that liked him but actually I think I probably have a low self esteem. I would always feel as if something was not right and I actually cut him off 3 times. He then returned this year to tell me he is sorry for not telling me that he is married. I still am in shock as to why he lied to me. I finally accept and take ownership that for a whole year I allowed this guy to disrespect me. The first time when he ghosted me after kissing him, I should have blocked and deleted. A month ago I finally decided to block him, but he messaged on another number, but only to disappear again. I breathed in and just blocked and deleted this other number too. Enough is enough. Men can be so cruel

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really sorry about this. Block & Delete. Keep doing that when he comes around. He’s married and took advantage of your heart. You deserve a clean slate with someone who gives the energy you give out. I wish you the best sis ❤️

  • @carolesigrist1679

    @carolesigrist1679

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're so right I hope you've found happiness. It's 2020 as I write this and only happened 6 weeks ago also his narcissistic gaslighting was so cruel I need closure. Thanks so much for this video has helped me get clarity ❤️

  • @tanishawashington81

    @tanishawashington81

    Жыл бұрын

    You deserve better

  • @DD-jb1lq
    @DD-jb1lq3 жыл бұрын

    Only thing worse is being ghosted by a life long friend.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    That one hurts the most...🙏🏼

  • @tommywitte9916

    @tommywitte9916

    3 жыл бұрын

    Feel your pain

  • @anothernumber9753
    @anothernumber9753 Жыл бұрын

    You're really charming. (: Also this video is very helpful thank you.

  • @Butterflyyy1122
    @Butterflyyy11222 жыл бұрын

    I love how you explain everything so easily! Thank you 💕

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching 🥰💕

  • @chinita7044
    @chinita70442 жыл бұрын

    This comforted me so much. Thank you sis 💗

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    So happy it did! You’re welcome ❤️❤️

  • @lovice43
    @lovice434 ай бұрын

    Great video, beautiful 💯thanks

  • @deebee8844
    @deebee88443 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are welcome!!!❤️❤️

  • @colclarke7017
    @colclarke70173 жыл бұрын

    I love the accent ☺️. Your explanation is spot on, thanks. God bless 🙏

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!🥰 Please subscribe for more content 🥺

  • @mexicanbeautyqueen7988
    @mexicanbeautyqueen79883 жыл бұрын

    Best advice ever.. Thank you

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re Welcome!!!!🥰

  • @mgw4205
    @mgw42052 жыл бұрын

    I wished her happy birthday and she thanked me....I then invited her for dinner to celebrate her birthday and she never responded. Blows my mind. I didn't just meet this girl, we have history. So far I haven't texted her back.

  • @Nerdsketch_tekenschool
    @Nerdsketch_tekenschool3 жыл бұрын

    great video!

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!!❤️❤️

  • @VictoriaBala072
    @VictoriaBala0723 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dear. This was helpful

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are welcome!❤️

  • @marandawatanabe6250
    @marandawatanabe62503 жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!!!❤️☺️

  • @roxie225.
    @roxie225.3 жыл бұрын

    you broke it down, thanks Chinenye

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome 🥰❤️

  • @meetmitchelle6974
    @meetmitchelle69743 жыл бұрын

    Nice one dear!!👌🏾

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!😊❤️❤️

  • @koli733
    @koli7332 жыл бұрын

    you really helped me out. i went out on a date with this guy yesterday. he was amazing and sweet...we were supposed to head back to a hotel right after.... but he stood me up...and i was so ashamed and embarrassed. Luckily a friend helped me out and got me home. and he never called me back...not even checking on me...to see if i was okay.... i was at a very vulnerable state... and it hurt like hell. but your video really helped me up. thank you.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    So happy to know this. You’re welcome ❤️

  • @aranacha27rose98
    @aranacha27rose983 жыл бұрын

    You did the right thing sis ❤️👍🏽

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

  • @thaliasison1353
    @thaliasison13532 жыл бұрын

    I like how you share your experience on it...thanks cheneya

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aww you’re welcome!🥰🥰

  • @nivisky
    @nivisky2 жыл бұрын

    So True, Your advice was spot on. I got love bombed and then he got distant. I think he thought I was a better fit for him and dropped whom ever he was dating first and then when things didn’t go like he thought with me he went back to who ever he had before (my intuitions) he stopped contacting me and was watching my stories etc. my follower count went up tremendously and he tried to come back. Naive I thought he was genuine and then he stopped responding the next day. Now I know to move on because that chapter is over forever. Just wish I could get this memory out of sight

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Really sorry you had to go through that. Just take it a day at a time, time always heals; you’ll look back at this moment one day and realize you’re over it. ❤️🫂

  • @carolesigrist1679
    @carolesigrist16792 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 💕 for your advice, everything you said happened to me. I asked if our 5 Yr relationship was over he didn't give me an answer, just he needed space as he apparently 'needed to get his life in order' he was also gaslighting me a form of mental abuse. I have suspected there is someone else in his life... I won't be an 'option "🖤 no no! I need closure.

  • @hannakyme9045
    @hannakyme90453 жыл бұрын

    Thank you...

  • @comysvlog8479
    @comysvlog84793 жыл бұрын

    Nice video dear it really helped

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really happy you liked it!!!!

  • @antonioboyd2036
    @antonioboyd2036 Жыл бұрын

    THANKS BEAUTIFUL I FEEL MUCH BETTER

  • @attacktitan6868
    @attacktitan68683 жыл бұрын

    I got ghosted just 2 days back by this girl with seemingly genuine and amazing persona and It was all going well until the next day I see that she has blocked me on Telegram and tinder out of nothing,just like Thanos snapped! It stings bad:(

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really sorry about that. But you can’t live in self pity forever. Better it happened now that when you have invested so much time and emotions into something that would eventually fail. They’re doing you a huge favour by keeping their negative energy from you, yes blocking is harsh, but see it that way. It helps. Wishing you happier days ❤️❤️❤️

  • @attacktitan6868

    @attacktitan6868

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 Yeah, I guess so,I need to move ahead in life,but this ghosting/blocking has scarred my mind till date and I feel guilty I didn't get a chance to save this infatuation and establish something better between us..It's hard Chinenye ,I am crying everyday

  • @emmaalvarez1617
    @emmaalvarez16172 жыл бұрын

    He ghosted me the same week right before Christmas when we were supposed to spend it together. But now I know it was just his immaturity. He wasn't man enough to be honest. We were supposed to spend Christmas together. And now I will spend it alone.

  • @Aquabob68
    @Aquabob682 жыл бұрын

    well said thanks... women do that to guys too same thing...yes

  • @adamakamara5362
    @adamakamara53622 жыл бұрын

    I Agree with you my sister

  • @kosinjoagwuani6888
    @kosinjoagwuani68883 жыл бұрын

    Interesting as usual, Chinenye. I think I've ghosted once or twice and I'd like to think it's for good reason. Sometimes, you really just need to stop talking to people to for your own good actually. There's the toxicity and bad vibes that come with certain people/relationships and sometimes, the best way to escape is to just leave. No explanations. Just japa. While this might leave unanswered questions in their minds sha, you have done yourself good. Loved listening to this. Welldone.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    True words! When a person is toxic, we are allowed to be selfish and think of ourselves, for peace of mind. Just that sometimes, the person might really not know he/she is being toxic. Maybe it would be better to tell them about it first, mildly and then if they continue with the attitude and it's something you can't deal with, moving on might be the best option for you. In the ghostees mind, he or she might have an idea that it was the vibe that chased you away. Otherwise, it's usually hard for the victims and harder because they're completely clueless on what exactly made you leave.

  • @kosinjoagwuani6888

    @kosinjoagwuani6888

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 True though. At the end of the day, communication is important.

  • @Barber747
    @Barber7472 жыл бұрын

    The only thing I don't agree with in this video is early on where you said that men ghost more than women do; I personally believe it's the other way around. But aside from that I strongly agree with this entire video. I never once ever felt it was my fault if a female that I really liked ghosted me, especially since I did absolutely nothing to justify or warrant it. This actually assuaged, comforted, and made me feel a lot better. Thank you so much!!! 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m really happy this helped you. Thank you for your Nice and thoughtful comment. ❤️

  • @ghalib8901
    @ghalib89012 жыл бұрын

    Nice video

  • @adeyemigbolahan2897
    @adeyemigbolahan28973 жыл бұрын

    I heard your prank on a city FM,so I came to watch for myself, you really did a good job on this video. Am now a big fan of your channel now.. And I really do believe in you. Plus you are really beautiful too just as your voice..❤❤❤ Just keep moving all will be fine,okay...

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww! They really got me.🥲😪. Thank you very much!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @adeyemigbolahan2897

    @adeyemigbolahan2897

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 You are so real,pure,truthful and strong!,if na me,I go don cut 🤣... You were just so so truthful💯🤘❤..

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adeyemigbolahan2897 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I actually thought they wanted to help me.

  • @adeyemigbolahan2897

    @adeyemigbolahan2897

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 would have thought so too🤦‍♀️😂

  • @tainiyu4597
    @tainiyu45972 жыл бұрын

    Thanks ❤️

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome ❤️

  • @ms.chelleg2068
    @ms.chelleg20683 жыл бұрын

    This is the realest video 💯 I remember I would never ghost a guy in hopes of karma points so that guys would stop ghosting me. Nope. Didn’t work. Call me Casper ✌🏾

  • @kyserjose4183

    @kyserjose4183

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ms.Chelle G I 💯% understand but let’s not taint our character & morals in order to win games that shouldn’t be played in the first place. Do unto others….❤️

  • @Alvityl
    @Alvityl3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks sis I'm gonna return his energy hahahab

  • @blackmoondragoon4862
    @blackmoondragoon4862 Жыл бұрын

    My best friend since long time ghosted me, at least thats my impression. My phone got stolen last month, because of that I was also not able to have access to contacts, social media. I recently got a new simcard and am able to access old addresses and social media like Facebook, Whatsapp ect. Only to notice my best friend didn't even try to reach me, all the time my phone and social media was off. No call no sms no what so ever. In that moment I realized the image I had of a best friend was a picture or the past I tried to keep alive. This moment was a lso a present made me realize that Im the one in this "friendship" who is interested in this "friendship" that doesnt exist anymore. I wrote him for not hurting feelings of his other remaining or new friends its only fair not to ghost

  • @ABCs501
    @ABCs5012 жыл бұрын

    I just ghosted my sister-in-law! The reason for it was after another woman married into the family the wonderful relationship that I had with that first sister-in-law started to disappear. And now that sister-in-law has turned into a clone of the newest sister-in-law. The sister-in-law that I knew previously is completely gone! She now ignores me(unless she needs something for me or wants to brag about something), lies to me and has become downright toxic and horrible. I feel like I have every right to stop talking to someone like that.

  • @debsmith2789
    @debsmith27893 жыл бұрын

    How about the fact that they realize, you require mutual effort, trust, and respect and they are used to those who accept their breadcrumbs.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s the major reason to LET THEM GO SIS!!!❤️❤️

  • @debsmith2789

    @debsmith2789

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 Yes, that is for certain what you yourself do. The men, however , rarely learn because of the many” women “who continue to accept and tolerate poor treatment. Selected women choose to be complicit in the negative behavior they accept from men.

  • @debsmith2789

    @debsmith2789

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 💕

  • @beckyjnobaptiste195

    @beckyjnobaptiste195

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! When I called this guy I was dating out on breadcrumbing me, he ghosted me. Well good riddance to him.

  • @enlightenedone7083
    @enlightenedone7083 Жыл бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!

  • @elina7293
    @elina7293 Жыл бұрын

    Yes, I have been in a situation like that...this person actually came back...and now left again. Last time with no explanation, he ended up getting a girlfriend last time. This time he said he's busy with work and that I live with family and it would be impossible for us to see each other. Lame excuse ... I'm done ! His loss!

  • @PragmaticProminence
    @PragmaticProminence3 жыл бұрын

    This is like a person getting mad that someone didn't call them umm you have a phone you can reach out to see what's up not waiting a year wondering why that person isn't contacting you 🤦‍♂️

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol. You have a point but This IS NOT THE SAME THING. But if it’s how you’d handle it in that situation, fine. What works for you may not work for others. Read through the comments and you’d see people whose experience are way beyond ‘someone didn’t call me for a year’. This video is for such people who can relate. And funny enough you can reach out AND STILL BE GHOSTED AGAIN. Some people just don’t know how to end things and so they ghost you.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Also, I didn’t ‘wait a year’ & wonder’ lol. I moved on and HE CALLED A YEAR LATER. 👉🏾

  • @PragmaticProminence

    @PragmaticProminence

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 It's all good I appreciate you sharing your experiences!

  • @EverMade007
    @EverMade0072 жыл бұрын

    I don’t like the idea but hey ghosting helps

  • @Ariq437
    @Ariq4373 жыл бұрын

    OMG!! I've been watching video after video about being ghosted! This was the one that helped the most, thank you I've moved on...

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    So happy you found this helpful!! And happy you’ve moved on too. Thank you! ❤️

  • @rachelgarbe3932
    @rachelgarbe39322 жыл бұрын

    I am being ghosted again by a guy I have been talking to for a long time on whats app as well. I have met him in person and he actually is my cousins friend and lives in another country. We literally were talking about him coming to visit the USA this summer....i asked him if we could videochat to plan because its easier than typing and that was 4 weeks ago.....wtf???? So many qs and confusion. I want to know his reasoning but I refuse to message him! Helppp

  • @colclarke7017
    @colclarke70172 жыл бұрын

    His loss Bub . 😜

  • @dr.pooja31
    @dr.pooja313 жыл бұрын

    Hey,I really felt like a friend advising me wtchn ur video😊.I have been ghosted for 3 weeks nw in a 6 years relationship.Was ghosted before too by d same person bt I was the one to start contact and get things right even it wasnt my mistake.I took it as coz I am elder in this relation,I have betr maturity,I shd do ths.But now I realise how lonely I have been doing this after every argument.This time it was nothing to ghost for,its so unfair,I am so damn hurt,I am so confused what shd I do if d person comes back and If not then wat.I really dnno what shd I do☹️

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really sorry you had to go through that. Sometimes some things happen for reasons we do not know but Instead of wallowing in self pity, it can actually be an opportunity to give yourself a break and just breathe. You dont always have to be the fixer. If you're really happy within yourself, that can defeat the loneliness. Take everyday as you see it and try to forget your 'ghoster'. Especially if you're sure you didn't do the 'hurting', you might be so into yourself and they'll come back and you wont need them. The answer is within you. ❤

  • @sifugurusensei
    @sifugurusensei Жыл бұрын

    Do men and women ghost for the same reasons?

  • @starlitzone
    @starlitzone2 жыл бұрын

    Everyone I knew or talked to has ghosted me practically so I have no friends never had luck having friends but I had a amazing life and feel blessed for all my experiences. But here's a recent experience I ran into a some what close ex friend(wb) in a bar out of respect I said hi and greeted him he just said oh I'm so sorry nlah blah I was just like I'm doing great I live here and loving it etc he told me to msg him one app we have I did after a few weeks but got ghosted again and before(a year and a half ago before) that we also ran into each other and he was like "oh you should come over sometime...etc" but he also ghosted me that time. I'm done though if I run onto him again I'll just ignore him.

  • @janie5364
    @janie5364 Жыл бұрын

    I was ghosted because of money. I realize that's all he wanted from me.

  • @moneymoney6817
    @moneymoney68172 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 💝EXCELLENT !!!! 💝 WISH...I...COULD....LIKE...THIS !!!! A....ZILLION....TIMES !!!!!

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuuu!

  • @moneymoney6817

    @moneymoney6817

    2 жыл бұрын

    💝U...R...WELCOME !!!!💝 AND....I... SUBSCRIBED !!! 2.....ALL !!!! 😍

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awwww thanks for subscribing 🥰❤️

  • @adeyemigbolahan2897
    @adeyemigbolahan28973 жыл бұрын

    💕💕💕💕💕💯💯💯💯

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    😊🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @chahrazedboukert4090
    @chahrazedboukert40903 жыл бұрын

    he just ghosted me without anyreason he ignores my messages theb he blocked me i texted him and i told him that he just needed to be more mature and tell me that u dont want me....its been 4 mounths ago still blocked still in no contact

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ouch! That must have definitely hurt. The best thing to do is to move on, might be hard but is actually what’s best. You can’t hold on to that forever, it will affect other genuine relationships coming your way. His loss. So see him blocking you as him keeping his negative energy away from you. He’s doing you a favour by saving you from himself ❤️ .

  • @chahrazedboukert4090

    @chahrazedboukert4090

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 i was miserable that time i didnt know what to do now just trying to move forward and watch karma do what it has to do

  • @velmarasmussen6098

    @velmarasmussen6098

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think he looking for some one to help his need s tell me what I did wrong

  • @velmarasmussen6098

    @velmarasmussen6098

    3 жыл бұрын

    He should be a man tell me what I did wrong instead of ghost me why he called me after two years

  • @thejoshuaolotu
    @thejoshuaolotu3 жыл бұрын

    I need your help The HR in my office we were vybing I even used to hug her for a long time And then when I toasted her she said she has a boyfriend I started minding my own business all of a sudden she started giving me few attention Now I’m interested again and even after the toasting she started refusing to hug me

  • @sthabiledlamini3423

    @sthabiledlamini3423

    3 жыл бұрын

    Leave that girl alone bro

  • @andyokus5735
    @andyokus5735 Жыл бұрын

    I blame Facebook! Being on fb for 7 years I never had a female friend request. Recently I had 12 female friend request. Some very attractive young ladies to a 65 year old man. I contacted one gal and by the end of the text she was swearing her love to me forever and marriage. I told her I needed to hear her voice. She came up with a lame excuse. I've been alone since 27 so a beautiful blonde pulling on my heart strings was just cruel. Luckily I found a video by Kenny Weiss who explained the psychology of a ghoster. I blocked her. For some reason I've always gotten involved with screwed up women. I posted a warning about ghosters on my fb account and they took it off. Anything above stupid and childish on Facebook gets removed and they silently block your account. It's dedicated to destroying America.

  • @luckychucky3426
    @luckychucky34262 жыл бұрын

    all these terms did they have for a relationship such as ghosting gaslighting and now breadcrumbing I have no idea what that is what do you supposed to do when you want to just break it off you going to tell the person now there's in my young life I've been ghosted I got over didn't like it they say that person is a coward but it might be they don't want to hurt that other person's feelings in a relationship you can't win you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't so you call him up your tell him they're ugly they smell funny you don't brush your teeth their hair is is ugly they fart all the time you can't take it no more yeah just can't win

  • @cec2707
    @cec2707 Жыл бұрын

    Guys definitely do not ghost more lol

  • @visforvendetta1326
    @visforvendetta1326 Жыл бұрын

    I've been ghosted multiple times by women and never by a man. I don't believe men ghost more often than women but ghosting happens to both genders equally by the same kind of people. People who are conflict avoiders tend to ghost.

  • @aranacha27rose98
    @aranacha27rose983 жыл бұрын

    He was tryna Hoover you hahaha 😂😂😂👌🏼😳a year later

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Looool!!! I was shocked myself!

  • @aranacha27rose98

    @aranacha27rose98

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can well imagine 🤣🤣😭😭🤣🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽🤣🙌🏽😭😭😭🙌🏽🤣🙌🏽😭😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ds_dimsum7828
    @ds_dimsum78282 жыл бұрын

    FB USERNAME JV BREN RAMOS a great ghosting geek. makes him fall for you, ghosts away. then his bully friends tell to other people na ako yun babaeng pinaiyak niya. he and his friends put me to shame. mormon missionary pa man din siya. ngaun he is happily flaunting his mormon gf on his fb

  • @michaelangel25
    @michaelangel253 жыл бұрын

    If you got ghosted by a player, you should have saw the signs. If you got ghosted by a good man, maybe you’re the problem.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Okay! But sometimes, even the ‘good men’ ghost. It’s neither here nor there. Some ‘good men’ ghost because they’re probably not ready for something serious and don’t have the ‘balls’ to be open to their partner, ghosting is usually the easy way out for such people. So in other words,GOOD MEN GHOST TOO. THEY’RE JUST NOT CONFRONTATIONAL.

  • @narlywaves2371

    @narlywaves2371

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you're toxic. Good luck with life. You're never be in love. Must be nice.

  • @thejoshuaolotu
    @thejoshuaolotu3 жыл бұрын

    All these small small children are now having 4.5k views

  • @nancyamoret.hernandez4016
    @nancyamoret.hernandez4016 Жыл бұрын

    I was ghosted and then offered friendship. I felt conflicted. And said no. Cause I felt betrayal trauma I even snapped..

  • @alonzoneloms5651
    @alonzoneloms565122 күн бұрын

    He was a Fool to Ghost you!! His lost sound like Gorilla Branching! I just need one good God send Partner! To grow old with! I don't need a thousand women! Just one Godly and Classic woman!

  • @livefreedieyoung2012
    @livefreedieyoung20122 жыл бұрын

    I really wonder if u know what ur saying right now. So every person out there has been wrongfully ghosted is what ur saying. What ur saying about ghosting seems very one sided & seems like a very biased way of thinking. How about those ppl trying to get out of a unreasonable, toxic, abusive relationship & the person doesnt listen to u or what u say. Its funny how ppl will even call this ghosting & act like the person thats leaving this unhealthy relationship is the one in the wrong. How about those people that will taking advantage of someones compassion & kindness? is it ok to ghost them? I will say that ghosting is not only a reflection of the person thats doing the ghosting, its also in some cases a reflection of the person thats being ghosted too. If ur not doing any self reflecting even if something like this happens, then ur maybe have a lack self-awareness. Putting the blame on only the one doing the ghosting is a cop out. Sometimes ppl will ghost someone for safety reasons. thank u for the video

  • @moneymoney6817

    @moneymoney6817

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 ENGLISH !!!! COMPREHENSION !!! IS....A....MUTHA !!!! 🔠......🔢......🎓 SORRY !!!!! TRY !!!! AGAIN !!!!

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol. Triggered I see. Watch the video again , this time with comprehension, and if you can’t relate or understand my perspective , then this video is not for you. I hope you find what you’re looking for. ❤️ 💡

  • @livefreedieyoung2012

    @livefreedieyoung2012

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@chinenyeanoka4358 Sounds like u need to follow your own advice... Maybe even listening to a video about, What Psychologists Can Tell You About Ghosting may help u to understand. kzread.info/dash/bejne/g4tr1LKClpW4crQ.html Cause God forbid the day u hav to eat ur own words & understand that theirs more than just ur perspective.

  • @chinenyeanoka4358

    @chinenyeanoka4358

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@livefreedieyoung2012 WOW! A whole video for lil ol me? Awww. You’re far too kind! I’m always open to learning so I’ll definitely check it out. Thank you!🥰

  • @livefreedieyoung2012

    @livefreedieyoung2012

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@moneymoney6817 All that tells me is u dont wanna even take the time to read it, u just wanna be ignorant. Ignorance is bliss, isn't it... Not here to impress u or anyone, I dont need your approval, try again or not...

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