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This is what I LEARNED after 6 MONTHS of Sobriety Alcohol FREE!! (Episode #99)

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Timestamps:
0:00 Getting Sober Again
2:00 Do you want to be the best version of yourself?
2:20 What did i learn from being 6 months sober?
2:35 Are you overwhelmed by your sobriety goals?
2:45 Stop focusing on the things you CANT do in your sobriety and start focusing on the things you CAN do
3:05 My anxiety and depression after 6 months of sobriety is WAY lower!
3:30 Are you drinking on a daily basis?
3:50 What version of yourself do you want to be?
4:15 I was able to be more productive because my anxiety is down!
4:40 After 6 months of sobriety my productivity is higher than it's ever been!
4:41 Sobriety has given me more free time!
4:55 How are you going to spend your free time?
5:15 Make sure that current you looks out for future you!
5:40 6 months of sobriety led me to be more present in my relationships!
5:55 How much money will you save in your sobriety?
6:00 Quitzilla app
6:30 Are you spending money that you don't have on alcohol?
6:40 Alcohol is an expensive habit!
7:10 Showing gratitude for my blessings
7:30 Not drinking means less self sabotage!
7:40 Don't expect sobriety to fix ALL of your problems.
7:50 Are you leaving red flags everywhere when you drink alcohol?
8:00 What version of yourself do you want to wake up to?
8:25 You can't erase the past but you can write a new future!
8:40 What is THE BIG 5, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially.
9:00 Going back to bars doesnt temp me as much anymore
9:01 I am ready to socialize again!
9:20 When am I going to be ready to go back to the bar without temptations?
9:50 Sobriety is mine and I'm not giving it back!
9:55 Do you take pride in your sobriety?
10:15 When you become proud of your sobriety you can take control of the rest of your life!
10:35 Misery loves company
10:36 Are the people you are surrounding yourself with the right people for you?
11:00 Practice sitting through your emotions WITHOUT grabbing a drink
11:15 Sobriety has made me less irritable
11:45 How my days went before sobriety
12:05 Are you experiencing FOMO? The fear of missing out
12:10 What are you REALLY missing out on?
12:35 Sobriety has improved my life greatly!
12:45 What can I do now that I'm sober?
12:46 Can I still do the same things sober that i previously did drunk?
13:00 What activities can I do sober?
13:15 How am I going to tell people about my sobriety?
13:16 What do i say when someone asks why i gave up alcohol?
13:45 Stick to your goals!
13:55 Don't do most of the work and give up, Get to the finish line!
14:00 Comparing sobriety with getting a degree
14:25 What I've experienced in my sobriety may not be exactly what you experience! Results may vary
14:37 How long have you been drinking alcohol?
15:00 Getting sober WILL improve your quality of life!
15:15 Do you believe that you don't have a personality when you're sober?
15:20 Alcohol didn't make you who you are! You are still going to be you when you quit!
15:40 Alcohol was interfering with my personal growth
15:55 Are you ready to fall in love with yourself again?
16:20 I never thought i would be sober for 6 months!
16:45 When you die, will you be satisfied with how you lived your life?
16:55 Are you living up to your full potential?
17:00 The best day to start was yesterday, the next best day to start is NOW!
17:10 What are the 3 P's of sobriety? Preperation, practice, patience
17:25 Are you committing to your sobriety?
17:40 Are you a slave to alcohol?
17:55 End your loop of self destruction!
18:00 Take your sobriety one day at a time!
18:10 Start making better decisions instead of worse decisions!
OTHER RESOURCES FOR QUITTING ALCOHOL:
- Alcoholics Anonymous: www.aa.org
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration: bit.ly/39n6Bze
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration: 1-800-662-4357
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (Available 24 hours) 1-800-273-8255
- What is the cost of addiction? bit.ly/3c09Ug4
- QUITZILLA (Google Play Store) bit.ly/36fRgyL
- QUITZILLA (Apple Store) apple.co/3cihPqP

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  • @erikak.5331
    @erikak.5331 Жыл бұрын

    Day 14! I canceled a blues festival with friends I was supposed to go to tomorrow. I know I'm not ready to be in that environment yet...bummed, but proud to make good decisions 🙌

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Жыл бұрын

    that's incredible that you are disciplined enough to make this kind of much needed self sacrifice. you are truly amazing!!!

  • @bradyclifton450

    @bradyclifton450

    4 ай бұрын

    That's awesome! I know from experience these things aren't easy but stay strong and it gets easier. Eventually you will have the boundaries in place to get back out to events

  • @kennethglover3418
    @kennethglover34183 жыл бұрын

    90 Days Feel clear, alcoholism is such a complex addiction. It's like an onions it has many layers. I too have found a new respect for what I have accomplished. Don't miss the hangovers,dehydrationpeeing all the time and a slightly foggy brain.

  • @jacqui4green

    @jacqui4green

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @Outlaw653

    @Outlaw653

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome job!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Kenneth! Hope you're still doing well! Would love and update on your progress!

  • @fruitascension5089
    @fruitascension50893 жыл бұрын

    76 days, and hope to be alcohol-free and mentally, emotionally and physically healthy the rest of my life. (AND financially healthy!)

  • @ratmajat22
    @ratmajat222 жыл бұрын

    “Here Lies Dank… He Had Potential” This dude is the Jordan Peterson of Sobriety. Hope the channel becomes bigger.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 жыл бұрын

    WHAAAAAAT DUUUUUUDE???? JORDAN PETERSON??? I'M FUCKING FLATTERED AF RN 😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰😎😎😎

  • @GavanDuffyAnocht
    @GavanDuffyAnocht3 жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel and it’s been a real inspiration. I’m sober 16 months after many failed attempts. Finding a community like yours is a helpful reminder of the positives of why we do this. Thank you sir 👍

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Onward and upward my friend!

  • @ashleybursch2804

    @ashleybursch2804

    7 ай бұрын

    how far along are you now?

  • @GavanDuffyAnocht

    @GavanDuffyAnocht

    7 ай бұрын

    4 years last Monday :) @@ashleybursch2804

  • @dougpresley2220
    @dougpresley22203 жыл бұрын

    25 days here, and I feel amazing!

  • @CD-zy5te
    @CD-zy5te2 жыл бұрын

    Dear comment lurkers, You are not alone and this is a great community here at getting sober. We care about you , please dont stop trying! I found jae's channel on night 30 and today i have now reached 1 year of sobriety. Come say hi at our livestream sometime!!!!

  • @AlexArrakis
    @AlexArrakisКүн бұрын

    Your channel really helped me at the start of my sobriety journey, and I'm now at 6months! I never thought I was gonna be able to make it. Yesterday I paddle on a lake at sunset and cried when I realized I had finally been successful at liberating myself from my addiction.

  • @PRESSPLAYRADIO
    @PRESSPLAYRADIO3 жыл бұрын

    It's amazing that from a few hundred to 3K subs in such a whirlwind of evolution

  • @PRESSPLAYRADIO

    @PRESSPLAYRADIO

    3 жыл бұрын

    Long may it continue

  • @BathroomJams
    @BathroomJams6 ай бұрын

    I’m 4 months sober today! 😊🎉 Best 4 months of my life 😁

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    6 ай бұрын

    👏👏👏 4 months!!!!! let's gooooooooo!!!

  • @tonym992
    @tonym9923 жыл бұрын

    Well said and we’ll done. Good man.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    😎

  • @pauldrozik3447
    @pauldrozik34473 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Jae 6 months. That's a lot of one day at a time. It is a joy listening to your pod cast.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Paul! It's a pleasure having awesome support from you

  • @PRESSPLAYRADIO
    @PRESSPLAYRADIO3 жыл бұрын

    It's so cool having a parallel trajectory with this channel at 6 months with a fellow artist and constructive survivor ..my new band rehearsals are going so well and life in the studio after alcohol and smoking # have only been the most productive in years even with the rest of the band drinking and toking it doesn't affect me at all and all the time I keep coming back to this channel for relatable progress and street level wisdom

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cheers to you Nat I support and it's good to have you along for the journey sober twin

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Nat! Hope you're still doing well. 😁😁

  • @thedollarchase4730
    @thedollarchase47303 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Keeping me acountable my guy. 👊

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    YEAH!!!! lol Thank you for holding up to your end of the bargain =)

  • @MegaShankie
    @MegaShankie16 күн бұрын

    Good morning!! Day 17. Today, shifting from “I can’t go in there,” to “I get to walk for 45 minutes, I get to listen to a great podcast” and it was a great shift yesterday & this morning ❤

  • @mymy_sweetiepie2692
    @mymy_sweetiepie26923 жыл бұрын

    Great video and congratulations on 6 months. Day 12 over here and 7lbs down. Your videos have been so encouraging and this community makes me feel like I'm not doing this alone. I've never had that before the other times I've tried to go sober. Thank you.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love ya! Happy to be in this with you ❤️💜

  • @jacqui4green

    @jacqui4green

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay for you! I admire your progress and wish that I was so far along on my journey.

  • @barbarahermannster

    @barbarahermannster

    3 жыл бұрын

    7 lbs. down, wow.

  • @MrChucktait
    @MrChucktait3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on 6 months Jae!!! Thats awesome!!! I'm at 30 days today feeling good. This channel is helping us all Jae. Much appreciated 🙏

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    My pleasure Chuck! Your presence is an added bonus

  • @k.3924
    @k.39243 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations Jae on 6 months and 3K subscribers!! I'm so proud of you and glad to be on the journey with you my friend!! Great episode today! Very inspirational!😃👏👏👏

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    AWWWW thank you....I was feeling the pressure from having gotten tied up with work all week and just doing livestreams. I know some people are episode junkies lol

  • @k.3924

    @k.3924

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain Don't feel pressured, we understood. 😁

  • @jennrollins5964
    @jennrollins59643 жыл бұрын

    I love the way your breakdown your journey and show people the amazing gifts and perspective sobriety provides. Thank you!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jenn!

  • @user-si8hd6ix6g
    @user-si8hd6ix6g4 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this Especially the headstone comment. “Potential” damn so real

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    4 ай бұрын

    ooOOooOoOoh, now THAT is a great throwback quote! I remember saying that years ago when I had less grey in my beard lol

  • @gabec9647
    @gabec96473 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on 6 months brother! Great inspiration!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks my G!!🎉🤗😁

  • @T.K.111
    @T.K.1112 жыл бұрын

    Gratitude meditation prayer every morning in silence with a cup of coffee. Makes my entire day better.

  • @johnl6161
    @johnl61613 жыл бұрын

    I wish that I could this "like" more than once! I just ran 4 miles while listening to it. Best dopamine replacement combo ever! Speaking about old habits. I realized the other day that I've been drinking on a consistent basis for over 30 years. 🤦‍♂️ I mean I worked hard at it. I mean so much that I turned my drinking into a profession.I actually opened a brewery to justify my drinking. That all came crashing down a little over a year ago and I took it as a sign that I was on the wrong path. I quit drinking for 4 months after that but unfortunately, I fell back into the habit last August. Some really rough days and months later I feel like I'm getting back on track. Working out and listening to motivational speeches is where it's at for me. Les Brown is THE MAN! Jae, you're not far behind. Thank you! 👏🙏

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!! You ran a 5 minute lol!!! Thank you for your words.. I've always wanted to open a sober bar with fun activities. Where are you located?

  • @johnl6161

    @johnl6161

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain Ha! 5 minute mile....I wish, more like 10 but the other 20 I was listening to @Gojira 's new album. 🔥🎸🤘 Anyway, I'm in Little Rock and on Monday I'll be 3 weeks sober...again. side note, Friday nights are so weird not drinking. After so many years it almost like its ingrained in me. Right at quitting time, I get the craziest urges but most other days have been good. Thanks again for all you do for me and others. Huge Congrats on your six months of sobriety!

  • @scottenriquez1930
    @scottenriquez19303 жыл бұрын

    Early on, here. Couple weeks maybe, with a few slips. Body not liking not having what it was used to for so many years. Achy. Still sleeping a lot. Working on it and, currently, not really craving. Which is HUGE! Trying to lose fat and build muscle at 57 and recover from my 7th knee surgery (work related. Career Firefighter ) I know. Gotta start somewhere...

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've had other firefighters talk about how hard it has been to find the support with such a high stress job. I'm glad that you're aware of the fact that your body is going through a period of adjustment and that patience is key. The first month I napped a lot and went to bed early often. Stick it out! We will be here =)

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Scott! Would love to hear how you're doing on your journey! How's your recovery going?

  • @StarAthena16
    @StarAthena163 жыл бұрын

    You're truly doing something amazing wow look at those subs! I was here when you had 200. Saturday night I went to the bar with some friends my husband was the sober driver. It was a really good time and experience. My tab was $50 but I don't think I'll be doing it again it got wild in there and so many lady's on the dance floor we couldn't even dance, I told my friends we might as well use my house I have a disco ball light and dance games and cheaper alcohol. I couldn't imagine going to a bar every night or even once a week. It's alot of wildness. I'm probably more of an occasional drinker like if something exciting is happening. Not an everyday. Like you said 2020 was crazy and I became used to drinking vodka every day I had off which is 3 days a week and one day I was like dude I need to get it together and your videos have always helped.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awwww hey friend! Long time no chat! How's the jewelry biz picking up? I was just talking to a friend the other day who makes custom jewelry down in Columbus and she said that 2020 hit her really hard. I'm glad that you've come to your own conclusions with regard to your moderation and it's always great to hear from you :)

  • @StarAthena16

    @StarAthena16

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain it's good just super slow this year. At least I don't have to depend on it for money. It's always something I want to feel fun and not like work but I get some sales here and there

  • @ydasda4210
    @ydasda42103 жыл бұрын

    That's awesome!🥳Congratulations on six months 🏅 Your channel helps me.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad to contribute to your success :)

  • @George_uh_Glass
    @George_uh_Glass7 ай бұрын

    Jae, this channel makes me so happy 😊 it’s my comfort channel

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    7 ай бұрын

    Thanks for being my penpal :)

  • @elizabethframe2354
    @elizabethframe23543 жыл бұрын

    I'm on day 3. Congrats on your 6 months!!! We got this! ✌

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    💪🏽🙏🏽💅🏽 good for you! Not a lot of people get to day 4...challenge accepted?

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Elizabeth! Would love to hear how your journey is going. :) Did you hit the big 90 day mark yet?! 😄

  • @Johnny-lb4ov
    @Johnny-lb4ov3 жыл бұрын

    Jae, I just found your channel Saturday night. The funny thing is, I was trying not to drink, made til about 8pm and gave in. Started watching yt and it ran across my feed. A lot of props to you. And I can see this channel going far. You've got the heart, patients, and persistence to do it. Thank You!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Johnny thanks for the compliment bro! I appreciate you making the effort to be your best self and find a better balance. I have lots of videos to binge watch and one coming up later today that will help you tremendously call "The 100 NO CHALLENGE". Make sure you're subscribed and you have all of your notifications turned on so that you'll get alerts when we have new episodes and do live streams!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Johnny! How's it going? Have you made any progress with your sobriety? Would love to hear from you. 😄

  • @jakeleroy3186
    @jakeleroy31863 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on hitting the 6 month mark! Your journey encourages me on my journey. Just past the 60 day mark for alcohol and today is 90 days weed free. I am tempted to get "CA" sober as I live in CA but today I'm just enjoying the clarity. Im proud to say that when I drink my meals now it's a protien shake and not a half bottle of whisky.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    WOAH!! That's amazing man. Beware the Pink Cloud/Honeymoon phase of sobriety will leave you feeling like "is that it", and kind of disappointed. The high of sobriety will temporarily go away before it starts to get better (around 90 days). Results may vary, but don't let it get you down! Where in Cali? I def want to relocated...I was just in LA for 4/20 weekend (coincidentally)

  • @jakeleroy3186

    @jakeleroy3186

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain yeah this month is going to be a test for sure, 35th birthday on the 14th but I'm looking forward to waking up without a hangover this year lol. I'm in Nor Cal between SF and Sacramento. I would recommend CA as a place to vacation but not to live. Its way too expensive and lots of traffic and crime. I'm looling to relocate myself.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jakeleroy3186 good advice. My birthday was just after 30 days too...and I wanted to do something significant for myself, so I decided to stay sober and keep on my journey. I told myself "not there yet" over and over again until I felt like alcohol temptation was no more.

  • @jakeleroy3186

    @jakeleroy3186

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain that's a good way to look at it!

  • @saratroost6603
    @saratroost66033 жыл бұрын

    It's been about 3 1/2 weeks for me. That is alot as I was drinking around the clock for about 3+ years. I've gotten sober before for a year here and there but the difference this time is I developed jaundice and was hospitalized for 5 days. There is no doubt in my mind if I kept it up, I'd be dead by the end of the year. When sober before, I still put up with things I don't have to..... creating anxiety and stress. I'm noticing that certain people are supportive of me quitting, but still want me to tolerate intolerable behavior. I've had to start saying "No". That's where I'm at now...😊

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just remember, you're not saying NO to those people/places/temptations, you're saying YES to the future that you have always wanted!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Sara! How are you doing? Would love to hear from you and see what you're up to these days!

  • @lifesgr84me
    @lifesgr84me Жыл бұрын

    This episode is GOLD! Thanks Jae! I hope something awesome happens for you today 🎉

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Жыл бұрын

    Same to you!

  • @stackenandpackin6716
    @stackenandpackin67168 ай бұрын

    I’m on day 6 at this point. Your vids helped me a ton so far and learning so much. Love your approach.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    8 ай бұрын

    We have plenty more 😎 Here's the playlist to our most recent episodes! kzread.info/head/PLddHUddS-QQjIYyRNl-E3bkOiEWWIZtEt

  • @johntabor5019
    @johntabor50193 жыл бұрын

    Day one for me. I want to go clean until the nfl season opener.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    ALL JOURNIES WELCOME!

  • @davidrevere2281
    @davidrevere22813 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on the 6 months Jae!! I'm at 5 1/2 months yesterday. Still charging ahead!!! Thank you for the great videos and keep on moving forward!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nipping at my heels eh?? Good to have ya!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey David! Hope all is well and you're still charging ahead! Would love an update on your progress! :)

  • @davidrevere2281

    @davidrevere2281

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SamEspen still going strong, a few days shy of 9months sober! Thanks for the checking 😉

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davidrevere2281 that's amazing! Congratulations. 😄😄😄

  • @davidrevere2281

    @davidrevere2281

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SamEspen Aye! 10 months 15 days!!!! That year is coming up fast my friend!

  • @summer_poems
    @summer_poems3 жыл бұрын

    The progress you've made is so very motivating. Thank you for this wonderful update!! Cheers to you!!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I'm having fun doing it!

  • @cyclingglen
    @cyclingglen3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for a great quality episode. So much squeezed into 19min.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    I tried to give you your monies worth lol. I don't give refunds 😂

  • @jacqui4green

    @jacqui4green

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree. I love these episodes too. Indeed this one is pithy.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jacqui4green pithy?

  • @jacqui4green

    @jacqui4green

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain Pithy: "concise and forcefully expressive". Yah, man.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jacqui4green 😂 Welcome back to: Learning Words...Again

  • @stackenandpackin6716
    @stackenandpackin67162 ай бұрын

    6 months next week. This channel helped me a ton, especially the first 60 days. This vid caught my eye, thanks!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    oOOOoOOOOoH 6 months HERE WE GOOOOOOOO!!!

  • @CCTH-86
    @CCTH-863 жыл бұрын

    Quitzilla is so awesome! I'm using that to keep track of my sobriety. I'm currently on Day 30 and I'm not going backwards.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Day 30?!?! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 Congratulations to you and your recent success! How will you celebrate? 😎

  • @CCTH-86

    @CCTH-86

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain Having steak, baked potato, a bowl of fruit, and lime seltzer water. lolz!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Cecelia! I would love to hear how you're doing these days? Did you hit your 90 days? Look forward to your response. :)

  • @CCTH-86

    @CCTH-86

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SamEspen Hey there! Right now, I'm reaching Day 33 tomorrow. By the time I hit the 91st day in October 2021, I will definitely let you know in the comments section, my friend. Anyways, I'm doing well so far. It was a tough road being sober during the first few days, but it's gotten easier along the way since day 15. Now, I don't have to think about alcohol anymore. YAY!!!!!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CCTH-86 yayy! I'm so glad that you're still pushing through and didn't give up. 🤗🤗 Super inspired!

  • @jpc443
    @jpc4433 жыл бұрын

    I'm just getting into this channel, so nothing particularly constructive to say at this point, however, I in the meantime I will say this. ITS THE BEST PAY RISE I EVER HAD!!!!!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha nice! Thanks for being here and commenting. What will you do with all your money saved? Vacation? New equipment? New toys? Cryptocurrency?

  • @jpc443

    @jpc443

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain I'm sober nine years. Since I quit, I have rebuilt my life. I found a girl, emigrated from the UK to Australia and built a home. I have a 4x4 truck and spend my spare time in the outback exploring. I don't even think about drinking and wouldn't touch alcohol if you paid me. I stopped drinking and started living.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jpc443 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @cameronpickard7456
    @cameronpickard74563 жыл бұрын

    well done jae and thank you you're selfless

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Cam!

  • @scottjaffin3691
    @scottjaffin36912 жыл бұрын

    Keep up the good work Jay

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 жыл бұрын

    thanks Scott! I just recently hit 1 year, did you see that episode??

  • @randolphshield6560
    @randolphshield65603 жыл бұрын

    Awesome channel. Thank you!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoy it! I have lots of episodes for you to watch, and always feel free to comments and ask questions. we have a great community of people in the comment section two that love to be of help

  • @jackedkerouac4414
    @jackedkerouac44143 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on 6 months! This came right on time. I have a business trip coming up and it's strengthening my resolve

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stay JACKED on sobriety 😁🎉🤗

  • @jackedkerouac4414

    @jackedkerouac4414

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain Dude I went to the office and saw cases upon cases of soju that my boss arranged to be brought on the trip. I will have to tell a white lie to abstain. Pray for me!!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jackedkerouac4414 I just went to Cali for 420 weekend with unlimited free alcohol and weed and made it out alive lol. Find your strength over peer pressure 💪🏽

  • @barbarahermannster

    @barbarahermannster

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jackedkerouac4414 You can do this. Think how sharp you will be in the morning while their asses are dragging.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Get that promotion!!!

  • @BobShay-jf4vf
    @BobShay-jf4vf3 ай бұрын

    Nearly 2 months for me Jae....I've made some major life changing decisions & very happy about it...

  • @sherryberry6690
    @sherryberry66903 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your videos 🙏

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you like them! I take pride in this work and it makes me happy to know that people resonate with them!

  • @BobShay
    @BobShay4 ай бұрын

    Jae once again inspiring & educating us all ❤😊

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    4 ай бұрын

    AND responding on a Saturday evening 🥰

  • @BobShay

    @BobShay

    4 ай бұрын

    @GettingSoberAgain ...You know it! 😁👍🤩

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    4 ай бұрын

    @@BobShay wyd tonight Bob? Sam and I just watched the women's professional Disc Golf tournament. Now we are going to play 18 holes 🥳

  • @BobShay

    @BobShay

    4 ай бұрын

    @GettingSoberAgain ...I'm going out to eat a nice steak dinner with my girlfriend and enjoy my Pelligrino Mineral water 💧 💕 👍😁

  • @lucyloose8598
    @lucyloose85983 жыл бұрын

    I subscribe to ya... keep it up. I’m working hard on kicking it’s ass, 4 days as of 4.30.21!! Thanx

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    4 hard days! They belong to you don't give them up!

  • @jacqui4green

    @jacqui4green

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Lucy. Congrats on 4 days, keep kickin' that ole alcohol's ass! 🥾

  • @lucyloose8598

    @lucyloose8598

    3 жыл бұрын

    J. J. Thanx J.J. 👍👍

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lucy! Is this your first comment on here? 😄😄

  • @lucyloose8598

    @lucyloose8598

    3 жыл бұрын

    SamE I’ve had added some comments on several other Livestreams and the podcasts also it’s a really good channel I enjoy listening to him

  • @RealCasperMan
    @RealCasperMan Жыл бұрын

    I'm almost 6 months sober now after drinking pretty heavily 12 years. Can vouch for all of this, people look at me different now too. Gym time, running every day help immensely as well. I've had a case of beer in my fridge the entire time, right next to a case of non-alcoholic beers. Just that little choice every time became a challenge I'm proud of now. Do it on hard mode!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Жыл бұрын

    #stayHARD

  • @Drewskii911
    @Drewskii911Ай бұрын

    17 weeks sober. Longest streak in over 10 years

  • @jacqui4green
    @jacqui4green3 жыл бұрын

    Woo Hoo! Six months is so awesome! 👏 Cheers! (kombucha)

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha awe thanks! I already have my green tea bottled and ready for the bar

  • @joryiansmith
    @joryiansmith Жыл бұрын

    I want to be sober forever

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Жыл бұрын

    forever-ever?

  • @sleazyrum
    @sleazyrum9 ай бұрын

    Day 11 & doing great. Able to hangout with friends as I drink 0.0s and learning new coping strategies to stress

  • @Decibillion
    @Decibillion3 ай бұрын

    Jan 1st was my last drink. still smoking weed but im almost ready to stop and see how true sober is. The alcohol was a waaaaaaaayyyyy bigger problem, daily morning and night. it gets pretty dark if you let it. all while being too drunk to do anything for yourself to move forward and upward in life.

  • @qelement50
    @qelement503 жыл бұрын

    It's so nice outside. I am experiencing this anxiety right now. :-(

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go outside! 🤗

  • @Knightcommander69
    @Knightcommander69 Жыл бұрын

    Jae- you 100% need to write an ebook.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Жыл бұрын

    I've thought about it 😉 (but also that's the point of the channel)

  • @MrDtaylor099
    @MrDtaylor0993 жыл бұрын

    Day 13, it’s been strange. Ups and downs.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tell us more

  • @Knightcommander69
    @Knightcommander69 Жыл бұрын

    Jae is a beast!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Жыл бұрын

    *RAWR*

  • @kristtophon
    @kristtophon3 жыл бұрын

    I`m on day one :-)

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    The longest day! Stay busy. Rest as needed. You got this

  • @jacqui4green

    @jacqui4green

    3 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to the vast Day One Club. You are so not alone!

  • @kristtophon

    @kristtophon

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jacqui4green Day 3 now.. only slightly less vast :)

  • @kristtophon

    @kristtophon

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain well, I only drink beer.. but lots of it. Its very hot here in Thailand!... but I badly need a detox. If I can do 2-4 months off the beer once a year I`ll be happy. I used to get a break when travelling home once a year but now, at 53, after selling my house in UK 7 years ago, I`ve basically been on the piss for 7 years straight :)... I do alot of cycling so have stayed in decent enough shape. But can`t keep doing that forever. Like your videos. They definitely help inspire.

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Kris! How's it going? Hope all is well! Wanted to see how your progress was going. Can't wait to hear from you! :)

  • @kennethglover3418
    @kennethglover34183 жыл бұрын

    Almost forgot congratulations

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🎉🎉🎉

  • @johnossitt494
    @johnossitt4943 жыл бұрын

    14 DAYS

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's something to be proud of! That 14 days is yours, never give it back. Just think of all the struggle you went thru the next time you have a craving, would you want to have to wait another 2 weeks just to get BACK to where you are now? NO! It's much easier to stay sober than it is to GET sober!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey John! How's everything been? Have you made it past 90 days? How are you feeling! Would love to hear from you. :)

  • @Theworldaccordingtosteve101
    @Theworldaccordingtosteve1013 жыл бұрын

    I hope to start day one tomorrow

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope you WILL start tomorrow :)

  • @Theworldaccordingtosteve101

    @Theworldaccordingtosteve101

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm at that point that I get drunk as Fuck and I don't know why anymore. I have four kids three have grown and left home. I still have my son. I've been watching you. You are inspiring

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why did you start drinking? What were the benefits?

  • @Theworldaccordingtosteve101

    @Theworldaccordingtosteve101

    3 жыл бұрын

    I drank as an addict since I was 18. It was cool then. I grew up had my first daughter at 27. I was an alcoholic by then. I had three more children. I love them but I just always drink. I have no benefit. Sorry I'm drinking at the moment. I've been watching you and I'm wanting to start again tomorrow

  • @Theworldaccordingtosteve101

    @Theworldaccordingtosteve101

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you posting tomorrow?

  • @Mr99RICH99
    @Mr99RICH992 жыл бұрын

    I would find that I would go out and drink cuz I was tired of sitting around watching TV

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like: A distraction for distraction that was distracting you from being a better version of you. Sound about right? Yeah me too! 😎💪🏽

  • @user-hs4bw4jy7f
    @user-hs4bw4jy7f3 жыл бұрын

    I'm fin terrified I'm gonna relapse tommorow. Gonna be out and about. I barely made it through today. Is the second month supposed to be this rough?

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    What's your goal?

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Dragon! How have you been? We're you able to knock your cravings? Looking forward to hearing from you. 😄

  • @DEADIKATED
    @DEADIKATED3 жыл бұрын

    I'm about a week in at the moment, before that I was 2 weeks after my birthday on March 27th but I relapsed for a week...

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    You worked hard for that week!! You wanna have to do it all over again? NO!

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Deadikated! Would love to hear how you're doing! How's your progress?

  • @DEADIKATED

    @DEADIKATED

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgain No Sir!

  • @DEADIKATED

    @DEADIKATED

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SamEspen Going on a Month Right now...💪🏽

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@DEADIKATED that's great! Congrats. 😄😄

  • @Plan-C
    @Plan-C4 ай бұрын

    Day 90 today. It's a mindset. 😃

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    4 ай бұрын

    ABSOLUTELY!! What tips would you like to share?

  • @Plan-C

    @Plan-C

    4 ай бұрын

    @@GettingSoberAgainYour videos helped me a LOT. Especially in the early days. Thank you. I watch at least one sobriety video a day to 'remind' myself why I am doing this. That includes some pretty raw/scary ones that show real damage so I don't get complacent. The fact that the pain in my right side is subsiding also helps remind me that I am hopefully healing physically as well as mentally. Honestly I pray once a day for help to continue and I reward myself with little trinkets at milestones (month 1,2 3 lol). I figure I have saved £20*90days=£1,800 so far so why not lol. Got back into video games. Bought a Steam Deck with my savings. Try to avoid stress. Not easy but especially in the first week. It is more important that you get better than that form needs filling/email needs answering/whatever. If something is stressing you out then put it down/ go outside / walk away for a few minutes. Sleep as much as you can. It helps with mood. Sleep issues in the first few days are difficult but do not give in they DO subside quite quickly. Personally, I go and meet one set of friends who are not big drinkers once a week just to stay in touch. They understand because I told them and that helps keep me accountable. One of their brothers has alcohol issues so they understand. They may have a beer or 2. I have a Heineken Zero. I do that because I do not want to be frightened of going out sober. It is a bit like flooding for me. The more I do it and the less of a big deal I make of it, the less power it has. I did leave it about 3 weeks before doing that though. They understood. May not be for everybody. Thanks again. The urges get less and less frequent and more and more fleeting over time. You can do it. Oh and Coffee lol, Proper filter coffee in the morning and buckets of decaf during the day and eveing. Black with no sugar lol.

  • @pamelaabbitt4167
    @pamelaabbitt41679 ай бұрын

    2 weeks today. Hopefully for good

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    9 ай бұрын

    FOR GOOD! Here's the playlist to our most recent episodes! kzread.info/head/PLddHUddS-QQjIYyRNl-E3bkOiEWWIZtEt

  • @rockyroad909
    @rockyroad9093 жыл бұрын

    #inspo

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @garrettdelaney1477
    @garrettdelaney14772 жыл бұрын

    whoa you dj?

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 жыл бұрын

    lol I used to. now I just have very expensive video props

  • @firsthandlegg8442
    @firsthandlegg8442 Жыл бұрын

    Jan 1 makes 6 months Alcohol and nicotine free

  • @timburton9514
    @timburton95144 ай бұрын

    Day 96!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    4 ай бұрын

    You were on a watching spree yesterday huh?!

  • @charliebacon3778
    @charliebacon37783 жыл бұрын

    What was the weightloss like when you stopped drinking?

  • @cyclingglen

    @cyclingglen

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was more likely to make healthy meals because I wasn't on the couch drinking. Also, more likely to be active the next day because I wasn't hungover. Both of these are likely to drop weight. Some initial sugar cravings early on probably delayed to weight loss.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    wellllll.....I was at like 180, and now I am very consistently at about 160.

  • @charliebacon3778

    @charliebacon3778

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that's about where I am lost 15 lbs since I quit a little over a month ago

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@charliebacon3778 you're getting RIPPED LOL

  • @SamEspen

    @SamEspen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Charlie Bacon! Hows it been going? Would love to hear from you and maybe see you in a livestream soon! 😄😄