It’s a trap to believe you need to be healed to be relationship with someone you love. People can heal and grow together.

@Chanargent

24 күн бұрын

Absolutely! This is specifically for those who have been stuck trying to manifest someone who is absent, from a state of limerence or desperation. This can have a negative impact on a person’s wellbeing if it becomes obsessive - I just want people to watch out for that :)

So ill admit i started this journey due to my breakup..however. it has become so much more than him. Ive learned about energy, im level 2 reiki certified, going for my yoga certification, learning about manifesting in general, black cat energy, self concept, im in therapy AND doing hypnosis. This is true healing and im learning how much i do offer and bring to the table. That i am worthy. I still want him by my side, but im happy to say it was never JUST ABOUT him. I love this ❤

@Chanargent

25 күн бұрын

Well said!

This resonates with me, I definitely experienced this already by the time I found your video. I was "trying" to manifest my SP but the right mindset kept eluding me, and so did he. Now I finally got into the right mindset, where I did the inner work, and I feel more stable and calm, and lo and behold my SP is texting me almost daily when before he would only remember I existed every couple of weeks. Also very important, for those who are anxious people pleasers: don't accept disrespect, block them and go NC if necessary, but don't do it to get a reaction out of them. Do it to work in yourself.

I've always forced myself to watch the videos of things I don't want to hear, even if it triggers me. And I AM completely burned out after almost 2 years of this. And I _have_ done massive amounts of breathwork, meditation, somatic stuff, guided meditations trying to "let go" in addition to loads of all the standard LoA "techniques". And I've gotten virtually nowhere. I feel like I'm just impervious to real, consistent, permanent change. Not just with SP stuff but all areas of life really. Career and parenting especially. It's like no matter how hard I try or how many times I have a few days or a week or 2 where it seems like something is finally shifting within me, I just plunge back into unbearable grief and depression.

@raheemdaley4866

27 күн бұрын

I feel you, you might have a nutrient deficiency try supplementing magnesium, iron and omega 3s. You might just not have the energy to maintain the change don’t give up

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

Always have compassion for yourself. Know that no emotion is 'better' or has more right to exist than another. Experiencing the full spectrum of emotion - from despair to joy - is what it means to be human. One of the best mindset shifts you can embody is to slowly start seeing negative emotions as guides rather than the enemy. They are always trying to teach you something that will be conducive to your growth. Things unfold exactly as and when they are meant to. Having faith in the ups and downs and not letting them define your being - this is the goal that all of us get to move toward at our own pace. Keep moving forward with courage knowing that it is all for you.

@ossellinifelder

27 күн бұрын

I too AM BURNT OUT!

@cliffordjohnson943

24 күн бұрын

Visualize things or experiences that bring you to a joyful state and use that as your reminder when you’re focused on something negative. Letting go is just getting rid of a belief that no longer serves you. You can instantly change your experiences when you don’t worry about the outside and let go of doubts and fears. That’s when the magic happens, when you change how you feel about yourself and allow life to work for you. You typically experience chaos before the change as a reminder of what you don’t prefer, like an echo, just allow the emotions to come through, because when you experience tears, especially after loss, that’s actually the releasing point of letting go. That’s why you always feel lighter after crying. I experienced an ego death before a kundalini awakening, and during the ego death all of my fears and doubts were materializing extremely fast before all that negative energy finally released one night and I experienced self actualization/Oneness or ascending the 3d. Love yourself, be who you prefer to be, your already fulfilled the Universe is just waiting for you to change how you feel about yourself. You exist for a reason and the Universe does not make mistakes, that’s how valuable your perspective and experiences are to all of existence! ❤

Great points made and you’re absolutely right. I’m there now and can see that it’s always been about my relationship with myself and how I see and love myself in relation to others/circumstances. Not needing my SP, yet leaving room for possibility of being with him AND also feeling okay with experiencing a beautiful relationship with someone else. The key is to feel worthy either way, needing nothing to be different in order to be self recognized and loved. Thank you for adding to this narrative on this platform in a world full of click bait. The MAGIC IS YOU! 🦋🦋🦋🦋

What’s interesting for me is when I’m doing techniques for sp it’s all about all the love I’m going to give to them. I can’t wait to give them all this love and appreciation It’s less about what they are going to do for me. I just feel amazing when I visualize because I visualize, yes the romance and all the support I get but it’s so much more me loving them and giving them affection and appreciation Abd I’ve been on a major healing journey personally And I would joke for the longest time “they can’t manifest yet I’m not ready!!!” 😂

I always say with or without my manifestaion im whole and complete.🥰 Thank you for reminding me.Everytime i visit my end i feel calm happy at peace.🥰I enjoy the present moment.

Love love love this!! I am right at the point where I know I do not need any specific person but sometimes I think I want to address my assumptions about them or me that made things not work . BUT the reminder to not be on a hamster wheel or let dopamine hits be a driving force is great b/c ego can easily start leading that way . I want to just be in the state of a happy secure person and let the universe take it from there

@Chanargent

20 күн бұрын

exactly, you have the right mindset - keep moving forward :)

This is the first video I have seen of yours and it resonates so much. All I really want now is to learn how to love myself unconditionally.

Ooooo I hit this sweet spot last night and you articulate it beautifully!!! The SP comes as a byproduct of is choosing ourselves

Ooh this hit differently ! Really good video and great points made. Intellectually I knew this, but this video made me understand on a more emotional level

There was definitely a turning point when I found this video.. I had already begun to realize this. But I started learning about the law in order to change my SP and along the way, I figured I was the one being changed. "No one to change but self" - Neville Our desires are there to evolve us and our life experience.. we already have everything within us, but we only realize that through certain events or people.. "People are only messengers telling you who YOU ARE" - Neville Finally I can make sense of his teachings lol. Thank you for your insight Chan, best wishes 💯✨️

I really can appreciate that information....Awesome content! 😊

Thank you for this message!

I love your approach so much. All those other coaches drove me insane and made me sooo obsessive, stuck and destroyed my mental health

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

It's a common experience in the community, that's why it is so important that we look out for ourselves, so that we can be a guiding light for other people 💜

This channel looks more serious then other’s on the same subject. Thanks for sharing your knowledge ❤

I feel like working on your self concept has also become click bait and it's not really that, it's more about the knowing that you're the one and more of a recognition of your worth etc... because you are everything

@Chanargent

26 күн бұрын

Knowing that you are one with everything and recognising your worth is the healthiest self-concept you can have! :)

best advice. well explained. game changer.

This video found me when I was ready to hear it 🙏🏽

Oh my gosh this confirms everything ive been feeling and telling myself. PERFECT!

Thany Joseph, for this truly amazing video. I loved your affirmation at the end of the video. ❤❤

Chan, I just found your channel a few days ago and thank you so much for your content 🙏🏼 You address the issues so clearly and from a spiritual perspective which is fantastic. Keep the amazing content coming 🙌🏼😊🔥

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

Thanks for the kind words. I also respect what you are doing connecting the worlds of art and personal growth / spirituality :)

Beautifully said

This landed in a very real, very different way. Never comment on anything, but people need to hear this!! I have been watching, reading, and practicing Loa for years, and this was the one area I couldn't understand why I struggled with so much.

I hit that point of frustration two days ago and was able to tap in to my unhealed aspect (in my case, my sexual worthiness and identity as a woman, which is systematically devalued and invalidated and disrespected in a Patriarchy) and I have been feeling a deep sense of inner peace and liberation since then. I still sense the echo of the old pattern in my brain and this video really helps me stay in alignment with my new and very important awareness of self-love and worth. Thank you for posting even though it might not be as palatable to most people.

I have been doing what you described for the past 3 years. It all makes sense. Thank you ❤

One of the best videos I've seen on this topic and I 100% agree. I've manifested things before thinking they would make me happy and over the years I've realised they wont. In time and with age I assume most people will also realise this is true. Thanks for sharing this 💜

@patrickeason7239

21 күн бұрын

I manifested my cat back that I missed badly for 3 years and he has been a nightmare to deal with.

This video came right on time. Thank you

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

You are so welcome!

Ur so spot on! ❤ 🎉

As a man and a potential friend. I can say yes, epic English rant..lol..thankfully also helpful. The hamster wheel is a good analogy. A wonderful, loving, self concept is prerequisite to manifest any lasting good relationship. All that being said, you think people would or should know if their path or relationship is genuine. The word Devine implies something above or beyond merely human experience. I actually took my nightly stroll in the middle of this video and seeing lightning and a storm coming I took it as omen of what I'm sensing....Divine connection 😊❤😊...Thanks for making the video.

Well said thank you 🎉

Thank you!! I really really needed to hear this. I have spent the last 3 days feeling so anxious about my relationships (friends and family) and about attracting my SP, just feeling so invisible, unloved and not chosen. And today i was just led to your video! I had to pause multiple times to soak in what you were saying. After what you said in this part - 13:01, I looked at my scripting letter and at the feelings i wrote down on how I want to feel in the desired state. I realised that I was hoping to just brainwash my subconscious into accepting them without figuring out what's blocking me from feeling them anyway. I'm going to figure that out now. Thank you again for the clarity! 💖

@Chanargent

21 күн бұрын

I am so glad this resonated. We can't bypass our subconscious beliefs - the only way out is through :) Whenever fear and doubt creep in, remember that the process is loving, and working for your greatest good.

Hey Chan, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?

Wow I get it ❤thanks ❤

Thankyou im now off the dope hit. I knew i needed to heal but it was only once i watched, that i discovered what. Even if i don't manifest my sp... im healing

Thank you so much. Can you please make a video on how to feel secure?

@Chanargent

21 күн бұрын

Absolutely - I will be diving into this very soon :)

I was just re-reading this chapter of the power of awareness, where neville describes a moth being drawn to a flame, and being burned by it/ becoming one with the flame. funny little coincidence to see this in the feed!

Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. It me. I am the sp person that I need to manifest. ❤

@Chanargent

21 күн бұрын

You are! :)

The one good thing about manifesting someone from my distant past (and I mean from 20+yrs ago), is that I've been living my life without him & have been perfectly fine. It's only in recent years I've learned of Neville and our ability to manifest. So, if it happens that would be great. And if it doesn't, I'm still good. ❤

Hi, I’m a little confused. Is it not about doing SATS for specific desires like Neville said? I see what you said about how manifestations can become conditional to whether you are feeling good or not, that opened up my mind. You said you can do it, but it now feels wrong to go to the “wish fulfilled” and enjoy the good feelings that come with having what I want in imagination because the feelings are still attached to the desire. I don’t do any technique desperately, in fact I’m so lazy with them, but I feel like I’m doing everything wrong now.

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

This advice will not apply to every person, I do not claim to know the unique mindset of every person who will see this video. The beautiful thing is that it’s not about what I think - only you are experiencing your consciousness. You get to ask yourself if you are okay within your own frame of being. If you truly are coming from a place of fulfilment, in which you would simply prefer the desire but you are not needing it to ‘fix’ something within you, then working techniques into your life in a healthy way is great. It is when they become an obsession, or when getting into the state of the ‘wish fulfilled’ becomes a way to escape your current reality - that is when we are operating from a place of lack and limerence. You know yourself and you know if you are ‘using’ manifestation as an emotional crutch, or if you are being a healthy, conscious manifestor. I am of the belief that people can manifest anything - but I also know that when it comes to ‘specific people’, a large percentage of the manifestation community are not yet in the right place within themselves to use the law of assumption effectively without hurting themselves further. This applies to those who are stuck in the phase of limerence, lack, desperation and fear. You get to ask yourself if you are in a peaceful mindset and if the process is serving you- only you can know that. The best teacher will not be found on the internet - the single best teacher you will ever have is your own intuition 🙏🏻 hope this helps

@elicrodriguez

27 күн бұрын

@@Chanargent thank you very much for the long reply!

I won’t lie. I was one of the ones that wanted to clock off but I stayed nonetheless and I have to say yes… I’m desperate and I submit and agree. I am in full agreement. I am looking to love me and find me. Take my power back. It was never about him. SHIT!!! NOW WHAT?! Welp real self love here we come. And not the spa self love. The internal heal my mommy and daddy issues go to therapy self love ❤ THANK YOU FOR SHARING AND GOING AGAINST POPULAR BELIEF

@Chanargent

26 күн бұрын

Makes me happy to hear that you’ve had a significant shift! You’ve got this…

I am manifesting an sp but it’s now gone more than that I realised I was in ‘survivor mode’ looking for danger seeing negatives in neutral situations, I realised I really had to ‘die to the old man’ to truly be happy ‘nothing to change but self’ this ‘break’ made me realise I had a fear of intimacy and also commitment which I have now released it was never then doing things to me it was me choosing that reflection! I still intend and know I’ll manifest my sp but today I really asked myself if this is what I wanted and I came to the conclusion yes it is him I want but I also want to grow as a person and no longer allow things to happen to me! And I am choosing that sp as he is what I want in a person! But the real change I’ve come to realise is within myself. Does that make sense?

@Bebobo444

27 күн бұрын

My relationships have always reflected my fears but I realise now it is me that has chosen them, and I can choose to see the world through a different lense I clicked as I felt like you would reflect what I’m feeling I think to manifest sp you need to actually see that you’ve created these negative patterns in these people but also have the power to choose something better

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

Kudos for having the awareness to see your own patterns and start to address them. Exactly right - You heal the collective when you heal yourself :)

I agree with everything that you said. How can you love someone if you can't even love yourself? Better yet, ask yourself, if you would be with someone like yourself. If the answer is no, then why would anyone else? And if the answer is no, ask yourself what it is about yourself that would make you not want to be with someone like yourself? Once you've analyzed yourself honestly, switch it around and try to think and imagine what the greatest version of the greatest version of you be, look and act like. Once you've created that version in your mind, make every decision for yourself moving forward, asking yourself "what would the greatest version of me choose?" And then choose that and when you make choices and act as if you ARE that person, then wouldn't it be reasonable to think, say and believe that you actually ARE that person? And if you are that person and love that person, wouldn't it be safe to think that others will love that person as much as you do? Thought. Word. Action. Think it. Speak it. Do it. Everything else will follow. But it starts in your mind and your thoughts and self perception first. The beautiful thing about that is that nothing is stopping you from choosing to think, speak and become that except you. Love, Peace, and Chicken Grease! ❤️✌🏾🍗

@Chanargent

25 күн бұрын

Amen!

I wrote down affirmations about my sp and burned them as this sort of ritual and a moth flew into the flame 😳 so your thumbnail was such an odd coincidence

@Britbrat31172

19 күн бұрын

Crazy, I’ve been wondering what it means and the universe definitely delivered

@Chanargent

18 күн бұрын

Love this! Synchronicity :)

Anyone ever manifested person that wasn’t interested in a relationship with you?

I'll marry myself❤

i got to a point where i’m best friends with Sp and evolving into a relationship, i have been realizing this too. Just journey to myself is the best thing i could have probably done lol. I’ve noticed a very strong mirror effect like a parallel life with him and now i’m like i don’t want that for me, or for him, bc Im confused about all this esoteric stuff that i created that story, even of other ppl😢. That’s also a worry of mine.

@Chanargent

21 күн бұрын

if you are always manifesting for your greatest good, you are also manifesting the greatest good for others :)

❤❤❤❤

Living in the end all we can do.

Your not addressing the other piece of seeing the person as their higher self

Soul's contracts trumped human's desires. In our soon to change, for soul's growth lessons karmic cycle, virtually all human's manifestations are only for lessons. Our upcoming new cosmic's cycle, no more lessons, desired manifestation will be instantaneous.

🤔 I was attracted to a man on an energetic level and honestly thought he was a single man. Then I started dreaming about him and wanting to manifest him only to learn he had a wife who is not present very often so what about when there is an energetic pull? I don’t think that it came from insecurity at all in fact I’m in a high vibrational state after doing so much shadow work … so what about those situations? 😅

❤️

Yeah, I have been bullshitting myself. At the end of the day, my only *real* desire is for non-existence. The Void. Everything else, whether it's in a state of fulfillment or jouissance, is trivial distraction. Nothing beats Nothing.

This is brilliant and so accurate. It's exactly what I've been beginning to feel and I've only been doing this for a month. So far I've manifested £300 and the wrong ex back 😂 so now my mind has gone to exactly what you're saying. Love this ❤

Someone please respond. I have a doubt. I was being friendly with a girl at the start of Jan . I didn't had any intention of a relationship with her.I needed her to be a close friend of mine. So I took care of her whenever I could like buying medicine, chocolate etc. I didn't wanted a relationship but after 2 month she started avoiding me.That made me anxious like I haven't done anything wrong and she blocked me.I asked her what happened. She didn't responded with a clear answer. Then I started manifesting her with affirmation and Visualization etc. Still the same character she is showing. She has a friend who is a boy here. Can I manifest her as my bestfriend again??

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

If you are still in a state of anxiety over someone, it is not the best time to use manifestation. Because you cannot manifest effectively if the motivation for your desire is fear-based. Focus first of all on feeling better within your own skin :) Remember that if other people treat you unfavourably - you don't have to make that mean anything about you as a person. Get clear on your own value and what you are willing to accept from people - embody that energy. This is the first step and the most important one.

@Carboxylic2

27 күн бұрын

@@Chanargent am I able to manifest mam??

If you can help convince people that they have access to desirable options that would be helpful.

@Chanargent

27 күн бұрын

I recognise your mindset because mine was similar for a while. I felt as though no one lived up to my expectations and that there were no 'good ones' out there. Then I realised that the answer was right there in front of me. I was living in a lack mindset, convinced that there were no decent options. This is a limiting belief about love and relationships that I was giving energy to. Recognising that you hold certain beliefs is the first step to clearing them. Remember, in this community we are operating under the assumption that the 3d reflects your internal state, not the other way around. Limiting beliefs can be pesky and hard to see - I uncover new ones within myself all the time. It is a process. The first step is to make the commitment to yourself - to be entirely loving and honest with yourself about what you want, and why you think you 'can't' have it. The past has NO bearing on your present self. In reality, being single for however long says absolutely nothing about what could happen to you today or any other day from now 🙏

True 👍🏻 You can't manifest whichbis Not spiritually yours from Ego