This is not funny. This is how situations like the Shanquella Robinson case happened. This little girl is a hater and the jealousy is evident.

@TimeWithCJ

Жыл бұрын

Exaaaaactly!!

@Cantetinza17

Жыл бұрын

Preach.

@tracydacy

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@habeebahs.2956

Жыл бұрын

Right! What's going on with that case anyways?

@makeupunlimited

Жыл бұрын

@@habeebahs.2956 no. feds won't press any charges, "insufficient evidence"or some mess. Parents I guess are still fighting though

A jealous friend is the most dangerous person you can associate with.

@younglaster

Жыл бұрын

A jealous friend is an oxymoron. Friends wanna see you fly, not fail.

@literally8647

Жыл бұрын

That's why I don't have any. I can't be myself without people thinking I'm seeking attention.

@TheAvaExperience

Жыл бұрын

Big facts

@nreynolds75243

Жыл бұрын

That's not a friend.

@mafalda2k

Жыл бұрын

Don’t forget a jealous relative. That might be even more dangerous.

Had something like this happen to me when I was like 12... 2 girls purposely embarrassed me... Went home crying. My mom hugged me and told me they're not real friends. They showed up to my house and apologized. I said "I can forgive you guys"... Then my mom jumped in and said "but she doesn't forget and neither do I, I'm not done with you 2 but we're done for now!" And slammed the door in their faces! Very grateful for that lesson 30 years later ❤

@tammygarrett8427

11 ай бұрын

you have a good mother

My "friend" met my husband and kids for the first time and was smitten by him. A few weeks after meeting him, she asked me to borrow money. When I let her know that I'd have to talk it over with him, she said that she'd talk to him for me. I don't know what she thought she was going to say to him that I couldn't. I kept my cool and didn't ask her if she'd lost her mind. Needless to say that I pulled the plug on that "friendship".

@laketac

Жыл бұрын

Tell her to come outside...we just wanna TALK😂 she was doin the MOST & I'm glad you did what you had to do. I thought this WHOLE story was finna take a turn😳

@NaturallyLluvme

Жыл бұрын

@@laketacHaha!🤣 I know, right? I've had to learn to be discerning with these "friends" and now have acquaintances.

@saramatthews7159

Жыл бұрын

Hold up...she said SHE would talk to your husband? Yeah dump her immediately.

@laketac

Жыл бұрын

@@saramatthews7159 Audacious than a mf😄

@NaturallyLluvme

Жыл бұрын

@@saramatthews7159 I did. She hung on for dear life, but I don't go backward.

True story. Humiliation is not love. It’s obvious the one who took the wig off is immature but Honey she got the right one. The was a blessing and a lesson in disguise. She showed her true self

@lisawiggins4670

Жыл бұрын

They show your True color..

@joannapowellchestnut6679

Жыл бұрын

Say 👏🏽 that 👏🏽

@Legacy_125

Жыл бұрын

So what did she do with her “friends” wig? Did she just stand there holding the wig, continuing to fake laugh?

@sylviabrown9819

10 ай бұрын

Whew Chile.....ain't that the truth! Somebody would have been BRUISED~

Don’t go to Mexico with that girl.

@dorianneutral1787

Жыл бұрын

Or Miami!!

@plgp1852

Жыл бұрын

Or Dubaï 😅

@timafiggy

Жыл бұрын

I would have left her at the airport going.

@mars.5811

Жыл бұрын

Not even funny. If that girl did this in front of everyone, imagine in private. She wouldn't make it back.

@TCt83067695

Жыл бұрын

Daaamn you went there lol

You can tell she was standing there gathering her composure before she reacted…no ma’am, that’s not your friend. A real friend wants to see you shine ✨

This is what being bullied looks like. If you noticed, the girl who's wig was snatched off, did not defend herself. She's most likely the one everyone picks on and it's really heart breaking that this type of behavior goes on in the Black community a lot. I can speak on this because, I am Black. That probably was not her friend at all, but a bully. I HATE bullies.

@vetgirl71

Жыл бұрын

Bullying 😢happens with every race, not just blacks! 🙄 Bullies are not just kids either, we have bullies in our families and at work! They are everywhere!

@michelletalbot2281

Жыл бұрын

Being black has nothing to do with it..why are we so obsessed with skin color and have to insert it into every dilema and situation? 🙄 the girl who wig was snatched off-publically- was shamed on a large scale. The girl whp snatched the wig is an immature awful cretin looking for attention.....the amount of melanin either person has has no bearing on this. Bullying is bullying regardless of race and ur just downplaying the severity of it by making it about skin color than the facts

@loveyb9090

Жыл бұрын

@@michelletalbot2281 bc thats what blk ppl do ding dong

@terejosh13

Жыл бұрын

you cannot speak on it because you are black you can only speak to your experience and it's a opinion seems like you have some WS tendencies and need to educate yourself and maybe therapy

@preciousblackstone5051

Жыл бұрын

@@vetgirl71 It is true, bullies exist everywhere but I am Black and am very concerned about our community and I have seen things done like this in our communities for a very long time. We have to be and do better as a people group.

🥺 Thank you God this girl had a full head of hair. What if she had alopecia, spots of hair loss, or another condition, which forces some of us to wear a wig. Can you imagine the hurt and embarrassment this person could have felt. Be mindful of the people you allow in your company…. directly or indirectly.

@michelletalbot2281

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately thats probably why the other girl thought it was acceptable and even funny to do it..knowing the young lady with the wig doesnt seem to have a condition that would physically necesitate wearing the wig..not saying its ok but in a immature brain she probably didnt think it s harmful to do this because from what she knows or can see the young miss just wears the wig cause she prefers to and likes it..sad thing is she did that while sporting horse hair herself and the other girl as u stated looks to have a full head of hair simply braided down.

@cassandramuthleb2486

Жыл бұрын

I would bet that the one who snatched the wig thought her natural hair would be a hot mess. Unfortunately for her, that young lady had a beautiful hairstyle under the wig. I wonder what would happen if the shoe was on the other foot and her wig got snatched… I will say this, as someone who used to wear wigs and ponytails, one time at a party, I was dancing with a group and we were having a blast. I didn’t realize my ponytail was loose until it was in the middle of the circle. In an instant, the music went real low, most people stopped dancing and were looking at me. I kept dancing, started laughing, picked up the ponytail, swung it in the air while yelling turn the beat back up! It’s like everyone at the party was holding their breaths for those few moments and then burst out laughing. The music went back up and we all had a good time. My bestie came to me after I had gone to the restroom to make absolutely sure I was ok. (That’s what a real friend does.) I told her; I was; it’s my fault for not bobby-pinning my pony in better and I wasn’t going to ruin someone else’s party over something so ridiculous. We partied for a while more. It was an awesome night!

@alana4988

11 ай бұрын

Exactly 💔

@tatianarizktaylor1818

11 ай бұрын

I agree. That’s just nasty ugly behaviour. Never ever pull somebody’s wig or hairpiece off, that person may have health issues as you said

@Tiffany_3x

11 ай бұрын

@@cassandramuthleb2486 You are my hero!!! 😂 I don't mean to laugh but you handled that like a champ!! (NOT the DJ turned the music down!! 😭😂) I LOVE pony tails (bc Idk how to do hair), but THAT is my worse nightmare that I didn't install it secure enough!! 🤭

🤦🏾‍♀️A true friend would never. Jealousy and envy are worse than hate.

@NN-re7cy

Жыл бұрын

The Bible says just that: Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy? ~Proverbs 27:4

@dyoung2739

Жыл бұрын

@@NN-re7cy Thanks for that scripture❤️.

@pamelabrown3058

Жыл бұрын

A jealous spirit is aka a murderer 😐

@Kingofthenet2

Жыл бұрын

@@NN-re7cythanks for reminding us ❤

@Kingofthenet2

Жыл бұрын

Truer words haven’t been spoken on this ❤

My cousin’s 11 year old daughter pulled another kid’s wig off and she(adult) thought it was funny and didn’t warrant expulsion from school. After speaking to the principal-the little girl has cancer (another black girl)-Anyway, I don’t wear wigs and I have never experienced wearing one-but I think it is the equivalent to pulling down your pants. Please stop hurting one another for laughs-it’s not worth the pain that’s left when the laughing stops. This is not the way a a real friend should behave.

@kathynicholson103

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. My sister and niece have alopecia and have both worn wigs at times. To me, snatching off someone's wig is like ripping off an article of clothing- which is assault

@k4nd1incyb3rsp4c3

11 ай бұрын

it can legally be classified as assault. if you make a mistake and that's their real hair or their wig is glued down really well, you'll end up really hurting them.

@user-wb5ut1ss8i

11 ай бұрын

That was NOT funny at all! Even if the girl hadn't had cancer, my mama would have twisted my face with the biggest slap for touching other people in that way! THEN she would've taken me to school to apologize to that girl in a public setting. THEN she would have beat my ass in front of my class. THEN she would ask them to put me on some type of school punishment (and I would have been grounded until she felt the point was made). If she didn't tolerate anyone hurting or embarrasing us....she definitely didn't tolerate us acting the fool and embarrasing her or others.

@ibabechanel

9 ай бұрын

What happened to the 11yr old girl ?

A lady i had befriended met my hubby. (Boyfriend at the time). She asked can she have him once i finish with him. I looked at her upside her head and said heck naw. She then proceeded to tell me " you better be glad we sisters and not just friends because I'd just have to have him behind your back and that what it just is." I thanked her for showing who she really was. I cut her tf off. Her life went all the way down hill after that. She begged me to be her friend. I think not. I wish i would! I'd slap my own self.

@roaroa5291

11 ай бұрын

Wow, that was really nasty! The audacity on top of it all.

@Interstellar.1

11 ай бұрын

Wtf?!

Haters try to embarrass you and make you look bad!

@hebrewmama

Жыл бұрын

And end up looking stupid cuz that girl had a full head of hair under there

@charlenesaunders2632

Жыл бұрын

Speak the truth!

@TheQuizCafe

Жыл бұрын

That’s the truth

@KatzScratch

Жыл бұрын

Not only should the woman who was her target unfriend her, every witness is now forewarned.

@kallieuil5297

Жыл бұрын

In order to look better.

Shame on the girl who did it. Shame on the one who recorded it because this was clearly planned. Shame on the one who posted it to social media to display this shameful act. Shame on the girls that laughed not only because it was despicable act but because their was young men present. Therefore their should have been some sisterhood going on. Shame

@lcam9241

Жыл бұрын

👍🏽👍🏽

@BooDotBoo

Жыл бұрын

Yep, I doubt any of those people were really her friends. She better be careful.

@shirleyhampton702

Жыл бұрын

Even though it was a humiliating thing this swamp creature did. I'm glad it was recorded because everyone that sees it hopefully will Not befriend the snatcher nor the recorder and shun them...

@Grace2shar

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@user-kpkxgtj

Жыл бұрын

Ooh, you're so right. That girl is surrounded by vultures, she needs some new friends.

Damn, I can't believe these wanna be mean girls are still doing these petty s*it. I remember my junior year in high school (2007), this one freshman girl had her period mess her jeans, so she had a hoodie wrapped around her waist. Her so-called friend pulled the hoodie from around her in the lunch room when they were passing by the boys table and started laughing while carrying the hoodie with her. None of us guys thought it was funny. We all got up to help the poor girl. One of my friends ran after her and took the hoodie from her..some seniors girls came over and took her to the bathroom and one offered to gave her her gym pants. I have 5 sisters, so that made me really mad that another girl would embarrass her friend like that just for fun... I have 4 kids (2) girls. One of my fear is that my girls will befriend these type of mean girls...

My sister has a group of college girlfriends that have a girls' weekend every 2 years. My sister has Alopecia, and one of the years she was completely bald, wearing a wig. They were at a small club, on the dance floor. A drunk jerk of a male keep sneaking up behind my sister, trying to snatch her wig off. Suddenly, the girls formed a tight circle, backs together, my sister in the middle. They shuffled the circle over to the jerk, and starting spinning it. One by one, they threw their drinks at him, saying things like, "Does it make you feel like a big man to embarrass a woman?", and, "You must have a really small pecker to have to compensate like that." Everyone began to laugh, and he stormed out of the bar. I don't know if he learned a lesson, but everyone in the club learned about real " Girl Power" that day!

@TamaraGarrettAlpha

5 ай бұрын

💯👏👏👏

@lazorajones7748

3 ай бұрын

YESSSSSS! Sisterhood. Doing the sisterly thing. Proud of y'all❤

I noticed in that little snippet that the other girl around wasn't amused. She didn't laugh. She side-eyed her. The guys seemed shocked to finding it funny. That girl is not her friend. She was way too amused by what she did. That's why she took off running. One thing I've learned and have been trying to teach my child and nieces and nephews, beware anyone who is constantly trying to humble you.

@kamwilliams5541

Жыл бұрын

And I bet you the $5 in my purse she did it to be cute in front of those pissy lil boys….

@BarbaraKibira

Жыл бұрын

That’s a good point but I have a story for you. I’m from the UK and we have a tv presenting duo called Ant and Dec (think Kenan and Kel). Now when they were young they used to bully each other without mercy, so one day their mothers forced them at age 10 years have a play date. They’ve been best friends ever since they even now host Britain got talent. Sometimes this type of behaviour is hidden admiration.

@Nara26177

Жыл бұрын

“Beware of anyone who is constantly trying to humble you” that part !!!

@herboringblog935

Жыл бұрын

@@Nara26177yep! That got me too. ❤

@jaelenrandolph2030

Жыл бұрын

@@BarbaraKibirafuck that shit. Sounds like suburban people who will have to see each other often so they made due with the enemy by befriending them. That energy doesn’t go away if it’s admiration. Only time tells

That girl that snatched her wig off is a low-down dirty shame. She's a terrible human being. Who can ever trust her again ever.

@Mandy-dw9wm

Жыл бұрын

I would have started swinging because clearly she lost her mind

@sheneyquamercan1699

Жыл бұрын

​ikr

@jinb6242

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, that wig snatcher would have learned a valuable lesson that day

@amarisimpson1506

Жыл бұрын

look like the snatcher has a wig on too...the nerve 🙄

@LA_HA

Жыл бұрын

​@@amarisimpson1506Which makes it possible this is a payback situation. We don't know if the other girl did this to her and she's now returning the favor. We don't know about the situation and everyone is calling the first girl all kinds of names. This is how the worst mistakes of harming others happens -- little to no information, but Acting as Though we know everything. This isn't a good thing

My “friend” gave my name and phone number to some boys that she wasn’t interested in because she was mad at me for accepting an invite to another friend’s birthday sleepover. They started calling my house and I got in trouble because my parents thought I was lying about not knowing these boys. I still regarded her as my best friend because we had known each other for so long but with time and maturity I realized it’s not the length of time but the quality of the friendship.

@crishnaholmes7730

Жыл бұрын

Did you stop contact with her

@janneke82

Жыл бұрын

@@crishnaholmes7730 yes. once we became adults I found out she was still the same person so we don’t keep in contact. We do have mutual friends and if I see her I’m cordial but I keep it moving.

@GenXWitch67

11 ай бұрын

Same, someone posted my name and phone number in a men’s bathroom. Probably some dude who knew me but I rejected romantically. Dudes were calling my house, telling my dad they had already “been with me” and etc. 😢

@janneke82

11 ай бұрын

@@GenXWitch67 man ppl can be so terrible 😢

@ibabechanel

9 ай бұрын

you're suffering from sunk cost fallacy. Knowing someone for a length means nothing if they're trying to hurt you.

“A true friend is not going to embarrass you.” Point blank period 💯

It’s one thing to have friends where you can tease and roast each other for some laughs as long as you understand each other’s humor and boundaries. But it’s another thing to have someone who takes unprovoked jabs at you as if they’re projecting their personal issues onto you to bring you down to their level. That is absolutely not a friend worth keeping around for long.

@rhoyalty1

Жыл бұрын

Go ahead and do your TED talk cause this is the point!

@mekakoop9777

Жыл бұрын

💯

@jodyjojo1381

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@NN-re7cy

Жыл бұрын

🎯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@BubbaMaraj7241

Жыл бұрын

🗣️🗣️🗣️

These so called friends beating you to death, pushing you out cars and leaving you for dead, now snatching wigs off..... this is why I'm a loner.

The crowd looked shocked but not necessarily laughing. They knew it was wrong. I think that’s why bad “friend” moved away. She knew it didn’t land the way she thought it would. I think she damaged herself with this move.

@laketac

Жыл бұрын

GOODT. I'm SO mad for baby girl. Maybe they need to review some definitions of friends.

@daniellebenson10

Жыл бұрын

I agree. And i stand by the fact that honey was finna whoop dat azz

@lkofie6670

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY... YES I got that impression too.

I was part of a friend group like this throughout my 20s, I left them and didn't look back. They used to act like I was the problem in the group but once I left, they turned on each other and within a few years they weren't talking anymore.

When are we going to learn that some people that keep us close may see us more as an enemy than a friend!

@shelocsher2396

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Some ppl want to be close to you just to watch your life. Whole time they’re envious, and hoping to see you fail.

@delana2842

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@sheelfjohnson

Жыл бұрын

This is so true - I had this woman who really glommed onto me to be friends, but then was always saying things behind my back. A grown (old) woman! 😂

@trohnb8104

Жыл бұрын

FACT!

@urmamasmamasmama

Жыл бұрын

YES!!!

Is she calling the police, because she's about to go to jail for beating the girl's azz?

I have always had dark knees and one day my friend and I were together and I decided to put makeup on my knees to try and cover the darkness because we were going to a game and we were both wearing shorts. When we got to the game she waited until we were in front of a lot of other people and she told them I had makeup on my knees and everyone started laughing and so did she. I was so hurt and confused and I went home and told my mom what happened and she told me that this girl is not your friend and mom disliked her from that day on, I was about 17 or 18 when this happened and I am 63 years old now and have never forgot how that made me feel.

I was struggling with having a hysterectomy at 30. I didn’t want anymore kids but not wanting and not being able to was hard for me. We were out at a bar with others and I said I didn’t want anymore alcohol so I was switching over to soda. She said “oh I forgot she’s empty inside.” It was like a physical pain. She blame it on the alcohol but it was because one of the guys was interested in me.

@dollsbymontq2446

Жыл бұрын

Oh so sorry, as we know alcohol activates folks true feelings!

@1indefinitetruth

11 ай бұрын

my lord....sis I'm sorry u even had to hear/feel that, I hope that relationship is over 💞

I’ve always believed in and repeated it to my sons”Everybody that says they’re your Friend is Not Your Friend…..and that goes for Family Tool

@lilitharam44

Жыл бұрын

And DNA does not make a family, that's just people you related to.

@MakeWay4CJ

Жыл бұрын

Wow.

@delana2842

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@cringeopedia

Жыл бұрын

@@lilitharam44RIGHT!!

She's actually JEALOUS of her, she actually POSSESS something she cnt & wnt ever have... leave her where she stands

Learn to recognize enemies guise as friends. Never forget Shanquella. RIP

I feel like I'm always explaining to my daughter how people she thinks are her friends are not. She once told me her "friend" couldn't give her her phone number because she can only give her number out to 10 people.😑 My motto is one or 2 good friends is better than 20 friends you aren't sure about.

@shamelcutkelvin8807

Жыл бұрын

I teach my kids the same thing.

Public humiliation does NOT = Friendship!! #Facts AND........ that's the text to my sisters & cousins to expect a phone call & hit the ATM(s) EXPEDITIOUSLY!!

@DrLadyBugM

Жыл бұрын

Because I'm not sure if you are going to need a little or a lot but we are going to need something!!! You think I got my Cleo braids, once I set it off there will be no questions.

@pigalottafattenton5003

Жыл бұрын

That bail money would be needed!

@deedeea9859

Жыл бұрын

​@@DrLadyBugM😂😂

She would have been rolled up in a ball. Real friends don't play those games.

@moviegurl7420

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂@ rolled up in ball… say it louder

@ginab7982

Жыл бұрын

😂Like a water bug😂

@kamwilliams5541

Жыл бұрын

Folded up like a chicken wing

@ampmri2434

Жыл бұрын

Yup, folded up like a napkin on a dinner table.

The girl that snatched the wig off don't realize how much danger she put herself in. Silence is dangerous.

I had a “friend” who strolled into work with a very expensive and unnecessary bag. The purpose of this $600 bag was to hold her lunch bag and drinks. I complimented her on the bag. She told me maybe one day I could afford it loud enough for others to hear. I was done. She is always borrowing lunch money and doesn’t pay it back. She charged that bag and will make the minimum payment. Broke ass.

@sexyalleycat

Жыл бұрын

I am a luxury bag collector and I would never in my life fix my mouth to say that to someone. What a douchebag, I am sorry dear. At least you know who to stay away from, smh 😒

That’s embarrassing! Thankfully her hair was neatly cornrowed underneath the wig. Could you imagine if she was bald or was having a really bad hair day? But this was really inappropriate and outrageous of the other girl who may not have been a friend to begin with. This may have been classic bullying.

My "friend" would've got drop kicked

The whole group are bullies because they all knew it was coming and were in on it for a laugh. Someone had the camera rolling and most people were standing behind her to see the action. That was ASSAULT!! And there’s no other way to put it. What if they had snatched her edges off because of glue or clips. The victim was not amused. She texted on her phone to comfort her disapproval to give herself time to process and then react. This is Mean Girls level antics. I hope she distances herself from them before she really gets hurt.

I had a friend who I always had vibes that didnt like me and was using me as a replacement friend for someone who left. I even asked her one day, like do you even like me and she SNAPPED at me, and saying she wouldnt be hanging with me if she didnt like me. But she never listened to me and never engaged in what i shared. Then one year my husband and I did new years with her, and he told me it felt like she was waiting for cooler people to show up due to how she was interacting with us. And then i was like, man i knew i wasnt crazy. 😭

At least sis had a full head of beautiful hair beneath.

Its actually a friend of a friend that was mean to me just prefix I'm 4'11", and a plus size hour glass girl. We were out at a bar and some guys that she knew walked up to us. We were all talking having a good time. I take it the guy she liked was talking and laughing with me too long. We exchanged numbers not for a date, but to hang out, we had things in common. The next day. She brings up that she saw us Exchange numbers. I said, "Yeah, we're gonna go to the museum to see the King Tut exhibit." She said, "Yeah, he told me that he liked you because you're simple and he doesn't have to worry about other dudes trying to steal you." I knew that was a lie cause, what heifer didn't know is that homie was gay! 😝

@shennaw7

Жыл бұрын

@Cantetinza17...I might've had a little fun with that one at her expense 😂😂😂😂 #LastLaugh #JokesOnHer

@ladytrue1154

Жыл бұрын

“Oh, you wanted a twist?” Love it. Serves her right.😂

@Cantetinza17

Жыл бұрын

@@shennaw7 I just stayed silent and let her show her ass.

@Cantetinza17

Жыл бұрын

@@ladytrue1154 I agree.

@sexyalleycat

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🤭

My parents always told us “be careful who you call a friend. Everybody isn’t your friend.” They can be an acquaintance, buddy, classmate, neighbor, but everybody isn’t your friend. That word means something.

Keep pointing out how “this is not your friend”, or “he doesn’t really love you” because some of us have never been taught those things.

I can’t believe she snatched her hair like that! In front of MEN!!! That hurt my soul. 😢 But as always, you’re commentary makes me feel better. 😅 And I have so many friend betrayals that I can’t even remember. 😂

@nonya8193

Жыл бұрын

Those are boys not men but I agree with you smdh sad part is that's most likely WHY she did it! 😔

@colorfulthinker

Жыл бұрын

@@nonya8193 You're absolutely correct!

@shennaw7

Жыл бұрын

​@@colorfulthinkerWatch Your Surroundings & Every one who says "Friend" is NOT your friend 💯 I tell this to all young people & What I use myself

@ravenwillis

Жыл бұрын

She was probably a pickmeshia.

@BooDotBoo

Жыл бұрын

When women embarrass you in front of other women, they're just mean, but when women embarrass you in front of men, they tend to see you as competition and are hoping to make you seem less to those men. A woman who sees you as competition is NEVER a friend.

She would've known right there that our so called one side friendship was over, when she woke up in the ER. Unfriended in REAL LIFE 😂

@Tiffany_3x

11 ай бұрын

🤭NOT the ER!?! 😂😭😂

If I was humiliated like that, I would brace myself and say ok. Thank you Father for showing me who she really is.

can we just take a moment and be happy for EJ at the joy she takes when she realizes she ain’t got no coworkers to deal with 🤣🤣🤣

@deborahcarr6536

Жыл бұрын

I celebrate her cause it feels soooo good to be retired!!

@gensai93

Жыл бұрын

Lol

....she is the embodiment of "dont let em see you sweat" She kept textin and paid the hater dust. However, Hateisha got one-mo-gin' before ol girl haul off and whoop her ass, like its never been whooped 💯

That’s not a friend. And judging by the reactions, I’m gonna assume this person has a history of these antics. Remember, there’s always a little truth in “just kidding”

@BooDotBoo

Жыл бұрын

There's always a bit of truth behind jokes.

I don't think this is even a "friend", what I saw was a bully who planned to publically humiliate her victim. The girl in question did not even acknowledge what had happened to her and I feel this was probably out of fear. This hurt my heart.

More than one person showed their ass that day! I didn't see anyone stepping in to help or defend her. She may be embarrassed, but she was just blessed with some knowledge about who her enemies are.

That’s not her friend and neither is the cameraman. That was set up. 😡

@amokay746

Жыл бұрын

Forreal, I didn't even think of the camerawoman. Both of them need to be cut out.

@BooDotBoo

Жыл бұрын

@@amokay746 Yep, that friend and whoever was behind the camera knew what was going to happen. You don't have your camera ready for something spontaneous. Hopefully, this was some skit they were all part of, but it doesn't really look like it.

@veriettadarrabie9355

Жыл бұрын

YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT THE CAMERAPERSON!!

That was NOT her friend! We 🦶🥊🥊🥊🥊✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿 ! No ma’am! Don’t do me like that!

@colorfulthinker

Жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅 K.O. !

@blackbutterfly8338

Жыл бұрын

Girl, that’s an “all-my-life-I’ve-had-to-fight” moment. That’s not a friend, for sure.

Real friends don't make you the butt of jokes...

One thing I have _never_ done, nor will _ever_ do, is humiliate someone or say something said in confidence in a moment of anger. Never. It’s probably why I have fewer friends than fingers on one hand. And I’m fine with that.

That poor victim froze. Ashamed. Overwhelmed. Hurt.

EJ, I appreciate you playing the video just once. This young lady already faced enough embarrassment at the hands of her shamefully juvenile peer.

This reminds me of the females in my family, and I was always told that's family no matter what and they love me (toxic much?!). So naturally I thought females like that were friends, until I unlearned that. I definitely don't trust or keep anyone around that posses that type of energy at all🧿💜

@younglaster

Жыл бұрын

As I had to tell ppp, "if being fam didn't stop them from committing their offense, then it won't stop me from adjusting my defense."

@shamelcutkelvin8807

Жыл бұрын

They are relative not “family “

@lyricsornah9882

Жыл бұрын

Same being mistreated at home makes you feel like it’s normal so you don’t set boundaries.

@trladams78

Жыл бұрын

@@lyricsornah9882 I get the feeling of, "that's all we were taught/knew!" What I don't agree with is the mindset of, "well why change, and this is what was done to me, and the way it was so...🫤"

Mama used to tell me who won’t (weren’t) my friends and she was RIGHT about ALLUM 😂

There is not enough time, space, nor innanet for what "friends" have done to me

@m.coleman

Жыл бұрын

Whew! Say it again, sis! They are "friENDs", no more! ✌🏾

@user-rl2ko7io2k

Жыл бұрын

Who you telling!! I could write books and they would be best sellers on how so called friends have done me!!

@Itsalwaysbeenaboutme1844

Жыл бұрын

Girl!!!🎯

A real friend would never

Laughing when someone falls is one thing. Setting you up TO FALL and laughing is another.

Not her friend. She ignored it by staying on her phone. The snatcher wanted others to laugh at her. Definitely cut her off. Also I was the friend who cracks jokes a lot. But what I learned is what I thought was light hearted roasting really hurt a friends feelings. I immediately stopped once I knew even though she was laughing too she was hurting on the inside.

Hmmmmm, from my observations, toxic friendships are the norm😢

@velvetrose7729

Жыл бұрын

We gotta remember They out here doing Anything for Clicks and Likes....Po Chirren! But for ME......Ain't NONE of them people Her Friends and cause I'm Gen X......If you did that, to MY Friend......WE Fighting! Not right Now, Right now.....cause it look like they on a Field Trip.....but later on, Behind the School.......where the teachers can't see.....and before the last Bus runs.... Cause We trying to Squash some Beef.....Like Adults..... Not trying to get Suspended or Expelled......Which meant We would have to Call our MOMS!!!

@BooDotBoo

Жыл бұрын

They are, but only if you let them be. A lot of us hold onto toxic people and bad friends just to have a friend. It's the same thing with dating, you don't hold onto someone who would do you wrong just to have someone. If those people keep getting left, they have no choice, but to reflect... but people keep giving people a hundred chances. You do one out of pocket thing to me, we are done. I learned my lesson on that long ago.

@michellepittman7886

Жыл бұрын

If your observations are mostly limited to social media. I have never observed friendships like this in real life.

@tanisha.r.thomas

Жыл бұрын

All these teenagers are emotionally damaging just for likes

The text is her finishing her business before she lets that little girl know it's on sight from now on. I would MORE afraid of someone who texting before they reacted. The level of control . . . .☹

@latoyamoore642

Жыл бұрын

Cuz Baaaaaaaybeh....just know, when I hit "send" thats exactly whats about to go down. I'm about to send you to the upper room. Aint no way. Aint NO WAY!!

@Singer_and_Songwriter

Жыл бұрын

​@@latoyamoore642😂😂

@deborahday1786

Жыл бұрын

I got the sense she was so embarrassed there was nothing she *could* do but keep texting and try and play it off. Shame on that girl who did that to her. That is one of those incidents that will unfortunately stay with her the rest of her life.

You are so right EJ - humiliating someone is indicative of some deep seeded hateful feelings

I just ended a friendship of 20+ years because I realized she was not codependent, but a covert narcissist! Yayyy! We decided to quarantine together for work (she’s a medical provider and I’m an educator), and I realized she wasn’t safe to be around (bc of all the covertly narcissistic things). The last straw was the night she sabotaged my going away party that was supposed to be the next day. She was both mad and glad I was leaving, but upset that the party wasn’t about her. She invited some new dude over during set up (when she blew me off all week), then got upset when he was trying to help me set up…which she was supposed to do. She told me she wanted to help me design and sew might dress as a personal project. Then I caught her “whispering” to her date that she had no intention on helping me. She just kept getting drunker and drunker and had the loudest, most obnoxious sex she could. A couple nights before, she ruined a dinner my man cooked us (because we share) by stirring her unwashed hands around the pasta pot eating out all of the shrimp. Drank his cocktail…and kept it unapologetic. Threw around the place settings, kicked trash all around the kitchen, etc. Then when I told her about it the next day, it took her a half hour to apologize…and it wasn’t even a real one. She said, “I wish that didn’t happen. I need to examine how I use alcohol.” I wanted to beat her ass. My feeling (and her actions) let me know she was no longer a person to nurture. You shouldn’t want anyone to hurt your friends (including you). So bye bih! ✌🏾#notafriend

@portraitofalady1598

Жыл бұрын

😵🤯😵🤯😵🤯😵🤯😵

No, a real friend would not do that and I question the people around her. I had a toxic friend who always had to put me down and eventually I put her down permanently. There’s no room in my life for that kind of negativity.

The way I would’ve whooped her behind!!! What kind of friend does this to you. A real friend doesn’t pull your wig off. They pull you to the side and fix it in secret if your wig is slipping!

“We don’t really fact check over here…” took me out! 😂

I'm 37 and, back in the day, if someone did this and was a so called "friend" it would've resulted in a tussle. Period. These young folks today are different, they wouldn't have liked the 90s and early 2000s 😂

My true friends would never snatch off my wig to embarrass me. First of all, my true friends are not mean-spirited. And second, they wouldn't want to get cussed the f--k out; which is what I'm doing if they pulled such a stunt. The only reason my friends might snatch off my wig would be if the wig became unsuitable to wear (it caught fire, bird landed/pooped on it etc).

I hope she is well because that could mess with your mind...

Reminds me of my friend who, when I shaved my head and was shy about it so I wore a cap, she tried to snatch it off in public in a playful way saying “you look fine!” Like idk if she thought she was being encouraging but it always sat the wrong way with me

Also I would like to add is not every friend that you should travel with .🙇🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️sometimes just stay at home and read a book or travel when necessary.

So called “ bff” set me up to look like a fool at here baby’s Baptism.. Allowed the 2nd , Godmother to dictate her own Baptism. Talking behind my back and making it seem as though she didn’t want me to attend. Expressed to her how I felt and waited a week to text back. 15yrs down the drain 🤷🏾‍♀️. But that’s life! Thank God for the lessons. It was time for me to go! She was toxic with her drama..

“Friend” shit she’s the opps, she play too much and I am not for play

Definitely not your friend! A true friend wants the best for you.

Anti friend short story, My house is well-maintained and well-decorated. I'm a minimalist with children, and it never gets really messy. I was remodeling a small section of my kitchen. So there was exposed drywall and hardward. This "friend" uploaded a photo in front of the renovation and tagged me in it. I feel like this person went out of their way to embarrass me because their entire home looks questionable. They also make rude comments about how neat/plain my house is. 😢

@ms.coleman8403

Жыл бұрын

And i would of roasted them

Sometimes it doesn’t just be friends it be family as well that’ll pull some stuff like this. I had a family member do this to me in public & in front of someone I really liked at the time; it was sooooo humiliating…🥺

@nonya8193

Жыл бұрын

I hope you permanently removed that hater from your life. Folks be on the bs fr!

@TEWMUCH

Жыл бұрын

😢

@everlastingcurves

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry they did that. ☹That's some bull!!🤬🤬🤬

@angel_numbers

Жыл бұрын

THIS❤️💯🦾my half sister would always do and say things to try and embarrass me in front of people. Men and women tell me ugly things she allegedly said about me. I'd ask them what they said🧐 lol. They would tell me she's jealous because they believed I was pretty, more mature and academically gifted even though her mother is wealthy. I forgave her wholeheartedly and love her from a distance.

@literally8647

Жыл бұрын

True, my sister tried to take a picture of me while I was looking crazy. I shut that crap down and told her "as if I don't have enough from when we were younger!" I don't understand some people

You stated it correctly ejspeaks. A true friend would never expose your flaws or weaknesses in public. When problems arise, they would come to you personally and discuss it.

And people wonder why I have a grand total of zero friends, and it's not because I'm zero tolerant 🙏🏽

People do that sort of thing when they are jealous. No. She is not her friend.

My friends would've yanked old girl's entire life. Real friends are priceless

@BooDotBoo

Жыл бұрын

Right? Girl, I be ready to fight behind my friends, so I'm very confused how everyone just stood there. Girl would have quickly gotten left behind, and we would have froze her out the group. I used to wonder about stories when I'd hear someone's ENTIRE friend group left them alone and too often, it was because THEY were the one causing the issues, but they will sit there with a straight face and tell you every single person they used to hang out with was toxic. When YOU leave a friend group, it's probably true that they were toxic, but if THEY all leave you alone, it's you.

@sexyalleycat

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@sexyalleycat

Жыл бұрын

The way my sisters would've dragged her, lawd, she could only be identified by her dental records 💅🏾

@Z1QueenB

11 ай бұрын

My bestie would have slapped her, grabbed the wig and had her back to mine in seconds. I wouldn’t have had a chance to react 😂

….Lord. Thank you Lord for moments like these. Where that friend shows their true feelings towards you, DISTANCE yourself from that danger! Forgive em and end that friendship. This is a real blessing. Exposed hatred is a BLESSING. Because now yk who to AVOID.

EJ is so on point with this one. If a person makes you feel bad about yourself, he/she is not your friend.

I had a Friend who would CONSTANTLY say little petty things and I got Tired of it and her. It felt like HATE and Envy…

I hope that was a planned prank by both parties….otherwise she was very lowdown and dirty to do that. Every one with good sense out there should have unfriended her on sight!!!

I hope she learned the lesson that day that she wasn't her friend. She's a hatin' scalliwag.

Jealousy is a DISEASE 🦠

🗣️SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!!! 💯 #WatchYourSurroundings #FriendsCoverYou #HumiliationIsBad #RealFriendsMatter❤

At that age, the way I would’ve reacted with my fist, I would’ve gotten the last laugh that day. That’s definitely not a friend, jealousy rears it’s ugly head. She couldn’t stand her being cuter than her.

That's not your friend. For some reason she's jealous of you and feels the need to bring you down.

Praying for the young lady who wig was snatched. Protection, healing, and discernment to get away from jealous people like this...had a cousin who constantly tried to embarrass me, from my clothing to my hair and weight. We're in our 40s now and she still the same. It's sad but I love her from an 8 hour distance and only really see or speak to her a couple of times a year😊

My wig fell off my head onto the floor but I didn’t realize it for a few seconds until I felt a breeze. When I looked to my right, my friend had picked it up and was holding it in her lap😂 we were seated in a crowded room with other people. I put it back on like everything was normal😂 We had a good laugh about it.

With friends like that, I may as well hang with my enemies. IJS🤷🏽‍♀️

A so-called mom friend of mine was xhatting with me and told me to not get it twisted because she secretly is jealous of me. Needless to say I believed what she told me.

@joanna0988

Жыл бұрын

People will always tell on themselves 🥴

@sexyalleycat

Жыл бұрын

Whatttt 😮

Unfortunately for me, my mother, sisters and cousins were like that.Always trying to humiliate me in public, silent treatment, jealous comments about my body etc.Its worse when its family.

I feel bad for the young lady this happened to, it hurts my soul. She’s not a friend, she’s a snake. It’s not funny or cute to embarrass someone to make yourself look better. I hope she never associates with that snake again and heals and makes true friends. May she be blessed 10 fold.