So many guys are surprised by this behavior, but most women have met at least one guy just like him.

@onalos1271

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. They think this is rare. Lol

@thumbhead3370

Жыл бұрын

I think a lot of guys also may not realize that they have, likely to a far lesser extent, been this guy at least once.

@cw9475

Жыл бұрын

I had a customer stalk me kind of like this. Luckily the police dealt with him when he had a public freakout, and he's banned from my workplace permanently.

@SCHRODINGERS_WHORE

Жыл бұрын

Yup

@peachy_talisman

Жыл бұрын

I've met 3

bro imagine being chased by a dude blaring that garbage ass song absolutely horrifying

@abbyz13

Жыл бұрын

i would’ve assumed he had mental problems. genuinely would’ve called a wellness check on his ass

@MegaIIII

Жыл бұрын

Of he was 6ft4 and had blue eyes she wouldn't have a problem with that

@Rizzitriver

Жыл бұрын

@@MegaIIII False.

@lollmaoimcool

Жыл бұрын

Fucking mad max

@lollmaoimcool

Жыл бұрын

@@MegaIIII bro stop r/datingadvice doesnt actually works

“so i chased her a lil bit cause women are crazy” ya know we’re just lucky he got cops who clearly have daughters and took nothing he said seriously from this point on cause…wow

@johnbehan1526

Жыл бұрын

"Take a shower and reflect" made me blurt-laugh, even though I am fully dead inside.

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

Most sane cop:

@BreatheCarolina87

Жыл бұрын

No actually the problem is that the cop didn't take him seriously and arrest him

@Cussy69_420

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh being a creep..

@BreatheCarolina87

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh harassing someone?

"She was going to lure me into a trap..." SAYS THE MAN WHO WAS CHASING A WOMAN DOWN

@MrYago-xd7um

Жыл бұрын

That moment reminded me of victoria secret karen.

@theunholinesswithin3601

Жыл бұрын

Typical victim play from the troublemaker.

What guys like this don't get, and I have heard this "rape fantasy" thing before as justification for creepy abusive behaviour, is that within a rape fantasy THE WOMAN HAS TOTAL 100% CONTROL. The "rape" part is a FANTASY. The loss of control is an ILLUSION. In exactly the same way ANY fantasy works, within a FANTASY, the person having it controls EVERY-FUCKING-THING. It's amazing to me that these psychos always miss that bit.

@notyourdamnbusiness8795

Жыл бұрын

yeah....and the "rape guy" is probably some model, six-pack kinda dude, and not some fucking bearded weirdo.

@MichaelAW17

Жыл бұрын

Yuuup.

@Matt-vq8fg

Жыл бұрын

Yeah its CONSENSUAL non consent for a reason...

@marinemanaphy101

Жыл бұрын

The idea that a rape fantasy implies literally wanting to be raped is like arguing that playing Skyrim implies that you want to be literally set on fire by a wizard.

@Matt-vq8fg

Жыл бұрын

@@marinemanaphy101 100000% agree, it's beyond delusional to think that being into CNC means you want a random stranger to follow you home from work and rape you. The world gets more and more terrifying.

My girlfriend is a teacher, and today her school had a speaker come in and give a talk about sexual assault, primarily focused on Andrew Tate and that his views can lead to men being arrested etc. Sounded like a great speech to reinforce equality to the future generation. Just wanted to share that, as it shows we are moving forward just very slowly lol.

@Jamflee

Жыл бұрын

@@m4nman Yeah, that was also part of it as well, it was a 90 minute presentation, so a lot was covered.

@sardoniclaugh9646

Жыл бұрын

Schools complain they don't have money for books then pay some ass hat to come in and do a hour and a half talk about how rape is bad and you shouldn't do it. Yeah, no shit Sherlock, we all know that. Rapists have to be segregated in prison because criminals kill them. Guess what? Sick sons of bitches will still rape, a talk won't change their minds. Well, I guess the textbooks can wait for next year's budget. This year we had a "rape is bad" seminar instead....

@UnlockingYourEnergy

Жыл бұрын

"they" referring to the girlfriend or the teacher? This neopronoun stuff reads completely incoherently.

@kelseyj1389

Жыл бұрын

@@UnlockingYourEnergy His/her girlfriend IS the teacher. And by "they", he/she probably meant the school in general.

@itstomis

Жыл бұрын

@@UnlockingYourEnergy this poor guy going through life blaming pronouns for his total lack of reading comprehension

As a woman this actual terrifies me…. There is almost nothing you can do about a stalker. This is a sad world

@-Teca-

Жыл бұрын

A Colt 45 you can buy to solve this exact issue lol: Hey how you doing little mama let me whisper in your ear

dude called the cops then immediately self reported

it’s true. before watching this video i was 100% lesbian. now i’m 200%

@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342

Жыл бұрын

Damn creeps ruining it for the rest of us str8 doodz lol

@JimboniumF

Жыл бұрын

God damn this guy is a sexuality multiplier

@JimboniumF

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh Yeah repulser is definitely a better word lmao. But what I meant was he multiplies the sexuality you're committed to

@xe666

Жыл бұрын

Hasan has that effect on women

@xe666

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh Fair enough.Looks creepy to me but each to their own.

He sounds legit like a serial killer at the end there when he said "when women don't come to terms with themselves 'bad shit' happens."

@patrickmcgever2736

Жыл бұрын

Found his YT and he later posted a manifesto-equivalent video. It was legitimately frightening: just talking into the camera, dead-eyed, about tangential abstract topics about value and free will. Dude is going to kill someone.

@Lisa-eq7ms

Жыл бұрын

He’s literally just a mass shooting waiting to happen lol

@suds7753

Жыл бұрын

nah fr he sounded like a movie villain 💀

Imagine calling the cops in an attempt to abuse a woman and even the pigs think you’re crazy.

@WokeandProud

Жыл бұрын

They should have arrested him because he was an obvious threat but he was white so he got off scott free seriously if he was black.....

@Madness7125

Жыл бұрын

Evidence of how aware white men are of the fact that the criminal justice system is heavily biased towards them and against women and POC. Obviously this guy knew at the very least he wasn't going to be detained or prosecuted in any way.

@gamenigeria

Жыл бұрын

Why do have call them pigs. Do you know any of them specifically. Attack the idealogy, leave the human being

@kdawson020279

Жыл бұрын

These cops were pretty awesome. I liked the part where they basically said that the dad might hurt him and that they felt it would be justified. If my high schooler was female and this happened, he would have needed EMS and not police.

@kdawson020279

Жыл бұрын

@@gamenigeria Agreed. My thoughts on policing are systemic and the issue I have with an officer who shot and killed my friend's brother in a swatting turned bad almost 5 years ago doesn't extrapolate to every officer. Reform and name calling are two different things. (RIP Andrew Finch)

imagine trying to arrest someone when you're the one being creepy

@abbyz13

Жыл бұрын

“officer, this girl won’t let me be as creepy as i would like to be, pls arrest her” is literally what happened and it is insanity

@Matthew.M.S.

Жыл бұрын

Please respect ✊🏼 9/11 victims, families and witnesses.

That guys like, "shes being controlled by her dad... If I tie her up I think I could get her to fall in love with me"

@braidena1633

Жыл бұрын

It works sometimes. There's even a name for it

@MegaIIII

Жыл бұрын

@@braidena1633 probably read a women's romance novel.

@Matt-vq8fg

Жыл бұрын

@@braidena1633 Yeah, stockholm syndrome.

@braidena1633

Жыл бұрын

@@MegaIIII idk. Or read the novel Choke

@exittea616

Жыл бұрын

"Officer you gotta let me induce Stockholm Syndrome in a former coworker cmon man"

I used to think dads were overprotective of their daughters. Then I saw this. I’m giving my 4 year old a sword this year.

@jordaneggerman4734

Жыл бұрын

Make sure she knows how to hold it, and which end to stick them with!

@Kasiarzynka

Жыл бұрын

@@jordaneggerman4734 With the pointy end! :) Also, I would've loved to get a sword from my father as a girl!

@antthomas7916

Жыл бұрын

I also used to think that, until I had my own daughter. I wish instead of parents having to be overprotective of their daughters, that parents would teach their sons to be decent human beings. Maybe then their wouldn't be crazy ass incels running around threatening women.

@maybemablemaples2144

Жыл бұрын

​@@antthomas7916 bingo. You'd think this would be the case but, wimins be shopping I guess

@papermr.magolorguy7957

Жыл бұрын

@@Kasiarzynka aren’t swords dangerous for children though?

Ben Shapiroed his way to prison

@alexwalsh9995

Жыл бұрын

I hope

@redlion45

Жыл бұрын

Shabiboed

@redlion45

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh pee wee hermaned

@JackgarPrime

Жыл бұрын

When you repeatedly roll a 1 on your persuasion checks.

@redlion45

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh fair, but he looks just like him.

The part that irks me the most was almost glossed over. "I'm a man like I have needs of my own" is prejustification for what he plans to do to the next target of his affection.

@dellybird5394

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that was gross. She's not obligated to fulfill his needs for him. Just because you're horny doesn't make you entitled to someone else's body

@adamconover8950

Жыл бұрын

@@dellybird5394 he told a cop that he was chasing his woman because he has needs that need to be met and the cop only reacted when he suggested that she should be groomed into doing porn aka getting paid for the rape fantasies he hopes to awaken in her

This reminds me a lot of the stalker my friend had in highschool. Dude was a neo-nazi obsessed with the military and convinced that homosexual thoughts come from being abused, and my friend was nice to him like once before knowing any of this. Dude followed her to her workplace, wouldn't leave her alone at school and constantly texted shit to her along the lines of "I'm so sad that you won't let me fix you" (she's bi), "I came in my sleep after our talk last night", "why are you ignoring me". Eventually dude left for boot camp and stopped texting her, but the guy had serious brain rot. He thought Hitler was an admirable visionary, that you get gay thoughts from sexual abuse, gay people are destined to abuse, and that tattoos quantitatively lowered your "value"

@JackgarPrime

Жыл бұрын

Even without getting to the nazi shit, the fact that a guy like that was accepted into boot camp and will be trained with a military weapon is fucking terrifying.

@edgeninja

Жыл бұрын

He'll be a Republican running for Congress within 2 years.

@sicklecuthammerfall

Жыл бұрын

Oh god he should be in a psych ward n not the army That’s how you get torturers, rapists, n mass murderers in the army

@demolazer

Жыл бұрын

Jesus what sort of parents produce THAT

@redlion45

Жыл бұрын

I love how the people who are against abortion are proof we need it.

"Women are crazy! They be running when I'm chasing them." - sums it up pretty well.

many men like him exist and pretty much every woman has experienced one of them, yet we're still being told it's "not all men". no shit, we obviously know that, but there are enough of them who think and act like this and sadly many men who excuse their behaviour, so don't blame us for feeling unsafe.

@StreakyBaconMan

Жыл бұрын

Part of the problem is if you're a man, you hardly get to see this side to other men, and they can keep it hidden very well sometimes. A guy I was friends with for more than 5 years one day seemingly out of the blue from my perspective was charged with assault and deprivation of liberty of a woman he had gone to high school with and according to him he was innocent and only accused of this because she was jealous that he had made advances towards her friend. Sad thing is I believed him, because why wouldn't I? I had known him for years, I had only ever known him to be a good and honest person when he was around me, and I didn't know the person accusing him of this so why should I believe them over my friend? A few months later he informs me the charges have been dropped which in my mind confirmed his innocence. But then about a month later he was charged with assault and deprivation of liberty AGAIN this time by a stranger, and the incident had happened about half an hour after he had left my house heavily intoxicated. I had a hard time believing that by coincidence this man would have twice been accused by two separate women who don't know each other of the exact same crimes. He tried to explain it as "she misunderstood my intentions" and I simply told him "no misunderstanding leads to someone believing they were assaulted and detained against their will when they weren't, and I am not going to sit here and listen to you lie to me". This led to a physical fight, and I ended up pressing assault charges against him myself. He went to jail for just under 8 years. I learned that just because I think I know someone, doesn't mean I actually do and that some men can behave very differently around their male friends than they do when they aren't, and to not disbelieve a woman's claims just because I am friends with someone and they've been decent around me personally. I'm not a woman, so I don't get to see the side of men that women do. I understand that now.

@seanceknowles2911

Жыл бұрын

Men who have decency and common sense know that it’s not all men, and they don’t personally feel attacked and are always supportive. To me when discussing topics like these, when any dude gets butthurt about it when it was never said that he is or all men an d he gets defensive, it’s a red flag. You can never be too careful.

@g.ra.6829

Жыл бұрын

You thots all want chads

@vegan.3176

Жыл бұрын

No, I‘ve never

@jelen2579

Жыл бұрын

I remember this one boy in 1st grade elementary 😭 incel stuff😭 chased me down in all fours and peeked under our skirts😭

He was basically saying: "I'm going to shoot her." "If I can't have her nobody can!" Type of attitude, he showed ticking time bomb type of behaviour, sociopath, incell.

@casie6609

Жыл бұрын

Reminds me of the person who killed Christina Grimmie. Very obsessive man.

"She has her own choice.... If she chooses to be with me" type of mentality

God these dudes make me feel so good about myself. I may be a failure but at least my hatred is directed inward and not outward.

@dannysha6458

Жыл бұрын

Hey you have the potential to grow it’s never too late, unfortunately for the weirdo in the video I think he is beyond lost

@teath_

Жыл бұрын

Whenever I feel like an awful person I remind myself that I would never put someone else through this. Makes me feel glad and grateful that I'm a decent human being with a couple friends and respect for others.

@Sbs349

Жыл бұрын

I just laughed out loud. You also have a great sense of humor

@hypno6944

Жыл бұрын

embrace all and be kind to all , fight anyone who wants u to be unhappy

@wallr54

Жыл бұрын

failure is a sliding scale and there is always a way to turn it around. You have potential you just need to learn to see it :)

This is fucking terrifying to me, especially as an LGBTQ woman. And the fact I knew someone close to this, who really tried to get me too, is really sad. I really hope that soon, no more women will have go deal with this shit

@bakarina8148

Жыл бұрын

Please stay safe and document everything ❤️❤️❤️

@TitoMencho

Жыл бұрын

I WILL DO IT TO YOU HE HE HA HA WATCH YOUR SELF 🤫🤫🤭🤭🤐🤐😪🤤😍😘😝😝😝😝😝😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛

@An262.

Жыл бұрын

@@bakarina8148 thank you, i have luckily nit seen him in two years and last i heard he has a boyfriend now. Maybe dude was just struggling with his sexuality, who tf knows..

@An262.

Жыл бұрын

@X Oh damn that fucking suuuuucks, hope he's alright and happy :] Have a good day

@waterwraith1189

Жыл бұрын

@John Smith it’s Jacob Yerkes’s alt 😟

it's terrifying that people like this are allowed freedom and the ability to walk around when he's so obviously a ticking timebomb, a federal crime waiting to happen. The fact that we have to wait for him to kill a woman or multiple women before anything is done about him is sick and disgusting

"I'm gonna be a famous DJ". This is some shit that even comedy writers wouldn't think of. Reality really is stranger than fiction

@cats1970

Жыл бұрын

His music isn’t even him being a dj where did he arrive there

I went from being gay to being hella gay after seeing this man

@mashaa.7509

Жыл бұрын

bless you, lesbians

@flowersinawasteland

Жыл бұрын

can’t blame you

@Scarlet-st5qs

Жыл бұрын

And it seems as though the woman he was after was lgbtq because he was ranting about how he was gonna fix her and shit gross asf

Btw the girl is a lesbian and he wants to “fix” her.

Most well adjusted right-winger

Just to show how normal behavior similar to this was when my mother was younger (I'll say she was around 17-18, living with roommates. She is 54 now.) My father stole my mothers earrings while she was working, told her she could get them back by going on a date with him. Clearly you can see how it went, she actually showed up, they dated, got married, had three kids. He wasn't a good guy, really terrible man. My mother just recently had told me this full story, it honestly scared me how happy she seemed about the situation. She just casually laughed about a random man she didn't know taking her expensive jewelry while she was at work, telling her she could get them back if she showed up at this specific place at this set time, and how she actually showed up and spent the time with him. I'll add while he was a complete stranger to my mother, her friend at the time knew him, doesn't make it any less scary though.

@humblesentiments1553

Жыл бұрын

yep. In South-Asia most women are actually taught that men being creepy is equal to romance. It took me a lot of education and self-teaching to realize how this whole thing is so darn bad.

@idontcare9041

Жыл бұрын

My ex girlfriend told me about her grandma and it really opened my eyes... she married young because she needed to survive and her family told her to, her husband sucked and decided to move and quit HER job, then he left by himself and tragically died. She had 2 kids and no job at the time and she made that work and decided to never marry again. That was pretty weird at the time and she had to deal with a lot of harassment but she was insanely tough and didn't care. She also spoke out against bigotry

Back when I was in high school, I’d walk home from school. I can’t even tell you how many times a man would pull over and INSIST on giving me a ride home. And they’d always get angry and drive off all aggressive when I’d say NO! This whole story is so scary, if I was that girl I’d be wanting to change jobs and just straight up move away.

@lonely1951

Жыл бұрын

Dude in college there was this car with tinted windows who would follow girls home from the library. He’d spend every night circling around the block hunting for women to follow home. (He used to park next to the library and go back and forth but campus police asked him to leave) I’m sure he had some white knight complex about keeping women safe, but there was nothing more terrifying that seeing this car coming towards you at 2:30 in the morning, doing a three point turn in a driveway, and following you at about 3 mph for 15 minutes as you either went to your home or circled back to campus so that he wouldn’t have your address. I had a friend of a friend who was certainly braver than me who screamed at the car to fuck off and stop following her and he just… kept following her. Not much you could do against a car. A different friend started carrying a brick in her purse. Most girls I knew just decided that the library didn’t close at 2:30, it closed at 6pm for them

@tired_mom

Жыл бұрын

@@lonely1951 ya that is so scary and sad that he’s just able to keep doing it. Campus police should be able to ban someone, and if they come back arrest them. It’s unfortunate that we have to move differently to keep ourselves safe, like not being able to hit the gym or library late at night. I’m grown and live in a fairly safe town and I don’t like going anywhere at night.

@biteofdog

Жыл бұрын

Same experience with me. I think because of that it's been difficult for me to trust guys and want to be in relationships.

@Hhh-j8o

Жыл бұрын

Or when yo take the tram, when it's all empty, but they still sit next to you or behind you 😫

@maryamerlin8922

Жыл бұрын

This happened to me too! I was like 14 and some guy insisted on me getting in his car. It TERRIFIES me to think of what would have happened if I didn't have my wits about me.

Regular Jordan Peterson enjoyer

@Cussy69_420

Жыл бұрын

And Andrew Taint MLM scheme participant

@FREdmaN1o7

Жыл бұрын

@@iMushu. i really dont

@iMushu.

Жыл бұрын

@@jl2280 Agreed.

As a person who is on the spectrum, who does have consistent difficulty reading cues, especially in regards to whether a person is just being kind or flirting, it has been the most powerful tool to just straight up ask. It’s so much easier to get an accurate vibe from an explicit “no” at the outset than any thing else. I will say tho, it doesn’t take being neurotypical to understand what is happening when a person is running away from you😂😂😂

This type of thinking is more common than anyone thinks. I’ve been in male dominated career, schools, and training since high school. This is not rare, just cranked up a notch.

@hamsterfan999

Жыл бұрын

yup. men get especially bold in male dominated spaces, since they know other men arent likely to fight misogyny even if they think its wrong. ive heard men say the most heinous things about women to their friends like its small talk. they dont care, and if they do: it doesnt affect them enough to do anything about it. I used to think ‘not all men’, that at least the boys my age saw us as equal. going into a male dominated education and workforce changed that completely. the way even some women dont believe me because they havent entered that world drives me insane.

@solabonafide

Жыл бұрын

Yup! Especially with white men. They really think they are OWED whatever they want.

The bit on “if you can’t pick up on social ques, you should be fearful of coming across like this.” Slightly off topic with what I do. I can’t smell. Never been able to smell my whole life. But I do know smells exist. Does this mean I should just not do basic hygiene so I don’t smell and my home doesn’t smell just because I can’t smell? No. In fact, I am TERRIFIED of having my place smell or me smelling bad that I go more out of my way to make sure I don’t than I realize most people who can smell do. It’s the same concept. If you can’t pick up on social ques, that is not the other persons fault for not just clarifying it more. YOU have to take that extra step to clarify, not the other way around. Humans communicate more from body language than we do verbally. Women aren’t the only ones who do this, men do it too. Also, where the hell did this idea that women love to be chased come from? I am a woman IRL and I have NEVER liked being chased. Every guy that has done it came off as a creep. They also never take no as an answer. I could literally say “fuck off and leave me alone.” and straight up wouldn’t leave me alone and it made it worse. To the point I had guys calling my home phone non stop and my parents had to block numbers and even remove us from phone books. I only knew these guys as “dude I go to school with” and NEVER spoke to them. They would just send me notes, follow me in hall ways, and call my home phone. Want to know how to hit on a girl and do it right guys? Be fucking normal and strike up a conversation that you would with a fucking guy. The one that stands out to me most, even now that I have been out of school for almost 15 years is a guy who saw my heaven metal band tee shirt and started the conversation with that on our first day in science class we had. We sat next to each other. We started talking about our favorite bands and he would mention that he also plays the drums and asked if I would like to listen after about a week. He was actually really good at the drums. Then after that, he started “forgetting” his books and asked to share mine. He started moving his desk to mine and we shared. (I later found out his locker was literally just outside the class room.)After that, he then started sharing his one of his ear phones with me and we would listen to heaven metal while reading and doing work together. He THEN started flirting with me more boldly or up front and said that he really liked me. I thought it was sweet that he shared his ear buds with me and we listened to music we both liked and did all our work together. I thought it was sweet that he would drag his whole desk over to sit right next to me. And even him flirting was cute. However, this was ONLY cute because he treated me like a damn person first and got to know me FIRST and started the whole thing off over my band tee shirt. He didn’t come out of the gate flirting with me, sitting next to me, and just sticking an earbud in my ear. If he had done all of that without first setting that basic foundation of forming a nice friendly connection first, that would of been creepy and would of put me off and made me want to change seats or even classes.

@yeturs69420

Жыл бұрын

You should get a shirt that says "I can't smell. Please tell me if I smell bad" and just wear it around every now and then. Might be helpful. Might be funny. Good luck out there

@beansworth5694

Жыл бұрын

As an autistic person, I disagree with the notion that all of the responsibility lies on the person who's unable to pick up on social cues. That's by definition ableism. I am "high functioning", so I can pick up that responsibility since I've worked on it my whole life, but I know a lot of other neurodivergent folks who, for one reason or another, are unable to pick up the slack in communication and need the other party to work with them more in order for understanding to occur. You're right that the sex of your attraction shouldn't be a sex object first and a person second, anyone that has this basic, decent-person outlook mixed up needs to be corrected before they put anyone else at risk. Nobody is obligated to tolerate an abusive person creeping on you, but I think that when dealing with someone who is clearly unaware to some extent that there's a degree of magnanimity is appropriate. Basically, I don't want to excuse poor behavior from neurodivergent people (especially that to the extent of the absolute gremlin featured in Critical's video), I just want to push back against the idea that neurotypicals don't owe any sort of accommodation or empathy to their fellow human beings with different wiring. Also, that's a sweet story you recounted c:

@klausd.6285

Жыл бұрын

@@beansworth5694 (Now, I am not angry. I have been told I come off very angry or aggressive and I do not know why. Probably is how I talk but I feel I talk the same way as others do. So please, do not take this as me chewing your head off or anything. I am just explaining, giving examples, and clearing up what I am saying.) I do have autism and I never except other people to accommodate me. If I don’t know or don’t understand, I ask. It is insane to expect every person to treat everyone like they are disabled in some way just to make accommodations for those who refuse to do anything about their disability. It is one the person with the disability to make it clear that they have this and to clear up any misunderstandings or for the other person to know and have them be patient with you. It is also not ableist to expect people who struggle with something, like picking up social ques, to make sure that when they interact with others that it falls on them to make sure what they are communicating isn’t coming off inappropriate when they are dealing with people they do not know and have not disclosed that they are disabled in any way. If this was the case, then I can literally just never shower again for the rest of my life nor maker sure my place doesn’t smell. I can’t smell, so what is the point? I shouldn’t have to care about smelling for those who can smell. If they complain about me smelling, that must be ableism, right? It’s not. What is ableism. When I tell people I can’t smell and they immediately go off about how that isn’t a thing because they never heard of that. Which the reason why is because it doesn’t impair one’s life as bad as being blind or deaf so it’s not talked about. Or when I say I can’t smell and immediately get asked to smell every little thing to “what my reaction” as I smell to see if I really can’t smell it. That is like asking a blind person what something looks like over and over again. Or, say, if someone who is autistic and is HORRIBLE at picking up on social ques, like my current partner is. He has told his friends countless times that he can’t and they refuse to clarify things up when he asks and just make fun of him. That is ableism. He doesn’t except any hand outs from random people either. When someone does something that he can’t pick up on, he asks and then makes it clear that picking up on social queues is hard for him. He sucks at picking up sarcasm and I am a very sarcastic person. Knowing this, I always make it clear to him when I am being sarcastic, because he has voiced that he can not pick up on that. If someone doesn’t tell me that they can’t pick up on that, I am not going to make it clear to every single person when I am or am not being sarcastic. Now, if someone is clearly disabled, yes, we should be accommodating and understanding. But the thing is, most disabilities are invisible or most are high functioning. At that point, it does fall on the individual who has the disability to make it clear that they have it. If you don’t and someone gets mad at something you did because of your disability, it’s not the person who got mad fault. It is the one who didn’t make their disability clear. One guy comes into my job every day at 5:30am Monday - Friday to talk for 30 minutes while he waits for the bus to go to work. He is clearly disabled. He talks about the same thing over and over and over again. Every day. Always about his favorite TV show and the movie about said show. His head is always titled up moving a little back and forth as he talks. Every 5 minutes, the conversation restarts and he follows me around the store talking to me about his show. Now, I know his is disabled. I talk to him all the time and have the same conversations over with him, like I have never had it before. However, I have had customers complain to me about him because he is “creepy” or “not right in the head” and have told me to kick him out. Which I never have and never will. Because he is clearly disabled and it pisses me off every time someone comes up to me to complain about him “not being right in the head”. That is ableism. Expecting high functioning people to not come off as creeps for literally doing something that most perceive as creepy without telling them that it’s their disability, is massively different from one explaining their disability first and people then getting creeped out. The first is not ableism, the second is. We can’t just sit here and call everything ableism when it’s not. That word is leftist version of “groomers”. People throw it around so much and don’t even know what ableism even means. I don’t think most even know what it really means anymore because it has now been waters down so much.

@beansworth5694

Жыл бұрын

@@klausd.6285 We're in agreement, methinks- my point was just that the responsibility goes both ways, even if a person isn't severely disabled. Working to pick up each other's slack for the sake of better communication rather than drawing a line in the sand and deciding 'you're beneath me since you've come across the wrong way' is what I'm advocating for, not everyone treating everyone as if they're disabled lmao... the point of combatting ableism is to make disabilities treated less like barriers to interacting in whatever capacity they _do_ have, not equalization in the form of treating everyone like they're potentially diseased. Ableism can be a bit like the leftist or liberal version of 'groomers' in use, but I don't think that I'm using it that way here. I'm not doing a witch hunt to find out who's morally sub-par or whatever, I'm just talking about being more forgiving towards people who're less able to pick up on things just for the sake of treating one another better. Seeing a person who, for some reason or another, can't socially function as well as another person and deciding that _this alone_ is reason to not tolerate them is a pretty common form of ableism that I think that we'd both agree is an outlook to avoid. (I'm not angry either, and your comment didn't come across as angry to me c:)

When my wife was in college, She called me because one of these freaks was stalking her near the bus stop where I usually picked her up, I told her to go find someone and I sped there as fast as I could and I chased that freak to his car and he sped off, she wouldn't go back to school & hasn't since.

"I'm older than her Dad" This dude cannot be older than maybe 45 which means the dad is young which would point to his daughter being a teenager or at least a very young adult. No fucking shit she'd call her dad bc some weird guy she worked with for a little bit started following her around! She probably was just being nice and polite and this weirdo took that as her flirting and wanting him. I hope that poor girl gets a restraining order and that dude is on a fucking watch list.

@Thoka123

Жыл бұрын

he’s 25 and the woman is 27. he’s into some LSD spiritual stuff so he thinks he’s lived many lives before this one, which is why he says he’s older than her dad even though he isn’t.

@potatoluna3389

Жыл бұрын

@@Thoka123 Wtf. I mean at least she isn't a child but this mf needs serious mental help. Grippy socks and all

I dont understand why he wasnt detained for investigation after he admitted to chasing the girl. Harrassment and menacing to say the least.

"He's trying to debatelord a potato" This thoughtful and perfectly crafted social commentary is the reason I watch Hank Pecker. Edit: Isn't that dude the militia guy we all were laughing about who posted miltia TikTaks when Maralago was raided??? I'm pretty sure he's that guy

@coolcat4kitty

Жыл бұрын

I lost it when he said that 🤣🤣

Christ, im not violent person, but if this person pulled this shit on my fam. He'll end up with a broken jaw. Hypothetically ;D

@andrewdevonshire1760

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-mc2zz Def not pretending, he wouldn't be walking away from this situation. Would be unconscious and I'd be pressing stalking charges. Honestly fearful that we're going to find out in a few weeks that he's killed this girl.

Moment of appreciation for the fantastic ally that Hasan is- you can tell he actually listens to the women in his life cause he knew we have all encountered at least one man like this in our lives. Hasan and his chat never fail to make me feel seen ❤

I know Hasan hates implicating porn for anything under any circumstances but it isn't undue for that chatter to think porn plays a role here when part of his defense is literally "women like fearing for their lives because porn told me so". Just because porn didn't create this monstrosity of a man doesn't mean it isn't directly contributing to his treatment of women.

@nfzeta128

Жыл бұрын

No, at most his delusion just uses that as an excuse, the point itself is just one of many and even less so than just a JP video because porn is purposely ridiculous to get the point that it's theatre across.

@thumbhead3370

Жыл бұрын

@@nfzeta128 dangerously delusional thinking right here. Porn has a profound effect on how man perceive sexual behavior and what their expectations are for women. You arguing that "oh well its obviously ridiculous so it has no effect" is so fucking stupid I can't even fucking believe someone in this community would say it.

@AaronHendu

Жыл бұрын

That's like blaming video games for gun violence.

@thumbhead3370

Жыл бұрын

@@AaronHendu Media doesn't need to inspire 1 to 1 instances of violence. Zero people for example would watch birth of a nation and then immediately go out and lynch a black person directly inspired by the movie. But the media we consume affects us in ways we may not always realize. Think about Ben Shapiro for example. Otherwise normal guys watched him, and while they may never have gone out to debate random people themselves like Ben does, those videos absolutely affected their worldview overtime.

@AaronHendu

Жыл бұрын

@@thumbhead3370 Then I would suggest people seek health care and education reform in regards to mental health and therapy, and media consumption. Censoring media isn't cool. Sorry. If people can't deal with the media they choose to consume, the solution isn't to restrict access to media. It's to enable people to have to skills and intelligence to decide on the media they consume and how to responsibly react to it. And if they are unable to responsibly react to the point of being a danger to themselves or others, they should be in a care situation where someone else is responsible for their well being.

man i woke up super anxious at 4 AM this morning and got really excited to listen to a silly Hasan video about this man (who i’ve heard about but haven’t gotten to watch anything on yet) and let me tell y’all i put my headphones in, got real cozy and it still didn’t prepare me for what i heard at 1:12 i don’t think i’m going back to sleep tonight

@thisisactuallyacownotalamm2080

Жыл бұрын

It was a genuine auditory flashbang

@NiteOwl2000

Жыл бұрын

You just like me fr 😂😂😂

@Hhh-j8o

Жыл бұрын

Omg, it's 4:32 am right now, I just had the exact same experience!

To all of the women reading these comments: on behalf of all of the normal, well intentioned men out there, we are so sorry you guys have to go through this. This behavior and any like it is reprehensible and should not be even remotely tolerated in this society.

@Velvetx4cove

Жыл бұрын

It's just fuckin scary because we can't distinguish between who's a genuinely good person since making the mistake of giving the wrong person the benefit of doubt can mean a horrible death, if not worse, and there will be little to no consequences for it. Police just let them walk even _while_ admitting to crimes. It's so common and so fucked. Makes me not wanna deal with people.

@blendo3893

Жыл бұрын

@@Velvetx4cove Exactly. I have a sister and some of the things she has gone through and things men have said to her are disgusting. I have gotten into fights with numerous guys because of this. Luckily I'm a white guy so I have never been at any real safety risk, which is sad in its own way. But all of that aside, I am so sorry you have to deal with that. Don't hesitate to reach out through this comment should you need anything.

one time at work we had this customer who was in love with me. he would come in sometimes and try to flirt with me and i would get super uncomfortable and go hide in the backrooms until he left. one time he came in and i turned him down because i had a girlfriend at the time and this 40 year old man threw his skateboard across the store got on his knees and said he’d cut off his dick if it meant he could be with me…. men are fucking crazy

@mizzy6715

Жыл бұрын

Only in America lol. So many crazy ppl there i feel srry.

The creep's name is Jacob Yerker and he got arrested after he released that video.

@thumbhead3370

Жыл бұрын

I doubt he'll take the lesson he should from this, but we can hope.

@thehumanity3324

Жыл бұрын

Imagine calling your child Jacob Yerker, unreal

I love how he complains about woke culture being the reason why he can’t have a girl who doesn’t want him, as if that’s a new concept. Unless he’s talking about 1700s woke culture. Also it’s kind of fascinating, most incels shit on women for being shallow, but he chooses to believe they actually want him despite their words and actions telling him otherwise. He’s a rare breed.

Very beginning, thought “this guy is weird, but strong claim to call him the weirdest guy on the internet” Very quickly, he veered into batshit insane territory. Chasing a woman because “they like that” Wow

Yeah. It's totally incel talking points. The part when he started accusing her of being gay is literally the cherry on top of incel talking points. Uuugghhh. When I see guys like that, I'm even more thankful for the regular guys who aren't like that.

@blackwatertv7018

Жыл бұрын

She is gay apparently

@sagabeard

Жыл бұрын

She is gay. The dude was trying to pull a reverse james charles and turn her straight

@3lluminatiii

Жыл бұрын

Omg y'all. Even if she was/is gay, what makes him think he could pull her out of her own sexuality?? So delusional. He needs help.

yeah ok no that stalker deserves to be self-defensed jesus the sooner the better

@abbyz13

Жыл бұрын

i love the use of “self-defensed” here

I can't believe that in a post Elliot Roger world this guy is still walking around. Maybe not legal action, but he needs serious intervention.

@verycalmgamer4090

Жыл бұрын

Incels dont have to confidence to stalk girls

@GretSeat

Жыл бұрын

This. 100% this. He is literally the next Elliot Rodgers. And yet he isn't on a watch list. He even has said "if they don't like me bad things will happen"

This dude seriously needs to be out on a watchlist…if he owns a gun that’s gotta be taken he is literally gonna start shooting

Just by seeing him i know that you can smell him 5 minutes before he appears

Whenever dudes believe they can ‘convert’ a woman, I wanna introduce them to big butch from prison yard. “You’re just straight because you haven’t tried Butch’s sausage”

They should have filed a restraining order for him and put him on a watch list!

I literally had a guy stalk me in high school because I was nice to him once and he was severly bullied so I thought oh its a misunderstanding. Nah he was bullied for a reason and would remember my class schedule and follow me.

@Leah-yu5gd

Жыл бұрын

I had the same thing happen when I was 14!! and my stalker was 21 and still allowed to be in school with the rest of us...

Sounds like if the Bjork stalker tried to make a Burzum album while high on glue and adderall.

@SCHRODINGERS_WHORE

Жыл бұрын

Holy shit

As a former Cracker Barrel employee there were definitely a bunch of male employees flirting with the underage female employees.

"Im older than her fucking father" ummmm what

The part when he’s in the car reminds me so much of that one guy who recorded videos about how girls rejected him in his car before going on a mass shooting

@rayadawn3535

Жыл бұрын

You'd be thinking of Elliot Rogers.

Dude isn't just unhinged, him and the doorframe are in different zip codes

the fact that he stalked her to a Cracker Barrel adds another layer of insanity to this

I know it's not the point but that dude seems to have a misunderstanding of what "r-word fantasies" are. There isn't a single person who wants to go through that experience authentically. Most r-word fantasies are CNC (Consensual Non-Consent)... a.k.a. It's role-play and usually involves a safe-word. And is almost always done with a significant other or a similarly trustworthy partner. Then again, perhaps expecting an incel to have an understanding of kink might be too much. Again, not the point, but it kinda adds to just how misguided this dude is.

I have to give these cops major credit for putting the tough questions to him. Even though there are some major red flags here and this guy should definitely be investigated. If this lady ends up in a dumpster behind his work, they’re going to say they didn’t see the warning signs.

reporting the dad of the girl you are trying to get to the cops is a patented tactic that guarantees success.

As a lesbian, I can confirm that I was bisexual before discovering this man

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

name checks out

"I was gonna let her make up her mind, after...." Nuff said

The sinister thing about mental health is how hard it is to come to the realization that something is wrong with your brain chemistry and you need outside help. Sometimes the paranoia gets too strong, sometimes pride and ego get in the way.

@moonlightning8269

Жыл бұрын

Often its not even those things, though they certainly don’t help. To a delusional person, their delusion is reality. To them it is exactly like telling them the sky is green

@DaveGrean

Жыл бұрын

I'd say social stigma, more than anything. Literally the only thing that's keeping from trying to get diagnosed so I can get medication is the knowledge that most people don't understand the difference between a purely functional and a genuinely intellectual mental disability. Even discounting that, any mental health issue is automatically seen as "insanity" and thus an excuse to not take anything the person says or does seriously. I know a victim of SA who's claims are generally dismissed because she has borderline syndrome, so "obviously" she's just "lying" because she's "crazy"

IF SHE JUST LISTENS TO MY MIX TAPE SHELL FALL IN LOVE AND UNDERSTAND THAT I DESERVE HERRR, MR. OFFICER!!

There's A LOT more males out there just like this guy that's the Most terrifying part

This whole situation makes me extremely uncomfortable. It genuinely reminds me of Elliot rodgers. He just needs to be put in an institution at this point

"We've been talking allitle bit." Probably "hey, can you clear table 6?"

when he said "cracker barrel" it was already guaranteed to end poorly

I love what Vaush said in his video of this guy..."OMG. Is this a stalker explaining his logic to a cop?"

@waterdragon2.08

Жыл бұрын

why do u watch a chaser pedophile liberal? - talking about vaush

@runningbetweenspaces

Жыл бұрын

Ew, a sex offender talking about a stalker

@Cussy69_420

Жыл бұрын

Yuck, Voosh!

“I just wanted to give her her own choice if she wanted to be with me” lol, what a guy

Most serial killers that raped and were caught/interviewed admitted to having porn addictions, so the idea that this guy could be sexually obsessed with this girl from habits learned from porn is completely plausible, the root shared problem with most incels is that “girls don’t want them but they should have sex with them” how can you not see the direct link

i found this guy like 2 days before moist made his video and i deep dived into all of his shit lmao

@wavingcat5

Жыл бұрын

They came up in my KZread feed but I didn’t watch, now I regret it! Anything worth telling us about?

@Aris-tc9qy

Жыл бұрын

@@Ha19000 I archived his twitter and a few of his songs but thats it sadly

@Aris-tc9qy

Жыл бұрын

@@wavingcat5 his DJ name is SquidFister and he has an obsession with the joker, one of his songs had a joker cover art picture and there was another thumbnail where he was at like 50% opacity and painted his face to look like the joker it was wild lol

@moonlightning8269

Жыл бұрын

@@Aris-tc9qy of COURSE he’s obsessed with the joker lmao

@wavingcat5

Жыл бұрын

@@Aris-tc9qy the name alone is priceless! The cover art sounds amazing 😆🤣

As one of said neurodivergent people, i constantly ask for clarification on all SORTS of social shit, its not fucking hard, to learn how to make a mask and act like everyone else and learn the social cues, and at the very least fit in and get by even if its stressful and anxious (which it can be when you run into something you dont get)

That Detroit self defence guy sounding more valid every day.

@Cussy69_420

Жыл бұрын

Haha, true!

The shittastic song literally sounds like Tyler1 clips exited together into a song and it's not only horrible but hilarious cause i can never unhear that

you’re telling me a girl won’t fall in love with me after i play homemade Death Grips ??!

Takes me back to my ex best friend literally had to be threatened out of my work with a GUN by my boss, and later tried to break into my house in the middle of the night. Cops showed up: “He hasn’t made a threat and you don’t have proof (other than the word of my boss and ENTIRE FAMILY WHO WAS HOME AS HE TRIED TO BREAK IN) so there’s really nothing we can do but ask him to leave.” I have security cameras at every door now.

11:22 hit my eyes harder than a flashbang

I work for a law office that works heavily with people convicted of sex crimes. Many convicted multiple times over decades. This guy talks just like some of the guys I work with.

Hasan is double forking his dinner??!?! LEGEND.

@futsanflier4422

Жыл бұрын

Hell yeah

"You know what happens when a woman doesn't come to terms with herself" dude looks like he's speaking from experience

literally the only thing that could've made his situation worse is if she was a minor, there was that much wrong with him

This is absolutely insane. Unfortunately, stuff like this keeps me from wanting to date any guy. Not to say that all guys are like this, but you never really know. Obviously, looking at this guy screams incel, but idk it's just crazy to think that this guy is real. Thankfully he was arrested, but man that's wild

The idea of someone playing this music to gain the affections of another is too fvcking funny...

"the problem is patriarchy not porn" you don't think porn is influenced by patriarchy? :/

@kakirin

Жыл бұрын

nodody said that especially not hasan tf ?

@RapidBlindfolds

Жыл бұрын

@@kakirin well he did imply it, how does what he said not imply that

@doll5736

Жыл бұрын

i think ur missing the point.he’s talking about the root of the issue which is the deep rooted patriarchal society not just the porn itself.porn is definitely influenced by the patriarchy.i don’t think he’s denying that

@thumbhead3370

Жыл бұрын

@@doll5736 He did kind of deny it though. Hasan is pretty open about being a coomer that watches a lot of porn. He's hyper sensitive to any criticism of the porn industry out of fear that it will implicate him as problematic for enjoying it. We can say "well actually this is all the patriarchy" all we want but that is such a banal statement that its absolutely fucking useless in terms of addressing any of the problems mentioned in this video. If we wanted to talk about rape culture for example and I said we shouldn't have that conversation because "its the patriarchy dude" is a sufficient answer to me, would you agree? I just wish he engaged in that argument a bit more, thats all.

@blackwatertv7018

Жыл бұрын

Cringe anti-porn takes.

Dude is a rightwing libertarian

i swear this a skit its too perfect

Hasan’s insults today have been so on point and hilarious 😂

Everything that guy said left me like the shocked Walter White meme. I can't comprehend the fact he said what he did.

I used to have literal panic attacks from people so much as saying hi or acknowledging me. In middle and high school girls thought I was creepy because I almost never talked or demonstrated social skills. I would have never have thought about doing anything approaching this to some random girl, I have a girlfriend now, being neurodivergent or bad in social situations does not in any way explain his behavior.

She’s 2 years older than him but he’s older than her father. The most logical incel

People you can call incels: incels.

@turboshazed7370

Жыл бұрын

Actual incels are also known as losers

I couldn't get through the first sentence without shuddering.

@albertoromero9915

Жыл бұрын

He needs to be in an insane asylum.

Imagine the boombox scene from Say Anything, but that music comes out. Sure to melt her heart.

Can confirm, he makes women not want men. I was Bi, 'bout 50/50, but then I saw his face and now it's more like 70/30 for women.

Ok, being a wannabe DJ is the biggest red flag. Prove me wrong.