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@vikramsingh3656

6 ай бұрын

Qqqqa17

If some women are not comfortable wearing saree but feel most confident wearing a western suit, she can't do that without being judged as she has the peer pressure of following a biased dress code. I know men (a majority of them) won't feel comfortable sitting in an interview in a dhoti. Same is the case with alot of women who have grown up NOT wearing indian attire on day to day basis. This is like an attack on freedom of choice tbh. It's bad for men too. A man cannot wear dhoti in an interview even if he wants to in fear of being judged. But the thing is, the number of those kind of men is comparatively very less. Who cares anyway, right? Afterall molding the comfort of women is a norm in this society

@football_Zx

Ай бұрын

Do u think ias aspirant women care if they want to wear saree or not they do not care they only want the job I have never seen any ias even talking about this matter even after getting job u need to wear saree or salwar and they without compain wear it .

@doodlymation

Ай бұрын

​@@football_Zx Just because They don't say it publicly, the matter doesn't go away

@football_Zx

Ай бұрын

@@doodlymation if u don't even talk about it publicly how this matter does not go way ??? Many does not even know there is a matter like this . Even if they know why they wear it ???

I don't understand if there is a line called "don't judge a book by it's cover" it doesn't matter what we should wear they have see our knowledge and character

@fnmidas7936

5 ай бұрын

Actually dress depend too , it shows respect and dignity

@sharmilasathishwaran3063

3 ай бұрын

Don't judge a book by it's cover, is the appearance of a person, like we shud not term them ugly or beautiful or decide on it, their inner beauty is diff. And definitely dressing matters to show ur maturity.

Bindi a sense of maturity oh my god!!! What the hell?? Let's put a sindhoor too for feminity

@7.9billionidiotsontheplane29

5 ай бұрын

Why do you hate females embracing their Feminity? Feminity is such a mystical beauty. If you dont want to wear bindi, sure! But dont be too sarcastic over females loving their Feminity.

@nalla7972

5 ай бұрын

RIghttt! a sense of maturity and she has the audacity to say it's just what's preferable when in reality they judge the hell out of the person 🙄

@snehajagajith6409

5 ай бұрын

Crazy traditions.

@anshitajain6219

Ай бұрын

Hinduphobic 😂 well honestly bindi actually adds to maturity on face ,if you don't like her advise it don't follow it ,why are you crying in the comments section ,looks like you are really frustrated due to prep !!

@anshitajain6219

Ай бұрын

​@@snehajagajith6409 yeah wear hijab then

Thank you . The video help for all kind of interview

Ma'am, I have no intention disrespecting your opinion in anyway but as a woman don't you ever think why only the women have to wear sari or salwar ( you did say they can wear suits too but saree is more preferable) but it is not said to the men that dhoti is preferable. Why only women ma'am? Please be open to my question. And I love my culture, and totally take pride in wearing from my culture but why aren't these statements made on men too?

@KhushiKumari-jt3tc

6 ай бұрын

correct

@anweshabiswas7968

6 ай бұрын

Exactly my thoughts, why not dhoti or kurta for men?

@playthechords7768

6 ай бұрын

Correct.

@turbobolt1

6 ай бұрын

@@P.S.... sir/ma'am, you're not getting my point. I'm not trying to make it any gender issue or discarding the male officers' dress code. I'm just asking why aren't these dress code on the same standard. Why only for women sari is preferred. On the other hand why dhoti isn't preferred for men? Have you seen any of them saying they prefer male officer with Dhoti? Kindly try to understand what I'm trying to say instead of getting offended.

@turbobolt1

6 ай бұрын

@@P.S.... I'm not saying dress code is wrong. I'm saying be fair. Have same boundaries for both the genders.

Great Mam

Uniform sabka barabar hona chahiye girls log traidditional mein ayenge boys agenge coat pant aur shirt mein shirt is not traditional nehru gala coat kurta pajma is traditional jaise nehru ji pahtanti thi agar dhoti nai ata h pahne tho but shirt pant is not traditional

Thank you so much, mam. It will be helpful for all Girls.

Excellent

You are so inspiring mam. Thankyou mam.

After getting job we can wear anything we like and spent money lavishly. Right? I hate people faking good at interviews to get job.

@Dcc2927

6 ай бұрын

After becoming an officer what would you wear , a hoodie ? 😂 dress code shows the discipline so it's necessary

@Rue747

5 ай бұрын

Your comment shows your childish mindset. Its not faking anything, the interview literally marks the beginning of adulthood and responsibility of the highest order in Indian administration. After landing the job, you wont have the time or energy to focus on such silly issues as spending money lavishly on shoes and clothes, your family will enjoy the benefits, you'll be proud of being able to provide it for them, but wont have enough time to sit back and relax.

@hredyakj3191

5 ай бұрын

As it is said interview is a conversation of lies between two persons😂😂

Fine

Thank-you so much mam 💯💯💫👍

She is talking about civil services interviews right To unhone ye bhi to bola h ki aap Western suits me comfortable and confident ho to you can definitely go for it Dont make it messy Msg is just that make it graceful so what's wrong with that

Mam, pls do a Vedio on things to carry while we go to lbsnaa ….

Just a thing that womens look more elegance and empowered well mannerd in sarri and as of mens suits are indication thats he has something that would guve him an confidence. Its not always about our culture , if other country is having some thing to take it from them..

What about dhoti for men? If they want to wear indian attire?

@Quicksilver12345

Ай бұрын

Why not women pay the bills then

@pallavigupta2934

Ай бұрын

@Quicksilver12345 What is the connection between dhoti and bills??

@priyankapriyadarsanigiri2278

Ай бұрын

Bcz dhoti is not common in all the states, but saree is

@pallavigupta2934

Ай бұрын

@@priyankapriyadarsanigiri2278 Why?? Dhoti and saree are our culture.

@priyankapriyadarsanigiri2278

Ай бұрын

@@pallavigupta2934 you are not getting my point. Dhoti is not worn in all the states. Men's traditional attire is different in different states. Dhoti is worn in different styles also it will be difficult for all the men to wear dhoti in a similar style. Kerala Tamil kannada people wear dhoti in different styles, Bengali and Odisha people wear in a different style. Rajasthani men prefer poshak , Maharashtran people wear dhoti in different style. Similarly Northeast States have different traditional attire some do not wear dhoti there, so Dhoti is not common in all the states but saree and salwar is common to all the state .

THANKYOUUU SOO MUCHHH🎉🥳🎊

Thank you so much ma'am.. I'm shakuntala you are role model of me..❤

For the people who are saying like why men not wear a dhoti She is saying about the impression what looks good and about the first impression For girls sarees or salwaars gives a good impression but for men the suits give a good impression thats what she is saying

@kyujiin_3617

4 ай бұрын

i get that, but why is it so? thats like basically saying "a woman who wears indian is better than a woman in a blazer" but the exact opposite for men. why the double standard? considering the exam, which is a civil service exam, dont you think the interviewee's mindset matters more than what they wear? i understand the need to look professional, but that can be done with both styles of dressing can they not? so why is one "prefered" for the woman, and other for the man?

@HasinipatelKatakam

3 ай бұрын

I think it's not a double standard ... She not said with a hatred .. we have seen women in sarees more official and vibrant in sarees rather than in blazzers But we haven't seen a men in dhotis It's not about culture it is about looks and opinion She not said to wear a blazers If you want to wear ... Just wear it She said it on her opinion

Wear a dresses like frock that's simple ...or any Punjabi dresses if not sari or salwar.

@anshitajain6219

Ай бұрын

Yeah and then don't selected 😂,babe there are certain formal wear that are preferable .

An underpost MLA transferred the IAS officer in Tamil Nadu, Cuddalore District. This is the most power only IAS has in our country. A politician won't allow IAS officers to serve.

Mam u r skin looking very pleasent can u tel me what u r wearing less makeup

Firstly don't watch this 😅if you are not into people telling what to do and what to wear no offence at all.... Why so many restriction on females only

@Neethanbellary2004

4 ай бұрын

True Girl for tredition looks and for boy they wears what they want 😂😂😂 nice joke

Thank you ma'am

Thank you mam

It's not about why can't a woman wear western or clothes of her own choice. It's just that for every ocassion we need to chose what fits appropriately. Girls prefer lehenga gowns and sarees or traditional wear in weddings.. saree in farewell.. western in after-party and birthdays... We wear uniform for school... Female Pilates and police officers have their own dress code.... In the same way saree and suits are preferred for interviews Tanu Ma'am is saying absolutely correct.. and for those who face problems in saree or suit.. she even said clearly that if they are confident they can wear western formal wear Debating on why can't we wear clothes of our choice is so childish Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice.. no person will stop you from doing that. NOTE: The above comment is in reference to debate on women wearing western or saree or anything else It's not about if women are asked to wear saree then men should have asked to wear dhoti. The two topics are totally different.

@risingstar1269

5 ай бұрын

True

@avantikaxoxo8194

5 ай бұрын

Then it should be applied to men only. Hypocrites

@sandrarhari

Ай бұрын

In the first lines itself you've made it clear that for a wedding function girls prefer lehenga, gown etc... It is a preference there. Preference definitely becomes their choice. However, asking someone to wear what they don't like to isn't a choice. A person must be judged by his/her character and how good he/she is at his/her work. Not merely by the clothes they wear, despite it being hygienic. This is a kind of conditioning where we correlate formal clothes with discipline and professionalism. Before in Kerala, it was mandatory for govt school teachers to wear saree in the name of discipline, professionalism and so on. But now it has gradually changed where teachers can be in any other attire too. Before it was a must for students to braid their hairs to school, it being the way to showcase discipline. There has been discussions on this issue here in Kerala as braiding was mandatory even if the hairs was wet. The purpose of addressing your senior officers or boss as sir/madam is also being questioned by even some ias officers itself here in Kerala. So yes, the mindset of the coming generation are changing for the good at a faster pace. And there will definitely be a day when society as a whole will start looking at this from a different perspective as that is what we've have seen in the history too regarding various other erstwhile discipline norms❤

@sshreya0820

Ай бұрын

@@sandrarhari Read carefully... I have also written that sarees and suits are PREFERRED for interviews... I have never said that they are bound to wear that... And I have also written that if they don't wanna wear saree or suit they can go for formals

@sandrarhari

Ай бұрын

@@sshreya0820 I've read through the lines, dear. 'Go on a trip or tour and wear clothes of your choice' 'if they are confident they can wear western formal wear' 'Debating on wearing clothes of your choice is childish' All these are the sentences that made me think and write about. Is it that only when you are on a trip you can be on a clothing of your choice? What is the so-called 'formal' wear? I think it's high time the perspective on putting things unnecessarily into boxes in the name of being formal and decent changes. Once Zuckerburg, the founder of Facebook was criticised for wearing a hoodie to a highly professional business meeting. Yet, he was always the Zuckerburg. From my point of view, this 'wearing formal to meeting or interview' stuff has to change sooner or later. And how can 'debating on why we can't wear clothes of our choice' become childish while you still have people even those ones who are educated, qualified and at higher positions judge others on the basis of their clothing? Even when they say it is not mandatory to follow a dress code, they do judge you and their demeanour will differ accordingly.

I am in 6th standard and I want to also become an I.A.S officer.become an ias officer it is my passion ❤❤

On the neck 🫥

English language Western culture nhi h 😂😂

@sutapabardhan3858

6 ай бұрын

This is a gender biased rule.Western for boys and traditional for girls.

@gsmagb8257

6 ай бұрын

The dumbest take anyone can have is saying english is western. English language is to be known by every person. It is part of our history too. Accept it and don't mock others for speaking English. The question here is about attire and dressing style. Address that first.

@PreetiSaharan-ly5tq

6 ай бұрын

@@gsmagb8257 नहीं, अंग्रेजी हमारी संस्कृति का हिस्सा नहीं है यह पहले थोपी गई थी

@gsmagb8257

6 ай бұрын

@@PreetiSaharan-ly5tq my point still stands. No point in being so defensive and living in such a small world. And yes, it is part of our history. U still haven't accepted it. English is the most useful language we have. But again u can do what u want.

@kiraaakawai

6 ай бұрын

​@@gsmagb8257both Eng and western attires are foreign ..and yeah they've become a part of our culture...wht she wanted to say...that if giving interview in eng is preferable...why ain't western dresses...

I did my hair colour and it is visible,,, is it kkk or i shld remove it

And mam what about the Tilak !! Is it allowed??

Formal wear for Women = Saree Formal wear for Men = Suit Why Women are supposed to wear a saree to show their culture and heritage? Why Men can wear western wear? Aren't they supposed to wear something of more ethnic? Like dhoti vesti etc? That concludes ethnic wear for female is considered a formal wear, whereas ethnic wear for male is a festive wear. Is it a joke?!

@Neethanbellary2004

4 ай бұрын

But its not important every women wears saari on interview we can wears what we want Western or tradition main important thing is aur dress-up should be perfect and good for interview with body language and main thing is aur skills and knowledge

@cia1894

4 ай бұрын

@@Neethanbellary2004 I know what every woman wears on interview. I'm asking why men don't wear our traditional outfits in interviews? Aren't they considered formal enough? I mean dhoti, veshti all these carry our culture and heritage, still ethnic wear considered casual or informal in case of men

@Neethanbellary2004

4 ай бұрын

@@cia1894 true they also wear dhoti kurta

@marpadigavenkatesham712

Ай бұрын

Exactly..

Mam , what about Burqa ? If I do complete veil even to my eyes and hands . Is that okay?

Thank you mam for posting a video about this topic.Actually I am a 6th grade student.My aim is that I want to be a IAS officer.So when I am going for the interview, I can follow what did you say.

@shivanigoyal2937

5 ай бұрын

An IAS aspirant here, I suggest you stick to your studies till graduation, and then jump into preparation for CSE.. also, a word of advice, don't count your chicks before they are hatched !

@vinitatripa7766

5 ай бұрын

@@shivanigoyal2937 the reason why u r still an aspirant is clear

@shivanigoyal2937

5 ай бұрын

@@vinitatripa7766 I guess I don't need to explain my situation to you. Rest assured, it has been my childhood dream too. And what makes you say that this "still" aspirant might not have cleared the first few stages or is still unemployed .. I might be someone who's already in the services 😂 it's funny how people who literally have no idea on a certain topic find themselves eligible to dish out information. 😂😂 how much do YOU remember of your 6th grade studies after 10 years, would be a question worth seeking answer too, as well. Peace !😂

@vinitatripa7766

5 ай бұрын

@@shivanigoyal2937 itna bada para likhne se better hai tayari krlo shyd nikal jae

@pratikshaaa8216

5 ай бұрын

@@vinitatripa7766girl she is just sharing her opinion and trying to help no need to be rude won’t be a officer with that attitude

Mom study tipis and tricks tell me please

Thank you mam❤

@amethyst._.288

Ай бұрын

Mam mine too ❤

Agar tradition matter karta hai to interviews Hindi mein honi chahiye.

Maam I have seen IAS interviews and most of then used to speak in English is it there that we can only speak in English can't we use our mother tongue or even hindi because I think most of people in india know hindi can we use our own language

@Idkeverythingstakenn

5 ай бұрын

You can use either Hindi or English.

@dianamoses7835

5 ай бұрын

South indians don't know hindi may the panel contains south indians,,,only simple english is enough for interview

Good morning Ma'am Ma'am please help me i have lots of health issues still i m preparing for UPSC. I feel so low. Please Ma'am help me 🙏🙏

Omg....when is all this going to change...Why can't a woman just wear whatever she wants to

@Killformee

5 ай бұрын

Cause you’re going in an interview, you gotta keep it formal.

@user-tx6tb6bk4s

5 ай бұрын

@@Killformee did she mention anywhere for boys to be in traditional wears ??

@sonalsharma2186

3 ай бұрын

True I agree

@pranali_dongarwar

2 ай бұрын

Patta bhi hai topic kya hai Ya jate hai comments 💬 krne😢

Maam can we put tika

Nyc mam

U can't judge anyone on basis of one'attire

The Saree wearing style is almost same in all the states . So girls of all the states can have a similar look without any controversy. But wearing dhoti is not common to all the states . Bengal and Odisha people wear same dhoti style but in Kerala Tamil Nadu they wear it differently also in many states dhoti is not worn by men they wear different traditional attire like In Rajasthan they prefer poshak , similarly in Jammu and Northeastern states ,the dhoti draping style is also different. This would create a controversy. To prevent such issues men wear the western shirt pant . Its not mandatory for girls also to wear saree, they can wear salwar/ suit/ saree. Bcz the styling is same for all women.

What about bangles mam

okay you may become IFS after service then how will a female officer represent our country in an international summit/ organisation..?

@xoxotous4814

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. I think always wearing sarees in such occassions seems inconvenient. Female diplomats should also be allowed to wear suits imo like male diplomats. Standards shoukd not always be put on females.

Colour of bindi

Why bindi

What should be for Muslim girls ?

@khanmeer929

3 ай бұрын

Suit

Mam I m in 9th standard and my dream is become a I .A.S officer 💖

@laliteshkabir8818

5 ай бұрын

I am in class 7 and my dream also to become an IAS officer 💖

@jayho3565

5 ай бұрын

Beta ap ap dono pado or khub pado me graduation last year ki student hu mene upsc ki taiyari shuru ki hai avi ..okk so ap dono achhe se pado jo bhi subject lena chahoge 11th standard me ,so I think you can go for social science subject ok and jo bhi ap abhi NCERTs pad rhe hoge bo sab ache se padna bo bhi upsc ka hi part hai use waste nhi samjhna...

This and all doesn't matter.

Ma'am what you are suggesting for a girl from Arunachal Pradesh.... Since in our culture we don't have a saree.nd salwar too....i do like women who wears saree especially in an official things...

@football_Zx

2 ай бұрын

Saree is the culture wear of India if u are thinking of becoming ias u are representing india not only arunachal pradesh

It's better to go in normal dress 😂why to waste time in searching salwars,sariess .....😂😂😂😂

@Neethanbellary2004

4 ай бұрын

Saari is also good for girls but in blazer the girl so cool

Mam using kannada Longauge in interview

Soory. Pastel clours look very bad n sad looking. Its not good. Its your opinion. We indian have right to wear bright good colours in handloom. Officers dont look good in pastel. I agree with jewellery should be moderate. Well dressed person is appreciated. Poorly dressed person looks shabby. The type of clothing you speak does not suit everyone.

Can you please clarify the media that you are not IAS .

Mam advised from boy's please

Mam I wanna ask that can girls wear a western suit for the interview session if they aren't comfortable in sarees and Salwar suit ?

@football_Zx

2 ай бұрын

ias aspirant does not care about dress they only want job if they aren't comfortable do not go for this job

Formals?

Yar kya ias sindur or bangles pehan skte h academy me

What if a girl rides on bike

Mam my aim is IAS mam please give me some suggestions what can I do my for my aim which Books are studied for my aim please suggest mam please

What about hijab mam....

What about Hijab

Those who are debating about saree and dhoti in this comment section some can't even clear upsc prelims and they are debating about interview round😂😂😂😂😂😂

Don't judge any book by its cover

May i wear the burqa in the interviews

Love you mom I don no english language 😢 iam kerala olly malayalam

@user-wv6cb5je9i

6 ай бұрын

Read english books everyday. It definetly helps.

@user-nc8tf9uc4b

6 ай бұрын

@@user-wv6cb5je9i but english ആശയം അറില്ല ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് വായിക്കാൻ അറിയാം മലയാളത്തിൽ ആശയം ആകുവാൻ അറില്ല

@user-wv6cb5je9i

6 ай бұрын

Books vaayikkumbol arinjoodathe words dictionary il nokki manassilakki vaayikkanam. Pinnea english movies okkea kand nokk pathukkea pathukkea improve aavum.

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6 ай бұрын

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6 ай бұрын

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However, if you are an IAS officer but should keep quiet with politicians, then why this much drama?

Mujuko English nahi aati i am sociology student hu kya mai this subject me ias exam

See guys how much ever you argue or feel biased about girls dressing what she said is 100% correct .. Indian dresses on Indian women represents our culture and gives good vibes in interview and respect too .

@supersipra3782

5 ай бұрын

And not indian men?

@taeshi9541

5 ай бұрын

Then that should be applicable to men too. Men must wear kurta too if he's not comfortable he can wear kurta pajama.

@Riya77775

5 ай бұрын

So, Indian men don't represent our culture? That's a ridiculous and sexist (for both sexes) thing to say.

@taeshi9541

5 ай бұрын

@@Riya77775 obviously they don't. How many men a day do you see wearing dhoti? Almost never. But you will see plenty of women in saree in just a min. It's just hypocrisy of our society and govt

@lifeisbeautiful5509

5 ай бұрын

@@Riya77775 come on if you are so concerned then wear a dhoti and go , who is stoping you ?

Namaste mam I am from Karnataka i studied in kannada midiam can I take ias exam

How beautiful she is

Can a Muslim girl wear bindi.....

@anjuraut6434

6 ай бұрын

As long as you are comfortable and like to wear it

@Neethanbellary2004

4 ай бұрын

Ya offcourse its not restrictions for putting bindi you can put bindi

@amreenkazmi2637

4 ай бұрын

@@Neethanbellary2004 mujhe small si bindi bhut psnd h but mujhe lgta h ki muslim hone ki wajah s kbhi qus pr qus kre

@Neethanbellary2004

4 ай бұрын

@@amreenkazmi2637 agar aap saari aur bindi mein obsessed hain toh pehne niye koi zabardasti nahi hain aap saari aur bindi na pehno agar aap bindi laga rahe ho aapke pe religion ko koi fark nahi padega yeh aapki choice hain aap kaunse kapde pehente ho kaise rehte ho kya karte ho kisi ko koi haq nahi aapke choice pe haq jataye agar aapko koi Aisa kahe toh unke baaton pe dhyan mat do

I am an IT Engineer but some how am a big fan of tanu mam

Mam u r right ,actually girls think that half of interview marks on his Getup and makeup🎉😂

@farhintabassum1789

5 ай бұрын

Aisa tumhe lagta h

@waqarkhn21

5 ай бұрын

@@farhintabassum1789 true facts but against u so u nrv accpt that

@yashitanwar6896

4 ай бұрын

First go and learn some basic English grammar 😂 fir aake Gyan batna😂😂

You are very sweet..madam

what is that pronounce we-a-a-a-r😂😂😂

Please stop with the incorrect pronunciation of the word “wear”, especially at such a reputable position.. No offence..it could be a mistake, but doesn’t seem to be as you’re pronouncing it the same way all throughout the video.. P.S- you need not mention long hair(s), just long hair (more or a less a collective singular)

You wear a saree and put a bindi you’re decent… wahhha

Any boys here😂😂

She is not saying what is right and what is wrong shenis saying how to be more capable of being selected and probability of being selected, dont put ever think in feminism, this is the problem faced by pseudo feminists actually, think what is important being selected in any dress or being selected in that dress only in which you wanted to be selected , as you cant say that dont take interview of introvert if you think about extrovert who love being expreessive why to demand introvers also to be expressive and give interview, select us without posing anything extrovertist thing on us, if extrovert's like expressing introverts dont like expressing select akus as we want to be selected,,, thinking in this pattern IS MERE FOOLISHNESS AND NOTHING ELSE

But after getting job every one use this .why