Perfect test. I lost 6 years of my life due to toxic relationship. Thank God that I am still alive. But career and mental health ki band bajj gyi.

@BongOnYatra

Ай бұрын

I spent 2 golden year of my life for this stupid thing.

@kirangrover9317

Ай бұрын

@@BongOnYatra I can understand. Don’t let this spoil more. Start your journey here….it’s never too late in life to seek a newer world.

@BongOnYatra

Ай бұрын

@@kirangrover9317 yes absolutely.

@Mahesh...........55

Ай бұрын

Mera bhi vahi haal huwa Bhai

@BongOnYatra

Ай бұрын

@@Mahesh...........55 koi na Sikh Lo aur aage bero bro

So the answer is stay single and love youself forever.♡!!!

@rashidahmed8558

Ай бұрын

*NO* , look running from natural things is not solution it is the law of nature which if not practice *human race will diminish* the best solution is to *find a person and test him with ur love instead of asking money or iPhones.* also you must give him time and respect him. MY STORY : I GOT BREAKUP FROM MY GF AND I GET TO KNOW SHE WAS HUNGRY OF MONEY THEN WHAT I DO WHEN WE FALL IN RELATIONSHIP I TAKE HER TO WROST HOTEL WHERE ROACHES. ARE COMMON BUT SHE IGNORE THEM AND ONLY CARES ME. I ALSO LIED ABOUT MY UNFERTILITY BUT SHE STILL IGNORE AND THEN I TELL HIM WHAT I AM AND CHOOSE THIS BEST GIRL AND MAŔY WITH HIM❤❤❤

@physicsrmr2949

Ай бұрын

Yes, bcz... All these qualities can't be visible in one person.... But one thing can sure... If that person have true Love, he or she will, otherwise everything is relative

@zankarpanchani9886

Ай бұрын

Ya true single and love yourself is best .

@sahilsubham3583

Ай бұрын

I like this sister❤❤

@moonshimmer123

Ай бұрын

Yes but after some years seeing our peers,we will regret and feel lonliness

1. Can you be yourself when you are with your partner ? 2. If someone says you are exactly like your partner in nature, are you happy with ot or not ? 3. Are you afraid to tell about your past or future dreams to your partner? 4. Think like a parent and would you be happy if your child in future is in relationship with a person exactly like your partner now ? 5. Does your partner respects those people visions or factors that you values very much in your life ?

@saurabhshinde4773

Ай бұрын

Such a list of compromisation get some self love in ur life.

@zankarpanchani9886

Ай бұрын

Answer is no No No

@priyanshisharma634

Ай бұрын

All five factors are with me at this time . And I feel very lucky to have such one . 😊

@jayasankarkumar7352

Ай бұрын

My partner is the best and satisfied all the conditions. But right now she is not with me😢 She said that even I've satisfied all the conditions. She referred to watch this video. Waiting for her🥺😔

@kapilkumarvishwakarma1701

29 күн бұрын

​@@jayasankarkumar7352bhai tera cutt gya

I was suspicious about my first love. I was always thinking that whether that person is right or wrong for me. I asked myself those 5 questions and realized that something was wrong....Anyway I convinced myself and moved on. I have destroyed 4 golden years of my life because of those stupid things . But, this video was helpful to me to get rid of those toxicity . My mental health was totally destroyed, but Now what can I do is to focus on my career. oh,,,,Thanks to God for saving me ...

@princesstanishka5659

Ай бұрын

Same situation 😭😔😭. As your situation..

@user-zi9um3gf6u

Ай бұрын

So true.

I found mine as an angel.......and i m very lucky to have her in my life....❤❤❤❤.....Thank to the almighty....

@Kamal_Maalde

Ай бұрын

Naya naya pyaar

@modernman1240

28 күн бұрын

​@@Kamal_MaaldeIski bajegi baad mein. 10 saal baad is comment ki notification dekh ke khud ko GAALI dega😂😂😂😂

@Randomuser00786

2 күн бұрын

How old are you?

Ye wo discussion h jo parents apno baccho ke saath nhi krte ❤❤thank u mam😊

I had lost my 5 years but now I am so happy in my relationship.. all these 5 rules have in my recent relationship ... I Love him so much ❤

I lost my10yrs with out any happiness ...... Now I lost a person to adjust also now I am completely vulnerable condition with one lovey boy kid......😢

@dipankarroy9752

Ай бұрын

Same to you 😢..... Now time to go back to the state like before birth

Nothing is better than solitude. Marriage and relationships are overhyped. Being single is the new normal in current times. Thanks

One of the must spoken topic nowadays but many don't thanku thankuuu for the message.

Thanks alot Mam For Such Valuable and Remarkable Words,

I really needed these things...tnx a lot mam❤

I'm lucky and fortunate my partner has all this qualities its been 1decade already

@sureshkoharar

Ай бұрын

Congratulations maam ✨️✨️🙏🙏

@sureshkoharar

Ай бұрын

Same here❤

@saurabhshinde4773

Ай бұрын

Girl check the back of ur men . men never have anything good , and this is coming from me as a men.

@subham26

24 күн бұрын

Shadi kiya ki sirf relationship me hi ho

Thank You So much Madam... this video was posted at a right time.......very useful

I feel finding the perfect partner is nearly impossible because we don't fully understand ourselves, making it difficult to predict our preferences over the span of several decades. Instead, we establish criteria to convince ourselves that we've made the right choice. Survival and procreation are fundamental human instincts, driving our actions and contributions to society. Happiness is a bonus that comes when we are secure and responsible individuals, leading to fulfillment in various aspects of life.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I wish i had this video long time back.

My girl is one among the lakhs...! Simple, honest, dedicated, caring and of loving nature...!❤

Yes I pass the 5 questions, my relationship is of 8 years..... He always support me in my career, in all aspect of life... Thank you shiva❤❤

Ma'am apke sare question mere mind me the step by step .aap use openly share krke clear diye. ❤

It means I have got the right one. Thank you very mush shree Krishna . Thank you to you too maam for making us analytical. Regards 🙏🙏

@BigDataWithSky

19 күн бұрын

rare comment

Wowww mam so nicely explain .....i hv spent 25 years with wrong partner ...i dont get angry .....i ended with wrong husband. .but now no other option ..😢😢...now in next janam i will find my soulmate 😢

@prabha927

Ай бұрын

Never think it's late. We can always restart a new life.

@zankarpanchani9886

Ай бұрын

@@prabha927 thanks Punam ya i know it's never late I wish I cld , but I can't I hv 20 year old son ... But I truly i appreciate your compassion for me ...thank u Dil se .

@sudrakshyapanda2102

Ай бұрын

One bold step and you see the other side of life which is so much better, that first step is most difficult! But of course, it’s your life, you know what’s best for you 🙏🏼 I have someone in this similar situation, even she is unable to come out of this toxic relationship 😔 Can understand 🙏🏼 But one try and you can see rainbows , life is beautiful 🙏🏼

@zankarpanchani9886

Ай бұрын

@@sudrakshyapanda2102 ya thank u sudrakshya , wld luv to see that rainbow ...but as I m a mother so I can't ...thank u for your compassion... Aaaaaaaaa i feel like screaming....u know I can't see any couples 😞😭😭 and smtimes I see and I feel their happiness .

@prabha927

Ай бұрын

@@zankarpanchani9886 Stay positive, ignore people around you what will they say, take strong decisions about your life. Think what is best for you and your son. Best of luck for everything.

All true points ma'am 😊, thank u for sharing 🙏🏻❤

Ye 5 qualitys mere riste me hai or ham dono hi bahut khush hai thankyou mam ❤❤

It felt like ma'am spoke to me, heart to heart about the things I've been struggling alot lately seeing answers here and there, how simply you put it in words ma'am.... Thanks alot for the pep talk!!!

Thank you ma'am for sharing though I have came out many years back from this type of toxic relationship, but it could be a reference for all the teenagers and also for the adults who did not take the right decision for some emotional reasons. Also it can be a reference for our next generation too. ❤ Always love your personality ma'am. Although I am not an UPSC aspirant but I have implemented in my life and get the desired results.Thank you for the guidance ma'am. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

👍👍👍👍👍👍.... Very2 thanks ma'am for your most valuable speech......

I have found mine on same virtues you have mentioned. I am lucky to have found suitable partner.

Thank you ma'am ☺️ all these things my partner have 😊you gave me more clarity about my relationship ❤

He is perfect for me😌😌😌, He has all these qualities.❤❤

Mujhy aik ladka mila hai... Or us mai ye sab qualities hain...wo har tareeqy se best and perfect hai... And we both really love, respect and care for each other... When we r together we are happy and at peace. But there is one problem which is not gonna unite us😢and that's the religious issues... I'm a muslim girl and he is a hindu guy... And in islam A muslim woman is strictly prohibited to marry a hindu guy😢 that's is why we know that we can never marry... And we still respect each other's religion ..infact he celebrated Eid for my happiness and i celebrates Holi for him...---And we r absolutely sad about this...😢 we just want now to make some memories in our lives.. I am feeling kinda emotional right now... But it's how it is! We can never be one. 😢

@AlokKumar-yc4ud

15 күн бұрын

First verify and validate...with reference that you can't marry him...think about your beloved.. profit parents...are they?

@gauravchaturvedi6080

7 күн бұрын

see, I must say, Take these tests and if it's successful, never lose him !!! u r lucky if he passes all these levels!! no matter what, be with him and after sometime, all parents will consider ur love, don't worry, but never lose him

Perfect discussion❤

Love u maim apne mere bahut se daut clear kar di ...jab ham parent ki tarah sochtey hai to jayeda aacha sochtey hai thanks maim to aur point ❤❤❤

You are absolutely right mam 💯

Extremely essential topic explained excellently.

Yesss.. She's absolutely right✔.

So well said, and how you said you are old school... Honestly your thought process is next level and brilliantly explained, I have not heard such sensible thoughts for many years now. Really impressed and a great help to my current mental state. Keep it up 👍 Thank you

I really love the way u guide or teach us mam... really appreciated this life lesson video ❤

Thankyou so much ma'am ❤😊

Met her in 9th Standard Completed 14 years Together Happily Now She is marrying somebody else referring Parents are not ready The only question comes while handling unbearable pain Does Love Exist ??

@dshng...5554

10 күн бұрын

Bro, you fell in love. What do you do when you fell down? Come on, get up!

दुनिया का कोई भी रिश्ता परफेक्ट नहीं है और ना ही टिकाऊ है...यही सत्य है.

It's too late to know these rules. Without say, I'll share it. It's much needed discussion we youngsters need. When, such open conversation would start among parents and child, many lives could be saved.

ये सब सुन के सिर में दर्द हो जाता है सब किस्मत का खेल है किसी की बन जाती है किसी की बिगड़ जाती है ज्यादा expectations मत रखो किसी से

@opchoudhary8633

Ай бұрын

Pure video se jayda kaam ki baat bta di aapne... Perfect insaan nahi milta ese jisme sab quality ho.... randomly jo mil gya mil gya.

Thank you ma'am for changing my perspectives at the right time

Abslutally right 👍😊.... Thanks 🙏

Thank you so much.. ..❤❤❤❤ very fruitful advice... thank u for sharing this . ... beautiful words And true life aspects with us. ... I appreciate u ...thnk u for the bottom of my heart ❤❤❤....

Wowww maam how beautifully u made us understand everything ❤🎉

Perfect. Very nice explanation and to the point

Thank you mam. Now I'm very clear about my relationship. ❤

Thanks for Very Important Guidance

Thank you for explaining so clearly 🙏🏼

Explained beautifully....Thank you Dr. Tanu Jain❤

Exactly 101%🎉 I totally agree 👍 you ma'am.

Thank you very much madam to guide us about the one of the major decisions of life😊

Thank You ma'am ❤

Well said❤ perfectly explained thanks a lot Madam❤

Yes maam thankyou very much🙏🙏

I feel very very comfortable with him nd i am always real with him😊

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne ma'am aapke sare hi rules true h ❤❤❤❤

Thank u sooo much ma'am ❣️❣️❣️❣️🧿🧿🙏🙏✌️✌️ love you so much 🤗🙏

Well said Mam. Kudos to you🎉🎉

Thankyou mam its very helpful..much needed

Love❤ relationship pe mujhe Aaj pahli baar itna trust hua,Thank you So Much Maam Govt. job

Beautiful video with the beautiful explanation . ❤

I love you ma'am...aapke baato se he lagta hae aap bohot ache ho Dil se... Huge respect to you. Main life me atleast ekbar aapse jarur milna chaungi... Stay happy and healthy ❤

Very informative video for choosing life partner, Thanks ma'am ✨

Nice explanation useful for everyone 😊😊

Tanu Mam 🥰bilkul ek Maa ki trah pyar se smjhati hai kyuki enke chehre se Maa ki chavvi jhalkti hai❤jb bhi mein inko sunta hu to apni mummy ki yaad aa jaati meri mummy to mujhe Covid ke time chodkar chli gyi thi 🥺Miss u maa.... mam selection ke baad aapse milne zarur aayunga...

Beautifully explained, ma'am!

Thank you so much ma'am for this...🙏🏻🙏🏻

Of 5 test ,4 tests are absolutely fine for me and my partner and that remaining one got spoiled just because of me but theek ho jayegi vo bhi and so m happy 🎉🎉🎉 kbhi socha h nhi k jis partner ko hum yuhin koste hain uske sath to sare test pass kr liye.....😊😊

Nice suggestions mam keep it up helping future generations who loss these kind of suggestions due to nuclear families..... System which is max follwed now...

Well explained❤

This is very helpful ❤❤ .... Nobody changes ...

Best part is Accept the people how they are since negative part/habit also comes with the package.

Mam I respect u...came here to listen to U

Thanku mam❤very valuable suggestions 🎉

Thankyou so much ma'am, this video was much needed for me. Though I already broke up my relationship with my boyfriend, and it's been more than 15 days we're not talking, but I was in a dillema if I have taken any wrong decision or not, but after watching your video I am now clear about my decision, though it's very tough for me to move on, lekin kehte h na thokar khate khate log Sikh jaate h, toh m v rote rote pata nehi kab Sikh gai Bina roye khudko usse dur kar dena, bahut disrespect mental torture blame saha h Maine, ab aur nehi, Jo insaan mere past ko leke mujhe har waqt taana mare just because wo apni present m ki hui galtiyan chupa sake,jiske sath m harwaqt ek ajeeb sa Darr leke rehti hu ki kuch galti na ho jaye or wo insaan phirse mujhpe chillayen, mujhe abuse kare, blame kare, I don't deserve to be with such kind of person. Thanks mam❤ Ab jitna v dukh ho bas ye confirm ho gai he is not a perfect partner and never could be a good partner as well. He is a man with full of toxicity and ego. Thankyou so much for this video.❤

@shikhamaurya4086

Ай бұрын

Now r u okk?

@user-ly2oq8st2u

Ай бұрын

Are you even a perfect partner.

@theglamfam53

29 күн бұрын

@@shikhamaurya4086 yes I am much better now , no false blames, no more insecurities, only focusing on my studies and job.

@NFS691

28 күн бұрын

Most girls find toxic boys as attractive subconsciously during their prime age. Somehow they confuse toxicity with great masculinity. There are guys who are calm quite,having good morals like ram. They hv control upon their emotions. But because of good nature;;girls consider them as boring. They are attracted towards guys like ravan who always trying to show their dominance upon others. But once their lust is over;;their relationship is over. Then they have 2nd option to pick those gentle guys whom they find unattractive during their prime time. Edit:-if u consume bad things,,u have to suffer in the end. U can't blame that bad thing.

Tq so much mam this wonderful knowledge 😊

Radhe Radhe❤

Mam thankuhh for this suggestion... And I am so happy....😊❤❤

Rationality se decisions le sakthe hei …! Magar vo rationality ko follow karne ko emotions ki jarurat hei 👌

Thank you so much for the guidance ma'am 😊

Thank you ma'am for your valuable words 🙏

Greatest asset you can have in accordance to me when you like or love someone is patience -- being patient while you’re alone in your journey even though you’re friends , your greatest asset is your patience - neutral capacity mein kam karein - chaahe relationships ki baat ho -- I’ve never been in a relationship even though I’ve slept with people for my own desires -- but at last I can say there’s a beautiful connection in front of me and by being patient I’m seeing and moving forward slowly and carefully - if this works I will be married within 2 years ❤🎉

Thank you ma'am But my love is fulfilled and pass all your test..

There should be a good understanding too. Kavi kavi love ke liye thodi thodi change karna v padta hai khud ko , that does not mean u r doing according to his / her choice , this show the love how u love ur partner ( in special case of changeing urself , I am telling about) . And last thing jyada tara ladkiyan bahut shak karte hai ye me ni puti duniya kehe raha hai.❤

LAMHON NE KHATAYEN KI THI, SHADIYO NE SAZA PAYI ✅

Mai toxic relationship me is tarah fasi hu ki na nikal pa rahi na sath rah pa rahi ghar wale ready par. Uske torcher ki koi had nhi h

Mam, whoever your friends are, those youngsters, are quite lucky to have you.

Mam, l like you and your way of teaching and saying things very much ♥️👍

Very good advice and very practicle

Very nice advices for all of us

Madam.. Responsibility is when you take without expecting something in return. Only dare to enter into relationship or chose a partner if you have the ability to take responsibility. If not stay single. Tiday we are chosing so called partners to fulfill each others desires and expectations. Thars called barter system of give n take and we package into something called marriage..no wonder marriages nowdays dont last long , besides todays generation is smart enuf not to enter into such contracts..

Perfect 😃😃

If persons regret of their actions they may actually change!

Ma'am yahan per to koi confusion ni rehta h,,,,, bas darr ki wajah se confusion create hota h ki parents ni manege kyunki hamare India me aaj bhi jaat aur dharam ko priority di jati h sabse pehle,, aisi situation me to relationship ke bare me soch bhi ni skte,,,,,

@KesharRam-xs4fj

24 күн бұрын

Same problem hai yaar.

100 percent ❤ right ma'am

i have passed test no. 1(yes,i use to behave with him as i'm..no show off),2(i feel complimented whenever someone says that me and he are same),4(definitely,vibes and secureness that i got from him can't be expected from anyone else.so i'll be happy if my child go in relationship with that person who is just like my partner),5(yes we use to talk once in week just because i'm preparing for state pcs..so he decided to talk once in week in order to focus on studies)..but can't pass test no. 3 because i had tried to commit suicide last year due to my mistake of distracting from my studies and start chatting with a guy whom i don't even met. but the person who is currently in my life likes me because he thinks that i'm descent girl that he had never met a girl like me in his life..he told me this himself when i asked him about my quality for which he likes me..but i afraid that if i tell him about my past i'll lost him..what should i do..suggest me mam😟

You have a smile of an angel, appreciate your help here, you gave me clarity, you are super intelligent, Didi I am not a upsc aspirant ek upcoming writer, painter and cricker will you give me your autograph if I come across you in my life?

Farishta ho ap mam mere liye 🙏❤... Right now I am passing through this state only that whether I should choose him or not...and this vdo has helped me to get my answer 😌, thank you so much mam 😊❤🙏