I hit my breaking point on this once and said: There are 50 people in this room doing something I'm not doing yet I'm perfectly comfortable. You see _one_ person not doing what you're doing and are uncomfortable enough to make an issue of it. What does that say about you?

@25MK

7 жыл бұрын

This is the perfect response. Very well put!

@Nekrochomikon8

7 жыл бұрын

"There are 50 people in the room that are wearing clothes yet I'm perfectly comfortable being naked around them. You see one person being naked and are uncomfortable enough to make an issue of it. What does that say about you?" Well it doesn't really apply everytime.

@Nekrochomikon8

7 жыл бұрын

Harzburgitic Why? It's the majority to wear clothes as well as it is the majority to drink at a party.

@Nekrochomikon8

7 жыл бұрын

No. I have no idea what kind of logic had lead you to that conclusion.

@kirahb5757

7 жыл бұрын

Nekrochomikon8 The reason why your logic with the naked people doesn't really work is because alcohol and nudisism are both looked at as negative things. (from how I understood it) The original post is referring to a sober person feeling comfortable being surrounded by something negative (for lack of a better word). And those negative people don't feel comfortable around the positive person and they want him to fit in and be negative. Your example by having a room full of clothes people and one naked person is putting one negative person in a room full of positive people who want the megative person to do something positive. Which is the opposite of the original post. Sorry for my bad explanation, but I hope you still understand what I'm trying to say.

I'd like to point out it's not only addicts or religious people who avoid drinking, but also people who just don't like it. I don't like drinking, because it tastes gross and makes me sleepy. Just why?

@natanyat4901

7 жыл бұрын

Heartburn

@blackbatcult

7 жыл бұрын

Abstersroxx seriously. Like, I'm sorry I don't need it to have fun and I'd prefer it to be sick and hating life in a few hours. Smh.

@noacross4903

7 жыл бұрын

Abstersroxx i made my boyfriend stop because i didnt like him drinking. its a waste of money and bad for you. he's way healthier now and saved a lot of money so i can finally meet him for the first time after being with him for 2 years

@AliBanana1493

7 жыл бұрын

exactly

@sophialea15

7 жыл бұрын

yeah exactly, for me it just doesn't make me feel good for whatever reason, I feel ill 95% of the times I drink so there's just nothing fun or enjoyable in it.

"Don't be boring" Says people who require alcohol to have fun

@olly1793

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I already have a drunk personality so I don’t even wanna know what I’m like with alcohol in my system 😂😂

@hh-ck3yw

4 жыл бұрын

@Ebony Addison i bet you smoke yourself hypocrite

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

@Zelda Ray Stop wasting your time trolling and try to do something actually productive. The Internet is not for trolls like you.

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Dragon7ly I can take any opinion, but she said that you need alcohol to have fun, but really, that’s not true. I just don’t get why poisoning yourself and going ape shit throwing up and getting wasted as shit is considered “fun”. To me, that sounds very unpleasant. But if you want to drink poison and get wasted, go ahead. More power to you. I could care less about what you do with your body. But please don’t spread misinformation about alcohol, because we don’t want to be dragged down to your level. We already have enough alcoholics in the world, and we don’t need more.

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Dragon7ly I didn’t say that I was better than you. Where did I say that? XD Learn to read, pal. Let me reiterate: I don’t have a problem with people drinking, but my pet peeves are that drinkers WON’T accept the fact that I don’t drink. I’ve seen many people drink until they get drunk and wasted, and I just don’t want to go down that path. I’m not forcing you to stop alcohol, I’m just asking you to accept that I don’t drink, and that’s all I want. It’s just my personal preference. This is another reason why I don’t like the Western culture. Besides, there are MANY ways to have fun without alcohol. You can read a book, play video games, go to an amusement park, go out with friends, etc. I don’t drink alcohol because I want to live longer and have a great life. Alcohol, for me, is ONLY used for cooking recipes, because at that point, all the alcohol has been vaporized.

Drunk culture is *SUCH* a problem. But when you tell people that, you're a weirdo. Smh

@amy-bethtaylor2656

4 жыл бұрын

This reminds me of a friend who often drives drunk and then I wonder why I'm still friends with her. I despise the idea of driving drunk; such a selfish act. But if I confront her (about anything) she will brush it off. Makes me mad.

@ivagrujic248

4 жыл бұрын

@@amy-bethtaylor2656 From my experience. Never. And i mean NEVER have friends that put you and others in danger. Dont get me wrong i dont want to tell you what to do, just speaking from experience. Have a nice day/night

@amy-bethtaylor2656

4 жыл бұрын

@@ivagrujic248 No I totally agree with you hun! I should speak with her and see if she can wake up about the situation. If not, it's better not to consider her a friend, unfortunately. Thanks for your constructive feedback! :)

@JadaKingdom971

4 жыл бұрын

@@amy-bethtaylor2656 you should probably signal her to authorities if necessary. I really despise drunk drivers, sorry.

@amy-bethtaylor2656

4 жыл бұрын

@@JadaKingdom971 No need to apologize. Of course ❤❤. Wise advice.

"live a little" "I'LL LIVE LONGER!" ahhah best

@Ecka789x

7 жыл бұрын

Amber P. does ir matter to live few more years when youre an old shit and u cant do anything

@Michael-yq9wu

7 жыл бұрын

edga truth tho. Rather have good years younger than more years older. Every year younger is worth 5 years when you're older

@leakenny1125

7 жыл бұрын

Michael 2715 That's not what you'll think when you're older.

@Ecka789x

7 жыл бұрын

Lea Kenny at least ill die with no regrets and fun memories

@leakenny1125

7 жыл бұрын

But that's the point. One does not need alcohol/drugs to have fun times.

I can't drink yet but I'll never drink because my dad was a severe alcoholic and it just brings bad memories and what if I become like that? So no thanks.

@veracorben

7 жыл бұрын

Exact same. I'm glad someone feels this way too, a lot of children of alcoholics also severely start drinking, but there is an oppisite to that too!

@rawrsophiex

7 жыл бұрын

Lauren good 👍🏼

@Neerawenxhee

7 жыл бұрын

Lauren Literally me. I swear. Why do I need to give people another reason?

@HelloMyNameIsSalad

7 жыл бұрын

plot twist: youre not youre dad & youre in control of yourself

@Hailz12211

7 жыл бұрын

turntrie this is true, but growing up that way would of still been unappealing and sill make the idea not worth it.

As a person who has never consumed alcohol, and intends to never do, the most annoyed I've become is when people don't believe that I won't start drinking at some point. It's like "Oh, you're gonna have a drink one day, and then you're going to like it and you'll just start doing it". But I don't WANT to like it, stop trying to push it on me! Luckily, I'm way too stubborn to listen to any of those people

@AutomaticDuck300

5 жыл бұрын

Always remember that the people who try to force it on you are usually miserable and/or insecure. They want to drag you down to their level because misery loves company. I've genuinely had someone ask me how I can be happy without it. The simple answer to this is to surround yourself with people who are happy and secure in themselves already. Then they won't care if you drink or not.

@halalpolice7544

4 жыл бұрын

It’s actually amazing to see pple like you who doesn’t drink whole it’s something normal in their society which can be very difficult to not do it. Surprise, Surprise coz I never in my life thought there are some Nonmuslim who can control themselves and not drink it at all. 😱 OMG

@Rostovpapa738

4 жыл бұрын

The same is here! Where can meet a guy who does like alcohol the same like me?

@silverflower7226

3 жыл бұрын

VikzeLink Same here

@-Viva-Cristo-Rey

2 жыл бұрын

yeah good for you

Reasons why I personally don’t drink: 1. I don’t like the taste of alcohol 2. I don’t like the smell of alcohol 3. I don’t like the idea of me being unable to control my body and say/do something stupid that I will regret the next day. 4. I don’t want to get addicted to it 5. I’m scared that I would get taken advantage of if all of my friends were drunk. (I’m usually the one who has to take care of my friends) 6. I don’t want to damage my liver.

@cosmicwonderhoof133

3 жыл бұрын

You practice totalism!

@_InsertName_

3 жыл бұрын

*Same* Also 7. We just don't like alcohol and passing out.

@annalisachristou3759

3 жыл бұрын

every. single. one. YES.

@vattanaktv5082

3 жыл бұрын

@@_InsertName_ will someone admit 8. i don't drink because i don't like someone that drinks ?

@Shaam_il

3 жыл бұрын

I don't drink because Allah says don't drink.

I don't drink. Never have, never will. Drugs and alcohol do not appeal to me.

@The-Cat

7 жыл бұрын

Alcohol = drug

@tforceraven

7 жыл бұрын

I know but generally when I refer to alcohol as a drug, the uninformed masses of the internet go mental like "ALCOHOL ISN'T A DRUG", so now I just separate the two.

@ichiroxD

7 жыл бұрын

tforceraven girl u have a fair point. totally agree

@hedwig041

7 жыл бұрын

techfan42 being sober does not make you unattractive, and you do not need alcohol to become attractive. I'm female and I'm sober, and personally I find being sober an attractive quality, maybe purely because it's something I can connect with, or maybe because I like a man who stands by what he believes or knows to be right for him. It's not to say I find people who drink unattractive, not at all, but someone who knows drinking is not for them, and stands by it, that's pretty attractive.

@Jay-bm2eu

7 жыл бұрын

tforceraven same

-Why don't you drink? -Because it tastes awful, and it feels like something that really shouldn't be going down. -You just haven't found your drink. -I've tasted wine, white, red and pink, tequila, congnac, whyskey, beer, local liquors, rum, gin, mezcal, pulque, sake, and even something I believe was illegal, all in different price points and brands, aone and mixed, never wanted more than a sip. So I just came to the conclusion that I don't like alcohol, thanks.

@boulshyte8932

6 жыл бұрын

wtf? illegal? hahahahahah

@BuonoBabester

6 жыл бұрын

DarkPock omg hahaha I hear that so much. I will like a drink that doesn't taste like alcohol and doesn't have any side effects... let me just go down to Coles and get a 2L coke for 90cents which I can have the whole night while you spend $12 on a single drink XD

@micaelameyer8447

6 жыл бұрын

I feel you man!

@bleble0202

6 жыл бұрын

DarkPock drinks? Hun? :****

@perlandstrom5023

6 жыл бұрын

Aro & Monsuuni cider is fine but it tastes way better if its alcohol free XD

"Why don't you drink?" 1. I don't like the taste of alcohol very much. 2. I know how to have fun without needing to drink.

@hotpinkgamerchic

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@hydrofalls8154

4 жыл бұрын

@Zelda Ray I can counter at least with one of your argument. The other don't see it as a counter argument. 1 Yup, I tried, didn't like it. 2 I don't really have more fun when I eat ice cream. I get humiliated everytime.

@mimibear3662

4 жыл бұрын

Camilla Olsen finally! someone said it

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Zelda Ray If you want to drink, go ahead. I could care less about what you do. Just stop trying to spread misinformation about it. We don’t want you to drag us down to your level.

@zalaegerszeg9527

4 жыл бұрын

I love the taste, it’s just that I dislike the feeling of getting too tipsy. So I tend to not drink much and only on special occasions usually

For those who say “You are no fun” if someone doesn’t drink, let me tell you that we have more fun watching people being drunk while WE are sober, that’s way more funny than actually being drunk haha

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

3 жыл бұрын

And it's funnier to be able of walking back home without the risk of passing out on the street or being involved in a car accident

@erikaInDR

3 жыл бұрын

Nah, drunks are annoying af when you are sober. Soooooooooooo glad I'm completely sober.

@bizarreselfie153

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yes! I can relate to that! I thought the same thing :)

@gwenny9872

3 жыл бұрын

*me completely losing my mind when someone drinks (we're not even talking about someone being drunk) and trying to jump out the window to escape* i wish

@jennybengtsson1223

2 жыл бұрын

I mean you have a point and I can relate to it

i also hate hearing "im suprised you're actually having fun and you aren't even drinking!" .....

@Mary-ui4qq

7 жыл бұрын

CourtneyMarie 6661 omg yes!!! it's like I'm having fun and I will remember this tomorrow

@CourtneyMarie-ep6ez

7 жыл бұрын

Maryvera Horsefall exactly! and no hang over! we're a rare breed, us non drinkers that still have fun.

@morusalba6405

7 жыл бұрын

you know what sucks? when you are sober and dance like a crazy person and people assume that you must be high on ecstasy -.-

@Rin-ef2tp

7 жыл бұрын

Cygnus I love festivals but people don't believe me when I say I'm sober because I dance like a lunatic X'D

@freyalombaert5526

7 жыл бұрын

Rin615 Have the same problem i dance a lot and have lots of fun when going out but they al act seprizes and don't belive me. Or say there proud of me. i hate the last one the most beceause there's lituerly nothing to be proud of. The people i go out with know i never had problems with alcohol or have a hard time seeing every one drinking I mean they know I don't mind. while others don't get prazed but have a reason to be.

glad these people are so content in their sobriety, more people should be like that tbh

@-SUM1-

6 жыл бұрын

*Everyone should be like that.

@dinkyboss

6 жыл бұрын

SUM1 why should everyone live like that? Not everyone is addiction prone, or have poor relationships with alcohol. Plus not everyone who drinks does so at a dangerous level.

@moonman2051

6 жыл бұрын

dinkyboss t. Drunk brat No one said any of those things you stated, go be a sheep elsewhere

@Crazywaffle5150

5 жыл бұрын

That is like saying I'm content because I don't eat apples.

@xXSingMusic4everXx

5 жыл бұрын

@SidtheKid because drunk people are annoying and not funny.

>”Live a little” You’re telling me to drink literal poison to “live a little”? Really?

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Zelda Ray Keep your useless poisons to yourself, mate. We don’t want to be dragged down to your level.

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Seth Belfort I did not. 😑😑

@halalpolice7544

4 жыл бұрын

Y’all are amazing and It actually surprised me to see pple like you guys who doesn’t drink whole it’s something normal in their society which can be very difficult to not do it. coz I never in my life thought that there are some Nonmuslim who can control themselves and not drink it at all. 😱 OMG y’all keep going 😏

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Seth Belfort No🙄 Read the spencer o’keefe thread, then you’ll know what I mean

@250sketchez9

4 жыл бұрын

@@halalpolice7544 bruh we get it just stay safe.

My ex boyfriend said it was his personal goal to get me to drink. Like wtf? Thats not okay.

@RedRose-mj5yh

5 жыл бұрын

My ex was the same way

@gdaymates431

5 жыл бұрын

Thank god he is your ex.

@OLBICHL

5 жыл бұрын

what an ass

@ironwomen7

5 жыл бұрын

what a dumbass, glad he's an ex

@geekygecko1849

5 жыл бұрын

@jim taylor not drinking isn't dull or joyless?

I have gotten laughed at by bartenders for not drinking. If 90% of your family have had issues with drinking, then why even start?

@CrossleyThePauper

6 жыл бұрын

Taylor R.S good craic

@desakputurakaparamita954

6 жыл бұрын

even my dad had a liver problem because of it

@tinaandersen3270

5 жыл бұрын

According to my mom. My dad and his side of the family spent most of the wedding depressed while my mom and her side of the family enjoyed themselves.

@stephanieperez3302

5 жыл бұрын

Same here since my grandpa from my mom's side were heavy drinkers that led to most of them suffering severe health issues or died. My grandpa suffered nerve damage to his legs so he has to use a wheelchair for the rest of his life. Because of this, my mom chose to never drink like her dad and my dad never liked alcohol in general. Personally, I see alcoholic drinks, cigarettes, and drugs (aside for marijuana and other drugs that help people with medical issues) useless and just a waste of money.

@armyblackjack3836

5 жыл бұрын

Same here.

I really do feel sad for people who can't have fun without getting drunk or high. That may come off kind of pretentious, but I have friends like that and it makes me sad that they waste their money, health, and dignity.

@emmelinesprig489

7 жыл бұрын

***** It makes us sad because we care about them :( And yeah, how are we the boring ones when we can actually remember the fun we've had? XD

@emmelinesprig489

7 жыл бұрын

***** cool

@emmelinesprig489

7 жыл бұрын

***** ??

@AutomaticDuck300

7 жыл бұрын

SomethingReallyStrange People who think that you're boring for not drinking think that because most people are insecure and drinking/drugs make you lose your inhibitions and be less insecure, but you don't need drugs or alcohol if you already feel secure in yourself.

@KEDAMONO.

7 жыл бұрын

LemonZeppelin thank you!

Alcohol feeds into mental health like anxiety and depression. A good reason to avoid booze

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Zelda Ray Said every drunk person ever. It’s really sad that you depend on a poisonous substance to fix your problems. I think you need therapy before it’s too late.

@jugoswolf5678.2

4 жыл бұрын

I’m on medication so it’s a win win for me

@alinasteiner5202

3 жыл бұрын

i stoped drinking because i realised I may create a problem if I need alcohol to get through uncomfortable situations

@HN-kr1nf

3 жыл бұрын

@Selina Kyle they're saying that they don't drink alcohol because of their medication and that it's a win-win because they won't experience the negative side effects to their mental health

@bruh......2005

3 жыл бұрын

@Zelda Ray yep, you need serious help

"so if you don't drink or smoke, why did you ever turn 18?" (In my country is legal to drink & smoke after 18) I rolled my eyes so hard it hurt. Like I could even stop myself from growing older.

@YourMom-jd6jp

3 жыл бұрын

@watergod 83 🤣🤣🤣

@oworeo

2 жыл бұрын

Age limit to drink is 21 here

@nessyness5447

2 жыл бұрын

I would say " to get my driver's license, that is a lot more useful"

I'm 31 and never been drunk. It's just not for me. Drunk people annoy the shit out of me when they're drunk and talk BS and when they're hungover and complain about it.

@KevinShinwoo

7 жыл бұрын

But how do you know it's not for you if you've never been drunk before? XD

@bubbles6853

7 жыл бұрын

I'm not stupid, I see what it does to people. I don't need to set myself on fire to know it's not for me.

@bubbles6853

7 жыл бұрын

+brammatie1 there's plenty of idiots out there who do stupid shit for fun that I don't need to try to know it's not for me. Fallacy back at you.

@bubbles6853

7 жыл бұрын

yeah, they all do stupid shit when they're drunk. It applies to everyone who has ever been drunk. Sort out your fallacy dude!

@KevinShinwoo

7 жыл бұрын

sweetkorshka I've only been drunk once, coincidentally less than a month ago (on Thanksgiving.) I'm not sure what you would consider to be stupid behavior, but from my opinion I don't believe I did anything stupid. The worst thing was that I couldn't get in the car correctly, but it was funny for everyone who was watching, and still brought laughter for future conversations. It took away my coordination for sure, but I wasn't compelled to do anything bad. The whole night, I just listened to music, had some nice conversations, played with some kids, and dance to a song or two. The little kids were the best part. It started off with one of them tickling me out of nowhere. I declared revenge would follow, and later tickled him back. I played catch with several of them, and then they started to tackle me. I had 5 kids doggy piling on top of me at one point. It was a lot of fun! I can't say with absolute certainty that this wouldn't have happened if I weren't drunk. However, I have severe anxiety and the thought of that happening again while sober, in front of so many adults I didn't know, seems frightening. I would have probably been too embarrassed and self-conscious to be playing around with the kids so much. (Kids don't give me anxiety, it's teens and adults that do.) But the alcohol made me go in a laugh-mode. I thought everything was fun / funny. I didn't even think or worry about the adults present. And one of the bigger noticeable differences was this: On all other holidays or get-togethers, I always want to leave as soon as possible. But this time, I stayed for hours and didn't want to leave. It's actually shocking. But, I wouldn't say that was the drinking. It's definitely because of the kids. However, would I have played with them so much if sober? A little bit maybe, but definitely not in the same way. If I visualize it happening again now, but without the drinks, I'd like tickle the little guy back a bit but then turn around awkwardly to see if any of the adults were watching, being fearful of them. I can't see myself shouting revenge, but I can see myself going inside and watching SpongeBob with them at least.

Or worse... when people assume you were a drinker, became an alcoholic and then quit. No. Some of us just never took to drinking. The concept of getting drunk was never appealing to me and it taste terrible.

@drahcirnevarc9152

6 жыл бұрын

Equally, some of us drank moderately, and then quit for reasons unconnected to alcoholism.

@jaaptendijk7192

6 жыл бұрын

Dymond Kitty Amen brother

@micaelameyer8447

6 жыл бұрын

It also doesn't mean we are saints who take no drugs and don't like to party.. I get just as smashed as the next person.. just don't like drinking.. *shocker*

“Live a little” “I’ll live longer if I don’t drink” LOL!!

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

3 жыл бұрын

less possibilities of getting into a car accident

@Stanzbey69

Жыл бұрын

@@ItsTanuki0_Clock just don’t drink if u know ur gonna drive 💀. Trains exist

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

Жыл бұрын

@@Stanzbey69 Bold of you to assume every single city has train stations nearby bars and clubs

@Stanzbey69

Жыл бұрын

@@ItsTanuki0_Clock then just don’t drink 😱 or don’t go to clubs because they all have commercial shit music anyway which is the reason I drunk at them. At techno clubs i don’t drink cuz i actually like the music!

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

Жыл бұрын

@@Stanzbey69 You have come to a video where all of us are criticizing alcohol

When I was a child a doctor prescribed me a small glass of wine every evening before dinner, to combat Anemia. Ever since then I view alcohol as medicine, like cough syrup. I remember Mom saying, "Come drink your wine", and I'd reply, "Aww, do I have to?" I've never touched that vile stuff since I overcame the Anemia. You could say I gave up drinking when I turned six years old! Yeech.

@darcybrummett7004

3 жыл бұрын

W K What kind of doctor prescribes wine to a patient?

@darcybrummett7004

3 жыл бұрын

I just reread your comment. 6 years old? How long were you drinking it?

@kia-yj3vp

3 жыл бұрын

Lol this was the funniest comment on this video

@CLairsoftFTW

3 жыл бұрын

Never read a bigger load of bullshit in my life

@nessyness5447

2 жыл бұрын

@Pretty Boy it prob was a very small amount. And maybe a special wine. My grandma says when she was little, kids used to have bread with sugar and warm sweet wine for afternoon snack.

It's so fucking crazy that you actually lose friends from NOT drinking...

@haniapopowska8966

5 жыл бұрын

"Friends".

@pollinger1967

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao I was also the outsider in school during breaks because I don’t smoke. I mean they took me with them but it was always awkward just standing there

@haniapopowska8966

5 жыл бұрын

@@pollinger1967 why did you stand there?? You were nearly as dumb as they were - consciously and purposefully poisoning yourself.

@pollinger1967

5 жыл бұрын

Hania Popowska lmao no. I avoided the smoke as much as possible, I literally get throat/nose pain if I inhale that smoke. And it’s not like we get poisoned by the air (car exhausts for example), by shit in our food and stuff already

@haniapopowska8966

5 жыл бұрын

@@pollinger1967 It is like we get poisoned by it. All the more reason to avoid and delegalize the poisons that are not in the least necessary to our lives.

2:09 "You must be a yoga freak or you just like to eat vegetables don't you? - which is actually true but they shouldn't assume it" 😂💕

@pokekitty1

6 жыл бұрын

yeah i don't do yoga and i dislike veg just as much as i dislike alcohol

@bigbird6217

6 жыл бұрын

Cerulean Skigh stfu u basic

@anna-lenab8343

5 жыл бұрын

pokekitty1 same! 😂

@plushpuppy32

5 жыл бұрын

@Cerulean Skigh I can only do seated yoga because of an injuru

@Demondoink1

5 жыл бұрын

That girls cute.

27 years old, (Canadian, so I’ve been legal since 18). Never tasted alcohol, smoked anything, etc, in my life. I went to a bar once, did not consume anything, just went to play pool with a few pals. I just never really saw the thrill. I also know myself well enough to know how quickly I could become addicted to something, and didn’t think something like that would be worth the risk. I do other fun things. I’m a fiddle player... That’s fun.

Agreed 100% Another thing I personally get about this is. "You don't drink? You must be religious!" I'm atheist. 🤦‍♂️

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus Christ's blood is wine.

@lunamorningstarblaze7668

3 жыл бұрын

And I belive in the norse gods and they drink alot

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

3 жыл бұрын

@@lunamorningstarblaze7668 Jesus' most recognized miracle is turning water into wine

@lunamorningstarblaze7668

3 жыл бұрын

It's Tanuki o'Clock and that’s a cool trick but I still bellive in the norse gods :3 (Thor, Odin and Loki)

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

3 жыл бұрын

@@lunamorningstarblaze7668 I don't believe in any gods, but I love Greek religion with the olimpic gods and mythology

I hate how difficult it is to meet people that don't drink. Especially a boyfriend.

@xDHalcyonn

7 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend drinks but very rarely. And he doesn't do it to get shitfaced.

@TheRealCardoso

7 жыл бұрын

BIOL6895 LITERALLY MY STRUGGLE

@johnmoore9862

6 жыл бұрын

Go to temperance society meetings & sign the pledge.

@firefoxuser2557

Жыл бұрын

Bars are a crap place to meet someone anyway. This is x10 when you don’t drink, especially out with friends. I have 1 friend who has never drank, but sadly 4 friends who drink regularly

I'm 22, i don't drink and i'm surrounded by drinkers. It is strange, because i never really missed drinking alcohol in my life. It is just so pointless to do so. So glad to know that there is more people like me around the world. 😊

@roisincolcomb9517

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly I relate so much

@chvllywvlly

4 жыл бұрын

Claire Redd Again with the “moron” thing

@johnr.timmers2297

4 жыл бұрын

Hey dude, I'm 22 going on 23 in a week. I'm the same. I don't drink, surrounded by people who do. I'm at risk of addiction if I do, so I can't, but I also don't see the point.

@virtualworldoverload

4 жыл бұрын

True

@amy-bethtaylor2656

4 жыл бұрын

I have a few friends who are 20.. 22.. 23 and I'm 19. None of them drink but I occasionally enjoy a cider or something, but I always feel bad because funny enough, I feel like they are better than me for NOT drinking. Lol do I make any sense? Like not the typical "I won't drink if they don't drink." It's more like... I actually feel ashamed because they are better than me for not drinking 😂.

I really needed this, the hardest part about me choosing to live a life without alcohol is to find other people who have the same view point, I've walked away from so many friends and toxic people because all they can think about is looking forward to getting drunk on the weekends, I've been put down so many times for being "lame" and I felt guilty for "ruining a night" for people who wanted to go out.

Doctors are annoying too. Doctor: How many drinks do you have a month? Me: oh I don’t drink Doctor: oh, but like when was the last time you drank? Me: ummm.... it’s been about 9 months since my last drink, then it was 6 months before that as well. Very sporadic but maybe twice a year. Doctor: so I’m gonna put 1-2 drinks a month.... Me: or put that I don’t drink. Whys that so hard to grasp?

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

Bryan Plus that would violate the Hippocratic Oath

@jayfredrickson8632

3 жыл бұрын

I told a doctor once I drink only occasionally, but when I do i might go through a two liter carton of wine in two days. Later when I changed doctors (for unrelated reasons) I got my records and found he had written "drinks two liters a day". And before anybody says so, yes I know I'm an alcoholic. I knew it then too but wasn't prepared to stop. But he made it out to be much worse than it was.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

@@jayfredrickson8632 A liter carton in two days isn't great. And they give me friggin coins for every year *I* quit drinking, haha Here's how you really tell: you don't want anything to do with people who don't drink. Nor do you ask or find out more about them as a person after that point. If you don't want to go anywhere there won't be booze. If you drink before you leave the house. If you never had "just one" in your life. EVER. lol. You think you drive better drunk. You've never left anything in your glass. I was sober 4 years before I heard the Joe and Charlie tapes. He said norm drinkers drink maybe one and a little over and when they start to feel a bit high, they STOP! What?? I never stopped until there wasn't any more or I passed out. Oh, blackouts are another huge red flag. Jmo.

@nessyness5447

2 жыл бұрын

Not the docto, but i had to get an official mediacal test for a course, and the options to " how often you drink" were +1 a day, 1 a day, several times a week, etc and the last one was 1 a month. There was no less frecuency than that as an option..i was tempted to add a " once in every red moon" option, but instead left it empty and told the doctor i just don't drink except in very rare occasion one single piña colada, but it's usually like once a year or so, because is only in summer and only if i go to a chill out which i don't do so often. So she just made a line over the option to indicate " doesn't drink"

Ahhh I had people trying to get me drunk since I was fifteen. They never understood that no means no.

@trincao1245

6 жыл бұрын

Marína Urbanová loser

@holly-mayharvey2859

6 жыл бұрын

Marína Urbanová 13 for me

@luce1651

6 жыл бұрын

I had a friend tell me at fifteen that if I wouldn't drink she'd spike my drinks

@robingantchev4304

6 жыл бұрын

blackmen trick fick dich

@tinaandersen3270

5 жыл бұрын

How sad

The sad thing to see is how people need to use dangerous substances in order to 'live a little'. How about enjoying life without drugs or intoxication? Ever thought that the problem is perhaps that you're incapable of being fun without substance abuse?

@stephenolder4552

5 жыл бұрын

I think some of us are just naturally miserable, stressed or just incapable of living in the moment, and thats why they need something. That may be weed, booze or prescription drugs, or choose to never take a break from it

@blueshoes5145

5 жыл бұрын

@@stephenolder4552 why not harmless hobbies to not be "miserable, depressed or incapable of living properly"? You know... like watching your fav movies or serials, travelling, reading, paragliding, painting, making music, writing, learn a new language or try out different cuisine, dance, teach, take up photography..there's honestly a lot of shit out there. Many therapies and treatments exist just for this. But whatever, if people wanna make excuses about intoxicating their body then so be it.

@stephenolder4552

5 жыл бұрын

@@blueshoes5145 some peoples brains are wired to be high strung, stressed or whatever and simply picking up a fun hobby isnt gonna change that. Thats why some people are on some form of prescription drugs, or self medicate with weed or booze. You may not be like that, so you'd probably find it hard to relate to but thats okay. You dont have to get it. On a side note, while drinkers do say these annoying lines in the video, some non drinkers do have something just as annoying: self-righteousness. And id rather deal with a drunk than a self righteous person any day of the week. Not saying you're self righteous, im just talking about those who are.

@alexanderfooy723

5 жыл бұрын

Alcohol isn’t dangerous if you know what you can and can’t do.

@AnneDank69420

5 жыл бұрын

I literally only smoke meth so I can go for days without eating. Its my diet fix. I can go months or years between several day or several week binges. Meth never destroyed my life like it did with so many of my friends. Because although I abused substances. Substances weren't my real vice. Anorexia and bulimia were. I've cycled through various eating disorders for 15 years though... I don't need drugs for fun because that's literally not why I take drugs.

I’m a little over 9 months sober this morning. I have many reasons to not drink!

@pinsandneedles3

4 жыл бұрын

congrats friend!!!

@guvj4fyufudrs2444

3 жыл бұрын

CONGRATS!!!

@itsmezala

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats mate!!

Not wanting to slowly poison yourself is a good goal to have in life.

what i always think about this subject is that if you need alcohol to have fun,you must be very boring

@lastnamesavoy8792

5 жыл бұрын

Gin Yure I get told that all the time. “You don’t drink, you must be boring”. Actually no, you’re a moron.

@florence4372

5 жыл бұрын

That's what I used to say when I was 13 and butthurt. I learned later that I actually need it to have fun at parties, because it fixes the social anxiety problem. Unfortunately I'm sort of an alcoholic now, so fuck me

@danielroberts659

5 жыл бұрын

You’d think that, I always got that impression when I was younger but now in new situations it helps people relax and be less awkward because of less anxiety and being afraid of what people think of you x

@b.3432

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr??? lol

@an_impasse

5 жыл бұрын

I can be honest, even blunt, and playful without a single drop of alcohol. Guess I’m a total drag to be around...lol. People can say whatever shit they want, least I know what’s up with how I drink, or don’t.

"You only live once!" Yes, and I rather not live my only life being an alcoholic.

@mexican_bacon4999

5 жыл бұрын

Lexi Peck Oh god that was surprisingly good

@cmk1309

5 жыл бұрын

and remebering what I did...

@ismt9390

5 жыл бұрын

The vast majority of people who drink aren't alcoholics and won't become alcoholics.

@tiermax1629

5 жыл бұрын

Unless you’re an idiot, you won’t become an alcoholic if you drink. I go out every weekend and get pissed but I’m not an alcoholic.

@oliviavanzimmerman7995

5 жыл бұрын

@@tiermax1629 I was going to agree with you, but then you claimed proudly that you get wasted every week... That's just sad. However, most people who drink aren't alcoholics. And don't get piss drunk every week. It's wrong to assume they all do

I was told several times as a teen (!) that "Oh, come on, don't ruin the party" when I said I don't want to drink. Like, how does me not drinking alcohol affect the mood of the whole party? I don't mind if everybody drinks around me, why you mind that I don't? People just can't seem to understand that some of us can perfectly enjoy parties and gatherings without alcohol. Now I'm older, I occasionally drink liqueur and I can enjoy a glass of fine wine every once in a while, but I drink less that 6 glass of alcohol per year and I'm fine with it. I don't understand this whole "drinking culture", meaning that people try to pressure others into drinking until they get drunk, which will make them sick, and nauseous and weak... it is a damage to health, why would you force me to do that to my body?? My other favourite line is "Oh, then what is your choice of drug?" Like, if I'm not drinking, I must smoke, or take pills, or be addicted to caffeine, etc. but there MUST BE something instead of alcohol,there's no way I'm clean of everything. Well, quite frankly my drug is music and chocolate, I'd choose any of them any time over the above mentioned stuff.

Everytime my friend gets drunk the only topic she wants to talk about is why I don't drink and the whole evening she is trying to convince me to drink and I am like damn is it really so hard to accept my decisions (honestly after a while it feels really assaulting)

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

You're really young. Just do daytime things with her.

I think the worst one is "Drink this, it's water..." when it clearly is vodka

@dierks67

6 жыл бұрын

Therefore you shouldn't accept a drink from an unknown source

@marlena2535

6 жыл бұрын

It doesn't have to be an unknown source At our school trip there were 30 of us in one room and 5 of us weren't drinking A friend of mine was quite drunk and came to me with something and said it was coca cola She knew that I don't want to drink and I reminded her of that and told her that I can smell the alcohol and she crying because "I don't trust her enough to try her drink and I think she'll poison me" Luckily, another friend (also drunk) came to us and told her to calm down and that he'll make me split the drink with him When she left he threw the shot in the sink and told me not to worry about it I'm forever thankful to him for that because if she continued pushing it would end ugly and we wouldn't be friends anymore

@mattygreen6233

6 жыл бұрын

water, vodka, whats the difference

@OverdramaticAngel

5 жыл бұрын

@@marlena2535 Frankly, I don't understand why you stayed friends with that girl. It may not have escalated past that but it was still a betrayal of trust when she tried to trick and then outright pressure you to drink it.

@florence4372

5 жыл бұрын

Only an idiot would waste vodka on someone that doesn't even want it

I've never been interested in alcohol and don't see what is so great about it. It's not even about health.

@haydeng3316

5 жыл бұрын

That's me with weed as well. Take a away all the health factors and I still wouldn't be interested in either. It really sucks how much staying sober takes a hit on your social life though

I never have and never will drink because I grew up with alcoholic parents and even the disgusting smell of it gives me anxiety 🤢

I just love the fact that I can have a great time without having the need to drink alcohol to do it

@Lifeskeyishappiness

5 жыл бұрын

Same here, I go to parties, pubs, bars and still have a good time, even though I'm sober.

Why don't you drink? **dumbfounded face** I get that so much. Well for starters: 1. Alcohol tastes awful 2. I don't want to make a fool of myself. I do that enough as it is without the help of alcohol 3. It's unhealthy. Not only is it bad for your liver, it also has more calories per unit than anything else besides pure lard. 4. It's so expensive. I could use that money on something way tastier and healthier 5. I don't want to risk becoming dependent on a substance No it's not because of my religion. No I'm not a boring fun-hater. No I'm not judging you and I don't believe I'm morally superior to you. No I'm not an ex-alcoholic. There's just literally no good reason for me to drink alcohol.

@johnmoore9862

6 жыл бұрын

monkiram Good for you 👍!

@marshmellowcream6364

5 жыл бұрын

Ronald Fulton And?

@aok9153

5 жыл бұрын

And why not have fun and try theese things since you only have one life? Atleast try them lol, and moderation is key.

@marshmellowcream6364

5 жыл бұрын

@@aok9153 if you need alcohol to have fun in life then that sucks...

@pro_gaming_god7227

5 жыл бұрын

"more calories per unit than anything else" are you drinking straight ethanol?

It's so annoying, really. Whenever I go to a birthday party there's at least one person who says something like, "C'mon, it's almost rude not to have a drink on their health." (Which is very ironic by the way.) But they think it isn't rude to casually disrespect my own decision and try the guilt trip on me?

@cosmicwonderhoof133

3 жыл бұрын

Good job for the keeping of the cool

@-Viva-Cristo-Rey

2 жыл бұрын

exactly! its rude to disrespect others sentiments and then guilt trip you into drinking , like if you cant respect that , im leaving.

"You should drink alcohol because YOLO" "YOLO is the exact reason why i dont drink"

@tbewin1z143

3 жыл бұрын

Drinking a few beers isnt going to kill anyone lol

@alokbaluni8760

3 жыл бұрын

@@tbewin1z143 Only problem I have with alcohol is that it doesn't taste that good. Also in the long run it can makes you look older which I don't want at all.

@siddharthabhimanyu9667

3 жыл бұрын

@@tbewin1z143 k

@Morphoidism

2 жыл бұрын

@@alokbaluni8760 To combat the taste people make cocktails like mojitos. But I understand this reasoning

@alokbaluni8760

2 жыл бұрын

@@Morphoidism You are right. I am not saying that it tastes awful. Some drinks are quite good but I feel like I can always taste a much better drink with no alcohol in it( generally Soft drinks). Obviously both are bad for your health one more than the other.

I sometimes get these questions: “Are you pregnant 🤰?” “Are you on a diet?” “Are you sure you’re just having a water?” “Do you have to drive later?” (I don’t even have a driving’s license) “Are you working later today?” *sigh*

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

I just say in response to being pregnant, no I'm just fat. I like food. Lol

@MyProGamer10

3 жыл бұрын

I legit know exactly how you feel. I don’t drink soda/pop either and I’ve been called a weirdo for it so many times that I’ve just gotten use to being the odd one out. Anymore I’m proud of it.

@johnnyferreira6152

3 жыл бұрын

@@MyProGamer10 is really stupid people shame other for like different thing.

@nessyness5447

2 жыл бұрын

When i say i don't like the taste (.specially when the offered drink is beer) i always get the " no one likes the taste at first, but you build a taste for it with time"...and is always been so confusing to me, like why would you want to build taste for something you didn't like the first time.and doesn't have any benefits like being good for your health?quite the opposite in fact. Like i get saying " no one likes vegetables at first, but you can build a taste for it" because vegetables are needed for a good diet... but beer? Why?

@nessyness5447

2 жыл бұрын

@@MyProGamer10 ohh me and my best friend are the same, aside lf alcohol, with just don't like drinks with gas or bubbles. We basically only drink water, milkshakes and smoothies. I do take a piña colada or daikiri... something like that with sweet taste and doesn't taste like alcohol but is a rare thing ...once in every blue moon or so XD

I don't understand why people think you need to get drunk or drink to have or be fun? Like? I feel bad that you actually need it to be that way. I'm already naturally "high" and "loose" and talk a lot of bs, I don't need alcohol to get me anywhere or make me worse lmao.

@Karlaloveesyouu

6 жыл бұрын

Lola Bint yes!!

@LxstinNeverland

6 жыл бұрын

YES! People have asked if I'm high because I'm naturally so weird and happy, and im like "nah, this is me naturally".

Do a "Things not to say to someone who doesn't wear make up" xD

@gamegirl1996

7 жыл бұрын

Yakumoki the golden sentence "you would look nice with makeup".....what am I now then? Frankenstein monster?

@Yakumoki

7 жыл бұрын

Hahaha yes! And the "You will look less tired" oh thanks

@Bev4Drawing

7 жыл бұрын

YAAASS! I've always hated makeup. It made me feel fake. I like my imperfections. I always get, "You'll change your mind." or "You will when you get married." Why? If my husband is fine with me and no make up before marriage, then he'll be fine with it afterward. ^-^

@Cake342

7 жыл бұрын

Yakumoki Yes please 😀

@nananhinha

7 жыл бұрын

On the opposite spectrum, do a "things not to say to someone who wears makeup". So many people get butt hurt over how much makeup people put on their faces (oh, you wear too much makeup, you should go natural, guys prefer girls without makeup, etc 🙄), and being a girl that wears a lot of makeup, I get judged on the daily about how much makeup I wear. But I've never judged (nor have I ever seen someone else been judged) someone simply because they don't wear makeup

"Just have one..." Fine. But when it interferes with my medication and I'm tying a noose or standing on the edge of the balcony are you going to be there to stop me? Didn't think so.

Personally I'm afraid of the effects of alcohol and weed. It's addicting, it does incredibly dangerous things to your body and everybody just acts like it's normal to be drunk and high. It's a serious problem in society, that's why I choose to not drink or smoke

@tbewin1z143

3 жыл бұрын

most people have serious problems and alcohol helps them get thru it. Its the same as taking prescription pills or whatever vice you may have. And everyone has a vice!!!

@EclecticallyEccentric

2 жыл бұрын

@@tbewin1z143 Except alcohol is a depressant. Much different than taking psychiatric medication meant for your specific condition(s).

@tbewin1z143

2 жыл бұрын

@@EclecticallyEccentric No different!!! They can be used as drugs to treat unhappiness. Most don't though and you can control how much alcohol you drink, but you can't with those other medicines. Weed is also used the same way and probably the best option of the three!!!

@Morphoidism

2 жыл бұрын

@@EclecticallyEccentric I guess it's all best in moderation.

@tbewin1z143

2 жыл бұрын

@Seth Belfort yeah everyone who has an occasional beer is an addict!!! Get some help!!!

When you come from a family of alcoholics and you're tired of explaining it to people 😫😫😫

@eri_noemi1462

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. I know how you feel.

@katie7748

5 жыл бұрын

And after you do they get all butthurt as if you were personally accusing THEM of being alcoholics too :-\

@rubyr0f

5 жыл бұрын

I should have thought about that before hahha

The college I go to is kind of a party school, and roommate last year actually asked me why I was attending school if I wasn't going to drink.....

@pokekitty1

6 жыл бұрын

are the teachers sleeping on the job if a teacher heard a student say that at the college i went to they would kick them out. college is a place of learning not a nightclub

@Dem0n

5 жыл бұрын

Imagine going $30,000 into debt just because you want to have parties and drink alcohol

@thedancingemt

5 жыл бұрын

wtf? why would someone pay all that money and put themselves into 10+ years of debt just so they can get drunk all the time? that blows my mind

@awesomepawsomesocks

5 жыл бұрын

That's hilarious

@TheFighterfemme

5 жыл бұрын

pokekitty1 at my college I literally heard teachers say we aren't doing college right if we don't drink. As a person who doesnt that was so annoying

They forgot "I wish I was sober like you." "Come on just try it once." or "Just one sip" "Why" "What do you do for fun then?" I dont think people realize how insulting it is to insist or try to throw drinks their way to try and change then. For all you drinkers who have done this before, know that it's the most annoying thing on earth to deal with people like that. Because we have dealt with a million other people exactly like you that say exactly the same things. They try to make it their personal goal to try and "convert" someone as if it is some great achievement. Know that you are not only insulting the person but also their morals and beliefs. But whatever 🤷‍♂️ that's how I feel.

@tbewin1z143

3 жыл бұрын

Because its easy to pretend to be someone while sober. When you have a few drinks in you, your inhibitions lower and people get to know the real you and thus can make a better connection and become better friends. Its deep but its why people ask you that. People who dont drink have something to hide imo and know it will come out if they drink.

I don't drink because I'm a recovering addict and binge drinker....If I drink, we're going to have problems.

@jayfredrickson8632

3 жыл бұрын

I just tell people "trust me, you don't want to see me drunk."

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

I say, remember 9/11? That was because I went out drinking and...that's what happens when I start up.

I dont drink because I don't like the taste and it makes me feel like shit

@Mossydeerbones

7 жыл бұрын

I love that shit feeling tho

@J8D2

7 жыл бұрын

That's the same for everyone you grape.

@AutomaticDuck300

7 жыл бұрын

Rhanna Russell if you don't like the taste of alcohol, you're drinking the wrong thing.

@janelles9312

7 жыл бұрын

LemonZeppelin that's sort of like saying "if you don't like prostate exams, you haven't found the right finger"

@AutomaticDuck300

7 жыл бұрын

janelle s It's not, because different types of alcohol taste different.

I'm only 15 and I already know I'm never going to drink cause I have been surrounded by drunk people all my life and it's not pleasnt at all

@drahcirnevarc9152

6 жыл бұрын

Wise head on young shoulders. Good luck.

@SydRainn

6 жыл бұрын

virtual high five, i feel this

@social_seperation_8302

6 жыл бұрын

H Z Familys? You mean family right,hope that was a mistake cause if not you're an idiot

@social_seperation_8302

6 жыл бұрын

Drahcir Nevarc I love that best response I have ever seen

@drahcirnevarc9152

6 жыл бұрын

+Zuli Ramirez Haha, thanks! My kids are too old to discipline - early 20's - so it's not very often that I get the opportunity to play the stern paterfamilias.

"Someone should just mix you something without you knowing it. You wouldn't even notice." Well, thanks! I'll never leave my drink alone again!!

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

You shouldn't leave it alone anyway. I know grown men who got dosed.

@eklectiktoni

3 жыл бұрын

That's scary!

I was a binge drinker, weekends were just a Wipeout for me, never in the week just the weekends. I got pregnant at 27 stopped drinking completely and never drunk again. That was seven years ago and boy do I feel so much better for it, but I also lost a lot of friends, oh well that's how it goes.

@GravityGrid

3 жыл бұрын

You made the right choice, congratulations 👏

I can't drink, 'cause im severly allergic to alcohol, and the worst is when '' friends '' say « your life must be boring » OH CAUSE RELYING ON A FERMENTED BREUVERAGE IS BETTER ? geez.

@flowercool3985

5 жыл бұрын

What are your symptoms? I'm planning to use having an alcohol allergy as an excuse.

@IsleNaK

5 жыл бұрын

@@flowercool3985 just google how far east Asians can't handle alcohol and you'll find a list

@CM-uq8ro

5 жыл бұрын

I'm not allergic, but in alcohol intolerant. I sip of alcohol and within a minute I feel terrible. The feeling is similar to low blood sugar or that feeling after you've had a lot of blood drawn.

@alexanderfooy723

5 жыл бұрын

BKaitsuki What’s fermented got to do with it?

@henrikgullikstad6318

5 жыл бұрын

That’s not What they mean :/ and you know it...

I don't drink and will never do so, but I don't really have a reason. People are always so eager to know why and they alway think I'm an alcoholic, I'm a health buff, or I'm just boring. I am literally none of those things, I just don't care to have such severely mind altering substances in my body. Simple as that. And it's not even a big deal to me, but other people are so uncomfortable with it, like I'll be offended that they drink, or they don't want me to feel left out. Like trust me, I'm far from uncomfortable and I love being drug free.

@AutomaticDuck300

6 жыл бұрын

They want to drag you down to their level. It's insecurity and not being able to stand someone else being comfortable while sober.

@xMissPegasusx

6 жыл бұрын

Exact same scenario with me

@slotgrinder5596

6 жыл бұрын

I don't drink because it makes me feel tired and heavy and I don't really like how I say/do things I wouldn't normally say or do when sober . It's weird how alcohol is synonymous with having a good time in this country (england) . I mean , standing in a room drinking endless liquid is the epitomy of fun ? I get it though , when I was younger I used to drink a lot in pubs and parties too it's just not interesting to me anymore

@johnmoore9862

6 жыл бұрын

Ben J, Good for you Ben, each to their own.

@MoAdan28

5 жыл бұрын

Yh I would think that alcohol is just dangerous especially with a wine or a beer or even vodka. So that is why I probably would have to experiment much to my mother’s disgust.

I like the "you either drink to numb yourself or you smoke weed to get high" Because it's not cool to take responsibility for your mind and feelings.

I know that this video is old, but thank you so much for doing it. Up until this video, I truly thought I was alone here. It affects me on a very emotional level, the separation from people my age. It's very heartwarming to see people sharing the same feelings or experiences. Thank you so much. I've found my people.

this part made me laugh "people ask me if im muslim or if im a protestant from the 1600s" "what do you say?" "yes."

My boyfriend doesn't drink because he feels that he doesn't need that fake confidence to chat with people etc. It really showed me how genuine he is compared to a lot of 'friends' I made at uni just because of drink.

@lololauren55

7 жыл бұрын

Yes, well said girl! :)

@dierks67

6 жыл бұрын

I never had the right words ... That's it! Thank you and your boyfriend!

"you only live once" Yes, that's why I don't want to spend my weekends so drunk that I don't even remember anything afterwards and then spend the entire next day puking and laying in bed (:

Collegue: "You want a beer?" Me: "No thanks!" Collegue: "Oh, you're probably a virgin then?"

@ItsTanuki0_Clock

3 жыл бұрын

My parents who don't drink anymore: stonks

Especially in the British and French culture, which I am around a lot, when you're 20 and don't drink, everyone is just so shocked. And the first thing they ask is 'how do you have fun'?. To me when I go out, the music is my drug, it controls my mood and my 'high', its so important to me. People will ask me if I'm drunk and I'll be like no, it's the music. I hope us youngsters can stop relying on alcohol to have fun, or give confidence because it doesn't seem like a good thing in the long run.

@missandeisass4671

5 жыл бұрын

Huh gaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy

@alexanderfooy723

5 жыл бұрын

Chelsea Bondz It isn’t as bad if you know your limits, but I do respect people’s choices.

@pauliinakoskinen6763

5 жыл бұрын

Yees same here!! Music is that which gives me that good feeling!

@Linda-fn3ui

5 жыл бұрын

In German culture it's just as shocking if you don't drink around the age of 18-19 and my "friends" have also asked me if I'm drunk just bc I was having fun on the dance floor. Even though they all know I don't drink

@aifulin8581

5 жыл бұрын

Same in Hungary. The problem is, we have 1 million alcoholic people in this country, so we have a serious alcoholism issue, still, if you decide not to get on the bandwagon and refuse drinks you are ridiculed. Well, guess who's the idiot here...

I hate when people keep asking "why don't you drink" and then when I say "for personal reasons" it's not a good enough answer. I don't drink because my dad was an abusive alcoholic and I never want to end up like him and I can do completely fine without any alcohol. But that's not something you want to tell someone you've just met, someone who's already a few drinks in and will just say "oh c'mon, one drink won't kill you." So when you meet someone who doesn't drink, don't ask why. Just accept the fact. More drinks for you, yeh?

I have a small metal trashcan with a dent in the top. I haven't fixed it or gotten rid of it for almost 15 years because it serves as a reminder of the night my freshman roommate came back from a party completely plastered, fell on my trashcan while trying to get onto his bunk, then puked all over himself and his bunk. He could have easily died. I had no intention of drinking at the time, but that really sealed the deal for me.

“Live a little” Bish I ain’t the one drinking and wasting my life away

Yes, it is a religious thing, but even if I wasn’t religious I have no desire to drink.

@UnderTheMoon3

5 жыл бұрын

Kelly Harmon SAME !

@esppupsnkits4560

5 жыл бұрын

Gurl, same

@fawziyahi2652

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@Templedelagloire

5 жыл бұрын

Jesus drank wine.

@esppupsnkits4560

5 жыл бұрын

Templedelagloire because back then you drank fruit juice instead of water because water was still iffy to drink while fruit juice was fine. The juice ended up fermenting and had other uses aside from getting you drunk. So, yeah, Jesus drank wine, but because that’s what was available all that was available at time. They referred to regular juice as new wine and fermented as old wine

I don't need alcohol, I've got my delicious orange juice thank you very much

@JulsLittleBeirutAnarchy

6 жыл бұрын

Honey cat I can make your orange juice taste better. 😁

@drahcirnevarc9152

6 жыл бұрын

Elderflower cordial with sparkling water in a tall glass with ice, and sliced lemon snd lime.

@sorrym8421

6 жыл бұрын

Honey cat add a little bit of pineapple juice to it and I'm with you.

@somegirl8410

5 жыл бұрын

Honey cat vodka and orange is nice tho

@LaibaStarXX

3 жыл бұрын

Omfg same juice is much better!

"Live a little" * Forget the whole night in the next morning * More like "live little"

As someone who doesn't drink alcohol I can say that I've heard these responses from so many people. They just don't get that I simply just don't like alcohol. I sympathise with you guys on a deep level.

People "You want a drink?" Me "I dont drink" People "You are so brave! I wish I could do that" Its pretty easy, you just dont. When i meet new people at a bar, and they ask what im drinking (In the glass thats clearly water) I tell them that its straight up pure vodka. Some girl belived it in, and after some hours she took a sip and was like "You lied" XD

@jatsikoira

6 жыл бұрын

Honestly, what even is the point of going to a Bar sober? It’s loud and crowded with drunk people, I can’t imagine it being fun at all

@haydeng3316

5 жыл бұрын

@@jatsikoira meet girls

@jatsikoira

5 жыл бұрын

Hayden G3 well that's true

Like, I don’t drink alcohol because: 1. Alcoholism runs in my family 2. Alcohol is gross (personal opinion) 3. Being drunk is not fun 4. I DON’T WANT TO Like Gladys I just don’t want to. You can have a glass of wine, I’ll have my Carbonated water. If people want to stop hanging out with me because I don’t drink, so be it. I don’t need their negativity in my life.

@emme2141

5 жыл бұрын

I understand if you don't want to drink alcohol, but why drink carbonated water?! It's rank!

@q-storm767

5 жыл бұрын

@@emme2141 So is sour milk but I rather have club soda over that for the obvious reasons.

I've tried it once and realized it wasn't for me !! The smell of liquor gives me chills lol🤢

I always get "you should just try getting drunk once" like...no. I'm not interested. Why is that so hard to understand?

I am not a violent person but when people call me a "wuss" or "boring" because I don't drink, it makes me want to clock em one! This video has made me feel better though and these questions asked are so true! X

@AutomaticDuck300

6 жыл бұрын

It's because making a fool of yourself is seen as fun.

@brentpollock1576

6 жыл бұрын

LemonZeppelin lol cuz it is try it sometime 😂😂😂

@AutomaticDuck300

6 жыл бұрын

brent pollock Been drinking for years mate so I know

@lazypoo6117

6 жыл бұрын

You sound like a boring wuss

@vixenl1984

6 жыл бұрын

I get this! In fact last time I was out, was dancing before anyone else who needed a few drinks first!

The whole "You Only Live Once" nonsense comes up more than the others and I shake my head. Because I don't drink, I can afford good things, I can afford great things and I can afford to actually enjoy myself without getting pissed as a fart. Another good thing about not drinking alcohol is watching others do it and then make total idiots of themselves.

@aimeefasick2004

5 жыл бұрын

"You only live once" really should be the exact reason why people don't want to drink. Like if you die... there's no coming back

@Hitsugix

5 жыл бұрын

@@aimeefasick2004 I have a seriously obese friend who uses the YOLO argument as an excuse for feasting. Like... WTF?!

@talkinghead6274

4 жыл бұрын

Pissed as a fart 😂😂. I agree, I don't drink & one of the funniest things is watching all the drunks, yeah I said it DRUNKS! Making complete fools of themselves 😂😂

@Jester_Jingles

4 жыл бұрын

I’m going to explain the argument. I’ll leave it up to you if it’s a good reason or not. Everyone is going to die anyway so you might as well take the shot. That’s the reasoning do with it what you will.

@EbilEnemyofBurgerTown

4 жыл бұрын

SubjectRandom Good for you. While them alcoholics throw up and get wasted, I’ll be drifting my future Rocket Bunny BRZ down some awesome hill and mountain touges.😎😎

I've been sober for just over 1,5 years and I can honestly say it's one of the best decisions I've ever made due to so many reasons. Most people do on the other hand ask me why I chose to quit, but as I explain the several reasons, there's (luckily) not really anyone who questions it.

I mean I drink champagne at special occasions but I’d never drink for the thrill of getting drunk

This is so true. The way people look at you like you're speaking another language when you tell them you don't drink. And you only live once, that pisses me off. I literally get nothing out of drinking alcohol, I don't enjoy the taste and only drank to get off my face. I do not want to get off my face any more. A year with no booze 👌🏻 doing fine.

@JunethSnowdrop

7 жыл бұрын

Morgan Williams I don't know you but I'm proud of you!!

@drahcirnevarc9152

6 жыл бұрын

I wasn't a problem drinker.I just got into my 50's, stopped liking alcohol, and finally quit a couple months ago. In that time I've been dry except for maybe 3 sips of beer and 1 of wine. It's been fine. I'm quite enjoying it, and I've lost a few lbs I needed to lose.

As someone with alcohol intolerance / allergies this is so real And as someone who has a recovering alcoholic as a father (hitting near 10 years of sobriety) it really hits home

@BKaitsuki

6 жыл бұрын

oh my godness ! finaly someone else allergic to Alcohol ! it's to a point where people refuse to invite you to party and all but hey, i totaly get you ! i had to change career because of my allergies

@yeeyee1923

6 жыл бұрын

Jay Avera awww I'm so sorry that's awful

@tinaandersen3270

5 жыл бұрын

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@Jackadiah

5 жыл бұрын

I think I’m intolerant too. If I even have a small sip of alcohol my stomach feels like it’s gonna explode

@seancoaker4086

5 жыл бұрын

I'm alcohol intolerant too. My eczema explodes into massive red inflamed and itchy patches over night after a night out. My dad is also so dependent on alcohol that he falls asleep at the dinner table at 6 o'clock pissed every single night. It's so difficult to tell people I don't drink tho

not drinking gives you power. financially, physically ...willpowerly

Got to say this makes me appreciate my friends a lot more, a rowdy collection of folks who have (and some still do) smoke, drink and use recreational drugs, at times to excess. But they all pretty much accepted my non-drink, non-drug stance without problem or comment. In act some embraced it by offering to pay for venue entry, soft drinks and fuel whenever I was designated driver.

I'm 18 and in the UK and I get called boring. And asked most of these questions and they assume that I am religious. When I get asked at a birthday or a party or some sort of celebration do you want a drink. It's not even a question anymore. Because if you say "no thank you I don't want to drink alcohol" they ask again like they didn't hear you and ask you another 5 times and begin to pour you one. My girlfriends nan said I was a very boring guy and a bring down at parties because I don't drink. Yet that party I stopped someone from falling over and banging there head on concrete and I helped 4 people to their taxis.... I'm helpful not boring. And I came up with all the party ideas.

@pokekitty1

6 жыл бұрын

ironic because the main religion in the country requires you to drink a little alcohol as part of the service which is actually why i hate the stuff. i think only an alcoholic would like the taste of church wine it's that awful i always felt bad for the priest because he had to drink what was left.

@KunoPhantom-Kunoichi

6 жыл бұрын

Yea... I’m British too, but I not faced that problem... at least not yet cuz I’m underage, but still I remember I given small amount alcohol at one of my family gatherings, but I never drank it. I taste it with my tongue, but it was so horrible that it feels like shit to me. So I leave it at the table and always go to a room where I can be by myself away from my family as I’m a private person and I hate parties. So, yea

@Damo2690

5 жыл бұрын

Not all alcohol tastes the same. Beer is a unique taste, so is wine. Applae cider is disgusting but a mixed fruit cider is amazing. My recommendation is dont get dead set that you dont want to drink, try a little here and there. Stay away from wine, its the most alcoholic tasteing thing ever

@KunoPhantom-Kunoichi

5 жыл бұрын

Damo2690 To be honest... I rather not run the risk of getting drunk, embarrassed myself or worse, ended up sleeping with a random stranger. What if I have weak alcohol tolerance? I don’t want to risk that, especially since now I have a boyfriend

@Damo2690

5 жыл бұрын

Kuno Phantom-Kunoichi2001 If your main fears are the things you listed, *if* you want to, then try having *a* drink with you bf/with friends at a house. If thats ok, then the time after have a 2nd drink. I wouldn't recommend 3 drinks for someone thats just starting to drink. Edit: I would recommend this only if your 17 or older

''hey Dave how was the party last night?'' ''brilliant, I don't remember anything, don't even know how I got home, great night!'''

@saijanaswamy7210

7 жыл бұрын

basically..

@FurnitureFan

6 жыл бұрын

I know, at Christmas there was a guy, about 18, on the night bus saying he'd had a great night out, he was sick twice! That's disgusting, why would he not go home when that happened? His body was already telling him he'd had too much.

@mitchellbrough1615

5 жыл бұрын

dave seems like my kinda guy

@youngdolo8

5 жыл бұрын

And me fuckin head is in bits. YEEEEAAA

Never drink an alcohol. When i was a teenager everyone tryed to give me a drink. Everyone told me: will grow up and will drink. But now all my friends and family used to it. Funny to tell that to new people 😁 i am 30 and never drink an alcohol.

I hear most of these from my friends and family any time we go out. The sad part is I’m not even 18 yet.

@Guts_Brando

3 жыл бұрын

Get new friends and isolate yourself from your family

I stopped drinking because I couldnt control myself, I threw up almost every time and it tastes disgusting. but most of my friends are just like "oh okay" and go. its mostly when you meet strangers that they want you to drink but the allrounder excuse is just to say that youre the driver and they let you be :D

@raved2885

6 жыл бұрын

Chiara Hld , sorry but, your “friends” are not really friends. If they didn’t care about u when u were drunk, girl I think u should look for other people.

@whippedsauce3232

6 жыл бұрын

Someone never learned moderation

@TheGwynchan

5 жыл бұрын

It is a little sad though that we still need an „excuse“ for our decisions around our own body right 😔 As it is somehow part of the public interest what kind of drinks we consume

@IsleNaK

5 жыл бұрын

@@whippedsauce3232 it's not about moderation for some people. For example far east Asians, they have a gene or something that makes them very sensitive for alcohol

@incredibleimogen9709

5 жыл бұрын

I don’t drink because my dad was an alcoholic and his dad was one. I’m not following that path

I also dont drink alcohol, and because Im muslim, people assume its because of that. Well no, because there are lots of muslims who still drink alcohol. I just dont like the taste, smell and the way it makes you.

@hazalyasar514

7 жыл бұрын

EunYoung Uzun Hello 👋I'm a muslim Army too😄

@hazalyasar514

7 жыл бұрын

EunYoung Uzun and you're so right!!

@sallylove5002

6 жыл бұрын

Tbh it smells gross too haha I don't drink, in the long run people who look young and have less wrinkles in their 50s usually say it was because they never drank alcohol. I'm on a all water diet cuz healthy lifestyle. Btw JHOOOPEEE lol ✨

@OneMoreWord1

6 жыл бұрын

My aunt (not blood related) used to drink wine like there was no tomorrow as a horrible way of coping with family issues. She's Muslim and I didn't even know how to help her then because I was a kid

@joonvert899

6 жыл бұрын

Tbh before alcohol was even haram they were husband that abuse there wives and also u feel sick after eating and change ur whole personality when u were drinking and could be addicted so it's haram

These comments and questions describe my entire life I don't drink or do drugs never touched drugs and only had a little bit once I was 18 but absolutely hated it. I don't enjoy partying either so It was really hard for me to fit in and lost quite a few friends from just choosing a different path in life. But I love having fun in other ways I love the gym and doing runs but I enjoy going to movies with friends, lunch with friends, shopping and just finding things that are going on in the town to do with friends and I am pretty thankful my boyfriend doesn't drink or anything either.

I love hearing other people like me! 19 years old, never touched a drop of alcohol and don't want to :)

I have had two sips of alcohol in my entire life. I hated both of them. The smell of alcohol makes me feel sick. I explain this to people and they still all think they'll be the one to get me to drink. No. Go away. The more you push the LESS I want to try.

@Ryanbros

4 жыл бұрын

middynighty I get this I have had three sips though

@Victoria-bo9xk

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

I get so many of these. Maybe I just don't want to drink alcohol, is that so hard to understand?!

why would i want to start consuming something harmful when i’ve been doing just fine without it?

@VendettaHamilton

2 жыл бұрын

You drop this 👑

"If I wanna just stand there and have a lemonade" HAHAHAH mood