I can’t believe how much I’ve been living in my masculine, angry, unapproachable, rushing, desperate, SO unattractive. Literally switched myself in one day, and I can’t even believe the effect I am having on people😅

@damla3754

2 ай бұрын

Omg, me too. I just watched this video and and am hoping something changes

This is so true! Whenever I "try", nothing comes to me, but the minute I stop trying, I attract people!

“Not giving a shit while being a decent human era” comes after “the performing era” 😛 love the video❤

I am always in my element with myself. I am fire, I am a magnet. When I go to work I am constantly approached and men are always asking to help me. My boyfriend understands my attraction powers so doesn’t get jealous. I am extremely charismatic and I am also no nonsense. So it keeps a boundary for the bs. You are unique, and you can be a tomboy, super femme, whatever…as long as you love yourself.

I rarely ever comment on videos, but Vickita is always speaking facts! I love the way you talk and relate to your viewers and you seriously give the best advice there is! Please keep doing what you’re doing. You are helping so many of us! ❤

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! That really means a lot.

You are one of the MOST REAL video bloggers and speaking in the heart about the woes of insecurity. You’re helping us address insecurity and that’s the secret to being in our feminine energy. Letting the insecurities go and realizing WE ARE THE PRIZE, ALREADY . Also just genuinely caring about people comes through. People can feel this. We don’t need others to get validation. We should provide it to ourselves.

I fall into the therapist category with people who don't know me well telling me things they haven't told other people before. I enjoyed finding out how to bring things out in people and keeping it light. Thank you.

I do all of this unconsciously. I didn’t think before that it makes me unforgettable.. I do it from a space of love. And that’s what people wants so deeply. You are excellent! I love your videos! Gratitude beautiful!

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Yessss! Love and gratitude are the highest vibrations and when we can interact with people from this energetic space they get blown away!

The speaker shares her journey from insecurity to becoming irresistible by embracing self-confidence, feminine energy, abundance mindset, and empathy in 20 minutes.

@kthy31

7 ай бұрын

What is this comment and why does it have so many upvotes 😂

@AshRileyy

7 ай бұрын

@@kthy31😂😂😂 I was thinking the same thing. Like is this just a description of the video? 💀💀💀

@LaRivssss

7 ай бұрын

@@AshRileyy same doubt, dude 💀

@gg.6633

6 ай бұрын

I think it’s AI

@magorzataborkowska2683

4 ай бұрын

It's for the deaf people.

I’m so happy I found your page 😊. You helped me get out of my funk after meeting a guy recently. I felt my energy shift because of both our actions and I just got fed up. I stopped crying and try to focus back on me especially since I’m in school I can’t mess up now mid semester. I feel like I’m getting breadcrumbed and I deserve more. I can careless if I hear from them again because like you said in previous videos if their actions gives me the ICK we’re done lol

Please keep videos like these coming. Thank you so much.

Love the kid at 7:40 lol 🤣☀️

Your videos have changed my life. I am well on my journey to becoming an empowered woman. Thank you Vickita, I wish you the best.

My friend, who was also my former romantic partner, passed away last year. She was my first love and I admired her so much. She had ALL of these habits that you mentioned. That's why I was so in love with her. I always admired her for the way she carried herself. She was the embodiment of positivity. I loved everything you said in the video. It reminded me a lot of her and it warmed my heart that your video invoked happy memories of her in my mind. Wishing you peace and love

@BucketsOfCool

6 ай бұрын

🫶🫶🫶

@sisterslife3375

6 ай бұрын

sending so much love ❤

Love how you deliver your content! Appreciate you girlie 🫶🏽

This is IT!!!!! No lies were told.

That “like look at you” was just everything Like I mean the whole video is everything but now it’s my favorite part

I know for a fact you are going to grow Vickita, thank you so much ❤

Hey Vickita. Thats hell of a gem video. I can relate all my past episodes of low self esteem and disempowering beliefs that never served me any good. I appreciate your work. Please keep comings with such kinda videos often. Thank you!!

i can't stop watching your videos, i'm addicted. i'm a camgirl and since following your tips my career has POPPED OFF in the space of two weeks, i have double/triple the viewers and i'm making double/triple/quad the money i made before. this shit WORKS

Thank you so much Vickita Just what I needed to watch today ❤ God bless

Vickita I recently came across your channel and I must say you are super helpful!! Please keep doing the work that you’re doing because we ladies need you❤❤

This is an excellent video with great advice. I love how you talk to us like we are friends. Your advice is so good!

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

thank you for this!!! sending so much love!!! ❤

amazing video - great job Vick!!

Omg I don’t know who I love more, you or Victor. 🥰 What a great add to your content. Thanks, Vickita. ❤

Yes yes 🙌🏽 being in performance mode is so sad and exhausting it’s time to exit immediately

this is it. ❤️ i'm going to revisit this video from time to time.

love this whole message! and lil bro was cooking where’s that full vid??

Love, love, love your videos and wisdom ❤.

Such a powerful delivery 😮🎉 OMG You really give such a refreshing perspective and have so much intention in your voice! Thank you 🙏🙏

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤗

This video was soo good 😭❤️

So happy I found this channel ❤

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Glad you’re here :)

I rarely comment tooo but her videos are a life changer and omg she is a bundle of everything we women need in life. So blessed to have someone like you, your videos have literally changed my mind and help me think in a very positive and different way. Thanks for all the efforts you put in for each video so so helpful and just what we all need in life ❤

Trust me, there is definitely a pool of men for me, even when I'm not looking or wanting. I love myself, I care myself, and I value myself!

@Unicornbug35

Ай бұрын

Facts ❤✝️🙌

this is the best advice ever thank you

Stumbled upon your videos and I feel like I need to say it: you’re gorgeous! ❤

Another fabulous video I love these tips you pack so much into each video they’re all so great!

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Glad you like them!

Your videos are very great!

Great tips, thank you for your content. How do you avoid being taken for granted?

Listen, I have been around KZread and seen so many "feminine energy" coaches and influencers, and so many feel so forced. Most I've seen have somewhat warped energy, whether it's because they're yelling at the camera and using cheap camera tricks to "hook" viewers, or because they're trying to find a sugar daddy type partner, because the confidence feels forced and egotistic, or because they're actually projecting internalized misogyny, but Vickita is the best feminine energy influencer I've found. What she's saying and how she's saying it is entirely authentic and genuine. It's not misandry or misogyny in disguise, it is TRUE divine feminine energy and empowerment. I've literally unfollowed all the others I used to follow. You go, girl!

Interesting!!! I am an athlete so it's hard to keep guys bc all I do is train but I'm liking this video

I love ur stuff im binge watching all ur videos rn!! can u make more like this?

Really good thank you ❤❤❤

Banger 🔥🔥

I love your videos so much omg

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

aw thankyou !

love your videos

Addicted to your vids🤎

Your channel is just amazing! Beyond helpful. You have literally changed your life, completely on your own. I cannot tell you how motivating, and encouraging, you are. TY!!!🎃🦋🧡

🎉 thankuu so much ❤️

So basically I have been performing all my life..never in my feminine energy.

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Never too late to start!

Love that kiddo! Adorable

I feel like all of life is an act. We act to get what we need, to survive thrive and move up

You have beautiful eyes Vickita!!

this is gold!!

Plz make a detailed video regarding scarcity mindset and crushes, and how to not be the person always trying trying trying to solve issues/make things happen etc. Your words really enter my head 😅

I love your energy and your aura. Thank you for sharing these tips and your wisdom to us. What a queen ♥️♥️♥️

Abundance mindset!!!!! Fuck yes girl gettttttt ittttttt

Damn this is gold

Best video ever I needed this thank u

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

❤️

I love this video ❤❤❤

I wish I would had seen this video 3 years ago lol. I've realized this in the last 6 months especially, this video only validates what I've learned from the BS I've been through.

I realize I already let people feel comfortable in my presence, and they love it and they fall in love with me but I am always disappointed in them in the end.

So good:)

The only youtube channel that matters

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

love you !!!

Valuable ❤

Wow ! You got the gold girl!! And I'm a bloke , most of it is for female perspectives but i can see how it can work for both genders. And no, i am not gay !!😂

Hey!! Vickita.. you should also drop a podcast. So we can also listen to u while doing other things because I can't stop listening to you!!!!

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

I have a podcast but I’ll start uploading my videos to there as well!! ❤️

love this and where is that clip with that kid from.. i love him haha

Thank you❤

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

Hey so loving what you do. If possible can you let me know the link in your video. You blow my mind

Great video! Learned a lot. I've definitely been that therapist before. Can you describe more on how to be an empathetic person and give them "snippets" without being overly therapeutic? I feel people take advantage of this and try to make you a therapist if you try to give them solutions/listen to them..

@xposa5137

10 ай бұрын

I often have the same dynamics with people. I would also appreciate a video on that😊

thanks for this video

Absolutely love this video ! I'm going to be coming back to this alot

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

come back as often as you want ❤️

Please do an in-depth video on confidence conversion. Like what if your shadow is that you’re insecure and or not as well educated as your peers?

@yemisiaderuku2902

9 ай бұрын

I also suggest a mindset shift of I Am enough and continue to improve on yourself which is lifelong in my opinion

"We have to talk to people to become irresistible," well thank you for the self-confidence tips but this is the point where my autistic ass is gonna head out lol

You’re amazing

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

You too ☺️

Omg the kid w the swag ❤

You’re such a smart and motivating girl😊

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

thats so sweet

i saw ur old oldest video about ur glowup and i just wanted to ask what u did to get rid of hyperpigmentation? Ur skin is just amazing

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Kojic acid 🫶🏼

Thanks for this wisdom 💛💛💛

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

I adore you videos and connect to them on many levels. I just need an advice: what do you do on days that you feel low? Like before your period. I feel it’s really amazing for me to have this mindset on days that I’m happy, but when I’m sad it is just 💩 it’s like I’m not balanced. Thank you, you are awesome

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

On days i feel low, I force myself to do something that will make me feel pretty and good ☺️

But I'm on the way to go through all of fears by doing things until I'm being 😀 I'm used to be shy, but one day I decided to sing in the crowd and talk more and do everything that I never do it before, everything shifts. Does it performative energy?

You're so pretty 🥰

Can you touch upon how to quite our anxieties

Aww! Can I have a link to the original video with the boy @8min?

“Is there something in my nose” 💯 relatable but 1000% hilarious literally lol. You’re effortlessly funny

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Hahaha thanks girl

I dont get approached by men, because I am too intimidating. Lol. (I have virgo rising so yeah)

How to be « it » when you’re wounded?

You know what - I am old enough to be your mother...so you would reckon I would know this stuff by now. But 1.25s and I am already taking notes. Lots of notes. (With regard to your points starting at around 16.21 - I watched something on charisma on command; 5 mistakes that make you socially unlikeable - on Brie Larson - which was really interesting. She thought she was being funny & cute, and she came across really badly - but just couldn't see it)

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Hmmm that’s interesting, I’ll have to give the video a watch! I guess there’s a lot of nuance that I should have mentioned. For example, mixing the stroking their ego in a fun, humorous way is very well tolerated and enjoyed (from my personal experience)!

@CM-yo9jk

10 ай бұрын

@@VickitaTrivedi Yes, definitely. The video shows what to do & what not to do effectively, and you've hit the nail on the head. Your content is great, and for me it goes much further than boys - into work and colleague relationships. Many thanks.

Can you do a video on overcoming socialphobia?

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Yes :)

@Kareena1988

10 ай бұрын

@@VickitaTrivedi thank you. Because all info doesnt work if you dont have experience with people and get triggered all the time. Do you think in terms of expansion one first needs to go through ish? Also how do you become emotionally mature as a woman? Do you become a woman when you go through pain? Failure? I know that overwhelming experiences play a part. If you have not had an out of control event in your life, where you handled it, you will not mature

@elenarodriguez9875

10 ай бұрын

When you work on loving yourself and feeling good with yourself your fears will go away. It’s not about the other people. It’s how YOU are feeling about YOURSELF. Fear can’t exist where love is. Xo

How to stay in a feminime energy when I'm the first daughter, my father had passed away for years and my younger brother is an introvert who is rarely intiates everything?

So .. I'm kinda short and petite.. i think I'm really pretty and easygoing but there's always this fear that ppl might judge me based on my body.. atleast that's what I have seen from my past experiences. I have really high metabolism and I'm proud of it.. I just hate how because of other ppl I started hating myself

💣😍true true

Cool video 📹 😎

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Thanks 😁

Very helpful even as a guy

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Glad to hear that!

U seem the right person i wanna ask this.. what should I do if my mom is being toxic.. if i stand against her it will hurt her which I don't want.. but her manipulative behaviour doesn't change.. when i ignore this continues forever.. i can handle toxic relatives once in a while but mum??

@englishapplications6323

10 ай бұрын

Decide from your heart and choose for yourself whom do you want to get hurt....either your mom or you.

@yemisiaderuku2902

9 ай бұрын

Generally, manipulative, toxic and narcissistic people don't like resistance even when it hurts And it's so sad where it's coming from Watch more videos for help, strength and courage

19:13 whats the difference between being a therapeuthic and help friends / Poeple with problems?

Eye do it 444ME 🧿

Your eyes are so mesmerizing, it‘s insane! 😍

@VickitaTrivedi

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😀