I'm one of those people who was deeply moved by Surface Pressure: "I'm pretty sure I'm worthless if I can't be of service." But while I relate a lot to Luisa, after a lot of reflection and listening to analyses (yours included!) I feel so much like Pepa. I think there is a lot of overlap with feeling things you're not "supposed" to feel and proving you're "strong" enough to get things done anyway.

@therapywithrainbow

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Ah yes, I totally feel you. It's especially hard if the culture we grow up in sees emotions as a weakness. And that being emotionless is what makes you strong. I can see how that might relate to your sense of worth as well. Like, if your emotions aren't welcomed, then you'd be denied of the very feelings that moved you to wanna help/serve others in the first place. Removing emotions out of the equation would make anyone robotic and the service would become meaninglessness. 😥

I've watched countless reactions to Encanto because it's my favorite movie. I love this breakdown because it's so insightful. I've been going back and forth between Dolores being a secret keeper and a gossip, turns out she's both! I thought she ruined Isabela's proposal on purpose because she knew Isabela didn't want to marry Mariano and that she was in love with him herself. But taking onboard your insight, seeing the look on her face when she's staring down Mirabel, that's not a calculated look, that's panic. Just as one example.

You deserve more followers n.n very interesting videos!

@therapywithrainbow

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Aweh you are too kind, thank you!!! ☺

@MoonlightUwU.

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@@therapywithrainbow (^-^)

I relate to Bruno and Antonio

@therapywithrainbow

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Ohh that's awesome!😄I didn't get to talk about Antonio in this video. In what ways do you feel like he is relatable to you?☺

@Sage.666

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@@therapywithrainbow I feel like when I was a toddler I would not understand why there would be family members fuss about stuff and when I got older I understand now. I feel like I would relate to Antonio when I was a toddler and I relate to Bruno as I got older.

@therapywithrainbow

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​@@Sage.666 Ohh yes I see where you're coming from! It is hard for a young toddler to experience the stress of the family without understanding what is going on. I'm glad to hear that you have developed insight to understand more of your family dynamics. Yet this understanding can also feel burdensome at times, especially if you feel like other members don't see what you're seeing (perhaps that could be why you feel relatable to Bruno?). I hope you'll be kind to yourself as you navigate through your feelings and relationships with your loved ones. 💕

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