Accountability feels like an attack when your not ready to take responsibility

@sensiblemindset423

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. It’s that immaturity at hand .

I think Kevin and Devale should do a 4 week segment "For Men Only"

@christinajackson9940

4 жыл бұрын

Oooooo that's a good one Ms

@christinajackson9940

4 жыл бұрын

LMBO. .they would talk about how far they can p what it's like in the barber shops in L.A. lol

@kourtney8850

4 жыл бұрын

I LOVE that idea!

@HelloMsSongbird

4 жыл бұрын

Tujuana Wyatt YEEEESSSSSS!!!

@papi77on

4 жыл бұрын

yes, yes, and yes

MAAAAAAAAAAN this was one of the richest episodes! I feel so empowered to go ahead and get married and say "Husband, I have been learning all of the things!" Lol! Thanks so much! ❤

@derrickmason7457

4 жыл бұрын

Ezi Ugo Jen 💯

@FromEricaWithLove

4 жыл бұрын

Ezi Ugo Jen yessss, ALL of the things

@mskesha4735

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, all of the things🤣🤣🤣

@taliapeters-john6375

3 жыл бұрын

lol

Y’all are literally bringing value back to the institution of marriage to a generation that was losing it. Ready to get married now 😭

@kimwright6377

4 жыл бұрын

Vikki DC Also many of this generation are afraid of showing love and genuine caring.And it’s a game of how much do you have and can you afford me.ijs

@Cecesingsonpitch

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@toomuchinformation

4 жыл бұрын

@Vikki DC True dat.

@lifewithnatu

3 жыл бұрын

👏

@kortenisamoses7313

3 жыл бұрын

Our generation aint about taking crap so we up and run fast🎆

As a single person who desires to be married this was soooooo insightful and powerful. It motivated me to keep working on myself. Not just for the sake of marriage but because theres just always gonna be something to work on. Love it!!! ❤️❤️❤️

@derrickmason7457

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler Franklin from a married person this is legit advice

@jasmines2250

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same 💜

@mrmushin1

4 жыл бұрын

If you are as fine as your pic I will marry ya🤣🤣

@tracyreadytv

4 жыл бұрын

@@mrmushin1 did you say that in the voice of that old lady on the train on Coming to America? 😂😂😂 "If you're really a prince, I'll marry you." Lol

@juombe

3 жыл бұрын

@@mrmushin1 Simp!

Some parents leaves us with a legacy of their trauma. They teach us wrong and gives us a poor outlook on relationships and marriage. In which makes us ill prepared for relationships and marriage.

@RoniiiB

4 жыл бұрын

Dexter Hunter Yesssssss

@Cecesingsonpitch

4 жыл бұрын

Talk now!!!

@lilone11586

4 жыл бұрын

Facts!

@fdoctor79

4 жыл бұрын

And this is why it is important that you (we) renew your (our) minds daily so our past won't be a reflection of our present or future.

@cheshahale

4 жыл бұрын

TRUE!!!

The "High Five" moments tho 😂❤

@lakeishar23

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣That took me out. I rewind it like 5x

@kortenisamoses7313

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@AdaDa_10

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣😂😭😭 Kev had me crying

@tracyb246

Жыл бұрын

I just saw it as I was reading this comment 😂😂😂

Clearly, the consensus is yall should go on tour together! Can this be a thing?!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@ChelsaSMoore

4 жыл бұрын

YES!!!! The chemistry was perfect!

@deejay4183

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@nicholasjohn3215

4 жыл бұрын

"We Y'all, Y'all Us"

@shenisewilliams6703

4 жыл бұрын

I’m late to the party but yeeeesssssss!

@ItsErikaNaturally

4 жыл бұрын

@@nicholasjohn3215 That's the name of the tour. It has been properly motioned and seconded.

Melissa did such an awesome job of letting the guests just talk freely!!

@ericabelcher8760

4 жыл бұрын

Yes I was thinking the same thing too!

@susancupid9122

3 жыл бұрын

So rich conversation, this relationship.

Let's take this group on the ROAD!!!! Next Love Hour Tour - let's include the Ellis' because I love the CHEMISTRY HERE!!! This is EXCELLENT BLACK LOVE!!

@derrickmason7457

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica Mills chemistry was nice

This episode was everything! As a single woman I truly enjoy real and authentic black married couples. ♥️

@glois80

4 жыл бұрын

I agree 💯 I learn so much from watching both couples that help me in my single/dating life

These two women are very blessed to have men who are understanding and truly open up...lord i know that you have my future husband out here i would love this level of honesty, understanding and accountability in him..thank you in advance

@the1andonlyof16

4 жыл бұрын

Like they said, it took time to get there so once your person comes along it will take time to build this kind of trust, openness, and willingness to be vulnerable with one another but I hope it happens for you.

@ameliaking9225

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@jillisahodge886

3 жыл бұрын

They really are ♥️

@keishapuryear8180

3 жыл бұрын

I believe this is modeled after a happy parental marriage. Make sure you don't dismiss your mate's parent's dynamic. No one taught me this, but it absolutely will affect your own relationship

@keishapuryear8180

3 жыл бұрын

Don't get me wrong, my dad died when I was a baby so I was raised by a single mom. I think I romanticized marriage and am shocked all the time about how different it is than what I expected. I love my hubby and we have grown together, but boy was it hard.

Kev making fun of Melissa for the high five made the moment soo much funnier!

Melissa you have been killing it this year.. The evolution is amazing.. Another great episode!

@chidinmaume326

4 жыл бұрын

Theresa Adele 🗣facts . Melissa girllll, you know how to curate a conversation!

@fatimadildy5997

2 жыл бұрын

This is my first time really watching her and I love her. The way she speaks and all

For the issue/question discussed at 35:00, I think the reason criticism from our partner feels like an attack and/or earth shattering is because, as a society, we (women) are unconsciously programmed with the idea that we should be perfect. From childhood (at least in the black community) the expectation is that girls will do well in school and boys will cut up. When girl misbehave the conversation is of shock, but when boys misbehave, the messaging is ‘boys will be boys’. Then fast forward into adulthood, the message when it comes to relationships is, “What you won’t do, another will”, the existence of side chicks, strip clubs, etc.) All unconsciously creating the mindset that we must be “perfect” and we don’t measure up, there is another waiting in the wing to replace us. So, on a deeper level and even unbeknownst to us, we see criticism as not us not meeting the standard that has been placed on us all our lives, but also a possible pathway to infidelity.

@lifeofneu1438

4 жыл бұрын

You ain lie! I know I'm not perfect but when I called out, it feels so crushing because there's so much placed on us women from childhood. No one ever says "girls will be girls". Proverbs 31, every church mother and their advice to the women. There's a meme about women not being able to admit when we're wrong, but lowkey, a part of that is because of societal conditioning that men will make their mistakes, but we don't have that same window of grace as women.

@vicm.7576

4 жыл бұрын

A C you hit the nail on the head with this

@cristaltorres.

4 жыл бұрын

so perfectly said!

@gloglocreations

4 жыл бұрын

Well put

@ericabelcher8760

4 жыл бұрын

Omg! You said nothing but the TRUTH! Smh

@59:23 - Two things - 1) Yes, society did not treat Black men kindly in those days. But Black women dealt with racism as well. 2) The whole Suzie Homemaker thing was not a reality for most Black women in the 50s. A lot of them worked outside the home, too.

@nca4794

4 жыл бұрын

That's true, but it doesn't mean the principles and expectations to "make a home" were different just because you worked. Employed outside or working for the family inside, there was still the idea that being a good woman meant catering to the needs of the family, especially their men, first. That's why so many women in the next generation started to reject marriage and motherhood in the 60s. Plus, there's a cultural element with her family also. I grew up in a West Indian family, and making a plate is seen as showing reverence to the husband as the head of the household. I know men who expect their plate before the children have eaten. I wasn't raised in a household like that, but it's no less real than taking your shoes off at the door.

@boomboom6577

4 жыл бұрын

Facts. In fact, the majority of black women worked outside of the household after the great migration north. And the myth of the mother homemaker was facilitated by black women domestic workers who cared for the house holds of white women. And yes, to the commenter who pointed out that black women were still expected to maintain a home for their children and husband. And when people assessed the state of black America, they blamed black women for working and displacing men from the workforce AND the household. The Moynihan Report is the most glaring and influential example that.

@fromama2011

4 жыл бұрын

Absolute facts.

@ericabelcher8760

4 жыл бұрын

THIS RIGHT HERE! ☝️☝️

@CorettaJG

2 жыл бұрын

Truth

This episode made me love my husband even more I see how he has been trying to adjust to who I am I will definitely put in the work! Love y’all working on grace......

That man said "balance is nothing but recorrection" THAT BLESSED MY SOUL KEVIN!!! Who gave you permission to live this enlightened???!!!

@ericalindsey5561

4 жыл бұрын

THIS! That was a WHOLE WORD! It BLESSED MY SOUL as well!

@cdisturbed

4 жыл бұрын

@@ericalindsey5561 my grandmother would say he was "talking good" 😂

@ericalindsey5561

4 жыл бұрын

@@cdisturbed Very good!

When Devale said, "find someone who has found happiness in themselves," I literally started crying. 😢😢 I am diagnosed with major reoccurring depression and general anxiety disorder. I struggle with finding happiness in myself all of the time, and I wondered if it was even possible for me to be in a relationship with someone because they almost never live up to my expectations or I start relying on them to make me happy when they really can't. But I don't want to be alone because I don't have a lot emotional support outside of myself. Waiting until I "fix" things in my life is a slow and isolating process. So I don't know what to do, and I get scared when I meet someone I like. I want to wait, but I need love in my life outside of just myself to pick me up when I can't do it.

@shawandasmith3818

4 жыл бұрын

sleepbaby17 Don’t think that you have to be fixed to find love, sometimes finding love in those moments will catapult you to your best self. My relationship with my ex taught me my triggers and flaws and now I am a different level than I was before.

@sleepbaby17

4 жыл бұрын

@@shawandasmith3818 thank you for that! I hope that will be the case for myself as well. Sending love and light your way 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@TweetsyCk

4 жыл бұрын

Just know you'll be all right. You don't have to isolate yourself. I understand where you're coming from - especially when you don't have the support. Know that you're worth love, just gotta find it in you first. God made you special and He made you YOU for a reason. Once you find your light, you'll find your purpose... once you find your purpose- you won't be so focused on what you didn't have, but what power you hold to be great on your own. You're worth it. If you believe just a little bit- it can help. Don't let your depression define you, once you let go of its power over you you'll find strength you didn't know you had. You're here for a reason & you'll get to see it if you keep your head to the sky. Remener... love attracts love

@cherylkay1636

4 жыл бұрын

You are enough! Happiness doesn’t even come from ourselves but from God our Father. When He gives us joy nobody can take it away. Looking for Jesus will allow you to find yourself. I tried it your way once looking to my husband to find my happiness but it wasn’t until I began to focus on my faith and my Creator that I finally realized it’s not about me or my husband...there’s a bigger picture and purpose ❤️. Be blessed😘

@perdybirdie

3 жыл бұрын

Both my bf and I have depression, and we have helped each other grow and heal. I honestly would not be doing as well as I am right now without him, it's a myth that you have to "fix" yourself before a relationship. You have to be accountable with yourself, open to fix bad habits and modable

These two couples are so realistic and down to earth. I love how they don't sugarcoat their marriages. Wonderful conversation with wonderful people.

Man it takes some honesty and courage to discuss personal issues for all to see and hear but I appreciate y'all for doing these episodes and having these conversations. I feel like we're a family. Keep love alive y'all and y'all out here saving marriages and relationships.

Even as a single person watching, this was a great episode!

Kev and Liss..... y’all mesh so well with the Ellis’s and the conversation was flowing and POPPIN and hella funny!!! I love the content and the honesty and I’m not even married but so much knowledge was dropped! Yassss!!!! Hands down my two favorite couples on the Internet.

Single but lovvvvvvved this episode. I can see myself because of this conversation, not just in romantic relationships but family connections.

Yes Khadeen!!!! I absolutely believe in the concept of men's jobs. I DO NOT take out the trash, shovel snow (unless ABSOLUTELY necessary), cut grass....etc. My husband & I have a very clear understanding of this. However, he doesn't cook, wash dishes, do laundry or clean the house (unless absolutely necessary) and I'm totally fine with that. Not only do I cook daily, I make his plate for him. Not because he demands it but because I choose to. He works full time AND is a full time Pastor and he takes very good care of me financially, emotionally and spiritually. This has worked for us for 30 years. To each their own!

My favorite podcast couples together

I need more of this. All 4 of y'all hashing out topics. Kev and Devale only. Khadeen and Lis only. I don't care. I need more. Thank you.

@vivianyoung9390

4 жыл бұрын

I so agree!!!!

@kymberlywallace8650

4 жыл бұрын

I follow you as well!!! I love Black folks!

After this podcast, I believe more singles need to listen to married couples. This really motivates me to continue to focus on myself as a person and a potential wife. I realized there is no distinct definition of being a good wife, but be yourself allow yourself grace.

The failed high five and fist bump though.😂😂😂

This was a great episode. My family is from the Caribbean, they get on me if I don't have my husband's meals ready. And it has to be a full meal. I always tell them that he can cook also. It is important to find balance. But he loves my cooking and praises me and my meals. That makes me feel appreciated.

@QueenRiveRose22

4 жыл бұрын

That was my sticking point......why can't Devale make his own dinner? Is he grown?

@ericabelcher8760

4 жыл бұрын

M Bubb.. oh trust me, my family is Caribbean too & I definitely understand EXACTLY what you're talking about!!! Smh

@arianacollymore7091

3 жыл бұрын

Not in my Caribbean household! If you can eat, you can cook😂😂😂

@alanaterrel9914

3 жыл бұрын

@@QueenRiveRose22 yes but didnt yu hear the part where Kay wont open her own door if devale is there because it's a 'mans job' its the same thig she grown she can open her own door

@ivoryc7143

3 жыл бұрын

@@alanaterrel9914 i guess that's true. ...it seems they have their balance that works for them.... i guess it's a matter of determining your agreements/expectations and finding a partner that's OK with that. that having his plate ready business is not my ministry :o) but I honor my partner's needs / preferences in other ways that matter to him and vice versa.

The smoothness of Kev cuttin' people off is on par with Doboy's ad transitions - I don't be seein' it comin

@Baddiesandbudgets

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao! I love these but I wish he wouldn’t cut everybody off so much. He’ll come in and completely take the convo over.

@satindol69able

4 жыл бұрын

@@Baddiesandbudgets I thought I was the only one. 😂

@shevaunbryant8554

3 жыл бұрын

Can you imagine him and Lis arguing 😳

@yeukaimudzi5032

3 жыл бұрын

Great convo. Kev good input and perhaps more listening next time would be great. Melissa great moderation and would have loved to also hear more of you. Ellis’ on point always!

Man, I love this. The two best couples on the internet. I agree that Kevin and Devale should do more segments together.

Im so freakin excited....I've been waiting for this episide!!! My 2 FAVORITE COUPLES❤❤❤❤❤

@km7890km

4 жыл бұрын

Same here❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑👑👑

Kev went off this episode! I mean dropping GEMS 💎‼️

@CorettaJG

2 жыл бұрын

💥💥💥

“U not always gon be on point” facts 👏🏾 Do ur best to find a balance but sometimes we come up short and its ok, as long as u realize it and keep trying.

That high 5 is unforgettable.

Y’alls energy is amazing, so refreshing and light 🏆👏🏽 Melissa, girl you are growing and it’s SHOWING. Your listening skills have been improving so much! I did miss your input in this conversation, but also hearing the guests speak and allowing for a full conversation was awesome with everyone having an equal share. So good guys! ❤️🤗

28 mins in and I have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard. Y'all are hilarious and great together. This conversation is great

I watch these marriage discussions all the time…getting myself prepared for when my boo comes along. Lol!

The Frederik's and The Ellis' !!!! Lemme get ready for this ride!

17:29 "I'm sorry to cut you off, but I'm gonna continue..." 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I don’t EVER comment on these videos but let’s be clear black women have ALWAYS worked in America. While I understand the theory of how a black man is made to feel out in the world (reminder: we are a step below you) and his home should be his refuge, we ain’t sitting around twiddling our thumbs... well I’m watching this KZread now but I’m an entrepreneur in my own right. Lol But you get the point Davale.

@CorettaJG

2 жыл бұрын

Truth.

The Love Hour Podcast will receive the recognition that it deserves in 2020! This content is GOODT every week. I'm claiming that for y'all! #AwardWinningPodcast

@zevlonantoine3986

4 жыл бұрын

Amen.🙌🙌

My two favorite couples. Would love to see a Kev and Devale Real Husbands podcast DEAD ASS! Loved yall on their podcast too.

I would be totally happy with them collaborating to give us a third podcast 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m just saying

@the1andonlyof16

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

Y’all are so blessed to have spouses that care, extend grace and are committed to working together.

This is by far my favorite episode next to the super emotional one with Kev's brother.

Devale said he’s a Aries so yes We remember EVERYTHING😂😂

@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek

4 жыл бұрын

leamaria I’m a Leo and I feel like Aries are the only sign I gel with 😂 we’re a lot alike

@cdisturbed

4 жыл бұрын

@@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek I'm an Aries w a Leo wife 😩😂 BUT for the grace of GOD

@breleflore8749

4 жыл бұрын

leamaria yes! We remember it all and NEVER will be told what to do! Deal with it or not but it is what it is and is gone be what it’s gone be!! Period!

@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek

4 жыл бұрын

Ajahni F so what you tryna say? We difficult or something 😂🤔

@cdisturbed

4 жыл бұрын

@@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek lmao nah just that I know 2 fire signs could either take over the world or burn it down in their wake 😩 believing God for the former, AMEN 😂

Loved this podcast, but I'd like to see Devale and Khadeen answer the questions in full. I know it's difficult being that you guys have so much in common, but a lot of the questions thrown at Devale weren't answered in full cuz Kev had a similar personal story to tell

Heading out to my job interview feeling nervous. Then I saw the upload all smiles 😊

@bigerthanmyself421

4 жыл бұрын

Girl you got this,

@linalouwillis

4 жыл бұрын

Great luck to you

@brangeeellis3083

4 жыл бұрын

We need an update on how the interview went (yes, I am all up in yo biznrss) 😉

@tamarajohashen1813

4 жыл бұрын

(Update) I got the job offer this morning. 🙏🏽🙌🏾 thanks for the motivational comments.

@alexandralee794

4 жыл бұрын

Tamara Latty congrats!! 🙌🏾❤️

I see ppl on this vid and others commenting on the hosts’ level of participation in the discussion and I don’t get it. I personally prefer to hear a conversation rather than an interview. I love you guy’s style... it’s engaging and feels organic. And Melissa if you’re not a therapist, you definitely should be one!!!

Ultimately, the defensive response when you hear what's wrong is connected to the shame cycle. We already beat ourselves up and when it comes from our partner, it amplifies our flaws.

“Reciprocation” - it’s great concept - Devale wants to figure out how can he make his wife better? That’s sweet.

I'm around for the Fredericks/Ellis collaboration 🖤

🗣THIS WAS THE BEST EPISODE THUS FAR! (If I could make the word THE bigger I would) It’s so enlightening to hear other couples go thru similar situations. I learned so much in 1.5 hrs that I’m watching it again to instill parts of it. I felt Khadeen when she said “Damn we had this discussion b4 & I didn’t fix it yet.” That’s exactly how I felt recently. I was like ok I gotta do better. When u want to make a relationship work you put in the work ya self! Love this episode!!! ♥️ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ♥️

The chemistry in this room is so good 😫😫

Dang today episode had me all in my feelings. A lot of good points I wish was made in my previous relationship. Things could've went differently so we could've reached our true potential in our relationship but we never made it there before we broke up.

@the1andonlyof16

4 жыл бұрын

What's great is that you now have the opportunity to take this information along with what you learned from past relationships and be the best version of yourself that you can be for the next person.

By far one of the most enjoyable couple interviews. Thank you so much Melissa & Kevonstage. Lawd Melissa gave a word. #Issa-a-word Melissssssssa do you know how many people have realized they have given up on good relationships because they thought growth was bad. Amen! Whew! When those who do not want to grow to realize that growth is infinite. Y'all, Kevin, Devale, Khadeen, Melissa did a wonderful job.

Yoooo when Melissa said I got mad right now ahahahhaha I felt that. But to he made a great point!!!!

I love Melissas appreciation of other ppl! So humble and sweet

learning how to extend grace to your spouse is everything. After 12 years of marriage, this is straight facts! This is a great episode! I love both couples

All I know is...Devale and Khadeen better be at the conference and I'm not even going 😂

@the1andonlyof16

4 жыл бұрын

Well I am and I hope they come through

I need kev to a video on growing up without a father and how he dealt with that growing up and how it effected him raising his kids

@MrsKevOnStage

4 жыл бұрын

Bdynamite ‼️‼️

we need this group to have a whole show!!! I love you all!!!

Shout out to Melissa!!! Truly my spirit animal when the awkward high five happened. You and Kev are helping the next generation of married Christians! Also speaking on your wonders and thoughts concerning your sexuality as a young lady has helped me feel differently and opened my mind to my own situations. I thank you and I’m sure my husband is grateful.

Best conversation ever. I wish my husband listened in on this because they touched on majority of all our issues. I see now things that I need to change immediately that he has been asking for months and years. You all truly opened my eyes and mind on this marriage thing for sure. Thank you.

My two favorite families are in the same room together 😍😍

The way I’m chuckling at Melissa yawing at the end of this video should be illegal 😂🤣😂😂.

I love that, "I want to make life easy for you"

Just when I think I've seen my favorite episode, y'all do something like this! #HighFiveMelissa 🤣🙏🏾

Ugh this was such an awesoooooommmeeee episode.. Both of my favorite couple's together.. And everything they talked about has made me look at my marriage and see where I can work on me and us as a whole!!! Thank you soooo much!!!

Lol, this episode is hilarious (and I'm only 13 mins in), Devale's face when he said they moved MiMi to Cali, lol!! I absolutely love & respect the open honesty between all of you, communication is definitely important--brutal honesty!!! Kev: "turn around & huggggg me, don't dap me up" hahaha, I completely understand that! Omg, I'm in tears laughing at Melissa & Kay's missed high-five moment....

Im here 8months later and this is Great!! This conversation is great and so similiar to what all couples are going through.

I am glad they're not putting up a fake front about how relationships really are, like how many people do on social media, then behind the scenes they are screaming and miserable and toxic. Many times people have fights, don't talk to each other, irritate each other... the mature thing is to know the limits of each other, recognize that each person has their own inner life which they keep to themselves, to have a base set of rules about fighting and disagreement and to give each other benefit of doubt.

I laughed without breathing with Melissa and Deval’s fist bump. Flailing arms and all.

Listening to this again. I'm older than you guys and have been married a little longer but I'm learning so much from you. Thank you all for being so open and sharing so much publicly. I'm gonna recommend my husband listens to this......wish me luck!

Freaking love this SHIT!!! They need to become frequent guests on you all podcast!!!!!

Y’all have no idea on how this discussion just added clarity to my marriage. We will continue the work, but to know we are not in weird space that is unfamiliar to marriages is comforting and helps with healing. Thank you!

This is such an honest conversation! My husband just wants me to express my concerns where I am prone to hold it in & be mad! I’m always thinking ahead & my husband always says “it will get done, relax”! He says “if you don’t tell me, I don’t know”. I see Kev, Melissa, Devale, & Khadeen... I watch!

This is what Young Black Couples NEED... Other Strong Black Couples as Great Positive Examples. THANKSSSSSSSS

I really was legit mad that this episode was over.😒💪🏾👌🏾👍🏾😍😘

So soo many golden moments and insights. But the point Melissa made about expanding one’s vocabulary to articulate and express emotions is 👌🏾👌🏾.

One thing I know about marriage is that we need to work for each other most people think marriage what they can get out of it. Marriage which is wrong marriage is a constant work on self and each other.

Devale and Khadeen man! You guys are lengendary.🙌💯👌 Loving the hosts, Kevin and Melissa great people. Top level 💯👍🙌

I didn't want this épisode to end. I wanted to stay in the room with them! I feel like i'm ready to be married now because of this vidéo !

The see-saw was a great analogy. You are only balanced if neither partner is moving. It's a constant rebalancing!

I am a single woman & I have learned a lifetime of information from this podcast!!! I am a supporter of both couples & love them so much!!!! Thank you guys for being so transparent & REAL!!!!! ♥️♥️♥️

Early Than I have ever been Have the Best Day today Everybody No Matter what you Go through !! Your loved ❤️💯✊🏾

This was awesome. Y’all have a natural chemistry

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@@conversationwithu7301 the whole picture and the fam of it to be done

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@@conversationwithu7301 they were able too late I already paid the car to get

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@@conversationwithu7301 the whole picture away for the day before the wedding was like Really the

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@@conversationwithu7301 they were supposed like a picture from a friend and she was very nice of the kids in my room lol 😜😜😜

WHYYY am I just now seeing this!! This was so good!

This episode was soooo Good! I really needed to hear a lot of this

I love this episode. It was what I needed to hear today.

This is one of my favorite episodes. Thank you for this one here ♥️🙌🙌

First time watching and absolutely love love love this type of conversation 😊🤗

Yoooooo this is the realest conversation on marriage, and i have been reading books and watching videos on mariage for years. The talk about keeping the mad front on, pettiness, not wanting to start being happy bc your partner says so....this is sooo real, so good. Ya'll getting me ready.

I love this and how honest you are! I knew people like y’all existed!

This episode was EVERYTHING! Thank you!

Great show, my 3 keys I look for in a man is Faith, Health, and yes willing to grow together all through life. It's good to find someone who you can be just be yourself around and willing to always put the work in even when you don't feel like it. May God continue to bless these real couples!

This episode was so great. I got so much from them. I really needed it right now.

This is so on point and I've shared with other people and I feel over joyed to have record of this to go over and review so that I can continue to grow from this wisdom. Thank you!!!