She is 100% jealous of her daughter. Statements like 'she IS me' and 'we're identical' show that she claims her daughter as a possession. Possessions can't outshine their owners

@Lovetsonmarq

Жыл бұрын

A typical narc parent

@DanaTheDarknessDragonQueen

Жыл бұрын

True

@malee943

Жыл бұрын

Also she talks about jealousy like it is only about looks. To me it seemed like she was jealous of her youth if anything

@CB-jo5kv

Жыл бұрын

@@malee943 yes, textbook narcissistic mother/daughter relationship.

@caitlinburris3003

Жыл бұрын

Your absolutely right

“I’m not going to say what my daughter did because I would never publicly embarrass my daughter. I mean, except for the time I shaved her head and posted it online 2 days ago lol”

@a_little_demon

Жыл бұрын

saying that while she embarrassed her daughter made no senses at all !

@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78

Жыл бұрын

Deadass 💀

@STATICARPET9

Жыл бұрын

You watch Oopmpaville?

@sumuduliyanawaduge4949

Жыл бұрын

@@a_little_demon who tf wants to be disciplined in front of millions

@a_little_demon

Жыл бұрын

@@sumuduliyanawaduge4949 I know right ?

Jennette mccurdy is a great example of some children's reaction to abuse. Jennette saw her mom as wonderful and only trying to help her when everything her mom did was abuse and for selfish reasons. It took her a very long time to realize what her mom did was wrong. I think this girl is going through the same thing..

@cptteacosy6158

Жыл бұрын

First time I heard the name of her book I was genuinely flabbergasted 🤣 until I did some research and yeah, fair enough 🤣

@StaceyJayne-pe7ww

Жыл бұрын

I was raised by a narcissistic sociopath. I was her scapegoat/prime target , literally from birth. But I didn't realize it was abuse until my mid 30s. It's disgusting.

@stacychase4005

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely. It took me decades to figure this out. I was actually researching why I struggle the way I do, or how I react the way I do. Like constantly apologizing, even if I had nothing to do with a situation. It's a trauma response. Thank goodness for videos addressing the issue.

It's ironic how she wants her daughter to prioritize education over vanity while she uses TikTok filters.

@666_cthulhu

Жыл бұрын

and she seems to have had work done too, though it’s honestly kinda hard to tell for sure past all the filtering and whatnot. everyone has every right to do what they want with their body, but they totally deserve to be shamed for being hypocritical about it and taking out their issues on their child 🤨 she’s so delusional

Not to mention that the girl probably felt obligated to be nice to her mom and do what she told her because of a fear that another thing might happen.

@XxsunnysisxX

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, Stockholm syndrome is becoming more common these days…..

@thebusinesswoman23

Жыл бұрын

The gun she was holding on her made that girl feel even more obligated, imo. Lol

@quindariousgooch88

Жыл бұрын

"teaching your kids to behave is psychological abuse!!! Stockholm syndrome!!!" 🤓🤓🤓

@Gonk755

Жыл бұрын

She sounds like she crying is the worst part 😔

@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78

Жыл бұрын

Fr my mother would say if told anybody I'd get taken away to foster care and mistreated awfully. It's hard to believe but real people like that exist gotta keep reminding that this motherly behavior is wild.

The fact that she thinks being identical twin to her daughter (when she’s not) it shows just how jealous she is of her own daughter. It’s so sad that parents will be abusive to their kids.

@Svol09

Жыл бұрын

She looks like she is trying her best to infiltrate the Chinese government.

@Samantha-vj4sd

Жыл бұрын

Parents who try to live through their children disgust me… especially when it’s the mother who literally gave birth and created the human they are exploiting. Then they wonder why the child doesn’t want to be around them when they finally are able to move out

@ScalpSnatcher

Жыл бұрын

She speaking like she's some kind of mitosis duplicating ameba

@Basan614

Жыл бұрын

My father was abusive to me

@aaronsanders4122

9 ай бұрын

They got the same eyes but otherwise don’t look anything alike. Parents living vicariously through their kids is just disgusting

My parents used to lock me up in my bedroom, with a padlock....before I could even try and be a bad kid. Didn't realize it was abusive till I had kids of my own. I still hate them

@emilydavis9548

Жыл бұрын

It’s messed up how many times I’ve heard a similar story.

@nehalarafa8260

Жыл бұрын

@@emilydavis9548 it's to a point where I feel nothing while reading them

@rabbitman8535

Жыл бұрын

When I read "I still hate them" I thought you were talking about your kids 😭

@RadioMan2023

Жыл бұрын

@@rabbitman8535 BRUH

@leviathanwhale69

Жыл бұрын

@@rabbitman8535 Maybe they are... 🤔

she’s manipulating her daughter to keep loving her telling her that this is normal, and she loves her. Horrible.

@magicalgrim3471

2 ай бұрын

Hopefully she realizes she’s being mistreated and can move away

That laughing feels so incredibly forced and it genuinely feels like a hostage situation.

@Avatar_Ape

Жыл бұрын

I searched for this comment it put chills down my spine and they kept laughing randomly pretty unsettling

@bitchujju

Жыл бұрын

i've been abused before and i behaved practically like her everytime my parents were around. i was scared of them so I'd pretend to be fine so they wouldn't do what they did anymore

She is the definition of "Not all parents deserve kids"

@Seen420

Жыл бұрын

But all kids deserve parents

@KraigFang

Жыл бұрын

I know I would be a horrible parent, just a train wreck of raising another human… so I decided not to do that. My girlfriend and I love each other and we have been together for about 17 years but we know nothing is coming from our relationship 😂

@sabertoothno34

10 ай бұрын

@@KraigFang more people need to be like you two then, too many people try to have kids and think "I can learn to raise one" no, you either got it or you don't.

@oltkai1367

10 ай бұрын

@@sabertoothno34also to add on top of what you said; not all people can say that so that’s a medal of respect for that yk

@AskMeWhyYoureStupid

9 ай бұрын

I wish people don’t go around KZread quoting the same things over and over again , creativity is dead. There is a thousand ways to say anything at any given moment and you just copy and paste some over used quote

This happened in 2015 in my area where a dad took a video of him cutting off his daughters hair for punishment and posting it. She later committed suicide because of this.

I had to take a required parenting course during my divorce. I seem to distinctly remember hearing that cutting off a child’s hair, intentionally posting embarrassing stuff to punish them, etc is considered abuse. Maybe just here in Texas? Idk but I think it’s abuse.

@thesavior9672

Жыл бұрын

Here in Germany cutting someone's Hair off without consent counts as battery

@booletric

Жыл бұрын

@@thesavior9672 As it should

@marinerouffaud1828

Жыл бұрын

I'd consider it emotional abuse

@littleHex

8 ай бұрын

​@@thesavior9672 It's the same here in the US but not many people know that :(

Publicly shaming your kid like that on social media is disgusting! Been taking every route to keep my kids offline.. don't need to prove to anyone my parenting skills or struggles.

@icedthecube7225

Жыл бұрын

The internet isn’t the problem. I’m not going to tell you how to parent, but being cut off from the internet as a kid f’d me up later in life and led to an internet addiction. The best thing you can do is ween it to them a little bit at a time, and completely monitor what they do. Things like no social media until whatever age and so on and so forth.

@rocknepoovey4381

Жыл бұрын

This video was put out what I feel like a week ago

@__yklim

Жыл бұрын

Yo kids finna be weird asl

@Sharkie_0

Жыл бұрын

You dont have to take your kids offline, take it from me, just make sure your children dont go to the wrong places. Peace ✌️

@Shaz_Caz

Жыл бұрын

@@icedthecube7225 they're toddlers.. I'm keeping their identity safe. I'm not stopping them from using the internet

She's just mad she got caught being a narcissistic person and abusing her child so she's trying to call out other people for doing stuff

@Svol09

Жыл бұрын

Even if she thought its a deserved punishment she should have kept it offline...she did it for the clout and so people maybe side with her (in the matter that she looks like her doughtier when in fact she looks like a forgotten muppet)

@gratefuldead8904

Жыл бұрын

@@Svol09 yep

@kirikocos

Жыл бұрын

Just like my ex fr

@gratefuldead8904

Жыл бұрын

@@kirikocos you scared me I thought this was in one of my videos and I'm sorry that happened to you

As a person who is a victim of phyiscal and verbal abuse from my own mother, the moment i saw the child agree with her mother is the moment i knew it was an abusive relationship. I know its a shot in the dark, but when i was younger, i was completely oblivious to the fact that i was being abused, and thought it was just punishment or discipline, when i found out it completely changed me as a person and now i want nothing to do with my mother or family - since they're aware of it and allow it to happen. Hope that girl finds the right people

@robney6988

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for you it's horrible even thinking that a mother could treat their own daughter this way I hope your doing well now

@pyroxicide1418

Жыл бұрын

@@robney6988 I'm a male, but yeah i'm doing okay i suppose. After about 15 years of abuse it still happens, but not as often as it used to. I got the authorities involved, and have had a lot of anger issues because of the resentment caused by the abuse. My doctor even said that i could possibly be a victim of Trauma, which yk, hurt a lot mentally.

@marinerouffaud1828

Жыл бұрын

I don't know if the girl believes in what she is saying or not. I used to believe that some of the stuff my parents were doing was normal because they made me believe it (and abuse is normalised way too much). But some of the stuff they did I knew it wasn't right, and yet I had to act like I liked them anyway just to avoid more abuse. I'd always say whatever they wanted me to to avoid punishment and that could be what this kid is doing, idk

it’s not about “being pretty is not as important as being smart”, it’s about the control that she took over that kid when she cut her hair off. she shouldn’t need to do that nor post it online to discipline her kid.

The irony in the mother is how she doesn't educate herself on being a better parent whilst using a beauty filter and has split dyed hair.

@an-me

Жыл бұрын

While claiming being pretty isn't more important than being educated...Like girl you make sure to put on the same filter for every video but you refuse to learn from your mistakes. She is most definitely jealous of her daughter.

@saraspivey1129

Жыл бұрын

@@an-meTHANK YOU.

@xx_static_dynamic_xx

4 ай бұрын

Cept she's not beautiful OR educated

@j.d.t.5761

Ай бұрын

​@@an-me9

oompa caught me off guard by going serious at the end

@O544_1

Жыл бұрын

ong

@rocknepoovey4381

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo man don’t *bleep* my *bleep*

@average_melody7928

Жыл бұрын

Yes more of this I like one way oompa!🥰💯

@IICARUS99

Жыл бұрын

He may be funny haha but he is a genuine person

@GlassHa1f_Empty

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo okay

The fact that she has not just cut her hair but made her wear a wig has got to be just more horrible because as kids we all use to think wigs were funny, so there is a chance they'll figure out shes wearing a wig and point and laugh at her. This is definitely going to give her trauma years later

@emilydavis9548

Жыл бұрын

I got made fun of for wearing wigs.

@scratoriousentertainment8515

Жыл бұрын

@@emilydavis9548 I am sorry that happened to you

@boxtroll-chan5082

Жыл бұрын

I was seriously wondering what people were thinking but the hair she cut off I'm not sure are extensions or not. I went to a school where half the school wore locs or weaves and this was also a form of punishment (not typically by the parents tho if you know what I mean) to get them pulled or cut out. In certain communities, you gotta wear wigs if you want that straight, or even long, hair

@painting_cosplays

Жыл бұрын

@@boxtroll-chan5082From the original video you can tell it’s fake hair that she had cut off, im pretty sure she had just gotten it done and that’s why it was such a big punishment. But i can’t figure out if the wig thing is more of the punishment or to get the daughter to like her again by getting her a wig to hide her hair.

When I was about 6, I witnessed my dad attempt to cut my older sisters hair with scissors as some sort of punishment. It was quite a violent act since my sister tried to resist. She ended up with bleeding cuts up and down her forearms and chunks of hair missing. It’s sad when you grow up thinking those type of things are normal. Everything hit me pretty hard when I started to self reflect as an adult. I hope for this child’s sake, the mom tries to understand abuse and it’s many different forms. It’s never too late to be a better person 🫶

You can even see the girl flinching when the mother puts her arm around her and says "you guys, this is my baby,.."

@dinodude1690

Жыл бұрын

At 6:01 it is honestly f*cking hard to watch the kid try and smile and try to fake laugh all while flinching and trying to duck away from her moms arm around her.

@cavemanlovesmoke4394

Жыл бұрын

@@dinodude1690 I'm not seeing it? (But that kamala harris style fake-laughing-while-talking face and the forced arm over the shoulder as she says it is like out of a movie . Could be a real ad on awareness)

@cavemanlovesmoke4394

Жыл бұрын

@@dinodude1690 ohh at 10:00 mark I see my bad

@saraspivey1129

Жыл бұрын

@@dinodude1690Omg so horrible!

@saraspivey1129

Жыл бұрын

@@cavemanlovesmoke4394Oh no!

*shaves her daughters head and posts it online* “I’m not here to embarrass my daughter” 💀

@yb6501

Жыл бұрын

Fr💀

@Hubertcorkscrew

Жыл бұрын

I wrote this in the middle of the video I didn’t even realize Caleb said that too

@marinerouffaud1828

Жыл бұрын

Indeed, she only embarrassed herself

Destroying a teen girls physical looks, is traumatizing! But then posting it online is humiliating, degrading and even worse abuse!!

@mmmi6908

11 ай бұрын

"Being pretty ain't sh$t education comes first what I do to/for my childish definitely for her better! " and she's "highly educated" absolutely no self awareness on these internet streets!

It looks like she physically altered her face and just ended up looking like the grinch

@kar813

Жыл бұрын

BRO I’M SO GLAD I’M NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO THOUGHT THAT 😭

"Tell everyone you're ok or I'll cut your hair again." - That mother, probably

@ancaboghitoiu2971

4 ай бұрын

Yes... Or maybe worse but definitely that's the situation...

Wow mom of the year, cut of your daughter's hair as punishment and then public humiliation.. such a heartwarming mom.. Humanity is so lost..

@itsyaboycancer7659

Жыл бұрын

My question I'd how do these people look at there video and see them cutting there hair off and go hmm the rest of the world is gonna love this one

@andrewjohnson442

Жыл бұрын

Okay I don't know if it's just me but this mom raising her kid like that seems like red carpet compared to my childhood, I feel it's kinda weird the backlash she is getting, sure I wouldn't do that to my kids but at least on video she seems fine kinda, the public shame is kinda messed up but i would take that rather than what I have lived

@saraspivey1129

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏽

@saraspivey1129

Жыл бұрын

@@itsyaboycancer7659Ikr?!

@megashima

Жыл бұрын

@@andrewjohnson442 Abuse is not a competition and shouldn't be treated like one.

"she thinks it's more important to look pretty than getting an education" while the mother has a filter which removes wrinkles, bad lighting etc,.

If she honestly believed what she did was right she wouldn’t feel the need to defend it over and over again . Absolute joke of a mum

Public shaming aside, forcefully changing your child's appearance against their will is abuse and teaches them that people are allowed to do whatever they want to them. Kids with parents like that WILL grow up fated to have abusive relationships for the rest of their lives. Your actions towards your kids DO have a huge impact on their entire lives.

@junkoenoshima538

Жыл бұрын

Can confirm. My mom forced me to get my long hair cut up to my chin when I was 9 bc i “didn’t take care of my long hair” (I loved my long hair sm, it was literally my pride and joy when I was little bc I loved how pretty I thought it was). Still haven’t recovered, I just remember sitting in that chair at the beauty salon and sobbing my eyes out while the hair stylist cringed a little and apologized profusely to me. I’m in therapy now and that keeps coming up when I talk abt my issues.

@marinerouffaud1828

Жыл бұрын

That and also dysphoria.

@SaraHubbardAskingMe

4 ай бұрын

Bingo! I grew up in a household where I couldn’t make any decisions for myself, was forced to do things I didn’t wanna do and I thought it was normal because when you’re younger, you think your parents are doing what’s right for you. When I was dating in high school, my mom seemed jealous of my relationships. Even though they were all toxic and I eventually ended up in a very abusive relationship in which she told me to “stay quiet about it and don’t think about it”. My ex should have been in prison for what he did

Abusive parents always justify it with “it’s out of love” but nah it’s not y’all need psychiatric help and the child needs to be removed from that environment asap this is just disgusting

@crisptomato9495

Жыл бұрын

Whenever an abusive boyfriend says he does it “out of love” everyone agrees it’s gross but parents will say the same thing and you’ll see others defending them. Make it make sense.

“being pretty doesn’t matter” but has the beauty filter on in every tiktok

Did anyone else see “The Redemption Arc starts now” video on Oompa’s channel? I didn’t get the Chance to watch it why did he delete it?

@oksoheresthething

Жыл бұрын

yeah it was on here and then deleted a few hours ago. idk why tho

@erinnicole3170

Жыл бұрын

I saw it too but didn't get to watch it... I'm guessing he took it down because of all the hate he's getting on the podcast video.

Some parents make distinguishing the small line between discipline and abuse very hard.

@Mal274

Жыл бұрын

Yep just like Hispanic parents 💀

@Mal274

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo bro shut up

@lunzeehan1539

Жыл бұрын

@@blackavar5723 cause it’s a no life 😂

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@AgonySoup

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo I won't.

Duude this is so traumatic and humiliating for this child. I remember being like 12 years old and crying from frustration bc I was struggling very hard cleaning my room. It seems dumb but it felt like a monumental task at the time. My mom came in with her phone and started recording me, laughing at me, and threatening to post it on Facebook. Nearly 15 years later that's still a traumatic memory for me. I can't imagine something like that happening and then actually posting it on tiktok. Her kid might say she's fine(she doesn't sound fine at all) that event will likely stick with her for her entire life. What that mother did shows an utter lack of respect for her kid and her autonomy. It's just gross.

@MarysWeirdLife

11 ай бұрын

That's the thing that really makes me sick. she's gonna grow up, realize what an awful situation she was in, and remember that it was BROADCASTED for millions to see, against her consent

put the redemption arc back up please i want to watch it

“You don’t know the bond I have with my kid” is what my parent claimed around the block for years…years ago before I moved out of the country and stopped speaking to her. Sometimes a kid isn’t screaming and crying not because they are fine, but because they are afraid of “making parent look bad” Add that she’s still a kid, she probably is actually laughing but in ten years she is gonna look back and be like “why did my mother actually do that? Why didn’t I say something? Why wasn’t I as angry about it then as I am now?”

I like how she says looks don't matter but proceeds to wear filters the entire time

It’s always very obvious when a parent is jealous of their child. I think that jealousy on the moms part plays a huge role in how she treats her daughter. Notice when she says “this is my baby, this is ME.” I was like yikes, something felt off about that comment.

You missed SUCH a big opportunity to use the Michael Jordan "Please, get some help" @ around 15:37

0:08 I REMEMBER WATCHING THAT VID WHEN I WAS LIKE 3 OR 4 AND I CRIED BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WAS SO SAD😭

and especially with her daughters hair type, it doesn't grow as fast and easy as common hair types which means it probably makes it even sadder since it will take a while to grow out. Even if she had hair that grows back fairly fast, I would be absolutely DEVASTATED.

Mother: looks don't matter. Also Mother: has pretty red colored hair, and looks nice as much as possible

@admiralmeow3161

Жыл бұрын

refuses to take a filter off in her videos

@Chris-hall9080

10 ай бұрын

Don’t say “pretty” when referring to her

@ajt_2609

9 ай бұрын

Imagine her reaction to someone trying to cut her hair ☠️

I have never once met somebody who wasn't abusive who controlled their child's hair. Keeping the hair as healthy as possible is one thing, but demanding you have control and poession over your child's hair is just such as weird tactic I've personally seen abusers do.

Bro I thought she was about to steal Christmas

I feel like I've seen this already....

@Kalooble

Жыл бұрын

right

@acidicdic4305

Жыл бұрын

Thought I was tripping 😂

@Mal274

Жыл бұрын

Yeah did this get deleted?

@deandrabee

Жыл бұрын

Listen, 👏🏾 I knew I couldn't be the only one.

@noahnotgoodatgames4954

Жыл бұрын

had to reupload it for youtubes *TOS*

Anyone else notice that, around 09:48 theres a bit of a flinch from the daughter, and that's in addition to the fact that the filter doesn't cover her features completely, and you can see in her expression that she isn't comfortable?

telling her daughter that beauty isn’t more important than education but then puts an ultra mega blur filter on herself 💀💀

“Why doesn’t my kid love me?”, “Why doesn’t my kid talk to me?”, “Why am i in a retirement home?”

in another video Caleb didn't mention is another TikTok talking about the issue and her daughter was beside her and she was asking her "did I abuse you? do you feel traumatized?" and she said no to all of them with her voice shaking and it was just so sad. She even said "Was this better than the abuse I could've done" and saying that sentence is such an ICK

The way she was talking about her daughter being her "identical twin" when she's not was so off putting. Even worse when she was talking " thats my daughter. That is me, she is me. " as if her daughter was a extention of herself... what tells me that this is more about jealousy than wanting her daughter off of tiktok is the fact that she literally put her daughter on tiktok herself humiliating her 😐 like what- the 'consequence' for what her daughter was doing was completely hypocritical of the action she got in trouble for in the first place.

DID U DELETE THE LAST NIKACADO VID??? I STARTED WAYCHING IT BUT HAD TO SLEEP AND ITS GONE NOOO

@yannlevesque4665

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@craig1656

Жыл бұрын

Same, this is so sad.

I hope this girl finds all the support there is out there for her. I thought I heard something about her getting taken away from the mom?

Calling someone a tarantula is now in my vocab. Thanks, Oompa

The Edits On This Jawn Had My Dying💀

Tara’s editing has me losing my mind, even in the videos where the subject matter is dark

@KDiamond666

Жыл бұрын

Has me in tears!!!!!😂

@jamesciava05

Жыл бұрын

Bruh at 12:30 was so funny

Psychologically I wonder and want to ask the mom “Why is cutting hair and posting about it to the public a punishment?” I’d bet you the answer you get hints at humiliation, embarassment, degrading, and stealing sense of self/autonomy. This is also why they do it in the military. This mother has chosen that, instead of physical discipline, she will utilize psychological warfare. Sure, this kid seems okay right now…. She’s probably getting gaslit to think it’s appropriate… “at least I’m not beating you like my parents beat me.” This mother is a narcissist; reminds me of my own mother.

Thank you for addressing this situation, as there is a line between discipline and just pure abuse.

Oompa probably told his parents when bedtime was

@bear2710

Жыл бұрын

Oompa adopted his parents

@Psilomuscimol

10 ай бұрын

I never had a bed time

When I was a hairdresser I had a parent come in with their 14 year old son and he had long black beautiful hair. He was like a skater type of kid. Anyway , the parent explained to me that their son had bad grades and his hair needed to be chopped off because of that. It was the hardest thing I had to do that day. He kept crying and I know he will hate me for the rest of his life lol.

My aunt would always tell other people what I do when I’m doing something wrong, I don’t think she does it to embarrass me, I think she just does it to vent but even then it makes me super self councious of what other people think of me now and now I’m a people pleaser and even a push over cause I don’t want people to think of me how my aunt shows how I am. Once I voiced out how hurtful the things she does is, she stopped but even then I had to go to therapy as my over self conscious is always thinking about what people think of me. I can’t even imagine what that child has to go through when a bunch of strangers she doesn’t even know are seeing her ‘getting punished.’ This is how meek and people who don’t speak up are made. When her child grows up and cuts off all contact without saying anything she shouldn’t be surprised.

The mother looks like the live-action Grinch

Honestly, advice from someone who sells chocha or has on OF is probably some of the most valuable advice she could get. I'm sure they have first hand knowledge of what kind of parenting can push a girl in the wrong direction.

@myeyesbleedblack

Жыл бұрын

You got em both with one comment

@ednygma1096

Жыл бұрын

Yep

@myeyesbleedblack

Жыл бұрын

@@ednygma1096 hi Nathanael :)

There was this kid in 1st grade who made fun of someone with cancer and his parents shaved his head bald and he gut bullied for it for quite some time. but to be honest the kid went from "bully" to a very understanding and nice kid VERY quickly.

@lanturn3239

Жыл бұрын

See that seems like maybe the only time something like that _would_ make sense, because the punishment directly relates to the offense. It's not just a ploy for control, it's "how about you experience, in a less permanent way, what you were bullying someone else for, and then see if you still think that's okay?"

she literally cut her own daughter hair of because of jealousy, she just wanted for her daughter to look uglier than her and telling her that being pretty doesn’t matter. That’s just insane

Man.. my parents used to beat the soul out of me but at least they didn't post it online 🤣

@SoloXxd

Жыл бұрын

I mean not any better though

@Kostas.mp3

Жыл бұрын

@@SoloXxd well no but actually yes

It’s bad enough to put your kids online for the world to see. But to put AND publicly shame your kids online for the world to see is just absolutely awful. I hope both that mother and her daughter get the respective help that both of them very much need.

Cutting a little girls hair off is some Mommy Dearest type ish.

Man I opened a tab earlier for the "reunion" or whatever video. Now its deleted?

why she look so devious

This is a whole new level of gaslighting.......

she had me at the "at the end of the day" my mom use to say that phrase over and over

destroying someone's appearance is so much worse than giving them a spaken, slapping them upside the head, or anything of that sort concidering the generation nowadays.

This is why the meme. "Stop it get some help." is meant to be around forever

My dad once threatened to shave my hair off as a punishment, I told him yes and to do it and he DIDNT 💀💀🗿

I’m someone who absolutely loves my hair.it’s one of the only things I love about myself so to see it used as a punishment for a small child is just so sickening.Also the public humiliation of posting her hair being cut (I’m guessing I didn’t see the full vid) ALSO WHY WOULD THE DAUGHTER SAY SHE HATES HER MUM WHEN SHES RIGHT NEXT TO HER

Oompa never disappoints

@Mal274

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo shut up bot

@SerialDesigantion_Y

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo okay i won't. Thanks for the info

@Kayzleee03

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo okay i wont.

@Saul_Ferguson

Жыл бұрын

Oomps.

@clonetroop

Жыл бұрын

@DontReadMyProfilePhoto_3thanks for the tip!

I was abused by my aunt and that girl you could tell there's something wrong I mean once you experience it you can tell when somebody else is experience it

I missed the follow ups! I was raised by a violent narcissist mom also. That poor girl. The fake laughing.. triggering.

As a person who has a narc mother i feel bad for the child i didn't understand when I was young either.. poor child.

She is so envious of her daughters looks. She is NOWHERE NEAR her “twin” she’s a 4 maybe 5(w/the filter) her daughter is a solid 9. And her jealousy is what guides her *Appearance based punishments.

“Education comes first” Does she have any proof of hers?

When her daughter says her abusive boyfriend loves her and that she deserves what he did to her... she will have no one else to blame but her parenting.

I hate how the mom starts crapping on women that do $3x work like most of them want to. Like many, many mothers have to do that just to feed their kids and put a roof over their kids heads and she's just belittling them for trying their hardest.

Bro the mom looks like she about to steal Christmas 💀💀💀

some people just don’t deserve social media

I dont know if hair cutting is exactly abusive, extremely questionable, but public humiliation on the internet is def abuse

Single moms abusing their daughters into being their own emotional support will inevitably create a women who is so emotionally codependent with their mother that they can’t keep a man, therefore repeating the cycle when she turns around and emulated her mother’s behaviors to her own future children.

It makes me wonder how the girl’s mom grew up. Maybe her mom used humiliation as “lessons” too

There are instances where cutting your childs hair would be acceptable. For example, if my kid made fun of a person loosing their hair because of cancer, the hair goes bye bye

“I’m highly educated” “my daughter is my identical twin” 😭

This way this mother is so focused on her daughter's education makes me feel like she is trying to live vicariously thru her daughter.

as an Irish person I can confirm that this is P A T A T O SERTAFID

"Bold move there, cotton" 😂😂😂

did he just delete the newest nick video

@craig1656

Жыл бұрын

Yea

@Kduckss

Жыл бұрын

Ugh. I had it saved to watch later and now it’s gone 😢 hopefully he reuploads it

If she was truly highly educated as she claims, she would know that public hair cutting was a humiliation tactic used by colonoizers on the Sikh in South Asia and the Indigenous in residential schools :/

Funny when comedic, respectable when serious

I find it funny how she says certain people can't have opinions lol like people don't have parents and can tell what's right parenting and what isn't

i shaved my hair for charity when i was young and the bullying i got for having short hair was intense luckily i knew the reasons i chose to do it so it didn’t get to me too much but i can only imagine how the daughter must feel

She looks like a oblivion npc 😂

I'm so grateful for Oomps bringing us the best content, and throwing in the occasional dodgeball reference 🙌🏼