The Unbearable ‘Icks’ INFJs Can’t Overlook

The Unbearable ‘Icks’ INFJs Can’t Overlook | There are certain things about others that the INFJ personality type can't bear to overlook. With a love/hate relationship towards other humans, these specific things make the INFJ type cringe in disappointment, disgust or confusion..
So, what are these INFJ icks, and what makes them so difficult to witness?
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TIME STAMPS:
00:00 - INTRO
00:51 - Number 1: Being too conforming or ‘by the book’
02:05 - Number 2: Playing the victim card
03:19 - Number 3: Being a know-it-all
04:34 - Number 4: Having an inflated ego in any regard
05:50 - Number 5: People who talk behind the backs of their friends
07:16 - Number 6: People who talk about politics
08:44 - Number 7: Lack of consideration and kindness to strangers
10:00 - Comment Question!
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  • @PSYCH-O
    @PSYCH-O2 ай бұрын

    *So, do you have an "ick" as an INFJ that we didn't include in today's video?* Comment down below 👇

  • @mrmrsporterbuiltinparadise568

    @mrmrsporterbuiltinparadise568

    2 ай бұрын

    I can't be around someone who is cruel to animals. It deeply infuriates me!

  • @bethiciaprasek1008

    @bethiciaprasek1008

    2 ай бұрын

    @@mrmrsporterbuiltinparadise568 Animals are people too. If someone treats animals poorly then they will treat children or others poorly unless it is clearly visible.

  • @denee1344
    @denee13442 ай бұрын

    people who are willfully ignorant, who equate opinion with fact

  • @PSYCH-O

    @PSYCH-O

    2 ай бұрын

    Good one, absolutely agreed!

  • @numerologicatarot3333
    @numerologicatarot33332 ай бұрын

    As an INFJ, I love talking about politics with those who are actually inclined.

  • @bethiciaprasek1008

    @bethiciaprasek1008

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes. I am not involved much in politics, but enjoy a good discussion with those informed. I also admire those who can make real changes. I was just discussing with a friend (today) how proud I was of another friend who got a "no tolerance" policy amended in TX after his son was sent to a high school boot camp for a minor infraction. It took several years and didn't benefit his son, but it did help to make the policy more flexible and logical.

  • @ashleybennetts3108

    @ashleybennetts3108

    2 ай бұрын

    Yeah, I love talking about it when I know their whole world doesn't revolve around it. Unfortunately, with most people, it is their religion in my country.

  • @slavteter

    @slavteter

    2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely, once we understand politics sth snaps inside our head making us the most radical tolerant people there are. I've settled for Anarchism hbu?

  • @Reindeer911
    @Reindeer9112 ай бұрын

    And as far as my "icks"? Blatant hypocrisy for one. Also arrogance, snobbish and conceited people (aka "stuck up"), and manipulators.

  • @rabbitgregory9289

    @rabbitgregory9289

    2 ай бұрын

    Definitely people who manipulate others for their own self-serving interests.

  • @shainekinson1751
    @shainekinson17512 ай бұрын

    People who chew with their mouths open or drag their metal silverware across their teeth. GROSS!! Totally eebs me out.

  • @itsArridian

    @itsArridian

    2 ай бұрын

    I feel like this isn’t MBTI specific

  • @MammeJ
    @MammeJ2 ай бұрын

    As an INFJ, I am now very knowledgeable in politics and preventing people with alternative evil motives that will continue to inflict pain and take basic human rights from people using religion as manipulation. We speak out against injustice & advocating for equality, inclusion and the individual freedom, liberty & rights for all Americans. We are Narcissists' worst nightmare!

  • @SolidSiren

    @SolidSiren

    2 ай бұрын

    Most people do that.

  • @editorjeannie2318
    @editorjeannie23182 ай бұрын

    I was completely oblivious to politics until 2016 when I was 45 - now I stay up to date. Especially after 2020

  • @UpgradeNEvolve

    @UpgradeNEvolve

    2 ай бұрын

    Same 🤜🤛

  • @numerologicatarot3333

    @numerologicatarot3333

    2 ай бұрын

    I’m the opposite. I became too turnt off by then but I’m knowledgeable enough to watch just a little and critically analyze on a wide range of topics.

  • @celinefederici6951

    @celinefederici6951

    2 ай бұрын

    Same till 2016...but in my 60's..now very well informed.

  • @ginny6000
    @ginny60002 ай бұрын

    PEOPLE who interrupt.Major mistake

  • @PSYCH-O

    @PSYCH-O

    2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely 👌

  • @suki5048
    @suki50482 ай бұрын

    Completely disagree with the political stand of the INFJ described here. Even when we are not sure of who deserves our vote, we are mostly sure of who does not deserve it. I believe initially we are observant in political conversations to figure which side the ppl we are talking with lean towards. The state of the world and our countries is absolutely a topic INFJs are concerned about and we are likely to cast our votes

  • @PSYCH-O

    @PSYCH-O

    2 ай бұрын

    Of course, despite having the same personality type, we're all a little different after all 😊

  • @remhk6672

    @remhk6672

    2 ай бұрын

    Infjs minds are so ever broad and expansive and ever so open minded, even in the realm of politics, it is just in such a limited scope for those particular infjs to really explore using our creative imaginations with. I much prefer environmental subjects, space exploration, science and technology, and ancient history! Also extraterrestrial life forms. :)

  • @sojourneroftheland

    @sojourneroftheland

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@PSYCH-OWe are all different but have many common threads in our thinking patterns. For most INFJ's, the political scene is nothing more than theatrics (incidentally many political leaders are former actors...qu'elle surprise) I dont believe INFJ's have much inclination towards poilitical goings ons, any more than it is likely for us to know all about the different celebrity gossip. Where politics are concerned the streak is very strong in INFP's, which incidentally I wholeheartedly believe is one of the most mistyped "INFJ's" due to how similar we are in alot of ways. They are far more likely to be passionate about such things as well as motivations to get into politics as well. Many "experts" that deal with typology often use interest in politics as one of the cliche characteristics of INFP's. I think the channel is spot on in its original idea of the whole political scene giving INFJ's an ICK feeling. Characterizing it all as a charade was more than accurate imo. We pay attention to the patterns and clues, and see past the veil or smoke. Many of us can see that humans are manipulated into the same corral that has 2 different doorways: 1 labelled democrat, the other labelled republican. All the while not many realizing how far we have veered from either a republic or a democracy. Ive done a ton of tuning out of political debates over family dinners😂 I do enjoy a good debate sometimes but in this case there is no "side" to actually debate from...its all an illusion :)

  • @judiezell4306
    @judiezell43062 ай бұрын

    I love talking about politics as long as it doesn't turn into an argument

  • @airam-sj2172
    @airam-sj21722 ай бұрын

    Those iks resonate with me. I should add also, the disregard for knowledge.

  • @davidblitch1819
    @davidblitch18192 ай бұрын

    The politics portion of the video does not match me. I vote in every election and am very aware of politics. What gives me an ick is to have a political discussion with someone who will not consider other political views because they need to be right about their own.

  • @Emefur1
    @Emefur12 ай бұрын

    You forgot, virtue signalling!!

  • @twan923
    @twan9232 ай бұрын

    Along the lines of the know it all, mine would be the "one upper" mentality. No matter what anyone else in the room has done, they've done it bigger, better, faster.

  • @ikersweet
    @ikersweet2 ай бұрын

    100% lol; fake games and fake people

  • @mrmrsporterbuiltinparadise568
    @mrmrsporterbuiltinparadise5682 ай бұрын

    💯 percent Brother! As an INFJ, I relate completely and you have earned my sub! ❤

  • @cherylbecker3167
    @cherylbecker31672 ай бұрын

    When it comes to my Democracy being at stake,hell yes.I care. Riding with Biden

  • @dennerjd
    @dennerjd2 ай бұрын

    It's interesting that every single test I take says I'm an INFP(-T) but also nearly every INFJ video describes me more accurately than any INFP video or even myself.

  • @remhk6672
    @remhk66722 ай бұрын

    This is all very true... I'm amazed..well done!😊

  • @Aero1818
    @Aero18182 ай бұрын

    Yes, each one of those. Number 2 made me laugh (evilly)

  • @rabbitgregory9289
    @rabbitgregory92892 ай бұрын

    @JakeJLivingston I didn’t take the word “ick” as seriously as you seem to have taken it; in this case, “ick” seems on par with “off putting,” which has a gentler, less slangy ring to it. The use of the word “ick” didn’t bother me, and I never got the impression the narrator was talking about some kind of extreme “ew gross” reaction. Similarly, when the video opens with “welcome back psychos” I don’t believe it’s a sincere jab at INFJ’s-it’s playful. I believe this channel is for all INFJ’s, not just “mature” INFJ’s. I’m not talking about age when using the word “mature”; I’m referring to a healthy sense of identity as an INFJ. For some of us this comes later in life, and the road isn’t easy. And for me, silly slangy words such as “ick” and “psychos” help lighten the load a tiny bit. So, for all the INFJ’s out there (and everyone else, too) take the time you need and the information you need to grow. Be kind to yourself along the way. One last thing. I don’t think growth (as in “now I’m grown up”) is a destination; I think it’s a process-it just keeps going. What do you think?

  • @ashleybennetts3108
    @ashleybennetts31082 ай бұрын

    While i agree mostly with this video, there are so many sensory icks that i feel could be a whole other video lol. Perfectionisim makes it difficult to live in an imperfect world.

  • @DJ-vh9ib
    @DJ-vh9ib2 ай бұрын

    Well I am an INFJ and the point one is odd. I try to live by the book and conform to societal norms to blend it. Only my interpretation of how things should be doesn't fit what people assume it to be. I will give you one example. I like to be polite and will address people accordingly. But my formal attitude often comes out as stiff.

  • @neilkiots
    @neilkiots2 ай бұрын

    i always enjoy your channel's videos- the info is thorough and spot on so i'm curious where you get it from and what the channel goals are- i never see a link yo buy anything. thanks

  • @Angel-gb9gi
    @Angel-gb9giАй бұрын

    for me its leave me alone and let me be me and you be you and mind your own business and ill mind my own and we will thrive in harmony. Bossy people have a hard time minding their own business. i dont care what you do or what you think as long as it does not effect me.

  • @katherinebrumley7794
    @katherinebrumley77942 ай бұрын

    Well, today's experience hit on 3 of my icks. Door slam is forth coming.

  • @mariacastillo5625
    @mariacastillo56252 ай бұрын

    Yes! 🎯👏🏻

  • @GigiSparkle_LV
    @GigiSparkle_LVАй бұрын

    Dang, torally

  • @laurengi4444
    @laurengi44442 ай бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @PSYCH-O

    @PSYCH-O

    2 ай бұрын

    That is so generous, thank you so much! 💙

  • @jodihall1772
    @jodihall17722 ай бұрын

    If following me lead you here, don't listen to what you've heard. Only you can put yourself in a box. This is your dream now wake up😮

  • @JakeJLivingston
    @JakeJLivingston2 ай бұрын

    Sorry, but an overactive ick response is a sign of immaturity. It’s one thing for stuff like this to take a chip out of your admiration for someone, but of you actually have an “ew gross” response, that’s a sign you have some growing to do. Pretty much everything you say lines up with my experience as an INFJ, but any mature INFJ will be able to see the human on the other side of the superficial nonsense. No ick required.