The Ultimate Guide to Being "THAT Girl"

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my ULTIMATE GUIDE to becoming "THAT girl" a full day trying the that girl habits and routines. i hope you all enjoyed, and remember you do what makes you feel good, and you don't need to live according to a trend. thank you always for the support xx
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  • @VanessaTiiu
    @VanessaTiiu3 жыл бұрын

    SUMMER IS ALMOST HERE!!! What's something you're looking forward to? ☀️🌊

  • @aistyteea

    @aistyteea

    3 жыл бұрын

    What i eat in a day!

  • @coffee4085

    @coffee4085

    3 жыл бұрын

    swimming in water all day!! and having a summer routine :))

  • @jimenaescobar7346

    @jimenaescobar7346

    3 жыл бұрын

    Becoming that girl and changing my clothes style

  • @ellendeise6071

    @ellendeise6071

    3 жыл бұрын

    OMG I was searching for a video like this wow congrats❤

  • @antoniaeva4413

    @antoniaeva4413

    2 жыл бұрын

    I want to get into the school I like . so now I have to study but after that I want to become the best version of myself. Btw you are so beautiful. 🧡 -(sorry for my bad English., I'm bilengual, I speak 4 language so sometimes it's hard to speak English correctly🤣)

  • @kk-gg6hs
    @kk-gg6hs2 жыл бұрын

    I used to be "that girl" and then I got burnt out. Now I am fighting depression. Please remind yourself that you are worthy in spite of your failures.

  • @kaitlynloucks1097

    @kaitlynloucks1097

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey I just wanted to remind U that u are worthy and I hope u become the best version of yourself again! U deserve it. I was “that girl” too and fell into a deep depression and remained being a lazy bitch for 3 years now I’m finally reclaiming who tf I am ! I hope u decide to make the change too !

  • @Msawesomet123

    @Msawesomet123

    2 жыл бұрын

    me as well. we got this bestie

  • @fahdah106

    @fahdah106

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kaitlynloucks1097 I 2nd that and same 2 u

  • @kk-gg6hs

    @kk-gg6hs

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kaitlynloucks1097 thanks so much for your support ❣️ wishing you the best 🙏

  • @alexandraliv1124

    @alexandraliv1124

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let's keep on fighting!

  • @todayiglowup4286
    @todayiglowup42863 жыл бұрын

    i feel like "that girl" is definitely a mindset. if you are glowing from the inside, people will see that

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes!! i completely agree!

  • @mindtomanifest9147

    @mindtomanifest9147

    2 жыл бұрын

    Trueeee, if you love yourself on the inside.. .it will definitely reflect on the outside

  • @marlies6155

    @marlies6155

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love this comment so much

  • @avahorton8966

    @avahorton8966

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes ma’am 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @zindzelelelitte977

    @zindzelelelitte977

    2 жыл бұрын

    My dad is living "that girl" life on a budget without instagram, photos or socal media

  • @yn07a
    @yn07a2 жыл бұрын

    them: * wakes up at 5am * me: * *sTILL AWAKE AT 5AM, WATCHING VIDEOS ON HOW TO BE "THAT" GIRL* *

  • @maddybyers5055

    @maddybyers5055

    2 жыл бұрын

    me right now😭

  • @gladyskaunya8493

    @gladyskaunya8493

    2 жыл бұрын

    me toooooooooo girl haha

  • @marshaguedez9904

    @marshaguedez9904

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah yes, 5:25am. Better watching this that actually ending myself

  • @kimyaballs3073

    @kimyaballs3073

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's 2a.m and yes same sis 😭

  • @meganfajardo2124

    @meganfajardo2124

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahah me

  • @G84632
    @G846322 жыл бұрын

    1. Sleep schedule 2. Wake up early + make bed 3. Skincare 4. Journal (gratitude, to do list) 5. Drink a lot (lemon water) 6. Morning walk + podcast 7. Workout 8. Get ready 9. Breakfast 10. Start work 11. Reading 12. Lunch (healthy, smoothie) Being “that” girl has a lot to do with your mindset:)

  • @soleen2701

    @soleen2701

    2 жыл бұрын

    thank u for writing it down

  • @theinvinciblewinner

    @theinvinciblewinner

    2 жыл бұрын

    More like having a lot of free time and being rich

  • @anniemannie6

    @anniemannie6

    2 жыл бұрын

    That girl according to me: 1) wake up at 4am 2) make your own healthy breakfast 3) go for a walk on the roof 4) workout 5) studying more 6) cleaning my room 7) learning a third language 8) reading 9) bathing everyday 💀 10) dressing up nice everyday 11) drinking a lot 12) cooking something at least once everyday

  • @user-ip4ul4ht4y

    @user-ip4ul4ht4y

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anniemannie6 walk on the roof??? 💀💀

  • @anniemannie6

    @anniemannie6

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-ip4ul4ht4y 😂 yeah, I noticed that whenever I go on the roof in the morning, I feel fresh. I just put on songs and eat something I make, roam here and there and sit when I get tired. It's like a place where I get my mind together and plan some things. And my roof is big enough for me to be able to walk a bit. Once a dog bit me and now I'm scared of them, so that's why I don't go out alone in the morning, and also because I'm young and my mom doesn't allow me to go out if she's sleeping

  • @MeganKesbai
    @MeganKesbai3 жыл бұрын

    true, "THAT GIRL" perception is different for different people, and it also motivates one to work towards the best version of themselves.

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes exactly!! 🥰🥰

  • @itsbriiiyahhh

    @itsbriiiyahhh

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is definitely me ❤️

  • @aimeejane_writings

    @aimeejane_writings

    2 жыл бұрын

    But it shouldn't be a trend.

  • @lizajackson6035

    @lizajackson6035

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aimeejane_writings to work towards the best version of yourself?

  • @natalia1048

    @natalia1048

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jesus loves you!

  • @karlag8278
    @karlag82782 жыл бұрын

    Honestly for me being "that girl" is just taking care of myself and do what's best for my wellbeing

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Get it girl, and keep doing that!!

  • @shopnicolets

    @shopnicolets

    2 жыл бұрын

    same!

  • @sapphodil3154

    @sapphodil3154

    2 жыл бұрын

    RIGHT, people keep saying it’s toxic, but it’s only toxic if you make it toxic! All it is is bringing out the ultimate version of you, nothing else!

  • @mamilivi______308

    @mamilivi______308

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sapphodil3154 true

  • @2hacelyn

    @2hacelyn

    2 жыл бұрын

    Describe the best.

  • @miniko_artsy
    @miniko_artsy2 жыл бұрын

    I think my version “that girl” is about implementing small habits that gradually add up, today I woke up at 11 am, ate instant ramen, in all scenarios this would be considered an unsuccessful day, but I also started exercising today and took a shower, it’s all about building these small habits that will help your physical and mental health, today wasn’t perfect, but it was better than yesterday and that’s all that matters :3

  • @ashleywillson1990

    @ashleywillson1990

    2 жыл бұрын

    How does one climb a mountain? The same way he learned to walk. One step at a time.

  • @____yeojinnie

    @____yeojinnie

    2 жыл бұрын

    y'all r so inspiring 😭 indeed, we should strive to be the best version of ourselves one day at a time ❤️

  • @100thlamb8

    @100thlamb8

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jesus loves you❤️kzread.info/dash/bejne/qHejpraOiKuzlco.html❤️

  • @charlottehook7387

    @charlottehook7387

    Жыл бұрын

    If you simply manage to eat, that is a successful day

  • @eideldsouza2131

    @eideldsouza2131

    Жыл бұрын

    i love this comment omg

  • @thanksgram
    @thanksgram2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like being “that girl” is really about you just getting your shit together, leveling up, and striving to be the best version of you. Whatever that may be!❤️

  • @maya1106
    @maya11062 жыл бұрын

    I've been ,,that girl" for 9 days now, I am so happy honestly :) I used to be on phone all day, eat unhealthy,snack a lot,sleep at 5am,never workout...now I fixed all these things, bit by bit and I am still starting my journey but so far, I have never been happier for myself than I am now :)

  • @randomveganperson8873

    @randomveganperson8873

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congrats! I hope you can keep that up :)

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yay!! You're killing it queen 🥰

  • @naamaalhammadi5981

    @naamaalhammadi5981

    2 жыл бұрын

    Proud of u

  • @carmenromero6847

    @carmenromero6847

    2 жыл бұрын

    CONGRATSSS !!! UHM if it's ok to ask, what is ur routine or maybe what things do u do in the day

  • @k.suliman8539

    @k.suliman8539

    2 жыл бұрын

    You go girl!!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @jonasfilmstudio
    @jonasfilmstudio2 жыл бұрын

    Finally a trend that’s not toxic

  • @marleneknits

    @marleneknits

    2 жыл бұрын

    it might not be toxic but it is definitely not attainable for most women that have to work / have children etc.

  • @aniyahseabrook5511

    @aniyahseabrook5511

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marleneknits no but that’s the thing it is attainable... that mindset hinders a lot of people

  • @aniyahseabrook5511

    @aniyahseabrook5511

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marleneknits being that girl is a mindset it’s about self care, improvement, and loving yourself!!!

  • @alexapazos-gonzalez2894

    @alexapazos-gonzalez2894

    2 жыл бұрын

    For real tho

  • @yoongisgirlfriend9302

    @yoongisgirlfriend9302

    2 жыл бұрын

    F I N A L L Y

  • @LilyIrean
    @LilyIrean2 жыл бұрын

    i love how you keep reminding us that being “that girl” doesn’t have to be aesthetic and it’s more about how you wanna feel or what you want to do while being productive. awesome video!!

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! I really tried to emphasize that and that it’s the habits you do and what makes YOU feel like that girl that makes you THAT girl ❤️

  • @elsa_vs3264
    @elsa_vs3264 Жыл бұрын

    I became ‘that girl’ about three months ago for a week, I was recovering from depression and told myself to take baby steps, at that time being ‘that girl’ for me was showering more often and brushing my teeth twice a day again and that sort of stuff. It helped SO MUCH setting up my routines again. Now I’m probably gonna try being that girl again but now focusing on productivity and health :)) being ‘that girl’ is just setting the first step to setting up good habits

  • @tkgiinfmkvb

    @tkgiinfmkvb

    7 ай бұрын

    I was becoming that girl before that girl trend lol It was after my break up in 2019. I used to wake up early do skincare Eat healthy fruits and vegetables also changing my mindset was best thing I did. But it was not that aesthetic like they show. Somedays I used to cry to heal and let out. Somedays I just used to stay in bed watch my fave movie and do nothing productive. But I felt better. I think balance is more important than being extreme.

  • @Rj-cd4rf
    @Rj-cd4rf2 жыл бұрын

    good luck to everyone on their journey to becoming “that girl” you can do it!

  • @xNinaa-ci5ro

    @xNinaa-ci5ro

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @akp470

    @akp470

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m starting a channel to share ideas for self care and tips to be “THAT GIRL” best version of yourself!! Support!!

  • @tbross77

    @tbross77

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so so much

  • @MrJanupanu

    @MrJanupanu

    2 жыл бұрын

    TANKS!!!!

  • @suchiarya4621

    @suchiarya4621

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you yes we can do it !

  • @damilola
    @damilola3 жыл бұрын

    the intro was EVERYTHING omg

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ah thank you!! ❤️❤️

  • @LydAnn2005

    @LydAnn2005

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally made me so happy

  • @itzelquintero8265

    @itzelquintero8265

    2 жыл бұрын

    What is the music

  • @thomasgirls9074

    @thomasgirls9074

    2 жыл бұрын

    what is the song?

  • @Misspoppylocks

    @Misspoppylocks

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thomasgirls9074 ‘The King’ Sarah Kinsley

  • @444fawn
    @444fawn2 жыл бұрын

    so basically being "that girl" is just being the best version of yourself, the happiest and healthiest version u can be? i think ill start being healthier once college starts, I'm just going to enjoy lazy girl summer and going to sleep at 6 am waking up at 3pm for now 😌

  • @lucymalpas1221

    @lucymalpas1221

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree so hard with that! There's so much pressure to be your best self all the time but sometimes you just need to exist and enjoy the ride without all that pressure and guilt for not being 'that girl'

  • @user-ci4py1wc4c

    @user-ci4py1wc4c

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lucymalpas1221 what's that girl? Am I the only person who don't know?

  • @tahsina.c

    @tahsina.c

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-ci4py1wc4c it honestly doesnt even matter or really exist-being healthy isnt a personality anyway, the only girl u need to be is u

  • @444fawn

    @444fawn

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-ci4py1wc4c that girl is just a phrase for girls who have a “healthy” life routine like eating fresh foods, going to sleep & waking up early, exercising/doing yoga/ mediating. It’s not an actual person !!

  • @theinvinciblewinner

    @theinvinciblewinner

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nah, u won’t

  • @sooling5529
    @sooling55292 жыл бұрын

    “that girl” trend is actually the best trend i’ve seen on social media. it encourages people to eat healthy, work out, take care of yourself etc. people who bash on it just cant accept that there are better versions of themself they can strive for. edit: alright to be honest my original comment is a little harsh - I guess what I wanted to imply is that most people who criticize the trend don't seem to want to believe/or accept that there are different ways they can live their lives and things they can do that will make their health, mentally or physically better. I absolutely believe in doing whatever tf you want (be it play video games on your free time or eat ice cream when you want to) and you do you! We all deserve to take a breather for ourselves. However I notice how better I feel when I ""jumped"" into the trend (Which is basically just supporting a healthy lifestyle like eating greens, working out, wear lesser make up, read etc). Now I feel so much better since i'm eating healthier, working out often, taking care of my skin, etc. I just believe that out of the many trends that has ever come and go, the 'that girl' trend doesn't deserve as much criticism as it receives, because in the end of the day it really is just promoting wellbeing.

  • @chalkandrubble5702

    @chalkandrubble5702

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not really, you could search up some videos on why people criticise the that girl trend. A lot of the criticism seems pretty valid to me. There are both good and bad sides to this trend, as with everything else.

  • @emnemnem1889

    @emnemnem1889

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@chalkandrubble5702 to me honestly, taking care of yourself shouldn't even be a trend, or fashionable... Like brushing your teeth or washing... It should be natural. What else I don't like, is the genralisation. Like, all of these girls eat avocado, do yoga, drink a lotta water... No originality, no diversity... I just realized that I've been THAT girl for years, without it even becoming a trend. Plus, not everyone can afford avocado. In Russia for instance it's a pretty expensive and rare vegetable (yes scientists consider it a fruit, but idgad)

  • @krullewietje

    @krullewietje

    2 жыл бұрын

    'taking care of yourself' isn't always waking up at 4 am to workout, eating a salad for lunch and being pressured into having a flawless lifestyle.. sometimes it's sleeping a little more and watching your favorite tv series while eating chocolate chip cookies, and that's honestly perfectly fine

  • @user-xj4yv3qo3v

    @user-xj4yv3qo3v

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@krullewietje Wasting time watching TV, eating unhealthy food, not exercising and calling it self-care - sounds more like excuses for self-abandonment, escapism and recklessness to your onw life quality and wellbeing. There is so much tasty, healthy, vegan food, you'll feel and be better doing actual, healthy self-care and getting stuff done and relax in mindful, healthy ways, like walking, sports, meditation.

  • @krullewietje

    @krullewietje

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-xj4yv3qo3v im sorry but you're unknowingly proving how unnuanced the whole 'that girl' trend is..... Watching tv or doing anything merely for your own enjoyment = wasting time, eating a chocolate chip cookie = making an unhealthy food decision, sleeping a little more = time you could have spent on exercise or 'being productive'. How is any of this a healthy mindset? to me this way of thinking would fit more with extreme perfectionism and i doubt it could ever truly contribute to long term happiness. An actual healthy lifestyle to me is about balance and being able to enjoy certain things without guilt. This ain't it

  • @aarnachopdekar9490
    @aarnachopdekar94902 жыл бұрын

    I do workout everyday I eat vegetables and have lemon drink everyday I do around 7k-10k steps ALMOST everyday And I also take care of my skin and complete my assignments This is my type of “that girl”

  • @trunkoslivka1448

    @trunkoslivka1448

    2 жыл бұрын

    YASS GIRLL GO

  • @Kayla-um3ry

    @Kayla-um3ry

    2 жыл бұрын

    im so happy for you :) keep being the best version of yourself!!

  • @helenoftroy6650

    @helenoftroy6650

    2 жыл бұрын

    How old are you?

  • @aarnachopdekar9490

    @aarnachopdekar9490

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@helenoftroy6650 I'm turning 15 this October

  • @helenoftroy6650

    @helenoftroy6650

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aarnachopdekar9490 oh nice

  • @tiffanydlo.x
    @tiffanydlo.x2 жыл бұрын

    i'll definitely try be a "that" girl in summer break but for now its waking up 30 minutes before school🥴

  • @kailinhanna6031

    @kailinhanna6031

    2 жыл бұрын

    same hun, same

  • @thomasgirls9074

    @thomasgirls9074

    2 жыл бұрын

    sameeee

  • @sofiasambuchetti3998

    @sofiasambuchetti3998

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same girl

  • @oliviaaloh1069

    @oliviaaloh1069

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think I’m gonna have to shoot for next school year, I’m not doing to well 😟

  • @Safa-nx7kf

    @Safa-nx7kf

    2 жыл бұрын

    honestly theres nothing wrong with that as long as you're getting enough sleep! 30 minutes is also definitely enough time to get ready for school, shower, eat breakfast etc.

  • @tryingmydarndest8200
    @tryingmydarndest82002 жыл бұрын

    The "that girl" trend reminds me a lot of Aristotle's goal towards eudaimonia. A eudaimonistic lifestyle is one where you are constantly trying to improve yourself and learn new things. The only difference is portrayal. Eudaimonia is change within oneself, "that girl" is change for display. Of course, people interpret "that girl" differently, but since it is based in socials it is deeply intertwined with crafting aesthetic moments. Personally, I think that someone trying to be a "that girl" will be more dedicated at first (in comparison to a eudaimonistic strive) because they can clearly see life changes just in their camera roll. Though eventually, I would guess that eudaimonia wins out since, after all, "that girl" is a trend and trends fade.

  • @shellysbrewing

    @shellysbrewing

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯💯

  • @annajamal781

    @annajamal781

    2 жыл бұрын

    this was a joy to read! 💕

  • @majortom2231

    @majortom2231

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@annajamal781 Truly!

  • @RB-os7qw

    @RB-os7qw

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for posting this. It was a good read, and there aren't as many of those in youtube comments as one would hope.

  • @kaylynn3717

    @kaylynn3717

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree 100%!!! Let’s also remember to help others! That will help us to become the best version of ourselves too🥰🥰

  • @israelzav3209
    @israelzav32092 жыл бұрын

    Unpopular opinion: “that girl” seems different to everyone and it could be a little bit toxic to people who are perfectionist or people who are always comparing themselves to others, remember that your best version is not the one that everyone shows on social media, your best version is the one when you can be at peace and balance in every part of your life, send you lots of love

  • @lemonboi7482

    @lemonboi7482

    Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, that's my least favorite trend. "That" girl looks like a soulless machine that only cares about superficial things.

  • @tejujoshi6666

    @tejujoshi6666

    Жыл бұрын

    "Being in PEACE and BALANCE in EVERY part of your life" well said👏👏👏

  • @mygodisawesome6121

    @mygodisawesome6121

    Жыл бұрын

    👏🏽

  • @renzy7998
    @renzy79983 жыл бұрын

    ive been lovinngggg watching these “that girl” videos!! i might just have to film one too haha

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    right!! i'm obsessed

  • @haroldthebest2093

    @haroldthebest2093

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesss do it I will watch it

  • @jee.3750

    @jee.3750

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do it please I swear I will watch it!

  • @katrina6281

    @katrina6281

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do it!

  • @abrarsunset

    @abrarsunset

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just post my Becoming that girl if you want go cheek it. kzread.info/dash/bejne/dKKAj4-lYaXPnqg.html

  • @taylormfinney
    @taylormfinney2 жыл бұрын

    I learned that I literally am THAT girl and I didn't even know it 💁🏻‍♀️✨

  • @derYsha

    @derYsha

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tell us your secret🥴😂

  • @aarnachopdekar9490

    @aarnachopdekar9490

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same We just need to be the best of ourselves

  • @GinaRosso542

    @GinaRosso542

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeessss you are Queen

  • @soon-julie9268

    @soon-julie9268

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratsss

  • @nefelisassalou5320

    @nefelisassalou5320

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yayy that's the spirit queen🍓✨

  • @TPM4594
    @TPM45942 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 27 year old guy and I have no idea why I'm watching this

  • @Justbreath201

    @Justbreath201

    4 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @udita9005

    @udita9005

    16 сағат бұрын

    To become "that boy"

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman2 жыл бұрын

    "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it." If you are reading this you are amazing keep smiling💜

  • @seashore1903

    @seashore1903

    2 жыл бұрын

    #wise

  • @enguunenguun7164
    @enguunenguun71642 жыл бұрын

    HER SMILE IS SO ATTRACTIVE 🌙

  • @barbzcult
    @barbzcult3 жыл бұрын

    i’m tryna become that girl and it’s almost summer. i’m so excited i start tomorrow and i’m gonna wake up at 5:45am💕

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesssss go kill it queen!!

  • @barbzcult

    @barbzcult

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@VanessaTiiu i did it!!!❤️

  • @friendlyneighbourhoodrat

    @friendlyneighbourhoodrat

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same..!

  • @loveyourself1357
    @loveyourself13572 жыл бұрын

    this routine is so hard to follow when you live with your whole family and on the top of that you're an Indian 😭

  • @elara5122

    @elara5122

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can feel you girl, living with a joint family you have whole different lifestyle.

  • @aishiki3208

    @aishiki3208

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am only child but my parents always wake up at 7:30 so they switch off the alarm and I always wake up at 9 😂😂

  • @HLUBIKAZ

    @HLUBIKAZ

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can also relate as an african woman/girl who also lives with her entire family !!😪

  • @lizziewalker7844

    @lizziewalker7844

    2 жыл бұрын

    Now you’ve said this, I realise how “white single 20-something girl” this routine is 😆 If it’s not rude to ask, what about being an Indian would especially make this routine harder? 🙂

  • @aishiki3208

    @aishiki3208

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lizziewalker7844 joint family?

  • @sandra98facebook
    @sandra98facebook2 жыл бұрын

    I am living this so called "that girl" lifestyle and it has improved my mental and physical health, my confidence and my overall life but I understand that it doesn't work for everyone specially if you have to force it, it should be natural and it shouldn't be seen as the ideal, everyone has a different routine, different jobs, financial and housings situations and overall different lifestyles so please don't compare and just enjoy your life as you please and let these types of videos just inspire you :)

  • @hangwithhana
    @hangwithhana2 жыл бұрын

    I love how to added in how to make it plant-based, like you didn’t have to do that & yet you were being thoughtful. So sweet and helpful for plant based viewers !

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Of course!! I always get questions on plant based meals/recipes that now I always try to give the alternative if my recipe isn't plant based!

  • @marif2993
    @marif29932 жыл бұрын

    if you see the THAT girl trend and actually works towards your better self, then it’s very beneficial. if you just consume the content and stay in inaction, that’s when useless comparison kicks in and it becomes detrimental. the trend in itself is not good or bad; it’s about your reaction to it

  • @jessrobertson9804

    @jessrobertson9804

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yess love that hot take

  • @samantha9011
    @samantha9011 Жыл бұрын

    I was “that girl” early last year and depression hit me so hard (again) and I added a ton of weight and wasn’t taking care of myself spiritually nor physically. I’m trying to be that girl again now :)!

  • @ankitatantuway9733

    @ankitatantuway9733

    Жыл бұрын

    Good luck cutie 🤍

  • @Safa-nx7kf
    @Safa-nx7kf2 жыл бұрын

    Im a 16 year old girl, from today I am going to try my best to be 'that girl' for MYSELF and not for praise from others. No more sleeping at 1am and waking up at 6:30, no more irregular showering schedule, no more lack of exercise etc. I am going to start respecting my body for once!

  • @aliciajade8837
    @aliciajade88372 жыл бұрын

    for me it started out as an aesthetic but now i’m trying my hardest to become a version of myself i love, everyday gets better and better and i’m trying to discipline myself

  • @onyxcat1312
    @onyxcat13122 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for emphasizing that "that girl" is personalized and in different perceptions and that there are no set routines or aesthetic, this is honestly something I'm still struggling and figuring out - my personal aesthetic/preferences doesn't quite fit the normal image we see on tiktok or pinterest. "That girl" that we should aim to be is the best version of our own selves that we imagine for us. We can take inspiration and ideas from others, but we don't have to follow another person's routine or image to a T!

  • @and.re_a
    @and.re_a2 жыл бұрын

    I’m going to try to give “being that girl” a different perspective, many may say it’s toxic, but this trend started as a way for people to romanticize the healthy life style because it was seen as boring and associated negatively so people decided to shed light on the possible beauty and simplicity of it to make that life style approachable. Unfortunately it became a trend to the point where the concept itself became overwhelming and negative. But just try to remember where it originally came from, if you’re ever thinking badly about it and putting yourself down about not being able to have it this trend itself is not a lifestyle! Keep doing you.

  • @starlitexo
    @starlitexo2 жыл бұрын

    “That girl” is based on perspective. But being that girl does help us in the long run as long as it’s healthy for you mentally and physically

  • @sarahburton2439
    @sarahburton24392 жыл бұрын

    The "That Girl" trend encompasses yourself, and the people in your life. I just cut a toxic friend out of my life, who was constantly trying to mold me into a version of me that he approved of. I've been scared to do this for a year because I didn't have the confidence to stand up for myself. Now he's out, I feel relieved and like I've just taken a massive step towards improving my well being! Make sure your life is full of people who support you in being "That Girl" too ☺️

  • @jmbagasina
    @jmbagasina2 жыл бұрын

    I'll try this lifestyle "that boy" version 😄

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes, go for it!!!

  • @xNinaa-ci5ro

    @xNinaa-ci5ro

    2 жыл бұрын

    amazing, you can do it

  • @LavaCreeperPeople

    @LavaCreeperPeople

    2 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @adeleisnamedafterme

    @adeleisnamedafterme

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Team Tempo it’s literally the same content and concept

  • @m1lt14

    @m1lt14

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Team Tempo Look at the KZread channel „Artsy“

  • @sneckles
    @sneckles2 жыл бұрын

    I was already loving the video, but you won me over completely with the "afternoon-evening That Girl" at the end!! Because everyone IS different, and you can still have an enriching and productive day even if your schedule tends to happen later on, and that's something I've never seen anyone else mention before! Great video! 💕💕

  • @joongieluvs
    @joongieluvs2 жыл бұрын

    I've been doing my own "that girl" routine for about 3 months now and I just adore it! Watching you do yours really inspired me, and it's helped mee find my best self. I wish you luck on your journey!

  • @arpitabhunia1227
    @arpitabhunia12273 жыл бұрын

    Definitely up for 'afternoon - evening' "that girl" routine 🖤🖤love your videos✨

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you girl!! 🥰

  • @247webgirl

    @247webgirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Saaaame. My “that girl” ain’t doin shit at 6am but sleeping 😂 If the sun isn’t up, neither am I!!

  • @alicia_grace
    @alicia_grace3 жыл бұрын

    as soon as the video started i just knew it was going to be good, your personality is so bubbly and this really inspired me!

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    ah thank you so much!!

  • @lisacarbella5375
    @lisacarbella53752 жыл бұрын

    This video is amazing! I love your energy and vibe. The fact that you compiled everything in one video instead of spreading it out is very helpful! The "that girl" is something I've always wanted to and you made it easier for me thank you again!

  • @giingerbread5140
    @giingerbread51402 жыл бұрын

    to me, being "that girl" is all about just doing whatever you can to make your mindset better. Take me for example, lately, I have not been the way I want to be. I have been not too happy and bubbly and that's because of my mental state. I have plans to begin being "that girl" on Thursday, (because I am moving soon and tomorrow is too hectic) but I have always wanted to try this. I just need someone to encourage me to do so.

  • @fatimakawtharani3118

    @fatimakawtharani3118

    2 жыл бұрын

    Go for it bestie and update us

  • @tanatom11

    @tanatom11

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can do it !!

  • @G84632
    @G846322 жыл бұрын

    I love how positive this is and that being “that” girl has mostly to do with your mindset

  • @kayleeslater6345
    @kayleeslater63452 жыл бұрын

    It's totally normal and natural to go through periods in your life that inhibit you from living your optimal life, however, you shouldn't feel less than enough during these stages! Don't defer your happiness into the future just because you can't adhere to this or any other schedule, you can still be just as happy right now

  • @Chloe_penicostal
    @Chloe_penicostal Жыл бұрын

    I love how much confidence you have in your body and your own skin

  • @nazwanaysilla3921
    @nazwanaysilla39212 жыл бұрын

    Just a reminder that its okay to not always be "that girl", you deserve the break as well from time to time :)

  • @MeganKesbai
    @MeganKesbai3 жыл бұрын

    this was so relaxing

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤍🤍

  • @jackiesandoval1755

    @jackiesandoval1755

    3 жыл бұрын

    I ALSO SUBSCRIBED TO U !!!!

  • @katerinakalli1676
    @katerinakalli16762 жыл бұрын

    ok but this is like the first time i've seen her in my life and i absoloutly love her

  • @kendalladaramola
    @kendalladaramola2 жыл бұрын

    I am so subscribing. I watched like 50 videos and this was the only one that made sense. Thanks for going chronologically and making it so wonderful to watch.

  • @_ayushi07
    @_ayushi076 ай бұрын

    Vanessa, you're that humble and nice friend everyone deserves, you have those positive vibes. I'm glad i found you. Love.

  • @charlenesibug2711
    @charlenesibug27113 жыл бұрын

    would love to see an afternoon "that" girl routine

  • @KaHingS-wk9qb
    @KaHingS-wk9qb2 жыл бұрын

    Girl you are AMAZING! I always wanna be the best version of myself, but it is indeed rlly hard to follow the rigorous routine daily. Now u motivated me a lot, and I will defo try it. I hope all girls can be what they wanna be!!!!💗💗

  • @karinafafara7665
    @karinafafara7665 Жыл бұрын

    2 months. Consistent gym training, got a pt, doing good at work, finished uni year well, go sleep before midnight, clean room (5 months of a clean room now), no dating apps or pursuing anything im not ready for, skincare on point, growing out nails, hair and nail appointment booked, holidays booked and planned and ready as well as often going to cafés myself to relax with an americano and my drawing tablet and walk the 10k steps. Best time of my life, I want all my life to stay this way. I'm so proud and happy. Just started journaling again and everything is falling into place. Being 'THAT' girl is just finally focusing on pleasing myself and not everyone else. I need me time and that's more than okay. Loved the video might try waking p at 6am this summer? that'd be a real challenge for me

  • @heatherelysewellness
    @heatherelysewellness2 жыл бұрын

    I’m dying at one of the CCs saying “batgirl” 😄 totally who I’m trying to become

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    haha stoppp love it 😂❤️

  • @12five83
    @12five832 жыл бұрын

    Tbh for me being "that girl" is knowing I can do anything and not caring what others think.

  • @sofialfonsin2422
    @sofialfonsin24222 жыл бұрын

    Personally I think being "that girl" is being the best version of yourself

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup exactly queen!! ❤️

  • @Maxey_0
    @Maxey_0 Жыл бұрын

    i love being "that girl" i was it for like 2 months but just got reslly unmotivated so now i am trying to get back into that and i absolutely love it it just is amazing and its a better version of you!!

  • @alicerodriguesdeoliveira1204
    @alicerodriguesdeoliveira12042 жыл бұрын

    i'm officially in love this entire video. thank you gorgeous!🤍

  • @Dennis-Earl-Smiley
    @Dennis-Earl-Smiley Жыл бұрын

    I'm a boy fighting multiple disabilities. But I'm very inspired by things like these. I want to learn to take care of myself that well, with the aid of my smarthome (apartment). I want to finish my studying and try to open my own business.

  • @joymae
    @joymae2 жыл бұрын

    I love that you remind us that you don’t need a matching outfit to be that girl haha. Atomic habits is so good

  • @lillysamuale4001
    @lillysamuale40015 ай бұрын

    I was in these moments for months workin out....reading....wakin up early....having breakfast.....going to work early and so on and my daily life was boosting up....but now i became lazy and i feel my body also changing but i will start being "that girl" thank you sis🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @AdrianasWonderland
    @AdrianasWonderland Жыл бұрын

    i love how you not make it one thing only. THAT GIRL can be honestly anything that make you feel good, thats importnant too underline that, i think you id it amazingly. it was such a great video

  • @beautifullykayla
    @beautifullykayla2 жыл бұрын

    girl you are a ray of sunshine you project so much positivity energy the world needs more people like you

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aw wow thank you!

  • @genevevecaren3321
    @genevevecaren33213 жыл бұрын

    Been waiting for this video. Thank you Vanessa 🥰

  • @kaylasavanna
    @kaylasavanna2 жыл бұрын

    Your energy is such a vibe!

  • @thankgodforgrace
    @thankgodforgrace2 жыл бұрын

    Loved this! You seem so genuine. I picked up my camera to record mine now. You helped get me through my morning with this. Be blessed bestie!☺️

  • @gisapenguin2458
    @gisapenguin24582 жыл бұрын

    i think i’m already working towards becoming the best version of myself but i’m grateful for more inspiration!

  • @rukawa11killua
    @rukawa11killua2 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Love how open you are with trying everything and how you explained what being “that girl” is 💖

  • @niharikamishra1936
    @niharikamishra19362 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video so much ... I saw this and got motivated, worked out after a long time, ate healthy and on time... Even went for a little essentials shopping, did self care... Tysm... I loved your vibe it's the first video I saw of your channel and now I'm binge watching all

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aw wow thank you so much!! And so proud of you, keep it up ❤️

  • @baileeackerman4761
    @baileeackerman47612 жыл бұрын

    I literally screamed out loud when you showed the book on camera. I love the ACOTAR series!

  • @kassandravecchio7930
    @kassandravecchio79302 жыл бұрын

    that's literally the first time that you ended up in my home page and i already love you! you have such a great energy and you give super positive vibes, new sub

  • @ReeRee20
    @ReeRee2010 ай бұрын

    This is the most honest and humble 'that girl' videos I have seen. So unpretentious, very real. Hitting subscribe and can't wait for more videos.

  • @Rachel-qj7zr
    @Rachel-qj7zr2 жыл бұрын

    this is the best one of these vids I've seen yet, I feel so motivated

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aw thank you!!

  • @nnrqs3361
    @nnrqs33612 жыл бұрын

    I beat my deppression after 3 years and I've realised that I'm just wasting my lifetime so I decided to change my lifestyle and become successful of course not everyday can be perfect but I'm trying as hard as I can to make them perfect.

  • @kritikakashvi7202

    @kritikakashvi7202

    Жыл бұрын

    You can and you will!!!!

  • @ricahhh_9052
    @ricahhh_90522 жыл бұрын

    I needed this 🥺🧡 thank you for this wonderful video. The comments in this video are also a gem 🥺🧡

  • @snapped3122
    @snapped31222 жыл бұрын

    school holidays have just started, and i’m determined to start my glow up! this was a really inspiring video :)

  • @destinyortiz3596
    @destinyortiz35962 жыл бұрын

    being “that girl” is literally one of the best mindsets i could’ve asked for✨🍃.

  • @lilyrose3024
    @lilyrose30242 жыл бұрын

    you are legit one of my fave youtubers, you have inspired me to do this and it has made my life so much more organised!! xx

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you so so much!! Ilyyyy❤️

  • @lilyrose3024

    @lilyrose3024

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@VanessaTiiu ilyyy ❤❤

  • @xiimeniiuxor
    @xiimeniiuxor2 жыл бұрын

    I really love how you editing!! 🥰 And also this trend, make me feel motivated😌

  • @iammariaalice
    @iammariaalice2 жыл бұрын

    i’m Brazilian girl but i love your videos, your energy and everything is so so good

  • @janinejames645
    @janinejames6452 жыл бұрын

    Being 'That Girl' is such a positive trend!

  • @tanmayagoswami8011
    @tanmayagoswami8011 Жыл бұрын

    can we appreciate her editing skills❤ INSANE🤍❕

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    Жыл бұрын

    ahh thank you so much!!

  • @nisharadcliffe6110
    @nisharadcliffe61102 жыл бұрын

    Girl I am obsessed with your videos I get motivated by your videos Thank you ♥️

  • @Diisyplayzz
    @Diisyplayzz2 жыл бұрын

    I love this videos it’s so calming and this motivates me.😫💗

  • @tarahuwez8797
    @tarahuwez87972 жыл бұрын

    You have such a positive soul ❤️ so much love from the UK ✨

  • @Lils_499
    @Lils_499 Жыл бұрын

    I read a quote that motivated me to workout more. it was, "in 2 weeks you will feel it, in 4 weeks you will see it, and in 8 weeks you will hear it." Totally got me motivated, and I hope it motivated you! you got this, and I believe in you!

  • @Geckogeckos
    @Geckogeckos2 жыл бұрын

    Im trying to discipline myself and get into a morning routine to combat my anxiety/depression and this video is so motivating and helpful! Also sidenote youre soooo beautiful omggg

  • @selena6548
    @selena65482 жыл бұрын

    i love this video but your backyard girl!! its literally the cutest thing ever

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek41592 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely LOVING these "That girl" videos and your intro was amazing!! 😍🙌🏻

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @dariakonstantinou5591
    @dariakonstantinou55912 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad I clicked on this video. It inspired me to become a better version of myself…starting from tomorrow! I subscribed and really am hoping to see your channel grow 🙂

  • @audreylou6675
    @audreylou6675 Жыл бұрын

    How Vanessa makes the intro so soothing is so... SOOTHING!

  • @HitoshiWittgenstein
    @HitoshiWittgenstein Жыл бұрын

    Hello! I watched your video because I've really wanted to glow-up this summer in order to be more healthy, productive and have more good results at school! Your video helped me a lot in my conception of 'that girl' and I would like to thank you for it! Have a wonderful day!

  • @isauracardenas7826
    @isauracardenas78262 жыл бұрын

    This is motivating me to start doing it, since Im not on a really good place. This is a good video I love it 💗

  • @evelynpaucay2330
    @evelynpaucay23303 жыл бұрын

    Omg I’ve been waiting for this video , ily 😘

  • @VanessaTiiu

    @VanessaTiiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    yay!! ilyyyy

  • @alsyasalsabila261
    @alsyasalsabila2612 жыл бұрын

    i'm here to tell you that you radiates positive energy and i love the way you talk

  • @avrilrizo2064
    @avrilrizo2064 Жыл бұрын

    Ahh I like your vlog ily and tysm for making this amazing vlog Vanessa

  • @dianaa8125
    @dianaa81253 жыл бұрын

    I love the that girl trend. I lot a lot from other people! I hate journalling and yoga and I skip that stuff but I got introduced to an awesome meditation night routine thanks to a that girl! ❤️

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