Thanks for all the positive comments and well wishes!!! Some of y’all are still asking questions just stop ok! This is it! I’m saving the rest for TLC or VH1 🤪-Que

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This is what adult parenting looks like. People take notes. Maturity, putting the beautiful child first, realistic that it's not easy but it will work because love and a well rounded child is most important. Thank you for being so open and transparent. Hopefully the questions will end. Blessings to you all always 💯❤️🙏🏾💎😊

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

You’re most welcomed! ❤️

@luxconcept

3 жыл бұрын

nobody needs to "take notes"...some families have two moms, some have one, some have two dads, some have two moms and a dad like them. A child is well rounded when they are cared for, loved, educated, challenged, etc. A child can have both female and male role models without having each parent be different gendered. This is so offensive and ridiculous and dehumanizing to millions of other family dynamics. Some children are raised by grandmas and grandpas. Get off your high horse.

@indestructiblea5145

3 жыл бұрын

@@luxconcept you're truly sad and unhappy. Had you actually been able to comprehend the COMMENT, THEN YOU WOULD HAVE NEVER WRITTEN THAT. HOPEFULLY ONE DAY YOU TRULY EXPERIENCE REAL LOVE. BE BLESSED🙏🏽💯

Very informative....Harper is abundantly blessed to have all of you.

I went to school with Que and I especially remember her kind demeanor. Watching you and your wife over the past few weeks has been enlightening. Jamilla is so perfect for you. Loving the journey and watching you guys has been fun. I love this sweet story.....

It's the emotional maturity for me. You guys rock and Steven is a freaking blessing!!!!! He knew he was supposed to be the father and he acted on it and got out of the way. Blessings on top of blessings to your family!

It's beautiful that Harper has a loving family and enjoy the videos when her father is visiting. Moving as 1 unit is important for her

You guys have explained way more than you had to...

I love y’all so much and I’m so appreciative that you all took the time to share such a private and personal conversation with us. Y’all didn’t have to and ya did, so thank you! Also, you’re so right when you talk about timing. I think everything aligned the way it needed to and I’m so grateful to have such an amazing example of love and family in the 4 of you! Can’t wait to continue on this journey with you all!

In other words..Harper is truly blessed! This situation rarely happens. Thank you for uploading this. 🙏🏽

Cuzzins, Wow..this was deeply personal and I loved that you shared it. Aside from the legal stuff i didnt realize the magnitude of it..whew.. but how you all run your family was like I imagined..its all love😍..And you right anyone else want more info..they being too too damn nosy!! People..leave my cuzins alone..Rewatch the damn video if you still confused face lol. Much love and respect to all 4 of ma cuzins❤❤ You all are truly my blueprint when my love and I find one another😍

This was very informative! Thanks for always being open and honest with us. 💜

Thanks ladies this was a very informative video. This should be helpful to those who are thinking about have a child in a same sex marriage.

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment ❤️

Great video! I respect you both for giving us this much info because at the end of the day, you didn't have to and we should appreciate what information you chose to share. Thank you!

You didn’t have to answer these questions but I’m so glad you did!

I just love you two!! Thank you for sharing that with us!! Harper is so blessed to have the 3 of you! 🥰

This is YOUR cup of tea, no more sugar. Drops the mic! 🎤 Love it and thanks for sharing info about your personal life.

People don't WANT to get it. You can send them over here for additional questions. Smfh. I think it's a great setup. The more love the better for The Harper!!!!

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!❤️

This video was very comprehensive and I really appreciate you all sharing this. My partner is transgender and we want to have children too, and even though we live in Jamaica and its a totally different scenario, you guys have given us a lot to think about and work through and we appreciate it. Tony has his own channel documenting his social and medical transition (Tony Nathan Lawes) and we have a channel together (Tony and Tiana Lawes). Both channels just started as we are both fairly new youtubers but I hope you guys will give it them a watch and maybe subscribe, we would appreciate that. Thanks again. Sending love from Jamaica.

Thanks for spilling tea all over my shirt tonight!!! U guys are the Freaking best!!

What a beautiful situation. Steven sounds like a great human being!!!! No don’t do a show they always destroy families unless you can work an angle and keep a lot of privacy. Especially as Harper gets older. You guys are a blessing! That was a lot of info. and you don’t owe us nothing on your personal life! Make it last forever cousins!

you guys did great! I think every child needs a father figure. much love to yall!

Thank you guys for letting us into your personal lives. You guys are truly beautiful! 🥰

Thanks so much for doing this informative video. This answered so many questions. I love watching all of you. Harper is SO blessed to have the family she does! TFS, much love😍❤️

I love your wonderful family & really enjoyed the video, it was very informative & I’m sure extremely helpful to anyone who may be planning on having a blended family like yours 👍🏾💕🤗

I love your family dynamic and structure! That would be my ideal situation. Thank you for showing families can look so many diff ways.

Thank you for this. It’s so helpful and helped fill in those gaps from other videos. Much love ❤️

I absolutely LOVE y’alls family dynamic and I think it is beyond amazing how you guys chose to do what works for you, and that’s all that matters! Like y’all said, if you have more questions then y’all being toooooo nosy! Just love and appreciate how they chose to have a family and tbh I think it is one of most amazing stories I have heard from a same sex couple and how they conceived! Excited for baby #2, Harp is to dang cute to not have like 5 more! Haha, thanks for sharing!!! #familyiswhoyouchose #samesexmarriageandbabies I hope my wife and I come across a man as amazing as Stephen who wants to help us grow our family, y’all are blessed and it makes my heart happy! 💗💗💗💙

This is so cool! I'm glad y'all did this video because as my partner and I discuss having children we have so many questions! Thanks for this 😘😘

I absolutely love you guys! I have always wanted my family to be set up in that same way... I hope that me and my wife can find someone that is as amazing as Steven is that wants to be apart of that type of family dynamic! Can't wait for baby #2

Thanks for being open with us and sharing! Your baby has a lot of love around her which is great 💜

This is beautiful! Your daughter is very blessed ❤️

First off, research is KEY! But even this video can be seen as research. It was very informative from a personal standpoint. Thank y’all for educating us!

This is so beautiful. I wish my wife and I had someone manifest in our lives like this.

I love you guys! This was informative, thank you for sharing so much! Xoxo

Thank you guys for sharing (THE TEA) I think you guys are the BOMB so mature how Everything is set up. I LOVE THE FACT YOU GUYS THOUGHT OF HER HAVING A FATHER NOT A DONER!

Such a beautiful family!!! Love you guys so much and thanks for sharing this with us.... blessings from South Carolina!!! Will Que carry baby # 2 as well?

Its commendable you all thought everything through for everyone's well being especially harper and your future child

I love how you guys are so mature about this situation! Love it

Well said Que.. Moving FORWARD!! I love the family bonding..

Truly an amazing video. Very informative and transparent!

Y’all are so fortunate to have found Steven and have this arrangement. Sounds amazing 🖤 your children are very lucky.

Awesome. Thank you for sharing something that is very personal.

Outstanding information. I’m proud of you young ladies, all tho this may not be for everyone, but it’s working for your family dynamic. And I’m Happy for you.

This is a very endearing story. Harper is a very blessed little girl too. Steven and his tenacity worked in his favor...LOL!!! Sounds as if he has a great sense of humor as well. The future looks very bright for everyone. Thank you guys for sharing this lovely story...Oh and shout out to the Geminis Que!!!

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I’m excited for our family and what’s to come! Thanks for watching!

Love is love! Family is family! So happy for you guys and your growing family. P.S. I could care less how you decide to grow your family 😘🤗❤

I love the family dynamics! Beautiful family you explained it thoroughly... love the video.

Thank y’all for sharing this video with us love it great video as always love you guys 😊😊😊😊💚💜💚💜💚💜

and that's the way you tell it Harper is such a beautiful blessed baby to have all that love and may God continue to bless you all

Unique, but cool. (And cheaper too, I'm sure.) 😃🙄🤗 Shiiit, I'm happy for you guys, regardless. Harper has an awesomely, unique family and strong support system. That's all that really matters. I'm sure everybody appreciates the transparency though. Always wishing you guys the best. 😁🤗🙏🏿

It was a little bit of a gag. But I was like it was y'all's business. At the end of the day the only thing that matter was that Harper was happy, healthy, and loved. Which she is. Thank you guy's for filling in the gags. Love you guys.

I think y'all thought this out very carefully and I think it makes absolutely Good Sense y'all are very intelligent and you're so right as two children get older and start asking questions you don't want to try to find the donor you know who your children fathers and that's wonderful and y'all put this out very very clearly so yes I wouldn't have nothing else to say about this conversation may God continue to bless y'all family I think y'all are moving along just great.⚘🎈🍺😊

Wow thanks guys. This is so informative love y’all blessings upon blessings 🥰🤗

Amazing is all i can say!!! Love the bond you all have. Thanks for the video ladies!!

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

You’re most welcome!

Awesome video..Jamilla you made me laugh because my husband is a Gemini and I stay asking him which personality I'm I speaking too because they be all over.😂 Serious note I wish y'all many blessings

Excellent...hopefully your situation can help others. Steven is blessing all around.

Harper is beyond blessed and Steven is heaven sent.

i'm polyamorous + had a step family growing up, including two dads, none of this is abnormal, TBH. in fact, this sounds amazing AF. 😍 Harper is hella blessed. ❤❤❤❤ if i wasn't already a fan i def am now.

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Ayyyye!! This my favorite comment thus far!!! -Que

@hellaSwankkyToo

5 жыл бұрын

@@JamillaandQue 🤗❤✊🏾

@leonessbutterfly8813

3 жыл бұрын

Ok. So they are poly. I was wondering. I'm in a v myself so this is informative for me wanting a family.

Harper is so blessed to have you three in her life. Love you guys 💜💜💜

Great video, love the background ❤

I’m binge watching this channel s/o KZread for recommending y’all love it

A Fantastic video!.. you both deliver a message with such honesty and openness. I'm sure you just helped someone 😊 peace.

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤️

Beautiful story, thank you ladies for sharing.

💗your facial expressions Jamilla Thank you for sharing!

I love it! I am in the same type of situation. My wife and I are trying to have a baby, and our gay best friend and roommate will be the father. Honestly I wouldn’t want it any other way!

Loved the video. I think you guys made a wonderful choice!

Kudos to y'all. I am so proud of the 3 of y'all, I wish more people would think of things in this way.

Thank you guy's for sharing your story....

Definitely a family dynamic to consider. I think all of this is simply put “there is no right or wrong way to make a family”.

This is my first time to your channel and I love y’all story, y’all family dynamic I love that y’all was open to knowing the father, y’all are truly blessed to have found someone like Stephen god bless your family

Very beautiful & very informative. Praying for your family wellbeing. I am rooting for you guys.

i know i am late for watching this video but I have you guys and this in very informal and good to know. i wish you guys the best. Been a fan for years but I have been skipping the vids.

#MuchLove , just followed you guys story on IG and that’s what brought me here ! Love yawls family!

The more parents the merrier so nice 🥰

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

Hey family Very informative 👏👏 I enjoyed the video

I love y’all. Beautiful family. All 4 of you.

Love the honesty! Love this video.

I loved this video 😊 esp the end where que said that’s all I got drop the mike😂😂. Where u guys explained about Harper father or not I felt it was no ones business, but very informative an at the end of the day all that matter is she’s LOVED WANTED and NOURISHED and I see n feel how you guys love her n one another🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Gods Blessings Always🙏🏾🙏🏾😊😊❤️❤️

This is my dream for my partner and I. Thanks for sharing so openly🙏🏾🤲🏾

This is the most mature relationship I've ever witnessed. 💜

Thank you for sharing.. PS I need a Steven in my life... so wonderful what he has done!

Exactly what I thought, but it's none of my business to ask. Not sure why others felt like it was theirs. But, anywho love you guys' channel and the fact that you're showing married lesbian couples or soon to be options. The wonderful thing about us gays is that there aren't rules, we can do what we want as long as we keep believing we're free. #lovewins

I have watched this video multiple times... It's soo informative.... Thanks for sharing

I love this so much absolutely beautiful this make me so happy

Dope! Say less! Very informative thanks for sharing

I am soooooo happy for yall!!! Having children will always be different for all same sex couples. #kids1st and their well being.

I 💘 y'all and amazing story ! Peace and 💘 family !

Good discussion! I wish we conceived with someone close to us but God had other plans for us. Thank You for sharing!

This is the best video ever!! You definitely need a TV show to demonstrate the dynamics that can exist between blended and same-sex families. Love it! love ya'll! Blessings!

Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us.

Congrats on ur 22k...I remember when you hit 100 .... keep leveling up...luv U3💕💕

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Ayyye!!! You been rocking with us from the beginning!

@CreateYourBestVersion

5 жыл бұрын

Jamilla & Que yesssz and luv the glow up💯💯

This was a beautiful video. I think you guys made a great decision

Y’all are a great family

Very informative indeed....no more questions...its all been answered....

Great conversation You guys are blessed. Lovely couple 💏❤️💏❤️

I am so happy to see how you all did things the proper way. With all the drama recently with Domo & Crissy and the N&J Mafia, it’s important to secure your rights. I hope this stops the zillion questions y’all get

@preciousjewel6225

5 жыл бұрын

You are right and the maturity level is on point hear too!

@Ednabug

5 жыл бұрын

Precious Jewel definitely!

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks ladies ❤️

Thank you both for sharing this was informative I appreciate the sugar I'm sweet on any questions lol😂😂😂😁

I like you'll.. Well structured family.. I enjoyed my tea.

Thank you for this video & heck ya u guys need a TV show ❤️❤️❤️ love you guys 🥰🥰🥰🥰

@JamillaandQue

5 жыл бұрын

Yesss for the TV show!

Yea y’all need to get a show

Great talk ladies - love you guys