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Justin Bieber's "hypepriest" (gag) #CarlLenz has been fired from Hillsong church for cheating on his wife--so much for being a moral guide, huh? If you're dealing with a major hypocrite, I'll tell you how to expose them and establish YOURSELF as a leader! #shallonlester #shallon
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This reminds me of how people say that divorced people shouldn’t give marriage advice, but why? They have BEEN through it. They are the best ones to tell you what can go wrong and what they learned.
@maheenm.k1015
3 жыл бұрын
I know people who a "perfect marriage" are the people I wouldn't take advice from. It's like learning about the world from a sheltered person who got it right on the first try.
@grazielaalmeida8438
3 жыл бұрын
These people are judgemental
@lc3484
3 жыл бұрын
I think getting advice from both could be beneficial. Not just from one stand point because there are truly happy people who've stuck through hard times to make their marriage work.
@maheenm.k1015
3 жыл бұрын
@@lc3484 those people made a lot of mistakes before they did things right in their marriage or overcome struggles. So, they still count as people who've been through.
I’m very happy you never stopped uploading when all those people were attacking you! Even though I don’t always agree, your perspectives are always interesting and fun & I do think you help a lot of people, women especially
@Cedarrouge
3 жыл бұрын
OMG I love you Cydnee!!
@lisalisa3223
3 жыл бұрын
💕
@ozzo1121
3 жыл бұрын
Um, she has literally called herself a predator and says she likes to date younger boys because they’re easier to control. If you don’t believe me do your own research if you have the time and headspace. These aren’t just “people attacking her”, this is a serious issue and if you seriously think someone who doesn’t care about sexually traumatizing minors should continue to have a platform then I don’t know what to say
@user-mc4zv9uk8t
3 жыл бұрын
The people “attacking” her actually have valid criticism -her predatory behaviour -her misogyny -her racism -her shaming of mental illness -her complete and utter lies etc are all things we should criticize lol
@lilliemuah6415
3 жыл бұрын
dumb comment
I need a retro bae video on BRITNEY SPEARS and JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE more than I need ANYTHING IN MY LIFE 😭
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
YEEESSSSSS!
@N0lemts
3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking I really want to see a Justin Timberlake and Cameron Diaz retro bae. Like so badly.
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
@@N0lemts I didn't even know they dated?
@N0lemts
3 жыл бұрын
@@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716 oh yeah for years. People were talking about how he’s so much younger than Cameron. They were cute. Right in between Britney and Jessica Biel.
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
@@N0lemts Woe I literally don't even know where I was in the world to miss that? 😅 Now I am curious for a video as well haha
She should do a video on “how to find yourself” cause I really want to be authentic, but I don’t know who I am yet and what my goals are.
@sandielyda1316
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, u do girl. You are that voice you hear in ur head that tells u if a situation, ppl or place feels good or bad. What that voice/thought guides your decisions to act upon a certain way is exactly who you are at your core! We all have that "voice" but we spend a lifetime trying to suppress it to conform to what we think others want or will approve of to fit in! Listen to yourself and your intuition to become an authentic version of yourself. God gave us all discernment so we won't be lead ashtray from our good morals and values. Listen to that above anything else and you will always do what's right for you even if others don't understand it. Soon enough it will lead you down paths that help you reach goals for yourself. You got to stand for something or you will fall for anything is my favourite quote. My favorite scripture is, for I know the plans I have for you says the Lord. Plans to prosper you and to give you a HOPE and FUTURE!! I hope this helps you in some way and makes sense. Much love n light to you on your journey!
@teodora2376
3 жыл бұрын
@@sandielyda1316 I am bawling my eyes right now. It’s been really hard feeling lost and not knowing which path to follow and what to do nearly all the time. Then deciding, rethinking, making other decisions and rethinking again. It hurts my head trying to find myself, in a world where society tells you what you should be like all the time. Thank you for bringing little hope to my day, and making me feel not so alone in this. Hope you have a great day too, sending all the love
@sandielyda1316
3 жыл бұрын
@@teodora2376 you're welcome! I'm glad it means something to you. Sometimes it's all we ever really need to know we aren't alone. Thank you too💗
@marinareis8375
3 жыл бұрын
@@teodora2376 Please also keep in your beautiful mind that it is completely normal to keep changing and evolving and learning knew things about yourself. When you feel lost or confused that is not incorrect, that is just part of being a human being.
@itsmyworldonly0827
3 жыл бұрын
My love this creator is not who you want for a finding one self she’s a predator and a whole racist.
I just can’t believe men still think they can get away with cheating 😂
@itsmyworldonly0827
3 жыл бұрын
You know what else I can’t believe how this creator is getting away with predatory behavior 🤭
@boredonyoutube8289
3 жыл бұрын
In normal workplaces though nobody would care
@mdh9247
3 жыл бұрын
They almost always do in my country thanks to the doormats.
@vladimiramartinkova7288
3 жыл бұрын
this is fully irrelevant but damn you’re gorgeous I just had to point it out haha
@xyz-hs9ix
3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe shallon lester in getting away with being an awful person but here we arr with u supporting her
“he looks like a weird diplo” lmaoooo i went to ny’s hillsong and heard him preach, it’s very much about the prosperity gospel and not jesus. i always found him odd
@Reevay762
3 жыл бұрын
Many pastors out there like that hmmmm
@inside_the_waiting_room
3 жыл бұрын
The Lord calls us to use our discernment..Joel Osteen included lol
@umohluna
3 жыл бұрын
What is the prosperity gospel?
@EnidWellness
3 жыл бұрын
People cherry-picking The Bible.
@umohluna
3 жыл бұрын
@@EnidWellness oh ok thank you
This is off the topic, but I really want to tell you how much you’ve helped me!!! I’m going through a breakup and it’s getting ugly. I’m binge watching your videos and they are wonderful! You’re the wise, protective friend who’s not afraid to call us out on our bad choices. So grateful for you 💕
@shallonlester
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@Dorian_Gray123
3 жыл бұрын
@@shallonlester could you make a video on Chris Evans or Henry
@tanyapatodi3036
3 жыл бұрын
R u stupid, she is so toxic.
@Clauds71
3 жыл бұрын
Me too 😁
As a Christian, I never related to Carl Lens. He’s using Christianity to cover up his wrongs and then (because of ONE person) comes the misconception that all Christians are hypocrites.
@lavonnealexander6936
3 жыл бұрын
Smh 🤦♀️ yup see right through his bullshit.
It's not even a real church lol it's more like a "moral popularity club" lol Also at this point I always expect guys with this much clout to cheat. Like you always say: Man's fidelity is based on his options
Carl Lentz reminds of something Robert Greene talks about in his books. Greene says people always try to appear opposite of what they really are.
@inside_the_waiting_room
3 жыл бұрын
Which one of his books? The human nature one? I’m curious to read one of his books!!
@sthom146
3 жыл бұрын
He looks like he tries too hard. Any pic with his arms showing, you can tell he's flexing his muscles hard. Search Joe Rogan and "dick root" for s good laugh about Lentz
@minakittyful
3 жыл бұрын
@@inside_the_waiting_room Yes the human nature one.
@minakittyful
3 жыл бұрын
@@sthom146 WOW Joe Rogan was right!
He looks like he’s trying sooo hard to look cool and young and it’s definitely NOT working. In fact, it just makes him look absolutely ridiculous 🤣🤣🤣
@DavidJones-tl7hj
3 жыл бұрын
True but he looks healthy tho. And people in their 40s are still young adults
@laurac86
3 жыл бұрын
@@DavidJones-tl7hj - Yeah I’m not saying he’s an old man I just think he’s trying too hard to look like a cool 20 year old 🤷🏻♀️
@laurac86
3 жыл бұрын
@Selupus STOP Singing about My King - The pastor
I don't think the fact that someone like Joel Osteen is rich is bad by itself, but just like Shallon has said about the Kardashians, it's "bad" when they don't give anything back for charity. And specially in his case as "a man of God"
In these times that I'm spending sooooo much time alone in my little studio, working from home, not meeting people etc... Whenever I listen to your videos I feel like I'm with my girlfriends gossiping about celebs and analysizng everything! ❤💕 Thanks Shallon 🤗
Uhmmmmm... Girl😱 you look soooo good. Saying that shirt is your color is an understatement. Also the "you wanna act like you're surprised" is totally relatable. Hypocrites are everywhere
I’m so glad you’re talking about this. I hate it so much when this happens. Not to be mean, but he has always looked so shady to me. I’m sure there’s a lot more that will come out about him.
Politicians, preechers and people in the military should never be allowed to cheat!!! . If you’re in a profession that requires a outstanding amount of morals and ethics, then you shouldn’t be cheating on your significant other. It’s disrespectful, shameful and hypocritical to do so.
He cheated so many times. People are spelling the tea on Deuxmoi. Shallon is looking so much like Hilary Duff here.
@daraudobong7195
3 жыл бұрын
She really does
Praying he allows God to save him from his demons. I got saved after listening to one of his sermons at a conference. I am happy though that he got fired for cheating on his wife.. unlike “Paster” John Gray still being employed by Joel Olsteans church after being caught cheating on his wife multiple times.
"YOU sir are NO Diplo!" Needs to be a t-shirt
He's not a priest he's a "pastor". Priest are ordained and can't get married. Pastors aren't ordained and can be in a relationship.
He’s actually an amazing person in the sense that his heart for people is so big-he’s a man and not God. He is definitely not perfect and has always pointed people to Jesus humbly. He’s always spoken boldly about his failings and weakness and urged people not to place him on a pedestal. He helped to change my life years ago and started me down my spiritual journey so for that I will always love him. A great speaker as well. I send him love and hope his family heals from this. I feel so bad for his wife and hope she heals.
@fallon888
3 жыл бұрын
This!!!
That’s literally what Joel’s church is like. That’s why I stopped going after like 5-6 times. * money, give us money, this is why we need more money from u.
@bodnarova05
3 жыл бұрын
Even Shallon wants people to purchase her tacky bracelets 🤷♀️
Shallon! JOEL OSTEEN?!?!?!!??! omg😩😩😩😩😩😩
@everythingsbetterwithbread
3 жыл бұрын
The only downside she has towards her...
"lot of bracelets" hahaha too funny... but I totally agree, there's so much hypocrisy at church, I had some first hand experience with it too. And we sang Hillsongs!
@JuxJacy
3 жыл бұрын
I grew up in an evangelical church and religious small town. I had absolutely no idea that people could be kind without ulterior motives until I moved to a big city. I started making friends and I was like "holy shit, these people don't judge me and actually accept me for who I am and don't constantly ask me for money." I had no idea what a large world was out there cuz all I experienced from a young age was abuse from self-righteous religious folk.
When you leave religion you realize it’s not shocking at all that these religious people are just like everyone else. They lie and cheat and steal but there’s a bigger back lash because we put them on a pedestal especially pastors that they are like perfect. But at times they are the most oppressed people who can’t fully live their life because of so much presssure to be perfect and pure which somehow makes you go to heaven which is their ultimate goal...?
@JuxJacy
3 жыл бұрын
They aren't oppressed. At all.
@scarlesbarkley9186
3 жыл бұрын
@@JuxJacy haha when you are religious it’s hard to see the other side so I get it
@JuxJacy
3 жыл бұрын
@@scarlesbarkley9186 I get it too. I used to be religious. It is a privilege to judge others and be so easily forgiven by a magic sky daddy. The rest of us have to actually be accountable to ourselves and the community.
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
@@JuxJacy I use to be religious and honestly think both sides is true. I know they seem opposites but I experienced both tbh
@JuxJacy
3 жыл бұрын
@@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716 If you are saying that religious people are oppressed by their own religion then I agree that is true. Brainwashed at a young age, held to impossible standards, exploited for their money. If you are claiming religious people are oppressed by atheists or other outside institutions that is where I disagree.
Shallon, you’re the perfect distraction to the insanity that is the current state of the world!
@lilliemuah6415
3 жыл бұрын
Nora the perfect distraction of a bimbo
I couldn't believe this when I read this. I hope that this doesn't throw Justin off his recovery.
@TMercan31
3 жыл бұрын
@@linat5671 Well that's my point, I don't think Justin is all that strong yet. I think he's better than he was for sure, but it still seems like he is working through that. When I watched Justin's The next chapter or chapter 2, (whatever they called it) on YT, he still very much had this dude with him. If he looks up to him with such respect and he believed he was this person with great morals & ethics - then he finds out it was all a lie and just one more person using him for his money, then ya, I think it could shake him to the core and make him vulnerable to do some things that he might not have done. That's just my opinion.
@poincianacouponing268
3 жыл бұрын
@@TMercan31 true. JB seems to have very unhealthy attachments to people because he never had stable adults in his life so he basically clings in for dear life.
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
If Justin really wanted to get better he could go and do missions or anything worth while. He is responsible for himself and needs to man up
@poincianacouponing268
3 жыл бұрын
@@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716 no on e said he wasn’t she was simply stating that Justin clearly has dependency issues and she hopes this doesn’t discourage him from being better. Anyone with half a brain knows he is a grown man and needs to do for himself.
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
@@poincianacouponing268 Sadly he doesn't have half a brain or know that it is his responsibility to be an adult. Everyone knows but him. Exactly my point?
The "Not my circus, not my monkeys" is actually a polish saying :)
I always knew this guy was shady af!! I never buy the whole “Cool Christian Pastor” lol
I think you have a bone to pick with a Kelsey out there 😂
Hillsong are pretty severe in their internal dealings. People having sex BEFORE they are married are asked to step off the worship band. so, it would be weird that their own pastor wasnt held to the same standards.
Every ONE of your videos has so much wisdom. Neverrrr a disappointment, and always worth the entire 30 minute watch!!!
Shallon! Please do a video on “Love at First Sight” on this recent Bachelorette season where she ditched all the dudes for this one guy and do you really just *know* when you meet the one.
I got weight loss and career advice from my sister who naturally is skinny and had connections that I don't have (and she doesn't want to help me either with any of those 2). She loves lecturing me to feel great, today while she was doing it I just snapped when she didn't listen to me to stop her 'picking' on my insecurities. She told me that she won't talk to me at all, really she doesn't realise that that's the best thing for me. So this video means so much for me because currently I can't move out yet, love you Shallon
Just in time. Now I can watch Shallon in the tub. 😊
Yassss!!! I was hoping you’d address this! I’m SHOCKED he cheated, just shocked! 😆 haha
@hawaiianBombshell
3 жыл бұрын
Same.
Justin Bieber has been so weird ever since he started going to that church. His eyes look so dead and he acts like he's possessed
@DavidJones-tl7hj
3 жыл бұрын
Nah he has lyme thingy. It drains his energy. Plus he is trying to get that his "swag"
Funny how Shallon completely got the point and yet the comments are a mess. You don’t want a pastor who won’t admit to mistakes and bad decisions. 👍🏽 that is the whole point to learn from the broken who have tried to turn around.
He is not a hypocrite. He is human and a man. I expected nothing else and no I am not one of those girls that accepts cheaters. But I am not surprised that he cheated.
As an aside, has anyone noticed that single people rarely become pastors?
“And again I say to you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.” A guy named Jesus said that. You might have heard him mentioned in one of Joel Olsteen’s sermons.
I’m sure he was the type of pastor preaching loyalty and pure marriage w no cheating. How can you not understand how he was kicked out if he’s being a hypocrite? Who knows what else he’s a hypocrite about. I’m just saying I understand the situation and don’t think he’d have much of a following if he was to continue working at the church.
I go to Hillsong in Australia, I only go because it’s the church my boyfriend feels comfortable. I prefer a small church or a home church.
@flowergirl5336
3 жыл бұрын
Then encourage your boyfriend to go to your one.
@lisakemp7352
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how any Aussies fall for this
@ellona3645
3 жыл бұрын
I also go to smaller local church, no ego/spotlight. I used to go to Hillsong NYC but I felt like God was telling me to leave. So I did! :)
I prefer church leaders with experience not someone holier than thou bc how can they guide people when they have no idea what ppl are going through. This is why I love you so much. Your videos are PURE gold!
Im a lunar Aquarian and nothing gets me more fired up than witnessing injustice
@DavidJones-tl7hj
3 жыл бұрын
What do you mean luna aquarian?
@PureSparkles22
3 жыл бұрын
@@DavidJones-tl7hj my moon is in Aquarius
@DavidJones-tl7hj
3 жыл бұрын
@@PureSparkles22 ooh do you feel cold? Are you emotionless? Because I have heard they are
I used to go to the Hillsong in NYC, and heared Carl preaching, it was amazing, that is more than the church, i havent seen that they are asking for money, not more than in any other churches... and they making very professional everything.... on Christmas it is like, wow, free concert
I knew there was a reason I feel so connected with you Shallon. Our aquarius-ness vibin'
I love how I got a Christian dating app ad on this video 😂 hard pass!!!!
You’re like the big sister I never had. I love it
I have this situation at my job. So much drama and hypocrisy and women spreading bullshit and my friend always asks me why I don’t speak up and expose those people and I always say my moto - If you ain’t paying me, feeding me or fucking me, you don’t affect me. Not worth my energy.
@Svengali764
3 жыл бұрын
Same except for me.. it's only family. Rest don't really affect me. Not even if you are paying me or fucking me. Family is the only thing that I really care about.
Idolatry💔 this is why I'm not a fan of anyone...
That thing you said about being authentic, that resonates a lot with me. And I’m gonna work on that. Thank you 😊
I Think I can’t listen as carefully as I would like to when Shallon is looking that cute ! 🤩🤩🤩 Your hair straight are STUNNING !!! Lots of love from Normandie ! 💖💖💖✨
I’d definitely say that if you tithe you need to familiarize yourself with what kind of organizations and ministries they then turn around and give to! Widows and orphans is in scripture but that takes a lot of forms nowadays!
I love when you speak on cognitive dissidents! You explain it so eloquently each times you bring it up and it hit me hard! I realized that’s a situation I’m dealing with! This is why ppl 🥰 Shallon 🖤🤍
I feel the same way about overweight doctors👀💔
Much love to everyone of different faiths💛 but if anyone is interested please look to the bible on this topic Matthew 7:15 “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. 1 John 4:1 Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. Matthew 24:24 For false christs and false prophets will arise and perform great signs and wonders, so as to lead astray, if possible, even the elect. 2 Peter 2:1 But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you, who will secretly bring in destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing upon themselves swift destruction. 2 Corinthians 11:13-15 For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness. Their end will correspond to their deeds. Matthew 24:11 And many false prophets will arise and lead many astray.
It's just like when Cady expected Aaron Samuels to date her as soon as she exposed Regina George! It didn't happen cuz he associated her with all the drama!
I LOVE how you always speak the truth.. regardless of how it sounds or what other people think. You have a follower for life!!!!
Never been so early! Love from New Zealand :)
Y’all tend to forget even religious people are sinners who need to ask for daily forgiveness. It isn’t hypocritical if they are constantly speaking on how we all need to work on being better and how anyone can fall which he has in the past spoken about. He in no way acts like he is holier than thou. Many pastors do. He isn’t one. A lot of people in these comments don’t even care about this man you simply hate religion and needed an outlet to vent. 🙄
@dhfjgktdmfhfj1716
3 жыл бұрын
True but hillsong was trying to get the accolades of being Christians while actually being a popularity cult? I agree though that people who have a grudge against religion find any reason to hate the people
@canesugar911
3 жыл бұрын
Bohoo did people's stand on religion hurt your feelings? You contradict yourself by saying that they don't act holier than thou but then said that alot of pastors do but this guy is not one of them. I don't know what it is with religious people and your victim mentality, you people can condemn the so called non believers and say that they are going to hell because they do not share your beliefs, the moment you people get any form of criticism you nail yourselfs to the crose wailing woe is me gtfoh
@poincianacouponing268
3 жыл бұрын
@@canesugar911 🤦🏽♀️i was saying they as in many pastors in hillsong. Then I said some as in many pastors in general. 🙄 I don’t mind people’s stance on religion when it is delivered in a way that doesn’t try to tear it down or demonize the people who follow it. However seeing how you started of with “boohoo” you clearly aren’t mature enough for me to even converse with seeing as it won’t get across.
@canesugar911
3 жыл бұрын
@@poincianacouponing268 ofcourse you will think its not mature because I'm not babying you. Grow up miss, the world isn't going to cater to your feelings. Most people in the comment critising religion are giving valid and true. Criticisms is not hatred. Plus i don't know if you actually watched this video, shallon actually defended the guy like what are you going on about, you pastor worshipper. If jesus himself can criticise and chastise the pharisees, who the hell is this guy and why do you think he (or anyone in the church) is above reproach? If you know anything about the bible, you know that leaders are held to a higher standard than the congregation. It says that leaders are going to be judged more harshly because people usually follow their example.
You're wrong. The hypocrites are the ones who do make friendships, relationships and so. And the truthful people don't. Because people are more comfortable with lies and can't stand the truth.
You’re an Aquarius. This explains a lot. Me too, girl.
You know who I'm waiting to get exposed, Joel Osteen He gives me snake vibes 👀
Such skill being able to talk, uncut, maintain engagement and be pretty much BANG ON 30 mins. Love ur vids xo
My dad always says ‘not my circus, not my monkeys’ lol 😆
How not to become a hater Stand up for yourself and others. As it's authentic to yourself. This is done in micro instances. Stay passionate and busy, you'll realize you have purpose and your hobbies will make you happy. Happiness will be your dominant vibration. (This is a constant effort / decisions) - Being around what you love will aggregate a bouquet within you about what you love. Negativity will feel foreign. You can't be bothered focusing on it. You will be able to protect your peace and know when to pull back. Love the words of wisdom at the end.
I love it when people talk for a long, long time and say nothing.
Always so refreshing the way you switch the perspectives of characters/scenarios Really needed all this authentic advice thank you Shallon 🤍
I try not to be a hypocrite; because it's something I don't like to be....it can be hard sometimes, because no one is perfect..
@lstarsabb
3 жыл бұрын
I agree we all have things that we are biased about or get put in a situation were it's hard to do the right thing. But for me I make it a point not to judge people with how they live their lives unless it is hurting someone.
Pity has worked for me. It has taken a long ass time, but now at the end of the day I can say “awe, he/she can’t do better. Bless their heart.”
Someone hit the wall ..
Bear in mind that cognitive dissonance leads to self-persuasion by making yourself believe that your decisions are correct. So really, you can live with doing wrong as long as you argument to yourself that you're doing the right thing or at least not being wrong. So "I'm a terrible gf because I cheat on my bf" can easily turn into "I cheat on my bf because he is not a good bf". A great book on this is "Influence" by Robert Cialdini. The example of the US POWs in Red China camps is eye opening.
Shallon please never stop doing videos! You're such an inspiration
I'm going to be honest. I don't think it's fully possible to strictly follow the way of the lord in todays society. I was going to Church for a bit and joined a study group, they wanted me to stop doing anything that was immoral, porn, sex, looking at people with lust, shoplifting, drinking. All that stuff. I walked away when they said I had to stop being gay and should break up with my partner. This video has shown me that all of these god devout and strict living people will most likely snap and engage in something that is considered as 'straying' because its too much pressure to uphold.
28:00 really got me. Big asks/goals about who I want to be really overwhelm me, but if I focus on micro decisions, it eventually accumulates into authenticity.
Last I heard, Joel Osteen does not take one dollar from the church. Only his books.
LOL you sticking your tongue out while the setting spray came down made me feel less alone in this world
Honestly I see Justin Bieber being like Tom Cruise and his Scientology. Thats why Justin wanted to fight Tom battle of Religion.
@DavidJones-tl7hj
3 жыл бұрын
Na I dont think so. He is very God orientated. That was how he was raised.
@courtneyabbott9108
3 жыл бұрын
@@DavidJones-tl7hj Did you forget he wanted to fight Tom Cruise look it up. He called him out.
@DavidJones-tl7hj
3 жыл бұрын
@@courtneyabbott9108 that doesnt mean anything. He also wanted to fight orlando bloom.
i always knew this guy was going to get caught with his hypocrisy and overall grossness but i did not in holy hell think it would be THIS FAST! hahaha welp when people find out they find out!
I don't think he's a hypocrite. He's more of a predator, but also not smart enough not to fuck it up.
Why you always throw Selena's name every time you talk about Justin. It's like you are in denial that they are no longer together and they moved on.
The beauty of Christianity is that despite the fact that we're _all_ hypocrites, we're forgiven and saved!
This is a great video for those of us getting frustrated with post election social media posts. The amount of times I've seen the "let's all be kind", "we're all neighbors", "there's no reason to call all trump supporters racist/homophobic/sexist ext" and I've really wanted to make responses to educate these people and explain why what they're saying is so hurtful and why you can't use religion to justify discrimination. But then I thought about it and realized... if they wanted to do the research... they would. It's not worth my time and energy trying to convince someone to have basic empathy for other people and their struggles for equality. It's been 4 years... we've all seen the same things and clearly it effected some of us more than others. Clearly some people have a different interpretation of do onto others as you would have them do onto you, do not take the lord's name in vain, do not worship false gods, ext ext BUT ANYWAY. Like you said, not my circus not my monkey. I am happy it seems like the majority of the country is agreeing about what is/isn't acceptable in the year 2020 but BOY DO WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. But I sleep well at night knowing my vote was not just for myself but also for those in communities that have been targeted the past 4 years. So people can attack me and say my beliefs are disgusting and whatever whatever but I'll sleep well at night knowing one day I'll tell my kids I was on the right side of history during the 2020 election. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
@MegJuniper
3 жыл бұрын
*Chefs kiss
Your videos have been getting a lot more wholesome. I love to educational and informative they are
It’s like you post videos specifically for my current life struggles 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I just left a four paragraph comment and it is gone. This keeps happening on different channels. I don't know if the owners are taking them down or if it is some agency with access.
Shallon you look amazing in this video literary an angel!!! Love your hair straight and the advice on distancing oneself from toxic people is the best advice ever!!
Its not the same... Lentz was cheating on his wife while claiming a moral superiority to his followers. Thats not like your rehab sponsor not having taken drugs before. It’s like if your sponsor was telling you how you should get clean while theyre high.
I’m from Houston and yes I love Joel Osteen as well.
I can’t wait to watch the video of the Beebs baptism! Legit, the night before I was baptized I was out all night doing coke, so if anyone could tell it’s be be! SOON AS THIS VIDEO IS OVER IM LOOKING UP JUSTIN BAPTISM
Came here for the tea but I have to be honest, the sermons at hillsong are not all about money and giving. In fact/ the opposite. Just wanted to point that out. All of the services if not most of the last few months are online for anyone to listen to.
Shallow never posted last week on the Megan Fox- Brian green beef
I am really shocked you like Osteen. If he were a real " man of God" as he claims..he would not be riding around in a Bentley and flaunting his wealth. It goes against everything God says in the book he preaches from. He did not want to help victims of hurricanes. He only opened his church to people when he was outed for not doing it. Imagine how many people he could help during this pandemic. But he won't. And that is shameful.
@LC-go5on
3 жыл бұрын
@Neon Smiley Um...i don't give 2 shits how ANYONE spends their money. What makes me sick are these prosperity preachers who go against EVERYTHING the bible teaches. He is not some nice, smiley , multi millionaire. He is a Minister. He represents God. He has chosen that life. And with that life comes responsibilities. He and his rude wife turn their nose up at the very people they are supposed to help. It is stomach turning.
Yeah, apparently Hillsong is a problem in Sydney. I'm from Melbourne. We don't even like Scientology... But we get sales and marketing cults in Melbourne.
Cognitive dissonance: Shallon saying “if it don’t get you laid and it don’t get you paid...don’t do it.” But, girrrrllll, you got a soft spot. You care. You want to help others, no matter how much you wish you didn’t. Nothing to be ashamed of. It’s your strength, not your weakness.
Hillsong isn't a church, it's a cult.
Hillsong Australia is amazing, no idea about this chapter. Men are men no matter what their profession.
@alinadanilchik
3 жыл бұрын
Please, do not legitimize someone's behavior based on gender. Not all men are like that and there is no scientific proof that men cheat more. Cheating has no gender.
@amandapowell4576
3 жыл бұрын
@@alinadanilchik amen!
Gandhi wasn't religious. But he was .... questionable. No one can trash talk Gandhi in our country, you could go to jail for that.