This is why many people have to watch videos at night to “wind down”… they need to stop the obsessive thoughts, but can’t bear silence. So they fill it with noise.

Great, now I can obsessively think about which suppressed memory is making me obsessively think :p

@Jensor7

3 ай бұрын

For real

@sebastianjohansen2142

3 ай бұрын

good.

@rarfaj6303

3 ай бұрын

yes ma’am!

@KaranSingh-yt2fo

3 ай бұрын

If you wish to. Or you can accept the event that occurred in the past and let it go. Takes time and one may temporarily disassociate but worth it any day. That too shall pass. From experience, difficult yet at times, innately peaceful.

@rossgeography

3 ай бұрын

flashbacks visit you - allow it/them - and understand there is an adult SELF to protect/heal the part that was/remains hurt

We are thinking to avoid feeling. We are all guilty of this to varying degrees.

@ginaiosef1634

3 ай бұрын

I wouldn't call it guilt. There are all defence mechanisms, sainly created in search of safety. I think this is what we aim to find, actually and obviously, the feeling of safety.

@tonyarmstrong8291

3 ай бұрын

Yes indeed. Also, we often claim to be experiencing 'bad feelings', when NOTHING is currently hurting us EMOTIONALLY. We are merely MENTALLY ruminating on past pain, or pesimisticly imagining future pain. When asked how one 'feels', the answer is often a stream of thoughts that have little to do with the present. Keeping our minds on our hearts, and our hearts on our minds, is not something we are taught, and not many set out to learn why, let alone how! One of my favourite thinkers, Alain du Buttón, presents a brilliant lecture on what he dubs 'emotional intelligence' on his KZread channel School of Life. It helped me heaps! After all, we ALL tend to think poorly when feeling deeply, and feel poorly when thinking deeply.

@JGalegria

2 ай бұрын

Funny how you said guilty! Why should we feel guilty?

@pedro01f

Ай бұрын

But i feel very vulnerable when i expose myself how i react to stuff

Are ya'll watching me or something?

@CommissarChaotic

3 ай бұрын

That sounds like a cool story...

@mariegp5021

3 ай бұрын

I have given up, it feels like they always know what I need to hear exactly when I need to hear it. I just accepted it

@JLakis

3 ай бұрын

Irony! I love it.

@bxcutie4life2007

3 ай бұрын

You know they are lol

@queenunlimited

3 ай бұрын

😭

Obsessive thinking, shopping, drinking too much, eating too much, social media excess, all keep us from thinking.

@MathewsNunes

3 ай бұрын

The so called "coping mechanisms"

@MeatCatCheesyBlaster

3 ай бұрын

THINKING is itself a coping mechanism

@MeatCatCheesyBlaster

3 ай бұрын

Try BEING

@rossgeography

3 ай бұрын

.. attempting to fill the void (or lack) rather than moving through it - because the worry is - it's too huge but know that SELF will always be there - so you're never fully on your own.

@doctorberkowitz

Ай бұрын

Right? Can't we just die already? 😂

I used to try to drown out my thoughts with repetitive phrases to distract myself. Now whenever I find myself doing this, I just sit down and write. Poof. No more obsessive thoughts, no more repetitive chanting. At least not on the offending topic I was previously evading. It’s getting better though. Step by step.

@sergioavalos6644

3 ай бұрын

What do you write about?

@notbrentfaiyaz

3 ай бұрын

​@@sergioavalos6644just try journaling. writing down what you want or feel at the moment. expressing yourself

@imperialSukandar

3 ай бұрын

​​@@sergioavalos6644 well that's something you can't ask.. it's his own thoughts, he write whatever flooding his mind, it's not a question nor an affirmation, more like whatever inside our head, we wrote it down, we can challenge it by "is it true?" "does this thought based on objective(actual facts) or just a feeling" that's how you manage obsessive thinking or you could just wait until your brain reset itself(mental breakdown), fun facts and astonishing, wonderful, wholesome about thoughts and feeling is, they're there but you don't have to believe in them, you can call them a liar if you want

@sergioavalos6644

3 ай бұрын

@@imperialSukandar ahhh, I see. Thanks for the reply

@probably_danie

3 ай бұрын

@@sergioavalos6644 I just write about my thoughts; whatever is bothering me. If I’m embarrassed about something, did or said something cringey, something made me feel insignificant or unloved, or if I feel something or someone made a fool out of me, I write it down. There isn’t always a resolution, but I’m more likely to come to one if I write it out. I’ve been told numerous times over the years to keep a daily journal, but I never have until recently, and it helps a lot (it’s not everything, I still need therapy and to eat and sleep well and reduce stress, reframe my thoughts, etc. but it’s proven to be significantly helpful, at least in my case). Hope this clarifies. ✨

Hi my fellow overthinkers, I just wanna say that I love you, and I hope we all together overcome this. I hope we can truly and deeply see our value and make our brain understand that it wasn’t our fault when we were mistreated in the childhood.

@esterhudson5104

Ай бұрын

Aw..😊

@marcsequence

Ай бұрын

Half of my obsessive thoughts are already aimed at figuring myself out and understanding the world. Working hard to determine what's real and what's imagined. What's worthwhile and what's worthless. Occupied by the fear of wasting things - like time, money, food, and anything else. The empty spaces are filled in with fears and regrets. Remaining energy reserved for making sure I keep it together when someone inevitably pissed me off.

@alextibet

3 ай бұрын

are we the same person

@Fizyxx

3 ай бұрын

@alextibet good to feel understood by another person. Hang tight. Stay strong.

@moatydaddy

3 ай бұрын

I have never seen anyone else, let alone two people, express this same feeling that I’m being plagued with- but here we are

@jxayvxiv

3 ай бұрын

Did I type this?

@faithharbour

3 ай бұрын

Hard same

This made me cry. It literally depicts me -- I wake up in the morning and the first thing I think of are negative thoughts. What that person might think of me, how I despise parts of myself, etc. I never related it to my youth, because I imagined there'd hardly be a link, but as troubled a youth I had, it must be the source. Time to not run away and face the feelings from my youth.

@annaheya2109

3 ай бұрын

Same

@charushilakoralli8278

Ай бұрын

🫂

Obsessive thinking has been the bane of my retirement years. Too much time to think. However, I _have_ had a few useful epiphanys.

@Hamb0ne837

3 ай бұрын

My obsessive thoughts are usually about not being able to retire at all! Between the two us there’s some peace somewhere. Wishing you the best.

@izdotcarter

3 ай бұрын

Your body is searching. Give it time and it will find what it needs.

I loved Alain's description (in another School of Life episode) of insomnia, as "the minds revenge for all the things we avoid thinking about during the day"! Obsessive thoughts always focus on resentments and regrets from the past, or fears and fantasies for the future. They are never "in the now".

Me with my OCD watching this

@therealunclevanya

3 ай бұрын

I think you meant CDO 😉

@MoskusMoskiferus1611

3 ай бұрын

​@@therealunclevanya. CDO ?

@therealunclevanya

3 ай бұрын

@@MoskusMoskiferus1611 OCD but in the correct order ;)

@rossgeography

3 ай бұрын

and/or OCPD - a need for control in order to feel 'safe' / prevent something bad happening.. or reoccurring. If you think you have a 'driven personality' I highly recommend Gary Tosclair The Healthy Compulsive a useful book on a little known and easily dismissed set of behaviours and traits rewarded by society as success but miserable for the person not understanding this drive/need.

@deadinside8781

2 ай бұрын

lol. I have OCD too. Incurable, I think, because my fears are actually dangerous. Not sure if that was a word.

There's a difference between critical thinking vs. Rumination

@George-ky4wf

3 ай бұрын

Of course, they are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. ruminating is a sign of chronic depression. Critical thinking is a sign of intelligence.

@ViVeriVniversvmVivusVici

3 ай бұрын

@@George-ky4wf high intelligence is linked with depression. Ama.

@ritagordon9859

3 ай бұрын

I agree! I think that the more intelligent you are - the more you never work things out as life is vast. Agree - it’s totally different than ruminating

@et_bell

2 ай бұрын

Rationalizing doesn't help at the time when the obsessive thought grips us: At such moments I do tell myself, "This is not true, this is not rational," but the mind doesn't accept that, it forms associations which reminds us that if we don't think that we are not complete. It's all very complicated...yet at times miraculously a spark we see and those days we breathe...

What a profound way of communicating the source of obsessive thinking. Acknowledging the underlying emotions feels like the first, and most difficult, step towards acceptance. For anyone who resonates deeply with this video, I recommend 'Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender." An excerpt: "Letting go involves being aware of a feeling, letting it come up, staying with it, and letting it run its course without wanting to make it different or do anything about it. It means simply to let the feeling be there and to focus on letting out the energy behind it. The first step is to allow yourself to have the feeling without resisting it, venting it, fearing it, condemning it, or moralizing about it. It means to drop judgment and to see that it is just a feeling. The technique is to be with the feeling and surrender all efforts to modify it in any way. Let go of wanting to resist the feeling. It is resistance that keeps the feeling going. When you give up resisting or trying to modify the feeling, it will shift to the next feeling and be accompanied by a lighter sensation. A feeling that is not resisted will disappear as the energy behind it dissipates. As you begin the process, you will notice that you have fear and guilt over having feelings; there will be resistance to feelings in general. To let feelings come up, it is easier to let go of the reaction to having the feelings in the first place. A fear of fear itself is a prime example of this. Let go of the fear or guilt that you have about the feeling first, and then get into the feeling itself. When letting go, ignore all thoughts. Focus on the feeling itself, not on the thoughts. Thoughts are endless and self-reinforcing, and they only breed more thoughts. Thoughts are merely rationalizations of the mind to try and explain the presence of the feeling. The real reason for the feeling is the accumulated pressure behind the feeling that is forcing it to come up in the moment. The thoughts or external events are only an excuse made up by the mind."

@Juanah92

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. It is very well written, in understandable language, it made a lot of clicks and connected a lot of gaps in my understanding.

@Tshinsoo

3 ай бұрын

@@Juanah92 Glad to know it helped! Whenever I feel a negative emotion, I'll try so hard to fight it, but surrendering and in essence, accepting an emotion up front has been very liberating : )

“Older truths about ourselves”… I like that. I like that very much.

I’m good enough Smart enough And Gosh darn I’m worth it😂

@AloneInTheVoid

3 ай бұрын

You're thinking too much ❤

When we are afraid of something, we don't fix our eyes on it. If you are talking to someone and you feel somehow overwhelmed or inferior, you tend to avoid eye contact more often. In horror movies, you rarely see a close-up from a zombie or a ghost or another evil creature. The scariest things are usually those happening in the periphery. The point is: When our thoughts are fixed on something, just like our eyes, the point of fixation is almost always the less important, less scary things in our minds. We need to shift the focus to the peripheral issue and turn the horror into comedy.

I used to think obsessively ... replaying conversation to trying to pin down details of the previous day, etc. These days these thoughts (thanks to medication) have been replaced by music ... songs ... and the lyrics of these songs have now become the stand-in for what previously was just noise in my head. This video makes perfect sense. These thoughts .... and now this music ... are the "busy work" of the brain when there's nothing really to think about.

@rossgeography

3 ай бұрын

or a distraction from bigger/more frightening questions - that will ultimately become absurd and you're released from.

@jacquelinesantiago7017

3 ай бұрын

What medication specifically? I am so tired of this

@rossgeography

3 ай бұрын

personally I'm on 15-20mg Brintellix (Vortioxetine); I'd say if you have pure-O OCD/intrusive thoughts (very unpleasant) as opposed to OCPD being 'obsessional' or 'driven' with unrelenting standards or find things difficult to let go - the only way out is exposure therapy - which sucks to do but it relatively quick 6-12 sessions (given some suffer for years) and totally worth it@@jacquelinesantiago7017. Still interested to know @lifecloud2 medication esp if tailored to obsessional thinking/perfectionism (OCPD or ADHD with perfectionism as a coping style); OCPD is comorbid in 15-28% of people with OCD.

@lifecloud2

2 ай бұрын

Sorry for the delay in response here. Each person is different. What works for me, may not work for everyone. I've been taking Wellburtrin for the past couple of years (the generic is Buproprion). Recently I began taking a sliver ... a VERY VERY tiny amount ... of Delta 8 gummies that help me sleep. I've also been taking Melatonin (10 mg) for the past few years. @@jacquelinesantiago7017

There are two types of people (there aren’t, but it works for me here).. here are two types of people, those that accept what happened was bad and take the hurt and those that repeat the hurt on to others - loved ones, family and friends. Denial is a dangerous, hurtful thing. Acceptance means compassion and kindness to those you love and care for. ❤

@rossgeography

3 ай бұрын

your (younger) self should be the first in line for compassion and understanding, then you can be of best use to others.

As someone who struggled with OCD for 15 years (not knowing that’s what it was for most of it). I partially agree with this. Obsessive thinking is a type of avoidance behaviour. But I disagree that you need to connect with your wounded inner child. In fact many people with OCD attempt that in painful vain often making things worse. Acceptance and metacognition (beliefs about thoughts and emotions) are the way forward. I do also recognize that obsessive thinking does not inherently mean OCD but I just wanted to share as I got a lot of bad OCD advice that often made things worse from otherwise reputable psychological sources

@juliaskagfjord6207

19 күн бұрын

dr jeffrey schwartz and his book on the Four Step Program has been superior to any counselling I had in past for this issue

@juliaskagfjord6207

19 күн бұрын

" Brain Lock"

@gnak6525

18 күн бұрын

@@juliaskagfjord6207 that book is good, but to be honest "at last a life" by Paul David was more helpful, as Paul was a sufferer himself. I would agree that Jeffrey Schwatz' concepts and neuroscience that "you are not your brain" is probably the most single helpful concept there is when dealing with any neurological disorder. All of this is technically metacognitive therapy though.

To all the people who love me warts and all I am in the slow process of healing and thank you for helping me on my journey💜

Actually agree. And yet, personally, couldn’t have this understanding if not for going through this process. It’s a catch 22, an Achilles heel, 20/20 vision, call it what you will. I embrace my process THIS process because it was all I could rely on at the time and now that I have stability, trust myself I can start to dismantle all of that and learn to trust others too. ❤

Obsessively wondering which artist's continuous line style was used in the animation. Kudos to the animator.

Brilliant! You are exactly correct. I’m very prone to overthinking about the kind of irritants you describe, but I know all too well that what’s behind it is the harrowing bereavement I suffered and the abiding loneliness and loss of warmth and love which followed in its wake.

This animation at 3:59 - feels like a deep, emotional journey, packed with meaning and story, all within a fleeting moment...

I love the way you depict this manifestation of anxiety. For me, it has been hugely useful. I’m always feeling better and better, the obsessive thoughts were just the tip of the iceberg. Underneath there were many rather reasonable thoughts of self-hate. The way you describe it is quite accurate.

I swear this channel always hits the nail on the head.

I recently learned that the shortcut in self-help is to look at the thing that you don’t want to look at. That’s how the most progress can be made. (Obviously, do so as safely as possible.) 🙂 You got this!

This was me this morning, after such a long time. Thanks for addressing this, School of life

I really love and appreciate the community of people these kinds of videos create in the comment section. All the replies from genuinely kind people trying to help. This makes me feel less alone

This came out at a perfect time... thank you..

This gave me a little bit of hope. Thank you.

hey, could you do a video on happiness vs. sustained excitement?

Thinking is a coping mechanism. It helps us navigate the world. If we are barred from the thing which works for us ...we would panic, yeah no $hit. Everyone is obsessed with something.

Thanks. Please produce more similar content. It is much needed.❤❤❤

Thank you for this

My obsessive thinking and for more than 3 years now has been revolving around religion and the existence of God even though I'm an atheist and I'm no longer religious but i think uncertainty and fears are behind my intrusive thoughts. The thing about obsessive thinking is that some days it feels you're in control of your thoughts but the next day you realize they're actually controlling you.

Thank you for this video I have never been able to explain ny mindset to others,words just wouldn't come out which then turned into frustration. So I definitly recommend this video to others that feel like me.

I needed to hear this. Thank you.

I was in need of something like this. Thanks for taking this topic and explain it in a neat way❤️

One of, if not the best video on this topic.

This hit hard. Well done once again!

just meeting this 'exile' in IFS Therapy now and coming to realise the care-givers explosive hostility was not about my behaviour but their discomfort with my young joyful inhibition - something painfully lost to them

Obsessive thinking is an oxymoron. The state of "obsessing" can only exist when someone is not thinking but is instead reacting unconsciously to an external stimuli that has been internalized and mistaken for being an actual reality within the individual rather than an imposed reality that has been misinterpreted.

Thank you❤

KZread algorithm works in mysterious ways

@highstax_xylophones

3 ай бұрын

It is google ai listening through audio. Likely you had a convo about related topics Feeds you the pill you thought you wanted But did you need it?

@jayhassan976

Ай бұрын

@@highstax_xylophones i hope your not serious

Excellent art and writing

Thank you

Great video. I did a journal entry asking myself the question it posed and I think it helped me lay out my thoughts. I loved the visuals in this one.

2 Key features: 0:53 ..two key features in common: they are about something 1:00 appalling we feel we are or have done. Or they are about something appalling we fear that others are 1:06 about to do to us. ..

Here it is in 5 minutes why you're mental. Now go get that job! Youre a winner now!

@w.okkerse915

Ай бұрын

😂 I got exactly the same feeling. No answers are given, good luck with that 😂

It's like addiction, you trade a suffering (presumably) under control with sufferings too enormous or too deep to grasp.

@heart1caligurl

3 ай бұрын

totally nailed that one

yall literally defined me

Doesn't tell you how to resolve or help this... only why you have this. Which I know why and understand why, and yes, as he says at the end, I was very much let down... and I've spent tears feeling very angry and depressed about that. Depression is repressed anger... What can be done? Not alot, tough luck , you have a hex placed on you.... Good luck.

I had to watch this twice because I was thinking

Thank you🙏

The other day I asked doctor google about this (racing thoughts and associated emotions) and a common answer that showed up was borderline p.d. (Another topic for me to obsess about, which again fuels emotions😍😅). One symtom's description interested me in particular: a preoccupation with oneself (narcissistic).. which I thought, obsessive thinking kind of intrinsically is, right? "I'm going to fail this test", "what if the other person doesn't like me back", "what if there is really something wrong with me" etc. are all focussed around ones self. I am so grateful for school of life to post these videos. It is a gentle reminder that humans are perfectly flawed yet lovable creatures, and that these odd habits of the mind are far more human than "individual person illnesses" per se. Thank you❤

Most people want to understand themselves, so we think. Since we have such a horrible example of how we should spend our time, we regress into thoughts that take us away from a society of total destruction.

Sadly it results from a time when we were persecuted, singled out and targeted for other people's gossip and harassment.

@heart1caligurl

3 ай бұрын

was ever present before, but definitely has gotten worse after

One of the immediate values of cultivating even a very brief, daily concentration meditation practice is that one becomes adept at identifying thoughts as they arise, realizing that ''I am NOT my thoughts'', and then just letting them go! The anxiety of not paying attention to these previously imperious thoughts gives way to the ''payoff'' of feeling a sense of control and so much more energy to direct towards giving yourself the unconditional love that you (we all!) deserve. I hope this helps some of you as much as it has helped me.

Heart wrenching

It's about believing that I am bad.

This is a highly subjective view. Could be spot on for the odd person. Everyone else - beware. Obsessive thinking usually stems from fear of making mistakes or handling a situation badly rather than from childhood trauma or neglect.

I often thought this when people say they are overthinking - that what is really happening is under thinking. Sticking to the sound thoughts going round and round.

that was quick

@sharmilahabib9072

3 ай бұрын

yup

Amazed how this person exactly described me lmaoo. The only thing that stops the obsessive thoughts are either: high SSRI which i dont tolerate or ADHD drug. ADHD drug has helped me so much. Every time I take it the thoughts disappear and i am able to focus on what I need to. Hope this helps someone.

@dagyner

19 күн бұрын

and yes i am an expert in under eye plastic surgery

Impeccable

I love this channel so much

Wonderful art!

Yes I went to therapy for ocd. Had a breakdown. It was horrendous. But I got better and started singing lessons and now write music and run a beauty therapy business. Yes everything I felt as a child. It was very stressful and invalidating. But it wasn't safe to feel it then.

Beautifully put 🎉

my self treatment has involved was identifying stress as a trigger and removing as many problems ( people, events, workplaces, ) from my life as possible . I also took magic mushrooms, biggest thing is i accepted that i actually wanted to retain most of my food cleanliness obsessions, though i have found ways to streamline them so they are less of a hassle.

Obsessively going over one idea is like being read the same story over and over again as a child. Whether or not the narrative is comforting, it is appealing because it's predictable. However, it reinforces a preconception and achieves very little depth.

Plots against us, shame against sexual abuse, a degree of logic, due to a neglect of us, preferred better treatment to siblings, we have at an unconscious level made a desperate choice to think ill of ourselves or to worry about plots against us, in order to impose a degree of logic on an otherwise impossiblly confounding early experience of neglect or betrayal.

This video is so true that I obsessively watch this video

This cost me the one person I thought I and they would love each other forever...

@d1427

3 ай бұрын

you and 'they'- how many?

@DS-qg9cd

3 ай бұрын

@@d1427 I said it as a way to not specify the person, but it was only one person :)

@d1427

3 ай бұрын

@@DS-qg9cd ah, the confusing wokeness of the English language... How would the person be specified if you said 'he' or 'she', or even 'it'- DS-...qgsc^&*#? Do you imagine someone would make a connection with this very specific name you chose for yourself? lol

@DS-qg9cd

3 ай бұрын

@@d1427 you're right lol

Just my personal anecdote: Tried meditation,therapy, cbt, positive mantras and 100 other things. Only thing that worked was cutting out all processed foods(replaced with meat & eggs) and taking vitamin D supplemtns now i can turn off the endless thoughts at will.

an applause for the animator.👏 thank you for this..❤

Wow, thank you :)

Great vid, I’ve been obsessing about it all morning 😂

@heart1caligurl

3 ай бұрын

same😂😝🤣

Now I'll keep thinking about this video.

Eye bawl 😢

Meditation doesn’t cut through thinking, but it absolutely cuts through obsessive thinking. When you grasp on to a fragmented thought, return your focus to your breathing. Nasal breathing. Belly breathing. Shallow breathing. Remain still. There is absolutely nothing mystical about meditation. It’s yoga for the mind, and it helps.

Not always about all them things that put you down in the cycles. energy of TW's can put the mind in that type of cycle.

I'm struggling with obsessive thinking in the moment, and for the past years... If I don't distract myself, I'm totally absorbed by thoughts. I've tried mindfulness, meditation.. if I'm not actively doing those, and let go I am obsorbed again. I just want to let go feel safe... But I can't feel safe, emotionally safe, the feelings of sadness, guilt, shame, anger, and loneliness is there waiting for me.

one way to keep from sadness caused by obsessive thinking is to STOP THINKING (the joke about the stressed-out patient who exclaims to his doctor 'it hurts whenever I do this' to which the doctor replies 'then don't do that!") here Zen meditation, centering ourselves in unknowing, etc., can help by creating a space in which to breathe and to untwist the ever tightening rope that keeps us from any modicum of peace and even happiness...whenever an obsessive thought enters your mind - take a deep breath, let your mind go blank and let the thought drop. it might take a couple of minutes of 'blankness' but eventually you will become less stressed...give it a try, you have nothing to lose except your obsessive thoughts!

@harrypearle9781

Ай бұрын

HELP others, too. I think often if we reach out to others, to help them, we help ourselves to COPE..

@gky7170

Ай бұрын

@@harrypearle9781 so true!

My "other" thoughts would just move me foreward...wich i don't intend in this world!

It is present as if obsessiveness was all bad, but for many it is the basis for curiosity and learning new things and skills. Yes, it may turn draining, but pragmatically it is not like with a life long therapy one will ever get away from this, simply make sure to use it for constructive purposes!

@heart1caligurl

3 ай бұрын

AGREED!

Whenever i wake up, my routine is to listen to School of Thought. Part of my atomic habits journey ❤

What if the obsessive thoughts aren’t necessarily bad? Like plans to change your financial instability, or plans to make a difference in your community.

@Omar-it7id

2 ай бұрын

"What distinguishes obsessive thoughts from determination towards a goal is the ability to control thoughts and the emotional quality of them. Obsessive thoughts are intrusive, recurring and distressing, while thinking about a goal can be motivating and emotionally positive. Obsessive thoughts are characterized by their persistence and difficulty to control them, as they are often related to irrational fears or impulses. These thoughts can be a source of great distress and can affect daily life. On the other hand, having a goal or thinking about it can be a source of motivation and purpose."

Read the book: Stop thinking start Living by Richard Carlson

The worst is when your thinkings appear in your dreams ughh

It is crazy how everything is sos related to the time once we were children.

@heart1caligurl

3 ай бұрын

its not really, that's just what the trending school of thought is. Just wait for behaviorism to come back in style.

This is a rehashing of their (now deleted) video saying OCD was caused by a trauma .. rightly criticized then for ignoring some very well established things in the therapeutic space, and disappointing now, again.

So self hatred can also come from taking away accountability from our parents in order to be able to continue to love them?

My compliments to the illustrator/animator, and not having to suffer listening to a Californian standard-speaking narrator.

Act II: Crippling Depression (my favorite part).

Just to spread awareness, ocd is common in autistic people. Probably related to the trauma of being a type of person the world actively tries to make go away. But also autistic people of obsessive like special interests that aren't ocd.

@heart1caligurl

3 ай бұрын

nailed it

I get obsessive thoughts when it comes to romance. I noticed the more i suppress my feeling of crush the more its get irresistible. So to overcome this i started telling my crushes that i have crush on them. After confessing my feel and them being not bothering about it has helped me to get over them quickly.

I wonder if we obsessive thinkers are just afraid of forgetting who we were and what we've done. After all, if we're not the sum total of our thoughts and actions, who are we, then? We must find the courage to be tabula rasa and redraw our lives and minds as we see fit.