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@DaylightPiano

10 ай бұрын

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@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

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@DaylightPiano

10 ай бұрын

@@redRuxx Pud

@tinnagigja3723

10 ай бұрын

Is it deliberately named after a slang term for a willy or is that a happy coincidence? 😆

@alicebthegachaweirdo8378

10 ай бұрын

@@tinnagigja3723It’s named after a potato

I'm a 45 year old cis woman who has been attacked for using the women's loos since I was 5 years old. Cis women not passing isn't a new thing.

@niobedragones7347

10 ай бұрын

What???. Bruh why can't people just... Go pee??????

@missnaomi613

10 ай бұрын

Holy sh!t! I'm so sorry you have to deal with that!

@falconeshield

10 ай бұрын

I'm sorry you had to go through that Some people are so proud to be stupid

@starscreamthecruel8026

10 ай бұрын

Then does that make what I did in Tescos two weeks ago, a very rebellious act? The girls toilet was out of order so, *shock horror* I went in the boys and NO ONE EVEN CARED! I just want somewhere to pee, I care not whose it is. If the girl's toilet isnt avaliable, I'll use the boy's. I did that in school and the teachers thought I was insane.

@Froggycolouring

10 ай бұрын

@@starscreamthecruel8026same, I’m non-binary so I usually just use whatever one is cleanest (Except in school where I’m required to use the one of my birth gender :(

As a dinosaur,I can agree that we are cool and transhpobia is not

@timothyisstupid

10 ай бұрын

Thank you, Fat Yoshi. Very cool

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

Dinosaurs are the best! You rock!

@MURDERPILLOW.

10 ай бұрын

​@@frolikswfroggys6416thats abit insensitive to say to a dinosaur

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

@@MURDERPILLOW. fair enough 😅

@Orange-ti4bh

10 ай бұрын

Fr

8:40 if I may have a nerd moment: Gandalf would never tell a trans woman she couldn't go into the women's bathroom. Gandalf is a Maia, created without a physical body but later taking physical form, as a dude, because he was a dude even without a body. I think he would be very trans positive

@home-bodyz

10 ай бұрын

Ohhh, interesting. Thank you for sharing! 😀

@monsterenergypunk

10 ай бұрын

Bless the Tolkien nerds

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

magic is cool, transphobia is not -gandolf maybe idk

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

You never need to ask to have a nerd moment. Knowledge is the coolest! Be you and don't hesitate just because some people might not get it! You're amazing! Thank you for sharing your knowledge with the rest of us!

@Tachii31

10 ай бұрын

"You shall pass!" - Gandalf, encouraging and supporting his trans homies probably

Daily reminder: Little kids are not getting surgeries in order to transition.

@PlatinumAltaria

10 ай бұрын

And even if they were, that's an issue for doctors and patients, not internet weirdos.

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

@@PlatinumAltaria they're just using the kids as a scapegoat to cast hate on us. they don't actually give a sh1t about the health and safety of the kids, they just want to make trans people feel bad for existing

@wiselioness322

10 ай бұрын

Trans kids aren’t getting any kind of medical intervention before puberty.

@dragonalpaca3530

10 ай бұрын

however intersex infants are often getting non-consensual unnecessary surgeries to make their genitals "fit" sometimes without even getting parental consent if those people really want to protect kids they should be fighting against this sort of thing not something that doesn't happen but that doesn't fit their narrative

@retcon1991

10 ай бұрын

​@@wiselioness322??? What about puberty blockers?

"I am a woman, don't call me a person" ....oh, sweetheart...

@Robin_hood.100

10 ай бұрын

“Alright then, so you wanna be called a female dog instead?”

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

Honestly, the people who say things like that make me genuinely concerned for their wellbeing. Like... they were obviously raised in an environment that objectified and dehumanized women to extreme degrees, for it not to send up a red flag to say, "women aren't people."

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

Yep. I had someone tell me "I'm not a person I'm a woman!!!!!". So I replied "You're not a person?" and got called racist. We were the same color. 🤦

@starscreamthecruel8026

10 ай бұрын

@@alchemysaga3745 what are we then, Starfish? Actually that would look kinda cool, little Starfish with placards saying: We are female but we are not people, we are Starfish :)

@silviasanchez648

10 ай бұрын

That's so wrong and toxic in so many levels... I just feel sorry for anyone separating the two like their opposing concepts 😨

I'm a British cisgender, bisexual, autistic, vulnerable woman and I am so tired of TERFs speaking over me. I literally fit into every single category that they claim to be fighting for, but they aren't fighting for me at all. They are petulant children with nothing better to do than shit on a vulnerable minority. I stand with you all in the trans community. 🩷 You are my queer brethren. Trans women are my sisters in womanhood. I'm sorry that some of my fellow cis women are like this. I promise some of us are trying everyday to fight it from the inside. 🩷🩷🩷 Sending love and hugs to all trans people. Always remember that you're valid no matter what! 🥰💖🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

@blurrface723

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! This world needs more people like you who support everyone.

@bobaoriley1912

10 ай бұрын

As an autistic bi as well, it’s annoying seeing it’s annoying seeing NTs believe and say that we can’t process our thoughts and introspect. It’s also annoying that they believe that being autistic is a mental illness and/or a disability.

@Caprabone

10 ай бұрын

Another bisexual autistic cis woman here in support of the many many Trans people in the world!!

@MoonAndStars25

10 ай бұрын

@@bobaoriley1912completely agree

@xotbirdox

10 ай бұрын

@@bobaoriley1912 It is a disability, but everything else, I agree with you. It absolutely is a disability though. Even with all the accommodations in the world, I still can't take care of my own personal hygiene, my finances, or feed myself on my own. Other than language, I'm quite a high support needs autistic tbh. For some reason, I was never given a DSM-5 level even though I was diagnosed under the DSM-5, but I think I'm a level 2 personally. Bc I can't really socialise outside of my family and like 3 friends lol, I have debilitating mental health problems, and I really struggle with sensory issues and doing "basic" daily tasks. I also struggle to know when I need to use the toilet a bit, but mostly OK with that one. That symptom is more active at night when I'm sleeping than anything. And I also really struggle with my sleep as well. No hate to you, but I think it's just important to remember that even if you don't find autism disabling (which is totally fine 🥰🩷), it's still a spectrum, and for some people, it can be really disabling. Some people can't talk, some people have to wear nappies/diapers. Even if you subscribe more to the social model of disability, it is undeniable that there are disabling aspects of autism that, even with all the accommodations in the world, are still there. My autism personally is very disabling. I can barely leave the house and I will never live on my own. It doesn't mean that I hate being autistic, I love being autistic, I just do wish it didn't have negative aspects as well. But I still am proud to be autistic and am proud to be disabled. 🥰💖 I know you meant no harm by what you said though! /nm /gen

Okay, on the "trans men are men but trans women are also men" topic, it's also how people feel about bisexual people. Bi women are seen as really straight while bi men are seen as really gay, and it all boils down to the assumption that everyone will or wants to end up with a man, just like the terf assumption that anyone contaminated with "maleness" in any way belongs on the male side of the aisle.

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

Yeah its just really weird

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

As a bisexual dude, I'm glad I've never met anybody who thinks that way

@SimonClarkstone

10 ай бұрын

If I had to guess: they read in a biology texbook that humans all start off female and thought "if your body made testosterone naturally or if you take it artificially then you're male", therefor proclaiming cis women to be the only ones they'd call "real" women. (At least that's how I'd assume people who argue that decide.)

@ini9558

10 ай бұрын

it's just transmisogyny mixed with blatant transphobia. idk why people treat trans women so different as compared to trans men. 🏳️‍⚧️🫶🏻🏳️‍🌈

@lithellylbeleth4426

10 ай бұрын

exactly

As a cis woman who grew up bi in the 90s, B and T go together like butter and toast. I remember what it's like for people to say what I am isn't a thing.

@labellissimabritneyellis7230

10 ай бұрын

I love how you lined those letters up. As a bi and a trans myself

@pathevermore3683

10 ай бұрын

Know what I wish we had in the 90s... the term "non-binary." It would have made my life so much easier.

@ave_maria323

10 ай бұрын

Trans woman who grew up in the 90s and yeah.

@pathevermore3683

10 ай бұрын

@@KateWick1997 lmao. Shows what you know!

@notfukinghappy

10 ай бұрын

@@KateWick1997 they might have existed back then... it's not even 40 years ago

"the divorce is happening" what did the aces ever do? "Mmmmyou're sexualizing children" bro I'm not even sexualizing adults

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

Yep. Like I've had people tell me they were extremely concerned I was *allowed* to be around children *because* I'm ace. Like that directly implies they think that sexual attraction is a necessary component to be around children. 🤬

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

Yeah I'm on the spectrum too( demisexual demiromantic) and I'm not even attracted to strangers, let alone almost all my friends. Like you think I'd wanna get with children and r@pe them?? They don't understand how stupid they sound when they say shit like that.

@starscreamthecruel8026

10 ай бұрын

Maybe we need to form our own community with the other half? Na, that would make us as bad as the ones that want to split us up. I dont understand their beef with Intersex, Queer, Ace/Aro's and Non Binary individuals. How do we get dragged into this?

How do the LGB people *not* understand that trans people can be LGB+ also.. .. 😮 it baffles me how hateful our community can be 😢

@PlatinumAltaria

10 ай бұрын

You only get one letter of the acronym, that's how it works /j

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

Most of the time, it comes down to respectability politics. They think that if they agree with the people who hate other demographics, they'll earn 'credit' with those bigots. And that that 'credit' will protect them from the hatred of those bigots. They're so desperate for protection that they don't realize the moment that they help the bigots oppress the other demographics, they'll be next on the chopping block. The whole, "First they came for the Communists," poem, except with letters of the Alphabet soup.

@4lovebysara

10 ай бұрын

@@PlatinumAltaria of course!! How could I be so silly!?😝

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

when the LGB people finally eradicate the TQ+, the people who are trans AND bisexual will only HALF EXIST!! they will be HALF a person!!! 😈

@PinkPuffball1992

10 ай бұрын

Gatekeeping at it's finest, folks! Don't ya just looooooooove it? 😑😑😑👎👎👎

Kristen stewart isnt even trans shes just bi and sometimes dresses masc, why would someone claiming to be gay "lgb" be upset that she dresses masc? So some gay people are just policing the gender presentation of other gay people? I hate it here

@thegaytay4327

10 ай бұрын

Not just gay people's presentation either, but everyone's. A cishet man wears a dress? That's what a trans woman is, right? A cishet woman dresses masc? That's a trans man erasing women, isn't it? A woman dresses femme? That's anti feminist. Women can't wear clothes, it's not allowed.

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

Same

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, it sucks hard

@taiyouscandalous1175

10 ай бұрын

Since this recent awareness of trans people, some cis people started to think that gender-nonconformity is a sign/cause of being trans so they started to go against it

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

​@@taiyouscandalous1175 Smh they think that just because we want people to be themselves, that that means we're talking even slightly GNC individuals to go and be trans when that not what we're doing at all lmao! We just want people to start being themselves without limits, that's all. ( if a transphobe sees this and says something along the lines of " Well that applies to us too1!1!1!!1" no it doesn't. You don't get discriminated against sweetie.)

can't say i'm surprised they're proudly taking up the nazi label. it doesn't seem to matter what words you use to point out how awful their ideology is, they'll just be like "DAMN RIGHT I'M A LOATHSOME SHITBAG AND PROUD OF IT!"

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

Tbh, it really seems like Alt-Right/Far Right bigots are the ones who actually fall down the 'slippery slope' of extremism, in spite of their insistence that it's the Left/LGBT+ people and allies are the ones who will do so. Probably because they're so openly hateful that they can't get anyone other than other openly hateful people to agree with them. Plus, to them, anything other than being equally vocally hateful is 'oppressing' them. It basically creates this tendency for them to be willing to accept friendship/help even from people who are known *globally* to be absolute monsters who have no right to exist in society.

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

Transphobes really are awful

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

Ikr theyre insane

@ragg232

10 ай бұрын

It’s like a Christian persecution complex

@adamgrinnell7630

10 ай бұрын

Transphobes spreading hate and often trying to k*ll an entire group of people. Reminds me of something…

Another point about the gender neutral language. There are some women who don't have cervixes and even more women who don't menstruate, so it also excludes the people it doesn't need to include as well as includes everyone it needs to. For example "Women can suffer period poverty" is less accurate than "People who menstruate can suffer period poverty", because a twelve-year-old girl or a trans man are way more likely to suffer from period poverty than an eighty-year-old grandmother. So it's just stupid to complain about those terms. Being a woman is more than just body parts, but in some context it's important to highlight specific body parts or their functions.

@katyd2400

10 ай бұрын

I was about to say the same thing but you worded it much better than I ever could have

@FrozEnbyWolf150

10 ай бұрын

@@chrisbfreelance Are you just using terminology you don't understand in an attempt to sound smart? Post menopausal women will no longer menstruate. Girls who have reached puberty will start to menstruate. These are not "mutations," they're part of normal development and aging. Besides, every human who has ever been born is technically a mutant, as children have an average of 70 genetic alterations compared to their parents.

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, and like it's easier and quicker to say "People with periods", than it is to say "Women and girls with periods". Because 9 year olds are not women.

@awkwardukulele6077

10 ай бұрын

@@DaveBadger Yeah, and they still are called women. All the people who aren't women in this situation didn't like being called women, and now they're not. Everyone is being called words that are accurate now. Sorry if that triggers you, but you don't get to force thousands of people to be called something they're not, just because the more accurate terms make you cranky.

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

​@@DaveBadgerNo. Wrong. This is in medical contexts. Not in day-to-day use. From another angle: are you gonna want to change the words "patient" and "client" too? It's a matter of efficiency and broadest inclusivity in that context. We're not changing nouns and pronouns in classic works of literature, your private conversations, or your favorite cartoons. Do you get what I'm saying??

Yeah, as a bi+ person, I really wish the "LGB Alliance" folks and others who lump the B into their exclusion would stop. Because a) we all know they are biphobic as well, and b) the majority of cis bi+ people I know are very accepting and inclusive of trans people, and more so than the monosexual people I know.

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

Bi+ just makes me think of pan and how pan is pretty much just bi premium xD

@PinkPuffball1992

10 ай бұрын

As a cis bi person myself, yeah, I just want the whole "LGB without the TQ+" thing to just stop. Like why can't people see how stupid that is already?

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

​@PinkPuffball1992 People often can't see their dumb ideas for what they truly are. They've set their minds on trans people being wrong, so it's hard to convince them otherwise. It's just like flat earthers or.. any of the other ones like that

@PinkPuffball1992

10 ай бұрын

@@sovietdoge.7369 Yeah, tru

@FlawlessP401

10 ай бұрын

​@redbirb pan is just bi but your in a cult that believe identity is whatever they decide about themselves. Appallingly dumb people accept these ideas with zero legitimate evidence that their ideas are real

17:13 Wow, what an amazing story for that future child: "Mommy why did you want to have me?" "Well, I mean, how else was I going to prove that I'm a REAL woman and definitely better than all these disgusting fakers who... wait, why are you crying?"

@PlatinumAltaria

10 ай бұрын

"Stop crying, you're an XY biological male, you don't have real tear ducts! I won't let my child be transed by the woke agenda!" It's sad because this isn't even far from what these nutters believe.

@kiedisboughen5318

10 ай бұрын

​@@PlatinumAltariawoke meaning the dictionary definition. Even sadder..

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

in the near future when trans people inevitably become more accepted in society: "i only had you to validate my bigoted belief that trans women aren't women... and it didn't even f*cking work! :D"

@somik-i3x

10 ай бұрын

Imagine being an infertile women and seeing that. It must be painful.

@nat3007

10 ай бұрын

I can't have children so it wasn't great. It was medically necessary operation.

Last year I was chatting with a cis woman in her 50s, and she said “I hate being called a “cisgender” woman! Why can’t I just be a woman?!” And I was thinking “oh no! I only just met you and I was really starting to like you, please don’t be a TERF!” So I said “I have no issue with being referred to as cisgender, and I refer to myself as a cis woman, because all “cis” means is “not trans”. So if I were to refer to me & you as “cis women”, I’d be saying it to not exclude or “other” trans women”. And she said “but trans women are women too! We’re all women!” I said that if only more people thought that way, then maybe we wouldn’t need terms like “trans” or “cis”. I think she got it in the end. But I wanted to give her the biggest hug, and I was so relieved that she wasn’t a TERF!

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

You can also remind people that it has value in terms of medical needs! Trans women need to have exams for certain anatomy that cis women likely don't, just like trans men need exams for anatomy that cis men likely don't need exams for.

@johapunkt3053

10 ай бұрын

I think we're in that terrible, awkward stage in between "never heard or seen it" and "yeah, that's normal, why do you feel the need to point it out?". Like, we're currently having a revival of the Lavender Scare, or so is my impression at least. It took us a good three decades to get to a point where being anything other than heterosexual wasn't so much of a shocker anymore. So I wouldn't be surprised if it took us until the 2050s for trans people to be as accepted and normalised as they should be. And by then, we'll hopefully be able to print reproductive organs from stem cells, and people will hopefully be able to access such treatment if they wish to (cis people, too!). And questionnaires would be completely gender neutral, as in you'd have to check off your gender, what your body configuration is and what sort of medical treatment you're looking for, just on a normal basis. By then, the next big scare could be bionic augmentation ("Augmented eyes? But can they see through clothes??"). And/or AI taking over the world. Or some other dystopian sh*t.

@seshthecat

10 ай бұрын

People can not like the cis label without hating trans people.

@matthiashickman5321

10 ай бұрын

That is wholesome

@jadelinny

10 ай бұрын

I'm glad it sounds like her heart is in the right place, but the "can't we all just be women?" argument is pretty close to the "I don't see color" argument. Sure, in a perfect world, being trans would be just a random fact about a person like eye color, but that's not the world we live in. And until people stop being killed and denied medical treatment because they are trans, it's harmful to not acknowledge the difference being trans makes in people's lives.

I have seen the funniest and saddest transphobe attempt A woman started a sentence with "I am a cis woman..." and the very first reply was "yo dude you're male"

@nyadarkness

6 ай бұрын

lmao

@mr_red3

2 ай бұрын

are you sure that was transphobia or was the person saying the woman is trans and didn’t know it

Jamie is like David Attenborough and Wildlife Documentary is trying to understand the creatures that are Transphobes.

@jgcoverkknot5701

10 ай бұрын

Both dinosaurs and transphobes have walnut brains but only one is cool ⚡🌩️🏳️‍⚧️🦕

@Bismuguy

10 ай бұрын

"And here we have a wild Transphobe, deep in it's sessions of boycotting. It seems to have it's eyes on Costa Coffee this time."

@This_dumb_b0y

10 ай бұрын

@@Bismuguywell says 😂❤

@jared-2

10 ай бұрын

"A puzzling thing. Ah, here it is, zeroing in on its prey... "Oh, it's not doing anything," you might say, but this is actually how they attract their prey. They make odd noises hoping that it does something. It's a wonder they haven't gone extinct, really."

@blurrface723

10 ай бұрын

"These creatures are extremely loud and tend to block out any common sense by screaming and creating weird videos. They aren't the smartest from their boycotting in Costa Coffee."

When are they ever ok? Being transphobia automatically makes you not OK

@Bismuguy

10 ай бұрын

Entire title disproven

@home-bodyz

10 ай бұрын

Sometimes they're extra "faily" & funny 😄

@TheOddHog

10 ай бұрын

@@beeblazin42069 No thanks

@Kit-the-Kat

10 ай бұрын

@@beeblazin42069Transphobia isn’t normal, there’s nothing normal about hating your fellow people. Just be normal!

@kirby-from-kirby

10 ай бұрын

​@@beeblazin42069failed ratio lmao

I recently just came out as non-binary to some friends! It went really well! Thanks for making content that helped me realize and come out as non-binary Jamie ♥️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

@foodpetroletc

10 ай бұрын

congrats on coming out!

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

Congratulations! I am so happy that you found your true self and so proud of you for expressing it to the world! Keep being incredible!

@karenwalters7181

10 ай бұрын

@@ekrtznekrtz5229 What about intersex people, people with different sets of chromosomes, and people with different gender identities. Your comment is irrelevant, illogical, and you only see people for their genitalia rather than than who they are as a person.

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

Congrats! Welcome fellow nb!!

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

​​@@ekrtznekrtz5229intersex people are neither female or male. Also, do you know your chromosomes 100% without them getting tested? No you don't.

It's not surprising that one meme including the I and the A in what they wanted to cut. We've seen GCs cry "groomer" at people talking about asexuality. To them, not wanting to have sex with anyone is the same as wanting to have sex with children. Once someone is that far gone, there's pretty nothing to be done but abandon them in the desert somewhere and hope they can figure out how to survive on the local wildlife.

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

Yeah I'm demi ( demisexual demiromantic) and when I told people this the were just like, that's just "normal" right? , Karen, it's not. Being demi is on the ace/aro spectrum and alot of people just equate it wirh beikg picky and or being normal, or that it isint real. Like, no Karen, I'm not attracted to minors just because I need a strong emotional bond to find someone attractive romantically or sexually. And The thing is, most LGBTQ+ people are minors.

@isabelcarrasco4528

10 ай бұрын

​@@ArtsyKnox25 I am pretty sure you mean *aren't*, in your last sentence. I mean, there are more adults than minors in the world, right?

@timnewman1172

10 ай бұрын

There are those in the fundie world who consider those who either are ace or who do not want children to be going against "God's plan" and therefore are evil!

In India, surprisingly mainstream media is creating some trans content and people are accepting that. Even my mom became very hooked to one such webseries

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

That is really cool to hear

@a.b.1429

10 ай бұрын

I think it may also have to do with there being trans/nonbinary/intersex god figures in Hinduism? so it seems like a more normal & natural concept due to it being familiar through history/religion

@debanjalighosh6818

10 ай бұрын

@@a.b.1429 No sadly Hindu religious extremists( and the current govt) are not supporting the LGBTQ+ community. But i guess we have some awakening after a few landmark judgements.

@debanjalighosh6818

10 ай бұрын

@StopSin If you are not sarcastic then its so funny that you viewed a trans content and replied to a thread in trans content thereby increasing engagement in the video. Hahaha omg

@TitularHeroine

9 ай бұрын

@@debanjalighosh6818 I think they misspelled their name -- it's supposed to be Stops In, because they don't mind stopping by to learn and to increase engagement 😂

as a cis bi woman I want to agree with Jamie's take on the B getting removed soon after the T bc let's be honest, the community has always been side eyeing us the same way the heteros do, like "you can't have both pick one" vibes. and also as a cis woman I wanted to say that I personally do not have any issues with like "birthing person" or "person with uterus" etc type language in broad use because trans/nonbinary/genderfluid folks should be included in those conversations. I would prefer to be called a woman if someone is speaking about me individually but I think that's just basic respect like if someone wants to refered to a certain way then do that if you're speaking about them specifically but I think it's a bit selfish and inconsiderate of random cis women who claim to support lgbtq rights to be like oh well i don't think we should use inclusive language in situations where those people should be included.

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

As an afab nb person I appreciate you ❤️❤️

@cartergomez5390

10 ай бұрын

I'm bisexual and I'm attracted to bisexual women and gay, bisexual and transexual men. And I'm also a transguy. I'm tired of being stealth, so there I said it. I also don't like straight people and yes, dating guys is easier for me but I don't know why.

@batsnghostz

10 ай бұрын

I just think ‘birthing person’ is an odd phrase, but yeah I totally agree with ‘person with a uterus’ and such Idk the word birthing is just odd to me

@tarathoughts13

9 ай бұрын

.@@batsnghostz yea - also terms like people whi menstruate, or people who can reproduce, or something. It shouldn’t sound talking down to i feel. Like chest feeder sounds weird af to me, and I think we should find another term for that because it sounds mocking.

@Lisa_Flowers

6 ай бұрын

@@batsnghostz i mean it's usually used in the context of discussing actual childbirth. if you are pregnant and going to go through child birth, you may be refered to as the woman/mother, the birthing mother (in cases where there are two moms), or a birthing parent (in cases where you are trans or nobinary). If you aren''t going to go through childbirth then you arent typically going to be called that. If you are, i'd think its a bit strange to be bothered by the word 'birthing' when that is something you are literally going to do. In any case, you could always just request to be refered to as a mother or a person who is going to give birth.

I'm a cis girl who presents quite masculine. A few days ago, I went into the bathroom the same time as this older woman came out, and she just stared intensely at me as I was going in as if she was about to say something or stop me, and honestly it was quite uncomfortable

@Cohen-Tiger

10 ай бұрын

Sorry for what happened. It’s terrible how people are getting picked apart to find out their sex, when it doesn’t even matter.

@maddymaiolo171

10 ай бұрын

Sorry about that happening, Why are people that entitled?

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

​@@maddymaiolo171because they think any slightly GNC person MUST be trans ( because they think we're "forcing" GNC people to be trans or something idk) and they don't have an atom of intelligence to know otherwise when someone is trans and when someone Isint.

@batsnghostz

10 ай бұрын

Transphobia affects everyone

@RowanArk

10 ай бұрын

@@batsnghostz yeah it does, my friend was saying people never used to be this weird about bathrooms. When there's so much hate going around, it's going to start leaking out and affecting other people too

To anyone needing to hear it today. You are amazing and I am so proud of you! Keep being your awesome true selves! 🩷🩵

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

Thank you! Lots of love

@randomnerpa2563

10 ай бұрын

Ty! :D I wish you a good morning/evening/afternoon! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

@This_dumb_b0y

10 ай бұрын

Ty :) 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 💛🤍💜🖤

@_StarlightRose_

10 ай бұрын

You too

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

@Mx.Charlie You are quite welcome! I love all the flags made of hearts people do! It always looks so cool! Stay wonderful, my beautiful friend!

Yall I have happiness I have a non binary teacher I might tell them "dinosaurs are cool, transphobia is not" They like dinosaurs so :)

@Oliver-olie

10 ай бұрын

rhats so kool 🌞🫶

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

Good for you, mate

@blurrface723

10 ай бұрын

you have a smart teacher

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

schools actually hire non binary teachers?!? that's so foreign to me, i live in the south 💔

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

@@Oliver-olie yeah :)

I haven't even started watching and I agree wholeheartedly. They are not ok.

@Dino.Nuggetsart

10 ай бұрын

Same lol

@This_dumb_b0y

10 ай бұрын

Yes !

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

Ditto

@Dino.Nuggetsart

10 ай бұрын

@StopSin you realize that by commentating you’re supporting a trans person and that flag, you buy it from somewhere that supports trans people. And they call us snowflakes 🖕

I've recently developed a severe phobia of elevators. I'm taking steps to avoid them.

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

I have a real fear of this speed bump in front of me.... but I'm slowly getting over it

@ashercd6487

10 ай бұрын

i didn't know why a baseball was getting bigger.. Then it hit me (wait that's not a phobia joke)

@aspenelliott5633

8 ай бұрын

Great joke haha

Petition to add a terf bathroom so they can leave the rest of us alone

@SnowMouse1

26 күн бұрын

Single stall men's and women's bathrooms across the building and hard to find while the gender neutral ones get decent placement.

Ugh. I hate KZread’s ad algorithm because it thinks I want a PragerU ad with one of Jamie’s videos. F that.

I might be uncool, but at least I'm not transphonbe uncool.

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

Sounds like you’re pretty cool!

I came out as enby a few days ago, and I will continue to fight more transphobes!

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

Congrats! I am so proud of you! May I suggest fighting the transphobes by ignoring them and instead posting uplifting comments to others who are sharing their stories like you in the comments of these videos and others like them. Whatever you decided, you are incredible! Keep being you!

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

Congrats fellow nb! Welcome into our circle!

@moonbasket

10 ай бұрын

Congratulations!❤🎉

@alikaisdead

10 ай бұрын

@StopSin this better be satire

I was so proud when my country showed that posey person that we didn't want her here. We had thousands show up to support our trans community and only a handful of bigots there for her.

@JovanDacic

10 ай бұрын

​@@trevorchester4439Posie Parker, aka Kellie-Jay Keen Minshull, the speaker for the transphobic group "Let Women Speak".

@robokill387

10 ай бұрын

That's true in the UK too, trans supporting events get hundreds to thousands of people turning up, terf events tend to have a dozen at most. They are a vocal minority that is given a disproportionately big platform by UK media.

Transphobia has killed cis women. I know of at least one situation that I think was fairly recent where a man murdered a cis woman that *_HE DID NOT KNOW_* because he thought she was trans.

@TransIsBest

10 ай бұрын

I read one where a man attacked an old lady because he thought she was trans. He got 2 years in jail and the woman has to be cared for for the rest of her life. Not to mention she's terrified to go outside and living is a scary thing in general now.

Something that I just realized (and really should have recognized a LOT earlier) is that all those folks that think that LGBT should focus entirely on sexuality and drop the gender nonconforming stuff always exclude the A(s) from the list. As a reminder this stands for Asexual/Aromantic - a minority sexuality. They don't even realize that they're cutting off exactly a part of the community that they're saying the community exists to protect.

This was sweet enough that I actually enjoyed it, the transphobia is hard but having you make fun was really healing today

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

We could all use more sweetness and healing in our lives. Hope you are having an amazing day! You are awesome, and I am proud of you!

4:48 My initial thought was "well, she has a point", then you started to explain. Once again this 55yo Cis Hetero man is grateful for people like Jammi (and for example OT and the Click) for broadening my views and explaining things I simply didn't factor in in a simple to understand way. I try to be an Ally but I also still have lots to learn.

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

Don't feel bad about initially agreeing with her- that's something that bigots are very good at doing. They know that if they come out and say what they mean, people will realize that they're being completely irrational in order to justify their hatred. So they get really good at making what they say sound initially reasonable.

I have to say, that dropping LGBTQIA+ for Queer is not only pronounceable but also not splitable

@HiBuddyyyyyy

10 ай бұрын

I do agree but also LGBTQIA is kind of fun to say.

@PlatinumAltaria

10 ай бұрын

There are advantages and disadvantages to both. We probably shouldn't prescribe specific labels lest it lead to exclusion.

@SkylerLinux

10 ай бұрын

@@PlatinumAltaria That's a better reason to use Queer, nobody is left out. Nobody get's to headline the term for all of us

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

@@SkylerLinux asexual people don't fall under the Q, "queer" isn't an all-encompassing term. it just covers the majority of sexualities. same goes for intersex, it's its own thing. it doesn't fall under anything else

@MichelleK.B.

10 ай бұрын

@@SkylerLinux My counter to that argument is that some LGBTQIA people had the term queer used as a slur against them and aren't comfortable with reclaiming it the way younger generations are (in some cases because of PTSD issues)... I think, like @PlatinumAltaria said, that people should be able to choose whether to use LGBTQIA, LGBTQ+ or Queer instead of assuming everyone is comfortable with the same label for the wider group

I'm not Trans but I wanted to learn more about the Trans experience so I was really happy to hear about and buy your book! Thank you for being such a positive force in the community!!!❤

@GilboPaints

10 ай бұрын

One topic at a time has great videos on trans communities! It was really important for me understanding my own experience.

They let you take Pud's transness away but little do they know, it's also inside him YOU CANT TAKE IT HAHAHH

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

Actually, that raises a question. Is the egg Pud's transness, or is the egg Pud's child who will be trans when they are born/hatch? (Though obviously the reason for allowing it to be detached is for people who may have less than accepting family members or housemates.)

@dummigummi353

10 ай бұрын

@@alchemysaga3745 I think it's also a visualization of what Pud once was y'know, Pud WAS an egg but now he's fully grown and the transness is inside him and they can never take it away :)

Phrases like "person who menstruates" are also important because even typical cisgender women don't necessarily menstruate, such as if their uterus has been removed or if they've gone through menopause, and so when you're referring to "people who menstruate" you're being more specific than just "women" anyway, and there's probably a reason for that. It's all context.

@complainer406

10 ай бұрын

Also, children menstruate!

@tarathoughts13

9 ай бұрын

Exactly - I understand if it was being used individually, like if someone called me (if I was a mother) a birthing person, I would be offended, but if it’s being used in general then it’s fine.

@Albinojackrussel

8 ай бұрын

Even more so for words like Mother to mean pregnant person. Not every cis woman who's having a baby is going to be a mother. What about surrogates, those giving up for adoption, and potentially most hurtful, those having a still birth? Birthing person is definitely clumsy, but we do need a neutral term to refer to someone in active labour.

Cisgender people exist, and they never had to think about that before (being cis as opposed to being trans). "I'm 'normal', hetero? where's the straight option?" Queer inclusive language isn't meant to be exclusive to the benefactors of a cisheteronormative hierarchical societal thingamajig. Cis is NOT a slur; they're just not trans.

@silviasanchez648

10 ай бұрын

But many use it as a slur, unfortunately =(

I am in full support of my fellow members of the LGBTQ+ community. I may not understand everything and I'm still learning, but I will NEVER turn on y'all. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

We need more people like you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! You are incredible! And don't worry. We are all always learning and will never stop. And I think that's a good thing. Also, I love your profile pic. Owl House is amazing, and I am watching it right now.

@PinkPuffball1992

10 ай бұрын

First of all, based pfp and name, Owl House is now and always will be a timeless classic! Second of all, same! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💝

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

🌈🙏

My husband said that trans men are the secret weapon of this “war”. Jamie is certainly is a glitter bomb!

Fun fact: frogs are biologically trans

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

Frogs are our icons lol

@randomnerpa2563

10 ай бұрын

the frogs are our mascot ✨

@MarfansGoth

10 ай бұрын

And if we put more chemicals in the water it'll TURN THE FRIGGING FROGS GAY!!

@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening

10 ай бұрын

Them being the iconic mascot is the best part 😂

@UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana

10 ай бұрын

Aren't dogs 🐕 more trans because they don't have sexual dimorphism to the point the sexes look the same and have the same personality? More specifically, they would be monogendered.

I have PCOS so I fear bathroom “transvestigators.” I’m not always going to remember to shave stray hairs, and I have wide shoulders.

@Aarenby

10 ай бұрын

​@@ciastomarchewkowe7103that isn't what my experience of twitter terfs have shown me

@cryochick9044

10 ай бұрын

​@@ciastomarchewkowe7103we all like to mock the men who think women have no hair, but women think that to to the point a friends mom when I came out to her told me how she has to wax and talked about her body and facial hair care routines cause she KNOWS how women can be.

@cryochick9044

10 ай бұрын

@@ciastomarchewkowe7103 she knows most women do but also that people judge those who do heavily

Yesterday a transphobe told me he has more knowledge of psychology than someone with a phd xD

@catsmom129

10 ай бұрын

The Dunning Krueger is strong with these folks

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

@@catsmom129 one told me that I was under that very effect xD

@PinkPuffball1992

10 ай бұрын

Like seriously, if you are talking about who I think you're talking about, they said that you have autism, even though they are not a doctor like at all. They have said that they are a geneticist that clones bees and apples multiple times in these comments, and they think that that gives them the authority to diagnose several random people on the Internet? Like bruh. They also think that gives them the authority to talk about human genetics, which is like no, not really

@austinluther5825

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, I've had transphobes in some video comments tell me that I have no understanding of basic biology. I am molecular scientist specializing in human cytogenetics. Pretty sure I've got the basics down.

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

@@PinkPuffball1992 yeah, it's the guy who thinks jamie is a cult leader xD

No transphobia 😠 Dinosaurs are cool and not transphobic

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

Team Dino all the way

@prageruwu69

10 ай бұрын

dinosaurs are awesome 🦖🦕

@alicebthegachaweirdo8378

10 ай бұрын

Can we make dinosaurs return, and make transphobia go extinct?

@ragnkja

10 ай бұрын

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 Avian dinosaurs are still around!🕊️🦅🦆🦜🐥🐣🦢🐧🐓🐦🐦‍⬛🦩🦚🪿🦃🦉🐤 So we’re halfway there already!

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 let's make the aliens come, bring the dinosaurs back, and they hunt all the trasphobes. They don't kill them though. They teach them. They show them positivty. And once the transphobes are no longer transphobes, they can go back into the world

Got told to join the 46% earlier, so this is definitely nice to watch. Always makes me feel better :)

@_StarlightRose_

10 ай бұрын

Funny how their percentage isnt even consistent Hope youre doin better fren

@toast47178

10 ай бұрын

Honestly I don't understand how they can go around proudly talking about our suicide rates and not ask themselves, "are we the baddies?"

@joshuacoleman8000

10 ай бұрын

Then they have the nerve to pretend to be concerned about the suicide rates.

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

@@toast47178 they genuinely don't care if they're viewed as evil. they don't even care if they KNOW FOR A FACT that they're evil. they just want to live in a world without the things they don't like and they don't give a sh1t about how they're perceived for that

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

@@duckified. I've seen this ring true on so very many things. People are fucked up.

I had a client ask me if I remember "when men were men and women were women." I told him "no, I grew up in the 80s." I actually got a long pause, then a "good point" for that one.

@susannairisastarte5192

7 ай бұрын

Exactly. Rock stars in the 70s and 80s were very genderfluid.

As a lesbian i can confirm he asked me if it was alright for him to publish the book, and i said yes.

@TheWierdKid-ls2xm

10 ай бұрын

Does the Bible say it's okay?

the "LGB Without the" group was started by a straight conservative couple... soooooo... 🤷

6:52 The best part about that photo is that she was drenched in tomato juice by a counter protester.

i had a collegue who turned the bathroom thing the other way around he's a dude who gets uncomfortable when a woman is in the men's bathroom, so as i did my usual shtick of showing them how ridiculous it is, i realized too late that i should then take the example of a trans woman and see that she should enter the men's bathroom, just to show how ridiculous it is

Transphobes are pushing me to become a transphobephobe.

@husky0098

10 ай бұрын

So just a reasonable person?

@PhoenixHinds

10 ай бұрын

@@husky0098 from my perspective, yes. Entirely reasonable.

Why do cis men care what’s happening in a lesbian dating app?? I couldn’t think of anything that has less to do with cis men, how doesn’t it effect them at all!

@cryochick9044

10 ай бұрын

As someone who used a lesbian dating app. They want to date us, they think we should serve men and that we should be their property. Yes they are suck in the 1800s

I’m really glad you make content like this Jamie, I’m an Australian and we recently had this awful “documentary” about people who transitioned as kids detransitioning as adults on TV and even without all the blatantly incorrect information it was so misleading and manipulative. The trans community in Australia is really hurting right now but it’s nice to be reminded that there are good people and accurate sources out there doing the work to fight all that misinformation

@electronics-girl

10 ай бұрын

I heard about that. They used Grace Hyland's picture without her permission. (And a bunch of other trans people, too.)

@timdunn0

10 ай бұрын

@@chrisbfreelance For starters, they used footage of people who have explicitly and repeatedly said "I don't regret transitioning" and claimed "These people regret transitioning". They edited one woman's videos to make it sound like she medically transitioned at age 13, when at that age her transition involved simply wearing a dress and using female pronouns. They also made claims about children as young as 12 transitioning medically with zero backing evidence. They implied children as young as 12 are transitioning surgically, a procedure with is both unavailable in Australia and also illegal - so they've falsely levied vague accusations of a crime against minors against all transgender healthcare. The generous interpretation is that their report was a complete and utter failure of basic fact-checking. The realistic one is that they were deliberately deceptive.

@JoeyThorburn

10 ай бұрын

they also interviewed a clinician who claimed that there was “no evidence to suggest that access to gender affirming care decreased the rates of self-unaliving in trans youth”, which is just a massive lie that you can’t even pretend is supported by the research

@timdunn0

10 ай бұрын

@@trevorchester4439 Even if I were to accept that you're being honest, it's irrelevant. I wasn't talking about that random person. This report lied about specific people, as well as making generalities that your little anecdote doesn't address at all. Come back when you know how to actually address the points people making instead of whatever dumb culture war talking points you pulled from your X-twitter circle-jerks.

3:56 As an ace person, this kind of meme makes no sense. Like, what do you have against someone _not having sex?_ Just goes to show how this whole thing is just selfishness, not standing up for any cohesive principles. 8:46 It's actually quite simple what they believe. You see, they don't see trans people as real people, and therefore don't think any trans people should be allowed to use any public restrooms.

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

Whoop whoop! A fellow ace!

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

Yep, like I've been called a sexual deviant, predator, and told that "it's really concerning you're allowed to work with children" because I'm ace. Like what???? Is sexual attraction a necessary component to be near children???? I'm concerned.

@mjamin9124

10 ай бұрын

​@@waffles3629 i wonder if they have it _so_ incredibly twisted that they think "well, EVERYONE has sexual attraction to SOMEBODY, so if they're admitting they don't have attraction to adults---" but the thing is even that requires an _additional_ leap of logic first because i don't know a single ace person who explains their sexuality as "I'm not sexually attracted to adults" my ace friends say "anyone" is it.... do they think "anyone" only applies to adults? kids aren't people? i don't know

Our church was the final float in the Pride Parade 🏳️‍🌈

There are also trans women who were born with persistent müllerian duct syndrome. For those who do not know what it is this means this AMAB person was born with a uterus fallopian tubes and maybe even ovaries. Even if no ovaries she could get a fertilized egg placed in her uterus via in vetro allowing her to carry a baby.

@dr4-g0n94

10 ай бұрын

Wouldn't they be intersex not AMAB?

@ragnkja

10 ай бұрын

@@dr4-g0n94 The terms “AMAB” and “AFAB” originated with intersex people, because they’ve typically been assigned one or the other at birth, and in most countries they still are (Germany is one of the few exceptions, cf. the “divers” option Jamie was confused by recently).

@HiBuddyyyyyy

10 ай бұрын

Sorry if this is a stupid question, but is it like an intersex thing?

@ragnkja

10 ай бұрын

@@HiBuddyyyyyy Yes, the trans women OP described above are also intersex.

@dr4-g0n94

10 ай бұрын

@@ragnkja oh that's a cool fact! Tho I kinda wish we weren't so gender oriented that we felt the need to assign infants genders even when they don't have a biological one.

7:24 Wait, what;! My entire world is a lie!!! Are cis people unicorns? I mean I think I exist? ... oh never mind, they're admitting we're all a little nonbinary. right?

@husky0098

10 ай бұрын

As a cis person I can confirm that I don't exist

I remember you asking me and dang near all of my friends, and some of my family, if you could write the book. We all agreed it was fine

Cis people don't exist??!! OH GOD PLEASE HELP!! SEND A TRANS EGG MY WAY!! I DON'T WANT TO DISAPPEAR!!!

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

I doopitdy doop alliyism as a veto where you still exist. If you're an ally, you stay

@kiedisboughen5318

10 ай бұрын

​@@Finnley-supports-translivesI keep seeing your comments. You are a gigachad

As a dinosaur I confirm the starting message of this video

@prageruwu69

10 ай бұрын

yoshi trans ally confirmed???? now that i think about it it makes sense, being together with birdo

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

YOSHI IS A TRANS ALLY

@ragnkja

10 ай бұрын

@@prageruwu69 Yoshi lays eggs and is typically referred to as “he/him”, so I don’t think “ally” is the right word.

@prageruwu69

10 ай бұрын

​@@ragnkjahmmm good point

@FatY0shi

10 ай бұрын

​@@ragnkjaour species is... complicated

As a straight, Christian, cis man I support all of you, because believe it or not god has made mistakes too Remember the Noah’s ark story with the whole flood He apologized for that So he could have made a mistake when choosing your gender, but he also allowed ways for people like you to change their gender, because if god created everything then he created the things for you to change your gender Ps the whole line man shall not lay with man is blasphemy, it’s meant to say man shall not lay with boy as in don’t take a child’s innocence

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

You are probably one of the few Christians that have actually bothered studying your scriptures

@lucasmather4837

10 ай бұрын

@@ScarletTiger109 yup you are correct Have a great day friendo

I feel so proud that we're stronger, especially united. that's why I think it's fucked up when queer ppl beat each other up.

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

We gotta stand together

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

I don't get it either. The divisiveness and internal conflict frustrates me to the point of tears sometimes -- because there's no way for me to fully understand it, and no easy solution😞

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

@StopSin would you learn to English for God's sake?

@claudiafoglietta993

10 ай бұрын

@StopSin ok? like it's a flag you're not scaring us. if anything it shows how much you all try to offend us but actually end up spending money on things you're gonna burn or throw away. I'm happy you're wasting your money on something literally no one cares about

We just have to pee. For the record, I'm a cis woman. Now I could even be called an old cis woman. And I started my own personal bathroom revolution when the line to the women's room was soooooooo long, I was 32 weeks pregnant (just before the whale stage), and there was no line at the men's room. You betcha I walked right in there straight to the stall. One man said wth, I said sorry have to pee, not looking. I peed, left the stall, and kept my eyes to myself to wash my hands. After that, I decided we have to pee, we get to jump to the shorter/no que and go for it. Not the royal we, just anyone I happen to be with in the line. A toilet is just a toilet. And I have never been assaulted or felt threatened by anyone in either needlessly gendered restrooms. For the record, I'm bi, always have been since I was a little kid. Terfs can just deal with watching me cut line while they stand there with their legs crossed.

The transphobes are just...incredibly not okay. Not a surprise that the vast majority of them are just screaming in the echo chamber without actually knowing any trans people either, tbh. Also, really looking forward to the book coming out here in a couple of weeks, definitely going to pick up a copy.

@Tachii31

10 ай бұрын

Think I'll take the study that surveyed thousands of people over your comment, thanks. :) @@trevorchester4439

@juniorqindes8335

10 ай бұрын

“People who don’t accept my idea are not ok” why? Other than you’re a bigot who hates those who don’t accept your ideas.

@katyamcadams

10 ай бұрын

​@@juniorqindes8335most transphobes want to kill people. Skill issue.

@katyamcadams

10 ай бұрын

​@@trevorchester4439that has to do with DATING, not general acceptance. Try again nazi

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

@@trevorchester4439so then you’re just an activ antagonist in their lives?

Transphobia is not okay. Ever.

@Robin_hood.100

10 ай бұрын

Exactly

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

Indubitably

@randomperson-11

10 ай бұрын

@@beeblazin42069 Why?

@beeblazin42069

10 ай бұрын

Cuz y'all are weird as shit

@blowinatranny

10 ай бұрын

​@@randomperson-11because it's not real

Thank you Jammi! Thanks for being respectful, wholesome normal guy. Sometimes that's too much to ask for.. Thanks that there are people like you in this messed up, crazy, confusing, dangerous world.

I really love your commentary! I have a problem, maybe you can help me with this. I'm a cis lesbian, and 30 years ago I had to have a medically necessary full hysterectomy. Since the age of 27 I have not been a birthing person, a menstruating person, or a person with a cervix. Does that mean I'm not a woman? I AM SO CONFUSED!!! 😜

@coderamen666

10 ай бұрын

What it means to be a woman is separate from your chromosomes or organs. The transphobes end up being bigoted against elderly and infertile women in their attempts to exclude trans people.

@_StarlightRose_

10 ай бұрын

If you use she/her pronouns, or any other "feminine" pronouns, you are a woman Not really much more to it than that tbh

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

And this is an example of how flawed the arguments made by transphobes are. They can never make their arguments- which they try to base on anatomy- not exclude SOME AMOUNT of cis women.

@HumbleWooper

10 ай бұрын

Yep, plus even if you'd had a "normal" cis reproductive system, and used it to make kids, you would have stopped being a woman when you hit menopause. Since they say there are exactly two genders, male and female. "All" women have periods and the ability to bear children, and grew the organs for it themself without transplants or medical intervention. So /by transphobes' own definitions/ post-menopausal, otherwise healthy, cis women *can no longer be defined as female humans*. Can't be a woman, can't be a man, no other human options because of the only-two-genders rule. So... congrats on your post-humanity or ascension or something, I guess? 👍

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

Yes, you are now a MAN! Time to start CAMPING and OTHER MANLY THINGS! XD

A couple of weeks ago this type of stuff would have scared the shit our of me but now I'm on track to potentially start T before the end of the year and suddenly everything seems brighter. I didn't realise just how much being on the NHS GIC waiting list without knowing where I was in the queue was affecting me but I was evidently in a very dark place. But now I've gone private and, while it is expensive, it is already paying for itself in terms of my mindset and how quickly I'll be able to access healthcare. A few snips to my spending habits and all is well. Your content has kept me going through that dark time and I'm sure I'll continue to enjoy it throughout my transition and for the rest of my life. So thank you Jaime, you really are a beacon of hope for trans people.

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

Congrats!

@maxwilliams2669

10 ай бұрын

Thanks!

Some days I do feel like an Amazon package that's been thrown over a hedge

I think a fun accessory for PUD would be different pride flag eggs! Then you can mix and match! I love the trans flag though 🏳‍⚧

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

I second this!

@PinkPuffball1992

10 ай бұрын

I third this! I realllllly want Pud with a bi flag

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

Eggception!!!! 🥚🥚🥚

Hate is a sign of abandoning your humanity. Transphobes are deeply hateful. They shall never know true mercy, for they don't give it out.

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

It is truly sad. All we can do is continue to spread our own positivity and love. I hope you have a wonderful day! You are amazing, and I am proud of you! Keep it up!

@Am-uj6qn

10 ай бұрын

Hate is a human emotion so being hateful means that you are human. If someone would kill a loved one of yours then you would feel hate, because you are human. Transphobes aren't bad people for hating other people. They are bad people, because they had a stupid reason to hate people and take action to make the lives of those people harder. That is if you are refering to the dictionary definition of the word transphobe. I've seen a lot of people use the word to defend against valid reasoning, because people always seem to accuse people who critisise them of being hateful.

LOVE will always conquer HATE

@katyamcadams

10 ай бұрын

​@@trevorchester4439wrong. Cornell University, Columbia University, National Institutes of Health, Stanford Medicine, and HealthNews

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

@@trevorchester4439do you honestly have nothing better to do than be a jackass? Do you get paid for it?

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

@@trevorchester4439 and you’re allowed to do that, but it doesn’t mean you can have it published as nonfiction

@Aarenby

10 ай бұрын

​@@trevorchester4439I'd belive you are writting a manifesto- seek help

@arturferrao7353

10 ай бұрын

@@trevorchester4439 "Ok but trans women still aren't women. They're men :)" Reality: Transgender individuals (TIs) show brain-structural alterations that differ from their biological sex as well as their perceived gender. To substantiate evidence that the brain structure of TIs differs from male and female, we use a combined multivariate and univariate approach. Gray matter segments resulting from voxel-based morphometry preprocessing of N = 1753 cisgender (CG) healthy participants were used to train (N = 1402) and validate (20% holdout N = 351) a support-vector machine classifying the biological sex. As a second validation, we classified N = 1104 patients with depression. A third validation was performed using the matched CG sample of the transgender women (TW) application sample. Subsequently, the classifier was applied to N = 26 TW. Finally, we compared brain volumes of CG-men, women, and TW-pre/post treatment cross-sex hormone treatment (CHT) in a univariate analysis controlling for sexual orientation, age, and total brain volume. The application of our biological sex classifier to the transgender sample resulted in a significantly lower true positive rate (TPR-male = 56.0%). The TPR did not differ between CG-individuals with (TPR-male = 86.9%) and without depression (TPR-male = 88.5%). The univariate analysis of the transgender application-sample revealed that TW-pre/post treatment show brain-structural differences from CG-women and CG-men in the putamen and insula, as well as the whole-brain analysis. Our results support the hypothesis that brain structure in TW differs from brain structure of their biological sex (male) as well as their perceived gender (female). This finding substantiates evidence that TIs show specific brain-structural alterations leading to a different pattern of brain structure than CG-individuals. Source: neuropsychopharmacology -> Biological sex classification with structural MRI data shows increased misclassification in transgender women

The dinosaur is adorable

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

Pud is SO adorable you're right

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

Not just adorable! Also very awesome! Dinosaurs are awesome, transphobia is not!

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

@@redbirb dinosaurs are amazing awesome special spectacular slaying and beautiful Transphobia is... Ew

I actually find people refusing to use the terms that include "person" to be kinda degrading. Yes, I am a person who menstruates.. Does being AFAB make me not a person? F you, don't deny my personhood. Also, I clearly have amazing, superhuman powers. As a wheelchair user, all public toilets I can use are unisex. Cis men use the same toilet I use, as do cis women, trans folks, enbies, anyone in a wheelchair, really. Despite men peeing in the same room I use to pee, I have yet to find myself in any danger. It's almost as if AMAB folks don't go to the toilet to harm AFAB folks, just to pee and poop. Either that, or I am superhumanly powerful. The transphobes can't be that wrong, can they?

@ragnkja

10 ай бұрын

Same. Whether you group me with women, people who menstruate, people with cervixes, people who have migraines, or any other relevant group depends entirely on what’s relevant in that specific context.

@alchemysaga3745

10 ай бұрын

And even if someone who was AMAB¹ *did* go to the bathroom to cause harm, a sign on the door or a law saying they can't be in that bathroom _isn't going to stop them._ They're already planning on breaking at least one law. They aren't going to go, "Gosh, I was going to break these laws about not causing harm to others, but now this law says I can't go in that bathroom. Guess I have to go home." ¹Not saying that AFAB abusers don't exist, mind. Just that these people always assume that the only person capable of being predatory are those who are AMAB. Which makes the laws they've tried to implement even dumber, because they're just assuming that AFAB abusers don't exist.

@waffles3629

10 ай бұрын

​@@alchemysaga3745 yep, or they say ridiculous things like "Child predators shouldn't be in the bathroom with little girls!!!😠 They should be in the men's room where they belong". Like so you want them in the room with little boys? Uhhhhhh......

@ArtsyKnox25

10 ай бұрын

​@@waffles3629yeah they don't understand how stupid they sound when they say this stuff. 🤦 It's like they want people to get raped and be scarred for life. Smh.

@blowinatranny

10 ай бұрын

If only there was 1 simple word we could use to describe a person who mentruates maybe something as simple as a 5 letter word that begins with a w and ends with a n

If calling non-trans people "cisgender" is offensive, is calling non-gay, non-bi people "heterosexual" also offensive?

@silviasanchez648

10 ай бұрын

I wouldn't find it any more offensive than homosexual... but I don't get offended easily so maybe I'm not the one to say.

@katyamcadams

10 ай бұрын

Ngl, when someone says being called "cis" is offensive, I start calling them "homo", and when they get mad thinking I called them homosexual, I tell them "It's either be called cisgender or homogender, your choice"

@wacawaka1802

10 ай бұрын

Cisgender is offensive because most of the people you consider cisgender don’t go by gender. You are branding them with an idea they choose not to adhere to. That’s bigotry.

@wacawaka1802

10 ай бұрын

@@katyamcadamswhy are you a homophobic bigot?

@katyamcadams

10 ай бұрын

​@@wacawaka1802how am I homophobic, elaborate?

I’m glad you draw a line on what’s fun/important to mock and vent about, and items/quantities of content that get unhealthy or counterproductive to bother yourself with. Taking care of yourself IS taking care of your audience ❤

Jamie can be part of the LGB community but only if he shows up as a bisexual. He has to leave the trans part of himself at home. Obviously!😂

@ninjoshday

10 ай бұрын

I don't think that's how it works...

@Chaos-._

10 ай бұрын

@@ninjoshday Pretty sure it was a joke, because of the cry laugh emoji. That's my hope, at least.

@emdivine

10 ай бұрын

@@Chaos-._ also referring to him with correct pronouns in the same sentence that talks about the "not-trans" part of him 🤣

@poison-LICKTHEPOISON

10 ай бұрын

Aw fuck I left my transness at home ):

@poisonedkilljoy9304

10 ай бұрын

naturally i too shall cut out the trans (and ace!) parts of myself off before attending any community spaces or events again never again shall i walk into my favourite bookshop or cafe as my whole entire self, nor will i darken pride events with my transness and my flags, no, i shall simply only be the bi parts of myself whilst the rest stay at home (/s)

I appreciate your discussion on gender neutral language in the medical sphere, Jamie. I also want to emphasize that it’s for the knowledge and education of all persons as well - someone with a cervix needs routine exams regardless of their gender. Someone with a prostate should start getting routine colonoscopies after a certain age regardless of gender. Stating that only women need one or men need another implies that those who don’t fit that niche may not need that care, which puts them at risk for the health issues that those exams are early detection and prevention for.

@kooskoos1234

10 ай бұрын

@@chrisbfreelance”people shouldn’t get healthcare because i dont like their gender identity” doesn’t sound like something a rational person would say, but go off ig

@electronics-girl

10 ай бұрын

I thought that everyone was supposed to get colonoscopies after a certain age. (Not because they have a prostate, but because they have a colon.)

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

​@@chrisbfreelanceOnce again -- wrong. Certain examinations can be difficult enough to consider, discuss, or try to schedule, and having someone feel called out specifically won't help that trepidation. Your constant attempt at cold logic only reveals what a block of wood you are.

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

@@chrisbfreelance that doesn’t mean that they can’t refer to their patients by their preferred pronouns/name

I am a cis/ace male. Cis, because I am not Trans... ace, because I am not allo... and male, because I am not female. Why is this offensive to ANYONE???

“Cis people: no one gives a shit” - hilarious 😂

I never thought about it before, but if I ever get a trans friend who's going from f to m and they still need OB check ups, I would totally pose as the woman getting the check up so they aren't glared at and don't have to worry about anyone starting anything. I mean, if I was with them and someone tried starting something, I'd push back at the ingrate, but yeah, I would totally help where I could

4:41 I remember this tweet. The astonishing number of people who can’t differentiate between vocabulary and labelling.

@TitularHeroine

10 ай бұрын

Jesus.... That cut right through it. Well said. 😃

Love you Jamie!!💛💛🥔🥔 Can't wait to get my PUD!!🥹🥹

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

Enjoy your Pud :)

Why are the Aces getting thrown out? Fine we won't share our cake with you *folds arms*

@ShinyTillDawn

10 ай бұрын

because transphobes are stupid

Yeah, the first thing just really shows how obvious it is how small the transphobic... community? ...really is. Unfortunately it also helps highlight just how loud they are.

@redbirb

10 ай бұрын

“The emptiest cans make the loudest noise” I forgot who said that but the point still stands

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

it really helps to vocalize their bigotry and make them seem much bigger than they really are when you're being forced to live with transphobic parents

@ragnkja

10 ай бұрын

@@redbirb Shakespeare, among others: “The empty vessel makes the loudest sound.” (From _Henry V,_ act 4, scene 4)

@electronics-girl

10 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, a huge proportion of the transphobic "community" is in media or politics.

@ashercd6487

10 ай бұрын

​@@redbirbi have said this before (on a different video, but still) and i will say it again: this reminds me of a species of monkey that screams, and ones with smaller "Areas" scream louder

I live in Germany and bought your book from Blackwells and recommend that to anyone outside the UK who doesn't want to buy from amazon. Postage is free and you don't have to pay Customs duty either! Rock on.

@home-bodyz

10 ай бұрын

Love me some alternative to amazon 💪💪💪

@berlinorama

10 ай бұрын

@@home-bodyz that is why I mentioned it. I haven't bought anything from amazon in many years.

@sovietdoge.7369

10 ай бұрын

​@@berlinorama I'll have to check that out

When have they been ok? Thats a genuine question. A second question i have is how long will it take for the replies to turn into an arguement? Edit:3 minutes, i suppose i shouldve been more specific with the type of argument. I ment transphobic arguements

@ashercd6487

10 ай бұрын

i will start the argument: Water is wet

@MURDERPILLOW.

10 ай бұрын

​@@ashercd6487NO IT FUCKDIDNDN ISNT

@Finnley-supports-translives

10 ай бұрын

​@@ashercd6487we can't feel "wetness". We feel the change in texture and temperature

@alicebthegachaweirdo8378

10 ай бұрын

@@ashercd6487water makes everything useless

@carolinelabbott2451

10 ай бұрын

​@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 How dare thee. Water is awesome. Next you'll be telling me that tangerines don't belong in a fruit salad.

I think one of the most powerful stats is the one where 75% of young people who are transphobic don’t know a trans person. One of our (collective human) biggest fears is fear of the ‘other’. As one makes their circle bigger their concept of community grows. The ‘other’ gets smaller and the circle of humanity gets a little bigger. This is also called empathy

@frolikswfroggys6416

10 ай бұрын

Well said! Stay empathetic, my lovely friend! You are amazing! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🦖

@puppyqueen5688

9 ай бұрын

It's hard to hate people when you see them as humans, why do you think segrigation is a thing

The woman near the beginning who complained about the gender neutral language and not mentioning that they have a cervix or uterus is certainly *interesting* considering these people love making everything about a trans person's junk. On another note, considering how also unnecessary TERFs are as well, I managed to go on a walk in the countryside recently with my parents and find a bench 8km in with stickers that featured the shitty TERF definition of women and that trans women are 'men' on it. They really do love to insert their 'opinions' even in the middle of fucking nowhere.

Being ace is hard cause you constantly catch stray bullets from people who don't think you exist.

@riley3087

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, people occasionally, and often accidentally, dehumanizing us is starting to get real old.

@FithyOpportunist

10 ай бұрын

It's quite frankly absurd, and proof that they don't actually present any point other than hate.

Quick comment about the scissors meme (the one that cut out the TQIA+).... as an aroace person who's seen some of The Discourse going around, I've noticed that transphobia and aphobia tend to run in the same circles for the most part, so I can't say I'm surprised.

@billybobjoe5947

4 ай бұрын

The interesting thing about it is that transphobes aren't just trying to remove trans people, they're also cutting the other parts off too (everything to the right of the B), so they're invalidating so many different identities on top of being transphobic

For a moment I thought “TERF hate club meeting” was for people who hate TERFS, and honestly.. I’d go.

@Am-uj6qn

10 ай бұрын

You hate terfs, because they exclude trans people I hate terfs, because they are feminists We are not the same

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

@@Am-uj6qnI’m a traditional feminist (wanting equality regardless of sex). This new age “feminism” is mostly poorly disguised misandry

@Am-uj6qn

10 ай бұрын

@@ScarletTiger109 I know tere are different waves of feminism and different types of feminism. I was just trolling. The whole "We are not the same" is a meme.

@ScarletTiger109

10 ай бұрын

@@Am-uj6qn I know

@user-uo8ny1kj4c

10 ай бұрын

@@ScarletTiger109 Based

I will say this about Kellie-Jean: the same protest that featured the Nazis ALSO featured her screaming at the crowd that she was not a feminist (wait, wasn't the whole bit that lesbians were fighting the good feminist fight for representation??), and both featured her saying in another soundbite that she wasn't a Nazi, they just 'happened' to join in...and was later revealed that she hired some of them as bodyguards. Way to go, Posey, you're such an inspiration.

It's so bizarre of that idea that ciswomen have a problem with "men" being in the bathroom because the amount of time these same women would have no problem bringing gay men into their bathrooms 😂. Also getting so mad and oppressed being referred to as a person who gives birth is so hilarious because the same women would say that doesn't makes them a women and that they are more than that 🤔. It's literally saying that's all they are which then again also discredits and disassociate with women who can't give birth or doesn't want to. It also discredits other people that can give birth like nonbinary and like men who are born with a uterus and v. So apparently they are women too?? Seriously these type of women be making women look bad tbh

@duckified.

10 ай бұрын

you got something wrong: transphobic women DO define women as people who can give birth. that's what they base "motherhood" off of. if anything, they SHOULD be happy that we're calling them "people who give birth" because that's ALL THEY THINK A WOMAN IS

@quisait5794

10 ай бұрын

Don’t forget that it’s also not super uncommon for women to use the men’s bathroom when the line is too long, they willingly go into the men’s bathroom but can’t accept a trans woman in theirs for some reason

@starscreamthecruel8026

10 ай бұрын

and what's with this whole: peering under the stall thing? Seriously are people actually doing that? I don't care what you identify as, if you start peering under my toilet stall door, I'm kicking you in the head.

@Mokiefraggle

10 ай бұрын

@@quisait5794 Seriously, this. Like, I've seen women at big venues go "eff it, going to the men's room" when the lines are huge, or dads taking their little girl who's about to pee herself into the men's room because he's worried she's too little to manage by herself (hell, my dad did that when I was out with just him and was little enough he couldn't be sure I'd manage unfastening buttons in time if I was all alone in the ladies' room), or women going into completely gender-neutral washrooms just fine. So, it's okay for them to invade the men's room, for a man to take a small child into a washroom full of adult men, and for women to use a washroom that men may in fact also use, but a ladies' room must in fact be aggressively limited to AFAB people (presumably of only a particular variety, because I can't picture TERFs wanting a fully transitioned trans man who very definitely appears AMAB in their washroom, even if they're in fact biologically female)? Yeah, nope. Y'all don't get to eat your cake and have it too, folks.

@quisait5794

10 ай бұрын

@@Mokiefraggle The classic transphobia of "trans men are men, trans women are also men" seems to be the cool new trend, it’s insane how much femininity is gatekept

As a B who knows many more in LGB can confirm Jaimie got permission from all of us.