The Thing Is, I Stutter: Megan Washington at TEDxSydney 2014

Megan Washington is one of Australia's premier singer/songwriters and in this surprising talk Megan reveals her secret problem. Since childhood, Megan has been afflicted with a stutter which has hampered her ability to communicate. Except when she sings.
Megan also performs a haunting new song, 'To Or Not Let Go', from her yet-to-be-released album. The work is a meditation on the notion of beauty and a fitting follow-up to her highly personal and arresting talk.
Megan Washington is a two-time ARIA Award winner and multi-platinum album seller. The full depth and breadth of Washington's talent is perhaps best demonstrated in her critically acclaimed 'Insomnia' EP which was released in early 2012. Where most artists would have pursued obvious commercial routes, 'Insomnia' presented a darker, more intimate side to Megan's writing.
Megan headlined the Sydney Festival and sold out the Sydney Opera House Main Concert Hall with the ACO before relocating to London to commence work on her upcoming album with Sam Dixon (Sia, Adele). Megan Washington's first new studio recording in more than two years will be released in the second half of 2014.
TEDxSydney is an independently organised event licensed from TED by longtime TEDster, Remo Giuffré (REMO General Store) and organised by his General Thinking network of fellow thinkers and other long time collaborators.
TEDxSydney has become the leading platform and pipeline for the propagation of Australian ideas, creativity, innovation and culture to the rest of the world.
In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)

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  • @OfficialLoopingBeats
    @OfficialLoopingBeats9 жыл бұрын

    I would never have balls to do this! Mad respect for her!

  • @zthreetwo9874

    @zthreetwo9874

    6 жыл бұрын

    My balls aren't strong enough

  • @user-uh2bd3ie8k

    @user-uh2bd3ie8k

    6 жыл бұрын

    yes thunmbs up for her,she is so courageous

  • @kshitizshrestha7119

    @kshitizshrestha7119

    5 жыл бұрын

    You just need mouth strong

  • @Darekia

    @Darekia

    5 жыл бұрын

    maybe because ure a girl

  • @elremarrelyvanwyk9585

    @elremarrelyvanwyk9585

    4 жыл бұрын

    I also wouldn't have the courage to do this...she's now my motivation to try and talk in public

  • @Rajankumar-ly1bt
    @Rajankumar-ly1bt8 жыл бұрын

    I stutter,my brothers stutter,my father stutters,my uncles stutter from both (mother and father) the sides. And the funny thing is my brother in-laws also stutter who have no blood relations with us. Whenever we meet we make it a funny reunion, making fun of each other and nobody gets offended. There are around 10-12 people in my joint family who stutter, whenever we meet we give rankings to each one, one who stutters maximum gets 1st position.

  • @dhavalgedia7872

    @dhavalgedia7872

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats Ausome

  • @rusrs9630

    @rusrs9630

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg thats so fun! I have never met a person who stutters like me its sad

  • @soccerball7828

    @soccerball7828

    5 жыл бұрын

    ಥ‿ಥ

  • @alexalexandra8747

    @alexalexandra8747

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's so sweet and it's awesome that you're being sarcastic about the disease.What I'm trying to say is you're doing exactly what she is doing,she is accepting the stutter as part of her,part of her life and doesn't let that overcome her and her dreams.

  • @Ss-hn5rf

    @Ss-hn5rf

    4 жыл бұрын

    So wholesome🤣🤣

  • @OlivertheJoyboy
    @OlivertheJoyboy8 жыл бұрын

    I have a stutter too so this is super inspirational. Thank you Megan Washington.

  • @CaptainAgario

    @CaptainAgario

    8 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @blvcko5964

    @blvcko5964

    6 жыл бұрын

    in your vids I have never seen you stutter

  • @jimboyacer7267

    @jimboyacer7267

    6 жыл бұрын

    Winner of a video, I've been looking for "do i have a stutter" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Rincaas Stammify Blocker - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

  • @cottontaelle5863

    @cottontaelle5863

    6 жыл бұрын

    heyy ik this comment is A Year Old but do you have any advise for writing a character with a stutter?? idk if i should spell out every stutter or like.. what

  • @mommyallred

    @mommyallred

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oliver the Joyboy same 😭😭😭

  • @GhostOfTiffany
    @GhostOfTiffany9 жыл бұрын

    I have the same problem as her and could feel her tension while she struggled with her words but felt so proud that she was able to get through it. her singing was breathtaking and am glad she was courageous.

  • @Luke47895

    @Luke47895

    9 жыл бұрын

    I remember as a kid (I'm 21 now) public speaking used to terrify me. My stutter was far from the worst but it was bad enough, I felt so humiliated whenever I had to speak in front of the class. People used to openly take the piss out of me to my face about it. I used to respond with anger and I hit a few people who made fun of me. But I realised I was looking at it all wrong. We all face obstacles in life, some much worse than others but my stutter was just another one I had to deal with. As I got older it started to ease off and by the time I was 16 it was virtually gone. Keep your head up things will get better you aren't alone :)

  • @johnathangd

    @johnathangd

    9 жыл бұрын

    are you writing singing right now? because i didn't see you stutter, you lying bitch

  • @GhostOfTiffany

    @GhostOfTiffany

    9 жыл бұрын

    Johnathan Garcia what's wrong with you

  • @rogerahern

    @rogerahern

    9 жыл бұрын

    Johnathan Garcia Jesus man, that's horrible.

  • @sugafoot777

    @sugafoot777

    9 жыл бұрын

    tiffany same here

  • @chrisharwood5448
    @chrisharwood544810 жыл бұрын

    This TED Talk made me teary eyed, being a fellow stutterer... She really nailed it! AWESOME!

  • @mananmaharjan

    @mananmaharjan

    9 жыл бұрын

    awesome .. yah

  • @Kathmandoe

    @Kathmandoe

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same here :)

  • @matthewdebbarma9858

    @matthewdebbarma9858

    6 жыл бұрын

    me too

  • @abhinavgupta9722

    @abhinavgupta9722

    5 жыл бұрын

    Online stuttering training - 918650685442

  • @piecanete7979

    @piecanete7979

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just saw this now and while watching it, I was like crying so hard because I can feel her. This is so heartwarming.😍

  • @pavitra7234
    @pavitra72343 жыл бұрын

    "Singing is the only way I feel so fluent" - God that hit so hard! I sing all the time just to hear myself be so fluent.

  • @Jeni_hehe

    @Jeni_hehe

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here :)

  • @jasto254

    @jasto254

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @judepowell4780

    @judepowell4780

    Жыл бұрын

    High five to that me too.... Something we folks do well.

  • @RACAPE

    @RACAPE

    Жыл бұрын

    Same! I know that my voice is terrible, but I start singing random in the house just to train my mind and my voice to work like that every time.

  • @naveenkumar-mh3rt

    @naveenkumar-mh3rt

    Жыл бұрын

    @ Pavithra Saravanan neenga Tamil ah?

  • @parampreetsingh4524
    @parampreetsingh45247 жыл бұрын

    i stutter too, today i got rejected by 10th organisation because i stutter..but this made me cry and boosted up my confidence..thanku so much

  • @platform-cv6eh

    @platform-cv6eh

    5 жыл бұрын

    Parampreet Singh dont give up

  • @Ss-hn5rf

    @Ss-hn5rf

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bro, tension ni leindi hundi. Appan kandi aa, te appan kandi hi rehna🤘

  • @user-dl1ch3yg5i

    @user-dl1ch3yg5i

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi you're not alone, we are who have stutter we are brave and strong 🌹

  • @namuuntumenzorig6412

    @namuuntumenzorig6412

    3 жыл бұрын

    I stutter too.Dont give up😊✨🙆🏻‍♀️

  • @user-rx8tg6yz4t

    @user-rx8tg6yz4t

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello veer

  • @ameerali5383
    @ameerali53833 жыл бұрын

    Shopkeeper: What's your name? Me who strutter: Aaaaaaa........ Uhm... What did you ask? SK: Your name sir? Me again: aaaaaa.... *Looks sideways* aaaaammm.... SK: *looking at my face* Me: *puts hand on my mouth and forcing the damn words out* aaaaaaaaaammmmerrr... Ameer. Sk: excuse me? I didn't catch it. And the whole process repeats again lol.

  • @sujitgupta7004

    @sujitgupta7004

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha...i thought only i do this..

  • @tarunlohani263

    @tarunlohani263

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha i have being there

  • @offy444

    @offy444

    3 жыл бұрын

    i feel your pain

  • @worme2988

    @worme2988

    3 жыл бұрын

    MEEE TOOO OMG!!!

  • @FirstNameLastName-se8px

    @FirstNameLastName-se8px

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a stutter and when someone asks your name your brain explodes

  • @kyuster90
    @kyuster903 жыл бұрын

    As a stutterer living in Seoul, Korea, I could say that it is pretty much the same as to how people around you react. It's considered not normal and ppl think of it as something that you can casually make fun of. Over the years growing up, I have developed my own ways of not stuttering so I would oftentime look fine. But the truth is that I am spending enormous amount of energy in every moment I speak. Shout out to all the stutterers around the world!!

  • @Ghaid3

    @Ghaid3

    3 жыл бұрын

    I need your method and your own ways

  • @stenyethanmathews945

    @stenyethanmathews945

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. Am Indian, I felt it too growing up Alot of painful memories.

  • @nalbinalbii888

    @nalbinalbii888

    7 ай бұрын

    are you korean? I've never met a korean with a stutter, but I guess stutterers are everywhere! 잘 계세요! 하고 화이팅 !

  • @Darkdreams79
    @Darkdreams795 жыл бұрын

    People who stutter are smarter than others. We are constantly thinking about speaking better while in conversation. So we r not only thinking about the content of the speech but also how to say it. More power to you all.

  • @anibalcampos4626

    @anibalcampos4626

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @satwikarora

    @satwikarora

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much

  • @shubham1234

    @shubham1234

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutey

  • @nevejones

    @nevejones

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you😔

  • @angelrosales901

    @angelrosales901

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, we are I think the same way

  • @adaralexus
    @adaralexus9 жыл бұрын

    This really hit home for me . Recently as a teenager, my stuttering has become very noticeable. When school starts, I start therapy. Seeing how she does the same things I do like word replacement and singing is almost a refuge, makes me feel better about my stuttering. I hope someday people will be more understanding about stuttering. People thought she was drunk. People think I'm not very smart, when in fact, I am the first in my class . I have a 4.0 .

  • @vinamragehlot572

    @vinamragehlot572

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Adara Young i can totally relate to that, even in my branch, being a topper since the start of the session, but the thing that sucks here are the vocal sessions and stupid mass, where i have to teach something to my batch students, or perform a viva,god dammed interviews for recruitment, or even a seminar/presentations, with those topics, that i've literally mastered, and just wish, i had an hour to explain the shit out of those topics without stuttering, and rub it on the student's and teachers face, because they together laugh on my every freakin. stop, they just say, "do you cheat in your written exams or what, you can't even say a word properly about this topic," and stuff like that, if only there was a simulator for those guys, so that they'd know,how it is it walk a mile in these shoes. in this world that is strongly based on communication ,what keeps me goin on are those people who lack the ability to speak, that they have to use sign languages, every time i meet them or watch them, it tears me down, hats off to those people.

  • @neerajserohi2394

    @neerajserohi2394

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hope you are doing fine now!

  • @picsbackup6746

    @picsbackup6746

    3 жыл бұрын

    Relatable i also stutter ...but I m topper ...in India there is a exam called JEE MAIN. and I got a rank of 10k out of 1Million aspirants (top1%)

  • @vyaas_v

    @vyaas_v

    Жыл бұрын

    @@picsbackup6746 Congratulations! That is amazing!

  • @RAHULSINGH-rk8nq

    @RAHULSINGH-rk8nq

    Жыл бұрын

    That's amazing..

  • @ashton9699
    @ashton9699 Жыл бұрын

    5:42 perhaps little did she know that just a few years later, she would use that very voice to play the role of none other than, a very serene kindergarten teacher.

  • @RaySunnyday

    @RaySunnyday

    25 күн бұрын

    Just wanted you to know that your comment make me double check the video title and had an realization

  • @nileyfan1998
    @nileyfan19988 жыл бұрын

    Never saw a person who had the same style of stutter as me. Cause people say "you stutter?" And they think it's not a big deal with this kind. But it is cause they don't know how it is until they live with it....like its so frustrating especially when ur a actress or performer when u have to speak

  • @muhammadnasif1496

    @muhammadnasif1496

    8 жыл бұрын

    +nileyfan1998 what kind of stuttering do you have?

  • @nileyfan1998

    @nileyfan1998

    8 жыл бұрын

    nasif fitri Basically I can say a whole sentense. But some words I get stuck on and if I can't avoid it then I use 'blocking' (a stuttering term) and the say the word lol. In these documentrys most people stutter serverley but not like this.

  • @ohpedro1

    @ohpedro1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too. My style of stutter =)

  • @apandanamedleo2123

    @apandanamedleo2123

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can totally agree to that. I stutter only with some letters or words. And I have never met anyone who stutters at all

  • @duquantran3795

    @duquantran3795

    4 жыл бұрын

    nileyfan1998 damn.. same here.. I always get stuck in the letters of S - or St- and some words I cannot specifically expect and no matter how hard I try, i stutter btw when I was watching this vid I cried a lot 😭

  • @The_Wandering_Nerd
    @The_Wandering_Nerd Жыл бұрын

    5:24 Oh, so that's how she got the job as Calypso on Bluey :)

  • @Hbw113
    @Hbw1139 жыл бұрын

    Her courage to speak in front of all them people is admirable. I have the type of stutter where I 'block' on words and nothing comes out. Very annoying but with practise, I believe a stutter is something that CAN be overcome. Never give up!

  • @iWolfy103

    @iWolfy103

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ben Wallington Same!! I don't stutter but when words start with certain letters, such as all vowels and some other letters, my mind blocks me from saying that word..it is very frustrating and I get bad anxiety when teachers start calling on students randomly and when I have to present a speech

  • @aur.sanne77

    @aur.sanne77

    2 жыл бұрын

    I block on words too. Ffs

  • @brenenfn5020

    @brenenfn5020

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@iWolfy103 yeah presenting is the absolute worst😭 But I’ve noticed I’ve gotten way better as I got older

  • @ActionTube-mk4ns

    @ActionTube-mk4ns

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@brenenfn5020 i have a block to but i do go though it ?

  • @tickledonions9483

    @tickledonions9483

    Жыл бұрын

    it's all about restructuring how you speak

  • @alejandrointhetux9938
    @alejandrointhetux99389 жыл бұрын

    As a stutterer myself, she's absolutely right about those "ST", they get me everytime. This really got me teared eyed as I also struggled with his problem along with alot of you in the comment section. I hope we'll all overcome in time

  • @ksilofo

    @ksilofo

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello how is your stutter now?

  • @Ben-gt5px

    @Ben-gt5px

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ksilofo As someone that stutters, and always have been. Thats not how this works. He was using hopeful thinking. Its life long.

  • @bosgotnojams
    @bosgotnojams5 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful person.

  • @mohitdwivedi6386
    @mohitdwivedi63869 жыл бұрын

    I am a stammerer. U need guts to accept who are. And once you do that, there is no turning back. The life is your stage and you are the performer. Give your best shot and show the world who you are. Hats Off Megan !!!!

  • @kathleenwalsh8522
    @kathleenwalsh8522Ай бұрын

    After fifty years tonight I accepted my stutter tonight and I have been looking up who stutters - she said everything I feel and how I handle it too. Thank you

  • @VequahHD
    @VequahHD9 жыл бұрын

    I also have a stutter I had my most worst experiences in middle school but now no one really cares about it and it's hard for me to read out loud in class because I stutter on almost every word it's frustrating and embarrassing I just wish I can speak more fluently and not get nervous when I talk to people or girls especially but glad to see this women come out strong :)

  • @shadone3682

    @shadone3682

    8 жыл бұрын

    Listen, man there's nothing to be embarrassed about. I live my life on the principle of "it's not embarrassing if you're not embarrassed" you need to embrace every single part of you and just say to yourself, "this is who I am, and I am brilliant" once you believe what you're saying when you say that, there's nothing you can't do. Have a great day!

  • @ojwestwood

    @ojwestwood

    8 жыл бұрын

    +akaVequah Keep your head up. If you haven't heard of the McGuire Programme, do a search on it. I have 2 videos uploaded on my channel showing a before and after of my speech. Best thing i have done in my life. Im not 'cured' but i am very happy, articulate and always working on and improving my speech.

  • @bahaaal-sharif3778

    @bahaaal-sharif3778

    8 жыл бұрын

    hello , my friend :) i advice you to read "understanding and controlling stuttering " for d.william good luck , and i wish you the vest :)

  • @diypro233
    @diypro2335 жыл бұрын

    This is truly inspirational. I have struggled with my stutter for 34years, tried so many therapies, watched so many videos, used anxiolytics. Now I have admitted it's who I am. I wish I could speak fluently like everyone else (actually, I feel jealous when I hear people speak fluently). I am an intensivist working in the UK, but sometimes I feel i would achieve more if I knew how to speak better. It hurts when you know the right words to use but you had to replace it because you knew you were going to have a block. I have never spoken to anyone about these challenges because I feel no one would understand. I do hope we get a cure one day, I really do. But until then we keep working hard and dreaming big.

  • @OfoeNelson

    @OfoeNelson

    Жыл бұрын

    You've heard this before but try to add this twist. Speak very slow then speak very fast. See which one you feel more comfortable with and which produces more fluency. Now pick that and stick with it since this is now your identity and this has nothing to do with your age. You can reinvent yourself at any age. No matter how uncomfortable it might feel or how much people laugh or stifle their laughter just keep it at it because now you have fluency on your own terms. And once people listen and hear you speak and make sense no matter how fast or slow they'll accept and respect you eventually. Just get over yourself and do it. Doing it and sticking with it is the hardest part

  • @lucyintheskywithdiamonds91

    @lucyintheskywithdiamonds91

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @firebowl1
    @firebowl17 жыл бұрын

    Hello guys, I am 30 years old stutterer since childhood. I found out that talking to group of people makes my speech better. As much as i speak to people my speach becomes more fluent. Maybe we can create a group and we can make video conferences and by that way everyone can talk to group of people. Maybe this can help to make our speeches better.

  • @mykolakuleshov926

    @mykolakuleshov926

    7 жыл бұрын

    i was looking for that specific group but havent found nothing so far.

  • @kal-el6035

    @kal-el6035

    7 жыл бұрын

    Check reddit /r/stutter they have like a group thing where you can skype each other.

  • @Larry-sv2fx

    @Larry-sv2fx

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thats an awesome idea. I also have a stutter. Add AdamusSoul on skype and please write here if you do, otherwise i wont log in there. Thanks

  • @ankitchaudhary1282

    @ankitchaudhary1282

    7 жыл бұрын

    Any progress guys? i would also like to join 🤔

  • @muzammiljavedshaikh2903

    @muzammiljavedshaikh2903

    7 жыл бұрын

    Someone Instagram me so that we can discuss about this stutter @_PlainBlackTs

  • @yusukeigarashi1584
    @yusukeigarashi15849 жыл бұрын

    Hm.. I'm a Japanese teenager who have stutter like her, to me that speech was really impressive and just awesome, that I can't find appropriate words to compliment haha. Mine is not as bad as hers, but I'm also the one who shares those struggles among stutterers. The thing is, I recently think that if there wasn't stutter I have, I wouldn't be who I am right now. On that point, I don't hate my stutter itself. What I don't feel well is, the moment I have to speak in front of people, I mean a lot of people, and start stuttering, and realising the all audiences are looking at me like "what the hell is going on in him?" And I'm like, "well nothing's going on but stuttering, what is it with you people?" Before I heard this speech, I wasn't so afraid of being known myself as a stutterer because it will be known as so eventually... just let it be.

  • @platform-cv6eh

    @platform-cv6eh

    5 жыл бұрын

    yusuke igarashi i teared your precise

  • @eburnsid3168

    @eburnsid3168

    3 жыл бұрын

    自分も吃音持ちの高校生です!英語うまいですね。バカなんで最後のbeforeがよくわからなかったけど笑

  • @webba0000000069
    @webba00000000699 жыл бұрын

    As a life long stutterer this really hit home. For much of my life singing was the only way I could communicate. That and word replacement just like she says. It is nice to see someone else who has the same exact problem. Good for her.

  • @Xilotl

    @Xilotl

    7 жыл бұрын

    Mine for life too. I do the same. I never talk at school and I get really ashamed at myself when I talk to people (even family) because I sometimes can't say what I want, so I say nothing at all.

  • @Xilotl

    @Xilotl

    7 жыл бұрын

    It cost my group grades when we had to do group projects because I usually always have the right answer and I can't bring myself forth to say that what they have is wrong.

  • @loveshell6945

    @loveshell6945

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Xilotl I’m so sorry. I have been through this many times. It’s painful!

  • @oldenvye6432
    @oldenvye643210 жыл бұрын

    Finally, a TEDx talk that is brilliant.

  • @WumpInterviews

    @WumpInterviews

    Жыл бұрын

    cap

  • @my69mind

    @my69mind

    6 ай бұрын

    What name the song

  • @tamaldas9216
    @tamaldas92168 жыл бұрын

    Megan Washington you became my inspiration.... thank you for that....

  • @WhateverIsTrue01
    @WhateverIsTrue019 жыл бұрын

    I am seriously in awe of this articulate, wise, beautiful, and incredibly talented young woman!

  • @1permil.comremovestutteron427

    @1permil.comremovestutteron427

    8 жыл бұрын

    She seems as great person. She mentioned changing hard words with easy words, but that's bad idea on the longer period. Every time she avoid certain word, it becomes a little harder to say it next time. Over the years it could slowly develop to big problem.

  • @jayz2484
    @jayz24847 жыл бұрын

    hello guys to those who stutter, is it exhausting? cause watching her talk looks like stuttering takes so much of your energy. i hope i dont offend anyone im just asking a question.

  • @mcelroynat

    @mcelroynat

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jay Z All of you wants to say a word that you just can't. The more you force the word out the harder the word fights back. It is tiring for your vocal cords and emotionally draining.

  • @shash3391

    @shash3391

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jay Z imagine you wanna say something and it just gets stuck on the tip of your tongue just stuck there with your mouth twitching everywhere. In a nutshell, is exhausting af to even speak for 5 mins straight... Speaking as a fellow stutter myself. Tho I only stutter with hard letters like M's, T's, D's.

  • @whodinijonas6411

    @whodinijonas6411

    7 жыл бұрын

    it's like forcing words out of your mouth and through that you sometimes run out of breath .

  • @ja9marije

    @ja9marije

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jay Z yes it is very exhausting 😂 good question btw!

  • @purechi_

    @purechi_

    7 жыл бұрын

    It's like trying to reach something with your hand and falling, then getting back up to take it.

  • @westside786asy
    @westside786asy9 жыл бұрын

    The worst thing I have with stuttering is saying yesterday. I'll be like "You know y-yeeeeeeeeeeeee (recurring)". But when talking to people I try to avoid saying yesterday and say the day of the week but if I stutter on that also, I just say "the day before today", which sounds so ridiculous!

  • @DDogg43777

    @DDogg43777

    9 жыл бұрын

    XD I find it funny, because I have trouble with the word "today"... Similar scenario, but instead I say, "The day after yesterday," or, "the day before tomorrow." Damn, I laugh at myself, but it is ridiculously annoying and stressful.

  • @westside786asy

    @westside786asy

    9 жыл бұрын

    DDogg43777 Lmao! The day after yesterday! People must get so confused when talking to you!

  • @ichiro1717

    @ichiro1717

    6 жыл бұрын

    Devonic i too have the most difficulty with saying "today"!!! I have to pausr and slowly say "today" but even then i may still studder...

  • @tomylim6022

    @tomylim6022

    6 жыл бұрын

    I stuck with words starting with B's and D's the most

  • @theacestop7805

    @theacestop7805

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tomylim6022 me with A s and B s ...my name starts with an A ,so i ruin everything at the beginning, which sucks.

  • @aprilk2858
    @aprilk285810 жыл бұрын

    Very honest, lovely, talented girl x

  • @rachnarajan7780
    @rachnarajan77808 жыл бұрын

    seeing her I feel so proud.. and I also stutter but my type is different, my mouth arches in different shape at that time it's purely devastating.... but everybody says that they don't stutter while singing but hell I stutter even when I sing... hate this thing...!!! but I am trying my best to overcome it.. wish everyone good luck with their quest. !!!

  • @rajasingh2425

    @rajasingh2425

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Rachna Rajan the worst part of stuttering is,when you are not able to say your name .my first name is kumar and i have problem in saying k .it feels embrassing but again u cant let something ruin your life .so i am trying to work it out .and i have understood that the best remedy is self confidence

  • @balakrishnantp9958

    @balakrishnantp9958

    6 жыл бұрын

    Rachna Rajan hi

  • @kushalsharma5381

    @kushalsharma5381

    5 жыл бұрын

    Keep it going...Good Luck

  • @dhavalgedia7872

    @dhavalgedia7872

    5 жыл бұрын

    Can We do Some task Like Giving Task To eachother To Overcome Over Every situation of Our life And Be Open To evey circumstance if You Intrest Den DM me Or Reply Me i Will Connect You

  • @zainhottson7393

    @zainhottson7393

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rajasingh2425 nuhh.. the worst thing is it's heridetry.

  • @davesolemnmon6020
    @davesolemnmon60207 жыл бұрын

    As a stutterer myself, oftentimes severe where I just choose not to speak, this was comforting and inspirational. Thank you Megan

  • @OzDracula
    @OzDracula9 жыл бұрын

    I used to stutter as bad as that, maybe worse. After taking medication for anxiety and working retail for over 5 years where I had to talk to complete strangers... well it's 99% gone. I rarely ever stutter now and when I do it's usually just the once.

  • @shadone3682

    @shadone3682

    8 жыл бұрын

    That's good to hear. I hope your stutter is gone for good now and may you have all the opportunities that every human being should get. Have a nice day!

  • @1permil.comremovestutteron427

    @1permil.comremovestutteron427

    8 жыл бұрын

    +RedKobra It could be problem with side effects of drugs, especially on longer period. Notice that they are not anti-stuttering drugs, but anti-anxiety drugs. So, they help with anxiety and then as a consequence you stutter less. So, you can work on anxiety on many different and healthier ways to get same results, non?

  • @OzDracula

    @OzDracula

    8 жыл бұрын

    1PerMil Stuttering Therapy After several years on medication for anxiety, I completely stopped taking it for two years. Even then, I still had over 95% less stuttering than before I started taking it. It's Mirtazapine just in case anyone is wondering.

  • @1permil.comremovestutteron427

    @1permil.comremovestutteron427

    8 жыл бұрын

    +RedKobra Please accept that 95% less is great. So called fluent people also have blocks and repeat words occasionally (They are fluent 96-98% of time). But, they usually don't even notice it. It is not part of their reality. So, to completely get rid of stuttering you also have to accept your own imperfection. Don't ask for 100% fluency because nobody else can get it anyway.

  • @OzDracula

    @OzDracula

    8 жыл бұрын

    +1PerMil.com Remove Stutter Online I don't think fluent people have a *block* in the same way that someone who stutters has a block. It is not as simple as an error in thought or pronunciation, it's a form of speech anxiety that temporarily produces an inability to use normal speech processes. It can some times be detected in advance as an anxiety spike associated with a word. The only way to get around it is to avoid words where that happens. The down side with word avoidance is that you're forced to construct sentences that make you seem unintelligent. :/

  • @nowiknowishallnotsee30
    @nowiknowishallnotsee304 жыл бұрын

    My wife has a stutter, and I hate when people give her odd looks when she gets stuck on a word. She says that it doesn’t even bother her anymore, but it pains me to see. If you have a stutter, it doesn’t take away from who you are and never should. The people that judge those who stutter are the ones at fault. If you have a stutter (or any unique trait, for that matter), you are just as valid as everyone else is.

  • @shotgun1739
    @shotgun17398 жыл бұрын

    such an inspiration.... I come here once in a while to be motivated watching her stutter, and to know that shit is okay

  • @Kardash_xx
    @Kardash_xx9 жыл бұрын

    She is exactly like me. I also hate how at some moments (usually when I'm by myself) I talk perfectly fine, then when I'm around others my speech impediment is active. At school we have to do a speech task but hopefully I'll be getting special provisions.

  • @aman_s_96

    @aman_s_96

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's a special form of social anxiety.

  • @kini699
    @kini6994 жыл бұрын

    I love her, the way she can actually joke about her own stutter is really encouraging, its nothing to be ashamed of and m trying to take it this way too. 🤗

  • @ktee5998
    @ktee59983 жыл бұрын

    I'm a stutter... everything she said is 100% related to me. Sometimes I feel very down because I stutter; it has a great negative impact on my life. I'm an Engineer who graduated with a 3.97 GPA, and I'm still struggling to find a job because they consider it poor communication skills. There are many nights I cry myself to sleep, wishing I can speak normally like everybody else.

  • @ghostofsparta48

    @ghostofsparta48

    2 жыл бұрын

    So did you find any job??

  • @pierreduchesne0001
    @pierreduchesne00013 жыл бұрын

    Still watching this seven years later in 2021, with the same emotions.

  • @kylie9587
    @kylie95878 жыл бұрын

    I'm 27 and I speak exactly the same! I have trouble with S's and my own name, K's and hard C's and M's, but the sounds and words change all the time so my word changes have to happen instantly, so it gets pretty tiring. Mine was extremely bad when I was in primary school where every second word was unsayable and a nightmare in high school, but it has improved a bit since then. I also understand completely about how you feel inadequate because stuttering like you do isn't as bad as it could be, like people who stutter worse or people with cancer or no hands, and how you feel that when you 'grow up' everything will be better and it will go away. I always feel like people think I'm stupid and maybe a bit retarded, and I can't always contradict them because I can't say exactly what I mean. Not being able to communicate effectively is so hard because it's everywhere all the time and you can't run away or make it magically disappear. ~To anyone who thinks switching words shouldn't be done because it can cause long term problems, or that's stuttering is cute, or it's 'just fear and just talking too fast, and you should meditate and chill out and breathe more, talk slower' (comments I receive from well-meaning people).. unless you are dealing with exactly that and you do only stutter when you're afraid or talk too fast and you do have some fetish with speech impediments, you should keep your opinions to yourself. I understand it's complicated to understand and many people want to encourage and sound helpful, but it makes me angry, especially one fella saying he thought it was 'cute' when I stuttered, although I realise he was just trying to get in my pants. Also, switching words is a life saver in a world full of shame and fear and I personally don't care about my future when I'm dealing with difficult speech right now.I think you're a wonderfully brave person to stand up like that. Thank you for taking the time to be so honest about something that feels, for me, like it should be covered up and blocked out all the time. I hope anyone else dealing with this, no matter how little or how extreme, can take comfort and strength from watching this video and reading the supportive comments from all you lovely people and I truly hope everyone can be as brave as you and ride out the tough times. :)

  • @calisthenicsandfruit7467

    @calisthenicsandfruit7467

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Cerri Fae look into etalon :)

  • @kylie9587

    @kylie9587

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Calisthenics and Fruit Will do, cheers :)

  • @calisthenicsandfruit7467

    @calisthenicsandfruit7467

    8 жыл бұрын

    Cerri Fae That's awesome, please let me know your thoughts :)

  • @KristapsKarlsons

    @KristapsKarlsons

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Cerri Fae K sucks. :/

  • @kylie9587

    @kylie9587

    8 жыл бұрын

    +youngfool3000-- Thank you :) It means a lot

  • @boris5891
    @boris58913 жыл бұрын

    What an intelligent and kind person! I love you, Megan. Let's go get'em, my stuttering brothers and sisters!

  • @aoihana1042
    @aoihana10428 жыл бұрын

    I'm 23 and i have a stutter ever since i've known myself. I get this sense of comraderie when I see other stutterers. And I definitely use the word replacement loophole.

  • @photojunkiefl1
    @photojunkiefl14 жыл бұрын

    Hi Megan, Thanks for doing this TedTalk. I'm twice your age and have lived through everything you talked about. The worst for me was talking to girls, or trying to hide the fact that I stuttered only to find out that the high school band did a cheer song called’ ”Let's Talk Like John”. Kids can be cruel, but adults can be just as bad. Today, stuttering is less of a stigma for us. Even young kids know what it is to stutter and so when you have a stuttering moment, they actually pause to let you finish. But it still doesn't help us when we have to get through all of those embarrassing moments in our life. I'm single again and although I am more fluent than I was as a young man, it is an anxiety-filled moment when I have to speak to someone who I like for the first time. Love your voice and the song you sang on TedTalk. I will start looking for a concert near me in the East Tennessee area and for your music on Amazon. You have an amazing talent. John Paul M.

  • @sophielee8181
    @sophielee818110 ай бұрын

    She is awesome, I never understood how when someone sings, their accent disappears, and so does their stutter. It's so cool and yet such a mystery. She was amazing thank you for sharing

  • @lcottrell3
    @lcottrell36 жыл бұрын

    My life story, thank you Megan.

  • @loveshell6945
    @loveshell69453 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love her. I stutter too and it’s so painful sometimes. Lately it hit’s so damn hard. I’m downloading her on iTunes right now! What a strong woman. 🥰

  • @Ghaid3

    @Ghaid3

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you getting better?

  • @ilzj

    @ilzj

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Ghaid3 ع حسب اذا كان في حل خخ

  • @brianbarnicle7253
    @brianbarnicle72539 жыл бұрын

    Not sure which is more inspiring, the bravery of her talk, or the beauty of her song. Either way, I am glad she provided both. An amazing woman.

  • @NigerianBaller
    @NigerianBaller3 жыл бұрын

    I stutter as well, it was terrible when I was younger. I hated doing any talking at all, but as I got older I embraced it and it eventually got better. I'm starting to learn what triggers it. When I want to say something too fast, I start to stammer. I have to relax myself, slow down, and think of what I'm going to say before I say it. Because when I read out loud, I don't stammer at all, so when I'm speaking, I pretend like I'm reading and my words come out more smoothly. So for anyone that stutters, don't hate it, embrace it, it's part of who you are and it always will be. It what makes you unique.

  • @yasmeenkaram9780

    @yasmeenkaram9780

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯💪👍 big thanks i feel u

  • @SamVikings
    @SamVikings8 жыл бұрын

    I stutter when I'm upset or nervous or while crying... as a result I avoid talking to anyone whenever I'm emotionally hurt, I don't get to share my feelings with people 😢😔

  • @ivaxchho6086

    @ivaxchho6086

    8 жыл бұрын

    Ik this is 5 months old, but don't worry I'm with you. Whenever I'm nervous I stutter and completely mess up everything😢

  • @SamVikings

    @SamVikings

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Ivaxchho I'm glad to see there are others like me... I feel ya 😞

  • @xXtuscanator22Xx

    @xXtuscanator22Xx

    7 жыл бұрын

    +SamVikings this is old but I'm with you! when I'm nervous my stutter just takes control. and I wanna be an actor! but I just don't know how it's gonna work.

  • @boustanisami7513

    @boustanisami7513

    4 жыл бұрын

    same here

  • @etashshaikh7358

    @etashshaikh7358

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tommy Berger, don’t let stutter define you

  • @jessiehayes1679
    @jessiehayes16799 жыл бұрын

    I stutter too and its very hard to get me to talk to people cause I hate stuttering and the hurry it up looks I get from people.

  • @yeahwhatever8179

    @yeahwhatever8179

    9 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to feeling time pressure as well. There's nothing more stressful and frustrating than the sense of defeat by not being able to express yourself the way you want to. The simplest response to questions become a daunting task of just being able to speak clearly.

  • @jessiehayes1679

    @jessiehayes1679

    9 жыл бұрын

    yup

  • @wowawewah

    @wowawewah

    9 жыл бұрын

    It happens mostly to me when I say my name.

  • @jessiehayes1679

    @jessiehayes1679

    9 жыл бұрын

    me too, and words with "s"

  • @coolbrett

    @coolbrett

    9 жыл бұрын

    Jessie, I stutter too. Much worse than the woman in this video. I feel like I'm being hurried up as well, but I think that's just all in my head, cos I'm so embarrassed and I just want to get it over with as soon as possible. There's no rush when talking to people. Even if they do want you to hurry up, just remember you don't have to. Just relax and speak as slow as you want to, if it helps get it out right.

  • @sumaiyaansari8536
    @sumaiyaansari8536 Жыл бұрын

    i love how despite this she got up and started talking. stuttering is physically draining. after a while, you VISIBLY get tired of speaking and your throat actually hurts. i am a stutterer and i don't mind that i do. i don't really care when people laugh at me for this, but sometimes it builds up and it gets me. i cant explain how happy it makes me that she is brave enough to talk in front of such huge audience. keep going!

  • @thomascussans9844
    @thomascussans9844 Жыл бұрын

    She is seriously brave, seriously smart. The terrible point about any stutter is that it is as painful for the listeners as it is for the speaker. To confront her demons in this way, to lay herself bare, to confront, to admit, to tell the the truth, is wholly admirable. I love her. Because she is truthful. What a gal she is. Just wonderful.

  • @mckennamartin8049
    @mckennamartin80495 жыл бұрын

    I personally have a stutter and it impacts me on a daily basis, I feel like I can’t express my feelings, when I go to a restaurant I have to avoid ordering certain things because I know I just can’t say them. When people ask me what my name is my jaw begins to clench because I know I just can’t say it. The worst thing is when people imitate what I say and laugh as if I can help it or when people start to look away it just shows impatience and doesn’t help at all to the stutterer.

  • @hendy553

    @hendy553

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel u I go through the same thing

  • @manipurivlogs9555
    @manipurivlogs95553 жыл бұрын

    I have stutter too and this makes me feel confident and motivated,lots of love to this lady...❤

  • @JohnAckerman93

    @JohnAckerman93

    9 ай бұрын

    I too have a stutter. I have been working so hard to control it. This video makes me confident and motivated to stop stuttering, and control my speech

  • @Vivekpalplays
    @Vivekpalplays4 жыл бұрын

    She has guts. People made fun of me in my class including my teachers. It was just so bizarre. I felt so bad that once I was so ashamed But then I got away with it. Now I am watching this I almost cried because people doesn't understand the pain and struggle we go through. Respect her man.

  • @flowingfluency6090
    @flowingfluency60906 жыл бұрын

    Awesomely inspirational. Thanks to all who put forth effort to share this with the world!

  • @NickMcC
    @NickMcC9 жыл бұрын

    I'm a stutterer as well. I have my degree in music performance - and I totally confirm what she's saying about performing versus speaking. Not a singer, but I did my share of it in college. I never stutter when I sing and I'm not nervous on stage. I really admire her for seizing the opportunity to do this. It's nice to know that others have the same struggle.

  • @AliVanSickle
    @AliVanSickle8 жыл бұрын

    I love this video so much. You're so beautiful and have so much courage to get up there and speak. I have a stutter too and would be so nervous to do this. You handled it very well!!

  • @dudedude5843

    @dudedude5843

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Ali. VanSickle any solution u find ? it might help me too. thank u

  • @smilechynwa

    @smilechynwa

    8 жыл бұрын

    Try talking slower. It really works. My dad kinda made me start doing that when I was younger and now I can control my stutter when I want to. So naturally I stutter (a whole lot, like even stamping my feet or clamping my fist just to talk) at home but when I am at school or some public place I get away with people not even knowing that I stutter at all. Trust me just start it little by little. If you feel a stutter coming just pause for a sec or 2 secs and try to say the word as slow as possible. It really does work.

  • @notahater9473

    @notahater9473

    8 жыл бұрын

    +JMJ4life yep it does help my dad helped me too.

  • @dudedude5843

    @dudedude5843

    8 жыл бұрын

    +JMJ4life thank u Bro, I will try to do that. my first language is Arabic which I stutter a lot in it. but when I speak English I don't stutter alot I don't know why.i noticed than when I put my earphone and play music and I talk I don't stutter, I feel like hearing my own voice makes me stutter, like when I talk to myself I don't. but with people I do. elhamduleallah

  • @Bravo1486

    @Bravo1486

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yeah she did well

  • @pankajbhandari4180
    @pankajbhandari4180 Жыл бұрын

    Brave girl, she also sing very nice. You are the inspiration for not limiting yourself being a stutter.

  • @lulusmum1
    @lulusmum110 жыл бұрын

    Megan, one word - brilliant. Thank you for being so accessible, so human, so vulnerable and so brave. I will proudly offer your TED talk to my daughter, and your voice is absolutely beautiful.

  • @lauran.9427
    @lauran.94277 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this!! My son who is about to be 10 has stuttering issues and I can't tell you how much I appreciate your kindness for sharing this!

  • @tonyjohnsen3160
    @tonyjohnsen31603 жыл бұрын

    She is so brave and so so charming, despite AND because of her stuttering

  • @jennyphan800
    @jennyphan800 Жыл бұрын

    I also stutter as well, and this speech is so inspirational. She is so brave to go up to talk in front of all of the people :)

  • @abolacadernos7164

    @abolacadernos7164

    11 ай бұрын

    Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking & WSSA program will help if you diligently immerse yourself in the authors methods. I’ve improved massively from it and I hope the same for you.

  • @topYTenjoyer
    @topYTenjoyer Жыл бұрын

    2017 when I first listened to this on Ted Radio Hour. I was 18. It completed changed my attitude to my stuttering. Inspired me to accept it as a quality instead of a curse. Now I hardly stutter and when I do I'm okay with it. Thank you Megan, much love! And your music is amazing ❤️

  • @nalbinalbii888

    @nalbinalbii888

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy for you

  • @hanimk4105
    @hanimk41055 жыл бұрын

    Everytime I feel down, I watch your Video. Thank you.

  • @awakenyourprowess9542
    @awakenyourprowess95429 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful and brave speech she made. I think it is very apt to think of Stutterers/Stammerers as "blocked creatives" People who have so much to say or share, but for the fear of stuttering in front of others they hold it all back. There is a really good book I recommend regarding stuttering. Its free and let me know if you want a link to it. Best wishes to all.

  • @paolo3779

    @paolo3779

    9 жыл бұрын

    Hey what's the book called??

  • @alchemy1888

    @alchemy1888

    9 жыл бұрын

    Paolo Newell Its called "Speech is a River" If you can't find it, send me an email at heartgent@gmail.com and I will send you the pdf. I would really appreciate your thoughts and feedback after you have gone over the book. Best wishes, Farooq

  • @amalmoukanni1223
    @amalmoukanni12235 жыл бұрын

    I stutter too and to see her overcome her fear and speak to a crowd like that inspires me so much thank you Meghan ❤️

  • @stephenkellogg4366
    @stephenkellogg43668 жыл бұрын

    Phenomenal person... thank you, Megan. Sincerely... Very touching and inspiring through horrible times...and better things for for us all! You touched my heart!

  • @thedeathstar420
    @thedeathstar4203 жыл бұрын

    imagine having this and your parents blame you for not practicing enough, your friends make fun of you and the teacher says no one will hire me. Yeah.. high school was a nightmare.

  • @gddfx8513

    @gddfx8513

    3 жыл бұрын

    where do you work now?

  • @thedeathstar420

    @thedeathstar420

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gddfx8513 I'm a CS PhD student :)

  • @marcolagovini971

    @marcolagovini971

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry man :(

  • @theacestop7805

    @theacestop7805

    2 жыл бұрын

    oh im sorry man :(( my parents werent tight on me but if i had a teacher who did said such thing ,bruh im gonna make her get fired the very next second . but i remember one of my closest friend laughing at me infront of the class. which still kills me a million times.

  • @xXtuscanator22Xx
    @xXtuscanator22Xx7 жыл бұрын

    This touched me because I have a stutter too and I wanna be an actor but I just believe I can't do it. Since my stutter becomes worse when I'm nervous. Even though my stutter is SUPER small like it's only on L,M, and T's but it doesn't even happen with those all too much.

  • @wurkout765

    @wurkout765

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tommy Berger i want to be an actor and i have a stutter but we still have to pursue our dreams no matter what

  • @eribertomacias744

    @eribertomacias744

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tommy Berger Bruce Willis is a stutter and a great actor.

  • @hamzatatheer

    @hamzatatheer

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wurk Out Hey man!! I have a dramatics play at my school. I am potreying a shy person who cant talk to girls. For that i need to slutter so can you please tell me the easiest way to fake slutter like exactly what letters to repeat (play in different language) If you are a good actor, i hope, any ideas on how to act a guy who cant look straight into girl and is totally nervous. Should i constantly show nervous smile or what :p any response appreciated :)

  • @xXtuscanator22Xx

    @xXtuscanator22Xx

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hamza Tatheer Well most people get stuck on certain letters when they stutter. So just pretend to get stuck on certain words. But don't repeat the normal sounding letter like don't repeat the "L" sound in LUNCH a bunch of times before saying the "unch" part. Do like a long lasting "L" sound and incorporated "Un" in lunch into that long lasting L sound. And for acting nervous try talking to your crush if you have one and then imitate that.

  • @purechi_

    @purechi_

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tommy Berger I can't even read to my peers at school.. Every time it's my time to read, it just feels like my heart is going to come out of my chest. This is why I'm always scared to my English lessons.. I need help :(

  • @speechnirvana
    @speechnirvana2 жыл бұрын

    A delicate balance of self deprecation, gentle humour, honesty, vulnerability, courage. I try and struggle to find the right words to describe my problem and I never quite get there. Megan explains to me what I'm doing so beautifully and eloquently. Thank you..55 years a stutterer and still trying to figure it out

  • @nickeyludkins7839
    @nickeyludkins783910 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Megan for sharing your story. As the mother of a six year old with a severe stutter who has a HUGE personality it is heart warming to hear your story and know he will find his way in this world, stutter and all. Your music is beautiful, and made even more special with what you have overcome to get there. I wish you every success with your music and look forward to following your progress.

  • @avilesnba
    @avilesnba8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Megan, like seriously, thank you

  • @johnjacobs1781
    @johnjacobs17816 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to learn new languages, I wanted to talk to new people but this problem never let me. This Ted talk made me cry. Stammering is really bad. No one should have this problem.

  • @karinacabrera17

    @karinacabrera17

    5 жыл бұрын

    Colby Covington I’ve struggled with issue since childhood and now through adulthood and everything you said is exactly how I feel! It’s like a curse

  • @abdallahhacks8942

    @abdallahhacks8942

    5 жыл бұрын

    Colby Covington very true bro

  • @soccerball7828

    @soccerball7828

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha I'm learning French, French is Soo hard to pronounce. I just finished French 1 we had no talking only writing, listing and reading but next year in French 2 we have to talk ಥ‿ಥ I don't know what I'm going to do ಥ_ಥ

  • @abdallahhacks8942

    @abdallahhacks8942

    5 жыл бұрын

    Soccer Ball don't worry bro. Just be yourself and embrace your stutter. Everything will be okay and people less care about your stutter than you think they do. Try practicing on your close friend or family member too it helps with the confidence! You're not alone bro

  • @rustybaskey9506
    @rustybaskey95066 жыл бұрын

    I've stuttered over 40 years. After havin 2 mini strokes, it's only gotten worse. Life goes on!!!!

  • @rustybaskey9506

    @rustybaskey9506

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here!!

  • @lwsrider
    @lwsrider2 жыл бұрын

    It takes courage to do what she did. Absolutely great! Something else happens when she sings. Not only does the stutter disappear, but so does the accent! Congratulations, Megan!

  • @howtoplaywithfire
    @howtoplaywithfire9 жыл бұрын

    I have a stutter as well. It's funny how many of these things I do...

  • @34luko

    @34luko

    9 жыл бұрын

    Hold your head up high champ, I too have battled a stutter all my life.

  • @ourcity6122

    @ourcity6122

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah man.. Same here ..sometimes words just remain stucked in my mouth while trying to say it.. But still gotta carry on...

  • @theacestop7805

    @theacestop7805

    2 жыл бұрын

    hy its been 6 yrs since u uploaded this comment..how are u doing with ur stutter now? (2021)

  • @winiver77
    @winiver776 жыл бұрын

    Wow loved this so funny .. I stutter too and sing and i felt every block. Very brave to go before such a big audience! Well done.

  • @catarinisa
    @catarinisa5 жыл бұрын

    You are BIG, Megan Washington! Cannot tell you how much I was touched and how much I cried.

  • @shengjiema6377
    @shengjiema63777 жыл бұрын

    As a stutter, this video resonates every single struggling memory that I had for public stutter. However, I still cannot embrace myself. She is very brave and encouraging, hats off to her. Wish I can overcome the fear one day.

  • @krugger911
    @krugger91110 жыл бұрын

    i am genuinely in love with this girl. adorable enough as it is, but i honestly thing the stutter makes her even more freakin cute.

  • @user-zs5of5en5o
    @user-zs5of5en5o9 жыл бұрын

    I love ted tv lol. It's always good to see that I am not the only one. Even though I am much more fluent now to the point that many don' t even know that I stutter, but I always put it out there first chance I get. It makes me comfortable, and calms me down. It can be lonely being a stutterer, specially when growing up. Today I look at other stutterers as my brothers and sisters. As a teen I was so embarrassed about it. Oh well, I wrote enough lol. Again, amazing video and I love Ted Tv!

  • @triton7654
    @triton765410 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful. The speech and the song.

  • @austinmckinney787
    @austinmckinney7874 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best Ted talks I have seen. I myself have a stutter and have had it for my whole life. Every time that I am in school and a teacher asks me a question, it takes about 20 seconds for me to say anything back. Also another thing that is very hard for me is when someone calls role. When a teacher calls my name, I can't say here and sometimes it takes me minutes to be able to say it. I think she did great because if I get in front of people, I can't even get a word to come out of my mouth. Great job!

  • @user-ji4ee8tr4x
    @user-ji4ee8tr4x4 жыл бұрын

    I'm Japanese, and I've learned English for long time. I'm always in fear to stutter when I speak English. Of course, I have problem when I speak Japanese as well. But I have much more stress when I speak English than Japanese. As I want teacher and classmates to praise my speaking skills, I feel I must do well. so, I always frustrated myself , and I stumble every time.

  • @allysanimalchannel
    @allysanimalchannel7 жыл бұрын

    Great speech! This will be the perfect thing to share on Facebook for Stuttering Awareness Day (October 22nd) :)

  • @emmarisby

    @emmarisby

    7 жыл бұрын

    I didn't know that was a thing!! All I know is that is Ray Bradbury's birthday. The next time is that's date, I'm going to harass all my friends and make them stutter, so they sound like me. (((*°▽°*)八(*°▽°*))) xD

  • @kakkarotx7467
    @kakkarotx74674 жыл бұрын

    I couldn't even think of confessing my stuttering like this way!! SHE HAS SOME BALLS!!! Something about her, her personality inspires me soo much and make me believe, that despite being a stutter myself, i can live a good, normal life like others!! Thank you Megan !!💜💜

  • @beccrowley3251
    @beccrowley32518 жыл бұрын

    I adore Megan Washington. So talented, funny, down-to-earth and kind. Much respect for the courage she showed by doing this!

  • @Arcticcfoxx
    @Arcticcfoxx9 жыл бұрын

    It may seem trivial at times how desperately we may try to communicate a thought or an idea to another human being. Just moments before it was like trying to move a stonewall stuttering constantly, the next moment it can go as smoothly as butter. For me stuttering is not terribly detrimental in everyday hear say conversation. It happens, it inconveniences people so what. I've done it all my life and you learn to deal with it, just like anything else. Hell I've even done public speaking regular as a president of a club in high school and had to speak publicly during meetings on different issues. Wasn't easy but you eventually get through it. What is terribly detrimental about stuttering are those moments when you desperately want to tell your crush or loved one exactly how you feel in the exact word choice you have in your head and find it impossible. Not only is it stressful because you are confessing a deep profound passion to someone, which is difficult on its own, but you have stuttering on top of it. Which in my experience tends to magnify to near comprehensible speech levels when stressed. And what is even more detrimental is the damning hit to self confidence you receive. It manifest to the point where you know that you won't stutter in this instance but the constant fear of it always being there, it silences you. If there is one moment where I could remove my stuttering from the experience it would be during those moments. To be unable to coalesce your feelings to the person you love, and let them know how you feel in a charged moment is simply damning to me. I'd rather have my stuttering magnified 10 fold in every other situation if I could have just those few moments inhibition free. It really is taken for granted how simple the act of conveying a deep sense of understanding to another person is. And its painful to not be able to tell those you love them without them thinking you sound like your second guessing yourself all the way through and to steadily feel your scrounged up confidence ebb away each time...

  • @mistypeek3581
    @mistypeek35816 жыл бұрын

    When the teacher is taking attendance and when they call your name it’s a long pause........h.........he............here!

  • @arhamami4872
    @arhamami48722 жыл бұрын

    made me cry, relatable

  • @penandpaint
    @penandpaint10 жыл бұрын

    Megan, thank you for being vulnerable to a global audience when you could have easily 'stayed within your strengths'. It was extremely inspirational to have heard you talk and to know this is something you constantly face as an artist.

  • @danielduck2114
    @danielduck21146 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad I came across this video. She is so brave!! I have stuttered all my life and do everything she mentioned. I replaced words at the last minute to get through. So far in my research, I've found two things. One that our minds aren't programmed correctly because of a past traumatic experience. The other is our breathing patterns aren't right for speech. So far I have seen there is no medicine or way to change our brains to work properly regarding speech. But I've also seen people beat stuttering using different ways. I hope one day more research will be done and find a cure for all of us! Life would be so much easier. I feel like my stutter holds me back from what I could be socially and in the workplace.

  • @jo100
    @jo100 Жыл бұрын

    I have been Stuttering since I was 3 years old, and looking for a cure for my Stuttering disorder for real.

  • @abolacadernos7164

    @abolacadernos7164

    11 ай бұрын

    Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering and Love Speaking & WSSA program will help if you diligently immerse yourself in the authors methods. I’ve improved massively from it and I hope the same for you. All the best.

  • @jo100

    @jo100

    11 ай бұрын

    @@abolacadernos7164 Thank you for saying that 😊

  • @abolacadernos7164

    @abolacadernos7164

    11 ай бұрын

    @@jo100 Absolutely. I managed to see more improvement in his book and program in 2-3 months than I did in nearly a year of speech therapy. I hope you can become the latest success story to the program. All the best.

  • @YiduYang-ex1uy
    @YiduYang-ex1uy2 ай бұрын

    I stutter exactly like her, but I personally would never have the courage to speak out in public in front of all those people، but she nailed it, I can tell that this is what we call facing your fears, and we only live once so why not? I would be proud of myself if I could do something like this, but what hurts more according to my experience is living or being surrounded by people who do not understand your stutter, and this is what automatically makes you feel uncomfortable, which increases your stress and stutters more, but I unfortunately stutter even when I sing and I can't really find an explanation for this, this woman showed me how strong she is and made me feel her positive and loving energy, I adored the lyrics of the song she sang and the music, thanks for this sharing this.

  • @artdeluxe5625
    @artdeluxe56256 жыл бұрын

    That actually made me cry ......that was magnificent! God bless! Let’s all be human!

  • @camelCased
    @camelCased9 жыл бұрын

    She's singing so good, that the video itself started stuttering during her song.

  • @MaddieDeeS
    @MaddieDeeS7 жыл бұрын

    I stutter too. Ever since I was really young. When I went in to kindergarten. I am in 7th now.

  • @BubblyBrunette84
    @BubblyBrunette846 жыл бұрын

    As a fellow stutterer I enjoyed this. And I do hate that I stutter but tonight my son told me he loved me just the way I am. It made me cry. I have up until tonight hated how I talked and tried to hide how I talk but all this time my son and daughter have seen me just as I am. Perfect in their eyes. It made me cry but happy tears. No more hiding it. I did enjoy this ted talk. Ty

  • @LexMulderX
    @LexMulderX6 жыл бұрын

    Those weird things in the brain... Her story, her example, her grace and her voice, for many of us is simply inspiration. *Thank you very much, Meg!* *God Bless You!* ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤