The Sex Expert: How To Seduce Anyone & Build Confidence (Stirling Cooper)

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TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Intro
01:24 Why Should People Listen To You?
02:10 Are People More Open To Talking About Sex Now?
04:25 This Is A BIG Problem For Guys
08:35 Why Relationships Become Sexless
14:28 This HACK Will Improve Your Sex Life
20:28 Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder
21:43 Common Things Guys Ask Me As A Sex Coach
31:24 How porn Is filmed
36:30 How To Please Your Partner
38:04 How To Last Longer In Bed
46:53 This Is Why You NEED To Dirty Talk
55:14 Don't Have Your Girl Call You Daddy
56:52 These Guys Live Among Us...
59:53 Why We're In A Sex Recession
1:03:17 This Is Why You Need To Face Rejection
1:07:26 Stirling Cooper's First Breakup
1:10:21 How To Spot Your Girl Cheating
1:14:03 How Dating Apps Impact Relationships
1:15:38 Why Getting Girls Is Marketing
1:24:50 Can Monogamy Work In 2023?
1:26:30 There's Different Types Of Girlfriend
1:30:40 Why Cheating Is Sometimes Okay
1:36:28 When Marketing Goes Too Far
1:38:12 Stirlings Parting Advice
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  • @KristinCasey
    @KristinCasey3 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad you mentioned Reverse Kegels! As a certified sexuality counselor I found that most of my premature ejaculation clients benefited more from Reverse Kegels than regular Kegels. This is because oftentimes PE can be caused by overly tight pelvic floor muscles, so relaxing them is more important than strengthening them in those cases (since solely doing regular Kegels can cause excessive tension, exacerbating PE)

  • @d3sigN8t3dDruNk
    @d3sigN8t3dDruNk4 ай бұрын

    Kye had some big balls to admit some of his issues in front of all these viewers. Props to you man. That bravery will help someone watching this.

  • @yohannesdemile6309
    @yohannesdemile63095 ай бұрын

    sterling's wisdom is unmatched

  • @Jaylionad
    @Jaylionad5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the wisdom 🙏🏽

  • @Topstreet808
    @Topstreet8082 ай бұрын

    Great guest guy’s, very informative podcast 👍🏼

  • @brandonhiggins1394
    @brandonhiggins13944 ай бұрын

    I almost Never learn anything from these types of podcasts but this one is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @AxelAxe

    @AxelAxe

    4 ай бұрын

    I see a different wave of content coming this year where people are actually going to start making good content that really helps people instead of u=just doing crazy things for views

  • @akshaybande4836
    @akshaybande48365 ай бұрын

    Absolute gem of a podcast guys, you guys are humble and on point. This podcast is going to be big mark my words.

  • @DION_LIVE

    @DION_LIVE

    5 ай бұрын

    Good stuff

  • @geminiblue6677
    @geminiblue66774 ай бұрын

    This advice is sound, positive and makes sense.

  • @Christian-xv5bj
    @Christian-xv5bj2 ай бұрын

    very cool episode! especially the generational gap is awesome. We are improving, guys!

  • @addzrma
    @addzrma4 ай бұрын

    I like the interview, especially the honesty from Stirling Cooper, because like a woman I like to know the mens point of view. If I know this things sooner I would have better relationships.

  • @bornchaserldn2185
    @bornchaserldn21855 ай бұрын

    Let's not forget, if the man isn't her 1ST choice & she doesn't genuinely LUST for that man. Sex will ALWAYS die.

  • @Motivationplanet886
    @Motivationplanet8866 ай бұрын

    Kai “she wouldn’t laugh at me because I wouldn’t have that” that geezer cracks me up

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    5 ай бұрын

    🫡

  • @a7xfanben
    @a7xfanben5 ай бұрын

    Good useful info!

  • @romaaaf
    @romaaafАй бұрын

    I can’t get enough of Stirling 😍

  • @frankiefrankster
    @frankiefrankster6 ай бұрын

    😂 loved this brill job guys

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    6 ай бұрын

    ❤️

  • @thatboyhash1992
    @thatboyhash19926 ай бұрын

    Stirling is the man. Bring on Brandon Carter next. you guys have been absolutely crushing it tho, love all the new pods.

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks man, glad to hear you're enjoying the episodes! Stirling did a great job here.

  • @davidedc1

    @davidedc1

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Strikeitbigbring Luke Belmar in!

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    6 ай бұрын

    It's coming... Sooner than you think

  • @finley2003

    @finley2003

    6 ай бұрын

    Facts they need Brandon Carter on ASAP

  • @akshaybande4836

    @akshaybande4836

    5 ай бұрын

    Totally agree, get Brandon in he will come if you ask humbly

  • @KD400_
    @KD400_5 ай бұрын

    Around 6 minutes thats y i love stirling hes honest about his past job. Takes a strong man to admit that u did a job for selfish reasons.

  • @forwardever

    @forwardever

    5 ай бұрын

    I wouldn’t say it’s a strength.

  • @Wolf-dn7uo

    @Wolf-dn7uo

    5 ай бұрын

    i would argue honesty is a strength

  • @sha6077
    @sha607719 күн бұрын

    59:25 stirling laugh it's my favourite thing😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ThorMaximus
    @ThorMaximus2 ай бұрын

    38:06 - When you’re younger (early 20s) & especially inexperienced; I recommend doing what I did - “empty” yourself beforehand. At that age, your refactoring period is short & my performance & her satisfaction increased! Never do so prior to BJs - and never settle for woman who doesn’t swallow. If she says she doesn’t, it means she doesn’t with YOU. You may have to level up, but this is non-negotiable. The more experienced you are, the less you’ll have this issue, but here’s key things: When she does the “let me get comfortable thing” first, and you don’t get to it right away even when you both know you’re going to-she’s ruining it for you both. She wants to feel like it’s a certain way, she’s not just there for that, and it’s stupid. You’re building up a lot of sexual tension & unlikely to last as long round one anyway, so get to it first! You can do a lot in between round 2 that makes her feel loved, etc., and round 2 is more pleasurable anyway. Heck, I’ve made it a point that it’s sex first, then go out on date, have fun, come back, the anticipation will still be there.

  • @samuela.b.1589
    @samuela.b.15894 ай бұрын

    That was some S-class advice from Stirling

  • @TheCurtisdavies

    @TheCurtisdavies

    4 ай бұрын

    why? are you a virgin?

  • @shaynalynn3500

    @shaynalynn3500

    3 ай бұрын

    Women are not thinking oh I'm humiliated. If my man cheats HE should be humiliated that he lost an amazing women. If you can't be with one woman then don't be w one at all and go be a whore. So messed up. Sex is SUPPOSED to be about love and emotional. This dude is a narcissist

  • @KiKi-te9yd
    @KiKi-te9yd5 ай бұрын

    Just to clarify .. as a woman, being cheated on isntb about embarrassment... its that I can't trust you. That woman... once she finds out her husband has been screwing around all that time, she will be devastated and it will affect her relationships going forward. Cheating is selfish and cruel.

  • @idontluvppl

    @idontluvppl

    5 ай бұрын

    In addition to trust broken it brings risk into a marriage such as: STDs (especially if he is doing one night stands), if one of those women ends up pregnant, if he hits one psycho chick that in itself could put his whole family in serious danger. Also, I would be willing to bet money that the wife does know, & may even have her own side piece as a way of getting back at this husband of hers.

  • @aureum7479

    @aureum7479

    3 ай бұрын

    Cheating shows you lack self restraint and control

  • @KiKi-te9yd

    @KiKi-te9yd

    3 ай бұрын

    @@aureum7479 correct

  • @ThorMaximus

    @ThorMaximus

    2 ай бұрын

    No. There’s 3 kinds of cheating: 1. The only “real” cheating from man to woman, with his wallet. Money & resources are what women value the most in men, it’s not the only thing, but it’s such a must-have baked-in requirement, when it’s allocated away from one woman to another, that’s where it hurts. 2. When the woman isn’t taking care of her man, and rationing it out, using as a weapon, or not engaging at all. This isn’t even cheating anymore, because when the woman isn’t even valuing her man enough to provide to him what is most important & should please them both, she’s given up the right to expect monogamy. 3. You’re going into it with unrealistic expectations: if he’s high value enough, you’re going to share. Granted this is a low percentage of men, but you know he’s got a lot of other women pursuing him, he’s going to do it. You accept it as it’s done with discretion & you’re the chosen one he wants, and you get the benefits that come with it. She’s just variety, and probably doing what you won’t. Theres an old axiom, keep his stomach full & balls empty. Sadly, ya’ll can’t cook & don’t think you need to drink it down (no spitting), and that entitlement & ego is why he gets it elsewhere.

  • @ThorMaximus

    @ThorMaximus

    2 ай бұрын

    @@aureum7479Or you’re not doing your job, and you’ve just let him go out with a loaded gun because you don’t care to empty it. Mirror. Look. It’s you.

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley76525 ай бұрын

    56:45 - This is why I laugh out loud anytime I watch Kindergarten Cop and Arnold says, "Who is your daddy...and what does he do?" 🤣

  • @zerocool321
    @zerocool3215 ай бұрын

    What supplements did Sterling mention in the pod? I was driving and didn't look at the timestamp. The one about clearing out the arteries?

  • @VannApragal
    @VannApragal5 ай бұрын

    Dirty talk works best when you speak your true feelings, exactly what you want to do to her in your wildest dreams. And the best part would be when you actually do that.

  • @VannApragal

    @VannApragal

    5 ай бұрын

    If you copy someone else like a rap song or an erotic novel, then words do not match actions, and she will have a hard time finishing off.

  • @red2g

    @red2g

    4 ай бұрын

    This is true, because when I called my ex girl a B for acting out, she hated it. Ohhh yeaaaa but when we do it "oh yea papi im your little bitch" or i'll just go "yea bitch take it" things like that. Every girl different tho fellas She was jealous and accusational, do not stick around for that shit.

  • @smith899
    @smith8995 ай бұрын

    18:54 No! We do NOT need emotional roller coasters! Jez! My husband and I are happy with our calm life!

  • @turnerburner922

    @turnerburner922

    4 ай бұрын

    Did you have your father in your life? That personality typically only exists in women with fathers

  • @dr.strange6458

    @dr.strange6458

    4 ай бұрын

    u r n denial

  • @camdowg

    @camdowg

    4 ай бұрын

    Read the art of seduction. Yes y’all do. But thanks for giving your personal experience and applying it to all women.

  • @smith899

    @smith899

    4 ай бұрын

    @@turnerburner922 Yes.

  • @smith899

    @smith899

    4 ай бұрын

    @@dr.strange6458 Well, then my adorable husband of 32 years and I will continue to enjoy our deluded, calm life.

  • @Stataze
    @Stataze3 ай бұрын

    I think of Bob Proudfoot my IT teacher frim 20 years ago.

  • @soydansogukcesme470
    @soydansogukcesme4704 ай бұрын

    i like this kinda stuff from stirling more then when he goes to these manosphere channels.

  • @AxelAxe

    @AxelAxe

    4 ай бұрын

    I think there is a big shift in content this last year. We are getting the best of the internet to become less crazy and more down to earth.

  • @dionne681
    @dionne6814 ай бұрын

    Dude is very knowledgeable about the human body

  • @gardendaisy
    @gardendaisy2 ай бұрын

    Regarding virecose veins. Is there anything that makes them disappear besides injecting them out? On the legs. Thx

  • @natural0318
    @natural03184 ай бұрын

    I have opposite problem of 1:02:25. Text game very weak, but in person on a date almost always it ends up good. I been on dating apps but could never arrange a date.

  • @AxelAxe

    @AxelAxe

    4 ай бұрын

    Need to work on you pictures and your social media.

  • @globbo843
    @globbo8435 ай бұрын

    when the rep pod dropping

  • @Mercury688
    @Mercury6885 ай бұрын

    I started working out and my husband started working out harder so I wouldn’t “pass him up”🤣🤣

  • @MSAVAGETALES

    @MSAVAGETALES

    4 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @veshenoy

    @veshenoy

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @jimj2683
    @jimj26835 ай бұрын

    There are not more fat people because we stopped shaming fat people. There are more fat people because everything has sugar and there are fewer natural ways to exercise (walking to work and moving at work etc).

  • @boykidmanboykidman5420

    @boykidmanboykidman5420

    5 ай бұрын

    Sugar and carbs, has turned everyone fat!! And it also has a heavy effect on the mind, i got lucky being able to eat as much of anything i wanted without gaining weight, but i started experimenting with diet a couple years ago and its insane how much of an effect it has on the mind and body, for me carnivore is the best way to go, animal products, things with as few ingredients as possible, no caffeine. I have all the energy i need and my body feels relaxed and powerful and pain free

  • @beloastropena7236
    @beloastropena72362 ай бұрын

    I love the conversation, very informative, could you help me with a solution to my coming right from the get go? I'm 35 and I've had sex with condom pretty much whole my life and only recently, approximately a couple of years ago I started to have sex without condom and it's where my problem starts, I come right the moment of penetration. Any tips? Thanks in advance.

  • @Al7amdulilah
    @Al7amdulilah6 ай бұрын

    Polygyny is the answer,messing with ‘side women’ isn’t right though

  • @kissmorem756
    @kissmorem7564 ай бұрын

    I didn’t understand what he said about cleaning your arteries can someone explain what he said you need to do….🙏 from 22:40

  • @AxelAxe

    @AxelAxe

    4 ай бұрын

    Your diet and fitness makes a he difference in your performance in the bedroom

  • @evianx1
    @evianx15 ай бұрын

    Almost found out what supplements for diminishing prolactin but the hosts had to interrupt

  • @queensiri22

    @queensiri22

    2 ай бұрын

    Cabergoline, my refractory period has been so low that I have had multiple orgasms. It comes with its cons of course, check it out though I enjoy it.

  • @x_silencio_x385
    @x_silencio_x3855 ай бұрын

    What is elobe?

  • @JohnQPublic345
    @JohnQPublic3455 ай бұрын

    Back in the late 70s, we'd look at playboy. When penthouse came out.....woooahhh.

  • @dan11thehands
    @dan11thehands5 ай бұрын

    I got along very good with that woman and the sx we both said was amazing very often and for hours but she walked away saying i took her for granted yes my fault but wasnt major i know some will say move on but when you get along well and the sx is so good what can i tell her to get her back ! No there is no third partie we know some of the same people...does anyone as a good line ! Something good to make her come back Thx 😋

  • @bryan8734
    @bryan87346 ай бұрын

    This podcast had me dying 😂

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    6 ай бұрын

    Honestly bro, same 😂 I'm glad you enjoyed it as much as we did! - Kye

  • @pops1082
    @pops10826 ай бұрын

    59:48 I don’t understand Australian accent what he said High _________ ceo ?

  • @Ferelmakina

    @Ferelmakina

    5 ай бұрын

    High-power CEOs

  • @letsgoitgamingtime9689
    @letsgoitgamingtime96895 ай бұрын

    I'll be honest I used to watch your podcast all the time but now it's nothing to do with finance

  • @ivanrvzo1022
    @ivanrvzo10225 ай бұрын

    I don’t think they asked a question regarding vasectomy. 😅

  • @buttonpetrelli
    @buttonpetrelli5 ай бұрын

    22:30

  • @mitchellking7697
    @mitchellking76975 ай бұрын

    This guy sounds like his accent turns Texan constantly

  • @eddieabbott370
    @eddieabbott3704 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KingTuar8
    @KingTuar85 ай бұрын

    Social media should be banned!

  • @lestwins8114

    @lestwins8114

    5 ай бұрын

    No

  • @veronicacurry3877
    @veronicacurry38774 ай бұрын

    What about what a guy wants? 😊

  • @yamed1254
    @yamed12545 ай бұрын

    God

  • @Sup3riorr
    @Sup3riorr5 ай бұрын

    at 5:00 is exactly what has happened with instragram and women overall, they are half naked doing "fitness" or just showing their bodies. i don't find them slightest interesting anymore. Back in the days 1990 ish as a guy you had to freaking be a master on deception and have a silver tongue just to be able to see apair of panties. now they throw it for free

  • @Hn1alum_P4saltha
    @Hn1alum_P4saltha4 ай бұрын

    This is what Christian Tate be teaching with a crazy scacasm 😆like cosuming sigarette/whiskey for post work out I mean it's funny but still make some sense like rewarding system shit n staying consistent not necessary sharply robatic displine.

  • @Native_Man123
    @Native_Man1234 ай бұрын

    Ephesians 5:25-26 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy".

  • @ronaldchannel

    @ronaldchannel

    4 ай бұрын

    lol. Where is the part of the wife??😂

  • @elisatseng6286
    @elisatseng62866 ай бұрын

    Think the Tate brothers introduced Stirling as a former Porn Star?! How did he transitioned from an ex porn star to a relationship or sex expert?

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    6 ай бұрын

    Practice makes perfect

  • @KD400_

    @KD400_

    5 ай бұрын

    What type of question is that lol. He stopped because he wanted to help men overcome their sexual problems. Plus porn is bad like he says all the time. I had an addiction and it destroys u

  • @smith899
    @smith8995 ай бұрын

    34:51 WHAT? Really? I think he would make a good neighbor, but I could not date/marry a porn star.

  • @SyedAhmed-lv3kh
    @SyedAhmed-lv3kh5 ай бұрын

    Get Hassan Haider

  • @B97NvN
    @B97NvN5 ай бұрын

    1:17:56 that’s bullshit

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname20323 ай бұрын

    That's why I don't want a long term relationship

  • @aidaperez5801
    @aidaperez58015 ай бұрын

    Latinos/Spanish we call papi to our men …I have kids and I do it …I don’t see a problem in that.

  • @user-by1rw9mp1n

    @user-by1rw9mp1n

    5 ай бұрын

    not that common in Spain. It would feel weird to me to be called "papi" by a chick... as well as my friends

  • @johnneil14
    @johnneil146 ай бұрын

    What's that apostrophe in the thumbnail?

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    6 ай бұрын

    Good spot, all fixed!

  • @mhuntprofessional
    @mhuntprofessional3 ай бұрын

    Weird take here, and i don't know how to prime this to make it clear this opinion isnt some chest-pounding self-appointed alpha silliness. I think its super gross when guys have to either schedule OR ask for sex in a relationship. And the reason for me is that if you have to negotiate for it, you haven't EARNED it. If you inspire the feelings in her that make her desire it, you never have to ask. And the right time is whenever you can MAKE time. Otherwise you just turn an expression of passionate connection into another chore like laundry.

  • @ms.p8211

    @ms.p8211

    Ай бұрын

    Yes. You are correct. Women are a crock pot, men are a microwave. You must turn her on in the morning, stir her up several times during the day and then dinner will be amazing. But if you didn’t do your due diligence it is going to be trash for everyone involved. Begging and negotiating without turning on the heat means you all are going to be eating some uncooked flavorless food.

  • @ms.p8211

    @ms.p8211

    Ай бұрын

    In other words, flirt and be romantic even with your wife of 20 years.

  • @mhuntprofessional

    @mhuntprofessional

    Ай бұрын

    @@ms.p8211 I LOVE that analogy and am absolutely stealing it 😂 But basically you summed it all up way better than I could have. Never stop flirting. 😁

  • @DSN0W39
    @DSN0W395 ай бұрын

    Our lives are to busy now. Your worked to death trying to pay the bills and people are stressed out.

  • @lastdaytommorrows6604
    @lastdaytommorrows66046 ай бұрын

    I am basically mute so for me I apreciate porn since I will die never talking to anyone let alone women. Born not being social is the worst type of existence. Why would you want men to just worship another human, there's no true loyalty, we are the generation of imaturity

  • @mendyourhome

    @mendyourhome

    5 ай бұрын

    Nobody is born that way it's practice. Get a job that forces you to do it, then get another and another and it will just happen naturally. Even if it's part time. It's very easy to unlearn those skills if you isolate yourself

  • @assassin7250

    @assassin7250

    5 ай бұрын

    Just go find hobbies, get a job, go to bar(21 u get a lot opportunities) but also porn is what makes you don’t wanna socialize.. it’s powerful and it can destroy you. I know how it feels. Start taking disciplinary action 🤞🏽

  • @Joy-op3je

    @Joy-op3je

    5 ай бұрын

    I was once in ur shoes kinda, got a job and now I’m independent, have my own car, I still struggle but im working on getting better

  • @ramtha1973

    @ramtha1973

    4 ай бұрын

    38:50 U can talk to mute women in sign language. Your sexual attitude is in, find it. And go after those sex mute ladies. Not being able to use ur voice does not mean life stops there. Go after it, and become the man U want to become. 0 excuses, do😊 it.

  • @clinton4161

    @clinton4161

    4 ай бұрын

    What do you mean by not being born social? Why do you feel that way? Social skills can be learned and anxiety can be overcome with mindfulness and exposure.

  • @recobadota9571
    @recobadota95716 ай бұрын

    The dad is suspiciously missing from this episode 😒

  • @gregjohnstone9795

    @gregjohnstone9795

    6 ай бұрын

    WoooooooooooHOoooooooooooooooooooooo

  • @sadiislam2794
    @sadiislam27942 ай бұрын

    these guys will never get girls after these public podcast

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    2 ай бұрын

    We have girls mate 👊

  • @sadiislam2794

    @sadiislam2794

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Strikeitbig unsatisfied girls 🤣

  • @grose93alexander67
    @grose93alexander675 ай бұрын

    Stirling accent is half American half British. I don’t get it lol

  • @MrBrunicardi

    @MrBrunicardi

    4 ай бұрын

    It’s called Australian mate

  • @hettijayne
    @hettijayne5 ай бұрын

    I think there should also be a female present in this conversation to have a females point of view on this.

  • @AxelAxe

    @AxelAxe

    4 ай бұрын

    Very true. I would love to interview a female expert. Who would you recommend?

  • @RadioIlluminaticom
    @RadioIlluminaticom6 ай бұрын

    A guy shouldn't sleep with other women, if he is in a relationship. I think, it is because, he isn't having a deep mental connection with his gf.

  • @johnneil14

    @johnneil14

    6 ай бұрын

    Most of the world thinks differently, as does nature.

  • @RadioIlluminaticom

    @RadioIlluminaticom

    6 ай бұрын

    @@johnneil14 Most guys don't understand women. A guy that gets bored with his GF, isn't connected heart to heart with her and can almost telepathically feel a deep connection. For him, women are difficult to understand and read and often annoying, if they are not having sex with them.

  • @KD400_

    @KD400_

    5 ай бұрын

    Most men wanna be like genghis Khan lol

  • @ms.erania9848
    @ms.erania98485 ай бұрын

    Just be yourself. The rest is porn.

  • @ellyshort-editor
    @ellyshort-editor2 ай бұрын

    An African girl and a white girl, who is sweeter??

  • @forwardever
    @forwardever5 ай бұрын

    Have these guys ever interviewed a woman?

  • @Strikeitbig

    @Strikeitbig

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes, a few, but typically they don’t want to come on. We do try 😂

  • @forwardever

    @forwardever

    5 ай бұрын

    Oh, ok. I looked through your videos and couldn’t see one. Can you give me a search term for one please. It would be interesting to watch.

  • @jorgetinoco7980
    @jorgetinoco79805 ай бұрын

    Porn has nothing to do with bad erections , the problems is you eating junk food and it's cogging your arteries and the blood is not flowing to the penies .

  • @AxelAxe

    @AxelAxe

    4 ай бұрын

    media does changes what makes you excited and how fast you climax

  • @hayden4659
    @hayden46592 ай бұрын

    17 yr kye me fr