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@bernesemuir8022

5 жыл бұрын

I've just purchased your work books, so yeah one messed up soul from New Zealand hoping u can help me turn my life around x

@CoachCraigKenneth

5 жыл бұрын

I’d love to have your feedback on them. There is an email in the end of each volume 👍

@thtboirich_

5 жыл бұрын

Love the workbooks

@gnnaal

5 жыл бұрын

I love this video! The empathy you show goes such a long way. I'm constantly reminding myself of that. Reminding myself that if you want to show your full and true loving self then you must empathize with your lover, not constantly be on the defense. Wish I truly understood that before she dumped me lol

@silkeotd7194

5 жыл бұрын

@@gnnaal Keep going Papa, you'll be a fantastic partner for some lucky woman. ;)

Guys! Why don't all of us (in the comment section) just start dating eachother? Be so much easier!

@aliacoo

5 жыл бұрын

Works for me! Some of the guys sound like they actually have their act together!

@DaLastMonster

5 жыл бұрын

After some given time 😂

@richardgonzalez6583

5 жыл бұрын

I agree most people have no idea what there love language is let alone there attachment style

@EscapewithAj

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I agree, whoever is here watching all these videos are going through hard time, cheating, dump, and all, so we have experience and we can be good couples if choose from here!

@brendavargas6098

5 жыл бұрын

Yes😂 all of us here are actually trying to improve and motivate ourselves. And most of us can’t imagine our other half( I mean ex) doing the same:D

I wish you all healthy loving relationships.

@trebalero9091

5 жыл бұрын

Holly Drucker Hopefully I can one day that’s the goal. 🙂

@user-ke3vx9ub4b

4 жыл бұрын

You too!

@hollydrucker3011

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-ke3vx9ub4b You deserve it we all do.

@rileydenton663

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you you to!:)

@LoveMe-bk6dj

3 жыл бұрын

@@trebalero9091 Hello Dr Johnson He can recover your relationship back permanently

I think i must be the only person that doesnt look on their social media. I know it would just hurt...and hurt my progress. Curious? Of course! But i honestly do NOT want any confirmation of my fears.

@poppyone2944

5 жыл бұрын

I do get that but your fears are heightened at the moment I think it is difficult to even think straight at the moment and your ex could return stay hopeful

@ett2

5 жыл бұрын

I deleted all social media

@bernesemuir8022

5 жыл бұрын

Me too im the same

@craigmerrila7767

5 жыл бұрын

I've done the same! And for the same reasons

@bernesemuir8022

5 жыл бұрын

Im the same just the fear of the pain keeps me away

I started crying as soon as you said they miss you too

@sethbratten3033

5 жыл бұрын

Steven Nguyen fucking same.

@wategoslife8371

4 жыл бұрын

Steven Nguyen me too it’s a fucking shame. We were great together Been dating a beautiful lady who’s three years out of a divorce with an expert gaslighter/narcissistic First 6 months have been fantastic, full of joy, great intimacy ( she’s a therapist) We have great time together surf together work in the garden, talk n laugh and have fantastic sex, she’ll shed a tear in those intimate moments and tell me she’s glad I don’t run and her heart is open to me. Then 3 weeks ago she starts withdrawing, I feel this, so we talk. She has list of things that she say causes her not to feel trust for me. Example. I say I adore her ( I do) When she shares a painful moment, I will listen, be present, then perhaps say I’ve shared a similar experience and I know how tough that can be. I am a good listener. Then she say “ there you go again, making everything about you..u say u love me then always talk about yourself.. your words and actions are incongruent, yesterday you didn’t offer to carry the heavy bag, if you loved me you would, incongruent!!! It erodes my trust, that’s why I’ve withdrawn.. “ I suggested she told me she feels safe with me so bring up matters as they happen don’t hold them inside to smoulder for days and withdraw let’s talk it out, we are great at that” She said I’m not sure how much of this is me and I don’t want to come off as a picky bitch. I said Bringing up matters will show me you value us and want to create intimacy and fix issues... it’s how we can deal with things. It’s exhausting suddenly, I really do care about her. Now I’m overthinking. That was yesterday... let her come to me? I sent a text yesterday asking about day and that I miss her presence and touch. She replied re her day but didn’t acknowledge the personal stuff. I think she has trust issues. She’s in a battle with ex who’s telling the kids she’s a bad mother. Battle to be best parents. Lot on her plate. I asked if she needs space she said I’ve had enough space from u. She said she’s trying to figure out how much of this is her stuff. And if it’s us or the ex problems that’s getting in our way. How do I handle support her. Help. She tried to break up with me. I suggested a week break to reflect. She agreed. What do I do know? Thoughts Be honest people Richard BYRON bay Australia Xxx

@tommyduhaney5226

4 жыл бұрын

@@wategoslife8371 bro she had communication issues, she can't fully vent to u how she's feeling as an issue arise, ik everyone is different. And issue may arise and a person want to reflect on it before they address but ofc they can't wait too long for that and trust me I do understand been in a similar situation where that kind of communication is concern. It's frustrating when u both agree to b upfront and honest with these things and yet the other person has battled up emotion inside. She sounds like an Avoidant they tend to do these stuff. And your doing a great job by listening and I'm seeing a little distorting of reality from her. Where u r listening and trying to connect with her through your similar experience in comparison to hers and she's saying u are bringing the attention to u or someone of that nature; point is I think that's bizarre and it makes me wonder what could cause this communication issue a mean what was her childhood like? Her attachment to her primary care takers etc. I believe all this is playing a role if it's unhealthy plus I think the issue with her ex husband is stressing her and it's not fair to u that it's affecting the relationship negatively especially when u r being understanding and trying to help, if she needs space tell her u love and care about her and that to contact u when she's ready n leave her alone.

@lilinielsen7442

4 жыл бұрын

Same I miss him a lot . Even if he left me in the meanest way

@aronchas

4 жыл бұрын

Yes but you know what? If she does not have the balls (in this case, the ovaries) to come back, it does not worth your tears.

If they dump you without reason they dating somebody else behind your back! Let them go. Work on your self. And kiss their ass good bye. Move on! That wasn’t meant to be.

@mxd-1990asn

4 жыл бұрын

A reason doesnt always mean its theyr real reason either. Experienced it several times that they were actually looking for excuses , some reasons were such a bad lie ,nobody would believe that BS. So... the reason may not always be the real reason.

@darrenrichards8941

4 ай бұрын

It would i beleave to move on if we new there were with some one else so hard in long distance we have brocken up 6 times in 4 years i woukd never go back if i new

@Faxtron

3 ай бұрын

That is true.

@darrenrichards8941

3 ай бұрын

​@@Faxtronare you in long distance

💓 I was talking to a lady today whose partner left her after 5 years only to return 18 months later they have been togethe ever since and recently celebrated their 27th anniversary so it can happen 💓

@Fitlover24

4 жыл бұрын

That's so relieving hear when each day seems like passing through death.... It's so painful can't express in words of losing a relationship in which we had so much hope in....

@Smc-gm2nx

4 жыл бұрын

Wish I could be this lucky

@user-ke3vx9ub4b

4 жыл бұрын

That's a beautiful story to hear 💕

@xpaperxcutx4588

4 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing but since going on NC I really just want to be the best version of my self so that I don’t repeat the same mistakes.

@karend6467

4 жыл бұрын

I am not hoping and waiting 5 years for my ex to reach back.

Don’t regret your emotions, begging or breaking no contact, it’s completely normal and to be expected. I suggest going no contact for good after trying. They say, those who care for you, will hear your silence. It’s so true. My ex contacted me after 4-6 months, her emotions were neglected as soon as we broke up, she needed to experience life without me, and realised my value, so she never faced reality. As we the dumpee, only grow stronger every day, week and month. They become weaker.

@jkim1241

4 жыл бұрын

Lonely Guy she did you a favor leaving my friend. Assume she is happy with married guy and move on.

@LR-kj8ec

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you're doing better

@lizxu322

3 жыл бұрын

I honestly want him to be stronger, because he suffered mental health issues. Hold nothing against him

@yeoitscori3618

3 жыл бұрын

This is a long distance relationship X 3 years . Been apart for a year but only broke six months ago. I've been working on myself n still in no contact. Has he given up and no longer interested since covid is still around. I felt better after six months n confident so u sent a happy new years greeting. He replied in kindness signing off 'all the best'. he no longer follows me on Insta nothing. that doesn't sound weak to me or any signs that he wants this again.

@yeoitscori3618

3 жыл бұрын

I'm on 7 month....nc

Men, my tear drops when you say "they are thinking about you too"

Less is more. Totally agree on not posting everything or it will be obvious you’re trying too hard to make your ex jealous. Remaining mysterious and not posting will make your ex miss you more if you just disappear.

@Fitlover24

4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic..... My ex cannot even now see my Dp on wattsapp which I used to change often.... Total vanish.....

Remember, YOU attract... Don't chase. Let them experience the time and space without your presence. If they are not a sociopath and are actually a human being with emotions, THEY WILL REACH OUT TO YOU EVENTUALLY! Be strong and focus on personal growth!

They walked away and then I walked away. They came back but I don't care nearly as much anymore I've grown so much as a person I don't have the same extreme desire to be with him anymore. Actually, I can see myself maybe dating a new amazing man in the future 🤗

@happylove6755

5 жыл бұрын

Same thoughts here.

@sergiouvalli7122

3 жыл бұрын

Call me 🤙🏽

I wish that I had never fallen in love in the first place. I was better off by myself

@jacksonrodrigues7533

4 жыл бұрын

Lonely Guy me too. I pleaded and texted her incessantly for a month just to show how much I cared and loved her. She broke up saying that I don’t love her. She never tried to ask what’s going on in my life before dumping. When I chased her, she did exactly as these guys say, that is, frustrated and annoyed her in the process. I couldn’t take it anymore and went into NC for my own well being. Everyday was torturous when she didn’t read or reply my texts. Only God can pull me out of this tribulation. You stay strong, coz I believe one day the tables will turn. Like they say, everyday can’t be Sunday 😊

@jacksonrodrigues7533

4 жыл бұрын

Lonely Guy I hear you bro. I’m in NC for over a month now. During my begging and pleading, she really got annoyed and she turned her face sour when she saw me. That sight of her face I couldn’t take anymore and I decided that I will not bother her for some time until, hopefully, time heals her attitude towards me. The only problem is, she lives 2 hours drive from my place, and there is no other way to track her moves unless I see her at train station when she goes to work. I feel terrible to go and chase her like that. I also feel the same way as you are feeling right now. Hopelessness, fear, anger, etc. I try to forget and try occupy myself into different things hoping to forget about her. But you can’t shut the thoughts out of your mind. It’s a vicious cycle. Sometimes I feel ok and sometimes it comes back out of nowhere. I’m not even sure what lies ahead. But I have faith in God that keeps me in check all the time. Else I would’ve been broken down completely. BTW, as I had promised you that I will pray for you and relationship; I did put you in my prayers this morning. And I believe that God will surely hear my prayer for you.

@jacksonrodrigues7533

4 жыл бұрын

Lonely Guy I feel your pain bro, as I’m going through the same. I myself cried during this time so much that I must have never cried since the day I was born. Hopefully, one day I look back on my moments and think why? And hopefully you too. Days are also hard for me. I stopped going out, esp places where you see couple together, hand in hand, such as malls etc. coz they remind me of my time with her; and that sight is torturous to look at. That’s the reason why I stopped going out much apart from work and the gym. What I have realized is, when I’m sitting all by myself, those thoughts about her haunt me and gets me crushed. That’s y I keep myself occupied most of the time, and that way it’s good. Sometimes I wonder how some people can be so callous and merciless. If I think deeply about our breakup, I believe that she is half responsible for it. But I never argued with her about that, as that would infuriate her. I accepted all of the faults as my own. So you also do not argue with her, but humbly accept them as your fault. Eventually humility will triumph and bring her to senses. I can imagine how much you must have cried, and how many tears you must have shed. Trust me bro, all of those shed tears will never go to waste, as they are accumulated for your ultimate joy one day. I see your pain in those comments, and if I could be of any help for you apart from prayers, please let me know.

Coach Craig, this video is exactly what my ex admitted this last week when she came by to pick up a few things that she left behind. She said that she has struggled “a lot” with the break up even though it was her idea to do it. After hearing her admit that it made it easier for me to be able to move on (it has been 2 months since the breakup ) because one of the hardest things for me to understand is how she could just be gone from my life after being so relevant in it for 20 months. I appreciate you and Coach Margaret. Your wisdom has helped me tremendously.

Damn throughout the course of a day I'm a range of emotions. Sometimes I'm like "oh I miss her so much" then 20 minutes later I'm like "I got this, I'm way better than her". She blocked me off everything and left me for another guy, so I know she'll never come back. But I just love her even if she hates me..

@connormitchell8048

5 жыл бұрын

But I know it's stupid to love someone who cheated and left. I know she'll never talk to me again. But it's ok, I'll go no contact and get over her. I pray karma will come back to bite her.

@drjsantos15able

5 жыл бұрын

A lot of people are in the same boat.

@jupiter-walk5461

5 жыл бұрын

Mine did the same. Told me she love another guy, she regret dating me, she swear to call for if I contact her, dare to tell her parents. And even say she will definently cheat on me if she is with me. Blocked me too so pretty sure my ex is with someone as much as I hate to think about it.

@connormitchell8048

5 жыл бұрын

@@jupiter-walk5461 I guess you never really know a person till you see how they dump you.

@jupiter-walk5461

5 жыл бұрын

@@connormitchell8048 yep...she was my first and I was her first though... I know it'll be hard to move past that.

The best thing about watching these is taking this knowledge isn't just about knowing and improving, but helping others with the same advice, and even showing you to them. It's eye-opening really!

It seems like your videos are the only thing getting me through these days. 💕

@smollybellies

5 жыл бұрын

Ash Mo thank you. It has been such a hard month. I was in a year long, long distance relationship. We had an amazing relationship- we were always laughing and always communicating and never fought. As things got more serious (we saw each other for at least a week or two a month - we would take turns traveling to each other. My family loved him, and his loved me. His son had just started calling me Mom - his mom isn’t in the picture at all.) we decided we didn’t want to be apart anymore. Due to some family issues (he takes care of his ill mom), there was no way he could move here... so, despite how much I loved my job (I’m a teacher) I gave everything up to be with him and start our lives together. Fast forward - two weeks before I’m supposed to move (not to mention my parents/my biggest support system, were out of state for a few weeks which he knew)... I’m getting ready for a normal night - we would spend every night together doing something, whether it was watching our favorite shows or playing games or whatever - and he sends me a long TEXT breaking up with me. He tells me he doesn’t think I should move, in fact we need to break up. In short, he felt complacent and just “wasn’t feeling it” anymore. He said his romantic feelings were gone and he felt like I was more of a best friend. I called him - our talk was about five minutes of me just being shocked and him saying sorry. It felt like my worst fear, that he would get bored of me, came true. I couldn’t and still can’t believe it. It’s been a month now and I’m going strong with no contact and slowly trying to work on myself, but I still feel so crushed. The life I was about to have got ripped away, and I’m left jobless, in a house full of packed boxes. The worst part is just how much I miss him and his son. I miss my family. But thanks to Craig’s videos I feel like I’m aware now of my anxious attachment style due to my past, and I feel my ex was terrified of the commitment- of the reality that I was really moving across country for him in a matter of days. He most likely felt trapped. And in his family, where they all ignore their problems, it was easier for him to just end it. Hopefully in time he will realize that we were and still can be an amazing, happy couple and family... but with or without him, I need to find my happiness.

@DaLastMonster

5 жыл бұрын

smollybellies wishing for the best for you. Sounds like a real shitty situation. These videos help me but sometimes I feel like this is becoming my new addiction. It’s hard now for me to turn away from breakup videos.

@Lynnromesa

5 жыл бұрын

Try viewing Bernardo Mendez.. he’s. Good too!

@Bnk2907

5 жыл бұрын

smollybellies Ash Mo what happened to your relationship now. Are you back together? Did the no contact work?

@LoveMe-bk6dj

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bnk2907 Hello Dr Johnson He can recover your relationship back permanently

I asked if she ever thought of me. She replied not in that way. Case closed. Who cares if she thought of me, it’s not in the way that we want them to.

This made me feel so much better 😊 love your channel! It’s not just about the ex it’s about self growth, finding yourself and being happy x

@shmilypaul6154

4 жыл бұрын

Me too I really love his channel make me feel better

I'm going to say it again... thank God for your video's. About three weeks ago I had to go through a breakup with a highschool crush. We reunited after 22 years but due to circumstances it only lasted about 7 weeks. I'm devastated because I REALLY love this girl. I've never thought about someone being "The One", but she was it. Listening to you and Margaret soothes the pain, and at the same time provides such valuable insight.

Going through a breakup, your videos give me comfort and hope during this difficult time. If only I would've not given this person a chance after the first red flag. I'm trying to keep myself sane and say positive affirmations.

My ex was an avoidant. I was very patient with him, and defended some of his actions when friends were wondering why I stuck with him. I loved him with every fiber of my being, and worked hard at understanding him, being patient with him, and being empathetic. He wasn't a bad guy, just brought up differently than my friends and me. I defended him then, and I still defend him today.

@ameliapeach3029

Жыл бұрын

Did he ever try to get you back?

@aliacoo

Жыл бұрын

@@ameliapeach3029 no, he's still with the one he left me for. I still see him at work though.

@ameliapeach3029

Жыл бұрын

@@aliacoo wow that must be tough. I hope you meet someone more secure soon!

@aliacoo

Жыл бұрын

@@ameliapeach3029 I have, but I still look at my ex every day and feel bad about what happened after twelve years together.

Love your work Craig and Margaret! It helped me through my breakup but now I need to keep working so I don’t lose the beautiful woman that has entered my life.

This is so spot on. You continue to grow, they remain stagnant.

Craig you killed it in this video. This breakup I’m going thru is challenging me become a better me for life

this was a great video. about 2.5 weeks out of my breakup - and yeah lots of this makes sense. Been watching your videos to help get me through the roughest parts of it but liked it so much been watching more of them. Took your advice and doing the no contact and more importantly the self work on my issues. Thanks dude

This channel is so therapeutic. Craig and Margaret need to win an award or something. But also, can you guys do a video on forgiving someone that hurt you? Anger has set in and I don't like it but its so hard to let it go.

@aliacoo

5 жыл бұрын

I'm with you on this!

@poppyone2944

5 жыл бұрын

No point in being angry it's an emotion that takes a lot of your time stay positive and see what happens

Very powerful video Coach Craig - I love it 😍 Your advice regarding working on yourself and committing to personal growth is a truly life changing experience. I am working with 4 teen girls in trauma recovery who are all having severe relationship difficulties due to their attachment injuries. We watch all of yours and Margaret’s videos and discuss the theories. It is making a huge huge huge difference to their future outlook as emotionally healthy young women and their personal recoveries. Thank you 😊 Have a super day Xx

This was my favorite video so far from you! My level of dedication to self growth is through the roof.

I can attest to personal growth. Almost a year on from my breakup and I'm alot bigger in terms of muscle. I've lifted for a year straight and it's great. Plus I'm joining the British army next month. See it works So thank you ex.... Losing her Made me find myself again. Me losing her made me love myself again. But I still love her but i dont want her back. I've outgrown her so much. 😅😅😅

@stevecokaiko9590

4 жыл бұрын

Jack Gaul's Fitness Vlog good on you brother. I’ve been following the same path for 3 months now 💪

@aronchas

4 жыл бұрын

Did she contacted you some time?

@jackgaulsfitnessvlog4802

4 жыл бұрын

@@aronchas nope lol

I love these videos Craig. Thank you for all the support and advice to help us all through our tough times.

Thanks for this video. It really helps us understand how the breaker upper is feeling which helps with our anxiety. Please do more of these...they’re great!

Thank you so much! I felt I couldn’t breathe and no one understands me and you’ve given me so much insight! Thank you 🙏🏽 thank you! It’s helping me feel better!

Thank you, Craig and Margaret for helping me and so many others. I wish all of you loving relationships..

Currently going through it. Thank you for your videos Coach Craig. I always find comfort in your advice and outlook.

This is the video that I’ve been needing! Thank you I finally have closure with my past, you paint the perfect picture in my mind and heart.

Dude, you make me feel better and i dont even know why. Heartbreak is hard but for some reason, I feel happier

Yo I been broken up for almost three months and this video helped me a lot I’ve finally gotten over the hump of letting my mind beer towards negativity and untrue things and now I feel happy again

It’s hard to believe that they miss you once they are with somebody else, they will reach out to you when things don’t work out with the new person or during a fight but that doesn’t mean they miss you or they want you back, it means you’re their plan B

You’re the best Coach Craig!!! I already sent your videos to my sister and some other friends!! I think you have a really great advice and I look forward to watching more of your videos and maybe at some point getting some coaching! 😍

Wow this is so enlighting. I love it. I came here to understand why my last ex dumped me trying to understand her behaviour and I now I want to know more about myself! Thank you!

She doesn't have any feelings for me anymore after been together for 4 years.....4 good years. But she thinks future might lead us to be together. I'm not a back up plan or a second choice. Gonna move on.... it's been month since break up

Man, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Had two kids with a total narcissist. They really crush you through vindictive and brutal ways. Vampires. Thanks Craig

You’re videos have helped me tremendously. Thank you for being who you are and existing!

Glad I found these videos. It really hurts and i'm comforted having someone to listen to

Yes! Stay dedicated to yourself! Grow for yourself!

Really love and appreciate u coach. I have learned so so much since discovering you on KZread. Thank you.

Best video you've posted in awhile. Well thought out and articulately spoken. Really helps, thanks!

I'm new here, and I really needed to hear this. You have no idea how much it has helped me. I feel like you are speaking to me personally

Thank you, thank you, Coach Craig!!! You are God sent. (PS love your new sport jacket, excellent) Greetings, Rob

Craig spoke a lot about over-posting on social media. I agree that over-posting is bad but I think he missed the point a little bit. I don't think the danger is that your ex will think you've got so much going on that you don't care. I think the real danger is that they'll think you're trying too hard to look busy. If you suddenly are posting way more than you were before, it would look to your ex as though you're trying to get their attention and impress him/her. That's just as bad if not worse than breaking NC.

Going thru a breakup and your videos are helping. Personal growth is they key here. Thank you for opening my eyes. It’s gonna be tough but with your videos I know I’ll be better.

@CoachCraigKenneth

5 жыл бұрын

Get the workbooks! They are 10 times more helpful for personal growth! Trust me!

I have made every single mistake you can make during this break up

Thank you for this important information. Six weeks into NC, and I've stopped crying...but suddenly, I'm having a hard time sleeping, while in the beginning I slept too much. I wake up frequently, in a panic state, in a sweat, my heart pounding. Knowing why helps...but even understanding WHY doesn't stop the pain.

@poppyone2944

5 жыл бұрын

I know exactly what you are going through I have had 5 months and counting of this totally look crappie cause of lack of sleep I'm broken hearted I admitt to waking up in cold sweats panic and heart racing but the saddest thing is all we really require is our exes having one conversation with us just closure i guess if we can't work stuff out you know it seems they're holding all the cards at the moment and this NC rule is getting some power back but how are you supposed to do this wen you have been blocked? So childish this action I think

Thank you your videos are helping me threw a really hard time I can't afford to go to therapy so these videos have been a god send

This is really a great video, Craig. Thanks a lot. Appreciate it. Very helpful content today. Thank you.

I really want to share this ryt now...M so used to ur videos dat now it has bcm a habit fr me to watch ur videos daily wtot any fail b4 going to bed.... it really soothes my mind n kip me calm fr d rest of day.... ur videos are really so informative n helpful that cn change lives... u hv changed mine in a positive way fr which m thankful to both kraig n Margaret... u owe my life 🙏🙏 Kip doing d great work... lots of love 💓

What an amazing video, my favorite by far and it came at a time when the hurt is fresh and so real for me. Thank you Craig

@sonalisings3988

5 жыл бұрын

I agree! Definitely one of his best videos!

Still binge watching these vids 4 months in No Contact. I've heard nothing from her. The vids definitely help. Thank you guys.

@archangelelmo

Ай бұрын

Did your ex ever reach out to you???

@nicolasrodriguez3499

Ай бұрын

@@archangelelmo nope

I found you out of the blues on here 😆 I’ve watch you since.. you seems to be very professional and experienced couch! I will share it with my circle of friends 👭 100/% correct of all what you said on here! C.K I love ❤️ u already ! Yes I’m focus on other important things in my life! Thanks for the fantastic advice and suggestions.

Breakups are best and most motivating time to focus on your health and business goals!

Lighting and new camera look great! And amazing content as always of course.

@CoachCraigKenneth

5 жыл бұрын

Cool! Not many people have mentioned it

Craig, you have created a supportive community of self-healers! You're videos have educated me more about myself than hours in front of therapist

@janessyj2183

3 жыл бұрын

I know of someone who can help you get your ex back Because he helped me too 🙏🙏

@janessyj2183

3 жыл бұрын

Via...... What'S

@janessyj2183

3 жыл бұрын

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Your videos are the only thing keeping me together right now.

Coach Craig gives great advice. Especially about the social media stuff

Oh man! This video is amazing craig! I’m so grateful to have found your channel seriously ! You’re saving my mental health

@CoachCraigKenneth

5 жыл бұрын

Thank u Ms Design 🤓

@Designbluejv

5 жыл бұрын

Coach Craig Kenneth no Craig thank you! I’m sending you a cyber hug. :-,D

Hey Craig, this is the video I needed to listen to and help me stay motivated in my pursuit in bettering myself. It’s been a hard two months but I’m so dedicated in my growth, I’ve gotten a car, started working out, and I’ve keeping up with my school. I’m really glad you make these videos and your helping me develop a better attitude towards the whole situation, thank you.

Hi Craig Your detailed information was really comforting and it makes me feel like I'm not crazy or going out of my mind. I've sensed something from my ex girlfriend past few weeks with her contacting me. Yes we are long distance, wouldn't say we fully met on social media. We actually went to school together back in 1991 aged 14, I think I had some kind of pulling towards her back then. But you know being 14, I'm not going to know what it is I'm feeling towards another girl. We've been on a relationship break for 5 weeks now, and God it hurts and yes you are right even tho my gut tells me she misses me alot she is stubborn to tell me atm! Around 9.30pm every night was like our time to chat on the phone, that's the main time that would hit her emotions high. Yes, I wasn't the perfect girlfriend, I was needy etc and totally agree with you also, we can't fully help something that may have happened through childhood and it gets me mad and sad that we can be judged on that. We deserve to be given a chance to change and improve within ourselves.. So thank you for the podcast!

I agree about the support in the comments. Everything on this channel has been helpful to me during this difficult time.

I doubt your ex is thinking about you if they left you for somebody else like their ex boyfriend.

@escalera601

5 ай бұрын

Good one.

I broke up with him. I loved him. I still love him. I am heartbroken. But he lied all the time, seemed narcissistic, threatened me and was insecure. He also took me for granted.... though I did it, I'm still grieving...what about a video for the people that do the breaking up?

@joehaber9835

4 жыл бұрын

Try talking to him? Bring your feelings to the table....confront gently .

@gm3912

4 жыл бұрын

No,do not try talking to him.He knows what he did to you.I strongly believe that some people leave u with no choice but to break up with them that is just as good as them breaking up with you.Know your worth and understand that if you reach out to him he will never change.let him realize for himself what he did and decide for himself that he wants to make a change and that he wants u in his life.I know it's hard but it will get better

@lizxu322

3 жыл бұрын

There is a video by him that describes when a relationship is not worth saving...basically, it's not worth saving if he has an addiction or mental illness or is abusive.

Some great information here about avoidant partners. You do such a great job and it helps me consider their side of the story. Would love to hear more about avoidant partners how to re-attract as I feel they won’t come back because of that past hurt etc. Thank you very much.

Dude, I swear to God.... You're a wizard. She said that about focusing on herself and I only hear how she is still fueling her anger on little things and envy from one woman to another. Almost a month in our breakup and she is still fighting on social media with some other people. Making allusion to people imitating her and stuff like that. Whilst I'm doing kickboxing, back to drawing, feeling positive everyday and growing as a person, got a tattoo, new clothes, hung out and go on karaoke nights every friday, plus I got a new tattoo!!! In just 3 weeks and this is getting better and better Craig. I've met a whole bunch of people and I'm having amazing life experiences. She is just choosing poor self-management. Took me out of her life and she is still in ruins.

Your channel is a life line. Currently going through a breakup and just listening to your videos give so much hope and comfort. Thanks Coach Craig and Margaret 😇😊

@Marnar-ge8vr

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true, putting it as a lifeline is like the most perfect way to describe the comfort these videos have brought me as I’ve been trying to go through my breakup

@jeaneengant6771

Жыл бұрын

So true.. I’m going through a break up after almost 4yrs..

@kursengamer4699

6 ай бұрын

Me too, I often listen in the car. Thank you for videos.. I've bought books but they just sit there.

Lighting and sound are much improved!!! Thanks for your dedication! 💗

@bobbykay7334

5 жыл бұрын

Couple editing glitches but we can look past that ;)

My personal growth is a investment to a better life for me. The work will never stop for me. The more I work on myself the better me I will become! Than you Craig and Margaret!

hey Coach, not sure if you remember me, but wanted to say thank you for your videos. i come to your page from time to time to listen on previous videos, AGAIN!!! In our session, you told me to move on, and to leave the person I was talking. i ended up doing toe complete opposite, stay for little longer hoping for things to get better, it didn't. here i am again, back to point 1. this time, I will stay committed. thank you for your work. Mynor

Why would an ex tell you to move on only to text you a Happy Easter a few days later followed by the day after that telling you about something good related to work?

I have been going through hell since our breakup. I miss my ex so much. Her cousins are my best friends and her brother works for me. So it's hard to not think of her.

You are the coolest coach ever. Everything you say is spot on

I think one point Craig brings up that's very important is understanding relationship dynamics, not just with your ex, but in general. I feel much more competent in all relationship dynamics, not just dating. im a bit of an introvert/loaner that lacks some social skills, imo, and these videos help with those things. thanks! much love to everyone!

You’re a good guy, Craig. I wish there had been social media when I was dumped 40 years ago. I did all the wrong things, although my partner had already moved on to a new guy 6 months beforehand. Still suffering the trauma.

@rwentfordable

2 жыл бұрын

Have you thought about therapy?

@artsguru1784

Жыл бұрын

@@rwentfordable Thanks for your comment. I’ve been in therapy for the past three years or so but my trauma remains unresolved.

YES! This is so difficult!!! I am constantly wondering how he's feeling!!

@daviedood2503

3 жыл бұрын

Did he dump u or u him?

@coachCraigKenneth: What I like about you is, you focus on a persons "BEHAVIOR" and without a change in behavior nothing will CHANGE. You are introducing some GREAT information that requires one putting their hands to the plow if they are truly interested in becoming a better individual. However, nothing will be achieved with the "work".

Craig!! This video is EXACTLY...... EXACTLY, relative to my breakup!! All of it, and it made me feel much better. Listening to this on my way to my personal training session... You identified my ex, to a T.

@lyricalprophet100

4 жыл бұрын

Craig.... I do have one question... my ex and I were together for almost 2 years. I’m just so curious, that in less than 3 months she’s already in a new relationship - plastering it all over Facebook...

my ex is not human no feelings at all

@EscapewithAj

5 жыл бұрын

So mine, she is the monster of Cheating! Cheated me thrice in 4months

@marshaclay4087

5 жыл бұрын

Ajay Singh iam so sorry

@EscapewithAj

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Marsha! Sorry for you too! I am from India nd you?

@marshaclay4087

5 жыл бұрын

iam from America

@AlphaCenturyX7

5 жыл бұрын

He just lost feelings once he had for you. . . Sad but true!

Craig get that donation button up already :)

I think your videos are awesome. So helpful. Even if Im not trying to get my ex back, you teach a lot about human psychology

Coach Craig knows what he’s talking about. My ex not ex and I have a chronic habit of breaking up - getting back together. So many times I won’t admit it. Follow Coach Craigs advice and hit the gym.

My ex fiancé and I were in a LDR and I haven’t seen her since October 2019. Never did I think seeing her leave would be the last time I ever saw her.. 😞

@gaoang3391

3 жыл бұрын

Same , I left Italy in March , he said think of me when u look at the ring have faith on us ,5 months later he broke up with me 👀👀 I cannot see him because the border control he is Italian and I’m chinese we are long distance due to the covid , I’m in NC 11 days after 2 months broke up 😂😂 Any updates from u ?

@jjuyjhhj

3 жыл бұрын

Gao Ang we were together for 3 years and I was planning to move to her this year until COVID happened. I’m in the US and she in Germany. She broke up with me in late august and I gave her about a month of NC until I found out she’s now dating a new guy. That was September 29th. I blew up. She’s now blocked me on everything and I’m back in NC. I’m really hurting right now.

@gaoang3391

3 жыл бұрын

Adrian Ross wish the same luck for us , he didn’t date anyone but he said he is afraid to marry and when he was with me it’s working like drugs , he loves me but my love blinded him ,and he doesn’t know when will us meet , it’s impossible blah blahhh .. he didn’t delete me but I unfriend him on Instagram we only hold connection via wechat ,it’s hurt as hell , I’m like addicted on KZread video these days ,🤯

I’m pretty sure that I can’t be the only1 who totally LOVES his theme Music with the whistling & upbeat Cords!! Lol MAKES ME HAPPY EVERY TIME!!! LOL 😊

@MA7-6585

5 жыл бұрын

Me too! It's happy!!😊💟

Thank you !!! I needed to hear this. It's been 159 days NC buy who's counting. This was an important message for me. We were close 3 years and lived together. I went NC day 1 peacefully, respectively, with dignity. WE have not spoken since New years Eve together. She wanted the break up. I told her I felt we were better together than apart. I respected her decision and was gone jan 1st before she got home from work that day. I was gone. I guess we will see. She is in law enforcement, which will tell you. She deals with comply or consequences, not compromise ! She is avoidant, no surprise there, which is why I believe she won't reach out. Cheers

If you don’t heal your traumas, you will keep meeting the same person in a different body.

Ive been in no contact for 2 weeks now.. i feel like she's gone for good. Im trying so fucking hard to not think about her but what makes it impossible is bc i help raised her daughter and she wont let me say goodbye

Are any of these videos or advise directed for those of us that were in a 30 year marriage.? And have kids and grandkids, where we have to see each other?

I enjoy watching your videos. Im at 1 month of no contact and now the pain of breakup is not that much. She is in rebound but does not kill me now. Nc is great

Thanks Craig. I really needed to hear that.

Can you do a video that talks more about how we should handle social media during No Contact?

He was my soul mate from the very first second i met him when he took my hand to shake it i felt like I had known my whole life I have never experienced that before untill never have since

Honestly you give me hope that my ex and I will get back. And more importantly that I’m going to be okay if I stay focused bettering myself.