The Secret to True Fulfillment in Life
When you think of your life, do you think about what’s missing? Or do you think about what you have?
If you always think about what you don’t have, you will tend to hold on to everything that you do have, because you feel that you have so little and thus not much to give. Tony himself used to live in this scarcity mindset, allowing money to terrorize him. Watch this video to discover how he learned that giving in times of extreme discomfort, when you feel “lack” and not abundance, can be the most valuable.
As a young man living in a 400-square-foot apartment in Venice, California, Tony was broke. He had $26 to his name. He thought he might as well walk to the local all-you-can-eat buffet and store up for winter. He watched the boats go by, dreaming of what life could be like and felt his anger dissipating. His mindset started to shift. He started thinking about all the things he wanted, instead of what he didn’t want.
At that moment, a little boy came in with his mother. He held the door, pulled out her chair. Tony was impressed by his presence and gave him the last money in his pocket. He says, “I didn’t walk out that door, I flew.” When he got home, he got an envelope in the mail. It was money his friend owed him.
What did it mean? It means that whenever you give, it’s always going to come back. The secret to living is giving, because the rewards will be greater than you could ever imagine. The realization that there is something inside you that goes beyond all of your limits is transformational.
Giving back is so powerful because it meets one of the deepest of our Six Human Needs: contribution. It feeds our souls, helps us live in a state of gratitude and gives us meaning. It is the most important part of finding fulfillment in life. It connects us with our true purpose, our reason for being. Not sure where to start? Connect with your values, passions and ultimate purpose in life at Date With Destiny.
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"The secret to living is GIVING. Do it when you don't have it; & I promise you, scarcity will leave your life." ~ Tony. Thanks.
Strong message! Most people are like "when I have enough money, I'll start giving to others" but I like a different approach. Think in percentages. Giving away just a few % of your income may change someone's life. And the best part is that it doesn't matter what your income is, percentages stay constant. Thanks Tony.
Very authentic and real. Haven't seen Tony emotional like that before. Great message that makes me really believe in giving.
I never cry. Last time I cried was a year ago. But this video, his message...I understand now. After 15 years of my life of trying to understand, I finally get it. Give without expectations. Don’t give with the expectation of getting something in return. Just give what you can. Money, a listening ear, act of service, whatever it may be. I was tired, extremely tired, of living in lack. I leave for Marine Corps boot camp on May 4th 2020, and instead of wondering what the Corps can do for me, I feel invigorated to give back to my country, and my heart swells with fucking joy. Now I know. Now I understand. Thank you so much, Tony. Thank you.
@TemporaryDiscomfort
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Leo, I stumbled on this video this morning and was just curiously scrolling through the comments. In a time like this when there is so much uncertainty in the world and our country for sure; videos like these can mean the difference between a great day, a bad day, or the worst case scenario. Like Tony said in the video and you echoed so well in your comment, it starts with just giving! Tony Gave us his story in this instance and which in turn caused him to give us the video and so on. You my friend have given a lot. A lot more than most will ever have the ability or opportunity to give by electing to serve this country! With so much division in the world; especially here in the USA I feel as if depending on if you decide your party is represented by a red elephant 🐘 or a blue donkey determines somehow the support you have or makes some decisions ok and others not. Regardless when I saw your comment I was just feeling the same emotions but for different reasons. I may not have financial independence or finances in general but what I can offer to give is my honest and genuine respect and appreciation for your service to this country and providing a safer and brighter future for my children and I! I hope your basic is or has gone well and wish you nothing but the best and the very best at that in the future! Thank you for giving so much with very little incentive or expectation for anything in return!
@Bandgeek601
2 жыл бұрын
@@TemporaryDiscomfort I just now saw this comment. I completed training in November of 2020 and I’m currently serving in the fleet alongside my brothers. Thanks for your comment. It meant a lot.
Tony Robbin says, "Just give and the rewards will be so great than you can ever imagine!" - One Word: POWERFUL!
@lindaglyle4598
Ай бұрын
0:18 0:18 ❤❤ jq
'It's not what you can get, it's what you can give'. Doesn't have to be materialistic either. Can be kind and generous in how you speak or treat others.
Like it reads " It's in giving that we receive, it is in forgiveness that we are forgiven " One need not just flgive money, we can give our valuable time, our energy, our support, our care, words of appreciation and encouragment, a correct advice, and if nothing then a beautiful smile 😊😇 thankyou so much @tonyrobbins !
"Whenever you give, it's always gonna come back so you don't ever have to think about that shit again. Just. Fkkn. GIVE. And the rewards will be greater than you can ever imagine."
The secret to living is giving. Give when you have nothing, and it will come back to you in ways you cannot imagine! A stunningly emotional message. Thanks Tony.
I have seen this video many times from Tony, and never fully grasped what he meant. Only recently I read the book called the Go-Giver by Bob Burg and John David Mann, I came back to this video and now fully understand what he means by the secret to living is giving. And since implementing this, I could not agree more with this. Truly life changing! Thank you Tony 🙏
Thanks Tony for the reminder, that 'true' riches and happiness dont always come in 'monetary' form...often true riches and happiness often comes by giving simple things to make a 'positive' difference in someone's life...there will be always be someone worse off, and to get over 'our selves' is to 'give' in 'whatever' form (money, friendship, time, skills, compassion, etc...), I truly believe in giving, and have seen it returned in a million different ways...should be taught offen, especially concerning finances!!!
I so needed this today. Thank you. An amazing message.
Such lovely message given and made to cry too . Thank you, really loved it.
Love the story and seen him getting emotional while sharing is powerful. Thank you for sharing Tony! You are truly an inspiration!!!
This is true. I keep forgetting but it's true. Thank you reminding me. I never ever in my life lost by giving. it always come back to me and sometimes more.
Im in tears as well...Thanks Tony....I needed this
The secret to liveing is Giveing... BOOM! There it IS! Thankyou Sir!
I’ve never seen him emotional like that before. Great vid. Very genuine and I really liked it
I love this and that’s so true, whatever u give u get more back. I’ve been there and thank u for reminding me back 💙
The suns energy gives to the earth without reservation and the planets go around it ^^^ Tony applies this 👏
Damn this shit touched me
I have listened to this story during Tonys UPW in London and also DVD last year, everything time it impacts me. Just shared this video with my friends :-)
Sooooo good!!! Thank you for sharing tony and always speaking life into others!
Tony, I always watch your videos to get me back in the zone. Can't wait to see you at UPW Sydney again this year
so powerful. tony talks from the heart.
5:20 "The secret to living is giving. Do it when you don't have it - and I promise you, scarcity will leave your life."
Tony, thank you for everything you do.
Wow, best message ever.
love this story ... absolutely life transforming
I love this so much 💛💛💛 always give!
I watch this once a year. He’s so right, when you think of others you stop thinking about yourself. You drop the victims mentality and become less self centred.
people for people . . . we are all here participating and assisting in each other's spiritual growth :-)
Give, Just give!!! Thank you Tony!!!
Inspirational. Thanks Tony.
I'm GIVING you a like and a comment Tony. Thanks a bunch for the inspiration :)
Amazing message!! Thank you Tony
What a giant. Beautiful soul.
I saw the fearlessness in every asspect of his rituals
Thank you Tony
Something happens when you see another person cry. You can't help but have wet eyes. Some thing happens too when you make someone happy by giving. You can't help but feel real happy.
Thanks a lot, Tony!!!
That was Incredible.......speechless
Beautiful.
he is so right. (as always)
Thank oyu for sharing this beautiful history. Congratukatons. I admire you! :)
Heart touching 👍
thank you
My favorite Tony Robbins message.
Damn emotional message - I love it !
You can’t give to others like this when you are responsible for others. If you are the breadwinner for your family, giving with the faith of recieiving doesn’t produce meals etc. This idea sounds good tho
It’s true everyone already has this power 👍
I like this man now.
Tony is great love you from Afghanistan
That was powerful!
Awesome stuff Tony!
I believe in you and myself
Enjoy you happy!
Tony Robbins You have just narrated one of the TOP SECRETS of the BIBLE! #bibleprinciple
Incredible story Tony but let's keep the language clean okay? What a wonderful gesture something you can never forget.
Definitely is true.🌎🙏
Awesome!!!!!
powerful
Tony! I respect you from south-korean :)
YES!
wonderful message, thank u!
Masterpiece
#AMAZING!!!!
Emocionou...
ALONE, LONELINESS AND ISOLATION THAT GOOD TO BE DELUSION SITUATION RATHER BAD COMPANY... LOVE & MISS SOMEONE ARE TWO WORLD DIFFICULT FOR LIVING PEACE OF HEART, PEACE OF SOUL,, PEACE OF MIND & PEACE OF BODY. THEN A HARD PILES TO SWALLOW... DRUG IS MEDICINES OR MEDICINES IS DRUG.... THANK YOU.. MR. ANTONY ROBBINS
What we keep we lose; only what we give remains our own. Motto/Proverb
Really inspiring video Tony ! Much love mate
Wow
Can’t wait to see God in few months. He is the biggest inspiration ever!
Immediately gave to Effective Altruism after watching this. Take that scarcity!!!!! :)
Shit, that really touched me deep
Anyone else watching this in 2018? How doea this even have 48K view only?
Zakath ❤️
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Tony, I know that that is true about giving when you don't have it to give and you will get it back! BUT!!! My sister does that all the time and nothing happens..she just get less and less of it! How do you explain that!?
@suesalley3038
8 жыл бұрын
+patty cu my father did too. Same thing but he out his faith before his dollar. What my dad has now a daughter who remembers him every day. His riches are in heaven for eternity that is longer than life time here on earth.
@jdncoke2
8 жыл бұрын
+patty cu i think it is a very important principle but i agree, i don't believe you should be extreme in anything and i certainly don't believe in some divine intervention that is going to take care of me if i gave the last from my wallet away, just hasn't been my experience, but giving is important, in many ways
@pattycu68
8 жыл бұрын
RLP1989 Thanks!
@pattycu68
8 жыл бұрын
Serhan Ozulup Thanks
@pattycu68
8 жыл бұрын
Sue Salley Thanks
To fly high you have to hit rock bottom
@frv6610
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds scary
i have a question how do you cobtribute to the world if you dont have any income?
@Telekon5
7 жыл бұрын
Offer a kind word or a smile to someone. There are more ways to be of value than just money.
Double edged sword
Her mum must have taught him or he must have observed his dad treating his mum well. Guess so.
There' are no coincidences with God!!
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If only it were true
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Lol I love Tony Robbins. His body is kinda miss shaped tho
@itBchrisP
8 жыл бұрын
He had/has a brain tumor on his pituitary gland..
@king-nick2023
8 жыл бұрын
+itBchrisP yeah I remember him saying that
Sweetheart what are you doing ?
it's pretty much the same script for tithes and offering time in church
Isn't it natural for people to search for what is missing in their life? Those need money work for it, those who need health focus on it. We all work on our needs right?
"Whenever you give, it's always gonna come back" - so where the heck is the inspirational part?! That's not giving, that's plain trading.
@fitzgeraldmistral97
8 жыл бұрын
+Corneliu Nicoara You forgot the 'WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE IT' part. To give in that state is truly NOT trading, unless trading with some greater power, and not human beings or the material world, is somehow bad or not at all inspirational and purely mundane to you. He almost said GOD there. If your argument is humans are not to give anything for some greater good that you cannot perceive in the now but believe to be the right thing to do, then you're stuck in a very materialistic, egotistical thinking paradigm. The idea of giving without expecting a return while knowing that there is a return because of universal laws is what liberates you from scarcity.
8 жыл бұрын
+Fitzgerald Mistral No, man, I haven't forgot any part.
@SuperEddie0228
8 жыл бұрын
+Corneliu Nicoara the wealth is created in the giving. And the way you get it back is not always financial. it could be in so many different ways sometimes it's just in the giving that you are rewarded by just the feeling you recieve from helping another. I think you may have missed the message he was trying to give us. I hope this helps. And I hope your life is touched in so many great ways by this
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You obviously missed my point.
@SuperEddie0228
8 жыл бұрын
+Corneliu Nicoara I'm sorry Corneliu. Please tell me what it was so I can understand
Nah, not how this works
Thank you Tony
I love this video. Just fuckin give. Thank you Tony ! God bless you !