The sad future of women

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  • @48webber
    @48webber Жыл бұрын

    Boxed wine, cats and the BATTERY OPERATED BANANA

  • @mazmalik2394

    @mazmalik2394

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @lavatun

    @lavatun

    Жыл бұрын

    That's unfair to say.. That banana did nothing wrong..

  • @joseph200ful

    @joseph200ful

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @maxsweet3000

    @maxsweet3000

    Жыл бұрын

    Battery operated banana or B.O.B for short.😂😂😂

  • @oscarfalcon5298

    @oscarfalcon5298

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jessimanzanarez8849
    @jessimanzanarez8849 Жыл бұрын

    Key words: "You're not stupid, you're just mislead".

  • @gathitoloco83

    @gathitoloco83

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s how to sugar coat it, even though, facts are facts, she is stvpid 😂

  • @williamwallace410

    @williamwallace410

    Жыл бұрын

    Yet, a wise woman wouldn’t follow bad advice.

  • @imtheonewiththebestprofile5648

    @imtheonewiththebestprofile5648

    Жыл бұрын

    @@williamwallace410 everybody follows bad advice when it comes from the heart of those you love and respect, that's why we make mistakes in the first place

  • @DarkCelestialConsciousness

    @DarkCelestialConsciousness

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@williamwallace410the only women who r stupid r the ones falling for this. u don't hv to hv wine or cats to b happy on your own with your friends and family. this is literally grooming of women live. truth is u can be a leader in this world and studies prove the happiest demographic is single women vs these unmarried manipulative misogynistic predator males who r the least happy. they r trapping u to b a slave or servant to them ladies if u can't c that then u will find out after wasting years of your life not being loved slaving away for free with no proof of job history or over working yourself unlike him being lazy with more stamina and higher metabolic rate as a male but j going to work and that's it.. Also youre not doing wat u rly love if u hv no time. follow your soul. don't rush to get married. don't settle for anyone unless they're safe compatible and your bff. u don't need to hv kids. u don't hv to worship males. u can love yourself and b happy if u love God instead.

  • @NeuroNapalm

    @NeuroNapalm

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@williamwallace410 stupid comment

  • @vikaodd
    @vikaodd Жыл бұрын

    I think they're missing the most important part of getting married is finding someone that is actually an actual compatible and safe person to marry. 21 and below is usually way too naive to read people and jumping into marriage and having kids is not a good idea when you don't even know red flags or green flags. I think it's smart of her to take her time at her pace, that way she's at least less likely to stay stuck with a bad person for LIFE bc of a decision she made too young. She was making a general estimation of when she thought she felt ready and that's really only her business.

  • @gkagara

    @gkagara

    9 ай бұрын

    Not really, marriage is a commitment not because of liking, maybe at the first 2-3 years but after 3rd children was born you no longer "love" You have sense of camaraderie, like soldier on the battlefield. There is nobody that totally compatible with each other there has to be something to give and something to take.

  • @Levi-wk2hg

    @Levi-wk2hg

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes, we had married 23 year olds flying bombers over Germany, commanding a crew of 8. Navigating the soft society of today and a marriage is too much for a 20 year old women.. To be fair, young folks today are extremely immature. Coupled with the bs feminist propaganda and it's no wonder marriage is a no go or a mid thirties plan. Women have 10 years to find a husband and get on the family making. 18-28. Outside 28 a women's sexual market value declines rapidly. Beyond 30 and her chances of conception drop dramatically. Beyond 35 a pregnancy is geriatric and carries high risk of medical complications. Yes, if a women desires a family, then finding a husband is the priority.

  • @marquesekj

    @marquesekj

    8 ай бұрын

    Women run into compatible men every fucking day but he's just not driving a rolls royce so they get overlooked

  • @vikaodd

    @vikaodd

    8 ай бұрын

    @@gkagara I agree with you but but by compatibility im not talking about attraction, I'm talking about how people in their early stages of adulthood are still usually too naive to understand the difference between good and bad people. I know there's a lot of men out there, amazing ones in fact regardless of status. However there are still a lot of dangerous or bad people out there that look just like everyone else and you need to be very careful who you pick. Even in many other circumstances, if the romantic interest isn't a dangerous or bad person, the two must be able to tolerate each other when the attraction is gone on a person to person basis. People all work and function differently so I just think it's understandable for some people to take longer to settle. I'd assume most people would want to marry someone that makes them feel like they can be themselves comfortably instead of jumping so fast with anyone only based on attraction when they might end up being someone they can't stand to live with. They must at least have the same values in life or they both have to be open minded and understanding people towards each other's views and perspectives. That's why I find it sad that these people were pushing on the the idea of "you better hurry up and have kids, you're running out of time". I'm sure she's lowkey looking for that right person too, it's a hard thing for some people to admit about themselves because they don't want to come off as desperate even if theres nothing wrong with looking for a partner. I'm sure if she finds her right person that she and her partner will think on it and decide when they are ready or if that's not something they'd want for themselves. And no relationship is perfect but the dynamic of the relationship still matters when it comes to being a decently healthy couple and the capabilities of them lasting together.

  • @vikaodd

    @vikaodd

    8 ай бұрын

    @@marquesekj every person is different. There are a lot of superficial people and there can be more or less of them depending on your area. But I promise you that there are also a lot of kind women that don't care about things like that when it comes to a partner. Life is expensive but a lot of women will still be very down to settle for a man with less as long as they can both happily manage to afford the bare necessities of living. Of course that might not be the most ideal situation for some people but many women will still drop anything and everything for a man that is a gentleman that respects her as a person with her own opinions and feelings. They say open mindedness is the key to opening hearts. And if they are not the one, someone else will be. This world likes to test us so when we do find the one it feels more special than it ever could've possibly before. Keep doing the things you love to do with passion and dress up in your favorite fresh styles. Explore some interests you've been wanting to try out and take the time to feel like the person you are inside and when a fine beautiful girl sees you being your truest self, she'd love to tag along and be a part of that. Just keep owning the person you are and if you work a lot remind yourself that it's okay to treat yourself. After all, life is meant to be lived so do what makes you happy!

  • @TradWifeyxo
    @TradWifeyxo Жыл бұрын

    I got married at 25 and had our first baby at 29. Currently pregnant w baby #2 and I couldn't have planned our life out any better. Me and my husband had 7 beautiful years child free together where we bonded and discussed plans for our future. It's definitely important to plan your life out. You should have an idea about what age you'd like to be married and have children.

  • @benjohnston2558

    @benjohnston2558

    10 ай бұрын

    You should. Before 30.

  • @Rays_Bad_Decisions

    @Rays_Bad_Decisions

    10 ай бұрын

    Good you didn't wait any longer

  • @stuff2008

    @stuff2008

    9 ай бұрын

    your children were born with shorter telomeres, and will carry any of the dna damage from drinking and chemical exposer you had. The longer you wait the more your family with carry depreciated genetics. If you average that across an entire society and 3 generations it is a disgusting picture from the genetic perspective. take a peak at the neurological disorders appearing in children.

  • @mysticjen379

    @mysticjen379

    9 ай бұрын

    You can’t just walk into Tesco and lick a husband and children off the shelf. Some of us did plan our lives out, and did have an idea but it didn’t work out that way 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @TradWifeyxo

    @TradWifeyxo

    9 ай бұрын

    @mysticjen379 im confused with your reply. Are you upset? I didn't mean to offend anyone or make anyone feel inferior I'm just grateful God blessed me with the life I have.

  • @BathiX
    @BathiX Жыл бұрын

    Failure humbles men and time humbles women.

  • @woahlil6666

    @woahlil6666

    10 ай бұрын

    Its vice versa but time affectd them harder. It affects men even harder if we dont put in the work to create solutitions.

  • @CGODWORK8626
    @CGODWORK8626 Жыл бұрын

    Break that generational curse young lady!

  • @KingsGloryPath

    @KingsGloryPath

    Жыл бұрын

    👏🏻

  • @nitaw.498

    @nitaw.498

    Жыл бұрын

    What generational curse, single motherhood?

  • @asaintnamedslickback

    @asaintnamedslickback

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nitaw.498 That is definitely a bad thing, and in her case, would be a generational curse.

  • @steviemak10

    @steviemak10

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nitaw.498 yes! Single parenthood. Too many single parents set their own child up for FAILURE and be putting them at a disadvantage.

  • @deyh5664

    @deyh5664

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nitaw.498 If she has the mentality that she has now, then yeah, probably single mom. If she would do it like she should and be a good wife, then it's MUCH more likely to be a long succesfull and happy family life.

  • @michaelwilliamson3551
    @michaelwilliamson35519 ай бұрын

    My grandmother is also a single parent. You said it all right there..

  • @balodayrehabcentre9504
    @balodayrehabcentre9504 Жыл бұрын

    Im 20 yrs old med student my mom is also a doctor and my dad died due to kidney failure its been 13 yrs my mom raised me alone she is independent doesn't need a man to take care off her i had a lot off respect for her ❤

  • @rahiemdancy5462

    @rahiemdancy5462

    8 ай бұрын

    It doesn't mean she's not lonely.... I'm just saying

  • @MistaVillain
    @MistaVillain Жыл бұрын

    She’s been lied to for 20 years straight

  • @nitaw.498

    @nitaw.498

    Жыл бұрын

    I must have missed something; I didn't hear her say that her mom told her not to get married or to get married later in life.

  • @shinobusensui2960

    @shinobusensui2960

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nitaw.498 fact. But IN MOST CASES a single mother is not teaching their daughter “get a man at your peak age settle down” they’re telling them to chase a career so you never have to rely on anyone (especially a man) but you are right she never did say that so her mom might not be telling her that

  • @harthart7529

    @harthart7529

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nitaw.498 actions speak louder than words.

  • @D.A.N.....

    @D.A.N.....

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@harthart7529 you are the smartest in this whole comment, respect brother or sister

  • @Sanxioned1

    @Sanxioned1

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@harthart7529...and the mothers actions show one can be happy and successful with a job too. What's your point?

  • @corpr8dystopia778
    @corpr8dystopia778 Жыл бұрын

    all these 35 - 40 year old woman at my work are miserable, trying to find a man, trying tobget married, etc. 😂

  • @sandraajuzia2181

    @sandraajuzia2181

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm female 40 years old and single My Mim was is still a good example to me . She got married at 21 years old. She is very good

  • @divinecreations2410

    @divinecreations2410

    Жыл бұрын

    Where do you work? Amma come over 😅😅😅😅

  • @sandraajuzia2181

    @sandraajuzia2181

    Жыл бұрын

    That's sad that they are miserable as u said. It's sad they have to talk about finding Man while at work.

  • @tuw2528

    @tuw2528

    Жыл бұрын

    I work for a large top 5 banking institution, the post wall women with no husband and no kids are the saddest people at my work

  • @Shitsngigz

    @Shitsngigz

    Жыл бұрын

    Well that's on them. We don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. Most people are toxic and unhealed anyway.

  • @kikz2358
    @kikz2358 Жыл бұрын

    This man of all people shouldn’t be having opinions about when women should get married when he’s the first one to say he cant do commitments.😂😂

  • @reaperjaz5168

    @reaperjaz5168

    10 ай бұрын

    Him not committing is for a whole different and actually very logical reason

  • @SeanMcCaffrey-zo4jw

    @SeanMcCaffrey-zo4jw

    9 ай бұрын

    Nobody commits to a used car with 300,000 miles and shitty interior. When he can go get a new, pristine Ferrari with 0 miles on the dashboard. Dumbass 😂

  • @ErikHelmsman

    @ErikHelmsman

    9 ай бұрын

    That's like saying a doctor can't diagnose a medical condition without first having it...

  • @mizzash21

    @mizzash21

    9 ай бұрын

    @@reaperjaz5168haha right ok, a woman's reason isn't valid but his is because an uneducated person on the internet thinks so?? 😂😂😂

  • @gilian2554

    @gilian2554

    9 ай бұрын

    How is it an opinion that it's a bad idea to wait till 35 to get married and have children? This is a straight up fact. Did your mom also lie to you?

  • @fullmetalalkami6466
    @fullmetalalkami646610 ай бұрын

    A single mother that works is absolutely not a failure.

  • @creepwalker

    @creepwalker

    9 ай бұрын

    Depens what made her single.

  • @Shushkin

    @Shushkin

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes she is.

  • @jot5445

    @jot5445

    9 ай бұрын

    She failed her relationship 😢😢

  • @helenaj9436

    @helenaj9436

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@jot5445I was making $75,000. He chose to move and live with his mommy. 💁‍♀️ Now, I am married, we are debt free and I can homeschool. My husband works if he feels like it. Even with kids, some ppl shouldn't stay together if it'll be toxic. All you do is raise fuqed up humans. Raising kids who repeat the cycle may be your idea of good but those are the ppl you laugh at and talk shit abt. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @loganhaynes2278

    @loganhaynes2278

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@helenaj9436 I'm sure he just left for no reason at all to go and live with his mom. Lol sounds like you are just talking down on him and don't even acknowledge your own participation in the failed marriage.

  • @constanceclark4541
    @constanceclark4541 Жыл бұрын

    How did her Mom fail? She had her daughter. Took care of her. Got and education became a lawyer.Getting advice from a F-boy and a Pick me is sad to hear

  • @paccawacca4069

    @paccawacca4069

    Жыл бұрын

    Her mom had be a single parent stressed as hell. No amount of lawyering can change that.

  • @Ziggyhere57

    @Ziggyhere57

    Жыл бұрын

    The pick-me isn't the issue it the f-boy

  • @iSoldat

    @iSoldat

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ziggyhere57 f-boys are f-boys. The f-boy is to the modern woman as the apple was to Eve. The choice is on the girls who CHOOSE the f-boys.

  • @reezndukwe9339

    @reezndukwe9339

    Жыл бұрын

    Her mom and grandmother never settled with a man. Her mom is 51 and she's 20 which means she give birth to her (out of wedlock just like granny) when the mom was 31. Doesn't that show a chain of bad examples she should avoid?

  • @agustinortiz9361

    @agustinortiz9361

    Жыл бұрын

    Some of these dudes trying andrew tate logic and it doesnt work 😂

  • @icantbelievehalfofwhatihear
    @icantbelievehalfofwhatihear Жыл бұрын

    I was married at 23. It was the best decision of my life and I can still say that 23 years later. I’ve been with him 30 years total. My children are happy. My grandchildren are happy. I have 3 college degrees and a career but my family and my offspring are mine and my husband’s legacy and the greatest results of a life well lived.

  • @kuzmanovic2D

    @kuzmanovic2D

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh no. You gonna make some people very angry with such positive talk.

  • @Sheddertje

    @Sheddertje

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@kuzmanovic2D she is 1 of the very little few haha

  • @jamesferry5119

    @jamesferry5119

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on a fantastic life and providing for your family

  • @amiravdic7451

    @amiravdic7451

    Жыл бұрын

    WHY U ON THESE VIDS THEN lol

  • @Mr.Kan360

    @Mr.Kan360

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes because you put out. A lot married women feel they dont have to pleasure their men.

  • @Darkend-uo5kg
    @Darkend-uo5kg9 ай бұрын

    My mom is a hard worker she was a single mother and now she has found the right person. A mom who work there butts off for children is not a failure.

  • @soldado23

    @soldado23

    8 ай бұрын

    Why she was single?

  • @rahiemdancy5462

    @rahiemdancy5462

    8 ай бұрын

    And ya mom is one of the lucky ones cause in reality you usually find yourself by yourself especially her age... I'm just saying

  • @CaseyAnthonyDidThatSht
    @CaseyAnthonyDidThatSht Жыл бұрын

    There’s nothing wrong with a mom that works. Not every woman wants to be a stay at home mom.

  • @marioride2447

    @marioride2447

    Жыл бұрын

    How old are you?

  • @CaseyAnthonyDidThatSht

    @CaseyAnthonyDidThatSht

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marioride2447 married with children

  • @bakuryuu1009

    @bakuryuu1009

    Жыл бұрын

    Its not weong but it shouldnt be their entire goal in life. When we choose a woman for marriage, we dont really care about her career

  • @tanishapaul6591

    @tanishapaul6591

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree 👍

  • @masquerades9956

    @masquerades9956

    Жыл бұрын

    A mom that works and single due to a man leaving is not the move I'm pretty sure a lot of women would love to be with their children instead I'm sure you'd agree of you're married with children or would you rather choose the job instead of kids

  • @lmonica
    @lmonica Жыл бұрын

    She is young and should work on herself first. It’s all in Gods timing. Don’t listen to these hypocrites.

  • @gilian2554

    @gilian2554

    9 ай бұрын

    You honestly think she is "working on herself"? Haha. These podcast are literally lineups of promiscious women, pornstars and prostitutes. God, I am starting to dislike women more and more the more comments I read. "Gods timing", f me.

  • @ianfinney7820

    @ianfinney7820

    9 ай бұрын

    Ll in who's timing?

  • @marisfreibergs4175

    @marisfreibergs4175

    9 ай бұрын

    You should work on yourself your whole life. Married or unmarried.

  • @lmonica

    @lmonica

    9 ай бұрын

    @@marisfreibergs4175 I agree people should always work on themselves. But everything happens in Gods timing. Young people shouldn’t be taking the advice of influencers such as these who cannot themselves practice what they preach. People can plan to get married at 20 but sometimes that’s not God’s plan only he knows if and when someone will get married.

  • @lmonica

    @lmonica

    9 ай бұрын

    @@ianfinney7820 Do not be deceived God cannot be mocked. Everything is in the Lord of Lords, The King of Kings, God Almighty’s timing.

  • @wella12345
    @wella12345 Жыл бұрын

    My mom is a single mom, solid as a rock, raised a doctor and an engineer. Despite odds, she raised us to who we are today. I thank her every single day for raising competent members of society. NO ONE dictates when you are to marry. Fulfill your dreams.

  • @SlyRy5

    @SlyRy5

    10 ай бұрын

    The fact you had to say “despite odds” kinda shows something. God bless

  • @gilian2554

    @gilian2554

    9 ай бұрын

    You are just an exception then because the vast majority of children with single parents are far worse off, this is just a fact backed by historical data. And a good job doesn't mean much when it comes to being successful in marriage and raising children. And he is not dictating anyone when to get married. He is giving her advice, good advice. Do you even know what kind of women go on these podcasts? They are all premiscious or sex workers. "Fulfill your dreams" sounds really stupid in this context. Yeah, wait a few decades to reach your goal to marry and have children and pretend it's going to be oke just so you don't get your precious feelings hurt by advice. Your comment screams that you never had a father figure in your life. Emotional, not rational and defending women at all costs because a man spoke up and gave some hard to hear advice. Literally anyone with a brain knows it's not smart to wait till around 35 yo to get married and have children if that is what you actually want. Which coincidentally is also the most productive thing you can do for society, it's not having a good job.

  • @Myers-ji1bl
    @Myers-ji1bl Жыл бұрын

    I think the fact that she raised her as a singal parent she did a good job, and better than most.

  • @r.m.l2665

    @r.m.l2665

    Жыл бұрын

    Or maybe she should have had picked a better man so her daughter had a father around and she wouldn't have to work at 51

  • @theerarestjewel

    @theerarestjewel

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@r.m.l2665But the red pill talking point, is to not date single moms, so if her mom decided to date she would be dating a simp.

  • @mr_alex7765

    @mr_alex7765

    10 ай бұрын

    @@r.m.l2665Eminem wouldn’t mess w that sentence 😭😭 u don’t come from that life so that’s hella easy for u to say ig

  • @estherherrington1037
    @estherherrington1037 Жыл бұрын

    Genuine appreciation for the respect he held for her. Told her the hard truth but doesn't tear her down doing it

  • @prezcristone03

    @prezcristone03

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah dude has mad respect from me

  • @tazz28269

    @tazz28269

    Жыл бұрын

    i don't like how he said that her mom failed thats probably what her mom wanted to do everyone has they own views on their own life you cant just sit up there and say that about someone without knowing them

  • @nitaw.498

    @nitaw.498

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@tazz28269 I totally agree; he was out of line and he should have stayed in his lane. He doesn't know her or her mom.

  • @devontezp347

    @devontezp347

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@tazz28269 her mom did fail her by not telling her the truth. You guys realize that mothers tend to be in competition with their daughters. Older women will lie to younger women to avoid competing with them. Older & younger women are both competing for the same group of men who are the top earners.

  • @devontezp347

    @devontezp347

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nitaw.498 he wasn't out of line. Her mom did fail her & she doesn't even realize it. Mothers especially single mothers will not tell their daughters the truth about marriage & relationships. They don't want their daughters doing better than them.

  • @TJ-mj1dx
    @TJ-mj1dx Жыл бұрын

    These men are so angry that marriage isn’t our first priority

  • @corey552

    @corey552

    Жыл бұрын

    At the end of your life, the only thing that will be there for you is either the family, or the emptiness that you created. Pick one.

  • @zhaviyabetgeri1111

    @zhaviyabetgeri1111

    Жыл бұрын

    Bcoz they want young woman to have there babies so that they can sleep around outside with other woman, man just want to control woman in either way. If wife finds about there dirty business they just leave them, there are so many single moms taking care of there children's they are not depending on these worthless man

  • @corey552

    @corey552

    Жыл бұрын

    @divlnnityx where did I indicate life was black and white? The only people that will be there for you at then end stage of your life is your family, if you do not have a family, you with be alone and you will die alone. Ive seen it too many times and it's awful to hear people say on their death bed that they regret not having a family.

  • @corey552

    @corey552

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bizarreadventure636 choosing neither is to choose to die alone.

  • @lilybretzinger5604

    @lilybretzinger5604

    Жыл бұрын

    Ok y’all need to understand it’s weird that this generation just doesn’t want to love anyone that’s not them self or have a family to grow old with ur only in ur 20s for 10 years after that there’s no more oh we’ll all I need is fun that’s not a way to live😭our generation needs help! and Jesus like Fr we need to Jesus❤

  • @Bongobjork
    @Bongobjork9 ай бұрын

    Honestly I love that he said that to her the way he said it. Polite yet straight

  • @ardez8674
    @ardez8674 Жыл бұрын

    Why can't a woman have a decent career and be a wife? Why is that never the case. My gf is a med student and soon a doctor, amazing and smart, something these guys can't even comprehense.

  • @tanL22

    @tanL22

    Жыл бұрын

    Because it's a blow to their fragile egos. Red pill men can't stand the fact that women are doing better than them and no longer need a man.

  • @brandi1294

    @brandi1294

    Жыл бұрын

    A lot of men want a woman they can control and keep stuck.. they can’t fathom allowing their equal accomplish their goals and lifelong dreams, let alone see them as an equal. It’s rooted in insecurity tbh. And simply a reflection of their cognitive dissonance.

  • @ardez8674

    @ardez8674

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brandi1294 Ye I can agree. Sounds kinda narcissistic tbh.

  • @brandi1294

    @brandi1294

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ardez8674 makes sense. The data shows both narcissistic behavior as well as clinical diagnoses on the rise. It’s an epidemic.

  • @Ziggyhere57

    @Ziggyhere57

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't mind that but I still wanna be a breadwinner and have leadership

  • @LisaLloyd-qp6sw
    @LisaLloyd-qp6sw Жыл бұрын

    We all are born with two ears and one mouth..... We should listen twice as much than talk ...... Telling you for a friend ❤

  • @mangomoon

    @mangomoon

    Жыл бұрын

    it's to detect sound from predators from 360 degrees and triangulate the origin point, we don't need to speak in all directions.

  • @ednakrabapoly

    @ednakrabapoly

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@mangomoon lmao pinpoint autism

  • @south-east-asia801

    @south-east-asia801

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, i need to learn this a lot. Amen

  • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

    @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

    Жыл бұрын

    Women dont lissten. Hahaha what are the odds she even remembers what he said?!? 😂😂😂 another pump and dump woman.

  • @lmt3466
    @lmt3466 Жыл бұрын

    She said BY 35, not when she’s 35. If he would listen to what she had to say he would know that he misunderstood

  • @dutchdude1985

    @dutchdude1985

    10 ай бұрын

    This point isnt revolving around the semantics of 33-34-35, after 24 her desirability drops off a cliff. You dont have to like his take but he's trying to say by the time she thinks to be ready for it she can not likely keep the man she actually aims for.

  • @-KMA-

    @-KMA-

    10 ай бұрын

    He’s a clown

  • @-KMA-

    @-KMA-

    10 ай бұрын

    @@dutchdude1985why does her desirability drop off, because clowns like him said so?

  • @dutchdude1985

    @dutchdude1985

    10 ай бұрын

    @@-KMA- We seek different things in serious commitments. If were talking wife/mother then yes just like majority of women want a guy with his shit in order and able to provide and secure, men will want a young fertile woman with little baggage. Women get their value from youth while men work to attain their value. We arent judged by the same standard, we are not equal. Hate me for it but we are not equal and that the lovely thing too. A 35 year old woman can get a date but its increasingly unlikely she will attract the type of man she will describe to be looking for as those types of men have options and will not pick her as a long term mate/wife/mother of their children.

  • @GodlyKJ

    @GodlyKJ

    10 ай бұрын

    By 35 still shouldn’t have even been an answer. That’s implying 35 is the latest age you should get married when you’re already in hot water if you’re not married by 25 which SHOULD HAVE been the answer.

  • @manda090
    @manda090 Жыл бұрын

    Don’t listen to this boy or anyone who says that 35 is old because is not . Right time is gonna come when you’re ready.

  • @Jessknowsbestt

    @Jessknowsbestt

    8 ай бұрын

    👏👏

  • @shekinahsmalls9156
    @shekinahsmalls9156 Жыл бұрын

    Honey at whatever age is best for you, don't listen to these people. Cause if you were rushing to get married then they would call you thirsty, if you wait then they call you good for nothing and an old maid ...you can't win. Live your life and do what makes you happy at whatever age

  • @user-mf9wg6jq5f

    @user-mf9wg6jq5f

    Жыл бұрын

    Well when chicks wait too long their desirability along with their fertility drops huge. The people who call them out for getting married too young want them miserable like they are.

  • @louminara

    @louminara

    Жыл бұрын

    Best comment I have read ever

  • @user-tt3ni4gb5i

    @user-tt3ni4gb5i

    Жыл бұрын

    Horrible advice

  • @nelsonzambrano5788

    @nelsonzambrano5788

    Жыл бұрын

    I'd have to go with "misled" again...can't fight biology...

  • @skyebowleyn6364

    @skyebowleyn6364

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @Jeffjenkins55
    @Jeffjenkins55 Жыл бұрын

    I love this guy , this is the guy all these women want and he’s shutting them down calling them stupid 😂

  • @tdenton1138

    @tdenton1138

    Жыл бұрын

    Not stupid. Misled. Big difference

  • @CalebsAquarium

    @CalebsAquarium

    Жыл бұрын

    This is the same dude that rationalized men cheating saying women should accept it if they want to keep a high value man. I believe it was this same podcast. Cheating is cheating and is wrong man or woman.

  • @TheStarSentiel

    @TheStarSentiel

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@CalebsAquarium Its different for men and women. You must be middle class. Don't cheat of you're not wealthy you can only afford one woman while a rich man can share his resources with many

  • @coldhardtruth333

    @coldhardtruth333

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheStarSentiel don’t be stupid

  • @moneymantra7318

    @moneymantra7318

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheStarSentiel are you wealthy? Serious question.

  • @josephgilmore1773
    @josephgilmore17739 ай бұрын

    We live (even men) in such a deluted world it's really nice to hear someone speak TRUTH

  • @rosesyrup1104
    @rosesyrup1104 Жыл бұрын

    This is the same man that said "Who are you to tell me what path to choose in life or what will make me happy😡" when a woman pointed out he can't commit to one woman and has no self control

  • @wagnerlacerda5854
    @wagnerlacerda5854 Жыл бұрын

    This man is savage and truthful to his core.

  • @TheShowOff2I

    @TheShowOff2I

    Жыл бұрын

    He can say this and have women pay attention since he’s a top level guy, if a more average type of guy said what he’s saying they would laugh and call him a bitter Incel that hates women and simply dismiss his message 😂

  • @alexmauger4533

    @alexmauger4533

    Жыл бұрын

    "She has failed as your will." 😳

  • @007anas

    @007anas

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you know this guy, because I want to watch some more videos of him

  • @Loco520

    @Loco520

    Жыл бұрын

    @@007anas his name is justin waller

  • @007anas

    @007anas

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Loco520 thanks

  • @courtneysnyder4093
    @courtneysnyder4093 Жыл бұрын

    Brutal honesty. Thank you, sir.

  • @bertooo1358

    @bertooo1358

    Жыл бұрын

    We need it now more then ever this world has gone so crazy

  • @butterflies8089

    @butterflies8089

    Жыл бұрын

    Coming from a guy who has no loyalty to woman and can't commit to one women. He is just as much a part of the problem

  • @prashanthhkumar

    @prashanthhkumar

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@bertooo1358I am Indian. A country which is still regarded as partriachal in its culture Even poor uneducated villagers in my country also don't say womans only job is to be a wife and mother😂 Our country is much forward than this so called modern Americans who are lecturing woman to be a wife and mother😂😂😂

  • @fairo2x
    @fairo2x9 ай бұрын

    They’re the ones who are misled. How dare they tell her that her Mom has failed her?! The audacity! SMFH!!

  • @scottmiller5094
    @scottmiller5094 Жыл бұрын

    That’s super sad to hear .. I’ll never lie to my daughter like that

  • @teddysprague2044

    @teddysprague2044

    Жыл бұрын

    Whos lying?

  • @miguelmnza1242

    @miguelmnza1242

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@teddysprague2044if you read between the lines, he was actually referring to the parent. Haha

  • @teddysprague2044

    @teddysprague2044

    Жыл бұрын

    @@miguelmnza1242 I apologize. I was confused. Thank you. I'm not a very smart man. I'm also old. Bless you.

  • @miguelmnza1242

    @miguelmnza1242

    Жыл бұрын

    @@teddysprague2044 its no problem maam/sir, Glad to have been of help. Please Take care!

  • @rrai-

    @rrai-

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@teddysprague2044 i could tell he meant the mom lier to her but the video doesnt really explain how, its too edited, its normal for u to miss it. Its not about u being dumb😔 how u gonna say that like that

  • @goingxxcrazy
    @goingxxcrazy Жыл бұрын

    I mean I got married at 30. Started having kids at 32. It really isn’t that bad. If anything I feel like I’m a better parent than I would have been in my 20’s.

  • @TradWifeyxo

    @TradWifeyxo

    9 ай бұрын

    Same girl!

  • @eddyalvarez2078

    @eddyalvarez2078

    9 ай бұрын

    30 is not bad meaning they be 18 by the time you are 48 50 meaning you be in their adult life guiding them but 40 is just to old

  • @Jamming0ut

    @Jamming0ut

    9 ай бұрын

    Poor your husband, how big is your body count? A 30 yo is for sure a town bicycle

  • @TradWifeyxo

    @TradWifeyxo

    9 ай бұрын

    @eddyalvarez2078 and by the time my kids are 30 our 2 properties will be paid off and passed down to them. I think 30 is a good age to have children in my opnion cause you damn sure need the patience and life experience

  • @ejikeonu9419

    @ejikeonu9419

    8 ай бұрын

    If you had tried to learn the right values early, you would have also been a good mother at 20.

  • @johnlmorse9068
    @johnlmorse9068 Жыл бұрын

    This is the answer you get when there has been two generations of no husbands/good father in the home. It's sad when the mother sells the decisions they made as the best option. Someone please stop this cycle of failure.

  • @karlirosek

    @karlirosek

    Жыл бұрын

    i was thinking about this…why has there been generations of very little good father figures/husbands? because women are replacing them. women are degrading them. women are taking the lead roles and not honoring the husbands/fathers place. i 100% agree that we need to stop this cycle and it’s going to stop by women starting to understand and step into their feminine role and stop trying to be the man.

  • @nitaw.498

    @nitaw.498

    Жыл бұрын

    So if you're not married you're a failure?

  • @Que772

    @Que772

    Жыл бұрын

    You mean 3-4 generations and a person can only teach what they know

  • @taetheruler

    @taetheruler

    Жыл бұрын

    That is not true because people can also know that there is BETTER or a better option but choose not to take it or work for it. We have to stop making excuses

  • @dvbibbs192

    @dvbibbs192

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree but i also dont understand why Pearl isnt married and doesn't have 8 children like her mom. She's a modern, career woman about her business/money. The total opposite of the women before her.

  • @RogerWilcoSnr
    @RogerWilcoSnr Жыл бұрын

    Just look at the anger & arrogance in her eyes. Utterly delusional.

  • @heinrich8644

    @heinrich8644

    Жыл бұрын

    Lima you are the same , only anger and arrogance person can see themselves in other people , 😂

  • @estherherrington1037

    @estherherrington1037

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean if I was taught to believe a lie I'd be angered if someone told me what I thought was truth was actually a lie. All these problems we're facing in American society aren't because of anything besides people. We have a people problem, dancing dressed as the devil and mocking God. It's been proven throughout existence that when you leave the creator you lose life. Let's get back to life yall.

  • @mr.j822

    @mr.j822

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Heinrich im a pyschologists got my phd and masters as well as bachelor's so no thats not true i have to deal with angry clients all the time, if i was angry and had no peace in my life id have no way of consulting with and helping others let alone understanding them.

  • @sreshxd

    @sreshxd

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean it's true that women are literally in the earth for giving birth to another life, but if she's happy with her life like that free from responsibilities, why these men literally tell that they are not happy. I mean someone can be happy with their life, but on hearing these men, they'd literally start questioning their happiness wtf 😂

  • @moneymantra7318

    @moneymantra7318

    Жыл бұрын

    Seemed pretty chill too me

  • @anared1990
    @anared1990 Жыл бұрын

    Her family is a vicious cycle😢 One has to fight against it. You should want something better for your kids, you want to give them a good father but you need to set an example for your kids.

  • @onlybeingmeallday
    @onlybeingmeallday Жыл бұрын

    This guy is a manipulative, narcissistic, self-absorbed mess!! Marry when you're ready and when you have found your person🎯💯

  • @munifansar5274

    @munifansar5274

    Жыл бұрын

    Feminist detected. Boooo

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    AGREE

  • @goodnight1530

    @goodnight1530

    Жыл бұрын

    No one marry girls over 30 he's right

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    @@goodnight1530 IVE MET MANY FEMALESS WHI STARTED LIFE OVER AGAIN WITH A NEW MAN AND THESE LADIES WERE IVER 30.

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    @@goodnight1530 RUOER MURDOCH M ILLIONAIRE MARRIED A LADY IN HER 60S ,,JEFF BEZOS IS ENGAGED TO A LADY IN HER 50S ,,,,BILL GATES WAS MARRIED TO MELINDA OVER AGE 50,,,THESE ARE ALL BILLIONAIRE MEN,,,,DONALD TRUMP WIFE IS 51...OBAMA WIFE IS 55.....

  • @wendyestrella4074
    @wendyestrella4074 Жыл бұрын

    People forget everyone has a personal choice..simple.

  • @francescabuonanno2333
    @francescabuonanno2333 Жыл бұрын

    It's her life,honestly no one has the right to judge her.

  • @Pres1dentN1xon2

    @Pres1dentN1xon2

    Жыл бұрын

    Men are judged all the time for not being "real men" and wifing up these whores when they're ready to "settle down". Your response?

  • @CLOUDKID11

    @CLOUDKID11

    10 ай бұрын

    In life everybody gets judged....I can guarantee even you do wether it's conscious or subconscious.

  • @francescabuonanno2333

    @francescabuonanno2333

    10 ай бұрын

    @@CLOUDKID11 no one cares

  • @343Paladin

    @343Paladin

    10 ай бұрын

    @@francescabuonanno2333you think you are tough don’t you lmao😂

  • @cindydelareyna
    @cindydelareyna9 ай бұрын

    Men get SO angry when we don’t put them as a priority. OR if we look good and sexy in our 30s and 40s

  • @debbieshuaib8467
    @debbieshuaib846710 ай бұрын

    It's her choice. She just has to make sure it's hers

  • @TGMasaka
    @TGMasaka Жыл бұрын

    She already said the main crux of the issue. Mom was a single mom, grandma was a single mom. Mom is a strong woman that you wouldn't cross. Yet, 51, career woman, single, with children. It's not that anyone wouldn't cross her, it's that no man wanted her, yet the cycle continues. She already has so much of her mom's attitude in her, and she's going to follow the same path, because single women keep other women single.

  • @manifest2203

    @manifest2203

    Жыл бұрын

    So happy for these women👏

  • @CourtneeG
    @CourtneeG Жыл бұрын

    20 year olds aren’t ready for marriage. 25 you’re just getting to know yourself & building wealth so 28-35 is perfect for marriage. Please do not listen to the internet

  • @Tati843

    @Tati843

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes indeed and you can still get a man around 30 i am currently 25 getting to know myself and what i want my boyfriend is 30 and is courting me he is ready to marry me and i'm just like idk still feel like i am trying find myself but i do want to get married though UPDATE!! (WE ARE ENGAGED NOW MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL)

  • @minggi_

    @minggi_

    Жыл бұрын

    Indeed.... 🎉

  • @paparudaruda2199

    @paparudaruda2199

    Жыл бұрын

    Men are smart about this! They create this idea, boys hear and programme themselves to believe this as a truth. Any healthy women can have kids at 20 (or earlier) but that does not mean they are mentally and emotionally ready for a life commitment with a 35 yo man, that had them all 😅

  • @ClickUp

    @ClickUp

    Жыл бұрын

    More comments like this, please

  • @jaycommonsense2468

    @jaycommonsense2468

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Tati843 for a woman that's old in many cultures

  • @Swadeel21
    @Swadeel21 Жыл бұрын

    I just wish they should listen to his words closely, it's heartbreaking because we know how it's going to be in the years to come, sometimes truth is love.

  • @joeyLpiang
    @joeyLpiang Жыл бұрын

    "Than she has failed as you will", "Boxed wine and cats, that's your life".....he literally judged the book by it's cover. Very narcissistic! That's why people say that most narcissists are financially successful people. 1st of all no one asked why her grandmother and mother decided to become strong single independent parents. How did her grand father/father treated their partner or did they die early on?

  • @kenixandra

    @kenixandra

    Жыл бұрын

    Dude you’re the only one with a brain in these comments!

  • @Mmbwdpnz
    @Mmbwdpnz Жыл бұрын

    Your life is also not gonna be good when you marry the wrong man just to get married. Remember it’s better to be sad and alone, then with someone, still feeling sad and alone.

  • @mysticjen379

    @mysticjen379

    9 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @VicMansaMusa

    @VicMansaMusa

    9 ай бұрын

    That's a bunch of idiotic talk. You will never get everything in a person. It's also better to feel alone in a marriage atleast someone is there sometimes. Atleast someone is helping with something, they can talk to me versus being alone and doing it all. This is why 1in 4 women are having psychological issues because y'all think being alone is the wave. 20% of someone is better than 0%. Use your brain

  • @gilian2554

    @gilian2554

    9 ай бұрын

    Your. But thanks for saying the obvious. /sarcasm Clearly this clip is not about that AT ALL. She is just whoring around.

  • @gilian2554

    @gilian2554

    9 ай бұрын

    @@VicMansaMusa Thank you sir. Finally a sane person.

  • @VicMansaMusa

    @VicMansaMusa

    9 ай бұрын

    @@gilian2554 they love to be victims. They ll be alone, let various men go through them, collect all that trauma then complain for the rest of their lives.

  • @antoniawilliams2627
    @antoniawilliams2627 Жыл бұрын

    Just because someone is married doesn’t mean their happy. Being single isn’t a curse. Sometimes people put too much pressure on others for not having certain things by a certain age.

  • @KeyonnaD

    @KeyonnaD

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Many train young women to believe that marriage is the ultimate stamp of approval on their life and should be the goal. Singleness isn’t a curse and a rushed marriage without proper evaluation of the cost is far worse than being alone.

  • @WarriorSwine811

    @WarriorSwine811

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. If I had married my ex-fiancee at 21, I would SA every night. That would not be a happy marriage, nor would it be a happy life. It is so difficult to find a good man that will be if faith and faithful, provide, protect, parent..... I haven't met a man who would do that. They all told me to out my wellbeing aside to be their mother..... I want a partner, not a baby in a man's body. I'm turning 30 and still single. But at least I'm not gettint SA everynight, 365 days.

  • @rebeccabillingslea

    @rebeccabillingslea

    Жыл бұрын

    However young people who want to get married and have children should not wait FOREVER because the child will be impacted as well having old parents

  • @chibuikemgbirionyeuwa279

    @chibuikemgbirionyeuwa279

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@WarriorSwine811 your a saint all they men are bad. Honestly you have to look at yourself because you sound negatively. Keep on searching for the perfect man soon you will get it a stage you will have no choice then you will buy dogs and cats with toys to satisfy yourself yet that life will still be painful

  • @ashwathshetty333

    @ashwathshetty333

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@et3294 Well if you're really happy being single, you wouldn't be trying to convince strangers of your "happiness" on KZread

  • @travelanddailyvlogs5734
    @travelanddailyvlogs5734 Жыл бұрын

    It’s better not to be married nor have kids than living a miserable life. It’s just a choice. Of course if you found the right guy, then it’s worth giving a shot and have a family. But if you just find a man who keeps you heart broken cuz they can’t be loyal and miserable, then I would rather be single and living my best life travelling and spend my money that will make me happy…. These men are triggered cuz they can’t control a women who are contented to live by themselves.

  • @RavennaRose928
    @RavennaRose928 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 28. I've always wanted to be a wife but I didn't pick the right men. I can't have children and some men don't like that. Some men are abusive. I have to work to take care of myself. So I'm just by myself for now.

  • @christinaalvarez4039
    @christinaalvarez4039 Жыл бұрын

    She's 20, and he's talking to her like she's 30. A grown ass little boy. You can tell he's been a failure

  • @jackshen9235

    @jackshen9235

    Жыл бұрын

    That failure is a multi multi multi millionaire 👌

  • @Uni3.8

    @Uni3.8

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Jack Shen his spirit is poor though , what's the use of his money with a heart that's far from love? Thought so.

  • @jackshen9235

    @jackshen9235

    Жыл бұрын

    I think he meant well, most women in there 30s find it hard to find their dream man. The guy met the females attitude.

  • @bonafide_forever

    @bonafide_forever

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jackshen9235 but he is still a failure!!

  • @KatharinaDa

    @KatharinaDa

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jackshen9235 its always funny when people say „most of women…“ and „most of men…“ like they know the whole world. Everybody just goes by their on narrative. In germany where I live it‘s very normal to have a wedding with 30 or later and then have kids. I know many women marrying even later, happy as ever.

  • @by_tiktok2243
    @by_tiktok2243 Жыл бұрын

    How did her mom fail? She didn’t decide to be a single mother , is what she had to face and she was able to take care of herself and her daughter, an amazing woman , and they didn’t ask her “when do you want to get married?” They asked her “when do you want to be married by?” And those are completely different things

  • @maxpawa9282

    @maxpawa9282

    Жыл бұрын

    because soon she will be a single mom and will celebrate that.

  • @manifest2203

    @manifest2203

    Жыл бұрын

    @@maxpawa9282 still not a failure.

  • @maxpawa9282

    @maxpawa9282

    Жыл бұрын

    @@manifest2203 for you

  • @manifest2203

    @manifest2203

    Жыл бұрын

    @@maxpawa9282 for most women. Living with an unworthy man is the biggest failure for any woman.

  • @derschuhflusterer5673

    @derschuhflusterer5673

    Жыл бұрын

    @@manifest2203 single mother households are the number one source for degenerates, From rapists to murderers. Because no father is there to discipline the child and boys aren’t afraid of their mother after a certain age. That’s why mothers in normal family’s say „wait till you father comes home“

  • @StonagePwnage
    @StonagePwnage10 ай бұрын

    “Boxed wine, cats.” 😭😭😭😭

  • @WWETHROWBACKWILSON
    @WWETHROWBACKWILSON10 ай бұрын

    I don’t listen to people that put pressure on someone that doesn’t have kids or not married yet! I’m 31! I don’t have kids, I’m not married, I’m single! I don’t mind it! I’m alone but I’m not lonely! If in the near future, those things change, then cool! But if they don’t, then cool!

  • @krystleschmidt5937
    @krystleschmidt5937 Жыл бұрын

    As a woman who's turning 31 this year and hasn't been married and doesn't have kids it sucks. I've always wanted to be a wife and a mom and I still do but I don't have many years left to have the opportunity to have children.

  • @Shitsngigz

    @Shitsngigz

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t be dramatic. Yes you do. Many women I know had kids when they were 37 just fine

  • @arielrocks10

    @arielrocks10

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Shitsngigzit’s literally science lol she’s not being dramatic. Of course, there’s many of women who can safely have kids after 35 but also many who don’t. Luck of the draw, but you never know what you get with your body..but that’s not drama..that’s up to chance

  • @KingsGloryPath

    @KingsGloryPath

    Жыл бұрын

    Make it a priority if that’s what you truly want. Don’t listen to this silly society’s goofy coping mechanisms.

  • @krystleschmidt5937

    @krystleschmidt5937

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Shitsngigz I spent 5 years in a relationship trying to have kids. The relationship didn't last and the kids never happened. After 35 there's a very small window to have children and I haven't found a decent enough man to marry to give children to. It's not being dramatic it's being realistic. Do I have the opportunity to get married and have children, sure but that window is very small and there hasn't been a man in my life worth giving children or my hand in marriage. I'm not gonna settle just so I can have a baby that's not fair to anybody involved.

  • @krystleschmidt5937

    @krystleschmidt5937

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KingsGloryPath oh I don't. If it happens then that's God's plan. If it doesn't then that's also God's plan. It's not up to me, "be still and know that I am the Lord" that's my coping mechanism.

  • @xxhierophantxx
    @xxhierophantxx Жыл бұрын

    My sister focused on her career to she was in her thirties, by the time she was "ready" she was barren. Now she's a cat obsessed, wine drinking, runner.

  • @CLOUDKID11

    @CLOUDKID11

    10 ай бұрын

    Damn sorry to hear that, unfortunately you can see a lot of people in the comment section heading in that same trajectory because they bought into that bossbabe koolaid the media sold em and they are now too emotionally attached to let go/change their belief. Just like some of the nihilistic blackpill men. We're truly going to see the damage a decade from where chewy stocks will be going to the moon.

  • @Jessknowsbestt

    @Jessknowsbestt

    8 ай бұрын

    Wow your sisters living the life 👏😅

  • @santosb140
    @santosb1408 ай бұрын

    He got the real point, she's young and is learning and is better that some stranger tells her the truth instead been lied by her "love ones"

  • @ambergrello1741
    @ambergrello17418 ай бұрын

    She is gonna be fine! I didn’t wanna get married until my mid 20s and got married at 28.

  • @titustrendz4975
    @titustrendz4975 Жыл бұрын

    He is giving her the right advice because at age 35 most of her eggs will be gone and not many men will look in to her direction it doesn't matter if she's got a strong mother she also needs to have a strong father who could teach her values about a man because when she hits the wall it will be too late by then she will be crying in one corner like other 304s she has a choice to change that decision well even if it is her choice the 9 cats are waiting for her in the future

  • @arrowoflightezpez
    @arrowoflightezpez Жыл бұрын

    We need more men like these💪

  • @wallacegarrett668

    @wallacegarrett668

    Жыл бұрын

    We had one, "Kevin Samuels, the Godfather".

  • @arrowoflightezpez

    @arrowoflightezpez

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wallacegarrett668 I’m sure there can be more to spot

  • @nitaw.498

    @nitaw.498

    Жыл бұрын

    We need more men moralizing about how women are living their lives, while they are doing the same thing only 10 times worse?

  • @arrowoflightezpez

    @arrowoflightezpez

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nitaw.498 Nawh just men telling women to not be picky, snobby, and entitled to be casual with this stuff

  • @asaintnamedslickback

    @asaintnamedslickback

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nitaw.498 What are you talking about ma'am?

  • @joannastronach9107
    @joannastronach9107 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 53 this yr. Never got married have no intentions too... that's just me as person.

  • @nk886cynthia5
    @nk886cynthia5 Жыл бұрын

    Did this man just say her mom has failed as she would? For what exactly? 😂

  • @barbarawaddellsteele197
    @barbarawaddellsteele197 Жыл бұрын

    I married my first husband at age 37 and 43 when I married my second husband. Both husbands are deceased from natural causes and I plan to marry again God willing. There's nothing wrong with getting married at 35. My niece who is 39 years old with two children got engaged last year and she is now engaged and planning to marry on her 40th birthday. So, it's never too late as long as you are breathing.

  • @ClickUp

    @ClickUp

    Жыл бұрын

    I am genuinely happy for you, sorry for your loss, I am sure youve had wonderful marriages and you will find happiness again! People date and marry well in their 50s, 80s and so forth! That guy has exploitative mentality, hence the comments at impressionable young girls.

  • @IN-Factory

    @IN-Factory

    Жыл бұрын

    To a woman there is nothing wrong, because she is the only one benefiting from that, but a man loses if he gets a 35+ year old woman as a wife. And he will for sure learn about that the hard way.

  • @simply_neuroscience

    @simply_neuroscience

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@IN-Factory And still plenty of men do that in real life which means all they care for is not just young pussies. Love exists.

  • @55maranatha

    @55maranatha

    10 ай бұрын

    Hello. Just wanted to let you know that Jesus loves you very much. He is coming back very soon and He wants you to be ready. Just go to Him as you are. You don’t have to be perfect. The only thing He requires is a full surrender of your life. Go to Him and give Him your life and everything. Once you surrender everything (from the heart). He will give you The Holy Spirit in His fullness. The Holy Spirit will then give you faith, the power to overcome sin, peace, fulfillment and above all, eternal life. You cannot do it on your own strength. It’s only by the Holy Spirit. And you get The Holy Spirit once you lay everything down, including your life at The Lord’s feet. He says in His Word “Not by might, not by power but by my Spirit”. People think Christianity is boring. That’s because they see it as a religion. Christianity is not a religion, but a personal relationship with Jesus Christ who loves you and gave Himself for you. Having a relationship with Christ is the most joyful fulfilling thing you can ever have. Jesus changed my life and He wants to change yours as well. The reason we are all here is to fellowship with and have a relationship with God.

  • @imdon8920

    @imdon8920

    9 ай бұрын

    Women look at marriage from their perspective only. Then don't take a moment to understand why men say we don't want to marry old women.

  • @thesundaytraveler
    @thesundaytraveler Жыл бұрын

    She's gonna get passed around for over a decade but, one lucky guy gets to wife her up.

  • @realtalkwithphil

    @realtalkwithphil

    Жыл бұрын

    Unlucky guy you mean 🤣

  • @MrMohannadkutaish

    @MrMohannadkutaish

    Жыл бұрын

    Unlucky simp,, a leftover

  • @asparrow9876

    @asparrow9876

    Жыл бұрын

    🤢🤢

  • @sandraajuzia2181

    @sandraajuzia2181

    Жыл бұрын

    She can maintain herself and not be promiscuous , even if she does not get married early

  • @asparrow9876

    @asparrow9876

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sandraajuzia2181 Yeah, and pigs can also fly. 🙄😒

  • @davidclass7150
    @davidclass715010 ай бұрын

    when the immortal uncle mode kicks in for real

  • @mario2jz
    @mario2jz10 ай бұрын

    The US of A is sad af nowadays. My parents and plenty of my friends’ parents all got married early twenties and they all have a strong happy loving marriage. Maybe I chose the right people to be around or maybe it all went downhill when social media was invented? You’ve heard the saying, men nowadays have to work 4x as hard as our grandfathers for a woman that’s less than half of what our grandmother was

  • @imitatorofJesusChrist
    @imitatorofJesusChrist9 ай бұрын

    Evil has deceived these women so decisively and their not even aware of it. How sad…

  • @LionessTribe
    @LionessTribe Жыл бұрын

    That's enough internet for today.

  • @Maj-SelfImprovement
    @Maj-SelfImprovement Жыл бұрын

    “Then she will fail as you will” 🥶

  • @user-ry2eg3oh8k
    @user-ry2eg3oh8k Жыл бұрын

    100% listen to what he’s saying.

  • @hipreference
    @hipreference Жыл бұрын

    Why don’t people just tell these women that the likelihood of her finding a suitable partner at age 35 is extremely low. Women who stay unmarried until that age overwhelmingly tend to STAY unmarried.

  • @tanL22

    @tanL22

    Жыл бұрын

    Not true

  • @catherineball7584

    @catherineball7584

    Жыл бұрын

    Not true. Many people marry at that age, male and female. Both sexes try to hold out for the best deal in their 20s and then those at the bottom of the smv heap of both sexes scrabble to find someone who will 'do' in their 30s.

  • @gracemagenga4957
    @gracemagenga4957 Жыл бұрын

    I was raised by a single mum...and she has always encouraged marriage....she worked her ass off to take both my sister and I to school... She knows the hardships of being single and raising children alone and the beauty of marriage she never had

  • @adaysha2420
    @adaysha2420 Жыл бұрын

    “Your mom has failed you” women always get the blame. Failing to realize that it takes two people to raise a child. Where’s the accountability for the dad? He’s the one that really failed. Mom is a boss for playing both roles!

  • @Pres1dentN1xon2

    @Pres1dentN1xon2

    Жыл бұрын

    Nope women are always blameless lmao only in recent years have men started to wake up to the bullshit and start holding women accountable for their actions. Her dad is IRRELEVANT, men have ZERO reproductive rights. WOMEN control who they get knocked up by, and its the west so she could've got an abortion as disgusting as it is. Sympathy is out, Accountability is coming your way!

  • @reaperjaz5168

    @reaperjaz5168

    10 ай бұрын

    She said the her das wasn’t there. And you can actually tell because from her saying my mom raised me not my parents and she said that her mother was a warrior that she raised her without help of a dad

  • @alonsoruelas001
    @alonsoruelas0019 ай бұрын

    My man and the facts hit hard on the ignorant

  • @crispyc2335
    @crispyc2335 Жыл бұрын

    I work as a doorman in NYC. In the afternoons middle aged women would cry to me about being lonely or I would get complaints from neighbors about crying thinking they are getting hurt . It’s just them lonely and having that realization. It’s kinda sad honestly .

  • @robertboston7872

    @robertboston7872

    Жыл бұрын

    Men don't wish for this it's a self inflicted wound and heartbreaking to witness woman self implode by drinking the kool-aid from the left

  • @coreyhoward4397

    @coreyhoward4397

    Жыл бұрын

    Men do the same crying into socks

  • @ClickUp

    @ClickUp

    Жыл бұрын

    Being married/in a relationship will not save you from loneliness.

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    U WOULD GET COMPLAINTS FROM NEIGHBORS HEARINF THE LADIES CRY>>> GET REAL !! STOP THE CAP!! LIAR

  • @DeepanjanThakur
    @DeepanjanThakur Жыл бұрын

    Your mom's 51, you're 20. So she had you when she was 31 and she's telling you to stay single, and you want to get married at 35??? You see the basic math there ??

  • @sherazbhatti9219

    @sherazbhatti9219

    Жыл бұрын

    Errr 29

  • @nitaw.498

    @nitaw.498

    Жыл бұрын

    She did not say she wanted to get married AT 35; Pearl asked her if she thought she would be married BY 35 and she said yes.

  • @helsharidy123

    @helsharidy123

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nitaw.498then why say 45 is too old?

  • @parallaxx101

    @parallaxx101

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nitaw.498 33-34? Thats a fair answer! C'mon Nita !... be reasonable ) She does seem like a regular nice girl..don't encourage pointlessly combative comebacks.

  • @Gen3ralGrimReaper

    @Gen3ralGrimReaper

    Жыл бұрын

    There’s nothing wrong with getting married at 35, unless the purpose is to enjoy being a 304. Some people just aren’t ready, despite the issues we see today. Child support, alimony, child tax credit, unfaithfulness, abuse, etc

  • @zsoltlengyel6789
    @zsoltlengyel67899 ай бұрын

    Exactly. Lost parents raise lost children

  • @luanaalmeida809
    @luanaalmeida809 Жыл бұрын

    she should've said "I'm just not wired that way".

  • @dridi5964
    @dridi5964 Жыл бұрын

    Completely agree with you brother She's pretty and smart she can be a great wife and a happy mother but she lost the path due to her surround

  • @tanL22

    @tanL22

    Жыл бұрын

    Women are not just here for babies and marriage!

  • @francescabuonanno2333

    @francescabuonanno2333

    Жыл бұрын

    Women were not Born for that.

  • @adeelm9028

    @adeelm9028

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@francescabuonanno2333 what were they born for then? just being curious no offense

  • @francescabuonanno2333

    @francescabuonanno2333

    Жыл бұрын

    @@adeelm9028 for being myself , not to make someone'else life easier.

  • @dridi5964

    @dridi5964

    Жыл бұрын

    @@francescabuonanno2333 we are here for spreading our genes you like it or not that's the ultimate goal, Actually by chosing another path it's selfish and not moral because you helping for humanity extinction by your selfish attitude, What's better than making another human from yourself, Career 😂 Money 🤣 Fame😂 Instagram 😁 All that is BS compared to a family, And nobody forcing u B*** making babies and a family is an association man have a role to protect and provide the woman educate and raise good children and that's way better than working like a slave in another man factory Career my a$$. For me it's a pleasure if I can make your life easier and happier that's the difference between us Today woman think of us as ennemies wake up from that feminist BS they just wanna make u a slave for the Boss

  • @Poolman2614
    @Poolman2614 Жыл бұрын

    He said box wine and cats. Damn

  • @Amanda-gv3jh
    @Amanda-gv3jh Жыл бұрын

    almost all of us have been mislead if we have parents who are 55 and younger we have been mislead massively....the strong independent woman phase was taught to us all and it takes somethin in our heads to click that we were taught wrong....I actually listened to videos like this and it made me wake up....luckily I was never like most women I have always been conservative but I had attitude problems.....fixing my shit to make my marriage better saved us....but it's sad cause we have all been mislead and we have to try and see the truth ourselves....I was able to once I literally cut everyone woman out of my life for about 6 months.....it changed me for the better

  • @chrismall8285
    @chrismall8285 Жыл бұрын

    Having to convince someone of what THEY ultimately want for themselves is wild to me.

  • @harrolddjani
    @harrolddjani Жыл бұрын

    Don’t get married because the age of 26, The earlier people get married, the more likely they are to divorce

  • @aduriteking2155

    @aduriteking2155

    Жыл бұрын

    You're speaking for Western civilized countries where divorce has skyrocketed. Many young women in 3rd world countries get married very very young and in most of those countries divorce rate isn't high

  • @chuusheart6142

    @chuusheart6142

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@aduriteking2155 as a women living in a third world country, couples here don't formally divorce but just separate. and many young couples do suffer from toxicity and abuse.

  • @Letracista819

    @Letracista819

    11 ай бұрын

    Go back 50 years women were getting married 19-21 and stayed in it for a lifetime

  • @TommyTombstone

    @TommyTombstone

    11 ай бұрын

    People who marry their high-school sweethearts have much lower divorce rates than the general population, soooo.

  • @lekenaso1946

    @lekenaso1946

    10 ай бұрын

    This only pertains to the west because young girls re not raised to be wives or mothers, in a lot of cultures girls re prepped for marriage early on but in the west they re taught how to have fun and sleep around. Before you say oo what bout boys, they re also taught how to be providers n protectors. Pple also don’t marry just for looks or love in other cultures.

  • @slyglack
    @slyglack Жыл бұрын

    It’s not strength it’s anger and misery behind that veil.

  • @tonitaylor918
    @tonitaylor9188 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed my life before getting married. I was 36 when we married, he’s younger. I had no children, he already had two and had been married Pryor to me. Now we have two little boys together and don’t skim on making sure the elder two are well taken care of. I didn’t want to marry young. I had to help raise my 3 younger sisters and for a long time I was sure I didn’t want marriage or children. It all changed when I did.❤

  • @lola123434
    @lola1234349 ай бұрын

    Man . Cats and boxed wine sound SOOOO good

  • @TopDoggg
    @TopDoggg Жыл бұрын

    Damn he hit her with the "Im not mad, im just disappointed" 😂

  • @bloodprince113
    @bloodprince113 Жыл бұрын

    I like how she was arguing that she didn't say she'd get married at 35 and then he says literally what was just said and then she agrees 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @Vinchenzo1913
    @Vinchenzo19139 ай бұрын

    My boy hit the nail on the head

  • @migsy3302
    @migsy330210 ай бұрын

    The video finished for me when Mr. Waller said : "...-Boxed wine...cats..." 😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @KingsGloryPath

    @KingsGloryPath

    10 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @finbarcynyr4806
    @finbarcynyr4806 Жыл бұрын

    Talk about stuck, patriarchal, and and still thinking in the past. You don’t need to get married. You don’t have to have children before a certain time! What is he basing his opinions on??

  • @KingsGloryPath

    @KingsGloryPath

    Жыл бұрын

    On scientific biology

  • @finbarcynyr4806

    @finbarcynyr4806

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KingsGloryPath im not sure what you are talking about... biology has nothing to say about marriage . it has nothing to say about the patriarchal systems! in has nothing to do with whether you decides to have a child or not.... you can have children right up till menopause.. or you can freeze your eggs, have them fertilized and have some one to carry the child to term for you..... you need to look around, the world is changing, and its picking up speed

  • @mommatron742

    @mommatron742

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KingsGloryPath then why are there so many women who should not have had kids and only had them because society said it would make them happy? Studies even show married women with children are not the happiest…

  • @text97

    @text97

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s generally not a good idea for a woman to have a kid beyond her 20s. Too much risks for problems.

  • @finbarcynyr4806

    @finbarcynyr4806

    Жыл бұрын

    @@text97 what are you talking about?

  • @greeneyez503
    @greeneyez503 Жыл бұрын

    Not every woman wants children. We have to stop putting pressure on women telling them when they should get married and when they should have children guys in their 20s don’t even know how to hold down a job let alone be a husband so there’s nothing wrong with wanting to get married in your 30s and this is a new age. Women can still have kids after 40 that’s their choice.

  • @MadMachoMexican

    @MadMachoMexican

    11 ай бұрын

    What's the success rate of women in there 40's having children?

  • @TommyTombstone

    @TommyTombstone

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@MadMachoMexicanpretty fucking low lol

  • @sylviac5229

    @sylviac5229

    11 ай бұрын

    Pretty high. It's just social psychological manipulation. My grandmother had her last one at 45

  • @MadMachoMexican

    @MadMachoMexican

    11 ай бұрын

    @@sylviac5229 grandma was probably thin too

  • @infected9693

    @infected9693

    10 ай бұрын

    You saying women shouldnt have children is legitimately the most disappointing thing I've ever read this week. What is your purpose in life if you don't want to get married and have children? Make money? Be independent boss babes boss bitches get fucked 300 men and start onlyfans in the name of empowerment? This generation is fucking doomed. God save us all.

  • @comfortwashington7883
    @comfortwashington7883 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with him! She's going to regret this later if she doesn't meet someone who changes her mind!

  • @arisaosmeni5643
    @arisaosmeni5643 Жыл бұрын

    people have forgot how to discuss their point of views..there are ways (if u are educated and patient enough) to express yourself and to also make your interlocutors understand your opinion without declaring stuff like you're a failure she is a failure..(judging without knowing) is nice to hear people discuss their opinions in a respectful way..is happening less and less

  • @WoWmeJac
    @WoWmeJac Жыл бұрын

    Bro spits facts so hard.

  • @fsspecial85
    @fsspecial85 Жыл бұрын

    35? It's gonna be hard to find the right man for this piece of work

  • @elviskarijoredjo345
    @elviskarijoredjo34510 ай бұрын

    She's lectured very soft and patiently....😢😢😢😢😢

  • @JaxMchunu
    @JaxMchunu8 ай бұрын

    People’s timelines are not the same. What you do with your life and hopefully, positively, is what matters. Also, don’t ever let anyone rush you into marriage by such and such an age. It’s too big a commitment to rush. ❤️

  • @morningmona
    @morningmona Жыл бұрын

    So the guy is wrong too. I know tons of recently married 34-36 year old women who are lawyers and surgeons that recently got married, and had kids at that age and later around 38 and the kids are all normal and healthy. Also, these women were millionaires by the time they married and the men they met were also lawyers and doctors etc and also independently accomplished. Super educated and good men are not actually looking for much younger women who are just youthful…

  • @H3lzsn1p3r

    @H3lzsn1p3r

    Жыл бұрын

    Thats a full blown lie but ok 😂😂😂

  • @derschuhflusterer5673

    @derschuhflusterer5673

    Жыл бұрын

    Exceptions don’t disprove the rule. I was born when my mom was 33 and my brother when she was 35. Long story short, we both have skin diseases (which come from getting a c cut because the child doesn’t get hit with the bacteria to build immunity or something like that) and asthma and many allergies. The women you know are very lucky, but don’t advocate for this Bs

  • @aleeciagreene593

    @aleeciagreene593

    Жыл бұрын

    @@H3lzsn1p3r where’s the lie? Please explain

  • @janecoe9407

    @janecoe9407

    Жыл бұрын

    I KNOW MANY LADIES WHO HAD BABIES OVER AGE 34...E VERYONE WAS JUST FINE. SOME LADIES WERE MARRIED YOUNG BUT SOME WERE REMARRIED AT OLDER AGE.

  • @infected9693

    @infected9693

    10 ай бұрын

    Now imagine the amount of d1cks those women have been through in those 36 years. Definitely more than 50. Makes me disgusted just by thinking. Who would want to marry such a whore unless you have no self respect and are desperate enough to marry even a prostitute