It's sad that Devon and Meagan split up, but I don't think their marriage was in vain. They fulfilled an important assignment. They promoted celibacy and self-love, which helped a lot of people who were struggling. So even though their relationship didn't last it was still purposeful. I'm sure they learned a lot in their marriage and they will take those lessons with them as they move forward.

@sheleenjackson9457

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly well Put

@simplysunni9796

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Empressive Yes! Great minds think alike. I hope that more bloggers remember their purpose vs digging for dirt. 💯💕

@genejohnson776

2 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! . . . SMILING . . .

@Goddess33346

2 жыл бұрын

I never thought they would get divorced

@gwendolynbrown1355

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. Came to Crossroad and 2 different paths at this time. This may be only for a season. Only time will tell.

Let me sit this right here. I’ve been married for over 13yrs. Nothing about our marriage is perfect or happy 100% of the time, yet he remains mine and I am his. Please get it out of you minds that there must be trouble brewing because the feeling of happiness is absent. Happiness is just that. A feeling. Feelings change CONSTANTLY. It DOES NOT mean that you are faking happiness because you don’t feel happiness consistently. It means you are human.

@maeoshafields3342

2 жыл бұрын

PERIOD IT TAKES A MARRIED PERSON TO KNOW THIS!

@latrellwhite6215

2 жыл бұрын

Great Great comment

@tiyya91

2 жыл бұрын

THIS!!!

@joselyn4789

2 жыл бұрын

This is the most mature response on the whole thread.

@Jendaminnx

2 жыл бұрын

True. It goes through seasons like everything else.

I love the fact that you're NOT messy and just trying to spread rumors or have click-bait captions to get views like the majority of these vloggers do. You definitely got a new subscriber! Peace and blessings Queen

@gracegrace3205

2 жыл бұрын

Not true.II never heard rumors he was gay until this video She repeated what she " heard, which IS the definition of spreading gossip.Using the female voice mimicking and mocking his Instagram post, regarding their divorce, suggesting his sexuality is suspect.Because they decided to go their separate ways but did so without drama, she insinuated they were hiding that he could be gay, as the reason. She pretending she doesnt believe any of it but the entire video is dedicated to putting everything she's heard in a list, attempting to lead others to the conclusion that he is gay, then backing away as if she didn't start the fire.First and foremost her caption/ title, in and of itself is irresponsible and messy😒🙄

I never thought i would see the day when divorce is called " the evolution of our love ". Smh.

@meditationandrelaxationmot6121

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh! I was like 'what?' 🤔😑

@ginachapman2545

2 жыл бұрын

Girl OK, I rolled my eyes when I heard that, one is the dumbest phrases ever!!! 🙄

@tantig5923

2 жыл бұрын

Meh still be like what was that? What does that mean? Omygosh I just can’t….🤦🏽‍♀️🇯🇲

@briannaje5419

2 жыл бұрын

I’m all for positivity but they took it further than what it needed.

@BBFLYRISEN

2 жыл бұрын

They clearly weren’t joined by God. They just found each other attractive and called it God like many people do. 🤷🏿‍♀️. What God joins, only death does it apart. People don’t even know what marriage means. Marriage is you partnering with God to make someone’s life better and helping them reach their destiny. Romance is nice, but it’s not what holds a marriage together.

They both seem like wonderful people that weren’t meant to be. We should wish them well while respecting their privacy.

@kimf442

2 жыл бұрын

Awww thought they was a great couple 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@LatifahEden

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@justemeka

2 жыл бұрын

I don't like these phrases "weren't meant to be". Like some force came a day broke them off. They failed to work on their marriage.

@numba4of7

2 жыл бұрын

@@justemeka 💯💯💯 They were meant to be.

@inajai6422

2 жыл бұрын

@@justemeka but how do you know they didn't work on their marriage? Wouldn't be surprised if they went to therapy

This is how people should end their relationships. Cordially, no toxicity. Just understanding EDIT: Damn a lot of likes just for speaking truth, thanks. All SINGLE ladies hitmeup, i'm looking for a bestfriend❤️ 😎

@cynthiacromwell8002

2 жыл бұрын

He is such a fraud and down low. So what. A beautiful women like her. Please. I know its rocketscience. I cant stand pulprit pimps. Omg i would never thought she smoke. He put her business out there. Hollywood scoundrel. Preacher smeacher. Boy bye. Dont like how he put her out there. I might be wrong but he always gave me downlow vibes. She may be infertile. Who knows whats really accurate. He wants to be a moviestarlet. Good megan next a billionaire. 😅 it was god who protected her not him

@suras8984

2 жыл бұрын

I like how they separated privately and took time (months) before announcing it. Im watching selling sunset now and seeing how Justin Hartley texted his wife Crishelle that he is filing for divorce and then the press announcing it 45min later is so disrespectful to me. Its good to process it before letting everyone know especially when youre in the lime light.

@misskizzz

2 жыл бұрын

This is just a smoke screen. Celebrities often do this to protect themselves and keep the money flowing. There’s a reason that they’re not letting be known yet, so don’t be quick to believe the “cordial” disposition coming from both parties.

@romanbryant4742

2 жыл бұрын

@@cynthiacromwell8002 who hurt you?🤔

@nubieblack886

2 жыл бұрын

@@romanbryant4742 exactly 😅😅😅

I wish them the best. Sometimes life takes us down different paths. 💕

@GIO77ification

2 жыл бұрын

Til death do us part don't mean a fuck thing 💯 😴

@93ajcollier

2 жыл бұрын

This is a very selfish statement

@tylynn256

2 жыл бұрын

@@93ajcollier How is the truth selfish?

@SarahR2D2

2 жыл бұрын

That is not biblical but okay. He's a preacher

@Ashdaesq

2 жыл бұрын

@@SarahR2D2 he’s a preacher…and? So what? Why is that important?

it's a miracle it lasted this long. They were definitely attracted to each other physically but their lifestyle were incompatible.

@blessedchild4941

2 жыл бұрын

Bro, your name is awesome! I love it!

@pammypoo3003

2 жыл бұрын

Unequally yoked is more like it.

@shad8623

2 жыл бұрын

@@pammypoo3003 Yes! He said, "I had to really sacrifice my list to accept her."😐 That kind of adjustment can make a relationship rocky.

@TheBusinessofElle

2 жыл бұрын

@@shad8623 And I'm certain she had to do the same. I would think it went both ways.

@TheJCMlove

2 жыл бұрын

It's possible that like Hosea the prophet (no offense Meagan), he will receive her back again.

She’s never truly seemed happy not just in her marriage but it always seems like she’s holding something back and searching for fulfillment. I hope she finds what she really needs

@MillyBillyVanilly

2 жыл бұрын

I think Megan’s time in the industry might’ve had catered to her unhappiness. There’s not much about her cause she is very private, but I can only image how someone being a sex symbol since they were in their teens could really have damaging effects on them. She might’ve thought that marrying a pastor would bring her to some sort of happiness or closer to it-when that wasn’t fulfilled I guess neither the marriage.this is my speculation cause you’re right she never seem quite happy or at peace. Or….it could be neither that. And she wanted to continue her acting while he’s doing what he does and it simply just didn’t work out. They agreed respectfully to go their own ways as mature adults. I hope she finds what she is searching for in herself and not someone else cause that can often lead to many disappointments.

@nessaboo232

2 жыл бұрын

Could've been some childhood trauma that she never healed

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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@comedianpottymouth

2 жыл бұрын

I just hope he doesn't try to sue for alimony !!

@aminatakunda3674

2 жыл бұрын

maybe shes a lesbian

Usually i don't be shocked about couples divorcing, because sometimes things change after the ring, but i was very surprised at this one.

@loveforever8045

2 жыл бұрын

Me not so much specially since they have remained childless for this long 😢

@mishawilliams4319

2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely saw this coming because out of her own mouth she said I thought he was out of my league I didn't think that I would be able to be with a man like him, him being a man of GOD, stood out to her she knew that he was not the average man and she was not healed from the previous relationship, Devon like what he saw he was into the flesh he enjoyed her look without really finding out what her character was like, when you are unequally yoked from the jump your relationship will not last so it was absolutely a situation where you just knew that they were going to be getting a divorce eventually were married for 9 years because they were both into entertainment movies TV they were always on the road so they saw each other very little and when they did see each other they were knocking boots but that's not the basis of a marriage we all know that, this is definitely something that was so predictable from the jump I knew this was going to happen absolutely and it's unfortunate but prayerfully they both will find the peace and happiness that they desire and they will find who they are equally yoked with 🙏🏿

@janejustin1788

2 жыл бұрын

i thought this would happen sooner or later considering she isn't sure about children when the husband has always wanted children

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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I cant imagine having to explain to the public life changing decisions, being a celebrity is tasking.

@Arcange93iam

2 жыл бұрын

Haha enjoy the peace 🧘🏾‍♂️💯

@deloriswilliams5493

2 жыл бұрын

They aren't obligated to explain anything to anyone but okay

@tamara201211

Жыл бұрын

@@deloriswilliams5493 true

This broadcast was so tastefully and respectfully done. Thanks for posting. Your insight was wonderful.

Can we just take a minute to appreciate how Empressive handled the whole video with so much class, objectivity, and professionalism? Also, life is already hard enough, we are all trying so let's cut both of them some slack as christians. They are really good people.

@jessicaapaloo8049

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. Most get to go through this and worse in private. They have to walk theirs out with the world. Let's uplift them in prayers.

@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect

2 жыл бұрын

Very true 👏🏾

@spacebar9733

2 жыл бұрын

Well class would be not making the video lol. It’s not our business. Meagan and DeVon just don’t want people speculating and being annoying. But alas, here we are.

@trawlins396

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacebar9733 Empressive is an entertainment blogger. If you know that and are so morally self righteous that that offends you, why do you sub??

@trawlins396

2 жыл бұрын

@@spacebar9733 this is reality. Ppl will ALWAYS speculate. That's the trade off w being in the public eye.

I just got married 4 months ago and I dont ever want this to ever happen to me and my husband 🙏🏽 my prayers goes out to both parties

@OfJournalandJourney

2 жыл бұрын

Sending so many blessings and positivity for your new marriage and life my love 💕

@peanutbutterjelly3370

2 жыл бұрын

Aw, CONGRATULATIONS! 🤗🙏🤗

@EyeSpyBlackAmor

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations sending love longevity blessings strength respect and unlimited joy, patience and I pray God keeps you together in Jesus name amen ❤

@trawlins396

2 жыл бұрын

Social media destroys marriages.

@aliciapinnock4797

2 жыл бұрын

@@trawlins396 I agree

I like that the video was balanced and nonjudgmental. I hate that they are splitting bc I was rooting for them, despite their obvious differences. I love their maturity and respect for each other while they navigate what has to be an incredibly difficult period in their lives. I wish them both peace and continued success.

Love does not conquer all. Sometimes people just don’t fit. It does not mean you don’t love each other, sometimes we just don’t fit together. I applaud them for being respectful of each other as they ended the marriage.

@sixfigurebosschick538

2 жыл бұрын

Well according to the Bible which they claim to follow 1 Cor.13:4-8 Love is patient,(A) love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.(B) 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,(C) it is not easily angered,(D) it keeps no record of wrongs.(E) 6 Love does not delight in evil(F) but rejoices with the truth.(G) 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.(H) 8 Love never fails. So I guess it wasn’t love of the Bible. Maybe that man made love

@diamonddiamond2024

2 жыл бұрын

@@sixfigurebosschick538 I kinda agree with u in some way!! Sometimes the voices we claimed speaks/spoke to us may not just be of GOD!! The devil speaks too!

@malayamona8921

2 жыл бұрын

Amen, it's their business and if someone isn't your soulmate ordained by God,it is what it is

@encouragingthesaints

Жыл бұрын

@@sixfigurebosschick538 Love thy neighbor as thyself. God expects you to love yourself also. Sometimes it’s hard to love yourself in a contentious or unhappy home. It weighs so heavily on you. Based on Genesis 29:31 and Isaiah 54:6, if you are an unloved, rejected, or hated wife, my channel is for you. Come get encouraged by the Lord through His Word.

This is a good lesson on not IDOLIZING imperfect people and placing others as our standard to meet. It's okay to be inspired but not to try to replicate our lives to look like others because at the end of the day we just all out here trying to figure life out at the same time. Their season of marriage did appear like they shared so many beautiful moments and I'm sure their season of singleness will have it's own beauty as well. I wish them both much happiness no matter what.

@princess3808

2 жыл бұрын

Kimmy E. KIMMY E. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@essedarden4690

2 жыл бұрын

But who's not imperfect?

@jupiterskiss3473

2 жыл бұрын

Are people out here idolizing other humans?

@mkb5984

2 жыл бұрын

@@jupiterskiss3473 Apparently. Because it's also apparently impossible to have a love story similar to this. ESPECIALLY NOT FOR BLACK WOMEN.....

@saidoutheafricanking7765

2 жыл бұрын

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I got the impression that they both settled for each other. It was acceptable in the beginning but things change. Older you get more you want what you truly hope for. That’s a huge testimony for me : never settle and do God’s way.

@HoneySuckle123

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with you love 💯

@katrice8063

2 жыл бұрын

They said God told them to marry each other 🤷

@SoftNSpicey

2 жыл бұрын

Meagan wanted a wholesome church boy and Devon wanted a hot girl. On Devon's side I'm not sure if it was God or his loins. On Meagan side she admitted that she just came out of a traumatic relationship and wanted something completely opposite from what she had. This doesn't sound like divine intervention to me. It sounds like they fulfilled what eachother wanted for the time being.

@antisocial_socialite

2 жыл бұрын

Right I never really felt there was any chemistry between them but they seemed like really good loving friends that respected each other as individuals.

@Lordpraisethe

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Thank you for doing the work to find videos of Megan Good and Devon Franklin speaking in their own voices. Now the split makes a sense. Their teachings helped me a lot and it was hard to have no context for the split. Their testimony was inspiring. I wish them well. Their union accomplished a lot.

Hearing they got divorced was sad. This is why my husband and I talk about the importances of your purpose when choosing a spouse.

@ebonyeverything2751

2 жыл бұрын

True but sometimes things run their course.

@ChrystleJones

2 жыл бұрын

@@ebonyeverything2751 I respectfully disagree. if two people are married that course should not go in separate ways. Marriage vows are “until death do us part” not “until this love runs it’s course.” That’s the difference between a marriage and a regular dating relationship. It’s meant to be for life.

@ebonyeverything2751

2 жыл бұрын

@@ChrystleJones I know people love to LITERALLY apply the Bible to their lives but that's just irrational. U don't know those 2 people at all. They've each expressed their belief that God left them to each other and its not for u to say that God didn't do that. Their marriage was intended to be a testimony to others, it served its purpose. We are HUMANS not Gods, we change, we evolve and we grow apart as human beings. We were designed by God and we are some of the many species NOT designed to mate for life. There's nothing wrong with the Bible but u can't read it like a fairytale. Do u also apply the law of eye for an eye in your life as the Bible says? I also think that's why their divorce isn't drama filled and they still respect each other. Relationships die, just like people.

@ChrystleJones

2 жыл бұрын

@@ebonyeverything2751 I am 100% not judging them. They both seem to be amazing individuals. I personally just believe the marriage union is meant to be for life and that is something I have seen people apply whether they believe in the Bible or not. I’m definitely not here to argue which I why I said I respectfully disagree with you.

@oyinkansolaoladipupo

2 жыл бұрын

@@ebonyeverything2751 they are Christians, so what else should be the basis of talking to them?

I was honestly surprised when they got married. I thought it was a mismatch. At least they don't have kids to complicate things. Good luck to them ❤

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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@vijzon3223

2 жыл бұрын

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@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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@poshpearls23

2 жыл бұрын

I thought so too. Both good people, but never saw them together romantically.

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. They’ve always seem to give me friends vibe instead of romantic energy. I wish them the best.

I feel bad for famous people when it comes to divorces. You have to come out and make a whole statement in order to stop all types of falsehoods of being spread. I wish them well.

@PHlophe

2 жыл бұрын

i think in general people should keep relationships low key. if looks too flashy and comes off sanctimonious to people. when shit hits the fan its difficult to pull back without looking like a fool. it ain't just famoso people.

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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@The12Believe

2 жыл бұрын

Beyounce and Jay Z never come out and say ANYTHING!! That's why I Absolutely Love them 💖... You don't owe anybody any explanations!! They will talk about you irregardless!! 🤷

@cb4664

2 жыл бұрын

And everyone all in your business and swear that they know you. 🙄

Your editing skills on this video was mad impressive. Good job. Informative and engaging.

Great coverage. Extremely informative and professional. Thank you.

I’m going to be completely honest, when Devon said in the interview that he didn’t want someone who drank or smoked and he still chose to be with Megan that to me was an indication that the relationship wouldn’t last. If you have dealbreakers stick by them. Because eventually you will feel some type of way about your partner doing certain things. The issue I see is, Devon probably thought he could change Megan and that’s the problem. Do not get with people and then try to change them. If something is a dealbreaker then move on. I’m not saying they weren’t brought together by God. I’m just saying that some of the things we ignore in relationships in the beginning tend to be the things that break couples up later on down the road. I’m not saying one’s to blame more than the other. I wish them the best in life and hopefully they can fully part ways amicably or possibly give the union another chance but either way I wish them the best.

@trawlins396

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! He compromised his values because she's beautiful and she compromised her lifestyle because he's a respectable man of God. But compromise is not the same as acceptance.

@ReigningWomban

2 жыл бұрын

@@trawlins396 Exactly.

@KJ-rx5ph

2 жыл бұрын

Kids he wants kids she took off from her career now she back now they file for divorce she is focusing on her career now

@daniellem2992

2 жыл бұрын

We have to understand that some of our deal breakers maybe God has placed them on our heart for a reason. We have to stick to them and sticking to them is not idolism but wisdom. I think they both still got something beautiful out of this, to me my main concern is just that she still walks with God. I pray she knows and understands God's deep love for her and that some of the treatment did not push her away or make her feel unloved by God.

@latisewilson4561

2 жыл бұрын

This is true. Totally agree

Hearing him defend her makes me wish they'd worked out but I'm happy their split is amicable, God bless them both. They truly seem like beautiful people

This was the best summary I have heard about these two.. Thanks

I thought this video was gonna be messy but I love how you spoke positive about them, sad they broke up was rooting for this couple

Christian scrutiny is harsh and disheartening. So, I feel her. I would assume thats why she set her career partially to the side while she was with him. She probably lost who she was because of who he is.

@PHlophe

2 жыл бұрын

christian scrutiny is good Ol' Misogyny .they've got all that smoke for first ladies but yet the pastors be smashing parishioners left and right.

@lorealjane9192

2 жыл бұрын

She had no business marrying that pastor. Shaunie O’Neal nice nasty is next

@Beaudful6

2 жыл бұрын

@@lorealjane9192 Not Christian scrutiny under a comment against Christian scrutiny 😂. Who are you to say? Judgement like this is the reason so many people hate Christians and call them hypocrites. You never know what God has in store for them or what He can change within a relationship. Stop it!

@melaninairekween3866

2 жыл бұрын

Its That last phrase 4 me ..

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

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I always appreciated how he stood up for her against that woman in the crowd that told her to cover up …. That type of person is usually the first person to throw stones , knowing their life probably consist of everything “unholy” you could possibly think of … it’s just not in the public eye.. I can’t stand people like that !!

@__kash

2 жыл бұрын

Ugh. & the way she was like “so we’re going to cover up right?” Who do you think you are? I’m so glad he checked her!

@OfJournalandJourney

2 жыл бұрын

@@__kash I was beside myself hearing that. There were too many church queens being incredibly judgmental and rude.

@msbronzegoddess3166

2 жыл бұрын

Yes religion, politics, and too much ppl in the mix, can all break things up equally. They stood no chance against society.

@praxym9293

2 жыл бұрын

I think her tone was wrong but her point was valid.I think certain lifestyles have certain sacrifices that come with them.Personally, I can't be a pastor's wife cause I love weird things

@OfJournalandJourney

2 жыл бұрын

@@praxym9293 personally, I don’t believe in judging someone’s appearance. The entire ideology of dressing conservatively is too rooted into misogyny.

Everyone keeps saying “weren’t meant to be.” Clearly, they were. They were meant to be and transform- not just for the world; they transformed for themselves. Hopefully, they continue a genuine and loving friendship. May God bless them both.

@BBFLYRISEN

2 жыл бұрын

When you wind up divorced you weren’t meant to be and clearly not joined by God. They just wanted each other. Those that GOD put together, only death does them apart.

@xan-ax

2 жыл бұрын

@@BBFLYRISEN that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard my Lord...

@mrs.c2793

2 жыл бұрын

@@BBFLYRISEN Exactly. He also said be not yoked together with unbelievers. God ain't gone tell you to do that. He compromised God to marry her.

@simplereally6317

2 жыл бұрын

@@BBFLYRISEN Megan set the tone, it was her prayer to have a "good" man as oppose to the one she was with when she claims g^d told her to cut it off and go celibate. Just like the character she played in a movie, (think like a man) stop giving away your goodies. So, she set her eyes on DeVon and keep her goodies to herself until he married her she got what she prayed for, however, she never thought past being celibate until a man marries you. I can see g^d allowing him to marry her and compromise his standards which are righteous standards, he ask it of the prophet Hosea. It was her prayer answered and he was the gift given. People bury, reject and dishonor the gifts g^d give them everyday a union, a marriage is no different.

They have helped a lot of people their book helped me get back to church and reading my Bible , I even remained celibate for my life’s purpose at the time. Kudos to the respect they show each other 👏

Take notes people!!!! This is why compatibility is soo important

@chynamadison4551

2 жыл бұрын

I keep trying to tell people this. Nobody listens🤷🏽‍♀️

@fortellastaton7920

2 жыл бұрын

It's EVERYTHING!! It's the most overlooked!

@Ashdaesq

2 жыл бұрын

Now this I agree with

@itstheengineersdaughter1296

2 жыл бұрын

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@itstheengineersdaughter1296

2 жыл бұрын

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The fact that Devin said he had to "sacrifice his list" and that Megan felt intimidated by him being a minister was enough to know it was a stretch for them to have a lasting marriage

@DH-uw3us

2 жыл бұрын

Yea, him sacrificing his list for someone with her qualities seems like something you wouldn't think God would want a minister to do. But then you could also look at it as God wanting to grow both of them, or have people learn from their experience.

@misspvkprojects9025

2 жыл бұрын

If only it was that simple.

@OnlyQueenE

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@APTTMHYforever

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Megan pursued that man… this is a lesson to “new age” women, NEVER pursue a man In that interview with Tamiron Hall, they said that Megan went after him and followed him around at a party🥴

@zazilicious

2 жыл бұрын

@@DH-uw3us Yea but would God want a minister to also be a Hollywood producer? I just feel like walking in Christ is a big challenge and it’s not for everyone as it requires to sacrifice everything and quite frankly it’s the hardest thing to do which is why the Bible says only a few will make it. Christ and Hollywood and other worldly things are like oil and water; they don’t mix.

Empressive you hit it on the head..great job!!

I agree 100% & all so eloquently stated! They served their purpose and did it so honorably. I pray they have a smooth transition into their ultimate purposes and their happily ever afters 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I think as a Pastor, he has gotten to the point that he wanted kids sooner rather than later and I feel like she gives me the vibe that she doesn’t want kids. I also think that she was becoming unfulfilled to be a Pastors wife and wanted to go back to acting and I think he was becoming uncomfortable with the type of roles she was accepting.

@123MsJameela

2 жыл бұрын

i had the same vibe

@marieeleonaregeffrard81

2 жыл бұрын

YES!

@christines1821

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly it seems it takes a lot to be a pastors wife and I understand if she wasn’t ready for all that but he did know who he married.

@jessica4577

2 жыл бұрын

I didn’t get that vibe at all. Did you know meagan was having fertility issues? Which makes this even sadder. And she had uterine cancer. People should really stop pulling the blame card it just did not work out.

@trixieke8462

2 жыл бұрын

What makes u think he is definately straight?🤔

Expressive always does a classy job of reporting without being offensive. It is evident that you have a moral compass. Kudos on reporting a difficult story about two beautiful souls with grace and respect. I wish them both well, where ever their journey may lead them.

@NetSunJin

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@moshibudimachaba7532

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed x2!!☺☺☺

@user-vj3jl1wu6u

2 жыл бұрын

depend who they reporting on

Excellent, on point commentary❣️

Love your intro!!! Beautiful

This is why I learned to just take the risk when it comes to marriage and not be overly anxious about making the right decision. It’s a gamble. For some people, they make it work despite differences and for others they don’t. There is no formula that fits for everyone.

@lettakyjoy

2 жыл бұрын

Volume please

@jenniferking4746

2 жыл бұрын

Now that is real!! Some people force it to work and others simply can't and walk away to find their peace.

@smilesallround

2 жыл бұрын

I see where you're coming from... But I don't want gamble with my feelings and waste my time. I don't like the idea of investing so much time and energy into something only for it not to work out

@righteousroses

2 жыл бұрын

@@smilesallround yeah it’s not for everyone. It could just be beneficial for people like me that think too much and maybe won’t walk down the aisle bc of being afraid to fail. The best thing I can do is know what I want and see if I can take my partner with their current flaws. That’s it.

@sonnywright7258

2 жыл бұрын

@@lettakyjoy j

I love how it’s a no drama divorce . It’s refreshing to see celebrities who divorce in peace and continue to wish each other love and happiness. I hope they both find the love they need🙏🏾

@rotail4873

2 жыл бұрын

It's a peaceful divorce because it's just the two of them. No children involved!

@pri_shay_dior

2 жыл бұрын

I said the same thing. No one from their circle is stirring mess; no story fabrications. Neither was in a rush to delete the other from social media. Though I didn't completely care for the caption, there was a unified front on the statement. It's one of the most, if not THE most no drama celebrity divorce I've seen.

@arab310

2 жыл бұрын

no kids lol

@ebnrucker

2 жыл бұрын

Its not a good thing no kids are involved. The fact they were married 8 yrs with no kids tells u that they were not fully committed.

@ur5860

2 жыл бұрын

@@ebnrucker What?! How can you make such a comment in ignorance? How is NOT HAVING AND CHILDREN a sign of "no commitment?" How do you know he or she can even reproduce biologically???? Some people are married and in love for years, yet they have no children because of biological reasons. Not saying that was the case with these two, but the point is we just don't know, therefore it is foolish to make assumptions. 💖💛💖💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

wow great breakdown, you explained it well

Very Good Review! 💯👍🏾

I remember dating a guy like 10 years ago. He was great (on paper). Educated, house, car, handsome, he knew karate, he made good money, he did everything I asked and did I mention handsome. But...we had no real connection. He told me he realized the same thing about me. We got along great. But our connection was not strong enough for us to spend the rest of our lives together. We had our differences too. In the end, we realize we were not meant to be married so we went our separate ways. No harm no foul.

@menardtexsampson3745

2 жыл бұрын

He didn’t have enough edge for you right you needed Tupac with a degree LOL

@4cqueen158

2 жыл бұрын

@@menardtexsampson3745 no actually. He was a 3rd degree black belt so he could literally kill someone with his bare hands🤣 he had a silent cool calm collected but he could kill u type of edge. He was just terribly scorned from 2 previous relationships and I wasnt going to stick around and pay for what previous women had done to him🤷🏽‍♀️

@RJ12347

2 жыл бұрын

Lol Women don't build with men, they wait by the finish line and pick the winners...

@4cqueen158

2 жыл бұрын

@@RJ12347 not sure how this relates to my comment but ok thx for the information

@PullOverItsDaPopo

2 жыл бұрын

@@RJ12347 Someone sounds bitter

Glad they were able to recognize their differences. It’s hard to sacrifice parts of yourself to be in a relationship. Ultimately we all have to put ourselves first before we can make anyone else happy.

@simonelewis935

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@juanitagartley937

2 жыл бұрын

God first then ourselves.

@darienjjackson250

2 жыл бұрын

What part did she sacrifice cause I heard him say " I know she still going to drink, smoke and dress how she want to." 🤔 they can't change its who they are. Well she got one part right, To thy own self be true.

This was really good Empressive👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I agree with your opinion. You gave this in an intelligent perspective

You were so respectful and considerate (that it's a divorce and real people are hurting). You didn't try to bring in drama for more views. I wish all media people were like you. I appreciate that. Thank you.

I literally gave all of these bullet points to my sister this morning as to why I thought they were divorcing. Your commentary was so spot on and in comparison to my own thoughts on the matter. I was waiting on you to drop a video on this. I really am sad to see them divorce. They were such an inspiration to me. They showed me that there really were Christian men willing to wait for marriage and it was very encouraging to see. I actually hope that they don't go through with the divorce, but that's just me being selfish I guess. May the Lord's will be done.

@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY

2 жыл бұрын

OH PLEASE...... THIS SITUATION WAS ALL ABOUT SEX AND MARRIAGE WAS THE BACK HANDED COMPLIMENT....

@otsam1050

2 жыл бұрын

@@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY it was actually clear she didn't fit the pastor's wife's image much less character. There was nothing admirable about their marriage, it was just a well crafted public image by PR. They were just married for a minute and wanted to be giving advice and counsel they didn't live 🤷🏽‍♂️

@SL1TFACE

2 жыл бұрын

He left her cause he realize she for the seewwerrs

@2jcward

2 жыл бұрын

But he wants kids NOW and she doesn’t. She wants to focus on her career.

@perfectchemistry8291

2 жыл бұрын

@@otsam1050 9 years is a minute?

When I heard the rumors, I was hoping it wasn't true because I like her. She seemed happy w/ him, but you never know what's going on behind closed doors.

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z3aOuNClYLzMgJs.html What you guys didn't see ..you won't belive your eyes3

@shai2137

2 жыл бұрын

@@omogenews no one cares.

@Miss_1981

2 жыл бұрын

I have to admit I thought was another media hyped up lie if I'm honest...I hope they both find happiness even if its not with each other x

@naturalelation1631

2 жыл бұрын

@@shai2137 lol IKR

Well done with KZread subscribers girl

A million views already 🤩 Empressive!!

This was well put together. I didn’t see most of these interviews, but it’s exactly what I thought of them. They’re good people, just not good for each other. Compromise is extremely hard when you’re incompatible, and it usually doesn’t last when it’s just easier to go back to being who you ARE. That’s for any marriage/relationship- Christian or not. All the signs were there, but they chose each other.

@Getitgirl816

2 жыл бұрын

Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I just very recently got a Divorce, and unless people actually know you personally it's not cool to judge, especially if a person has never been married! You never know what people went through! Marriage Is NOT for everyone, Good luck to those who are considering Marriage make sure that it's what you both truly want and above all please put God 1st always 💖

@g.johnson5007

2 жыл бұрын

Right! Ppl have no idea

@bosslady9108

2 жыл бұрын

🎯

@develyamccullough6554

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!🙏

@shaylove5439

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@candyjamaican

2 жыл бұрын

I’d love to hear your reasons for getting a divorce. Did you have a list and had to adjust it?

Thanks for sharing such a balance view

Great analysis…u broke it all the way down girl…good job!

Pay attention to his words. “ I sacrificed my list”. They had to change so much. That’s not sustainable

@soniabule9089

2 жыл бұрын

Unequally yoked. That's it!

@namastewellness

2 жыл бұрын

💯

Very great and respectful analysis.of this sensitive issue.

Devon shouldn't have let go of his list of qualifications for a wife. It's called being equally yoked and its nothing wrong with wanting someone your considering marrying to not smoke, drink, do drugs, put twerk videos on social media and want to have children as a priority. He was looking past too much.

@sheilasargent33

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@southerngirlchef5886

2 жыл бұрын

Wholeheartedly agree 👏🏾

@SuzetteKhiba

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. You can look past 1 or 2 things but definitely not an entire list of things... That's totally wrong

@ritahinojosa3305

2 жыл бұрын

You nailed it.

@KMarieGee

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I’m happy that they had the courage to just divorce instead of faking or having an open marriage like we all see in Hollywood. I think they really thought about it. I wish them all the best.

@ye23.

2 жыл бұрын

They were faking it for a long time trust meghan been unhappy in this marriage

@Likelyfairy

2 жыл бұрын

@@ye23. right! lol 9 years isn’t a short time…

@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY

2 жыл бұрын

THEY WAS FAKIN IT FOR 9 YEARS ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY DON'T HAVE A LEGACY AKA PROCREATION....

@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY

2 жыл бұрын

@@Likelyfairy THANK YOU ... BIG RED FLAG 🚩

@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY

2 жыл бұрын

@@ye23. THANK YOU..... I CAN'T STAND IT WHEN BLACK FEMALES IN PARTICULAR PUT GOD IN THE PICTURE OVER THE RESULTS AND OUTCOMES THEY WANT....

It’s such a shame that it didn’t work between them. Best wishes to them both.

@PHlophe

2 жыл бұрын

they looked cute together , a shame that churchy folk were on her neck all the time. they thought she was an opportunist Ashawo . SMH !

@NorthPhilly-zr7xc

2 жыл бұрын

@@PHlophe I think she was just tired of being something she wasn't

I honestly thing you gave a great opinion with facts based on what the couple themselves have shared. Great video. These two are amazing people and sometimes compromising a lot will indefinitely strain a relationship but the love they have. No bitterness towards each other and how he still supports her even while they’re were separated and we didn’t know is just amazing. I wish them both the best. Their love has helped many people and they were in each other’s life for a reason. She needed healing and he needed love that’s never a waste of time they’re were together for a reason and we’ve all seen that. Great video!

I think you nailed it!

Just an input. Before getting married, be on the clear with your partner in what you see in your future, kids especially. Not saying that was the cause for this gorgeous couple's separation, just basing on what Meg once shared(one time she wants to start having kids, next time she don't)--don't do that. When your partner 100% wants them, while you're still going back and forth; it's going to be an issue in the marriage's future, & the pressure that comes with that is so much.

@valeriewilliams4941

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you wholeheartedly. That back and forth situation is too much. Devon is an A1 Grade great man, and he is doing what he is supposed to do as a man. Megan does the wishy washy thing and it crushes the relationship. They both are good people and we all have flaws, but this one came as a shock to me. In marriage you have to bend a little. Hollywood becomes Hollyweird and I would not have compromised anything when it came to my husband, in which is a good man. The streets is not popular, so why run back to it. Her being a producer now is cool, but she shouldn't let it come between her relationship with Devon. Nevertheless I feel more sorry for Devon because it's hard to find men like him. This world is like a drop in the bucket. It will chew you up and spit you out, because the devil is always out seeking whom he can devour. Megan, being the woman should have focus more on her marriage and not so much into Hollyweird. It comes a time when we all got to sit our butts down and stop Dibble and Dabbling into things that will gobble us in the end. I love Megan, but I'm not fond of how she is doing in these days and times. Life is too short! It's her life and I know he gots to do what's important. I wish them both happiness and success. In my opinion, I would have stayed with my damn husband if I was Megan. He has the best covering for her, in case she didn't know. To each it's own though.😌 👌 😉

@tyvanderpump2317

2 жыл бұрын

@@valeriewilliams4941 you know these people personally?

@britd.1152

2 жыл бұрын

@@tyvanderpump2317 exactly! She speaking like they grew up together 🥴

@malangeowens7708

2 жыл бұрын

@@tyvanderpump2317 right judgy much

@valeriewilliams4941

2 жыл бұрын

@@tyvanderpump2317 I am not going to go back and forth with you on my opinion. It's my take on what I heard on these platforms, not based on if I knew them personally. They are celebrities, in which I am with a public figure myself. If the news goes out, and I want to Comment on it, I can and I will. The problem with social media is when a person gives a opinion, everyone else wants to challenge their opinion. I said what I said and I'm not changing it. If the rest of you looks at my opinion as judging, then so be it. I like Devon and Megan and wants them to stay together but if they made a mature decision to not do so, then that's their right. But if I choose to put in my two cents, then I will do so. I been raised in the church, and I have left the church. But the truth is the truth...If Megan is living a worldly life and her husband is on a spiritual path, then that would make them not compatible anymore. He can choose to still be with her or not. When you are not on the same path and growing together...it brings more problems in the relationship. From the reports in these blogs say, I'm going on what I heard, not what Devon and Megan has said because I haven't heard them say a damn thing yet. But as my husband says, "I can give my opinion like everyone else!" I will not respond to anymore comments. I said what I said and will say it again. If that's judging to yall, I don't give a damn!

This is why it is super important to not be unequally yoked. You cannot have one person who is super religious and the other who may not be as super religious as you are because there is only so much compromising you are willing to do before you one day wake up and realize you have lost who you are and want it back.

@nondssa5440

2 жыл бұрын

Amen, couldn’t have said it better! 🙏🏾🔥

@TheClubWebseries

2 жыл бұрын

And she can't get back that Megan Good her fans all once loved right now if shes acting I'm like who is she ?

@rokeishiarodgers7205

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true and it's no judgment on either side , but clearly some things were not aligned!

@missmarya747

2 жыл бұрын

According to Megan- States god told her- GOD SAID IT WAS HER HUSBAND🤔🧐🤔🧐🤔🧐, i cant what God brings together it doesn’t cause all if what they experience.

@suzanneweary9739

2 жыл бұрын

@@rokeishiarodgers7205 y'all are something else. Not many people even start off in the Church. Everyone is dangling and eventually get there with support. This is why she felt as she did about church folk. We all grow. Being equally yoked is more that both being Christian, there is also compatability beyond that. If we are to go by equally yoked, then they were both yoked in Christianity before they tied the knot.

Well said 💯

I don't like to comment on other people's marriages but it just seems like the challenges that regular people face. They had expectations that each of them thought were going to be met eventually. The wife was tired of the pressure and facade while the husband was tired of hoping. We will never know the story in its entirety but it's a challenge that every day married couples face. Some get through it while others don't.

If a relationship or situation ain't working out after you've tried and tried to make it work. Let go! It's what you're supposed to do. There's nothing worse then staying in relationship or situation you ain't supposed to be in! Good for them. They'll find their way❤

@omogenews

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z3aOuNClYLzMgJs.html What you guys didn't see ..you won't belive your eyesy

@gameswithkeona347

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! I was in a situation that wasn't good for me. I gave my ex 3 chances and we got back in a relationship and we fell apart again. We didn't work out for each other. I'm working on my self love now 🙏🏾🤎

@kram9076

2 жыл бұрын

I think the reason why we hold on is because of time invested and some are afraid to be alone. This cycle of thought should end.

@mrod87

2 жыл бұрын

Church people say stay and struggle girl. I was literally out with a man the other day, a God fearing man. And he literally said women need to stop being weak and ruining marriages bc “of a little cheating”. Church people think women need to stay and suffer.

@mrs.moonie5894

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrod87 He can say that until hes the one being cheated on...

I appreciate the thought it took to create this video. Thank you. Meagan and DeVon loved each other enough to stay together for nine years but not enough to continue. I wish them the best on their new chapters.

@TheLyric7

2 жыл бұрын

Why can't they have loved each other enough to actually let go??? 🤔

@hikmahking5351

2 жыл бұрын

To me there’s different types of love. With romantic love in my opinion when you’re in love with someone you don’t want to be without that person. If you’re at the point where you’re going, It’s better to let go of this person, you may love them but you’re not in love any more.

@TheLyric7

2 жыл бұрын

@@hikmahking5351 doesn't mean they don't love each other .. when Harlem came out he was her biggest cheerleader... Adults in this day and age realize sometimes love is letting go... This isn't the old days where you stick it out or else... And we know half of those relationships ended time the kids got out the house

It was sad to hear that they were divorcing. They both seem like very good people and I wish the both of them continued success, happiness, peace , love and blessings from God always.

This was a good video!

I think Meagan was searching for contentment and peace from her Hollywood background. And thought she could find it in him. And she probably did with certain parts of him. But like you said I think they were ultimately incompatible, him being A-type and her being a free bird. Nothing wrong with either type, but trying to bring a settler n a nomad together will end in both being unfulfilled and discontent.

@lwazzzyoutuber

2 жыл бұрын

Megan seems like a free spirit honestly. He seems a lot more of a "by the book" christian

@lifeisbeautiful9455

2 жыл бұрын

@@lwazzzyoutuber I agree… because I’m a free spirit… men be trying to marry me, but they be married already 😐😐🤔🤔 anyway 😂😂😂 I am a free spirit and don’t want to get married. Relationships are work. And I just don’t want those kinds of commitments. 🙂

@lillithsternin7428

2 жыл бұрын

See at 1:25 in the video she's in that gorgeous green dress and trying ro cover up the the high slit with her hand. I get that...but...she probably wouldn't have done that if she was with her industry friends. Best of luck to them.

@valeriejones2023

2 жыл бұрын

She said all she new was her career.. Marriage and kids weren't on her priority list at the time.

@kilimanjaro5537

2 жыл бұрын

@@tondaniraluswinga2590 When people say opposites attract I think they are speaking more on a surface level. For example, I like hiking but he likes swimming. That type of opposite. But when it comes to beliefs/morals those are foundational beliefs that both people in the relationship have to agree on. I can be conservative and still be ok with my friends being more “free”. But I would want a partner who is also that way because we see eye to eye on the matter. Just like another foundational belief would be how you guys feel about raising children.

Can we please get a Red Table Talk with Megan cause it’s very much needed 😭‼️

@jd517

2 жыл бұрын

I think once the divorce is done then she will go on the Red Table Talk or Ms. Tina new Facebook show (which may be perfect since they both were divorced).

OMG I love their album. I hope they do another one ❤❤❤

Thank you for neutral commentary. That’s refreshing! I subscribed just because of that.

Sometimes people like the idea of someone and not who they really are. I think that was the case here. No one is to blame, Marriage is hard, and life is still good with or without a spouse. They’ll both learn alot of lessons from this painful experience and they’ll both hopefully become better versions of themselves.

@stepheessel6667

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%

That lady in the audience telling Meagan to cover up unwarranted.. Glad Devon corrected her. I knew all the judgement was hard for Meagan to deal with but they did it 9 years! That is something to applaud and I’m hoping the best for both of them.

@KD2xs_

2 жыл бұрын

@@chrisj277 but that wasn’t that lady place to address her like that, she could’ve talked to them privately 😒

@Goosebumps1395

2 жыл бұрын

@@KD2xs_ There are plenty of people in the church who are completely covered up while being sinful. I am tired of this antiquated notion. People use the bible like a bludgeon for judgement rather than a tool to show gentle guidance.

@a.h.2667

2 жыл бұрын

@@Goosebumps1395 right, and there's never the same energy for men.

@jillianetuk5189

2 жыл бұрын

@@Goosebumps1395 as some one that's is a christian i agree with you there's a difference between acting like one and just saying you are one

@ebonynaomi1085

2 жыл бұрын

Some of the most hypocritical people, are those that follow organised religion.

I was recently watching a KZread video of a sermon by Devon Franklin entitled Expectations/ Devon Franklin and 20 minutes into the sermon what he said was instructive...

@empressive my girl empressive coming with the tea! everybody's recording it but I came here first!

I'll not be one to comment on these peoples relationship because what you see in public is never the same in private. However I would like to say that i truly admire your presentation of this story. You were not judgemental, you were as objective as one could ever be and that is why I subscribe to your channel and stay away from the many others who seem to be there to laugh at other people's misfortune. Continue to thrive. Blessings!!

@misspvkprojects9025

2 жыл бұрын

Now that's what's up!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@pambeforethestorm9784

2 жыл бұрын

Very well said!! 💯❤🙏🏾👑👑

Devon: “i had to really sacrifice my list to accept her for who she is…” i think this says something…

@MercedesAshleyOnline

2 жыл бұрын

Preach. It said everything.

@Isaiah--vj2xu

2 жыл бұрын

When you choose what you want over God..

@retro80skid

2 жыл бұрын

_ that statement sound like bs…. “a list”? get outta here…

@Mizzminasoflii

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that interview didn’t sit right with me

@tinytowz4471

2 жыл бұрын

😱

This is the best explanation of their breakup. You hit it on the nail. And you kept it positive. Bravo 👏 👏 👏

I agree with your observations. Thank you from speaking from a place of love on this. I feel like he is the change in the tide for her. I don't think she had been loved or supported in that way before by a man, which she had mentioned in the book. I'm glad we got witness their journey and the love of God that was shown through Devon. He literally loved her beyond the love she had for herself. I say that based on her recent post about feeling loving herself more. I can't wait to see her testimony after this!

Continued love and support for both their future

"I had to really sacrifice 'my list' to accept her for who she is" - Devon "When a person comprises who they are they become discontent" - Empressive 1+1=2 🤷🏾‍♀️

@johnson48931

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I felt that as well.

@NuDiva14

2 жыл бұрын

As soon as he said “he had to sacrifice his list to accept her” I was like 😳 I don’t think that would sit well with me marrying someone after knowing that who I actually am is unacceptable to you.

@MoneyComethToshelia

2 жыл бұрын

@@NuDiva14 Right!

@jhay_vine5083

2 жыл бұрын

There is nothing wrong with him sacrificing things on his list. Women do this ALL the time for the man they want to be with. Look at the man you’re with now, tell me you didn’t have to sacrifice things on your “list”. It’s okay if a woman does it, but it’s not okay if a man does it???

@MsDisneylandlover

2 жыл бұрын

100

To me this relationship was more of a business than else, I remember when they where promoting their book, I felt like they were doing to much with the “happy couple” thing. I’m not saying that they weren’t allowed to be but every time I see people showcase they relationship to the public, I feel like they need to prove to themselves that it’s real… Still a very sad situation for both of them and I wish them to heal and finally find their true love.

Great ending conclusive commentary,a and I wish them both peace, and love, and happiness😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I’m not surprised. They weren’t compatible. You and your spouse will have similar purposes. They didn’t at all.

@msjreneful

2 жыл бұрын

Same. They didn’t seem compatible to me either, but I’m glad it’s amicable for them.

@agribusinesswithwadzanaima275

2 жыл бұрын

To me they were like oil and water , I feel like Devon had a higher purpose in the kingdom of God but sis wanted the idea of marriage and was going through something

@msjreneful

2 жыл бұрын

@@agribusinesswithwadzanaima275 I also think sometimes marriage isn’t for everyone, but you may not realize it until you’re married LOL. I think this truth is very difficult for women to accept as we are conditioned to think that’s what we should do. I wish them the best individually.

@TheClubWebseries

2 жыл бұрын

@@agribusinesswithwadzanaima275 To me it seem like she was kinda a puppet trophy wife and he gave this impression as if she was a student or hes used to sleeping with his followers. There always seemed like an age gap an for some reason it's like her child hood Megan is frozen in this new made up Christian lifestyle. Something about it still seems like a cash cow situation.

@agribusinesswithwadzanaima275

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheClubWebseries you have Sumed it all up , something was off about the marriage . I know the husband is the head but to me it seemed as if he was stifling her

I just like the fact that their marriage ended peacefully. I wish for both of them nothing but peace and success.

@jonothandoeser

2 жыл бұрын

It ended publicly peacefully. We have no idea what it was like privately.

A woman who doesn't aspire to be a wife and mother shouldn't marry and definitely shouldn't marry a preacher. Also Devon probably fell in love with Megan the actress and not Megan the woman.

@emjay313

2 жыл бұрын

This!

It's sad to even here how people in church were treating her and how that women embarrassed her like that why would she stay in a verbally abusive environment. I love the fact that she was classy about keeping her relationship with God but quietly walking away from the church while letting go of her relationship to protect her boundaries. No one deserved to be abuse in any form of way even if it is coming from the church. She deserved to be in a supportive loving atmosphere filled with love peace and happiness. Totally on Megan side. The church needs to have more compassion.

@beholdtheworld8900

2 жыл бұрын

This is it... I remember I used to wear shorts to church (embarrassing 😫) ... But no one said anything or made me feel out of place about it. Idk who was praying for me but the Holy Spirit definitely convicted me of this action and told me, while it is not your intention to mislead or attract anyone with the way that you dress, it is a distraction. And from that day forward, I never wore shorts to church again. You have to have a teachable spirit. You can't be soft to correction. You must allow GOD to mold you! #Amen 🙏🏾

@cindybogen9716

2 жыл бұрын

I went through the same exact situation through the church my ex husband and I were attending. Very private divorce but certain people in the church made it their public business and treated me like I was less than a woman because my husband was seeking a divorce because his mental health was at stake. I grew up in ministry and knew one important fact… Church folk, not true Christians are the most judgmental folk in the world. Definitely a contradiction to the word of God. I stepped away from the “church” and developed a stronger relationship with God and found true joy and not just momentary happiness. Even more because God is so sovereign, my Ex husband and I had 7 years to find that joy and on the 8th year we reconnected. The year of New Beginnings. #TransformationinChrist

@memedicine

2 жыл бұрын

I remember that when that disheveled looking woman tries to embarrass her but did you see her she was definitely a hater she was not a looker at all

@SharronHaimour-ko6jl

2 жыл бұрын

@Paris Holiday, Not quite certain about the statement you made, "she kept her relationship with God, while walking away from her relationship with her husband to protect her boundaries." No judgment, but if she had a true relationship with God, she would have been convicted in several aspects. Her choice of clothing, whether she was married io not, and her relationship with her husband.. Someone once told me respect is greater than love in a marriage. Sounds like she didn't have respect for him, or be sensitive to his desire to have a wife to meet basic requests, cooking, i.e. He in turn was way too willing to compromise his values for her. Surprised it lasted this long. I wish the best for both.

@iamme9806

2 жыл бұрын

@@SharronHaimour-ko6jl for reaaaaaaal tho she should have atleast turned down some things they weren't ready to settle for eachother i would say

I honestly felt like Megan wasn't being herself in this relationship. Something was off to me but I pray that they recover. I know they will. I'm wishing them all the best but I really felt this coming and I could imagine that it had to be hard to deal with the separation knowing that they did a book inspired by their relationship.

@OfJournalandJourney

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@siobhansyt

2 жыл бұрын

I think it depends on your definition of being yourself. She became Christian before she met him. But she was a new Christian and she drifted away from Christ at some point after they were married. So I think it’s more of a case of their lives began to move in diff directions

@ambitiousbeauty1013

2 жыл бұрын

She was drinking, smoking, showing titts and a#s. It seems like she was being herself to me.

@sadiki1980

2 жыл бұрын

She likes to party and have fun and dress how she likes, and she had to put all that aside for her pastor husband. She sacrificed a big part of herself for him. She was not being true to herself.

@angelphilbert

2 жыл бұрын

@@sadiki1980 that was not the good part 😕

7:20 I know they're separating, but I LOVED this moment. He was taking no slaughter of wifey. Hopefully they both find their peace.

@chantellea9938

2 жыл бұрын

I hated that moment. It just showed his flesh. His woman did dress badly and while that audience members delivery wasn't great, she had a point but Debjn in his flesh couldn't see it like that. I've seen pastors deal with criticism concerning their family differently to the way Devon dealt with it.

@nicoleraheem1195

2 жыл бұрын

@@chantellea9938 The lady in the audience spoke down on Megan and spoke to her like she was a child. That's disrespectful and deserve no justification. He was probably trying to figure out the best way to address that and maybe HIS TRUE SELF AND WAY OF SPEECH, revealed itself CLOTHES DO NOT MAKE YOUR CHARACTER. That's what y'all don't understand

@nachelleallen-teal5938

2 жыл бұрын

@@chantellea9938 His flash? It's his wife and he accepted her and her career; which includes tons of photoshoot and wearing what they give you. I don't think him knowing that his wife models and doesn't always get to choose what she wears, has anything to do with his flash. All he said was she can wear what ever she wants and I feel like more people should have this attitude lol

@keena20071987

2 жыл бұрын

I agree , I loved that moment too. Even if you agree with the lady in the audience, in that moment, the most Christian thing Devon could have done is protect his wife. You don’t let someone publicly trample on your wife like that without repercussions. Now if Devon has an issue with how Megan dresses then they can work that out privately but that was not the forum or Christian way to correct someone. That lady wanted to hurt Megan and make her feel small and I’m glad her husband stepped in and shut it down.

@chantellea9938

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicoleraheem1195 well actually, how you dress speaks volumes of your character.

When God brings a man and a woman together in Holy Matrimony, there is no divorce. When they bring themselves together, anything can happen. We need to identify God's voice and differentiate it from ours and other voices. I wish them Jesus love as they journey on❤

@taxitimet6773

2 жыл бұрын

If God didn't choose your mate. You should divorce

@lynciarecetta9553

2 жыл бұрын

NOW THIS IS THE REALEST COMMENT IVE SEEN IN MY LIFE!!!! GODDDD NEEDS TO BRING MARRIAGES TOGETHER MORE NOT OUR FEELINGS ON WHAT WE FEEL AND THINK!!!!!! GODS VOICE STILL MATTER!!!!

You actually gave a name to my situation… this over compromising has to stop now ! … this is exactly what I’m feeling empty ! Nothing can go my way or surprisingly go my way ! Always got to ask to make be my way for onces…I really would like my relationship to end maturely as them no marriage but i know the type of person I’m with …I want to break free because I feel that I’ve ruined the self lives I took time grow for two years… I feel that I should have waited a lil longer …🥺😣.

@margybernard

2 жыл бұрын

Seek guidance and counseling. Then, decide on what’s right for you. 🙏🏾

He literally said she wasn’t his type and he was settling…”I had to let go of my list”….the signs are always there!

@trawlins396

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow, that's a huge, shiny ,waving in the wind, *RED FLAG*

@trawlins396

2 жыл бұрын

Compromise isn't the same as acceptance. He compromised his values to be w her because she's beautiful. And he probably thought she would eventually become the "pastors wife" type.

@zayloc23

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I “wowed” at that too! She was sitting next to him and everything, I was like dang that’s a little harsh..

@pebblesshannele3900

2 жыл бұрын

@@zayloc23 Right¡ Like bother¿...He play to much

@OfJournalandJourney

2 жыл бұрын

That’s incredibly insulting to anyone. Why bother getting into a relationship you know you weren’t going to be happy in? This sounds close to seeing Megan as a charity case!

Sometimes even if someone doesn’t pressure you to change you subconsciously change anyway. If you don’t change you become self conscious. I love that my husband doesn’t judge me or force his ideas on me. Instead of changing for the other we grow together. He’s taught me a lot and I’ve taught him a lot. Even though we are opposites. He’s more uptight and I’m more free. We feed off each other. I give him what he’s missing vise versa. He keeps me grounded and I’ve showed him how to let go and have fun.

@Amber_AB_Boyd

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with the judgement aspect and self consciousness, it diminishes an individuals authenticity and causes a different path of growth. Def loved your insight.

@kennej1939

2 жыл бұрын

Same for me and my jamaican boyfriend. You meet him and probably think he's so serious but at home he's a big kid. He brings me back to earth when I get I play harder than working. He pushed me as a yoga teacher when I was going thru my certification. That's my rock

@thrilla72

2 жыл бұрын

So what do you want? If your partner does not give you feedback, how can things improve? It goes both ways.

@LadyRosze

2 жыл бұрын

@@thrilla72 It’s something that only married people can understand. When you get married unfortunately the outside world has a lot to say about your relationship now. And sometimes it can become overwhelming for both parties and you grow apart not even because of your own actions but because of outside forces. That’s why communication is important both parties have to properly communicate in any relationship but what happens when you have communicated how you felt but there are no actions behind the communication? The relationship falls apart.

@thrilla72

2 жыл бұрын

@@LadyRosze Are you saying that 'the importance of accepting feedback is only something married people can understand'?

Wishing them both the best. Thanking God for the grace He gave them to keep this private and respectful. That's what love is really about

I love them together and I'm praying that they can work through this storm. Marriage takes a lot of work from both spouses. It's even harder when your in the public eye and everyone has an opinion about YOUR marriage. I truly believe they can get passed this rocky road and come back together stronger than ever. Sending prayers, love and hugs their way. ❣💞

I've been with my husband for 16+ years and I know never to judge other people's relationships (unless there's absolute fcukery) whether they last or not, you either win or you learn. I wish Meagan and Devon the best as they enter this new chapter in their lives.

@peanutbutterjelly3370

2 жыл бұрын

Aw, CONGRATULATIONS! 🤗🙏🤗

@marleneboothe657

2 жыл бұрын

Hi. Are you Jamaican per chance? Asking because you use the word fu……. Folks would say that when I was growing up. Not to diminish the content of your post, but the word made me chuckle. Brought up some funny memories. It’s been awhile since I heard it. Have a blessed day.

@lichi1244eva

2 жыл бұрын

@@marleneboothe657 ha!! I'm not Jamaican but I'm flattered by your reply 🤣you have a blessed day as well!💛 💛