The Real Sign of Love I Robert Greene
Stop waiting for people to say, "I Love You." That is not the real sign of love. Here is what love is really about.
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Yep, words mean nothing without action.
I never needed my love to tell me he loved me because he showed me in person. He massaged me. He styled my hair. He read poetry to me etc ..
@fayekalantzis4523
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How lucky are you
@anonsmith3459
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@Deep Naven - 🙄 There's always at least one... "I've never needed my love to say I love you Yada Yada yada..." Humans nowadays need people to envy them so they stroke their own ego by bragging they have something most don't have. It's a disgusting habit I can always see through- for instance, you never said what you do also to make him feel you love him- only what he does to you. Red fkn flag.😒🤨
@anonsmith3459
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@@fayekalantzis4523 If your comment was in a sarcastic tone- then well done. If your comment was in an envious tone- you just stroked this person's ego yet again because that's what their goal was with this "I/My/Me Me Me" fake comment. If she's telling the truth, he may love her- but she doesn't love him & if it's not reciprocal is ultimately NOT love period.
@deepmaven8773
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@@fayekalantzis4523 Thanks. But I don't think I"m lucky for it. I simply choose men that enjoy showing love as much as I do. They are out there. You will find them.
@sp3g56
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@@anonsmith3459 I hear you and maybe that is some people’s motivation, but I like seeing comments like this (even if it does make me a bit jealous) because it’s my only view into what a loving relationship could look like.
Love is energetic, vibrational, and spiritual
Exactly! Actions SCREAM, words whisper. A person can tell you anything, which is why you have to be discerning of the truth. A person who says “ I love you” has to have behaviour that matches it:). Or if you’re doing the work to love yourself, experience how that feels and see if your partner can match it ❤
Fact: True Love is an action word that is primarily shown n or by body language. So I agree with u. Many people are just set on hearing those magical words to the ears "I love you", & are very disappointed & disillusion & heartbroken whenever those words are not proven or shown. Thus facing reality is hard before u decide to leave the table. But leave u must least r heart dies to believing True love when it does dearly present itself. I greatly appreciate it presentation on this most serious issue facing us. 💯
Actions speak louder than words , true story facts
Robert Greene is not entirely right. What makes a person feel loved depends on his or her dominant sensory channel. A predominantly visual person has to see love. A predominantly kinesthetic person feels love by way of touch or bodily contact. An auditory person has to be told.
@salsadip7453
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Hm, I think these are signs of being to disconnected from oneself and body language in general What will an auditory person do when they have to communicate with a child that can’t speak yet or an animal Body language and also our thoughts are more powerful than our words often If we lost touch with ourselves we may doubt and overthink, but there’s so much “realness” that can be felt by just interacting without words If someone hasn’t learned that language, life seems to be hard
@CharlotteG754
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Words might be used as an affirmation but without action they are nothing
@301made8
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I think you’re wont entirely
True, true, true. Actions speak louder than words ❤️
Saying “I love you” and yet being indifferent and uncaring in your actions is a cruel form of gaslighting.
Words are the most powerful, important, & significant form of communication. Especially when they are given from the mouth, & drawn from the heart of someone who loves you, words can be felt at the very core of our being. Words written or spoken may uplift & inspire or degrade & extinguish the human spirit words can create worlds or destroy lives. A vibration or nonverbal communication can relay significant information, but are not nearly as important, effective or capable of expressing power in the way words do.
@cicisunGemini
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Disagree..you have to walk the talk not just talk the talk
@babatopeifesanya9845
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The problem with words in the context of Love is that, it's a double-edged sword. It's music to the heart of the listener, but not the composer (controller).
@MikaComments
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Words by itself don't mean anything. But if they are back up by action, non verbal clues than the words mean a lot.
@colonelbiscuits8564
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I think there are instances where words are important. For example when one has never experienced love and doesn’t know what it is when shown love by a person. Emotionally neglected people sometimes need to be taught what it is behind a persons loving actions in order to actually understand what love is. But of course even then the loving actions are necessary to understanding love, and at least as important as the words. The word Love is simply a symbol representing a divine behavior pattern.
@amaryllisfrost4263
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Exactly. Anyone who's read any of his books would understand that words are cheap, and worth less than dirt. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear. Judge someone by their actions and behavior, those are hard to feign and will always tell you the kind of persom they are.
1000% actions and body language💗
Nonverbal nonverbal I tell u is way more powerful than Ppl think. It truly comes down to the vibe, energy and the intention you give up. Ppl can feel tht way more than wat u say
Love is a behavior not just a feeling.
Love is non-verbal. When the other Person feels that you love them. Amen.
Love this clip. 👏 It's so true. If you really think about it out of the five love languages only one has to do with verbal communication. The other four have to do with intimacy and communication on a deeper nonverbal level; which are all felt instead of being heard. This clip makes me think of one of my favorite songs by Ronan Keating 🎶When You Say Nothing At All.🎶 The lyrics are such a beautiful reminder that actions and nonverbal cues are able to communicate just as loudly as words in that they have the power to shoot an arrow of love straight to our hearts without ever even saying a word. 💛🏹💘
@anonsmith3459
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Great comment
@Goldenheart2911
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@@anonsmith3459 Thank you 💛 This one flowed right from my heart.❤️ Communication in a healthy relationship is so important and of course words do matter. Non verbal communication allows you to dive so much deeper though and to connect with your partner on a completely different level. When two people come together with that type of energy and understanding of one another that's where the magic really happens. 🪄 Have a great day.☀️
@anna-mariapontonio3220
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💛
@nabeelhakeem3593
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What are the five love languages?
@Goldenheart2911
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@@nabeelhakeem3593 They are from Gary Chapman's amazing book the Five Love Languages. He discusses examples of each of them in detail. It's a great read.💛 Words of Affirmation Quality Time Receiving Gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch
True. A million times.
Believe who a person is the first time they SHOW you.
I need words AND the rest
I can appreciate when the body language and words align 😅 oowweee 😏
So true 🌻
Words are what “govern” our rules of society
I am SO HAPPY to see that you have more use of the left side of your body... in fact you look to be fully recovered. I had thought of sending you links to Joe Dispenza and his miraculous recovery, but you mentioned in an interview about everyone's unsolicited advice, so i didn't. Hope you're back to biking and hiking! ❤️ 💙 💜
And that very true it’s like talk buffet out here on line
You have to notice non verbal communication more💎
Absolutely truth 🙌 ❤
Kind of a given. Men don't usually say it so when they do say it, it makes an impression on us women initially, but they usually have to prove it & back it up with actions or women will call bs- smart women that is. 💯
@watchmeheal1176
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Not necessarily a ‘smart’ woman as much as a self assured, self confident woman who loves herself fully❤
@anonsmith3459
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@@watchmeheal1176 - 🤣 YOU REALLY ARE A LOST LIL GIRL WITH THAT TIRED SORRY ATTEMPT TO CORRECT ME. NO IT'S AS I SAID - A SMART WOMAN PERIOD. GO CORRECT YOUR KIDS CUZ THEYRE NOT ON THIS THREAD MORON. #TFOH
Spot on
Great teaching❤
Great book. Everyone should read it.
Very good. Actions. Body language.
True ❤
I agree with you
Truer words have never been spoken.
Actions speak louder then words.
But I love to hear it random times of the day, although I can see in action.
So true, but love has nothing to do with seduction. Don’t conflate the two…
@najialr
Жыл бұрын
You could seduce someone you love
All your actions Affects the mind of the listener subconsciously And some effects (impressions created) lasts forever
Love this!
Yeah, love is something you feel You know it's love and words don't or can't substitute for the feelings of love You know it bc you feel it and it's a wonderful feeling And they know you feel love and you know you feel love for them and it's like magic, lol 👍👍
🎉😊🎉 we love you too ❤🎉❤
Talk is cheap - behavior is expensive
Awesome suit Bobby👍
The ❤ knows.....
I totally agree!
Nonverbal feelings are the true feelings of love.
Thank you 😊
Thanks!
Yep. Words aren't always needed. Being an introvert doesn't hurt either.
I like your style of Dress robert
Good advice, Robert.
💯 no doubt
I dated a girl a while ago and the first time she said I love you to me was when we were having sex.. To me that’s not a good thing lol
@lizdi2813
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Really? Sex is a very vulnerable, intimate moment between two people. Would it be more sincere if she said it over appetizers at Applebee’s? Also, take responsibility for having sex with someone who you’re not yet in a mutually loving relationship with. She probably did love you, but you projected something negative onto her motives, and I’m sure that played a part in things not working out.
@BobRoss-wm3lc
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@@lizdi2813 first off the Applebees comment made me laugh 😂. Second, it was more she was an attention and an actual whore so that played a role in it too
The weird thing about love is the fact that if you love someone they don't need to show it.. if you don't love them then they need to show it. Love is such a complicated thing but that's why it's so interesting.
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Amen❤❤❤❤❤
The only being who knows how to truly love us is our Creator. Human love is a weak facsimile of real love, and searching among humans for the one who will really love us will always end in disappointment and a broken heart. That’s why St. Augustine so profoundly said, “You have made us for Yourself, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.”
I new that.
Nice suit! 🕺
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Amen❤
I want the whole interview 😢
Ultimate Seduction is accomplished by the love language of Touch. That’s really The most ultimate form in how one expresses love. Acts of service and have one behaves there’s also at the top of that list because it involves sacrifice as well as time and effort. Words are futile and gifts of admiration are too materialistic and can be used without a person really having loving intentions. Quality time is just something that should happen and is required to be in any kind of relationship so that is a given and without it there is no relationship of love but only codependency. This is why cheating and adultery and having a sexual affair with another person while in a relationship is considered the most detrimental and hurtful because touch is the ultimate power in love and how you expressed that. And the next closest thing which is axis service which is a distance second is a behavior or action that will lead more toward that touching and loving experience. Words are bullshit and can be subjected to manipulation. Gifts are a way to try and buy someone’s affection, and again quality time is just a must and a prerequisite in order to actually be in any kind of loving relationship whatsoever.
@dasein9980
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Nice opinion you got there 😂
Not widely enough known
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Man who say " I love you " the fastest is wanting to sleep with you asap😂
Ahhhh I seee
Holy❤
Love is a verb.
👏👏👏👏👏👏
Full interview???
Sesucing women is not hard, just be handsome, confident, smart, and rich
@lauraearthsea9830
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R U saying women R that Shallow? it's a person's loving heart, that the majority of both male & female want in their lives, being interesting is a bonus, but having money/looks/and a hot body ISN'T the main reasons the female species needs and wants from a man that they desire, anyone can ACT confident and smart. Please give us more credit than being superficial. May ✨️GOD✨️ Bless your thinking, 💖 it's on the wrong path to your happiness.
@nononsense7019
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@Molomomo You have a lot to learn
@nicolashomez
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In this moment you don't understand anything about tha autor.
@stitischannel1963
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Ha yeah, being smart, confideng and rich. Very simple, yeah How is that "not hard" ?... And you have to be other things than that, you have to care But, Robert Greene speak about love
@kris7592
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😂 So far off the mark
And Robert talks, talks talks with words.
@theresajohnson9817
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Lol! But he’s teaching, teaching, teaching with his talks, talks, talks with words😉❤
@davidcardinal3654
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I guess he’s supposed to use interpretive dance 💃 😂😂😂
I only see that „tell me you love me regularly, so that I know I can count on it“ requirement only in women. Men need a lot of „I don’t love you anymore“ signs from their woman, until they believe it’s over. Women need to not hear the word for a week and start looking for a better option. Maybe that not even the correct sequence.
So basically saying I love you at the right moment?
So do they love you or they really don't??
I’m sorry that’s way I thought but my ex wanted the words
But, this is still difficult, in a world fraught with misunderstanding. There is the saying by Khalil Gibran: Between what is said and not meant, and what is meant and not said, most of love is lost. And, as I’ve experienced, a man can be and act impeccably sexy and he can pursue you for a few years. But, maybe that has to do with proximity, boredom, the fact that you’re single, his wife not giving him what he wants, giving you those deep, dark, sexy stares, him mentioning sex to you. All of this says he’s “interested”. None of this says he loves you. For all you know, with all of his lack of words, he could just need a blow up doll. He could’ve also said it, but would he intend to form a relationship or just wants this “benefit”? And, if he’s married, ya’ probably don’t have a shot in Hell and shouldn’t be trying anyway.
@kris7592
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Stop hating, negative Nancy
@privateprivate8366
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@@kris7592 not the brightest comment I’ve read. Perhaps, you’re just one of those people that thinks truth is negativity. Yeah, I know. That’s quite popular nowadays.
@kris7592
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@@privateprivate8366 Only hit dogs holler. :) Along with the negativity, you can stop bullshitting me as well. Be blessed!
@privateprivate8366
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@@kris7592 I don’t need to do anything. You probably need a therapist. Not my job.
@kris7592
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@@privateprivate8366 This sun ☀️ and island 🏝 are my therapy and you know it. Don’t get too jealous now! ☺️😘
🙏❤️🔥🥰 Ephesians 3:14-21 New King James Version Appreciation of the Mystery 14 For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, 15 from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, 16 that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, 17 that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height- 19 to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. 20 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, 21 to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
@lisahyyppa3360
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James 1:22-25 King James Version 22 But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. 23 For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: 24 For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. 25 But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.
@lisahyyppa3360
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🙏❤️🔥🥰 James 2:18 Context 15If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food, 16And one of you say unto them, Depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit? 17Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone. 18Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works. 19Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble. 20But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead? 21Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he had offered Isaac his son upon the altar?
@lisahyyppa3360
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Who the fock fell in love with me, I'm not relationship material
My ex husband never left after the first visit. That's happened more than once. Idk why really, I believe I actually listen to the other persons conversation.. I would love to talk to someone else and hear what someone else has to say for a while.
Hmmm
The people who were talking for motivation they become old and dying on the nursing facility 😅😅😅😅 so what is the value of words , action & reaction (15%)
He is very confusing. I have seen him in some other video that the ability words or the verbal ability is a very important factor in seduction like typical Joan duan of the 18th century and now he is saying exactly the opposite
Someone needs to dress him...he's wearing the absolutely wrong color and style for his coloring and age
Talk is cheap
Can this channel block me.....I have blocked it and every short I see I dislike...I am not interested in anything this person feels, thinks, or his logic.
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