The Real Sign of Love I Robert Greene

Stop waiting for people to say, "I Love You." That is not the real sign of love. Here is what love is really about.
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  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 Жыл бұрын

    Yep, words mean nothing without action.

  • @deepmaven8773
    @deepmaven8773 Жыл бұрын

    I never needed my love to tell me he loved me because he showed me in person. He massaged me. He styled my hair. He read poetry to me etc ..

  • @fayekalantzis4523

    @fayekalantzis4523

    Жыл бұрын

    How lucky are you

  • @anonsmith3459

    @anonsmith3459

    Жыл бұрын

    @Deep Naven - 🙄 There's always at least one... "I've never needed my love to say I love you Yada Yada yada..." Humans nowadays need people to envy them so they stroke their own ego by bragging they have something most don't have. It's a disgusting habit I can always see through- for instance, you never said what you do also to make him feel you love him- only what he does to you. Red fkn flag.😒🤨

  • @anonsmith3459

    @anonsmith3459

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@fayekalantzis4523 If your comment was in a sarcastic tone- then well done. If your comment was in an envious tone- you just stroked this person's ego yet again because that's what their goal was with this "I/My/Me Me Me" fake comment. If she's telling the truth, he may love her- but she doesn't love him & if it's not reciprocal is ultimately NOT love period.

  • @deepmaven8773

    @deepmaven8773

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@fayekalantzis4523 Thanks. But I don't think I"m lucky for it. I simply choose men that enjoy showing love as much as I do. They are out there. You will find them.

  • @sp3g56

    @sp3g56

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anonsmith3459 I hear you and maybe that is some people’s motivation, but I like seeing comments like this (even if it does make me a bit jealous) because it’s my only view into what a loving relationship could look like.

  • @dogstick12
    @dogstick12 Жыл бұрын

    Love is energetic, vibrational, and spiritual

  • @plantmama7442
    @plantmama7442 Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Actions SCREAM, words whisper. A person can tell you anything, which is why you have to be discerning of the truth. A person who says “ I love you” has to have behaviour that matches it:). Or if you’re doing the work to love yourself, experience how that feels and see if your partner can match it ❤

  • @lakepzepichi5409
    @lakepzepichi5409 Жыл бұрын

    Fact: True Love is an action word that is primarily shown n or by body language. So I agree with u. Many people are just set on hearing those magical words to the ears "I love you", & are very disappointed & disillusion & heartbroken whenever those words are not proven or shown. Thus facing reality is hard before u decide to leave the table. But leave u must least r heart dies to believing True love when it does dearly present itself. I greatly appreciate it presentation on this most serious issue facing us. 💯

  • @debradorsey153
    @debradorsey153 Жыл бұрын

    Actions speak louder than words , true story facts

  • @omodiagbedominicedeoghon4607
    @omodiagbedominicedeoghon4607 Жыл бұрын

    Robert Greene is not entirely right. What makes a person feel loved depends on his or her dominant sensory channel. A predominantly visual person has to see love. A predominantly kinesthetic person feels love by way of touch or bodily contact. An auditory person has to be told.

  • @salsadip7453

    @salsadip7453

    Жыл бұрын

    Hm, I think these are signs of being to disconnected from oneself and body language in general What will an auditory person do when they have to communicate with a child that can’t speak yet or an animal Body language and also our thoughts are more powerful than our words often If we lost touch with ourselves we may doubt and overthink, but there’s so much “realness” that can be felt by just interacting without words If someone hasn’t learned that language, life seems to be hard

  • @CharlotteG754

    @CharlotteG754

    Жыл бұрын

    Words might be used as an affirmation but without action they are nothing

  • @301made8

    @301made8

    Жыл бұрын

    I think you’re wont entirely

  • @trevorhalliday7857
    @trevorhalliday7857 Жыл бұрын

    True, true, true. Actions speak louder than words ❤️

  • @jboogie722
    @jboogie722 Жыл бұрын

    Saying “I love you” and yet being indifferent and uncaring in your actions is a cruel form of gaslighting.

  • @iambranden
    @iambranden Жыл бұрын

    Words are the most powerful, important, & significant form of communication. Especially when they are given from the mouth, & drawn from the heart of someone who loves you, words can be felt at the very core of our being. Words written or spoken may uplift & inspire or degrade & extinguish the human spirit words can create worlds or destroy lives. A vibration or nonverbal communication can relay significant information, but are not nearly as important, effective or capable of expressing power in the way words do.

  • @cicisunGemini

    @cicisunGemini

    Жыл бұрын

    Disagree..you have to walk the talk not just talk the talk

  • @babatopeifesanya9845

    @babatopeifesanya9845

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem with words in the context of Love is that, it's a double-edged sword. It's music to the heart of the listener, but not the composer (controller).

  • @MikaComments

    @MikaComments

    Жыл бұрын

    Words by itself don't mean anything. But if they are back up by action, non verbal clues than the words mean a lot.

  • @colonelbiscuits8564

    @colonelbiscuits8564

    Жыл бұрын

    I think there are instances where words are important. For example when one has never experienced love and doesn’t know what it is when shown love by a person. Emotionally neglected people sometimes need to be taught what it is behind a persons loving actions in order to actually understand what love is. But of course even then the loving actions are necessary to understanding love, and at least as important as the words. The word Love is simply a symbol representing a divine behavior pattern.

  • @amaryllisfrost4263

    @amaryllisfrost4263

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Anyone who's read any of his books would understand that words are cheap, and worth less than dirt. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear. Judge someone by their actions and behavior, those are hard to feign and will always tell you the kind of persom they are.

  • @Beverly-to1nd
    @Beverly-to1nd Жыл бұрын

    1000% actions and body language💗

  • @MegaLadylove2012
    @MegaLadylove2012 Жыл бұрын

    Nonverbal nonverbal I tell u is way more powerful than Ppl think. It truly comes down to the vibe, energy and the intention you give up. Ppl can feel tht way more than wat u say

  • @MrRickle
    @MrRickle Жыл бұрын

    Love is a behavior not just a feeling.

  • @shodapad07
    @shodapad07 Жыл бұрын

    Love is non-verbal. When the other Person feels that you love them. Amen.

  • @Goldenheart2911
    @Goldenheart2911 Жыл бұрын

    Love this clip. 👏 It's so true. If you really think about it out of the five love languages only one has to do with verbal communication. The other four have to do with intimacy and communication on a deeper nonverbal level; which are all felt instead of being heard. This clip makes me think of one of my favorite songs by Ronan Keating 🎶When You Say Nothing At All.🎶 The lyrics are such a beautiful reminder that actions and nonverbal cues are able to communicate just as loudly as words in that they have the power to shoot an arrow of love straight to our hearts without ever even saying a word. 💛🏹💘

  • @anonsmith3459

    @anonsmith3459

    Жыл бұрын

    Great comment

  • @Goldenheart2911

    @Goldenheart2911

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anonsmith3459 Thank you 💛 This one flowed right from my heart.❤️ Communication in a healthy relationship is so important and of course words do matter. Non verbal communication allows you to dive so much deeper though and to connect with your partner on a completely different level. When two people come together with that type of energy and understanding of one another that's where the magic really happens. 🪄 Have a great day.☀️

  • @anna-mariapontonio3220

    @anna-mariapontonio3220

    Жыл бұрын

    💛

  • @nabeelhakeem3593

    @nabeelhakeem3593

    Жыл бұрын

    What are the five love languages?

  • @Goldenheart2911

    @Goldenheart2911

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nabeelhakeem3593 They are from Gary Chapman's amazing book the Five Love Languages. He discusses examples of each of them in detail. It's a great read.💛 Words of Affirmation Quality Time Receiving Gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch

  • @PrincessRising
    @PrincessRising11 ай бұрын

    True. A million times.

  • @francessimons9358
    @francessimons9358 Жыл бұрын

    Believe who a person is the first time they SHOW you.

  • @psychopeticahermetico9478
    @psychopeticahermetico9478 Жыл бұрын

    I need words AND the rest

  • @ShadaeMastersAstrology
    @ShadaeMastersAstrology Жыл бұрын

    I can appreciate when the body language and words align 😅 oowweee 😏

  • @karifoto
    @karifoto Жыл бұрын

    So true 🌻

  • @jakenewman-rh6ug
    @jakenewman-rh6ug Жыл бұрын

    Words are what “govern” our rules of society

  • @judiththymes1532
    @judiththymes1532 Жыл бұрын

    I am SO HAPPY to see that you have more use of the left side of your body... in fact you look to be fully recovered. I had thought of sending you links to Joe Dispenza and his miraculous recovery, but you mentioned in an interview about everyone's unsolicited advice, so i didn't. Hope you're back to biking and hiking! ❤️ 💙 💜

  • @farhiaadeed2227
    @farhiaadeed2227 Жыл бұрын

    And that very true it’s like talk buffet out here on line

  • @sicelomkhwanazi
    @sicelomkhwanazi Жыл бұрын

    You have to notice non verbal communication more💎

  • @melodyklal8966
    @melodyklal8966 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely truth 🙌 ❤

  • @anonsmith3459
    @anonsmith3459 Жыл бұрын

    Kind of a given. Men don't usually say it so when they do say it, it makes an impression on us women initially, but they usually have to prove it & back it up with actions or women will call bs- smart women that is. 💯

  • @watchmeheal1176

    @watchmeheal1176

    Жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily a ‘smart’ woman as much as a self assured, self confident woman who loves herself fully❤

  • @anonsmith3459

    @anonsmith3459

    Жыл бұрын

    @@watchmeheal1176 - 🤣 YOU REALLY ARE A LOST LIL GIRL WITH THAT TIRED SORRY ATTEMPT TO CORRECT ME. NO IT'S AS I SAID - A SMART WOMAN PERIOD. GO CORRECT YOUR KIDS CUZ THEYRE NOT ON THIS THREAD MORON. #TFOH

  • @Zec226
    @Zec226 Жыл бұрын

    Spot on

  • @corettagreene1707
    @corettagreene1707 Жыл бұрын

    Great teaching❤

  • @dianamatson6002
    @dianamatson6002 Жыл бұрын

    Great book. Everyone should read it.

  • @Zckwarriar2009zi
    @Zckwarriar2009zi Жыл бұрын

    Very good. Actions. Body language.

  • @AuthorAngieDeLisi
    @AuthorAngieDeLisi Жыл бұрын

    True ❤

  • @diansimpson2839
    @diansimpson283911 ай бұрын

    I agree with you

  • @ExMuslimRev11
    @ExMuslimRev11 Жыл бұрын

    Truer words have never been spoken.

  • @charlotte1366
    @charlotte1366 Жыл бұрын

    Actions speak louder then words.

  • @getawaywithpam
    @getawaywithpam Жыл бұрын

    But I love to hear it random times of the day, although I can see in action.

  • @kris7592
    @kris7592 Жыл бұрын

    So true, but love has nothing to do with seduction. Don’t conflate the two…

  • @najialr

    @najialr

    Жыл бұрын

    You could seduce someone you love

  • @vishwaT
    @vishwaT Жыл бұрын

    All your actions Affects the mind of the listener subconsciously And some effects (impressions created) lasts forever

  • @kaycee5129
    @kaycee5129 Жыл бұрын

    Love this!

  • @Peaches328
    @Peaches328 Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, love is something you feel You know it's love and words don't or can't substitute for the feelings of love You know it bc you feel it and it's a wonderful feeling And they know you feel love and you know you feel love for them and it's like magic, lol 👍👍

  • @keelyevans7692
    @keelyevans7692 Жыл бұрын

    🎉😊🎉 we love you too ❤🎉❤

  • @LoLo-be2ed
    @LoLo-be2ed Жыл бұрын

    Talk is cheap - behavior is expensive

  • @leepiper4621
    @leepiper4621 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome suit Bobby👍

  • @maryseokley6061
    @maryseokley606111 ай бұрын

    The ❤ knows.....

  • @josephcusumano2885
    @josephcusumano2885 Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree!

  • @caiusballad4162
    @caiusballad4162 Жыл бұрын

    Nonverbal feelings are the true feelings of love.

  • @theschoolofbodylanguage
    @theschoolofbodylanguage Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @hanta2813
    @hanta2813 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @carolr6810
    @carolr6810 Жыл бұрын

    Yep. Words aren't always needed. Being an introvert doesn't hurt either.

  • @debbieBee886
    @debbieBee886 Жыл бұрын

    I like your style of Dress robert

  • @Iamsimplyfree
    @Iamsimplyfree Жыл бұрын

    Good advice, Robert.

  • @Werday-bv7eh
    @Werday-bv7eh9 ай бұрын

    💯 no doubt

  • @BobRoss-wm3lc
    @BobRoss-wm3lc Жыл бұрын

    I dated a girl a while ago and the first time she said I love you to me was when we were having sex.. To me that’s not a good thing lol

  • @lizdi2813

    @lizdi2813

    Жыл бұрын

    Really? Sex is a very vulnerable, intimate moment between two people. Would it be more sincere if she said it over appetizers at Applebee’s? Also, take responsibility for having sex with someone who you’re not yet in a mutually loving relationship with. She probably did love you, but you projected something negative onto her motives, and I’m sure that played a part in things not working out.

  • @BobRoss-wm3lc

    @BobRoss-wm3lc

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lizdi2813 first off the Applebees comment made me laugh 😂. Second, it was more she was an attention and an actual whore so that played a role in it too

  • @xxChacaronXX
    @xxChacaronXX Жыл бұрын

    The weird thing about love is the fact that if you love someone they don't need to show it.. if you don't love them then they need to show it. Love is such a complicated thing but that's why it's so interesting.

  • @sharemak7508
    @sharemak7508 Жыл бұрын

  • @powthekicker8765
    @powthekicker8765 Жыл бұрын

    Amen❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lizdi2813
    @lizdi2813 Жыл бұрын

    The only being who knows how to truly love us is our Creator. Human love is a weak facsimile of real love, and searching among humans for the one who will really love us will always end in disappointment and a broken heart. That’s why St. Augustine so profoundly said, “You have made us for Yourself, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.”

  • @heidimarsden8271
    @heidimarsden8271 Жыл бұрын

    I new that.

  • @anna-mariapontonio3220
    @anna-mariapontonio3220 Жыл бұрын

    Nice suit! 🕺

  • @GlenNdlovu-lv2tw
    @GlenNdlovu-lv2tw10 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 Жыл бұрын

    Amen❤

  • @coolcoocies
    @coolcoocies Жыл бұрын

    I want the whole interview 😢

  • @michaelg.5650
    @michaelg.5650 Жыл бұрын

    Ultimate Seduction is accomplished by the love language of Touch. That’s really The most ultimate form in how one expresses love. Acts of service and have one behaves there’s also at the top of that list because it involves sacrifice as well as time and effort. Words are futile and gifts of admiration are too materialistic and can be used without a person really having loving intentions. Quality time is just something that should happen and is required to be in any kind of relationship so that is a given and without it there is no relationship of love but only codependency. This is why cheating and adultery and having a sexual affair with another person while in a relationship is considered the most detrimental and hurtful because touch is the ultimate power in love and how you expressed that. And the next closest thing which is axis service which is a distance second is a behavior or action that will lead more toward that touching and loving experience. Words are bullshit and can be subjected to manipulation. Gifts are a way to try and buy someone’s affection, and again quality time is just a must and a prerequisite in order to actually be in any kind of loving relationship whatsoever.

  • @dasein9980

    @dasein9980

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice opinion you got there 😂

  • @jeffmiller3499
    @jeffmiller3499 Жыл бұрын

    Not widely enough known

  • @lightwarriorlynnmarie
    @lightwarriorlynnmarie Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤100

  • @phamsumi8867
    @phamsumi8867 Жыл бұрын

    Man who say " I love you " the fastest is wanting to sleep with you asap😂

  • @jennmedak7524
    @jennmedak7524 Жыл бұрын

    Ahhhh I seee

  • @adikeys
    @adikeys Жыл бұрын

    Holy❤

  • @rachangel1951
    @rachangel1951 Жыл бұрын

    Love is a verb.

  • @lcabrera348
    @lcabrera348 Жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @marissajones1203
    @marissajones1203 Жыл бұрын

    Full interview???

  • @molomomo3743
    @molomomo3743 Жыл бұрын

    Sesucing women is not hard, just be handsome, confident, smart, and rich

  • @lauraearthsea9830

    @lauraearthsea9830

    Жыл бұрын

    R U saying women R that Shallow? it's a person's loving heart, that the majority of both male & female want in their lives, being interesting is a bonus, but having money/looks/and a hot body ISN'T the main reasons the female species needs and wants from a man that they desire, anyone can ACT confident and smart. Please give us more credit than being superficial. May ✨️GOD✨️ Bless your thinking, 💖 it's on the wrong path to your happiness.

  • @nononsense7019

    @nononsense7019

    Жыл бұрын

    @Molomomo You have a lot to learn

  • @nicolashomez

    @nicolashomez

    Жыл бұрын

    In this moment you don't understand anything about tha autor.

  • @stitischannel1963

    @stitischannel1963

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha yeah, being smart, confideng and rich. Very simple, yeah How is that "not hard" ?... And you have to be other things than that, you have to care But, Robert Greene speak about love

  • @kris7592

    @kris7592

    Жыл бұрын

    😂 So far off the mark

  • @deepmaven8773
    @deepmaven8773 Жыл бұрын

    And Robert talks, talks talks with words.

  • @theresajohnson9817

    @theresajohnson9817

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol! But he’s teaching, teaching, teaching with his talks, talks, talks with words😉❤

  • @davidcardinal3654

    @davidcardinal3654

    Жыл бұрын

    I guess he’s supposed to use interpretive dance 💃 😂😂😂

  • @fromgermany271
    @fromgermany271 Жыл бұрын

    I only see that „tell me you love me regularly, so that I know I can count on it“ requirement only in women. Men need a lot of „I don’t love you anymore“ signs from their woman, until they believe it’s over. Women need to not hear the word for a week and start looking for a better option. Maybe that not even the correct sequence.

  • @James-ck4bg
    @James-ck4bg Жыл бұрын

    So basically saying I love you at the right moment?

  • @arisu229
    @arisu229 Жыл бұрын

    So do they love you or they really don't??

  • @lorrieudrea7496
    @lorrieudrea7496 Жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry that’s way I thought but my ex wanted the words

  • @privateprivate8366
    @privateprivate8366 Жыл бұрын

    But, this is still difficult, in a world fraught with misunderstanding. There is the saying by Khalil Gibran: Between what is said and not meant, and what is meant and not said, most of love is lost. And, as I’ve experienced, a man can be and act impeccably sexy and he can pursue you for a few years. But, maybe that has to do with proximity, boredom, the fact that you’re single, his wife not giving him what he wants, giving you those deep, dark, sexy stares, him mentioning sex to you. All of this says he’s “interested”. None of this says he loves you. For all you know, with all of his lack of words, he could just need a blow up doll. He could’ve also said it, but would he intend to form a relationship or just wants this “benefit”? And, if he’s married, ya’ probably don’t have a shot in Hell and shouldn’t be trying anyway.

  • @kris7592

    @kris7592

    Жыл бұрын

    Stop hating, negative Nancy

  • @privateprivate8366

    @privateprivate8366

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kris7592 not the brightest comment I’ve read. Perhaps, you’re just one of those people that thinks truth is negativity. Yeah, I know. That’s quite popular nowadays.

  • @kris7592

    @kris7592

    Жыл бұрын

    @@privateprivate8366 Only hit dogs holler. :) Along with the negativity, you can stop bullshitting me as well. Be blessed!

  • @privateprivate8366

    @privateprivate8366

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kris7592 I don’t need to do anything. You probably need a therapist. Not my job.

  • @kris7592

    @kris7592

    Жыл бұрын

    @@privateprivate8366 This sun ☀️ and island 🏝 are my therapy and you know it. Don’t get too jealous now! ☺️😘

  • @lisahyyppa3360
    @lisahyyppa3360 Жыл бұрын

    🙏❤️‍🔥🥰 Ephesians 3:14-21 New King James Version Appreciation of the Mystery 14 For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, 15 from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, 16 that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, 17 that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height- 19 to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. 20 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, 21 to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

  • @lisahyyppa3360

    @lisahyyppa3360

    Жыл бұрын

    James 1:22-25 King James Version 22 But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. 23 For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: 24 For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. 25 But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.

  • @lisahyyppa3360

    @lisahyyppa3360

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏❤️‍🔥🥰 James 2:18 Context 15If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food, 16And one of you say unto them, Depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit? 17Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone. 18Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works. 19Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble. 20But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead? 21Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he had offered Isaac his son upon the altar?

  • @lisahyyppa3360

    @lisahyyppa3360

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @arthurcurry3212
    @arthurcurry3212 Жыл бұрын

    Who the fock fell in love with me, I'm not relationship material

  • @MoRitchie
    @MoRitchie Жыл бұрын

    My ex husband never left after the first visit. That's happened more than once. Idk why really, I believe I actually listen to the other persons conversation.. I would love to talk to someone else and hear what someone else has to say for a while.

  • @user-p6-3561
    @user-p6-3561 Жыл бұрын

    Hmmm

  • @niteshkhadka5642
    @niteshkhadka5642 Жыл бұрын

    The people who were talking for motivation they become old and dying on the nursing facility 😅😅😅😅 so what is the value of words , action & reaction (15%)

  • @Happy_Human-nh4ec
    @Happy_Human-nh4ec Жыл бұрын

    He is very confusing. I have seen him in some other video that the ability words or the verbal ability is a very important factor in seduction like typical Joan duan of the 18th century and now he is saying exactly the opposite

  • @vkngwmn6636
    @vkngwmn6636 Жыл бұрын

    Someone needs to dress him...he's wearing the absolutely wrong color and style for his coloring and age

  • @AprilHare
    @AprilHare Жыл бұрын

    Talk is cheap

  • @soloxslick
    @soloxslick Жыл бұрын

    Can this channel block me.....I have blocked it and every short I see I dislike...I am not interested in anything this person feels, thinks, or his logic.

  • @maximethetiot2703
    @maximethetiot2703 Жыл бұрын