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Cheapness of spirit ! Excellent summation .

He's right. A lot of people dating these days dont put in much effort and use the same approaches as everyone else. They don't make themselves stand out in any way yet are dismayed when they get no results.

The best lover I’ve ever had was overweight and not at all good looking. But he was SO confident and he made me laugh like no one else. I was so at ease with him that our sex was fantastic! He eventually became “married” to his business. We loved our year together and I still call him a good friend today.

@Basedeyecel

10 ай бұрын

I'm attractive And women only sleep with me

@bluscorpion

10 ай бұрын

"not at all good looking.". Dang! 😮😂

Robert is 100% correct. Listen & things will improve especially young men.

I have zero problem with a man using a coupon. 🤷‍♀️ I do have a problem with a man showing up in frumpy clothing and poorly groomed. I give a good effort with my appearance both for myself and as a sign of respect for my date.

@santiagocasaligliager421

Жыл бұрын

😂 ich liebe dich

Excellent talk

🤣 the intro with single and mingle got me 🤣

My female friends would see a guy using a coupon as a green flag, shows hes financially savvy, a meaningful longterm trait. Challenge yourself, surround yourself with the right people, be true to yourself.

@AngelaRobert-dv3hb

9 ай бұрын

You are right

Such a wise man omg As a woman can confirm everything he says

@jerry-mind-sky

Жыл бұрын

Google cold shower ,, body count vs divorce rate ,,. Something to think about. Nice day :)

@elzaocean

Жыл бұрын

@@jerry-mind-sky lol love it how your automatic assumption works

Love is a language of gestures. 👍

I may be needing money but what has made me stay with my current man for so long its coz he made me discover the person in me that I never knew,showed me how to surely behave and act,taught me how to be comfortable in my confidence and so many things, I will forever be greatful for a such husband also a Father figure,a best friend all of it that he showed to me, but su h men are rare

Young Men not having sex on the last 12 months is nothing that we should focus on . The focus should be on Young men getting married.

Women don't necessarily see through fake confidence in men. What happens is the woman feels unsafe (and she feels unsafe because of his highly stressed state). She may not even know that there is deceit going on. All she knows is that she feels unsafe around you. It's an instinctual thing. Sexuality and instincts go together. I cannot stress this enough: If a woman feels safe around a man (safe to be her vulnerable self), she is sexually attracted to him. If a woman feels unsafe around a man, she is sexually turned off him.

4 : dating with Groupon 😅😅

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It’s not other people’s hang ups. It’s mine. I don’t have to agree with people 100% of the time but the core values I have the other person must also share. Otherwise, I won’t even bother because I know it’s going to be a problem in the near future. For example, politics, religion, financial handling, vices and what a relationship should be. If you’re too woke, then I don’t see you as sensible. I just see you as a fanatic. Same with religion and financial handling. Too much spending especially on depreciating consumerism is bad. It demonstrates a weakness. How one sees relationships. Are you looking for a mother 2.0? I mean you just have to have your life together and what I mean by that is have a career or a business, party but be sensible, look after yourself but don’t be consumed with self, help others like your family and be kind. And do that every day 24/7/365. Yup. All the boring stuff.

L E G E N D

To be honest, this video was Really depressing.

When was the last time this bloke had to go out on a date? I suspect it was a looong time ago. I feel like he hasn’t considered how dating has shifted to a more informal affair amidst the rise in apps and he is pretty dismissive of how many women actually want to split the bill these days, certainly in lots of European countries. He literally uses the pub as a bad example but it is the typical first date place in many countries because it puts both parties at ease.

@amalrajpr6800

Ай бұрын

Splitting bills is a kind of no no for me, idk why

When he says let go of tightness/don’t be cheap… does that apply to both sides? As in, if both sides don’t sincerely offer to go Dutch, is one side being tight/cheap? And in terms of thinking of somewhere unusual/creative/interesting to go, does that apply equally?

@davidduarte2887

Жыл бұрын

Yeah on the second date if a woman doesn’t at least offer to pay/split the check I’m not interested.

@creative45630

Жыл бұрын

From the perspective of a single woman post babies and now widowed, yes absolutely men must pay and show willing to invest (not just in money but in effort, in wooing etc). This is because women are biologically the ones to carry babies - they will be the ones physically out of action while they give birth, breastfeed etc, so a man must show he’s able to be not only self-sufficient but also provide for his family. I wish I had paid much more attention to that biological drive to have a man who wants to take care of me when I was first dating in my teens/20s. For someone in my position, not looking to have more children, and looking for my second big relationship, I think then equality between the sexes is more up for debate.

@juliettezea9507

Жыл бұрын

@@davidduarte2887 if I split the bill then we are going to some where cheap like pizza ranch

@Bjorn_R

Жыл бұрын

​@@creative45630You could just as easily say that a man who does not readily offer to pay, is more frugal and have better spending habits benefitting a potential future family. Men paying for everything, is from a time when women didnt have jobs and you bloody know this.

@bohabbibab5858

Жыл бұрын

​@@Bjorn_Rshe is just post rationalising her preference for the guy to spend his money for her to be cheap.

Make no mistake. Physical appearance is the first thing a woman notices.. If you are an 8-10 you have a big advantage. Its latter that they concentrate on wealth, status and utilitarian (what can this simp do for me) value. I thought Errol Flynn was queer.

@lucasgrey9794

10 ай бұрын

That's the thing. Robert Greene ignores that Errol Flynn was a 9/10 literal Gigachad. The woman in the book didn't want to appear shallow so she wrote that she was "intoxicated by his relaxed confidence" rather than his looks. Let the black pill guide you!

@hamasakibibou7433

4 ай бұрын

Well it’s just not true. Men are waaaay more like that. Non only he show it in the book but also by a simple fact. Men more consume p0rn by picture and videos, women more by reading. Gay men are extremely in touch with their appearance cause to attract another man you will have to look good. Average straight and average gay don’t look the same at all and don’t take the same care of their appearance. But a straight men liking a woman who doesn’t look good ? Never happened. Instant reject. Women are seduced by something more subtle. The dandy style works because it’s an exception, a rare thing by straight man. If most men wore dandies their seduction would work. It’s something transgressive and subtle that is sexy in them like Errol Flynn.

@amalrajpr6800

Ай бұрын

​@@lucasgrey9794remember errol flynn wasnt only handsome guy around

This man has not dated in decades. Most women just treat dating apps like Uber eats. It's a free meal. Why would any man bother putting any effort for such. Seduction... Ha! you're just a meal ticket. First date is only ever coffee or walk in the park, even better if you have a coffee coupon.

@hytnano

3 ай бұрын

Key words, most women! Those are the women that you precisely need to avoid. And of course he hasn't dated in years, he's married.

@HTownstylist253

3 ай бұрын

Lol how's that working out for ya 😂

I completely disagree with this guy. In my experience honesty is the way I have found my dates to be most responsive. If you don't have much money and you say "I would you think I'm cheap if I use a coupon?" And she makes a strange face, maybe you are not right for each other. It better then lying and going into dept. How does this "expert" think that will go in 6 months.

@bonitaapplebum0088

10 ай бұрын

If taking someone out to eat is putting you in debt then you shouldn't be dating.

@teamcoalhapcharcoal

8 ай бұрын

Wrong, cheapskate! Spend £250 minimum otherwise you just don't care and don't have enough resources to provide. Her hunter gatherer brain just won't respond to this bro wtf 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@kurts605

4 ай бұрын

Dude, whipping out a coupon on the first date is LAME! You can't wait to be LAME??? He sums it up perfectly by calling it Anti-Seduction.

Do you think this guy really speaks like this? It seems like everything I’ve seen this guy say it’s like he’s got the worst depression ever. he seems like something wrong with him.

He lost me! A man needs to have a big bank account. Some females want free expensive meal.

@roninenlightened6350

9 ай бұрын

@michaelvance-wu9ox I think she was joking. Right Lucia?? No one can be that dumb, right???

@AngelaRobert-dv3hb

9 ай бұрын

I think she was joking

@hytnano

3 ай бұрын

The right woman will not care about a free meal nor a big bank account...

Dating mistakes 1 being a man 2 breathing 3 see number 1 All jokes aside, I agree with the effort point, but effort goes both ways. podcasts like these pander to women and will never say women should put in more effort too.

@CloseUpKing

Жыл бұрын

Obviously you haven't read any of his books then

@jamillescruggs6916

Жыл бұрын

Effort means that you are always putting your best foot forward. You don’t stop once you secure a relationship. This behavior should be a part of your everyday life, pertaining to every woman. You are always required to maintain attraction.

@SensitiveSage

Жыл бұрын

He never said man 😂 what a way to expose your immature mind 😢

@AdaLovelace-nc3vi

Жыл бұрын

Incel

@proxcess4946

Жыл бұрын

Seconding uncursed. At no point is he addressing men, he just uses a woman’s pov as an example. This is advice for everyone.