so passion is when you're PHISICALLY attracted to someone and intimacy is when you can tell someone about EVERYTHING and trust them..in order for LOVE to work, you need to have intimacy, passion and COMMITMENT..

relationships are so much work - sometimes i honestly feel like i'm happier being alone

my right ear felt alone in this

@artistic2742

4 жыл бұрын

Thoght my earphones where broken

@rupaltrivedi307

3 жыл бұрын

I thought my earphone broke

@inexp1

3 жыл бұрын

Same bro i got scared for my headphones

@therealtanah

3 жыл бұрын

Same situation here

@alinesanchezramirezbaruchi2658

2 жыл бұрын

Tradução incorreta "Minha orelha direita sentiu que formigou descolada da cabeça " 🤣 Meme

This is one of the best explanations of love, relationships, and attraction.

This should be shown in High Schools, so the teenagers get knowledge and understanding about true relationships and what it is about.

@crazyflamefox

3 ай бұрын

11 years late but at my school they do show this video in psych classes

All of this resonates with me. People that deny it are nothing more than "blue pill" thinkers. Looks matter and the only people who it is safe to say are NOT visual are the blind. Both sexes judge by looks first and foremost and looks can influence how you feel about and treat someone. Period.

@dgiintl

7 жыл бұрын

y

@briytonwilliams1337

7 жыл бұрын

for real

@perliva

6 жыл бұрын

You might be interested in a study in which blind men found women with a certain hip-to-waist-ratio the most attractive. Suffice to say, that that ratio was is the same which was the most attractive to men who could see the women instead of touching her.

@EVILONE021377

6 жыл бұрын

Looks can be deceiving. Lots of good looking people are ugly inside, but the significant other chooses to stick around for “looks” sake.......probably for social status purposes

@crubs83

5 жыл бұрын

Actually, looks DO matter to people who are blind. Those who are blind form a mental image of an individual by touching them. The blind can, in fact, 'see' with their hands, similar to how bats 'see' with sound. That being said, most people probably aren't comfortable with having their face felt up by a stranger, so those who are blind are forced to learn about someone and appreciate their personality before knowing how they look.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

i could listen to this even 2 more hours . it gets even more complicated . but the end is really emotional . i'm just used to using 5 drops of natural sex drops spanish fly and the love is on!!he isn't even thinking of some other girls. simple trick uh? and these aphrodisiacs are really easy to use.

@chloemarlon39

Жыл бұрын

yeah i know them too. my man gave me these natural drops as a birthday gift since he thinks i'm so bad in bed. but after 5 drops he completely changed his mind and now he wants me to be like that all the time

8:50 relationship should make you and your partner better people not bring out the worst in each other. 10:08 physical and emotional abuse CANNOT coexist with love 13:47 Opposites do not make great relationships 15:35 Simple "Hi, how are you?" makes people like you 21:15 Similarities are one of the main factors for long term relationship. But opposites do attract for short term 22:11 For basic mating purposes, we are actually compelled to mate with someone different to us but problem is that it is not good for long term relationship 23:30 Self fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that someone likes you, you will behave in a positive way towards that person creating a cycle of liking. 27:35 Men are right upfront about placing attractiveness in their top 3; Women place it 6, 7, or 8, but when you evaluate women's behavior, it's no different than men. 37:30 Share your beliefs, your goals, ect, to create intimacy, attraction and commitment. However, some secrets were meant to be taken to the grave 39:50 Sad reality, marriage dies out after 5 years. Not that you are with the wrong person, just the nature of love 43:40 Do small act of love and appreciation like saying thank you for doing the laundry or stroking shoulders. Do not insult your partner, or berate them; it's the worst thing you can do. 47:35 Physical and psychological and emotional abuse show up the same way on brain scans. _Fighting is not the only way to inflict damage upon the opponent; a man's spirit can be broken in much easier ways_ 56:00 Hurting someone is not a sign of love, as some abusers may claim. Physical and emotional abuse and love cannot coexist. Often time, it is a male abuser, but women could abuse, as well. Abusers will not change unless they get professional help. You cannot fix an abuser, unless maybe you are a professional (???) 58:00 Say to yourself, "I am Worthy of love".

This man is very easy to listen to - thank you, great lecture!

@jedim1ndfux619

2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't stand that the audio only worked from one ear to be honest. I only made it about 30 seconds but im sure it was a good lecture.

I'm so thankful and grateful to this professor and all of the questions, they helped me learn a lot.

I think that initial physical attraction is important, even if we don't like to admit it, but like this guy points out, you also need passion, intimacy and commitment and when you get to know the person, that initial attraction won't be as important, you'll be attracted to how thoughtful and caring and funny they are and then it's just a bonus that person's good-lucking. and also, this proximity thing, the more time you get to spend with someone the more you realise how attractive they are..

@FloppaTheBased

11 ай бұрын

It obviously is lol. I mean how are you supposed to enjoy sex with physically unattractive partner

Interesting course, I think the best way to maintain a long term relationship is to be brutally honest with each other.

@iliveinarichgirlsdream

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly what most people won’t be 😒

@LigiB

3 жыл бұрын

So true !!

Great lecture for ESL students. Clear and easy to understand and good use of supporting visuals. Works well with text book units about LOVE.

I’m confident enough to believe I deserve an honorary degree in this field, I believe I communicate love accurately without ever going to college.

This lecture was amazing ! Professor is beyond wise .

my right ear disliked this video

@Lonely.Nation

8 жыл бұрын

nah fam your headphones are just broken

@Lonely.Nation

8 жыл бұрын

thessbest123 that's disgusting. you need to shave

@deirdreberry4130

8 жыл бұрын

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@iwishyouknew3413

8 жыл бұрын

+thessbest123 +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me you're feedback was nothing more than one of +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me that you aren't medically challenged due to any past head injuries? Are you creeping over into the double digits, 10 year old. Bc There is no greater insult during a misunderstanding, lacking interpersonal skills, experiences and knowledge around the subject of choice. Just wanted to know about meaning behind the message.

@iwishyouknew3413

8 жыл бұрын

+thessbest123 +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me you're feedback was nothing more than one of +thessbest123 I was slightly interested in your message below. Please tell me that you aren't medically challenged due to any past head injuries? Are you creeping over into the double digits, 10 year old. Bc There is no greater insult during a misunderstanding, lacking interpersonal skills, experiences and knowledge around the subject of choice. Just wanted to know about meaning behind the message.

If I could, I’d get each person to view this video at least once a year. Insightful and superbly delivered.👌🏽

very informative, but compassionate at the same time. great stuff, you're a good teacher.

He should have just said at the end "In summary, bitches be crazy" and then left to uproarious applause.

@uzernam3

8 жыл бұрын

+robotpanda77 LMAO

This is an amazing lecture. Thanks a lot for uploading!

Love is completely letting go and discovering your absoute, true inner self, which you see in that other person.

@markem9415

8 жыл бұрын

+Raiken Xion Lol good luck with that.

@RaikenXion

8 жыл бұрын

Mark EM No bad luck (for me) cause I lost that person

Thank you for the lecture! one of the best and practical lecture i've ever heard about love and relationships.

my left ear like this.

It's balance between harmony of spirits & personality ❤️❤️

This lecture made me reflect on my self and made me aware of the important things a couple need to keep a relationship going. Is love a choice ? Maybe...! Got so much love to give and yet so much to learn.

thank you dr conner for the amazing lecture, it was very informative :)

Thanks for upload this video. I find it that equip my self by knowing love from the psychological side is very helpful in my love life.

Wholesome, informative, and helpful in putting things im perspective. Thanks 🌹

I could listen to this man forever.

I've learned a few things here. Thanks for the post!

best lecture of love i have ever heard...

This is really good information. I am so glad I came across this...

Absolutely awesome ! Thank you for sharing the knowledge 🙏🏽

I love psychology and love, great combo in video.

I love this class!! thank you SO MUCH for posting!

i have always wanted to know what to expect in a relationship and how to make it work. I almost gave up in seeking cos i was afraid it wil fail again. learnt a lot from this. It is not easy but does help. thank you

Dr.Frank Conner is a real visual presentator!

Love this lecture. I learned lots of important information from this. Thanks a million.

It all makes sense now. I don't assimilate with people because I'm the most attractive.

What people also forget is that your flaws have to be compatible. For instance, if I am overly sensitive or emotionally unstable and you are non-chalant, self-absorbed, and easily irritated we would not work out very well. People always focus on the positive things we have in common but the truth is, our negative traits have to be compatible too.,,i.e I'm unstable but your patient, etc.

I'm glad for the long form on the lecture, & thx for the mirror GRCC...

Whoa, what a great and engaging instructor! I wish he taught at my University.

knowledge source , quality based lecture.

What a great video! Very educational.

Thank you for this talk I got a lot out of it. Regards Sean

I have my degree in psychology. I love these videos😀

FOR ANYONE WHO DOESN WANT THEIR RIGHT WAR TO DISAPPEAR Settings -> accessibility -> audio -> mono. Pretty much the same for windows.

There is only compassion as true love. Co-together passion-suffering. To simply be fully present for another because you recognize on a spiritual level that they are a part of you. Anything else is delusionally caused attachment arising as some form of co-dependency.

I love this! this is a great channel

Thank you very much for sharing this on youtube!

The fact he had quoted the negatives is a part of our lives'.! Rather than some of our lives'.! Some nt believe in divorace, and no other options'.!

GREAT INFO NICE SIMPLE WAY OF SAYING COMPLICATED THING , THANKS FOR POSTING

You're right, no intellect argues. Intellects, by definition, cannot argue. But intellectuals do.

Thank you so much for saying physical and mental abuse is not Love..

I have only ever had 2 out of 3 in any given relationship ... but its not over yet and my ❤️stays open.

This was a great lecture!

Very informative. Thank you!

This was a very good lecture! Wish I had this teacher

This video is great. I have come to better understanding of how relationships work.

very interesting, thank you Dr. Frank Conner

i LOVED every moment of it :) :) especially the sternberg triangle :D thanks a million

Excellent explanation on love! Thanks!

I'm proud and happy of being your virtual student...

4 things i took out from this lecture (could watch again!) Passion might stop earlier than intimacy if it starts As passion, if u wanna go back with ur ex u gotta analytically Measure, relationship dynamics n behaviour, attachment styles, personality = come values, where u wanna live etc

I really enjoyed the lecture given. I was some great food for thought and was very informative. I am going to recommend my friends to see this.

@wilsonalex7159

2 жыл бұрын

dr ozoey love spell just fixed my relationship. We have been fighting every day and you’ve just fixed it and I cannot thank you enough..Thank you Dr Ozoey for saving my broken relationship and brought my boyfriend back to me. If you have any problem in marriage/relationship.

This guy is the real deal

i loved how you started wisely then swore :D

im from Colombia and im thankful for to see this thank u so much....this its very interesting for me ... nice day bye :)

Excellent breakdown of what real love is. It’s view of attraction, however, is very Anglo-centric because many cultures have an ancient tradition of not meeting until the wedding day. I would love to see an honest study of those marriages. Of course, it’s all dependent on whether people are prepared to be truthful, despite custom or religious beliefs.

This is such a great lecture. Wish the students were more engaged.

Now I know where my professor in RS1 got his lecture about love....Very amazing tho. 😊

everything is a business thats why people need these courses life is too short to have to go through love happens different and yes love exist when unconditionally and not forced fake manipulated it should just flow but dating is a huge business it includes many areas of professionalism and commercialism that benefit out of love, relationships, etc

ive read these before but they are very good information and thanks for reminding me.

Solid Advice! Thanks for sharing!

Thank you for the upload, useful knowledge

I like the "acceptance" factor for a successful relationship....My parents have been accepting each other behaviors for 40 years...

You are not picky if you have ONE trait that you want, it is a mere desire. You can want whomever you want. Let those who fall into love fall into love, and those who fall into true love fall into true love. Allow nature to take its course, that is of utmost importance.

Good talk overall but I thought the "how to have a good relationship" part was not very clear, if anyone wants the keys to long lasting love that is backed by loads of scientific data look up John Gottman's book or audiobook "What makes love last?" the dude has been studying this stuff for like 30+ years, he is known as one of the leading experts in the world, great stuff.

THANK YOU !!! that's what I was looking for !!!! . some theorethical base about love based on science of psycology.

I thought something was wrong with my right ear headphone lol

@kevinwilson3337

4 жыл бұрын

Me too lol

Always enjoy learning new things

Well demonstrated detailed topic

Love it!! Verry intresting and informative.

impressive lecture!!

Thank You Very Much Dr, You Solved My Biggest Conflict Which Was In My Mind From Lot Of Years, You Just Solved In a Sometime. Thanks Really.

@mrbojangle6118

4 жыл бұрын

What was the conflict in your mind?

3/4 through realizing this hasn’t aged that well.

Which is more correct? The need for one to explore and be secure with oneself before getting into a relationship or the use of relationship to grow and be secure with oneself in who he/she is and what he/she has to offer.

Wow... Love for certain people happens for a certain reason and that's the psychological side of it. You apparently didn't even bother to reach halfway of this amazing video.

Very good lecture....

i really enjoyed your lecture

well I'm never gonna get anyone..

@johnstarke5981

6 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@vladkostin7557

5 жыл бұрын

how is it going?

@multirampage1

5 жыл бұрын

Muuuhhh just hit gym brooooooooh.

@dason5408

4 жыл бұрын

I know

@rayz1685

4 жыл бұрын

Looks max that’s all I can say

very interesting and makes a lot of sense!

The ending cycle of a relationship is interesting and very true. 49:35

But then again, it's a natural part of the human being to consider whether life with someone else would be better, especially given the fact that we, as opposed to animals, are able to reflect intellectually over the future, and possible consequences of the choices we make. That's where "commitment" comes in, because some might feel that they would have an easier life if they marry a wealthy person.

Excellent information

It was nice reading the last line. Smile:)

This sucks because we can't see the pictures he is talking about. We keep getting shown the same picture of celebrities...why?

does it mean one person is not very interested if they is not doing anything for the other, if they actually avoid doing anything for the other? What about if the distance is not geographic, if it suits the one to limit the amount of time spent with the other by choice?

AWESOME VIDEO