The Psychology Behind True Love - Alan Watts

The wise and humorous sage, Alan Watts, explains the dynamic of letting go of love and relationship control so much more simply and eloquently than we ever could hope to. how letting go of love control brings greater intimacy and a more vibrant love flow, and then offered suggestions on how to let go of control in intimate relationships.
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  • @dmtdreamz7706
    @dmtdreamz7706 Жыл бұрын

    If you have something that you really want in your life, spend lots of time loving about it. The more you love the more ideas will pop up the more creative your gonna start to get. Your sublovescious mind doesn't care if your vision is crazy. It doesnt care if you dont know how to do it. When you see a thing clearly in your mind, your creative "loving mechanism" within you takes over and does the job much better than you could do it by lovescious effort or love power. A different psychedelic from a different planet every nanosecond. All sorts of dreams are possible. The human nervous system cannot tell the difference between an "actual" lovexperience and an lovexperience imagined vividly and in detail. Synthesize "experience," to literally create experience, and control it, in the laboratory of our minds. A vision is a very emotional image, the most powerful image that you can come up with for yourself at this time. This vision will become like a hallucination in other peoples mind and this could be the cause of them creating extraordinary things.

  • @spiritlevelstudios

    @spiritlevelstudios

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for putting words onto that one. Much appreciated 🙏🏻☯️💙

  • @ImSparkels

    @ImSparkels

    Жыл бұрын

    dont read this comment after watching this video im tripping balls and climbing the walls.!

  • @joebatista3535

    @joebatista3535

    4 ай бұрын

    Oh how much I love you, you are speaking an elixir.

  • @kozanton

    @kozanton

    Ай бұрын

    Or.. ORRR.. You can get off your azz and go get what you want. While you're sitting there "Loving" about it, the rest of us are making it happen. You think the universe doesn't favor action over inaction? All you're doing is creating a fantasy in which to live with and reality will never live up to your fantasy world. Stop listening to clowns like Alan Watts.

  • @judithechavarria8966

    @judithechavarria8966

    9 күн бұрын

    Wow! 🤩 it makes totally sense ! Thank you ❤

  • @jimmysroom5132
    @jimmysroom51324 ай бұрын

    "total abandon" is a synonym for codependency. Don't ever abandon yourself for anyone or anything. Love is a reflection of you and what you're needing to grow into a balanced version of yourself, not throw yourself at someone and do whatever they want.

  • @Smoraya88

    @Smoraya88

    20 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this. 🙏🏼

  • @user-cb7cz3ty5p

    @user-cb7cz3ty5p

    18 сағат бұрын

    Totally

  • @pprehn5268
    @pprehn52684 ай бұрын

    If you love with all your heart and detach with all your soul, You will feel a sense of wholeness.

  • @rachelross5829
    @rachelross582916 сағат бұрын

    Existence is love so I let it flow through everyday. It's a beautifully heartbreaking experience but being protected heals the hurt I witnessed and actually take on from hearts that are so broken. Met a man a few weeks ago and his guard dropped in my presence so much so that my own daughter said his whole world stood still when I touched him. Later that day he stopped in his whirlwind frenzy, put his hand on a wall, dropped his head and opened his heart with beautiful emotions. People respond to my openess the same. Thank you for this video ❤ We are all here to assist one another and when we do it correctly, the divine renews your heart everyday.

  • @adamfawkes9972
    @adamfawkes99727 ай бұрын

    “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭4‬-‭7‬ ‭

  • @sim._.dhillon
    @sim._.dhillon9 ай бұрын

    just love this man and his wisdom he left behind for us :) beautiful.

  • @MrWhatever1234567
    @MrWhatever12345676 күн бұрын

    He loved them all!!

  • @dlvsupernovamrstokraks2807
    @dlvsupernovamrstokraks28072 ай бұрын

    I've been with Alan watts half my life ❤

  • @imcalibro24
    @imcalibro244 ай бұрын

    Keep music those people aren’t mad at your music they’re mad at something deeper ✌🏽

  • @wendydaniel1110

    @wendydaniel1110

    14 күн бұрын

    True to that. Good point

  • @ericpreston5826
    @ericpreston58267 ай бұрын

    I really love how you put the words over the bridge.

  • @user-ex4si2md6r
    @user-ex4si2md6r8 ай бұрын

    Love is fickle and ambiguous yet,😢 what everyone wants to have....💔

  • @taj6519
    @taj65197 ай бұрын

    Lol why do people have such a problem with music in these videos😂 they are videos on letting go. Let it go.. but now I must let it go that people have the issue with it.. what a bind haha

  • @nickinskeep

    @nickinskeep

    Ай бұрын

    Haha perfectly put! They are no more right or wrong with how they feel about it than those who don't mind the music

  • @robinjohnsen8471

    @robinjohnsen8471

    21 күн бұрын

    Cuz it suuucks

  • @southsiren

    @southsiren

    8 күн бұрын

    You can 😂 all you want but you obviously can't let something go, and you are blaming people who don't like music 😂😂😂 how miserable

  • @Jennifurdawn

    @Jennifurdawn

    3 күн бұрын

    Ha! I have this convo with myself daily. “Why don’t they just let it go?” . . . “Can I let it go that they won’t let it go?” - - around and around! 😂😂😂

  • @nickinskeep

    @nickinskeep

    2 күн бұрын

    @@Jennifurdawn yeesh a lot of negativity coming from you, but that's alright. Hope you're doing ok!

  • @meska5331
    @meska53312 ай бұрын

    ty Alan

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo35768 күн бұрын

    Dreamt the 🌕,thank you Sir..love,yesss!!😅❤

  • @carlosrivas3004
    @carlosrivas3004 Жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @Cassella_and_Salt
    @Cassella_and_Salt Жыл бұрын

    16:58

  • @joebatista3535
    @joebatista35354 ай бұрын

    Thank you, i love the music you hav attached to the audio

  • @user-mu5bp1hm6z
    @user-mu5bp1hm6z7 ай бұрын

    2².³.

  • @santiagovilaca9251
    @santiagovilaca925117 күн бұрын

    Why would i want to love Alan watts?

  • @codycapener3157
    @codycapener315721 күн бұрын

    Yo this background noise is wack

  • @Reeloa
    @Reeloa7 ай бұрын

    song name?)

  • @southsiren

    @southsiren

    8 күн бұрын

    Ass

  • @user-uu5og2fs5b
    @user-uu5og2fs5b7 ай бұрын

    Some creator decided duty call for stupid invasion results not worthy

  • @sonjoseph
    @sonjosephАй бұрын

    I should call her. No, the other one.

  • @MrWhatever1234567

    @MrWhatever1234567

    6 күн бұрын

    Hahahahahah

  • @justdriveon
    @justdriveon7 ай бұрын

    It was great until the music started.

  • @thomasj.loebel9809
    @thomasj.loebel98092 күн бұрын

    The secret to love is that lo weds to above as laws to faith become love..No wait, that is the secret..laws to faith is LO joins ABOVE as laws to faith is then love? no, love is the light around the word as the two sides combined and not love where the two sides combined that say LOVE just like the word real is where it is not real yet until you RE the L from good and evil wed [L} to L L as Love is then ReaL. What is secret? Faith thinks it is love already by wedding lo to above but that is "Jesus Christ" that has "not" yet crossed to "Lord" as love beyond the LO [wilderness laws] to the above as [faith in those laws], when laws of god is Jesus that cross the red sea to faith as Christ next.. and suddenly the combination is LO VE...NO, not without crossing to lord next as true love is "the re born Christ at the other side not born with yet] where lord is 'the lord Jesus Christ" as laws faith and LOVE is true love while "not" love is Lo and above wed to appear as LOVE to us is false and true love waits in the ligh-t [lie crossed] outside of the O God that he made his O satan inside of good and evil wed as the word LOVE that we think is love. Love has no sides to itself as an "I" sees already..because LL cancels a L L sides as neither is love after laws and faith crosses the Jordan river to Lord..so what aL this Love thing is about? someones lies followed means never each them at only follow to learn to fear that lord [love] and find the truth from the copy followed long enough to fear it..and.."the fear of the Lord [false love] is the beginning of wisdom" after we were told to "follow the Lord" first as LOVE is not the word followed but the light from the two sides combined. [laws to faith..then cross to love] and all three wise names are those who make it the first time now or the SECRET is that those who only SE as C are false love assuming to be love that was deceived into [RE] cross [t] back again as good at both sides is Moses that will reach love next time of six.

  • @SUMERUP
    @SUMERUP Жыл бұрын

    Imagine Biden who can't do without Putin and vice versa 11:35

  • @_d2082

    @_d2082

    8 ай бұрын

    More accurate is trump who can't do without Biden, and vice versa.

  • @tomato1040
    @tomato104011 күн бұрын

    The⚛️Kosher🇮🇱Kohaine is the🧭DIVINE=mc2🦸Singing🗣️🎶 Priesthood🎺is the🌬️Spiritual✡️Solution✝️to☪️any spiritual🕉️ problems of the🤨unnecessary, 🤥incessantly🤗Buddhist☸️Kohan🧐never☸️Shown😂in😢ITS🤡Frown🙁!😂

  • @carmelaloperena8972
    @carmelaloperena89725 ай бұрын

    "Falling in love" it is only in English language.

  • @Stefan69whatever

    @Stefan69whatever

    2 ай бұрын

    The talk is in English.

  • @DaveRCollins1

    @DaveRCollins1

    Ай бұрын

    What language do you speak? What do you say?

  • @ironwoman5887

    @ironwoman5887

    23 күн бұрын

    Tomber amoureux in French too, but it’s not the case for every language (not italien for example).

  • @carmelaloperena8972

    @carmelaloperena8972

    23 күн бұрын

    @@DaveRCollins1 : Spanish.

  • @carmelaloperena8972

    @carmelaloperena8972

    23 күн бұрын

    @@DaveRCollins1 : In Spanish you say "Enamorarse".

  • @MuneerAlrabadi-lq5oq
    @MuneerAlrabadi-lq5oq3 ай бұрын

    When Serbian bight my dog my dog told me cut the till give him olive oill drink the black poison come out the till ho bight

  • @Jaylo71
    @Jaylo71Ай бұрын

    This sounds like another A.I generated Alan Watts lecture. Which I’m getting sick of hearing. They have titbits of actual sentences of Alan Watts lectures. Then the rest is 💯 AI. This is AI. The syntax is off.

  • @lindavaliulyte3068

    @lindavaliulyte3068

    Ай бұрын

    It is not AI, I listened to this many years ago

  • @MrWhatever1234567
    @MrWhatever12345676 күн бұрын

    I hate love

  • @esasesas4084
    @esasesas4084 Жыл бұрын

    please turkish language

  • @robinwilbanksmusic
    @robinwilbanksmusic10 ай бұрын

    Ruined with the music. Once again.

  • @imcalibro24

    @imcalibro24

    4 ай бұрын

    There are other pages with no music but you chose to be negative what ever demons your dealing with I hope you get them fixed ✌🏽

  • @wigglywrigglydoo

    @wigglywrigglydoo

    2 ай бұрын

    I sometime can agree with what you said. But the content was created for people to listen to for free, with beautiful images and music which other people may love. If you're after contents without music. Try searching for Alan Watts as keywords with No Music in the search string. I wish peace for all of us.

  • @lokomotive28

    @lokomotive28

    2 ай бұрын

    i would only listen with music

  • @doc7569

    @doc7569

    2 ай бұрын

    It's improved with music. If you want silence go to another page. Blessings and love.

  • @teecooper5595

    @teecooper5595

    2 ай бұрын

    I understand. I prefer it with quieter music as my hearing isn’t great and it drowns out his beautiful voice

  • @kozanton
    @kozantonАй бұрын

    Oh yeah, Now this guy KNOWS about love. He cheated on all of his partners and had 7 children with 3 women whom he never saw