The Problem With Our Phones

They are hugely useful of course but in many ways, we buy the advantages our phones give us at a subtly high price we don’t entirely recognise. Some reflections on how to live well around phones.
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“The dark truth is that it’s become very hard to find anyone (and certainly anything) more interesting than one’s smartphone. This perplexing and troubling realisation has for most of us had huge consequences for our love stories, family lives, work, leisure time and health. There is almost no relationship in which the presence of the phone has not had a profound impact. The genuine beauty and interest of our phones wouldn’t be a matter of such concern if we didn’t suspect, somewhere in our minds, that this machine has both opened some doors and is in danger of grievously closing others. This essay knows we love our phones and would never want us to give them up, but it is also gently aware that these delightful gadgets bear a hidden cost. This is a text that aims to bring a little sanity to our closest, most intense and possibly most danger-laden technological relationship…”
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  • @ClaireDim
    @ClaireDim6 жыл бұрын

    "Remember you are made of dust and will be dust again" *sets phone wallpaper*

  • @diogeneslantern18

    @diogeneslantern18

    6 жыл бұрын

    The only way to combat relapse is to be constantly stimulated - I read a paragraph of Marcus Aurelius' Meditations every day and ponder on it.

  • @donchello2128

    @donchello2128

    6 жыл бұрын

    PartiZAn18 you mean like replacing one addiction with another?

  • @diogeneslantern18

    @diogeneslantern18

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'd say it's perhaps more of a habit - I don't "crave" reading Meditations, I do it to remind and inspire me to be mindful during the day and to resist base temptations. Compared this to how I used to be *addicted* to smoking a pack of cigarettes and drinking 3 litres of beer every night to pass out - if I didn't have those "distractions" to make me numb I felt like I was going mad... So whether reading, and trying to practice Stoic philosophy is a habit or addiction is debatable, my point is that the distinction is a moot one, if one is actively trying to be a better person. And finally, I leave you with a quote from Aurelius in respect of the above: "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one"

  • @_yellow

    @_yellow

    6 жыл бұрын

    Claire Dim Ashes to ashes

  • @crisnguyen301

    @crisnguyen301

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same but then found out it was from the Bible and changed my mind

  • @sylendraws1249
    @sylendraws12496 жыл бұрын

    Good thing I'm watching on my tablet instead

  • @adrenathebirdragon7631

    @adrenathebirdragon7631

    6 жыл бұрын

    SylenDraws I'm watching it in my Ipad lol.

  • @ashleypugh9032

    @ashleypugh9032

    6 жыл бұрын

    SylenDraws 😂😂

  • @wanderer1179

    @wanderer1179

    6 жыл бұрын

    Very primitive.. (see what I did there?)

  • @MrKidOcelot

    @MrKidOcelot

    6 жыл бұрын

    Drowning in the shallows!

  • @OmniValor

    @OmniValor

    6 жыл бұрын

    PC

  • @uleeyah
    @uleeyah6 жыл бұрын

    I use my phone to distract myself from my ongoing anxiety. And from being alone with myself. Sometimes I think being addicted to the phone as well as any other gadget is quite similar in its roots to being addicted to alcohol, drugs etc. Avoidance of suffering.

  • @needfulthings6603

    @needfulthings6603

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yuliia Litvinchuk i do this, when you use your phone distract yourself from an actual mental disorder, its a vicious cycle

  • @advictoriam3606

    @advictoriam3606

    6 жыл бұрын

    "We do not avoid evil by hurry-skurry and fleetness in extenso,1 but by rising above or diving below its plane. As the worm escapes drought and frost, by boring a few inches deeper, but the grasshopper is overtaken and destroyed - By our suppleness and speed we only fly before an evil, by the height or depth of our characters we avoid it."

  • @JimJWalker

    @JimJWalker

    6 жыл бұрын

    That is a shame. The feeling of isolation and the exploration of the inner space with which it demands is a wonderful part of being human. Is it a fear of being alone, or are you looking for acceptance through image representation to and from others? This is an honest question and I mean no disrespect or malice.

  • @aldelgado9343

    @aldelgado9343

    6 жыл бұрын

    I do the same thing, gets the anxiety away

  • @lucasd.6860

    @lucasd.6860

    5 жыл бұрын

    What if I tell you that addicfion to Phone causes anxiety in the first place. Trt Not to check your Phone for an entire Day.

  • @PursuitofWonder
    @PursuitofWonder6 жыл бұрын

    The argument regarding phones being distractions from the self that prevent us from being able to consider, analyze, and resolve our anxieties is interesting. My question is, what if our anxieties can not fully be resolved and removed from the self? What if sitting with our negative thoughts only serves to reinforce them? It seems everything we do in life, whether it be hanging out with friends, family, and lovers, watching TV, working long hours, drinking alcohol etc. all serve to fill our time and energy and distract us from thinking about the mere futility of the fact that we will all soon return to dust. And so how can we be selective and say that cell phones are the primary culprit of our distraction?

  • @breannathompson9094

    @breannathompson9094

    6 жыл бұрын

    Pursuit of Wonder I agree. If we didn't have cell phones or even the internet, there would always be something to distract us. I guess phones get a bad reputation because it makes us "antisocial" and distracts us from ourselves by ourselves, while some of the other distractions have connections to other people.

  • @claudiaalmeida3655

    @claudiaalmeida3655

    6 жыл бұрын

    True, but while I used to have so many creative thoughts, spend a lot of time writing poetry etc etc, now I find that I am a lot less creative and a lot more absorbed in Internet, messaging, social media etc.

  • @PursuitofWonder

    @PursuitofWonder

    6 жыл бұрын

    That is a very good point. It is still interesting though that there is a divide in what is considered good or healthy based on the fact that one is in conducted alone verses with other people.

  • @NickLeonardi

    @NickLeonardi

    6 жыл бұрын

    I think the point loosely trying to be made in the video is that all of these things (phones only being one of them) are hyper-stimulating our minds and as a result, numbing them. To sit alone and just look at the sky or meditate is the opposite (low stimulation) which can re-sensitize our attention and allow us to be more present. It comes down to yin and yang, whereas we as a collective society are attempting to binge yang

  • @canadianyogi

    @canadianyogi

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nick Leonardi resensitisation makes so much sense. I feel like a zombie many days.

  • @wolvenmoonstone8138
    @wolvenmoonstone81386 жыл бұрын

    the problem with our phones is that we use our phones as destractions rather than a tool

  • @Zaybytheway_

    @Zaybytheway_

    6 жыл бұрын

    Distraction is the tool, thats what the whole video is about fool.

  • @AlanMartinez-qh2eb

    @AlanMartinez-qh2eb

    6 жыл бұрын

    wolven moonstone as intended

  • @y7952

    @y7952

    4 жыл бұрын

    wolven moonstone the problem for me is that I use it as both. I’m addicted to my phone because it distracts me from my painful reality but also because it learns me so much about the world.

  • @mikitz

    @mikitz

    4 жыл бұрын

    The phones are smart so that we wouldn't have to be.

  • @boerbeun

    @boerbeun

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mikitz the phone isnt smart. It only does what we want it to do. Everything that we let it do, we give away in our own mental state.

  • @mmm59mmm
    @mmm59mmm6 жыл бұрын

    Giving up my phone for 3hrs a week has helped create a lot of difference, especially with being calm and more open. No one is saying let go of tech, just do a small change, it'll come a long way.

  • @Dreamsai_

    @Dreamsai_

    6 жыл бұрын

    Matt I do that during school all the time..

  • @mb2756

    @mb2756

    6 жыл бұрын

    You don't use your phone for 3hrs a week and that is some sort of accomplishment? God save us all.

  • @mmm59mmm

    @mmm59mmm

    6 жыл бұрын

    My job relies heavily on my phone, so for me, it is of some sorts. How much time do you spend on your phone, daily?

  • @mb2756

    @mb2756

    6 жыл бұрын

    I use my phone an hour a day max cumulatively. I glance at it to check for notifications ever so often. Surely your job does not require a constant connection to your phone? What is it that you work?

  • @mmm59mmm

    @mmm59mmm

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mezien Benmaamar wow just an hour, that's something i don't usually see around me :) I work in sales, so it's mostly emails and follow-ups. The problem with that though is that even though u unlock to read an email u end up wondering onto other app distractions.

  • @akafacts
    @akafacts6 жыл бұрын

    I hate my phone; yet feel naked without it

  • @IkeOkerekeNews

    @IkeOkerekeNews

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bulba Tube Then sell it.

  • @sparksthedaytrader9606

    @sparksthedaytrader9606

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bulba Tube I LOVE YOU 💙💙💙💙💙😍😍💙😍😍😍😍💙💙💙💙💙💙💙😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @akafacts

    @akafacts

    6 жыл бұрын

    My body? or my phone? :P

  • @shepardpower

    @shepardpower

    6 жыл бұрын

    I subbed you

  • @b4kr970

    @b4kr970

    6 жыл бұрын

    guess who just won the nude-asking game ?

  • @ZainabMuhammad1
    @ZainabMuhammad14 жыл бұрын

    "We need to spend time with our own worries to understand them rather than to suffer the anxiety they create"

  • @obeytweety
    @obeytweety6 жыл бұрын

    "We are all just prisoners here, of our own device"

  • @needfulthings6603

    @needfulthings6603

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanh Thúy nicely done 👌

  • @sanjanatak8076

    @sanjanatak8076

    6 жыл бұрын

    "what you believe you become"

  • @ExtremalMetal

    @ExtremalMetal

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanh Thúy no no no, I am not checking in at your hotel, bye bye

  • @obeytweety

    @obeytweety

    6 жыл бұрын

    bool IsRebooting an intellectual :>

  • @jlb4470

    @jlb4470

    6 жыл бұрын

    sanjanaa but you have no choice but to live the truth.

  • @EinfachArtur
    @EinfachArtur6 жыл бұрын

    Who else is ironically watching this video with the phone ?

  • @dioc8699

    @dioc8699

    5 жыл бұрын

    So what ? After knowing the problem can't u reduce screen time ... Now that's the solution.

  • @EinfachArtur

    @EinfachArtur

    4 жыл бұрын

    @jon jones the school of life be like: I used the phones to destroy the phones.

  • @SterbenCyrodill

    @SterbenCyrodill

    4 жыл бұрын

    PC user here LMAO

  • @yash124

    @yash124

    3 жыл бұрын

    No I'm watching this video in nearby theatre in IMAX

  • @AmZeeel
    @AmZeeel4 жыл бұрын

    How to determine if an iPhone or Android is NEW, REFURBISHED, REPLACED or PERSONALIZED: kzread.info/dash/bejne/e3WokraQcprbpso.html

  • @noworriesbaby
    @noworriesbaby6 жыл бұрын

    These animations are so spot on and I love that this message isn’t simply “phones are bad,” rather this video made me reflect on my habits and thoughts that I tend to ignore. Thank you for such incredible and MEANINGFUL content.

  • @VCGConstruction
    @VCGConstruction6 жыл бұрын

    Who is watching this video on their phone right now?

  • @jackelinemorales3229

    @jackelinemorales3229

    6 жыл бұрын

    I honestly rarely ever use my computer anymore.

  • @currentteeth4078

    @currentteeth4078

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jackeline Morales our phone are computers.

  • @jackelinemorales3229

    @jackelinemorales3229

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dysania Yes, they are. Though I was referring to "traditional" computers, like PCs and laptops.

  • @trea552

    @trea552

    6 жыл бұрын

    i only use my pc phones are slow and sloopy

  • @lemurdog

    @lemurdog

    6 жыл бұрын

    meeee

  • @orpheus2
    @orpheus26 жыл бұрын

    So should i use my pc instead??

  • @SkI0wA

    @SkI0wA

    6 жыл бұрын

    >.

  • @LeCezar

    @LeCezar

    6 жыл бұрын

    Avid Yes, because you're pc is not everywhere to go, that would actually help a lot combat the problems put forward by the video

  • @ProtonCannon

    @ProtonCannon

    6 жыл бұрын

    Fair point, I watched this on my PC cause I don't have a smartphone. I just have an old regular mobile phone that I almost never use because there i nobody to call and nobody calls me.

  • @soslothful

    @soslothful

    6 жыл бұрын

    One chooses to take his phone with him.

  • @Cless

    @Cless

    6 жыл бұрын

    ProtonCannon thats sad

  • @quantum_leap786
    @quantum_leap7865 жыл бұрын

    After i finished this video i instantly put down my phone and picked up the closest book

  • @baso4nacl581
    @baso4nacl5816 жыл бұрын

    I'm a phone addict, I want to restrict myself

  • @sanjanatak8076

    @sanjanatak8076

    6 жыл бұрын

    you are the one who can control yourself. i think your phone is stopping from doing that. practise meditation

  • @2HelpfulGuys

    @2HelpfulGuys

    6 жыл бұрын

    Take baby steps. Set small goals. Tell someone and ask them to keep you accountable. Track your progress. You can do it!

  • @afghandiamond1225

    @afghandiamond1225

    6 жыл бұрын

    Give it to me:problem solved lol

  • @baso4nacl581

    @baso4nacl581

    6 жыл бұрын

    Katotto Productions where are you?

  • @sylendraws1249
    @sylendraws12496 жыл бұрын

    I feel like one day humanity will just be people hooked up to a super computers who's only purpose is to please us

  • @dochmbi

    @dochmbi

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sounds perfect to me. I'll be among the first to be hooked up to the simulation. But then again, I go by Camus Absurdism so its easy for me.

  • @lolind3383

    @lolind3383

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thats not exactly what todays computers does?

  • @diogeneslantern18

    @diogeneslantern18

    6 жыл бұрын

    KZread "Lorn - Anvil"

  • @BrianAndersonPhotography

    @BrianAndersonPhotography

    6 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/kayI0bNtk6yum84.html

  • @rezmeplxs

    @rezmeplxs

    6 жыл бұрын

    SylenDraws i

  • @jahdequartz
    @jahdequartz6 жыл бұрын

    I'm so aware of the hold my phone has on me. I consciously put it down sometimes because of this. Yet I'm not giving it up.

  • @zain4019

    @zain4019

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jahdé Same. It’s so taxing and draining to have to use your phone, even when you don’t want to. It’s time to stop, and that begins now:)

  • @korymann6723
    @korymann67236 жыл бұрын

    I'm watching this video on my phone 📱

  • @skaniol

    @skaniol

    6 жыл бұрын

    Your phone 📱 is showing this video to its human pet 👩.

  • @lazarusblackwell6988
    @lazarusblackwell69884 жыл бұрын

    I don't have problems with my phone because i am naturally allergic to them I just have this natural hostility toward the device Computers on the other hand bring me much joy

  • @51stcenturygirl

    @51stcenturygirl

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same😎

  • @jhunt5578
    @jhunt55786 жыл бұрын

    I don't use my phone to avoid myself, I use my phone to avoid other people.

  • @ThePC007

    @ThePC007

    6 жыл бұрын

    Funny, considering the point of a phone is the complete opposite. :P

  • @charlieharden-sweetnam1863
    @charlieharden-sweetnam18636 жыл бұрын

    I have been living without a smartphone for the last 6 months (I am 18 years old, UK student). Very refreshing and eye-opening experience. What strikes me most is the way a group of people will all simultaneously stop talking and stare at their screens for a while without noticing this anti-social habit. The phone, while it may be good, inhibits genuine human interactions and creates a bizarre social dynamic where appearance is everything and we cannot analyse the problems we have because we are not thinking about the things around us, but looking at the screen. By the way - As you can see I'm not totally free of technology, I still have a laptop (and frankly, there isn't much difference between myself and everyone else, as I too am writing this comment, which no one will read, on a screen. The irony is not lost on me.

  • @SashiTea
    @SashiTea6 жыл бұрын

    I needed this currently. I've been feeling so attached (both literally and figuratively) to my phone recently, I'm trying to disconnect a little more but still feel myself wanting to reach out. This made me feel a lot better about it all, thank you.

  • @DarknessPrevails
    @DarknessPrevails6 жыл бұрын

    They don''t keep a charge for more than 2 hours. Thats the problem with our phones.

  • @somekindofnice3871

    @somekindofnice3871

    6 жыл бұрын

    Darkness Prevails iphones*

  • @purushrut

    @purushrut

    6 жыл бұрын

    Darkness Prevails My MotoZplay lasts 8-10hrs over 2 days off Charger.

  • @DaPoopIsInDaPudding

    @DaPoopIsInDaPudding

    6 жыл бұрын

    Darkness Prevails your phone is fucked then

  • @ThePC007

    @ThePC007

    6 жыл бұрын

    My phone's at 50% after two days. You really need an upgrade if you can't leave the house for longer than 2 hours without your phone dying.

  • @AlanMartinez-qh2eb

    @AlanMartinez-qh2eb

    6 жыл бұрын

    Darkness Prevails mine lasts all day

  • @BrothersandCoFilms
    @BrothersandCoFilms6 жыл бұрын

    School of life, thank you for everything you have done and created,. You have always been there when I've needed a wise word in understanding my own self and actions. Thankyou.

  • @gonzalogallardo6028
    @gonzalogallardo60286 жыл бұрын

    I'd love it if phones in the future became something like a customized life coach. After all, they already know everything about us.

  • @amyritchie8510

    @amyritchie8510

    6 жыл бұрын

    Can't tell if black mirror-esque sarcasm or just general ignorance.

  • @mirko5250

    @mirko5250

    6 жыл бұрын

    that's more like dystopia

  • @cpcrazyweb

    @cpcrazyweb

    6 жыл бұрын

    be more chill did it

  • @baukepoelsma

    @baukepoelsma

    6 жыл бұрын

    How about finding one made out of flesh and bones, or should i say, dust? Also called a lover.

  • @CLIFHURT

    @CLIFHURT

    6 жыл бұрын

    !!!

  • @RedGulleem
    @RedGulleem6 жыл бұрын

    this was the best video/topic on this channel so far. I've had already grasped this thought on the past few months, but this sums it up perfectly.

  • @daniel_najar
    @daniel_najar6 жыл бұрын

    Love this channel and all the videos you guys do. I really appreciate the animations as well.

  • @eliannam.5700
    @eliannam.57006 жыл бұрын

    We don't need more advanced phones. We just need to use them wisely. Capitalism doesn't lead to utopia, it leads to a dystopia with people having a goal of life consume, to buy things. We are not the things we've got. We are the things we do.

  • @lonsdaleitepolitics9597

    @lonsdaleitepolitics9597

    6 жыл бұрын

    I suppose there could be a reformation of socialism/communism, for the better, or something like that.

  • @soslothful

    @soslothful

    6 жыл бұрын

    So you do not buy things, own nothing?

  • @eliannam.5700

    @eliannam.5700

    6 жыл бұрын

    soslothful I only buy things when I need them. For example I don't own a tv. I never go shopping when I don't need something. If I need anything, I'll order just that. We've mixed up the word "need" with the word "want". What I'm trying to say is, we can live perfectly happy without all these products we think we need, when in reality we don't. We don't need 30 t-shirts or 10 pairs of shoes.

  • @LosgehtsFCB

    @LosgehtsFCB

    6 жыл бұрын

    You are so right! Capitalism tells us that we need material items to find happiness, yet capitalism is also destroying the earth and humanity, the two most important things.

  • @ParanormalMetalMan

    @ParanormalMetalMan

    6 жыл бұрын

    YES you are right! Our actions are our only true possessions! :)

  • @PeachyLiv
    @PeachyLiv6 жыл бұрын

    I should've seen this vid two days ago so I didn't bring my phone to school that day & maybe it could've been saved from school confiscation damnit how can I survive a month without a phone... p.s. im using my laptop but its not the sameee

  • @aishamerchant2684
    @aishamerchant26846 жыл бұрын

    I have been working on trying to stay away from my phone for useless things and trying to focus and be more productive. Self-awareness and being present are two of the most crucial elements of humanity that we need to start practising once again. Btw, this is quite possibly one of the most wonderful videos I've watched and the writing is remarkable!!

  • @doza6472
    @doza64725 жыл бұрын

    Love love love this video. Being with your phone is constant and unsatisfying. Being with your thoughts is difficult.

  • @TheEvilCommenter
    @TheEvilCommenter6 жыл бұрын

    Before phones it was magazines and newspapers. People will always look for things to occupy are minds. It isn't a phone problem it's a human problem.

  • @mohamadkaakii

    @mohamadkaakii

    4 жыл бұрын

    Replace magazines and newspapers with TVs.

  • @getr3kt131

    @getr3kt131

    4 жыл бұрын

    Humanity is retarded

  • @navyhusky2020
    @navyhusky20206 жыл бұрын

    Everyone always complains that we spend a shit load of time on our phones, but what exactly do we do with that time? Mostly reading news articles, interacting with each other on social media, taking pictures, etc. A phone is nothing more than an technologically-advanced Swiss Army Knife. Not evil, not good, just a tool.

  • @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892

    @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, I'll steal this from the master minimalist: "What if we didn't?" What would happen to us, if we didn't read that news article, did not interact with others on social media, did not take pictures (all the time)?? ...

  • @navyhusky2020

    @navyhusky2020

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 You know, I honestly feel more this way now than I did 2 years ago when I made that comment...

  • @mynameisuju
    @mynameisuju6 жыл бұрын

    ok, i love the message. but can i just prasie the animation for a second! incredibly and interestingly done! quite captivating. simple, yet very detailed and well done.

  • @fredweller1086
    @fredweller10864 жыл бұрын

    “But I don't want comfort. I want God, I want poetry, I want real danger, I want freedom, I want goodness. I want sin.” ― Aldous Huxley, Brave New World and Candy Crush is none of those things.

  • @Tovutaki
    @Tovutaki6 жыл бұрын

    I'm not addicted to my phone, I'm addicted to learning about life from this wonderful channel of yours!

  • @randombiscuits1250

    @randombiscuits1250

    4 жыл бұрын

    On your phone?

  • @daisyblox1288

    @daisyblox1288

    3 жыл бұрын

    maybe

  • @jayfawn8478
    @jayfawn84786 жыл бұрын

    Sound of vibrating phone makes me want to smash my head. i hate it really

  • @soslothful

    @soslothful

    6 жыл бұрын

    Try the "off" setting.

  • @soslothful

    @soslothful

    4 жыл бұрын

    @white That would work I suppose.

  • @dmgsoultogetherness6667

    @dmgsoultogetherness6667

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its like an anxiety trigger

  • @dmgsoultogetherness6667

    @dmgsoultogetherness6667

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sayuj2052 exposure therapy......expose yourself to the sound gradually..

  • @altairquten
    @altairquten6 жыл бұрын

    I have waited for someone to say this. Thanks. I appreciate the little audio ques and the Video itself!

  • @raza838
    @raza8386 жыл бұрын

    I'm in Florida and just had hurricane Irma pass over us. I been without internet for about 4 to 5 days and it has been of my worst days in many recent years. I've come to realize how much I'm attached to this device.

  • @PersonalPower
    @PersonalPower6 жыл бұрын

    oh the irony. I meditate to focus on myself and to to turn off all the fuzz. But then again even for such a task then phone is either the timer or it plays a guided meditation video. do we actually have power over technology or is technology having the power over us?

  • @SR-zn4ei
    @SR-zn4ei6 жыл бұрын

    The irony

  • @sagapulastation1711

    @sagapulastation1711

    6 жыл бұрын

    S R yeah

  • @robindgordon
    @robindgordon6 жыл бұрын

    truly amazing content!! keep up the good work. such a good reminder of what really matters.

  • @ricardocoloma-md
    @ricardocoloma-md6 жыл бұрын

    love you guys thank you so much your films make me feel that I am not alone thinking in such a similar way

  • @anas4754
    @anas47544 жыл бұрын

    I was trying to cure my social media addiction but coronavirus situation made it almost impossible. I deactivated Facebook, I have secret Twitter account that I use just read stuff, I deactivated Instagram app and I login to it one a month. But it's been incredibly hard. I don't have many friends in this country and with thos situation it's impossible to make friends in live. When I am alone at work (I am literally alone in whole building) I play KZread videos just to have some human connection.

  • @Lovethehumans

    @Lovethehumans

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm alone too, but I'm extremely obsessive of porn.

  • @juztryinnabehonest99
    @juztryinnabehonest996 жыл бұрын

    3:52 I bet you my life you didn't notice that double "and" in the translation. 😏

  • @alexandra.adventures
    @alexandra.adventures6 жыл бұрын

    one of the best ones yet, thanks so much!

  • @shanezhang594
    @shanezhang5946 жыл бұрын

    Nice one!!! the most fulfilled period of my day in my car or on the bus, that's the moment I'm thinking and talking to myself

  • @CEHoffman
    @CEHoffman3 жыл бұрын

    Love this! I don't own a touchphone and (hopefully) can avoid possessing one (or having it possess me!)

  • @megs3003
    @megs30035 жыл бұрын

    there isn't any nature around us anymore to look at...... thats more depressing than the phone. if i lived in a nice green and sunny environment with lots of trees i would definitely not use my phone as much

  • @AndromedaKai
    @AndromedaKai6 жыл бұрын

    When I was younger, I used music and books like you describe phones. Now I can limit myself and even leave my phone behind if there's something interesting going on.

  • @uchihadante77
    @uchihadante776 жыл бұрын

    I try to forget my phone at home once in a while. Very nice message.

  • @MasalaMan
    @MasalaMan6 жыл бұрын

    Lol I use my phone. I don't suffer from any of this at all. Hahaha. 1. I don't have alerts to anything except Twitter and KZread of which I only subscribe to things of science, technology and futurists. Insta and FB I use on the comp and only check up about 3 important people. 2. I don't have 30 friends that I talk too daily, I have one good friend that I talk too once or twice a week. 3. I don't take pictures of my food and I don't take pictures of my self. (selfies). 4. I have a red light filter on ALL THE TIME!!! STOP DESTROYING YOUR DOPAMINE CIRCUITS PEOPLE.

  • @canadian7530

    @canadian7530

    6 жыл бұрын

    Abdul H Same

  • @RenatoKestener

    @RenatoKestener

    6 жыл бұрын

    How many times did you check this comment on KZread? 15 likes eh? Pretty impressive. Dopamine is everywhere.

  • @TrueStoryDash
    @TrueStoryDash6 жыл бұрын

    FINALLY! YES

  • @Shilpa_Kujur
    @Shilpa_Kujur4 жыл бұрын

    I am kind of an phone addict but I don't have these problems of not being creative or not thinking enough because of one reason:I use it differently. Instead of scrolling through social media and starting an argument over pointless things or doing random piece of shit, I use it only for entertainment. I don't have want a Instagram account or twitter account, I just watch funny videos on KZread to keep myself happy(especially during quarantine). I think if we use our phones for one particular task that we want done, our lives will be much better. But that's just my opinion. Everybody stay safe during quarantine!!

  • @jameswhyte1340
    @jameswhyte13406 жыл бұрын

    How are these made? What software? I love these animations so much.

  • @Nonamenor
    @Nonamenor5 жыл бұрын

    "we need to spend time with our worrys to understend them rather than suffering from the anxiety they create 👆"

  • @superflysquirrel
    @superflysquirrel6 жыл бұрын

    Lol! Yes. I sat down to eat my breakfast and I thought against mindlessly picking up my phone while eating. ....then I felt it was too quiet and did it anyway...this was the first thing I watched. I thought, "dammit! You knew you had the right idea!" Lol, thank you school of life for the reminders 😉💜

  • @frostflower789

    @frostflower789

    6 жыл бұрын

    superflysquirrel awareness! Woo

  • @nkechi0122
    @nkechi01225 жыл бұрын

    I had a track phone sophomore year and junior year of high school. At first I was pretty upset my parents decided to get me a track phone especially when I use to have top of the line smartphones. I had to buy minutes (meaning limited texting) and no instagram, no twitter, no music and no youtube (tetris costed minutes). It was somewhat hard for me because I was bored out if my mind. I tried to converse with people but that is when I realized that everybody else were on their phone and didn’t want to talk. That’s is when I took upon myself to find tangible hobbies like painting, running, learning guitar and bettering myself emotionally. I was in touch with reality and my present self like never before. Now I have a smartphone again and I am finishing up my senior year of high school. I now have limits to how much time I spend on my phone and do not have many social media accounts except for youtube and netflix. It changed my life and I totally recommend that anyone who thinks they have a phone addiction to try out either a track phone or a really outdated phone without all the fancy features. It helps!

  • @symbolicmeta1942
    @symbolicmeta19426 жыл бұрын

    Listening to this on an iPad Pro on a memory phone mattress was trippy.... I swear that vibrate noise in the beginning both made me feel and hear my phone vibrating....even though it's not...and even as I relisten there's some small doubts as to whether it's my phone or iPad.

  • @mygodsnameiskyle
    @mygodsnameiskyle6 жыл бұрын

    I would argue that it doesn't HAVE to be these things. I think that I am less a slave to my phone than ever. I think that it takes work to become that but I was just in europe for 2 weeks. I barely took any photographs. I let myself experience it all. I used it for maps but tried to keep my head up and ask people for directions. I reached out to people at home to let them know I was okay, but not to check how their last meal tasted. I think it goes back to "love people, use things. Don't mix them up."

  • @lambusaab
    @lambusaab6 жыл бұрын

    I am just a cave man holding a phone..

  • @rushbros
    @rushbros6 жыл бұрын

    This was a beautiful video. Honestly, the animations and the writing are both brilliant in their own ways. I feel like the animator and writer/speaker are two (or three!) different people, because there is a different "voice" to each of them. Does that make sense?

  • @Ratsonfire
    @Ratsonfire6 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely right. A big distraction. I remember when I was younger I used to think about anything and everything, but when I got my phone I started to think less.

  • @Ratsonfire

    @Ratsonfire

    6 жыл бұрын

    I started to leave my phone on do not disturb all the time because of this.

  • @edwardbliss8931
    @edwardbliss89316 жыл бұрын

    Smartphones also give people a reason not to physically interact with other humans. Next time you go out in public--just an ordinary crowd on the street where there's no focal point, eg, no band, no sporting event, etc. A person not attached to their smartphone encountering "another" person not attached to their smartphone is most likely to feel uncomfortable or awkward. I see this all the time. A smartphone has become a security blanket. Without it, people display antisocial behavior

  • @FindecanorNotGmail

    @FindecanorNotGmail

    6 жыл бұрын

    I see it as the other way around. People addicted to their smartphones show antisocial behaviour that would not have been accepted twenty years ago but is now the norm.

  • @davidvoigt4575
    @davidvoigt45756 жыл бұрын

    4:57 was a bit creepy...

  • @ChrisDodges123

    @ChrisDodges123

    6 жыл бұрын

    ...a bit??? Lol

  • @bunsholes
    @bunsholes6 жыл бұрын

    Some of the best animation/art style I've seen on this channel

  • @Jasmine-zv9sf
    @Jasmine-zv9sf6 жыл бұрын

    Your voice is so soothing

  • @MC-sm3do
    @MC-sm3do6 жыл бұрын

    love you

  • @luioef7831
    @luioef78316 жыл бұрын

    Don't even have a phone while watching this I'm using my mind so who really wins 😎😎😎

  • @happydays6777

    @happydays6777

    6 жыл бұрын

    luiOef then how are you using emojies ?

  • @honkhonk8009

    @honkhonk8009

    5 жыл бұрын

    😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎 i got abortioned 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

  • @Access.Denied
    @Access.Denied6 жыл бұрын

    1:10 - Scary how this described my current problem at the moment.

  • @trevorbacque8175
    @trevorbacque81756 жыл бұрын

    This is so true. We all have to have the latest and greatest phone available. But said phone will never bring as much satisfaction,as seeing a family member or friend.

  • @idontwanttocompete
    @idontwanttocompete6 жыл бұрын

    speak for yourself. I use a phone but also sometimes sit in my room and think. it's getting tiresome all this criticism directed at phones. Phones are not what we use, they are a tool for accessing, producing and manipulating information. if some lack control regarding their use, it would be some other dumb thing that same person would be doing without a phone.

  • @tombrophy6514

    @tombrophy6514

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's great that you are able to control yourself, but the reality is that most people aren't like that. Phones can be addictive and just like any other drug, some people can control themselves while others fall into its grasp.

  • @idontwanttocompete

    @idontwanttocompete

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tom Brophy good point. let me point out that you meant to write, just like any other addiction (drugs are quite different but drug addiction is not entirely a non-social issue). kzread.info/dash/bejne/k6Nsro9pnra_qso.html The level of media and communication addiction made possible by highly portable computers is what we are talking about.

  • @idontwanttocompete

    @idontwanttocompete

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tom Brophy About that media & communication addiction: it's more obviously a social issue. to liken it back again to drug addiction, do we devalue and hold responsible the intravenous needle or pipe?

  • @tombrophy6514

    @tombrophy6514

    6 жыл бұрын

    Daniel L. Lombardo I see what you mean, and I completely agree. I think when a lot of us are talking about the consequences of phone addiction, it's the way that we use them and the frequency of which we are encouraged to use them that is the problem. Society encourages phone addiction because they have become a necessity in everyday life. I thinks it's those necessities that open the door for us and then it is the addictive nature of social media apps and whatnot that reel us in and keep us tied down and eventually addicted.

  • @idontwanttocompete

    @idontwanttocompete

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tom Brophy I see, that makes a lot of sense, however, I'm going to continue admiring the information super powers in my hand and proceed in making the devices do the work of improving my social, academic, logistical, artistic, dialectic and other capabilities - too many to mention!

  • @multicrogamer
    @multicrogamer6 жыл бұрын

    That's why i don't have a phone already 5 years.

  • @bolivar1789

    @bolivar1789

    6 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations :- ) Personally I think the most valuable thing on earth is silence...

  • @happydays6777

    @happydays6777

    6 жыл бұрын

    Antonio Golubovic wow I bet you're very intelligent

  • @multicrogamer

    @multicrogamer

    6 жыл бұрын

    No i'm just poor AF.

  • @happydays6777

    @happydays6777

    6 жыл бұрын

    Antonio Golubovic This means your previous statement was a lie.

  • @multicrogamer

    @multicrogamer

    6 жыл бұрын

    Or this 1 was , i was sarcastic, truth is i don't have phone but reason is not that i do not want to waste time on it but i prefer not being depended on it.

  • @trinity6764
    @trinity67646 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant and inspiring as always . Thank you.

  • @Millbrook1974powderedwater
    @Millbrook1974powderedwater2 жыл бұрын

    I tossed my cellphone into a river about 14 years ago. Never bought a new one and still leading a fullfilling life without a smartphone. Not missing out on anything. In fact, my life has become better.

  • @tektekfighterb5
    @tektekfighterb56 жыл бұрын

    Watched this on my phone

  • @MC-sm3do
    @MC-sm3do6 жыл бұрын

    like you

  • @nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617
    @nicole-secondaryemail-mort96176 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Some great points really well communicated. Lots to reflect on!

  • @vmeitvyas5256
    @vmeitvyas52566 жыл бұрын

    Your way of presentation and impact of your content is just 101/100 i.e. perfect!!!!!!

  • @crabenthusiast7683
    @crabenthusiast76834 жыл бұрын

    Ok boomer

  • @mattd1466
    @mattd14666 жыл бұрын

    man I almost wanted to stop the video at the grand canyon part when I heard all the notification buzzing, that shit makes me anxious haha

  • @LosHijosdeSanJuan
    @LosHijosdeSanJuan6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this great videos. God Bless.

  • @HealthChronicle
    @HealthChronicle6 жыл бұрын

    People cannot go to poop without their phones. Thats where the problem starts. On some level, each of us knows the problem with phones, but no one has a solution. Because phones are such an integral part of who we are now. Like if you can relate to this. We also make animated health videos on our channel. Do check it out if you get a chance.

  • @dudegols289

    @dudegols289

    6 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely true. Phones have ruined us. They say phones have got us closer. But have they. really?

  • @amitgoel4567

    @amitgoel4567

    6 жыл бұрын

    i keep my phone in a different room. use it like a landline and you will be the happiest person

  • @purugoel1

    @purugoel1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nice channel. I subscribed. Its always nice to see good content.

  • @DJNHmusic

    @DJNHmusic

    6 жыл бұрын

    "If your urine is yellow, that means your cells are shrinking." How can I take anything you say seriously after such a vague and just incorrect statement in your intro video already?

  • @HealthChronicle

    @HealthChronicle

    6 жыл бұрын

    + Zack Its super weird. And super unhygienic. But its true.

  • @elvalight2135
    @elvalight21356 жыл бұрын

    I'm 18 and still don't fuckin have a phone

  • @3rdtimeunlucky

    @3rdtimeunlucky

    6 жыл бұрын

    Parenting done right

  • @soslothful

    @soslothful

    6 жыл бұрын

    Maybe your parents will buy you one when you improve your basic writing skills/.

  • @tvzedtv
    @tvzedtv6 жыл бұрын

    Just brilliant. Thank you for this insight.

  • @ashleypugh9032
    @ashleypugh90326 жыл бұрын

    I keep all notifications off, keep my phone on silent except for calls and dont have my text message application on my home screen.

  • @MC-sm3do
    @MC-sm3do6 жыл бұрын

    i'm watching this on my phone ....

  • @martinet1985

    @martinet1985

    6 жыл бұрын

    MC your point being?

  • @otilialampman7850
    @otilialampman78506 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I believe that many people have the good intention to do so but don't know the tools to solve this issue or have the motivation to do so.

  • @MACkittenz
    @MACkittenz6 жыл бұрын

    why did this video take such a dark turn... didnt expect a video about phones to be so morbid

  • @MC-sm3do
    @MC-sm3do6 жыл бұрын

    love me

  • @FlaminiaJulia

    @FlaminiaJulia

    6 жыл бұрын

    ok...but not because you told me to!

  • @abhilashasooveet

    @abhilashasooveet

    5 жыл бұрын

    Please come back where ever you are

  • @PikaPetey
    @PikaPetey6 жыл бұрын

    Who watched this on their phone?

  • @waltergrigoryan6898
    @waltergrigoryan68986 жыл бұрын

    thank you for this video, it served me as a reminder.

  • @sugimation8575
    @sugimation85756 жыл бұрын

    Our phones and immediate connection to all those around us have revolutionized our culture. Granted, this myopic generalized self commentary on how you perceive people is well done and calming but it's redundant and ironic. The fact that I can stay connected to everyone I know albeit through a device is extremely comforting. Of course we're isolated in our worlds, that's always been the case, but imagine how isolating it would be if you couldn't contact someone when you needed to? Keep making videos guys!

  • @MC-sm3do
    @MC-sm3do6 жыл бұрын

    like me

  • @ivy4720
    @ivy47206 жыл бұрын

    The amount of likes this comment gets is the amount of days I won't use my phone (wish me luck 😖).

  • @irishaigh5360
    @irishaigh53606 жыл бұрын

    Incisive truths conveyed with humour; my first experience of The School of Life but now subscribed!

  • @markotuna
    @markotuna6 жыл бұрын

    this is 100% accurate. going to school and now work without listening music via my phone is absolutely tormenting. i keep avoiding myself thanks to my phone

  • @TimofeyMarko
    @TimofeyMarko6 жыл бұрын

    *Paid for by Android on the day of the iPhone 8 release

  • @mangotango3748
    @mangotango37486 жыл бұрын

    m e m e n t o m o r i