the problem with fast fashion...& why everything you buy seems cheap now

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  • @ShelbyChurch
    @ShelbyChurch2 ай бұрын

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  • @MikesVlogss

    @MikesVlogss

    2 ай бұрын

    Was this video supposed to be released last Monday? I just noticed it shows your Pinned Comment📌4 days ago 🎙🤷‍♀ Great video!

  • @wendypierce5621

    @wendypierce5621

    2 ай бұрын

    Quince’s plus/inclusive selection is bleak. Sigh.

  • @visionvixxen

    @visionvixxen

    2 ай бұрын

    Every little thing is poor quality now. Product insurance…. I have Charles David shoes from 14 years ago. Classic and stylish and comfortable. You buy them now- pleather, falling apart in two months. Amazing. It’s all disposable. Including your iPhone!

  • @kimberbell4238

    @kimberbell4238

    Ай бұрын

    Ikea at least had their own trees they grow...

  • @AlexR_44

    @AlexR_44

    Ай бұрын

    "There is no ethical consumption under capitalism" may actually be true these days. Buy used whenever possible. Shop local whenever possible, which is really really hard for rural folks like me thanks to Walmart and Amazon. Farmers markets, Craft shows, flea markets, yard sales -- good weather is here again, go unplug and shop out where you can feel what you're buying and not buy cheap crap that'll fall apart. Or... at least you won't be wasting big truck fuel and emissions shipping junk to your door.

  • @TheGeriatricMillennial-80
    @TheGeriatricMillennial-802 ай бұрын

    Not to brag, but I've been rotating the same two pairs of jeans for 3 years now.

  • @anaerobic

    @anaerobic

    Ай бұрын

    Honestly, brag about this, bravo

  • @emiliesamson330
    @emiliesamson3302 ай бұрын

    Influencer hauls and over consumerism needs to stop, I am so glad you talk about the repercussions of fast fashion! So many things influencers sell are not sustainable financially or environmentally. Great video!

  • @VeggiesbyEos

    @VeggiesbyEos

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes!! For real

  • @charlesfuchs

    @charlesfuchs

    2 ай бұрын

    Blame the consumers

  • @shelbyw22
    @shelbyw222 ай бұрын

    I appreciate how you pointed out that the problem lies with the people who can afford to buy nice, long-lasting clothing but instead use their money to buy a crap ton of pieces they only wear once. I don’t have a problem with people who buy fast fashion out of necessity. It’s the overconsumption that does it.

  • @roguewavecreative

    @roguewavecreative

    2 ай бұрын

    here is a fast fact, I don’t know if anybody remembers Groupon. I think they’re still around, but they’re like hanging on by a thread, but anyways, so when they started, they did a survey they did some research into like who really uses Groupon and surprisingly a decent majority of people that used Groupon were people in the top like 10% and the reason is is because they love cheap shit. The problem is is that when especially the Groupon example those people never went back to that store or whatever used it again because they were just looking for a deal so they weren’t gonna promote it or whatever. this also happens with a lot of this fast fast fashion stuff and what’s worse is that it never even gets reused or thrift that it just gets thrown away it’s just a mess plus I think part of the problem two is I think especially I’ve seen this with Amazon is that you can’t really try it on someone until you get it you don’t even know and a lot of times you’ll get it in the mail and you’re like oh my God this is I could barely wipe my inner what with this it’s just terrible and it really is. I mean I see this in a lot of furniture too and a lot of things actually just furniture that was a silly thing to say .

  • @mishaelkama4077
    @mishaelkama40772 ай бұрын

    I laughed out loud when she said "even airplanes" 🤣

  • @MariaCarattini

    @MariaCarattini

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too LMAO ... I AM LIKEE WHATTTT 😂😂😂

  • @user-om8nk2im3l

    @user-om8nk2im3l

    2 ай бұрын

    Boeing baby 😂

  • @hberri7772

    @hberri7772

    2 ай бұрын

    Same. I was watching the Boeing whistleblower testify on the video right before this.

  • @hermionepink96

    @hermionepink96

    2 ай бұрын

    when the door of your plane flies off 😂

  • @hermionepink96

    @hermionepink96

    2 ай бұрын

    the emergency exit be emergentily exitting

  • @larisok
    @larisok2 ай бұрын

    I see lots of bloggers aggressively pushing Quince lately so here's my two cents. Yes, the fabrics are actual cotton, linen, etc., and not polyester. But that's really it. The quality is still pretty poor and the fabrics are paper thin. I ordered linen pants from them and had to return them because they were almost see-through - it's like not wearing any pants at all. Same goes for their shirts and sweaters - very thin fabrics, not very well made.

  • @aliciamitrowitz3122

    @aliciamitrowitz3122

    2 ай бұрын

    I bought a pair of work pants from Quince a couple years ago mostly because I was struggling to find work pants I liked other places and loved the price. After a few washes though they were already showing wear that they were cheaply made.

  • @courtneymerkelbargo1452

    @courtneymerkelbargo1452

    Ай бұрын

    Yes I would like to second that. I was so disappointed that the cashmere was paper thin and started to pill immediately (compared to old food quality cashmere I bought a long time ago)

  • @lisaclark7323

    @lisaclark7323

    Ай бұрын

    Quince also does not rate well on Good On You - which is my go-to resource for ethical fashion.

  • @busibuthelezi

    @busibuthelezi

    Ай бұрын

    Agree! Fabrics yes, quality and cut is not great

  • @Alyssaa948

    @Alyssaa948

    Ай бұрын

    Dude, every influencer pushing it, trying it on and it’s SO WRINKLY. Like they couldn’t even steam it? Like it’s that bad a quality, they can’t even make it look good in one video lmao

  • @Thornberry2398
    @Thornberry23982 ай бұрын

    I find myself literally only buying clothes now that are functional for hiking 😂😂😂

  • @andrescv2665
    @andrescv26652 ай бұрын

    The refrigerator of my grandma has 80 years...still working well. The modern ones only work well for 5 years

  • @danilucita22

    @danilucita22

    Ай бұрын

    The same with TV’s

  • @TomBedlammusic
    @TomBedlammusic2 ай бұрын

    Honestly, you're becoming one of my favourite KZreadrs. It's awesome that you're really diving into these topics! Could easily leverage your subscriber/view count to fall into the influencer trap but instead you use it to generate important conversations. Great stuff!

  • @TechSav18
    @TechSav182 ай бұрын

    Airplanes??? LOL I'm crying!! 😂

  • @SeanApplePie

    @SeanApplePie

    2 ай бұрын

    Still a Max fan (f1)

  • @beedee4890
    @beedee48902 ай бұрын

    Very true that when you're older you stop caring about trends. I used to be obsessed with clothes and trends - now I just live in the basics. If it's simple and nice, I'm good.

  • @HereticHousewife

    @HereticHousewife

    Ай бұрын

    Same here. Occasionally, a trend will intersect with my personal style, and that's fun while it lasts. And, I'll happily wear clothes that don't really fit my personal style, if they're comfortable and practical. Being "on trend" or even faithfully following a personal style isn't as important anymore.

  • @Carla-hv3xw
    @Carla-hv3xw2 ай бұрын

    My mom was so good at this as I was growing up. She would give me a spending amount for back to school and spring/summer clothes… it always had to have good quality basics that could be worn different ways and maybe one or two trendy items. I would have to go through my drawers and closets to see what I had and what I needed and make room. I didn’t really get much in between. She would also dye all of my black clothes during the year or change a color of a shirt and make some long sleeved shirts into short sleeved shirts and pants into shorts(all by hand). I have slipped away from this a bit and got caught up in the fast fashion. Thanks for this post and reminders!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sotweetie
    @Sotweetie2 ай бұрын

    I just do not care what people think of my clothes - I have worn the same outfits in vlogs in 2017 and 2023, never even thought twice about it.

  • @Simbecile

    @Simbecile

    2 ай бұрын

    Same. I couldn't even tell you what was in or out. Never could.

  • @LivyTresa
    @LivyTresaАй бұрын

    So glad your raising awareness on this issue! I've developed an allergy to synthetic fibers so I had to get rid of everything synthetic and only wear cotton, hemp and linen! Minimized my wardrobe significantly.(donated or gave to friends the synthetic clothes) So much better for the environment and so much better quality. Now I have an easy timeless wardrobe as well!

  • @Jess_Bishop
    @Jess_BishopАй бұрын

    I am absolutely LOVING this segment on your channel! I truly appreciate how much information you pack in these videos and how widely you apply the subject, ex: a fast fashion video where you also cover cheap furniture, HOME construction, airplanes… it’s truly incredible! I feel like I should be paying to watch this!

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn2 ай бұрын

    We need to remember that say we have multiple weddings in a year, it’s so easy to take a solid colour dress and add accessories; jewelry, purse, shoes, belt and using different types of cover ups you may have already to change up the look and you end up with 5 totally different looks! ❤

  • @ayeemannn
    @ayeemannn2 ай бұрын

    can we start a thread of clothing companies that still produce good quality clothes? would love to find better options! edit: also - any recommendations for creators who are good about timeless fashion & capsule wardrobes. ty!!

  • @swithheld9905

    @swithheld9905

    2 ай бұрын

    i like @Christinamychas!

  • @ioanasurdubob7121

    @ioanasurdubob7121

    2 ай бұрын

    Karen Millen's quality never dissapointed me. But many brands are hit and miss... the point is to go, read the materials on the label, touch it and make your decision.

  • @TheHungryPauper
    @TheHungryPauper2 ай бұрын

    I’m so glad it’s different for men. I wear jeans and T shirts, polo shirts, and long sleeve button downs. That’s it. (Other than flannel and canvas shirts for cooler weather. Great video Shelby!

  • @XLStudiosTallinn
    @XLStudiosTallinn2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this! Most influencers just try to make us feel that we need to buy more stuff. I always wish some of my favourite KZreadrs would use their platforms to promote a safer and sustainable future. You just did it!❤❤❤ I rather dress like a bum ending up on the right page in the history books. When I see someone with a worn top or hole in the clothes, I see a hero!

  • @monicamcgahan
    @monicamcgahanАй бұрын

    I admire you Shelby for always hitting on topics that are actually becoming a big problem with our society

  • @i.am.heather
    @i.am.heather2 ай бұрын

    Shelby went there!!!! Good for you for calling out Boeing ✈️ You’re 100000% correct! Edited to add: that tiktok was filmed here in Charleston. If you knew some of the people working there, you’d agree to never fly on one of those planes.

  • @Kdmac1231
    @Kdmac12312 ай бұрын

    I honestly really try to buy EVERYTHING second hand. I just don't think even the more expensive/"higher quality" stuff is made to last these days

  • @melissacooper3004
    @melissacooper3004Ай бұрын

    I also want to add that renting an outfit or dress is a great option especially for special occasions like weddings, birthdays, graduations, etc. The price is usually way cheaper, you don't have to commit to an expensive piece you'll only wear once and it's also a fun opportunity to wear something designer if that's your thing. :) I'm renting some dresses for my engagement shoot and can also confirm that it's way less stressful than shopping for the "right" outfit.

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl212 ай бұрын

    Shopping at a CONSIGNMENT store saves time! It’s better organized and curated! I also get stressed from big thrift stores cause it takes so much time.

  • @elbow7991
    @elbow7991Ай бұрын

    I had noticed you wearing your outfits more than once. It makes you seem more relatable. I think you should do a vlog on Malls and why they are all closing. I live in Michigan and all our Malls are closing. They plan to tear down a perfectly good mall near my house and it is so sad. I refuse to buy clothes online because they never look like right and sizing is an issue. I have been buying more and more second hand thrift clothes because there is no place to shop anymore. Maybe you could discuss why we need Malls in your vlog. I really wish they would make a comeback. ❤

  • @Zyphera
    @Zyphera2 ай бұрын

    I am not into fashion. I am a guy and use my cloth as long as they are whole. Interesting to see this side.

  • @CatholicKatherine
    @CatholicKatherine2 ай бұрын

    I wear the same dress to every wedding! I just don’t care lol

  • @PhantomMagician1846

    @PhantomMagician1846

    2 ай бұрын

    my friend's wife had her bridesmaids wear casual dresses with Converse just because she didn't want her friends to spend a bunch of money on a dress and shoes they would wear only once. it looked good on them too

  • @21cgIN
    @21cgIN2 ай бұрын

    15:00 this applies to all your tennis outfits too Shelby hahah - do you really need that many?

  • @user-no5fo9pw6v
    @user-no5fo9pw6v2 ай бұрын

    I’m a long time viewer and first time commenter from Australia. I honestly think that you needed to demonstrate a bit more self awareness in this video regarding fast fashion purchases… it is great to share this information but a more meaningful way to encourage ethical and environmental lifestyles would be to practise what you’re preaching in this video. You have a substantial following and powerful platform, so modelling a more conscious way of living would be more impactful (including but not limited to mindful shopping habits, disposable takeout food etc).

  • @Nobody-gm9si
    @Nobody-gm9si2 ай бұрын

    I've never shopped for a trend or with fast fashion before. I have noticed that I cycle through my clothes in my possession depending on the season. There are certain tops I gravitate towards in my closet when it's autumn nearing winter (because temperature), and then I get super excited for spring and summer to wear my cute dresses in my wardrobe. It's like seeing an old friend when I wear them again for the first time after months have gone by. I find this to be what works for me, but obviously, this wouldn't work for everyone because of different climates and people's priorities when it comes to clothes.

  • @camelliaghotbzadeh2576
    @camelliaghotbzadeh25762 ай бұрын

    I loved this topic Shelby! I also live in LA so I have felt the same pressure you have to keep up with trends/look like the cool girl while out and about. After a certain point though, it felt like it was disingenuine to myself and my preferences when it comes to my personal style. Unless an item really speaks to me and I feel like it's something I really love/can wear for a long time, I won't buy it! Also your point about online shopping and the convenience is spot on, it's become too easy to just buy something without thinking and then it becomes such a hassle to get it returned/your money back. This video definitely reinforced how fast fashion/overconsumption negatively impacts not just consumers but society as a while. You made some awesome notes that I'm definitely taking into consideration when shopping going forward!

  • @philgoescrazy
    @philgoescrazy2 ай бұрын

    Can you ruminate about passport Bros? Thanks P.S. you're 100% correct. The housing market will never crash.

  • @shriyat.4453
    @shriyat.44532 ай бұрын

    Hi Shelby, I always like and appreciate your informative videos but this one has been my favorite so far! Im a graduate student in Boston (kinda a pricey place to be) and obv (like most students) have lesser money to spend on items like seasonal and "in" clothes so you popularizing reuse in clothes and other material really vibed with me. I'd also like to add that some of the "need to buy clothes" feeling is borne from the fact that a lot of clothes retailers have rewards programs (for example Macy's, Holister, etc) where you get reward points each time you buy and at the end of accumulating a certain number of those reward points we get a free top or something like that. I think this reward system creates a positive feedback loop among customers and while it may not be the sole cause of fast fashion, it definitely is a catalyst. Thank you again for making these videos, there is always something to learn from them! 😃👏

  • @exploringfindeverything
    @exploringfindeverything2 ай бұрын

    Shelby I really enjoyed this vlog today. You really know your stuff and explained so well to look incredible and not spend a lot of money. Loved your Ted Talk!!

  • @eviewesner6231
    @eviewesner62312 ай бұрын

    I love your transparency and boldness!!

  • @itsevelinakp
    @itsevelinakp2 ай бұрын

    I really really love these series!!! Keep them up❤

  • @averagemillennialinvestor
    @averagemillennialinvestor2 ай бұрын

    This feels like a CA or NY "problem". Any other state, people have other priorities than judging/caring about other's fashion. The fashion industry is causing these piles of fast fashion dumps.

  • @AlexR_44

    @AlexR_44

    Ай бұрын

    Nah, it used to be, but thanks to social media, it's everywhere now.

  • @aishastylevlogs
    @aishastylevlogs2 ай бұрын

    I live for these 🤌 love them keep ‘em coming Shelby 💜👏

  • @joeyparra3937
    @joeyparra39372 ай бұрын

    Your channel is soo random, I love it very informative shelby thank you for these videos.

  • @alexandermuir8160
    @alexandermuir81602 ай бұрын

    Shelby, agree with everything you said. The quality these days sucks. The only thing you failed to mention were the sweat shops. Don't take this the wrong way but you look good in anything.

  • @laurenkettle3909
    @laurenkettle39092 ай бұрын

    I learned so much from this! Love it!

  • @sross4933
    @sross49332 ай бұрын

    thanks for continuing the long form video, informative with examples

  • @spiritualminda
    @spiritualminda2 ай бұрын

    I was just thinking about this today!! Can’t wait to watch 😁

  • @MrTentaclesHasAllTheTalent
    @MrTentaclesHasAllTheTalent2 ай бұрын

    I've never been one to follow trends too closely and while I'd love to be able to thrift shop, being a plus-sized girlie, it is difficult to find clothes my size (I live in Asia and it is epecially challenging to find non fast-fashion brands that cater to plus-sized bodies). As an alternative, I've learned to sew my own clothes and to repair my worn out clothes as much as possible. Otherwise, whenever I do shop at fast fashion brands, I do try to find pieces that are made of natural materials and that I would most likely wear more than once.

  • @sarahwoodruff7229
    @sarahwoodruff72292 ай бұрын

    thank u for this!!

  • @edum.6353
    @edum.6353Ай бұрын

    Shelby Church is one of my favorite youtubers, always on point, always bringing subjects that matter. As a guy, I adopted the capsule wardrobe, fewer items, high quality, I'm a big fan of secondhand items. I believe more people, especially men, should embrace the secondhand market. However, I sense there might be some judgment surrounding this among men

  • @she_was_here
    @she_was_here2 ай бұрын

    I love this series ❤❤❤

  • @VeggiesbyEos
    @VeggiesbyEos2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for talking about this!!

  • @alianazamorano641
    @alianazamorano641Ай бұрын

    amazing topic/ points! i’ve never been into trends, i’m a classic wardrobe style person where most of my items are timeless and i wear them again and again. I just make sure to spread out the times i wear them, and if it’s been on instagram already, then i wear it on an occasion where i’m not anticipating important pictures and stuff like that, which i know is silly, but hey, i can never wear something just once! when i buy clothes it’s cause i love each item so much! i think of my closet as a collection. and i NEVER throw anything away, the few items i declutter are usually still in great condition and i have a thrift style event where i tell all my younger girls cousins and sister in law to come and take what they want. rarely anything is left. there’s no reason to not rewear clothing. great video!

  • @mt27a
    @mt27a2 ай бұрын

    Very insightful video. It’s interesting to hear about topics I had no idea of. Keep them coming. 👍

  • @hansonel
    @hansonelАй бұрын

    I'm shopping on Ebay and even at some thrift stores for a lot of my clothes these days. Older well made clothing actually lasts, even stuff made 15-20 years ago. So sad a lot of clothing made today is fast fashion junk that falls apart after a year or so. BTW, those of the landfills full of clothes are shocking.

  • @mattipeltola4394
    @mattipeltola43942 ай бұрын

    Great points and overall good analysis 👍 Thanks for the video covering an important topic

  • @Homeandthimble
    @Homeandthimble2 ай бұрын

    I love Quince! My house is 125 years old and still standing. 😂 My couch is about 50 years old… it has a nice new slip cover on it and guests compliment it all the time! And it’s surviving with four kids bouncing on it!

  • @joseadorno292
    @joseadorno292Ай бұрын

    These videos deserve so much more views, I really enjoy the commentary!

  • @dearwhomever-life
    @dearwhomever-life2 ай бұрын

    Im still wearing bell bottom flare jeans still have some hand me down Levi flare jeans my uncles use to wear in the 70s that I got from my grandma 😆 She never likes to get rid of clothing.

  • @aminafedjer5281
    @aminafedjer5281Ай бұрын

    You are an INSPIRATION, thank you ❤

  • @ahhitskatie9094
    @ahhitskatie90942 ай бұрын

    One of my most favorite videos of yours!!!

  • @sarahmanning525
    @sarahmanning525Ай бұрын

    I know that this seems weird and not the norm, but I prefer to dry my clothes outside when the weather is good. I've noticed that I don't need to replace my favorites very often because unlike using an electric clothing dryer which makes fabric thinner, the sun dried fabric retains quality and clothes last longer. I also save money by using this method by cutting down on electric usage during the warmer months.

  • @gemini1123
    @gemini11232 ай бұрын

    A good rule of thumb is just to avoid polyester altogether. I have like 3 outfits and I always get compliments. I wear my clothes til they fall a part then still try to find ways to fix them lol. Find what works and stick with it!

  • @ScandaLesa

    @ScandaLesa

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes! When I learned polyester is what makes things pill and makes you sweat and is literally like wearing plastic I've started avoiding any clothing with any sort of polyester. It's the worst!

  • @duc25xr

    @duc25xr

    2 ай бұрын

    This seems hard to do. I was shopping on nordstrom recently and everything was polyester blend ugh

  • @joycedegroote1133
    @joycedegroote1133Ай бұрын

    Thank you for making this video!! People REALLY need to create a conscious mind around this topic.

  • @sweetness371
    @sweetness3712 ай бұрын

    I like that you "skipped the trend" on the denim skirt. That was one trend that I saw and immediately thought, "that will only be trendy for a season." So, skip the trend. If it's still "trendy" in six months or a year and it's still something you really want, then go for it. Also, I stopped looking up outfits on Pinterest. I'll still be shown an outfit on there once in a while, but it isn't taking over my feed like it used to. That helped me a lot.

  • @DrMichellePonder
    @DrMichellePonder2 ай бұрын

    I will say, I do think that neutrals are kind of a trend in itself right now with the “quiet luxury”/“old money aesthetic”. I agree that these type of clothing pieces I usually think of lasting forever but i’m interested to see if the next trend is bold/bright colors, like a 80s resurgence lol. these fashion companies are smart at making us want to buy more 😂

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani2 ай бұрын

    I like the coat. Your colors work well together.

  • @roguewavecreative
    @roguewavecreative2 ай бұрын

    you need to do one of these a week. They are very informative. I wonder if you are starting to follow what you are discussing if that makes sense?

  • @Sivapriya108.
    @Sivapriya108.2 ай бұрын

    Ok, here it is....... Dear Shelby, this video is everything I imagined you saying and way more! Thank you for not only finally addressing my inquiry but devoting an entire half hour to it! :) I agree 100% with everything you said and you brought up a lot of points I either do not give enough consideration to or I actually never thought about. For example, I know about sweat shops but until recently I never really understood the ethical aspect of fashion such as the waist from donating and the percentage of clothes that ends up in land fills. I did see a documentary about that and was stunned to see that. That has been one of my main excuses for buying because I donate a lot. I am flabbergasted about the reality of my unintentionally wasted efforts! I previously thought you had a reasonably well thought out reason for your wardrobe but I am so impressed about the array of aspects you included in this video. You talked about so many important topics and gave excellent examples and details. You put together all of the bits and pieces that pertain to fast fashion into one very comprehensive document that addresses valid aspects of why the unnecessary purchase of clothing is completely and justifiably inappropriate. I’ve always wondered about your thought process behind the way you dress because I think you and Monica dress so plainly and wear little color YET you both always look very beautiful. I noticed your sense of style from the moment I started watching you both and after time your style has evolved in the most basic and still interesting way. I have been incredibly curious about it. I have found your sense of fashion so uncommon particulary for women your age and as you mentioned also from what I have heard about the style in LA. Let me make clear, I love your sense of fashion very much, on you, but I can not figure out how to make that work for me. I love how you look so pretty in the very neutral palette, interchangeable and timeless. I think you always look put together, very classy, effortless and smart. However, like some people have a hard time being creative, I have a hard time being simple. I was never as curious about the reason you wore the same things often because I think you do mix and match a lot to change things up and you always seem to choose the right style and color for every event. But I was curious about your apparently intensional choice of neutral colors and the way you make the most basic styles look very current. I am guilty of all of the reasons you mentioned for my clothing purchases. I am feeling very inspired by this video because it has given me so much insight about your thought process and convictions about clothing validating a very wide array of reasons that are undeniably and unarguably helping me to formulate my own conviction to change my style, clothing choices, spending habits for a wide range of reasons. I could really go on for hours talking about each of the points you made. Excellent research, graphics, visual examples, and verbal presentation!! As always, thank you for reading your comments and taking the time to surprise me with such a well thought out and informative lesson. There’re is so much information I need to hear again I intend on watching this at least a few more times. Thanks Śivapriya 🙏

  • @aliciamitrowitz3122
    @aliciamitrowitz31222 ай бұрын

    I try to focus on quality pieces and more of the idea of a capsule wardrobe. I don't buy clothes very often, but currently pregnant and the last 6 months I've had to buy nearly a whole new wardrobe for pregnancy. Amazon Maternity has been my go to because of the amount of selection and price point for this temporary time. Maternity clothes at other places are so marked up in price. Also love how you pointed out new build houses are cheaply made. In my area the new builds start at $700K-$1M and I just think of how cheaply they are made now that it's all for profit. I'm browsing houses but not planning to buy anytime soon right now. However I think I would prefer a house built in the 1950s or something, I miss the brick homes and craftsman style homes.

  • @andil6784
    @andil67842 ай бұрын

    How bout doing away with influencers? Who are these example clips of “influencers”? They are an authority on NOTHING. They’re just pimping what a retail outlet sends them. This is extremely cheap marketing for these companies. Don’t fall for the Snake Oil Salesmen. Shelby, I give you an “influencer” pass today cuz you’re more of a content creator.

  • @gilchevy

    @gilchevy

    Ай бұрын

    thank you

  • @rebeccakempen8822
    @rebeccakempen88222 ай бұрын

    Those inspector videos scare me so much! Like I’ll probably never be able to own a house but if I do, it’s going to fall apart because things are made so poorly! 11/10 video! Thank you thank you thank you for talking about this stuff cause I do in my daily life and society makes me feel like I’m crazy because I try so so hard to stay away from this consumeristic lifestyle

  • @JamieRoseLincoln
    @JamieRoseLincolnАй бұрын

    I genuinely hate most trends. I try very hard to stay with timeless pieces but maybe with a bit of an edge because I do love color and pattern. My favorite is when a color I like to wear becomes a trend so they actually make it in more things and then I get a couple items in that color that I will wear for a long time.

  • @sadiem6758
    @sadiem6758Ай бұрын

    With all of your videos lately it’s like you’re reading into what I want to know about and ask myself on a daily basis lol

  • @jmn5175
    @jmn5175Ай бұрын

    Even though a material is grown in nature, dosen't automatically make it better for the environment. Cotton is still a hasard to make, because it uses a shit ton of water, and because of all the chemicals that are used to color it. I am not saying i would choose polyester, or that it is better than cotton. It's just important to understand, that none of the textiles we make are good for the climate - Especially because we make so much of it. There is no good choice when it comes to choosing the individuel textile, if you want it to be "climate friendly" or whatever. So it's better to choose a material that you know is going to last for a long time, depending on the style of clothes you are buying. Just like you said Shelby with activewear. And by the way love the videoes

  • @pamelawang8284
    @pamelawang82842 ай бұрын

    I've been talking about this problem the past few years! Thank you for bringing this up. Yes, even airplanes. 🙃

  • @anthonyc8499
    @anthonyc84992 ай бұрын

    Hey Shelby, is the fashion awareness thing less of a deal in certain places? Like your hometown of Seattle, can women just wear a hoodie everyday and it’s nbd but would never do that in LA?

  • @hannahcooke1938
    @hannahcooke1938Ай бұрын

    I’ve just bought a couple items from Depop as I am going to a clubland concert and I have no neon clothes!! I like the fact I’m giving unwanted clothes another life

  • @Madison-sn4ih
    @Madison-sn4ih2 ай бұрын

    The landfill clips from the brandy Melville documentary completely altered how I go about donating clothes now 😢

  • @philhagls4276
    @philhagls42762 ай бұрын

    The most surreal part of fast fashion for me is that nowadays a whole shirt ist cheaper than a little bit cheese or a bag of apples at the grocery store.

  • @sandys6379
    @sandys6379Ай бұрын

    Hosting or participating in a clothing swap is another great way to cut down on clothing waste!

  • @laurenmorris4652
    @laurenmorris46522 ай бұрын

    Omgggg the video of the houses was my inspector!!! He’s seriously the best!!!

  • @CordellFrisbie
    @CordellFrisbie2 ай бұрын

    Awww love you Shelby, you are real sweetheart. Thanks for being an awesome lady.

  • @jennifergold7950
    @jennifergold7950Ай бұрын

    Something you said reminded me of this book I read last year (best book I have EVER read), when you said if we saw it ourselves, we wouldn't be buying it, but because we are so far removed we aren't really thinking about it. Highly recommend the Ten Types of Human by Dexter Dias

  • @kurooitami
    @kurooitami8 күн бұрын

    Aaaah, the joy of being a gothic bohemoqn. And my brahs, 2 is all i have, ive had for 6 years. They still are amazing. They cost me a lot, but quality over quontity.

  • @fashionbyally
    @fashionbyally2 ай бұрын

    I've definitely felt this way for awhile

  • @phakilesibu433
    @phakilesibu4332 ай бұрын

    The best thing to do is to figure out your color season and gravitate towards that palette irregardless of trends

  • @codygier4162
    @codygier41622 ай бұрын

    I love going to open house seeing the new houses in the new subdivisions that pop up. But man if you really look at them quality not there. Custom cabinets made of pressed fiber board that’s just been painted to conceal it. I don’t know how to explain it but they feel light.

  • @camrynh

    @camrynh

    2 ай бұрын

    Me and my husband were fortunate enough to buy a new home in 2021 and we are thankful for it every day. HOWEVER the house is made so terribly. The amount of beer cans found during construction was repulsive and to this day I’m still finding poor quality/material in the build. Builders higher cheap labor and cheap materials to throw up houses

  • @larryspiller15
    @larryspiller152 ай бұрын

    I've been wearing the same 3 pairs of jeans for 3 years, same with shorts. Shirts is a bit worse but it was tough for me to find decent fitting male t-shirts. Sweaters are 5 year minimum but usually after 2 years they become work sweaters that get abused.

  • @paulboakes3680
    @paulboakes3680Ай бұрын

    I can remember when a pair of Levis would last 10+ years, and then they were nicely faded 👍 . Good luck Shelby 🌹 💞 🐨

  • @nexusyang4832
    @nexusyang48322 ай бұрын

    12:44 - Girl, I have face towels that look better than lol! That’s crazzzzy!!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @melw3518
    @melw35182 ай бұрын

    An Australian breakfast show personality (male) wore the same blue suit for a year and no viewers noticed/commented. However the female personalities, if they re-wore an item of clothing, viewers would write in to complain. It's sad that males can get away with wearing the same things over and over again but as females we have the pressure to wear something different every single time. That said, I have more of a capsule wardrobe and cycle through my 'event' clothing and rarely buy new items but I do buy quality pieces and not fast fashion. I may not be 'fashionable' but I'm not spending money on clothes and able to save it for other purposes

  • @everythingisrosiex
    @everythingisrosiexАй бұрын

    Total side note - that pink Zara top: that material, just iron it and it stretches right back out. I totally agree with you in this video though, and have made a total change in how I shop over the last few years! I also just don't like to spend money on things I just know I won't wear for long. Quality over quantity every time.

  • @lindacondilli6494
    @lindacondilli6494Ай бұрын

    Great video!

  • @julianajb
    @julianajbАй бұрын

    Love love love this! I love that you are significantly younger than me (I'm 35 going on 36) and we aim for dressing the same. What maybe when I was 15 I'd think of myself of a "grandma" for wearing only neutrals (black, white, beige, grey), which now I think is more "chic". I see this Gen Z wearing all these crazy stuff and super colorful and cringe because it used to be the same trend when I was a teenager.

  • @danab3861
    @danab38612 ай бұрын

    I have a few well made pieces from the 1980s that I still wear! Quality has gone down for sure. We used to pay a lot more compared to our income for clothes back then. I think a lot was still made in USA. When things started getting made over sea it was for profit/competition.

  • @rafaelfgon
    @rafaelfgonАй бұрын

    your hair is so much better - can you share the tips??

  • @pitelf3852
    @pitelf38522 ай бұрын

    you need to market your litely used cloths that would be super successful if done right

  • @rachel95041
    @rachel950412 ай бұрын

    Amazing video

  • @davesites
    @davesites2 ай бұрын

    Quince is the best, great video.

  • @AlexR_44
    @AlexR_44Ай бұрын

    Good Stuff. Good on you for using your audience for some good messaging. 👍

  • @gennaro
    @gennaro2 ай бұрын

    Im glad I don't care about my clothes, luckily is everything from biz casual to flip flops and gym shorts. Ive been wearing the same free tshirts for almost a decade now from tech conferences, even sewed my jeans the other day after they had a rip in the middle seem 🤣

  • @ConwayCreator
    @ConwayCreator2 ай бұрын

    501's & Concert shirts + work boots. $100 workers are NOT dying to make my clothes. Ms. Church is the modern day Carrie Bradshaw 🎙

  • @busibuthelezi
    @busibutheleziАй бұрын

    Agree with a lot of what you said, skip the trends! But also if you love colour and pattern, buy it and wear it. You can get sick of neutrals too if they are not your style or how you wish to express yourself in the world. Buy clothes that fit you well and that you love.

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