Everytime I watch a ted talk video it feels like that it's the most urgent and important issue in life to work on.

@kuzziesliesje

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha

@aservant1284

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@savethehumanrace4438

3 жыл бұрын

PURITY N IMPURITY BOTH ARE TRUETHS OF LIFE WHICH YOU FOLLOW IT BECOMES UR BENT OF MIND

@erosh6012

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@keshavgupta84

2 жыл бұрын

Genuinely yaar

"Seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already."

@flambelk4489

4 жыл бұрын

Like giving all their money to someone?

@genieinabottle2819

4 жыл бұрын

No, that wouldn't be seduction. That would be manipulation/abuse

@brianking11882

3 жыл бұрын

id vs ego. good observation

@jlaanswth6008

3 жыл бұрын

Well said , I agree

@stebarg

3 жыл бұрын

WOW 🤩 Thanks for sharing ❣️😃🙏🏽

Someone needs to give a talk on how a man can seduce without either coming off as a creep or getting charged with harassment.

@SeraDoll89

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@SovereignStatesman

3 жыл бұрын

Jason Katsanis: you gotta PAY for those.

@johnreid8551

3 жыл бұрын

It depends on how good looking he is and how crazy she is.

@monroejordan2299

3 жыл бұрын

Then don't be a creep or harass anyone not that hard

@JasonKatsanis

3 жыл бұрын

@@monroejordan2299 the best way to not be a creep is to not be creep? Thank you! Gosh, why didn't I think of that? 🤦‍♂️

Main points : 1.Seduction is a skill that you choose what to do with it. 2.Seduction is about charm, self confidence, pride and appeal 3.Seduction's formula : - Desire (keeping the "maybe" alive is the skill of presenting potential possibilities and then fueling them with desire) - Confidence - Body language - Arousal (waken up the desire in someone and lure it out) 4.Everyone has the power to seduce but it's different in how you use it and when to do so.

@jemma4720

Жыл бұрын

good one

@Malakahtv

Жыл бұрын

saved me lots of time ty

@darshaniynair4234

9 ай бұрын

i love you

@OMahmed-ft2mj

5 ай бұрын

❤thank you

@Hannah.115

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for saving my life. I couldn`t stand her talk beyond 5 minutes.

Three hours ago I started watching these Ted Talks about college depression. Now I’m here 😂

@sonamchohdry8906

4 жыл бұрын

Austin Williamson hahaahha

@gilbertpena2153

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@evelinarobinson2909

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhahahahahhahahha me too it’s 3:07am flm

@_will795

3 жыл бұрын

Guanine C5H5N5O that KZread rabbit hole son

@LD-wj2nd

3 жыл бұрын

I started watching a video of cheating in college for a discussion board project and ended here. cheating, seduction, whats next!!! lol

The Take Away Note from the entire conversation: " I really believe that seduction leads to self-confidence, and self-confidence leads to success in all area of your life" - Chen Lizra

@da.reverend

2 жыл бұрын

After all; she did get a Ted Talk…

@Alianger

2 жыл бұрын

Mine is that this sometimes works if you're attractive enough, otherwise you'll end up in jail soon

@paris2070

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, you saved me 12 min. Now I can close the video and go work on my school assignments.

@mooch4274

Жыл бұрын

Exactly such powerful insights !!!!! What a load of BS the worst one I’ve ever seen but then I only Managed like 6 minutes!

@Sonia-rn1zz

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for saving me 12:48 mins. 👍🏾

"A NO turns into a maybe into a yes". This did not age well. A NO means NO.

@stelazanetti2624

3 жыл бұрын

She kinda normalized harassment too

@Pedro-tl8zw

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, she talked about the "distinguishability" (not sure if that is a word, but okay) of the "no that means no" and the "no that means maybe". Most of the times we can understand this through body language, context and speech tone, we are humans after all, we comunicate in various complex ways. As she said, "the last thing we want is to insist on a no that means no"

@PlasmicSteve

3 жыл бұрын

No still meant No in 2013.

@brandonm1708

3 жыл бұрын

@@Pedro-tl8zw if you think someone means yes when they say no, and they really meant no, that’s not gonna defend you if they take you to court for harassment. 9/10 times, no will mean no. Unless they’re clearly joking, there’s no reason for you to assume otherwise

@Pedro-tl8zw

3 жыл бұрын

@@brandonm1708 "unless they're clearly joking" And how can you know that? Through body language, context, voice tone... we have complex systems of communication, we are biological humans that communicate our complex emotions through these systems, not a machine that needs to be programmed with the logical statements every time. it is a matter of well manners, you should notice when you are bothering or anoying someone (and we are capable of noticig it)

"the youtube effect"....Start somewhere and end up watching something completely different. Thats how I landed up here

I will only say two things: 1: I'm Cuban 2: she understands us perfectly

@eyesofitachi55

4 жыл бұрын

What did she mean Danny? From this speech I took that as a writer I can seduce people with words to make then want to continue reading and eventually buy the book after finishing their coffee. Is that a good example?

@brightlight7217

4 жыл бұрын

American women are masculine.

@kizito8888

4 жыл бұрын

What happens in Cuba.....better stay in Cuba unless you're okay with jail time.

@brightlight7217

4 жыл бұрын

@@kizito8888 That shows how Americans are not free in the land of "free". Life is micromanaged to the extreme.

@cameliap1146

4 жыл бұрын

Danny Villarroel: mira. No te engañes. Una cubana mulata me dijo una vez. Nos acostamos con mas negritos que nosotros, y nos casamos con más blancos que nosotros. La seducción no está lejo del interés de cada uno. Parece lindo lo que la señora dice, pero la verdad es mucho más prosaica. Un saludo.

She isn't talking about tricking people or playing games. She is talking about realizing your own self confidence and beauty and bringing that to the surface. Everyone has great qualities and everyone is capable of enhancing those qualities. MORE BEES WITH HONEY :) LOVE IT!!

@waitwho9283

Жыл бұрын

The best perspective in these comments by far. I love the way you think Dani! :)

@sibusisonhlapo4428

Жыл бұрын

🤝🤝

@Volkskomissar

Жыл бұрын

yeah everyone even Charles Manson i guess?! /shrug. Everyone is beautiful , love peace and freedom mindest

@nerdock4747

Ай бұрын

@@Volkskomissar Way to misunderstand the assignment.

@muskanustad3834

10 күн бұрын

You are guy which will say a poop is cake

I can't get enough of TED talks, I try to be good and kind and I forget about myself. TED teaches me that I am more and deserve my own kindness. Thank you for helping.

I see her point, but I feel like the examples she offered to some elements of claiming seduction are kind of problematic because they lack consent and look like harassment. Concerning body language, calling after random women on the street "Linda!" "Preciosa!" sounds more like a form of street harassment - cat-calling. Moreover, seduction shouldn't include going for what you want blindly, ignoring others' limits and dignity. There is nothing charming in men ignoring "no"s. There is nothing right in insisting on getting someone after they've made if clear you are not welcomed.

@nicholaslandry6367

Жыл бұрын

Did you watch the full video?

@penniesatthebarvlogsandcom3987

Жыл бұрын

different culture

@doezie3D

Жыл бұрын

@@nicholaslandry6367 pretty sure she didnt, or didnt get it

@AR-cf9di

Жыл бұрын

The western way of thinking is applied here and it’s quite selfish and unfair to the example that was offered by the speaker… I’m sure calling someone Linda has a different connotation to what catcalling is

@dwin8534

Жыл бұрын

This is before the Mee Too movement.

Seduction is all good and fun until someone unattractive is doing it to you.

@MindBodyFusionLLC

5 жыл бұрын

lol

@k_mast3785

5 жыл бұрын

Looool😂😂😂😂

@uaintseememaaan8901

5 жыл бұрын

lol

@tanmayraju6185

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@ivitamwende3971

5 жыл бұрын

FlezzDurjis i so swear

You guys have to understand that she doesn't mean it in a sexual sense. She means it in a charming sense. Getting people to like you, and being confident in yourself. I think, as a confident charming guy, she has a terrific point. It is a very useful skill, really.

@CJWarlock

10 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@readyrepairs

10 жыл бұрын

CJWarlock you are obviously forgetting that she started the talk by grinding all over a guy.

@DoctorSkater

10 жыл бұрын

You are obviously forgetting that she immediately went on to say that "The word seduction has been sexualized so many times that we can't even imagine it as a positive skill-set." You were obviously too busy checking her out to hear what she was saying, lol. It seems she's a little too good.

@12stormy13

10 жыл бұрын

readyrepairs She actually didn't touch the guy except around his head. I agree however that she is swine upon the intelligent people and talks I come to TED for.

@Hombre2.0-Renacer.del.Estoico

10 жыл бұрын

After seeing so many misunderstood comments, I just have to thank you for getting it. Thanks Doc!

Here is a simple truth: seductiveness is related closely to attractiveness (which is subjective to the viewer). Someone can enhance their appeal to you by acting in a seductive way; but if you simply don't find the person attractive, then there is nothing they can do to change that. Ask yourself - if someone who you did not find attractive was dancing like that, would you be seduced?

@rhyswollaston9146

11 ай бұрын

As she sais this a product of advertising, maybe we would be attracted if we didn't idolize the "perfect" body?

@kaczok1985

Ай бұрын

@@rhyswollaston9146 It's a product of humans having eyes. We see someone and we know if we're attracted to them or not. The "perfect body" is in ads because it is viewed as "perfect", not the other way around.

Great speech! That "I did get a TED talk, didn't I?" was presented in such a harmonic and sympathetic way! Awesome 😍

"The word has been sexualised so many times." Like in the opening sequence.

@milosmilic7253

3 жыл бұрын

dance is also to much sexualised, not all seduction (or dance for that matter) ought to lead to that direction, but possibilities are keeping tension and connection in a two way relation

@missmmc5247

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously. She’s offensive.

"A no turns to a maybe turns to a yes. That's damn sexy." Instructions unclear, have to show up to court at 9.

@_afracturedmind_

7 жыл бұрын

Ha!

@Crambull

7 жыл бұрын

lmao

@jamescorbett9822

7 жыл бұрын

Hilarious haha Well played.

@TheWorthlessKing

7 жыл бұрын

that's basically it. but kissing is the first step and rapist go straight for the intercourse

@shadywiskerz

7 жыл бұрын

You were either A. a white male. B. a black male or C. an asian male. She clearly said Cuban.

She is unleashing her seductive charm. That's post probably why I watched the entire video.

Seduction with loyalty and integrity 😂 Someone give this lady the bad news already

@radhikab7522

3 жыл бұрын

Seduce / dance her way to becomin a pm 💄moved well though catchyyyyy

I really liked this talk because I went to Cuba and all that she said it is true. You can see seduction at any time, people do not care of the body type, instead they know how to talk and they are not afraid to go for what they want.

@jelll4063

Жыл бұрын

@@Michael-bf1dt the comment was 6 years ago lol.

@WoahhTeamJacob

Жыл бұрын

@@jelll4063 LMFAOOO

@SAN_DI

Жыл бұрын

Decades of communism will do that to ya. I mean if you have issues with poverty and supply of almost everything, what else is left than to play games?

"Seduction basically comes down to who you are inside." Classic wordplay.

@briannachance

2 жыл бұрын

LMAOOO

Ok so I just watched a TED talk on "An epidemic of beauty sickness" so this is like the next end of the spectrum. What was valuable to me from this is the fact that in Cuba, there is no advertising so your self esteem and self worth isn't dictated by the media. That is very important in the self confidence aspect. I understand what she's saying and I feel like that was the teenage maybe even twenties me. I just don't feel like it's healthy in some other cultures around the world for a married couple to be this randomly seductive unless it's with each other. What do you guys think?

@SophiaFaris

2 жыл бұрын

Very well said. "I just don't feel like it's healthy in some other cultures around the world for a married couple to be this randomly seductive unless it's with each other. What do you guys think?"

@Shyamazha

2 жыл бұрын

Loyalty and integrity are a thing. Seduction also has its place and it is not always the only way or the way to be used to express your confidence. Confidence comes from self acceptance and integrity comes from holding oneself accountable to the right ethics. That talk on confidence and body language is all good. Seduction is not bad as long as it is presented formally within the limits of your environment, to be balanced with the yin and yang of both people again.

@Dinora2911

2 жыл бұрын

Married or unmarried the power of seduction; also the power of persuasion, suggestion, etc. all align.

@blaithinaugier

2 жыл бұрын

@@Shyamazha I don't think it's very healthy to have her vision of self confidence. If your confidence depends on your power of seduction it means it essentially comes from outside. But when you get lonely, when you loose yourself and don't get to go to many events anymore, you understand that confidence needs to come from within. What you said is so true : "confidence comes from self acceptance and integrity comes from holding oneself accountable to the right ethics". For me, as long as the seduction isn't a need for you to feel confident, it can be fun in your everyday life :)

@thepontiacbandit7329

Жыл бұрын

well yea a married couple... it's good to do it on one another, someone could even make a claim that it's necessary for an exciting marriage - because the passion in marriage always fades away into something else... but if the most important point is being seductive in a way that I see myself as beautiful, as attractive, if I love the parts in me that give and recieve pleasure and intimacy, and I'm free to play and dance with these parts, then it's the same as in marriage. Is it more difficult to seduce a stranger than someone who already knows you and have a lot of history with? That's an interesting question... What if the partner doesn't respond, doesn't see you? that can be disappointing and can lead to even insecurity, anger... and here comes the art of seduction again, but it takes two to tango...

I think this went in a different direction than I was expecting.

I'm still waiting to hear how seducing my coworkers with a rumba in the break room will help my career. Poorly titled.

@mimimaddyworld6517

4 жыл бұрын

Lmbo! Without getting arrested and fired.

@pritarot666

3 жыл бұрын

🤡🤡🤡

@EmilyTienne

2 жыл бұрын

I think she went right over your head. She’s talking about something that is very natural, beautiful and powerful, something as ancient as humanity itself, and you’ve reduced it to some ridiculous corporate thing.

@maxonout

2 жыл бұрын

take it, own it and use it. your skills, your proposal, without caring whether it is accepted or not cuz you know how good it is..

cringiest opening ever

@zes3813

7 жыл бұрын

wrr

@MilaniHoward20

7 жыл бұрын

Mihail Stoyanov lol I thought so too.lol

@OrianaValeroHernandez

6 жыл бұрын

Haitian Girl94 what does it mean cringiest, sorry im a spanish speaker

@mintgum1404

6 жыл бұрын

get over yourselves hah

@hortenseweinblatt1508

6 жыл бұрын

Mihail, were you at the physics department at Catholic University in 1984?

Whoa! That little bit of info on Cuban self confidence blew me away!

Summary: 1) desire 2) self-confidence and pride 3) body language 4) arisal or fearlessness of failure

Did anyone else noticed that the man seemed uncomfortable when she danced crazily in front of him?

@martinworkens6130

3 жыл бұрын

Because he is not sure how to act . In today’s society are confused . Will she flip on me if I make a move and accuse me of harassment. If she says yes will she regret the yes later and say she really did not want to but you the man should have known this!

@brandonm1708

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah if this was a guy doing that to a girl this video would be taken down in seconds

@theywalkinguptoyouand4060

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly.that is basically harassment.

@Stourmburn

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly I think it was staged. No pun intended.

GOOD NEWS for most of us here! I'm a 50 year old, medium height, slightly pot-bellied, brown skinned, black haired, ugly faced male! (sob!!). I often hear women say about me behind my back, "yikes, what an ugly pig". But now I have hope, she said that "everybody has in them the power to seduce, you simply have to unleash it". I'm gonna start unleashing it first thing in the morning, at work, with my female boss who is half my age, blond and beautiful. Thank you so much Ms Chen Lizra. If I don't post the result on here by tomorrow, it's because it didn't work and I lost my job. And one more thing, two of my best friends are equally ugly (that's why we stick together) and I'm gonna, like a good friend, pass on your advice to them too. So far, the three of us have always believed that the world is broadly comprised of two groups of people; the ugly (like us), and the not-ugly to beautiful (like them). Just for the record, my last (and only) girlfriend dumped me because she found me very ugly and unattractive. So now you see why I'm brimming with new hope after watching this video. Jackson, Mississippi.

@Rosumisorimu

10 жыл бұрын

perikaveera, you are totally right as for seduction part. However, trust me, there's still bunch of girls that don't really care much about looks and are interested more in personality. Women are generally built to be less visual than men, and not to mention the fact that tastes vary sooooo much that what may be considered unbelievably ugly by one culture or a person, it could be considered pretty attractive to another culture or person so don't lose hope bro! Trust me there's always someone waiting for each of us :) Patience is not one of the best virtues for nothing!

@clempointe643

10 жыл бұрын

well if you think your looks are really out of the norm and you suffer from that fact, then maybe you should take some actions. Go to the gym, at least you are not short, being medium height is good, you can be fit and not look like the "short guy that's trying to make up for his shortness with being muscular". Have facial surgery, a facelift, a nose job ? Maybe fix your teeth, work on your breath if it's not so fresh. you're not bald so praise the lord. The pressure to look attractive weights down so much on women, it's crippling, I know, I am a woman. It consumes your life, you have to spend hours to shave, pluck, brush, straighten, curl, anoint, hydrate, moisturized, conceal, enhance etc...etc....We lose hours every week in a pursuit of a perfection that can never be attained. It is exhausting, and mentally damaging. I have accepted that I cannot compete with other women if I do not shave or put on make up, because if I don't I look bland (no, my cheeks and lips are not naturally rosy, and my eye lashes are not naturally that dark and thick, and I actually do have dark circles, under that coat of makeup) Worse I can look "gross" if I don't shave like other women (when females become women, they grow hairs, I don't understand why society shames us for becoming adults and try to make us revert to the bodies we had when we were 10...sick sick world we live in). So, when I want to "see" a man (casually, like in finding a sex friend), I start dressing a lil bit more feminine, no more large tshirt and sneakers, I put on a nice pair of skinny jeans and some heels, and a lacey blouse. I used to date men, but not anymore, I never want to get stuck in a relationship in which a man tells me "my friends tell me you are ugly, but you are pretty when you put on make up so put on make up when we go out". I know I am not good enough as I am and I need enhancement when I go in public with my partner, but I don't really want to be good enough anymore. This is the society we live in Perikaa, you have to accept it and change because society won't change for you :/ It's hard for every body and remember, we are all struggling. Good luck to you. XXX

@perikaveera4438

10 жыл бұрын

Rosumisorimu Thank you dear.

@Rosumisorimu

10 жыл бұрын

perikaveera You are welcome.....btw just so you know, I'm a male ahahahaha...and a straight one at that :D :D :D But what I've said stands! Many girls I know are obsessed with the sense of humor, intelligence etc, and care little to none about looks. Or the ones that do, they have rather weird taste that would be considered by many cultures and other people as "very ugly". So chin up bro! ;) I'm not the most handsome guy either, but it doesn't stop me from living my life to the fullest ;)

I am glad that I watched this video. Being an Indian classical dancer, I believe that I always had this natural seductive behaviour/body language. As I grew up, I questioned myself on why am I like this or is it too much or should I change myself? Over the years I embraced this art and kept on getting better at this, however, wasn’t sure if it was right and always named it “elegance” Thank you so much for this talk and explaining about seduction, it has given me a sense of validation and makes me feel more confident!

@alexandraalmanzar570

8 ай бұрын

Me too. I suffered for it tho. I am healing tho. I will overcome this.

@IX-SHAMIKDASGUPTA

8 ай бұрын

Shut up

@inainaty171

6 ай бұрын

can you tell me how it's helpful in day to day life

@alexandraalmanzar570

6 ай бұрын

@@inainaty171 People will be drawn to talk to you and pay attention to what you want and want to get it for you. That is what seduction does. It makes people cater to you because THEY want to do that for YOU.

I am Cuban and was explaining my upbringing growing up to a friend. This is what I was talking about. Love it!

@RohitSharma-zj6ox

Жыл бұрын

bro do u know the name of the song ?

@Ernesto-hm5tm

Жыл бұрын

@@RohitSharma-zj6ox se me va la musa by Osmany Garcia

First she says seduction shouldn't be seen sexualized, but then ALL she talks about is sexualized seduction. This was a 12 min talk of thin air. It feels like a lot of Ted talks have become the opportunity for self-centered people to talk about their lives and play it of as if they are giving valuable life advice.

@zacharyhdavidson

10 жыл бұрын

Right on the button. I felt like it was complete narcissism disguised as education. What she was really trying to do was to get us all to re affirm her own views of herself. I Have heard the same thing said a hell of a lot better by better speakers 100 times.

@StudioSappy

4 жыл бұрын

100%

@ntnrocket1

4 жыл бұрын

TED talks have become like a 3-D blog.

@blacktortoise6812

4 жыл бұрын

I think y'all just missed the point lol

@littlelily5816

3 жыл бұрын

Then tell us what we are missing dude

I know this was supposed to be about seduction but damn she makes a really good point on communism and advertising (or lack thereof)

@JHruweTV

7 жыл бұрын

Not communism. Just lack of certain types of advertising possibly being a good thing.

@Skansener

7 жыл бұрын

Adverts are evil :D

@yolandayoung6519

7 жыл бұрын

Libra Cayes absolutely !!!!!! She is a Genius, a very hot sexy smart one!!!!!!

@lutffysaeed7353

7 жыл бұрын

Libra Cayes maybe 😅😅

@reading_books_dongbeihua

7 жыл бұрын

Libra Cayes eu

i lost it when she called herself classy

@SovereignStatesman

3 жыл бұрын

Classy Chloride (i.e. Cl minus)

The comments made me walk away from the entire video.

Her anthropological observation of seduction in Cuba is spot on but I don't think she should angle it into how other societies could copy it to get what they want. Different societies have different reading into it and it will cause different perception and ends.

@nathfranck780

5 жыл бұрын

Lilian Budianto thank you so much! You literally voiced my thoughts.

@mimimaddyworld6517

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, you'll get arrested and/or fired at my job.

@fabzgotit

Жыл бұрын

@@mimimaddyworld6517 You'd get arrested for being charming/self confident at your job? Think you missed the point of this

@studenthebbare8149

Жыл бұрын

@@mimimaddyworld6517 ofcourse you will if you do exactly what Cubans are doing. They seem to have evolved when it comes it character and tapping into emotions. In fact the exact opposite might happen if you do it the right way. Even people hidden in rocks like to check out the confident sun pouring in

@ananyaverma1957

Жыл бұрын

Yeah true that

I liked it but I was expecting she to talk about that non-sexual seduction that she mentioned

@leilanewman6224

3 жыл бұрын

True. A bit deceiving

@Angela-hx4eh

3 жыл бұрын

Same she starts by introducing the power of seduction in our everyday lives and it just became a list of how to seduce someone

@helrisonn

3 жыл бұрын

OMG YES.

@BusinessWolf1

3 жыл бұрын

It's making people like you and gravitate towards you. In other words being a leader

@Bully_who_made_goblin_Jr_cry

2 жыл бұрын

@@Angela-hx4eh ll

Anyone here after watching Scott Kramers video?

@sweetsour4375

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. Hi 👋

I relapsed after 7 years of sobriety after watching this cringiest of introductions to ever hit planet earth

@edmcguire6133

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@IvoryMane

2 жыл бұрын

Let me remind you not to watch this video

Before I watched this video, I checked all the comments. It gave me an idea how people perceived the message of the video. It gave me different angles so I could decide on my own if those had some truth in them. So I started this video fearing the worst, I had read some pick up artist articles and those made me very depressed about humanity. Their sole purpose was sex, lots of sex, just sex like an animal, artificial manipulative sex, wich grossed me out a lot. I can tell this video wasnt anything like that and the comments surprised me. The message of this video was, that in cuba, people are very confident. Not only confident in their sexuality, but also about their body, self image, and because of that they are not afraid to show interest or express what is in their heart. That confidence and fearlessness plays into all aspects of life. Arguably cuba is not a very succesfull country, ofcourse depending on what you label as succes, happiness is harder to label then economic numbers . But you cannot argue successful and happy people are usually confident about themselves or ability to do something. Sometimes the line between narcism and being very self confident is thin or subtle. This woman speaks rational about seduction and the aspects of it, such as an very important one, how you were raised and how it plays into your self image. The factor height for example, is an aspect wich can affect your confidence, and a research showed that managers were more then not above the average height. I can talk about some more truthful things she told, but I conclude this video is not bullshit. If you think it is I feel sorry you can't think rational because of emotions, intelligence, hypocrisy, denial, delusions and small-mindedness.

@Nikki0417

9 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I was going through these comments and starting to think I was the only one who didn't immediately see sex when they watched this. She even says early on that seduction isn't just about sex. I guess people want to go with the easy conclusion instead of stopping to think about what she's saying.

@saultube44

9 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@vertexrikers

9 жыл бұрын

Nikki Berry regarding the "easy conclusion" - and this is just a thought I just had and didn't follow too deep: maybe fear plays a role too, along with knowing to be one of the repressed people that society spills out way too often. So hating her is easier than admiting to be inhibited - even easier than to change yourself to be more open-minded. So hate her instead and maybe find someone else, who's just as thick, to join and hate together. It's a way to connect to others, too - just not as pleasing as seduction. As said, just a simple thought. On the other hand I would advise against too much sexual seduction within our culture - people aint used to it and many would certainly get it wrong, being pissed afterwards. So when going to charm someone, always make sure not to deliver the wrong message. Finally regarding myself: I'm charming to people I meet over the day; in the store, on the street, at my workplace. So much that I've ben called "someone who twists people around his finger" (translated German saying - don't know if that fits in English). But I dont "use" people and I'm very confident, that the people I met live a happier day after seeing me, because they always leave with a smile on their face that wasn't there before we met. It's not getting to something I wouldn't get otherwise. It's not exploitation. It's just being sociable and nice. There's nothing wrong in seducing someone into sharing a simple smile :-) ...and I'm happy having found D Jnsen s comment in contrast to the weird one that received 107 likes and 113 answers O_o

@afzalmansuri761

9 жыл бұрын

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@KongLuvs

9 жыл бұрын

Confidence and fearlessness have nothing to do with being conceited, manipulative, and self-serving. She advises being deceptive and fake in order to manipulate others. There isn't any way to put a positive spin on that. What she's describing isn't seduction; it's faking seduction.

Holy fuck that was the most awkward opening I've seen.

@missdemon92

7 жыл бұрын

Sean the Prawn the whole talk is awkward. seduction, arousal, shes weird

@missdemon92

7 жыл бұрын

***** i dont doubt shes a real good person irl. but this talk is weirder hhhh

@davidzapatadiaz6802

7 жыл бұрын

piero

@yeid674

7 жыл бұрын

Sean the Prawn I was looking for this comment lol

@tsambika2040

7 жыл бұрын

Cringe!!!

A financial system free from many of the burdens and pitfalls created by trusted intermediaries and powerful masters sounds like a beautiful future we should all want to usher in.

@chrismarmsk1970

2 жыл бұрын

The best to do with your money is to invest

@masonnoah8306

2 жыл бұрын

True though unfortunately mine always end with losses

@wellsdells8946

2 жыл бұрын

You do not really need someone to tell you how to invest your coins, you can make research on your own and trade with expert to guild you through

@masonnoah8306

2 жыл бұрын

I have heard of many brokers I do hope they can help me

@chrismarmsk1970

2 жыл бұрын

People are scared of investing because they are scared of been scammed of their hard earn money

No should always be interpreted to mean "no." Enthusiastic consent needs to be the priority.

for some people, this can be a promotion for sexual harassment. but for they WHO could see the beauty within, this is really fascinating, a deep interpretation of human energy, much more than sexuality. I think this is humanity, and the good news is we can use it for everyday lives.

@painismyfavoritecolor8927

2 жыл бұрын

I genuinely think people who express their desires probably have more control over them than countries which attempt to shape and mold their instincts (America)

@Dinora2911

2 жыл бұрын

If that how you understood it. I understood it as an attitude.

@kendragonn

Жыл бұрын

She does preface with it can be used for good or for bad

@souriryaz5504

Жыл бұрын

Harassment is not respectful , it says I want you whether you want me or not. But being charming is like an invitation, it says I like who you are and my door is open to you if you change your mind. There is a huge difference

so this woman wrote 1 book and now gives a TED Talk? they need quality control on TED Talks, even if it means less revenue, or else people will stop caring about TED talks.

@jessgee8373

9 жыл бұрын

LOL. Says the shirtless guy with no head. How many books have you written?

@HunkyBrit

9 жыл бұрын

Jess Gee bio2020 is just saying (if you can't understand plain English) that she shouldn't be on TED after only one book! What has him writing a book to do with this valid opinion? That's a bit of a snarky, facetious comment you made there. It doesn't change the appropriateness of what he said. Have another try! Was that the best you could do?

@TyCetto

9 жыл бұрын

So writing books is the access way to TED Talk...? I don't think so!

@billcalgary2

9 жыл бұрын

Jess Gee super funny and cynical of you but the guy has a point …

@destr0yed

9 жыл бұрын

That's one of seduction she had that succeed. So shut up.

Essentially, it's the power of charisma that gets you far in life (this may go hand-in-hand with the power of seduction)

Thank you Chen Lizra....i check in on this every once in awhile when i need to remember me.

Even though I didn't necessarily agree with what she was saying, I'm still amazed. Her level of self confidence is astounding. I can't even begin to imagine what that feels like, to be that sure of yourself and your image. I have respect for her based simply on that

@MrInventer80

2 жыл бұрын

what didn't you agree with, out of curiosity?

umm what hair products do u use gurl?

I had a blur idea of what Chen is saying but today only I understood the real meaning of word 'Seduction' in +ve sense in life. Indeed, she is abs right. She has clearly made me understand , what I was missing in life. Thanks Chen, hats off to you !

Fact is, after seeing this and wondering how great it would be to experience what Chen Lizra talks about, this feeling of desire publicly, and measuring how embarassing it would be makes the difference between our culture and theirs ...

Anybody with a powerpoint and a headset is an expert today

@arthurmurfitt7698

2 жыл бұрын

Precisely. We are each each other’s teacher.

She used the body language, dance and Cuba references as an analogy to seduction in its pure meaning, which is "enticing". That's why she mentioned many times that seduction is about knowing what a person wants, or presenting something in a way that makes it attractive to others. It's all about knowing what you've got and using it in its best way to get what you want. It's totally plausible to put this definition in a professional environment, exposing your ideas and projects, for example. I'm pretty sure that by "seducting" she didn't mean "dancing in someone's lap to get shit". When she said people should learn seduction in a young age, do you really think she said we should sexualize ourselves? Open your minds a little bit more. --'

@crystaldelacruz713

2 жыл бұрын

Love this!! I feel your spot on.

@clynefaylafable

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!🎉

@kaveri8888

Жыл бұрын

PERFECT

Wow! Im cuban and everything that she’s saying is so true! I miss my country so much 💔

I’ve watched a Ted talk everyday for the past year and this is one of the most powerful (aswell as being my favorite) by far.❤ The way she speaks The points she makes it’s all so 👌

"a no, that was a maybe, turns into a yes" and tens of years of feminism flush down into the toilet.

@TheSenija

3 жыл бұрын

Not even feminism, its Just wrong and harming by reinforcing the stereotypes. 'She said no but she really ment yes', ugh, I hate it 😑

@marcotognetti1047

3 жыл бұрын

In my humble opinion I think that, the "no"that turns into" maybe", that turn into "yes" is itself a form of sexism, and show us that sexism is in us, in all of us, man and woman.. No one would conceive a no, turning to maybe turning to yes, if we were free from sexism We would simply, once asked, answer what you really feel whether is yes or not... That "no" that the Cuban woman says in the story here, is not an real "no" but is based on a sexist cultural weight that we all have on us that manipulate our behaviour.. Maybe if sexism didn't exist she would have said "yes" as first answer.. Here is what they are talking about, the presenter said that cubans are able to read if a no is a real no, means they go over the first sexism barrier that doesn't allow that woman to say, at first, what she really feels.. Here we are not talking about, manipulating the others with mental strategies, harassing someone, or forcing someone to say yes, here we are just talking about reading between the lines using our inners senses, in that place where disparities and misconception don't exist, reading in that place not made from words, sexism, feminism, here we are talking about desire, and being passionate about life and this is a non verbal language that is not attached to human issues, and it go beyond our society cultural heritage. To me just reinforce the idea that feminism is necessary to make us live our own life as free people, and I didnt feel this video's message was going otherwise..

@rioninja_

3 жыл бұрын

@@marcotognetti1047 thank u for this text

@huntergrandt7879

3 жыл бұрын

@@marcotognetti1047 Yes you are absolutely correct. A woman saying no is also a fault of men.

@jameslincs

2 жыл бұрын

Men also say no that turns into a maybe that turns into a yes. Don’t ignore human nature or you’ll never understand anything. (I work in sales).

I wanted to see this is as a useful talk but no. She said that seduction is overly sexualized and then went on for 10 minutes focusing on sexualizing it. Well focus is a strong word because the talk seemed to lack focus. Just a lot of fluff about how you can have anything if you master the art, yet not telling you how to. Ok great, what now? Do I have to move to Cuba?

@PharociousArt

3 жыл бұрын

Probably wouldn't hurt to go to Cuba

@superjayman6

2 жыл бұрын

It reminds me of the KZread ads that say "You can become rich with these 3 EASY steps" then you check out the ad further and then it says "Pay us $3000 to learn these 3 steps". All Charlatans.

@garlandmcgee6368

2 жыл бұрын

@@superjayman6 I'm not knocking this, as one may spend one's time in whatever way one wants, but can you seriously teach something complex in 12 minutes?...Unless getting on a plane to a climate change threatened country and immersing myself in a culture is a simple matter. And I suppose I'd better start studying chicken coop videos to acclimate myself to the process. Ta-ta, oops, double entendre...Yuck

Imagine this same talk. ...but a guy doing it.

It seems fairly clear to me that if the goal is authentic and open engagement in life, seduction is neither necessary nor sufficient. To practice it as a means to open doors or gain power can be an introduction to meaningful interaction, but seduction cannot be that in and of itself. To use any form of power and avoid its inherent corrupting influence requires a discipline that most lack. Otherwise, the ability to push that button can come to own the button pusher.

@studenthebbare8149

Жыл бұрын

Apart from the discipline people also lack the ability to attract rather than be desperate

So, to save your 12 minutes I've conclude that there are four important elements needed to do the seductionn successfully : 1. DESIRE 2.. CONFIDENCE 3. BODY LANGUAGE 4. AROUSAL

@merinzoeverson9852

2 жыл бұрын

better than watching all the 'rumba' video , thanks !

@joshuamarks6175

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, adhd

@Dinora2911

2 жыл бұрын

And being able to express it. :)

@rm-jl8wy

2 жыл бұрын

Yes this can work very well for a beautiful and curvaceous 25 year old woman but for a homely and portly 60 year old man, not so much. 😁

@stephanietorres350

Жыл бұрын

@@rm-jl8wy if that's what you want to think

For the haters: Her whole point was that flirting is healthy if you approach it right and understand it. Getting attention from an attractive person feels good, doesn't it? Right. So now you understand.

@TheUndeceived

10 жыл бұрын

And yes the concept of flirting is what she used to prove the importance of seductiveness. However, I advise that we think about these TEDx talks a little deeper to receive the full benefit of their knowledge, by applying all of these topics to life in general. Seductive pretty much means extremely attractive. Kind of like when you can't take your eyes of something. Now the strength of seduction is all about the presentation, which is why she stated that it is like an art. We have to open our eyes to see that we are being seduced and are seducing as well every single day; at work, home, online, church, with family, friends, kids, everyone. Its not all sexual. See Americans tend to take things at face value, and never give it a second thought, which is very judgmental, unfortunately. That's called stereotyping...

@AdieuCoco

10 жыл бұрын

Yes both of you! What's interesting is that all these comments are about sex as advertising (or as used in advertising). She said off the top it was not about that. It also seems that point about learning yes from no from maybe was missed entirely.

Seduction in your speech is more like inspiration to passionate pursuit of something we love - it could be art, science, sports or culinary skills, or romance.

I danced Cuban salsa, rueda and rumba guaguanco for 3 years now, there’s something about it that makes you feel so confident. Didn’t know this ted talk would be the one to break it down. I know exactly what she’s talking about! 😱😱😱

@MVE872

Жыл бұрын

What is the name of the song at the beginning of the video????

The crowd was dead after that "seductive" dance lol *crickets*

@tbanks2633

2 жыл бұрын

😁

This rollercoaster of TED talks about flirting and loneliness and seduction and hot-apeing is killing the few social skills I had left. I just can't keep up with all that's being said, damn.

@sumiaziz6708

7 жыл бұрын

Music Films & Bastille story of my life but hey try everything and keep doing whatever works for you!

@olmcgal5700

7 жыл бұрын

Because most speaks are unready to make that speach...

@jashhadwilliams9550

6 жыл бұрын

Hot apeing 😂

@theredninja2817

6 жыл бұрын

Music Films & Bastille they're purposely trying to make you Fusion in the United States it started that way a long time ago with propaganda and now that the internet is flourishing propaganda of emotional confusion psychological confusion of the human body and men and women and how people should and could and possibly get along it's all about that just messing with people and turning them into cattle

@apachewraith

6 жыл бұрын

I'll save you babe. Let me get my cape.

Love listening to a ton of ted talks 💝

"Domine a arte da sedução e você terá tudo o que deseja na vida"

hmm ... I missed the part about how/why to implement the power of seduction in our everyday lives :-/

@hugodraws

7 жыл бұрын

Seduce using body language, harass and that persons desires to get what you want, show confidence and people will be more open, be the boy/girl you want, be your boss who you want to not hate you.

@genoaitaly7838

4 жыл бұрын

your photo says you didn't

Why does she look like Janice from F.R.I.E.N.D.S. ?

@Taylorkaraoke

8 жыл бұрын

OUH MY.... (you know..)

@owellhoot

8 жыл бұрын

+pooleroes GAWD! ehheheh

@ranijassi

8 жыл бұрын

oh my gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawd

@jackgoldman1

8 жыл бұрын

Both Jewish

@allaboutthatlip

8 жыл бұрын

yupp!!! hehehehe

Me encantó esta charla! Preciosa mujer, llena de carisma e iteligencia. Orgullosa de ser Cubana. Gracias ❤🙏🏽🌹

This was weird - straight up

Ads can harm your self-esteem. Maketing does not want you to be happy but to have the feeling that something is missing (and that they got what you need). This is the dark side of seduction.

For me she's using the word seduction to explain something way more complex as persuade. Using an urban word to try to explain how self confidence most of the time is the missing piece between wishing and getting...good talk. 👌

Amazingly powerful narrative with the most appropriate vocabulary, approach and delivery.

interesting, but wait: NO is NO!

ok everything she is talking about is fine if its at the beach or a nightclub. If you tried any of this at the workplace or at the grocery store then it becomes sexual harassment and you can criminally convicted. Seriously not many people going about their daily business want people around them trying to seduce them, what is the point of this talk?

@mimimaddyworld6517

4 жыл бұрын

If it works in Cuba or outside the US. Don't do.

@marflor5789

3 жыл бұрын

You’re right , but she said “often she’s visiting Cuba” Well I know people from Cuba living terrible 😞, so they know is the only way that they have ...

@SlyPsycho

3 жыл бұрын

Plus she's a woman. She has the luxury to talk this way cuz she's not the one who has something to lose in such a scenario.

@GODIAM-sy9qb

3 жыл бұрын

that is the thing: my impression is that there is no point of this talk. It confused and she appears to be the judge in her own case. It's all over the place and makes no greater sense.

@elshaikhmohamed8001

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

People who say this message doesen't make any sense....U didn't get anything of what she was saying. The idea she is carrying is just amazing .I have many things to think of since now.

@FuOnY

10 жыл бұрын

do u want play the game of seduction with me? i'm sure it will be just amazing

@melancholykiller

10 жыл бұрын

***** I see ur point .I can't completely agree with you though. I believe(as soon as I understood her), she treats seduction not only like the means of getting what u want,not only like the way of manipulation. She says that to be able to seduce someone,u have to be self-confident first,u have to love urself and believe in yourself enough to be able to accept your nature and be satisfied with just who u are,when you feel powerful,you can make others obey to ur power,when u are ready to keep on going without fear of failure ,without fear of being rejected-if u have all of this pieces of jigsaw puzzle put together,you are self-sufficient enough to seduce someone. It's not only about playing games,it's about necessity of self-belief,self-pride,about being accomplished. Don;t u agree?

@melancholykiller

9 жыл бұрын

***** "It's onto the next person who is willing to play along"..hmmm..well,I believe there are different ways to seduce (depending on what exactly u want to get from that one who u are attempting to seduce),that's why I think there is a big difference between "seducing" and "playing". If two people don;t mind ending somewhere in the bedroom ,then yeah, they just start " playing" with each other,to make "the game" more interesting and such a game won't last long,But anyways it is mutual consent Seducing is another thing.Of course,u can seduce instantly by getting naked or dancing striptease which would be simply to do,but the real power of seduction is to "get what the other person is missing and give it to them",to get into someone's head and heart ,to possess their thoughts,to learn them "from inside". Manipulating is to make ppl believe everything they do is their decision To be Seduced means to be tempted,means to lose ur head and not being able to resist,even if u realise the other person can use u.

@melancholykiller

9 жыл бұрын

***** |What do you think of my previous comment?

@melancholykiller

9 жыл бұрын

Anastasia Аre you neglecting me huh?)

That opening caught me off guard ✨️

She is the first person i ever seen to dance out of context and not be cringe

That begining is mad awkward.

@TheSk8anddestroy

10 жыл бұрын

youre mad awkward.

@MagnaThor

10 жыл бұрын

Hey shutuppp:[[[

@Florian-ur3vt

10 жыл бұрын

I kinda liked it ;) just being honest~

@LibertysetsquareJack

10 жыл бұрын

That's what makes it health....it's good to get that feeling once in a while

@richie9878

4 жыл бұрын

I had to skip it, it made me embarrassed for them

This speech is so wrong on many levels. She´s romanticizing a idyllic image that does not exists among Cubans.

@hblanco2009

10 жыл бұрын

Have you ever been in Cuba? You have no idea of what you're talking about. I'm Cuban and I know exactly what she meant. Get a flight ticket, (obviously, if you manage to get US permission to visit Cuba), go to Havana, spend a couple of weeks there and then, come back to drop some comments in this post.

This Ted Talk changed my life

Her voice mesmerizes me.

The instructive effectiveness of this is equivalent of a lecture on how to swim.

@blacktortoise6812

4 жыл бұрын

Good comparison.

Hahaha I didn't feel the seduction, it was really awkward

@user-eo4yi3uv5b

3 жыл бұрын

ME TOO..it was cringe

@Leeohlin89

2 жыл бұрын

You see gentlemen... it’s precisely that kind of tone and mental perspective that repels women from you. lol and makes sense. You’re here to understand the art because obviously being close minded with tiny egos hasn’t exactly won you the best of life’s offerings. lol

@shrisiva4016

2 жыл бұрын

@@Leeohlin89 A lot of wierd assumptions there lol

@lillymoon2086

2 жыл бұрын

@@Leeohlin89 god no, that was incredibly awkward sis. So forced and she is really fetishizing Latin American culture. Coming from a Latin American.

@gckbowers411

2 жыл бұрын

@@Leeohlin89 If this creepy works on you, I don't want to date you anyway.

Fearlessness of failure is something we all need!

I´m cuban, she is awesome and has drawn a perfect picture of that part of our reality

I clicked on this because she looked really angry that people weren't using the power of seduction in their everyday lives

It's sad to read, that a lot of people didn't get even slightest bit of her point

@linhdang7237

7 жыл бұрын

VG

@NN-fw5yg

7 жыл бұрын

BS

@LesterFD

7 жыл бұрын

Oh look who is talking to her mirror

@Iazzaboyce

7 жыл бұрын

So what did you 'get' 'her point' to be?

@LesterFD

7 жыл бұрын

Confidence and Success begins internally. Nobody can give you a feeling of inferiority without your permission. If you're damaged because of your childhood education you have to grow outside your comfort zone. So everyday you gotta do smt that scares you in order to grow. You are beautiful because you exist, nobody scales your beauty unless you expect them to do so. That applies to your body as also your mind. So just imagine yourself as the child, dancing around the people who love you and just feel loved, appreciated and sexy.

This just sounds like manipulation with extra steps

@milosmilic7253

3 жыл бұрын

in cuban rumba it's a two way relation, where both are aware of their qualities in and out and are also both self confident enough and well aware of what are they doing it has nothing to do with manipulation, manipulation is where one person is using other persons' vulnerabilities or lack of knowledge

@0Singularity0

3 жыл бұрын

@@milosmilic7253 first off, seduction is a subset of manipulation as both influence an individual’s behavior. Second, and most importantly, there’s no such thing as “cuban rumba” this is a term she made up after visiting a country and fetishizing their culture after a handful of interactions.

@0Singularity0

3 жыл бұрын

@@milosmilic7253 to clarify, cuban rumba is not a thing in the way she’s using it to generalize an entire culture but it is a very real dance

@milosmilic7253

3 жыл бұрын

@@0Singularity0 Rumba or guanaco in this case here is just an example of their interactions. It's real dance, but there is a story behind it. I don't understand your statement seduction is a subset of manipulation etc. There is always some kind of influence (even hidden on subconscious lvl) in human interaction.

best and life changing ted talk ever thank you so much

No advertising in Cuba? That sounds p e a c e f u l .

Seduction is one of the world's greatest misconception. I believe a lot more people would understand it's impact and importance better if people called it "super persuasion" instead. The ones who can use it effectively are the ones who will fulfill their dreams and hopes by bending people to their will. Creators like Steve Jobs and Bill Gates had this ability and not only bent people to their will but also the world and their future. The ones who commit to learn the art of seduction truly have the power to change the world.

@Florian-ur3vt

10 жыл бұрын

***** Seduction does not have to be sexual. The whole point of this video was to demonstrate that seduction could help people gain in other ways than just sexuality. Yes, the art of sexual seduction may seem shallow but implementing the same principles in business is what makes it productive. Seduction is a powerful tool that can be used for either shallow or beneficial purposes.

@Florian-ur3vt

10 жыл бұрын

Welsh Guy Yes that did happen. Although that was one of her examples, her point was that seduction can be used for other things as well. I wouldn't say her ted talk was shallow, but rather it is misleading and not structured well enough to get her message across

@Florian-ur3vt

10 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't say it like that lol

@concavius

10 жыл бұрын

Florian Melzer Then Lirzra would do well to use a dictionary every once and a while. "Seduction", in its most popular English vernacular, is a deliberate act to charm or persuade in a manner that is specifically _sexual_. Without that keyword, there's no need for the word to even exist. Whereas "seduction" is sometimes used synonymously with the more general terms charm or persuasion in a nonsexual way, this video is decidedly about the sexual mode from her examples of voice, body language, arousal, and flirtatious behavior. Ask yourself, what do you think the recipient expects the seducer is offering when she acts that way? Her platonic friendship? Her life advice? No, it's sex or something related to it, implicit or explicit. If that's the seducer's actual goal to begin with then that's fine, but Lizra's description of seduction as a power to be used in everyday life to "build connections" implies its use outside of that purpose "to get anything". In other words, use the lure of sex to get things you want. That's her message regardless of how metaphorically she flowers her speech with talk of empowerment. According to Lizra, the trick is to know how to use seduction and when. Note how she doesn't answer _why_.

@Florian-ur3vt

10 жыл бұрын

Sylis Vandomeur I think you have a point and I also think her ted talk was not structured correctly to convey her actual point. It's ambiguous because of her "flowery language" whether or not she really is referring to getting things through "sexual acts" or not. She might have been dancing in a "sexual" way but it is ambiguous whether she is using this as an example of seduction as in persuasion to catch her audience's attention or if she is making a statement and telling people to get the things they want with sexual endeavors.

also, read The Power of Seduction. such a great book about it

Awesome job. This resonates and was what I needed to hear.

"seduction leads to self-confidence, and self-confidence leads to success" Wonderfully concluded, though it can be seen as potentially malicious if we forget at 3:02 where she says, "it comes down to who you are inside."

@ismschism5176

8 жыл бұрын

+Kay Swizzle While I agree with her words, she then spreads her arms, looks down at her garb as if presenting that as "classy." For all-I-know it could've been stolen - from a knock-off store.

her hair looks amazing 😍

@davidk.courtneysr.5332

6 жыл бұрын

CHANELL BARBIIE, I think she stands in front of her dance studio mirrors or her bathroom mirror seductively dancing as she sprays 7 cans of Vidal Sassoon on her hair, 2 cans at a time, and Seduces and teases her hair for 7 grueling hours, the hair becomes aroused, stemulated, then stiffened, then sedated in olive oil, with a pinch of Jasmine on top for 70min, as a result it grows up to 7 inches a year. Try it Chanell, all you have to do is convince yourself your worth it!...

@tstarcher2001

6 жыл бұрын

I know, right? I spent a lot of his video wondering how she got that volume!

@emem2863

6 жыл бұрын

Tammy Starcher She has naturally thick very curly hair. If you blow it out without chemical straightening, it will have great volume like that.

@eyesofitachi55

4 жыл бұрын

lol sigh

@d0cn0tes

4 жыл бұрын

Even if she bought half her hair, it's still hers, right?

Keeping the 'maybe' alive is the skill of presenting potential possibilities and then fuelling them with desire. - Well said.

"Seduction" is SO much more subtle than what this apprentice says...