THE POWER OF NOT BEING AFRAID TO BE ALONE ‼️

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  • @natashalampkin366
    @natashalampkin36611 күн бұрын

    The older you get the more peace you want in your life.That requires being alone sometimes

  • @MyBrooklynLife718

    @MyBrooklynLife718

    10 күн бұрын

    Facts 💯

  • @naturalqueenm

    @naturalqueenm

    6 күн бұрын

    💯

  • @jimb3093
    @jimb309311 күн бұрын

    I’m alone a lot. 51, Single man, no kids. I miss intimacy but I don’t want to go through the hassle lol! I focus on the blessings and positive side.

  • @Azeral7

    @Azeral7

    11 күн бұрын

    Dang you're living the dream

  • @sugershane420

    @sugershane420

    11 күн бұрын

    40 thinking the same

  • @gregbuze9143

    @gregbuze9143

    11 күн бұрын

    I'm 53 and divorced twice !! I Definitely feel that

  • @InterstateremovalsAuFurniture

    @InterstateremovalsAuFurniture

    11 күн бұрын

    Get a dog and you will always have a loyal friend. They are a responsibility so please be aware, get more masculine energy...a female craves intimacy a man misses sex.

  • @brian8830

    @brian8830

    11 күн бұрын

    I'm 50, and single, no kids, and feel like you, but I don't miss anything. I'm good!

  • @TheJereld
    @TheJereld11 күн бұрын

    Me being single and not sexually active for years feels more like a superpower. Takes time to see it that way.

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v
    @user-bp9xp9ev5v11 күн бұрын

    I love being alone, I am naturally an introvert and I hate being in crowds

  • @iveyhealth2266

    @iveyhealth2266

    7 күн бұрын

    Facts 😊

  • @THF409
    @THF40911 күн бұрын

    My wife passed away back in September 1995 and I been alone for almost 30 years with no children.

  • @shermanbailey3276
    @shermanbailey327611 күн бұрын

    Ain't No TEAM in the world better than TEAM ME !!!! 💯 LONE WOLF HERE ..

  • @rastafit23

    @rastafit23

    11 күн бұрын

    💪🏾💪🏾🦁 team me

  • @MrBronze71
    @MrBronze7111 күн бұрын

    Got sick with Chron's disease 6 years ago. Quarantine to a room 128 days with nurses and staff !!!! Brothers and sisters and even my momma turned they back and left me for dead!!!! This is the time they were waiting on because they are weak people and God made me stronger than them. I laid there days and many lonely night walking the hallways !!!! I learn to LOVE and be my best friend !!!! And I wouldnt trade those 128 days for nothing. Cause it made me stronger than I ever been in Life..... 52 years young and SOLO DOLO ,😂😂😂

  • @GrandChamp251

    @GrandChamp251

    11 күн бұрын

    🙏🏾❤💪🏾

  • @melissamiller3345

    @melissamiller3345

    10 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm happy that it made you even stronger💪

  • @teetoo3790

    @teetoo3790

    5 күн бұрын

    You find out who your really friends are in the darkest times.

  • @iveyhealth2266
    @iveyhealth22667 күн бұрын

    Facts!!! The further I stay away from people, the better I am. I have Peace & Tranquility 😊

  • @missa1goins
    @missa1goins11 күн бұрын

    Its easy to FOCUS on goals when I'm alone, absolutely no distractions.

  • @davidpaulk785
    @davidpaulk78511 күн бұрын

    Coming home to a quiet and empty home is beautiful. I like people in small doses. I spend 95-98% of my time alone. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" and " familiarity breeds contempt".

  • @jjholl00
    @jjholl009 күн бұрын

    I learned this years ago. Yes, sometimes I miss intimacy and sex but it passes. Keep your focus on God... Matthew 22:36-40... "you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandant"

  • @ceeceejones276
    @ceeceejones27611 күн бұрын

    im a 25 year old female loner and im happier than ever

  • @rvilla4257

    @rvilla4257

    9 күн бұрын

    Wait until you are 30

  • @uzibitch1

    @uzibitch1

    5 күн бұрын

    ​@@rvilla4257 I'm 32 male. Same sentiment

  • @juliavickers3295
    @juliavickers329511 күн бұрын

    Being lonely is better than being f over wow thats a word PREACH!

  • @valeriemartin9707
    @valeriemartin970711 күн бұрын

    And my life is so peaceful.

  • @sweetstl8160
    @sweetstl816011 күн бұрын

    I tell people all the time.its ok to be alone.Most people don't know themselves.But I will never give up on a relationship

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c11 күн бұрын

    I'm alone 24/7.

  • @woke72
    @woke7210 күн бұрын

    Better to ride it on your own than to be fake.

  • @haitiqueen0119
    @haitiqueen01199 күн бұрын

    Being alone is definitely a very powerful feeling however makes one a target to very toxic envious narcissistic types of individuals. Majority have not mastered being alone and happy so when you're one who does, makes others around very envious. Makes no sense either way but all too common with many.

  • @pinkrose4322

    @pinkrose4322

    7 күн бұрын

    I've noticed that. Why are some people so bothered by people being content alone?

  • @Zaythegeniuss
    @Zaythegeniuss11 күн бұрын

    I’m always alone, most of the time and have no problem with it

  • @thmoney25
    @thmoney2511 күн бұрын

    I am 42 single wirh no children. I've been married before but I'm divorced. I love being alone so much that It scares me sometimes, lol 😆. The peace and clear thoughts that I can have. I'm working on my mind, body, and bank account❤. Be blessed

  • @MyBrooklynLife718

    @MyBrooklynLife718

    10 күн бұрын

    How are you Miss 1982 lol? I’m in the same boat as you but I never married. Let me ask you this, even though you love being alone do you now believe that maybe you were the problem because you know how that saying goes “women are never satisfied”

  • @iveyhealth2266

    @iveyhealth2266

    7 күн бұрын

    You're not wrong for enjoying your peace. 😊

  • @oldheadtv3152
    @oldheadtv315211 күн бұрын

    It's peaceful being alone. Being an only child prepared me for this. I dont like people in my space. I like dates that go home. I will see you when I see you.

  • @missa1goins

    @missa1goins

    11 күн бұрын

    For real though! My peace means so much to me and I let that be known to everyone. I used to host family functions at my house, now it's wake up exercise work home. Peaceful and relaxing.

  • @knowledgeseeker4116

    @knowledgeseeker4116

    6 күн бұрын

    Me too definitely. I really absolutely enjoy my own company. The challenge for me is in the work setting…..even when you do solo jobs people still love to want to get together for ANY occasion at work and that’s not my preference and when they see this they take offense and start attacking and judging….so be it 😊 I’ll work on finding peace anyway. Working on my inner peace at the job sites. 🙏🏿

  • @user-td4ys2pv7p
    @user-td4ys2pv7p11 күн бұрын

    I hibernate like a bear with no interruptions is the best!waking up productively getting shit done is the way!

  • @iveyhealth2266

    @iveyhealth2266

    7 күн бұрын

    Truth!

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k11 күн бұрын

    Being alone 8 years the best fee😅ling

  • @MIKE-mn2mh
    @MIKE-mn2mh11 күн бұрын

    I’m happy being alone it’s a great sense of freedom

  • @MatrixEdit
    @MatrixEdit11 күн бұрын

    The real test is if you can be alone without any stimulation. No media, no drinking, no smoking. Learn to be content with ZERO and you have won

  • @freespirit-111

    @freespirit-111

    10 күн бұрын

    I agree. Being alone without the need to engage in self destructive behaviors. That’s the key.. I sit still. Allow yourself to feel everything without thinking that the answer is external.

  • @MatrixEdit

    @MatrixEdit

    10 күн бұрын

    It's hard and that's by design because all creatures need stimulation I imagine

  • @uzibitch1

    @uzibitch1

    5 күн бұрын

    You don't have to starve yourself of any pleasure to "win."

  • @Ejs226
    @Ejs22611 күн бұрын

    Having Qucci on silver platter and still saying no is different. I can’t believe how much money I’ve been saving since I’ve been single

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    11 күн бұрын

    The worst decision I ever made was getting into a relationship, I lost so much money being in relationships.

  • @MichaelJordan-gj1uo
    @MichaelJordan-gj1uo11 күн бұрын

    Im dolo doing great , No arguing , Attitude , disrespectful BS! Like Doctor B.O.A - It's my way or no way & No way is Okay. Peace 🙏 is priceless 💓

  • @joybowser5156
    @joybowser515610 күн бұрын

    PEACE in being alone, not Lonely!

  • @juanpelota8103
    @juanpelota810311 күн бұрын

    I got a dog instead of a girlfriend last year may. I Can’t believe how much my life has changed for the better.

  • @natashalampkin366
    @natashalampkin36611 күн бұрын

    Yes it’s no love at all it’s the scary feeling of being alone have abandonment issues

  • @azelin.original
    @azelin.original11 күн бұрын

    💯💯💯🗣️ say it louder for the people in the back!! Straight facts! ❤️ I'm grateful to have learned this at a young age, I’ve dodged many bullets because of it! 💎💎💎💎 peace of mind is top priority

  • @BeatEngine-qr7if
    @BeatEngine-qr7if10 күн бұрын

    The problem with our people is we so GUNG HO on being POPULAR from when we are KIDS that many of the youth actively avoid being by themselves, thus avoid learning to be by themselves. Even when I was in junior high in the early 2000s I would still hang out by myself even if I was hanging with friends earlier in the day. After school we would hang out but afterwards later in the evening I would still explore the city. By 21 I already had several places in the city I was familiar with, date spots, arcades, etc. which is always a conversation piece.

  • @pinkrose4322

    @pinkrose4322

    7 күн бұрын

    True.

  • @sugershane420
    @sugershane42011 күн бұрын

    Let’s goo I needed this today

  • @jamessutton9874
    @jamessutton987411 күн бұрын

    I am learning to be alone, it looks like that's what it's going to be. I am a people pleaser which I have learned. I have to fight the urge to not go around people who never come around to see me. After awhile I get tired of the feeling that people want visit or call me. I am accepting the fact that this is it, sooo being alone is starting to be rewarding.

  • @missa1goins

    @missa1goins

    11 күн бұрын

    It will take some time getting use to it, coming from a social life It can be an adjustment. I had a few fears they were all short lived. It's different from.person to person.

  • @theresamurphy6554
    @theresamurphy655410 күн бұрын

    Not just alone as well as starting over

  • @Uknown291
    @Uknown29111 күн бұрын

    love being alone best feeling in the world

  • @thecreditcousin9406
    @thecreditcousin940611 күн бұрын

    Big Ward, The economy isnt doing bad, it's the people that dont save and spend every dollar that they make,this is the time to STOP spending. They are the ones doing bad, thanking you going to make it with one job. Ecclesiastes chapter 3, talks about a time for everything.Love the videos. Keep grinding.. Be Blessed!!

  • @pinkrose4322
    @pinkrose43227 күн бұрын

    Yup. You're telling the truth. You must be good with being by yourself. It's a must.

  • @user-wv1pz5di3p
    @user-wv1pz5di3p11 күн бұрын

    Preach preacha 🤣

  • @agsoundz3011
    @agsoundz301111 күн бұрын

    Big ward the O.G, always sharing game 💯 Manners and respect from 🇬🇧

  • @daquanwilliams740
    @daquanwilliams74011 күн бұрын

    No cap I got so much respect for u thank you man. You told me so much more than my father could ever teach me just by looking at KZread Dog keep doing it, bro no disrespect when I say Dog.

  • @coltonkruse6474
    @coltonkruse647410 күн бұрын

    I’m terrified of NOT being alone

  • @haroldwilliams2804
    @haroldwilliams280411 күн бұрын

    Facts BIG WARD you getting me through the bullshitt I walked away from 304 was talking care of family no value or respect for a man doing right appreciate you brother

  • @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    @user-bp9xp9ev5v

    11 күн бұрын

    I just got rid of a crazy baby momma and I have never been better or happier.

  • @HankWilliams-nw5ee
    @HankWilliams-nw5ee11 күн бұрын

    A PERSON CAN OLY TAKE SO MUCH..10000000 OTHER FEMALS...

  • @kezgrady9609
    @kezgrady960911 күн бұрын

    Talk Big Mane talk! 👊

  • @smh6016
    @smh601611 күн бұрын

    Straight!!

  • @fitlife1205
    @fitlife120511 күн бұрын

    REALIST shit ever!!!!! I feel bad for ppl who need external validation bc of loneliness, the amount of peace of being alone is incredible, I don’t care to be around a soul but my kids

  • @agjones1482
    @agjones148211 күн бұрын

    this.came.at.right.time...had.to.break.up.wit.my.girl..cu.she.wanna.b Alpha 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @lindafeggans7934
    @lindafeggans793410 күн бұрын

    I agree with you

  • @pamelariley6694
    @pamelariley669410 күн бұрын

    A sign of stength.

  • @pinkrose4322

    @pinkrose4322

    7 күн бұрын

    Yes, it is. Very powerful.

  • @pinkrose4322
    @pinkrose43227 күн бұрын

    Not Willie Earl. 😂😂😂😂

  • @Bidenvoterguy
    @Bidenvoterguy11 күн бұрын

    Im in my soft guy era😂 44.no kids or.wife

  • @MR-yi7ng
    @MR-yi7ng11 күн бұрын

    I see you getting leaner. Stay in good spirits, and keep up that positive energy! 💪

  • @CaliforniaPrideMDCCCL
    @CaliforniaPrideMDCCCL10 күн бұрын

    I love your videos man! You're experiences and wisdom that have come from them is far better to watch then the useless content on TV or elsewhere. Keep up the good work!

  • @bigrocko2731
    @bigrocko27319 күн бұрын

    Definitely needed to hear this! 💯

  • @imto5
    @imto56 күн бұрын

    Pimpin ken wrote 48 laws of power😭😭

  • @HighlyFavored2429
    @HighlyFavored242911 күн бұрын

    Being alone is okay, but I want someone to share the good and the bad times with. Like my homies say im a LOVER.

  • @mnnetwork3877
    @mnnetwork387710 күн бұрын

    I’m the only child , just another day to me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @3187stretch
    @3187stretch11 күн бұрын

    Thanks big ward, your videos always hit

  • @lorieharris1752
    @lorieharris17527 күн бұрын

    " it is not good for a man to be alone" Bible says.. humans are not meant to be alone, not the type of alone that makes u feel alone. It's different to be independent and have me time but that doesn't equate to isolate or force yourself to be okay being single

  • @_earlywave
    @_earlywave10 күн бұрын

    Big ward preach !!!

  • @Drewcat07
    @Drewcat0710 күн бұрын

    I’ve even tried emphasizing this to my woman. She just don’t seem to understand the concept of being good with being alone. There’s a difference between being alone and being lonely!

  • @GssssssssUp
    @GssssssssUp11 күн бұрын

    It's OK to be a #Wolf

  • @athenajoy1455
    @athenajoy145511 күн бұрын

    Naw I’m good.. it’s crazy outside I see 👀 spooky too 😂

  • @royharris5314
    @royharris531410 күн бұрын

    Straight $$ HOMMIE!!!!!!

  • @SimplyTae.
    @SimplyTae.10 күн бұрын

    I love the power series BIG WARD keep em coming🔥💯

  • @glennparks3194
    @glennparks319411 күн бұрын

    Brother Ward you inspire me and my brother we have a Podcast also R ERA Podcast and we speak the real and it feels great we not making money but we love speaking our opinions we gonna keep grinding but I definitely support your realness 💪🏾💯

  • @gtube04
    @gtube0411 күн бұрын

    True Sigma trait

  • @Maxamillion-ko5cl
    @Maxamillion-ko5cl11 күн бұрын

    Respect Big Ward!

  • @twinpyramid5985
    @twinpyramid598511 күн бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @brianbeeks9890
    @brianbeeks98904 күн бұрын

    Hey Big Ward, love the videos. If you wrote a book about your version of 48 laws of power.. I’m interested and I’m sure others would be interested in that as well. All love 💯

  • @EzraIsrael-cb4st
    @EzraIsrael-cb4st11 күн бұрын

    HUGGY BEAR 🐻 YOU BEEN IN THE WORLD OVER 50 YEARS NOT HOMELESS UNEMPLOYED OR INCARCERATED KEEP THE BATTLE FOR VICTORY AND NEVER GIVE UP TOO MANY PEOPLE HAVE THROWN IN THE TOWEL BEFORE THE END RESULT LOSING GIVES NO REWARDS

  • @RonGlaze
    @RonGlaze11 күн бұрын

    His azz a real Gemini♊️…

  • @lorieharris1752
    @lorieharris17527 күн бұрын

    Funny how happily married ppl I never hear them trying to advice ppl to learn to be alone.. find positive ppl to support u and a compatible partner somehow I wouldn't settle being alone.. but not settle for toxicity either.. there is a balance..

  • @sugershane420
    @sugershane42011 күн бұрын

    Love being first and your views

  • @Groux504
    @Groux50411 күн бұрын

    Get an APU on your next Rig BigW. So you can cut thr engine off and u the APU

  • @selflessman
    @selflessman11 күн бұрын

    I seldom quote a White person, or anything that's not in the Bible. But this following quote resonated with me: "I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."-Robin Williams. I had to tell a homie this Robin Williams quote last year when I was in town for the Holidays, because he kept telling me I should get a girlfriend, or a wife, as if that's always been easy to do, especially these days. He talks this way because he finally got a girlfriend for the first time in years, and he finally got that big house, which is how he got that girl. Not he feels like he can say anything. The last time he called me, which was recently, he said he married that girl. Btw, he fits that description to the T, as someone who lets every woman know he's weak being alone. And as a result, his wife talks to him anyway she wants. I saw that starting to get to him later, but I see he married her anyway. When I spoke to him recently, when he told me he married that girl, he still continued telling me I should get a girl. Even his girl once told him, "shut up", after hearing him tell me that before. Even after telling him that Robin Williams quote when I was in town, and even after telling him some of the things you mentioned in your video, including being single over being with somebody that makes you miserable, and how I didn't want to be in that situation, he still can't seem to stop telling me I should get a girl, or get married. It's starting to sound more and more like a mental problem. Instead of just telling him not to worry about me, I told him, "If you don't know a decent girl to turn me on to, than don't worry about me". Plus he's that type who likes for you to listen to him, why he cuts you off every 10 seconds. I got on him about that too. We wound up practically hanging up on each other...and I'm good with that...getting too old for the nonsense. I feel like there's only a few people on this planet that are use to being alone like me, especially after I relocated. Plus I was only in two long term relationships, not including my daughters mother when I was 19. But I had a lot of short term girlfriends. It didn't come over night, but I learned to be very content with being alone, except when certain people continue to open their big mouths, like that soon to be ex-buddy...if he ain't already.

  • @tomuchofit88
    @tomuchofit8811 күн бұрын

    Tru story 📖

  • @1Billyon
    @1Billyon11 күн бұрын

    I feel you bro!!💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯

  • @natashalampkin366
    @natashalampkin36611 күн бұрын

    Willie Earl😂😂😂

  • @Bakerboi1000
    @Bakerboi100011 күн бұрын

    Amen🥂💯

  • @DarneIITV
    @DarneIITV10 күн бұрын

    🤙🏽💯

  • @lindalewis8001
    @lindalewis800111 күн бұрын

    Hey bro how are you doing I am well watching replay great advice wisdom channel is growing almost at 50k wow thanks for sharing blessings ❤️

  • @TLW369
    @TLW36911 күн бұрын

    ♥️👏

  • @easterwylie9040
    @easterwylie904011 күн бұрын

    🎯👋🏽

  • @shanellgriffin4262
    @shanellgriffin426210 күн бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯

  • @Gpshow90
    @Gpshow9011 күн бұрын

    Thanks big ward you encourage me. To start my channel thanks

  • @danielleharding6436
    @danielleharding643611 күн бұрын

    FOURTH!😊🎉

  • @onthedubba
    @onthedubba5 күн бұрын

    Be alone for the rest of my life or put up with shit? That's a tough one haha.

  • @Mimi600
    @Mimi60011 күн бұрын

    Lol not the Dec... 😂

  • @601madejay2
    @601madejay210 күн бұрын

    Wassup big ward this off topic but what advice do you have for someone that’s 20 out the military have a CDL & TWIC card but still feel behind cause of the work drought

  • @jakimbarnes3323
    @jakimbarnes332310 күн бұрын

    Yo Big Ward. What kind of camera do you use?

  • @HighlyFavored2429
    @HighlyFavored242911 күн бұрын

    Also i, just dont want to be alone, lets watch harry potter , lets order wing stop and vibe . I want a mate not a body, ive had bodys and og ward you telling it real

  • @talking2388
    @talking238811 күн бұрын

    I know I am strong but sometimes I need someone to tell me they love me or need me . And I want them to say the same thing to me. Even if it is a lie.

  • @natashalampkin366

    @natashalampkin366

    11 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @Jmelpegues
    @Jmelpegues11 күн бұрын

    I have a question need people advice on this. I’m in a relationship we aren’t living together currently planning on moving together what’s crazy is we only have sex once a month. Like maybe she doesn’t desire me hell the way I feel no woman desires me I make close to 4k a month around $870 a week I make more then her yet in that department we barley do anything. Should I leave and say the hell with women because I’ve also been used and cheated on in every relationship I’ve ever been in I’m giving her the benefit of the doubt but I doubt she’s being faithful. Like I said I feel like no woman wants me like that at this moment even if I make more then my manager at my part time job

  • @HighlyFavored2429

    @HighlyFavored2429

    11 күн бұрын

    How old are both of yall?

  • @Iondodet

    @Iondodet

    10 күн бұрын

    @@HighlyFavored2429he might just be a doormat or a pushover

  • @Jmelpegues

    @Jmelpegues

    10 күн бұрын

    @@HighlyFavored2429I’m 38 she’s 24

  • @Jmelpegues

    @Jmelpegues

    10 күн бұрын

    @@Iondodeta look I’m 38 I’m getting old no woman has interest in I might as well be a push over or whatever then alone I’d kill myself I did that for 4 years and I was miserable as fuck

  • @mariobx7186
    @mariobx718611 күн бұрын

    Can some one explain to me why is not good for a man to be alone 😕

  • @jimb3093

    @jimb3093

    11 күн бұрын

    I assume since the Bible says it. Adam needed a help mate.

  • @bryanbrown8701

    @bryanbrown8701

    11 күн бұрын

    I think it is for this day and time just travel

  • @mariobx7186

    @mariobx7186

    11 күн бұрын

    @@bryanbrown8701 😕🤔huh ?

  • @kelvinlowe2245
    @kelvinlowe224511 күн бұрын

    Blacks for Biden 2024

  • @XXX-eu8lb
    @XXX-eu8lb11 күн бұрын

    Never love being the center of attention. Those around you are secretly wishing and planning for your downfall.

  • @IOSeven
    @IOSeven3 күн бұрын

    Preach preacher 😂