The Only Thing That Matters is What You Actually Do

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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* Stop thinking, stop planning, start doing the work
* People don’t care about what you say, they care about what you do
* Life is too short to NOT take action
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  • @JaneileCudjoe
    @JaneileCudjoe7 ай бұрын

    I don't usually comment. I'm a woman and this message rings true for us too. I'm sitting here stunned because I'm super guilty/convicted. I'm always looking up ways to plan, productivity hacks, etc. But actually doing it? I can always find an excuse. And it has made me very unhappy with myself. My words for 2024 will be Discipline and Consistency. But I'm working on it now. I have to be wiling to make the sacrifice, even when I don't feel like it, and whether or not I have the support of others. Thank you for the kick in the butt today. Let's get to work!

  • @johnp7739

    @johnp7739

    7 ай бұрын

    Very true. 40 years ago all you had were self-improvement books and an occasional seminar in your town. Now you can watch self-improvement videos all day and enroll in online courses and get nothing done.

  • @tinamenzie4579

    @tinamenzie4579

    7 ай бұрын

    I also resonated with this message. Discomfort is now my friend. Discipline speaks!

  • @mrschris9521

    @mrschris9521

    7 ай бұрын

    Yep ~ my hubz actually turned me onto this site 👍

  • @gilbertmata3335

    @gilbertmata3335

    7 ай бұрын

    Stay with it.

  • @ivanr4300

    @ivanr4300

    7 ай бұрын

    Don’t wait for 2024, start today or tomorrow.

  • @acegoddin8981
    @acegoddin89817 ай бұрын

    “The magic is in the work” Just do it!!!

  • @aufoslab

    @aufoslab

    6 ай бұрын

    u do it

  • @trusailietazperlinski4717

    @trusailietazperlinski4717

    6 ай бұрын

    Finally, white lightening.. he was miserable, but what he did in fact love. Ohh my MEEENNN🏃‍♀️Incoming coming down the line 🪄

  • @hdk11
    @hdk116 ай бұрын

    Do what you know you should be doing, whether you feel like it or not. Self discipline is controlling your emotions

  • @aufoslab

    @aufoslab

    6 ай бұрын

    im bored

  • @wherezthebeef

    @wherezthebeef

    6 ай бұрын

    Well said. Don't forget 'impulse control'.

  • @alvindueck2104

    @alvindueck2104

    6 ай бұрын

    I SUCK at self discipline.

  • @markflores9055

    @markflores9055

    6 ай бұрын

    Which is considered manly behavior, Because it is!

  • @fisherman805lopez76

    @fisherman805lopez76

    6 ай бұрын

    Feelings are not realistic

  • @andrij.demianczuk
    @andrij.demianczuk6 ай бұрын

    Best quote I’ve heard recently “Show up for your life, man”. That one hits me every morning when I wake up and get ready to be a part of this world and do my part. Let’s create a nation of builders.

  • @davidbooher5559

    @davidbooher5559

    6 ай бұрын

    Your life is YOUR fault !

  • @tylerjones14

    @tylerjones14

    5 ай бұрын

    I like this

  • @klosnj11
    @klosnj117 ай бұрын

    In the Discourses of Epictetus, a Roman slave/stoci philosopher, he talks about advising an athlete who was supposed to be working out. Epictetus says "show me your shoulders" and the athlete replies with "here, take a look at the weights I have." The philosopher responds "I am more interested to see the results of the weights." The Athlete replies, "but here, look at this book on working out I have read." The philosopher basically responds with "either show be the effects of the work or be gone. I have no interest in the tools of the work, but the work itself." These are lessons that have been reiterated for thousands of years, and yet people still forget. Keep up the good work.

  • @ravenomega2443
    @ravenomega24437 ай бұрын

    "Go Do The Thing" I'm putting that on a T Shirt. I'll send you one

  • @liquidpebbles
    @liquidpebbles7 ай бұрын

    Agreed. Taking total responsibility for your life is the only sane way to approach life.

  • @aufoslab

    @aufoslab

    6 ай бұрын

    best way is to not approach it

  • @JasonCodreanu

    @JasonCodreanu

    6 ай бұрын

    I hope you picked the right parents, because genetics determine most of this life you're "totally responsible" for.

  • @kuya.jwall23
    @kuya.jwall235 ай бұрын

    Listened to this while cleaning my room. I know it’s a small thing, but I hope finally cleaning my room snowballs into bigger change. I need the change in my life now. I hope everyone who sees this gets motivated to just start doing it, and I look forward to what the future holds for me and you all. Stay blessed.

  • @Essexkiwi
    @Essexkiwi7 ай бұрын

    You are so right, we tend to procrastinate, thinking about doing, talking about doing , instead of actually doing. I know I personally read a lot, talk a lot, think a lot , and actually do very little. The old saying “ action speaks louder than words “ is so true.

  • @Urlacher2354

    @Urlacher2354

    7 ай бұрын

    Was the guy you had a conversation with that delivered your wood products a UPS driver? 🤔 Just wondering because I am a UPS driver myself

  • @RebuildRetreat
    @RebuildRetreat6 ай бұрын

    My Dad always told me "make the most of what you have", being any situation. That's resonated throughout life for me. But I have been worried about getting busier with more work demands and activities. But if only what I DO is a good thing and I can look at it more positively. Thank you 🎉

  • @Novastar.SaberCombat

    @Novastar.SaberCombat

    6 ай бұрын

    Discipline. Consistency. Deadlines. Creativity. Reflection. Repeat. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

  • @fisherman805lopez76

    @fisherman805lopez76

    6 ай бұрын

    True but if it's ruin health and family change is possible we have choices and that's blessing to be able to make choices to make change to be alone not to be stuck .

  • @McHagis1234
    @McHagis12347 ай бұрын

    Words are just words until action actually starts, and actions speak louder than words, but at the same time words speak louder than actions because sometimes it’s the right thing to do.

  • @forthebigwin

    @forthebigwin

    6 ай бұрын

    "Very cool" Nice reference lmao

  • @TrishCanyon8
    @TrishCanyon87 ай бұрын

    I'm a female but I love this channel's message and I love real men. I'm trying to be a better woman too. Thank you.❤

  • @susanwjoh0re735

    @susanwjoh0re735

    6 ай бұрын

    a "real" man today would simply be a sucker for feminists. as a man, do whatever the hell you want.

  • @Sapple.
    @Sapple.7 ай бұрын

    I dont know if the KZread algorithm is reading my mind but this video was what I needed litteraly this moment. I've been contemplating stating a business and have been learning and watching videos for almost year on how to do it, but I just didn't feel like starting it. Thanks for this message, and I hope anyone reading this will start what they have been thinking about right now. Btw I am only 16

  • @edwordwretch3419

    @edwordwretch3419

    6 ай бұрын

    no we r not reading ur mind..we are becoming ur mind....words and frequency have a conscious spiritual being behind them..all of these things u r letting into your Minds (brain, heart, bowels) and we then are able to place thoughts that u think are urs because we are in you...the Producer also know as the Creator wants ur temple but we need it for the infinite eternal power within you so we occupy your mind with worthless temporal vanity...-AL

  • @loft006

    @loft006

    6 ай бұрын

    Try feeling the same way dude and be 56 years old like me. Im excited to start but im full of regret that I didnt start earlier in life.

  • @ramsyrama

    @ramsyrama

    6 ай бұрын

    It's never too late just take the first step@@loft006

  • @markflores9055

    @markflores9055

    6 ай бұрын

    Do it!

  • @whitediver45
    @whitediver457 ай бұрын

    Great video brother. " Do what you can, with what you've got, where you are". - Theodore Roosevelt I'll remember that and share it. Thank you.

  • @bremlquan

    @bremlquan

    7 ай бұрын

    ....and consider why you have what you have, within this intergenerational human economy

  • @whitediver45

    @whitediver45

    7 ай бұрын

    @@bremlquan I have what I have because I worked my ass off for 26 years . My father was a convict and drug addict. Lot of intergenerational benefits there.

  • @ryder8646

    @ryder8646

    6 ай бұрын

    @@bremlquan dry your tears friend, my father was just as much a loser as yours was your race isn't why your life sucks

  • @anthonyharris7086
    @anthonyharris70864 ай бұрын

    More voices like yours, in today's world, are greatly needed and appreciated brother. Thank you.

  • @sulmanb
    @sulmanb6 ай бұрын

    Thanks man this is the kick in the ass I needed; no fluff right to the damn point. When you said “our kids need us to work”, it really touched a nerve in my soul ..thank you

  • @mrschris9521
    @mrschris95217 ай бұрын

    THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE MY HUSBAND EVER HAD ME LISTEN TO ♥️ We women can learn so much from you Men. Thank you!! I have now subscribed to your channel 😁 The whole world could benefit from this video. Expecting more from our sons is needed by me. Beautiful message. Real Men Rock!!

  • @Crockenstock-hj4uj
    @Crockenstock-hj4uj6 ай бұрын

    You're 100% about doing, that's the thing that separates the successful from the dreamers. Until two and a half years ago I was a dreamer. When I shifted into doing mode, I am now less than two years from being financially independent and that's if I keep at my same pace. Do, stop talking and take action. It pays.

  • @RetireandGo

    @RetireandGo

    6 ай бұрын

    Well said Procrastinating is another issue Not taking action Taking that first step towards a goal Men at every age get stuck

  • @okayyybails

    @okayyybails

    6 ай бұрын

    This isn’t always true. If your developing a creative product or maybe a peice of software the time you spend thinking and planning could be instrumental

  • @Crockenstock-hj4uj

    @Crockenstock-hj4uj

    6 ай бұрын

    You missed the point. This is about moving past that phase once you are in a planning and design tailspin and actually turning the key. It's more difficult to do that for some people than to create the idea itself. It was for me. It's so worth sharing and encouraging others though once you get over that hill because there is room for everyone to be successful. Best wishes to you if you are working on one of those projects.

  • @davidbooher5559

    @davidbooher5559

    6 ай бұрын

    99% of us work for the 1% who never gave up on their dreams.

  • @Crockenstock-hj4uj

    @Crockenstock-hj4uj

    6 ай бұрын

    You're 100% right. @@davidbooher5559

  • @jerrytaylor7935
    @jerrytaylor79355 ай бұрын

    Thanks for encouraging us to “just do it!” Planning is good, but much of the time, people need to just start “doing”sooner!

  • @juancastro5704
    @juancastro57047 ай бұрын

    Today is my birthday. I created a logo for my business and kept thinking of begin moving. Like you said I was just “thinking” this is the best birthday gift. I need to act like a man and MOVE. Thank you. Sometimes we need the “harsh” and “judgmental” message!

  • @strawssuu9938
    @strawssuu99387 ай бұрын

    You might be one of the few creators i’ve seen who actually says What you did to start, and i can’t even tell you how important it is to hear that stuff. Buy the sites, buy some equipment, and write. It all seems daunting and hard until you realize it isn’t, it’s a lot of small steps taken over and over until success comes. Thank you for the content

  • @Noir-Tesseract
    @Noir-Tesseract7 ай бұрын

    Right On! I know this but I need to hear it over and over again sometimes. I fell in a rut and need to get back into just action. Keep it coming. Great speech.

  • @nestorsojo9528
    @nestorsojo95287 ай бұрын

    Nearly 7 years listening to your podcast, This!! Bring this Fire! One of the better ones.

  • @user-ul7fq8zw8o
    @user-ul7fq8zw8o6 ай бұрын

    Man, thank you. That's exactly what I needed to hear at this time in my life. I've been out of work for the past three months and have been racking my brain about what to do. Your message is one of encouragement, even though you think you're in a bad mood. Thank you.

  • @morphosis7655
    @morphosis76556 ай бұрын

    'Do what you can with what you've got where you are' great quote.

  • @mikecarpenter6703
    @mikecarpenter67037 ай бұрын

    Spot on brother!! Last year I decided to get my insurance life and health licenses and it took me a few months and then I had to do all the Medicare certifications that took a few months but now I’m doing the work and still working as a x-ray tech. Doing the work is the only way to live life!!!

  • @RameshBaburbabu
    @RameshBaburbabu7 ай бұрын

    Ryan, I couldn't agree more with your message today. It's so easy to get caught up in the planning, thinking, and dreaming without taking the crucial step of actually doing the work. Your words hit home for me, and I appreciate the reminder to stop the mental gymnastics and start putting in the effort. This weekend, I'm committing to taking action on the business idea that's been lingering in my mind for too long. Thanks for the motivation!

  • @mattsitzberger315
    @mattsitzberger3157 ай бұрын

    Good shit brother. Never apologize for being right.

  • @eutenho1plano
    @eutenho1plano6 ай бұрын

    This video just saved my year. I was totally paralised with all the "knowledge and excuses" that i have inside of my mind, and this man just showed me that mu problem is that I just think about the thing instead of do it. Thanks mu friend, great job helping people to put the thing in movement and just get to work 🙏

  • @MelvinjJohnson
    @MelvinjJohnson7 ай бұрын

    This is exactly why I enjoy your podcast with my growing son and with my daughter! Life is about choices and consistency, embracing the challenge of doing what you're fearful of. Hardworking men's podcast and great leaders. My son still listens to man in the making reruns in his room while he's falling asleep.

  • @shadowdawnl6930
    @shadowdawnl69306 ай бұрын

    Wow!! I cant believe you haven't come up in my fyp before now. Thank you dear sir for doing the work your doing. We desperately need more men like yourself in this country, and in this world now more than ever. So again thank you sir❤

  • @CharlesT4
    @CharlesT47 ай бұрын

    I just found your channel right now, and i just so happen to be making changes in my life like starting a business. This is crazy

  • @jlb122587
    @jlb1225876 ай бұрын

    Crazy timing that I come across this now. Just made the decision to finally apply for my dream job and put in my notice at my current job. Starting the new one January 1 and I feel alive again. Paralysis by analysis was my issue for years. Great video, Ryan.

  • @josereyes1680
    @josereyes16807 ай бұрын

    Thanks Ryan, I needed this message today.

  • @AlphaDad
    @AlphaDad6 ай бұрын

    This is one of the best , most timely, and extremely relevant podcasts I have seen from you. Deeply appreciated. I needed to hear this

  • @chrisclinton1649
    @chrisclinton16497 ай бұрын

    I started doing this a little over 2 years ago. I was and still might be, but to a lesser extent a podcast junkie. Something clicked though and I decided that I would be the one in my family to elevate my bloodline and open my own business. I come from a long line of hard workers non of which owned a business though and therefore only made it so far. “Why not me” “Why not you?” All of the information is at our fingertips. Stop thinking and start doing! Learn it as it comes up. You don’t have to learn everything before you start.

  • @dzzzzzt
    @dzzzzzt6 ай бұрын

    For some reason I've been subscribed for who knows how long but this is the first video I've watched. So. Good. Such a good message. It hurt at times but it's what has to be said and heard. I loved your attitude, your tone, your wisdom, everything. Thank you.

  • @ed-mh7zl
    @ed-mh7zl7 ай бұрын

    One of the realest videos on youtube.

  • @bc5208
    @bc52086 ай бұрын

    I needed this message. You’re a good man. Putting yourself out there and propelling the message men NEED to hear. Not some fake motivation. Appreciate your efforts.

  • @grindhouserob
    @grindhouserob6 ай бұрын

    Out of all the motivational videos I've watched in the last few months, THIS IS THE ONE that's resonated with me the most! This is what I needed to hear! Thanks, bro!

  • @theblakkobra
    @theblakkobra6 ай бұрын

    instantly subscribed. this is the exact material i needed to commit to the ventures i’ve been wanting to begin but have been dragging my feet while i’m in community college and doing part time construction. thank you

  • @scaryhours2220
    @scaryhours22206 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with this sentiment. I would always say I wanted to start a KZread channel but never took action until one day I shut my mouth purchased a tripod a ring light and started it. Now Im almost at 2k subs and I was approved for monetization so I'm not stopping until I'm 6 ft under. Life is too short so if you want to do something just do it, simple as that.

  • @fatherburning358
    @fatherburning3586 ай бұрын

    I'm right here right now. Doing what I can with what I have and where I am. This is exactly where I'm at. I'm not sitting around waiting for it to happen. Like I have for so long. Thanks brother 👍

  • @jesusdelarosa1204
    @jesusdelarosa12045 ай бұрын

    Thanks man. This video is a game changer. No selfhelp sh*tty books (I've reed tons of em) tell you what you actually have to do (or don't), it just create more anxiety and the willing to buy more books..Straightforward message that's all. I'll share with my beloved ones.

  • @MajorUpgrade
    @MajorUpgrade6 ай бұрын

    This is so damn simple, and yet I still on the regular just stay lost THINKING and TALKING about doung stuff. This is dumb. I'm listening to this today, and looking at myself and saying "Just do the damn thing!". Thanks for the honest motivation. Keeping stepping on my toes and kicking my ass, man. We as men appreciate this, and we need to hear it.

  • @brennancallahan9564
    @brennancallahan95647 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this. Thank you

  • @angeldiaz4164
    @angeldiaz41646 ай бұрын

    Thats true my brother. The more valuable men out here the better this world will spin as well as teaching the young ones our ways. Lets get it ! Top G

  • @db2738
    @db27386 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this. I’ve been remodeling a house for me and my daughter for the last 3 years. Complete remodel down to the studs. New wire plumbing and everything. I notice I get carried away in my thoughts of what the house could and will be that it distracts me from the task at hand. I noticed when I’m not daydreaming I get a lot more work done.

  • @billbailey3614
    @billbailey36146 ай бұрын

    Very good video message brother!! It’s so easy to whine and complain as I see so many people doing!! The real work is in taking action taking each step especially when you’re scared!! Blessings to this podcast brother!! Let’s get off our rears and do the work 🙏

  • @Winston_Smith_84
    @Winston_Smith_844 ай бұрын

    I began the work today. I have a lot of work to do but I’m going to make it happen. Thank you.

  • @vlmrs395
    @vlmrs3957 ай бұрын

    I'm a step past the step you are talkig about. Its uncertain, hard but i've newer felt more alive. Mu mind is my allay again, my boddy is my servant , strong and loyal and my attitude towards life has improved drastically. Go after it!

  • @user-nf3dv5lp1g
    @user-nf3dv5lp1g6 ай бұрын

    My Dad always told me "make the most of what you have", being any situation. That's resonated throughout life for me. But I have been worried about getting busier with more work demands and activities. But if only what I DO is a good thing and I can look at it more positively. Thank you

  • @upper9052
    @upper90527 ай бұрын

    This was a fantastic video. This made me think about my KZread channel. I’m in year 3 and the one thing that has helped me grow is just showing up and doing the thing (making a video) Thank you!

  • @carson3434
    @carson34346 ай бұрын

    Needed to hear this today. Thanks for the reminder!

  • @tommyjones1357
    @tommyjones13576 ай бұрын

    Just found your channel. It’s 8am on a Friday morning Dec 1. Walking on my brand new treadmill. Committed to walking 4 hours per day (will adjust as needed) dang “no carb” only worked when I was young and walking everywhere. Today I make money but sit on my butt. Lol so “zero carb” is useless without that caloric deficit/activity Happy to have found your channel. Your call to action and sense of total ownership resonates with me. That’s some 10X stuff right there. I’m type A: when I want something, I get it yesterday. I loved my life starting new projects but many of the trees proved to be unfruitful. But I learned and I had fun. People said this was an addictive personality but now I understand this is a blessing. The guy who shoots first and aims later is going to hit more targets than the dude who is still shopping around for the perfect rifle. Catch you in the next video! Tommy

  • @markflores9055

    @markflores9055

    6 ай бұрын

    Move to a mountain a few miles from the nearest town and walk/ruck it for a year. By your third time up the mountain your conditioning starts to kick in and you'll be surprised how easy an 8 mile round trip with about thirty to forty pounds of groceries like it's nothing. It's just your doing and as long as you are in tune with who you are the doing becomes effortless.

  • @tommyjones1357

    @tommyjones1357

    6 ай бұрын

    @@markflores9055 Not going to build wealth on a random mountain though.

  • @Deheader
    @Deheader6 ай бұрын

    Such a great video. Thank you ❤ I need to take more action. This hits hard.

  • @chrisrotella3646
    @chrisrotella36465 ай бұрын

    I’ve never left a comment on a video. This is the most important podcast on the internet. Glad you were in “a mood” thank you for this video.

  • @janaeb.9257
    @janaeb.92576 ай бұрын

    I am a woman as well and this was great for any gender to hear. Keep going. Your message is really dead on.

  • @training4eternity647
    @training4eternity6477 ай бұрын

    Good stuff, Ryan! Thanks for putting it out there.

  • @joshuajenson671
    @joshuajenson6716 ай бұрын

    One of my favorite videos to date. Thanks Ryan. I needs this today.

  • @CarnivoreChris89
    @CarnivoreChris896 ай бұрын

    This is what I needed to hear. Thank you.

  • @redstarling5171
    @redstarling51716 ай бұрын

    The strategy I use for getting things done is making a list with headings chores, purchases, projects and list out with the most important things at the top. Then everyday do 1-2 things chores are easiest to get done and things Im wanting to purchase just take time to save up always put needs and family requirements first. Projects are usually a combination of both, paint the roof, rebuild retaining wall etc

  • @refiningfireforge
    @refiningfireforge7 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this I have been building my business for a few years but have been scared to do the jump. But thank you for the motivation push.

  • @db0nn3r
    @db0nn3r7 ай бұрын

    Solid man. Thanks. Subscribed.

  • @angelashort1331
    @angelashort13317 ай бұрын

    With everything you've said , it makes Jesus Christ a True Man indeed . He also expected to have followers , They were all servants , who got on with the distribution of His message , GO, and make disciples, Lay down your lives for others , . Serve. Cheers ❤NZ

  • @BroccoliVomit
    @BroccoliVomit7 ай бұрын

    Had to pause this around half way to do stuff towards my dreams. Later half also inspiring. Thank you for doing these

  • @davidbooher5559
    @davidbooher55596 ай бұрын

    Really love that you are passionate enough about all this enough to say…” if all you do is listen to these podcasts without action…. Then unsubscribe.” That is true commitment to the message! Big props brother! 💪💯

  • @cobbhc
    @cobbhc6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this message. I went through a large chunk of my young adulthood in much the manner you first described. It caused me to justify all kinds of terrible things I perpetrated on people who loved and trusted me. The world is so soft that many young men and women have never had hard work and accountability modeled for them, nor exposed directly to it. In fact, victimhood is glorified by today's popular culture. By the grace of god, children forced me to come to terms with my adulthood and show up for the people who love me. As I move through life I now look for new ways to be better for the people who rely on me. I hope your message helps others do the same.

  • @Daniel-fr3wy
    @Daniel-fr3wy6 ай бұрын

    I love this bro. Don’t stop for us!!

  • @Loren_Shaw
    @Loren_Shaw6 ай бұрын

    I watch this video every Friday now. Im doing the thing!

  • @stevephipps5296
    @stevephipps52966 ай бұрын

    Needed this! Thank you

  • @KyngD469
    @KyngD4696 ай бұрын

    Thanks man. Going to go train and keep my head straight. I appreciate the reminder.

  • @renerios805
    @renerios8057 ай бұрын

    Ryan my life is been turned for good , first thanks to God and thank you , when I star listen to your podcast 1 years to go , myself change. Thank you again

  • @Saundersstrong
    @Saundersstrong6 ай бұрын

    I needed to see this Ryan . The work needs doing.

  • @dannwhitehead6193
    @dannwhitehead61937 ай бұрын

    This is simplistic advice, but very true. And things I need to hear. Struggling to regain confidence post divorce has caused me to not approach women or I have not taken the other chances I have been considering for fear of failure

  • @backdoor5993
    @backdoor59937 ай бұрын

    Good post, thanks! I am doing something that is different from what you are talking about. I have a dream of building a rural homestead. A place where I can live, grow a large garden and harvest from the forest. We bought ten acres in a rural area and we bought a shell of a building and we're building up the inside to meet our needs. I believe the order of progression for a successful life is: dream, plan, do (aka: work), and often, adjust: plan and do.

  • @allihatw
    @allihatw6 ай бұрын

    You’re absolutely right In everything you said Ryan. I can tell you from first hand experience that reading about it, watching videos about it, and researching every aspect of it will not produce the thing. You have to get off your ass and go get it. After a decade in the military, I had a 15 1/2 year break in service and finally decided to rejoin. The army told me I would have to repeat basic training due to the length of break in service. I was 45 years old and going back through basic training for a second time. None of the rejoining process was easy I just had to do the things. I’m winding down a firefighting career and spinning back up my military career at the same time. So yes, you have to do, action is the only thing that matters. Thanks for the words today brother.

  • @jeypawl
    @jeypawl6 ай бұрын

    Man I needed this.

  • @Altruist-ambitions
    @Altruist-ambitions7 ай бұрын

    Very good video, brother! Right on time!

  • @joshuasmith4979
    @joshuasmith49796 ай бұрын

    This is what I needed. Thanks

  • @eddiewright5921
    @eddiewright59216 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this message!

  • @brionholland4288
    @brionholland42886 ай бұрын

    After nearly 9 years, with 2 years worth of training, 3 different places of work, and 10000 plus hours of experience, at 3am the other night, I finally did the thing. I've got my apprenticeship registration in, and a great work sponser, finally. Blue book is coming soon.

  • @otisobl
    @otisobl6 ай бұрын

    The message I needed to hear this morning (7am where I am, watching YT). Now searching another dozen YT videos that'll tell me how to get off the couch and do the dishes.

  • @thechase-secondchance5077
    @thechase-secondchance50777 ай бұрын

    My biggest issue, as a man with autism, is that I was raised to give people the benefit of the doubt and live by the Golden Rule. When one person shows themselves to be the jerk they are, I log that and move forward accordingly. Problem is, it has taken me a very long time to develop the mindset that I should stereotype people based on my observations of their behaviors and how they may compare to others I've known. If someone I've never engaged with reminds me of someone who screwed me due to their similar actions, I should probably not give that person the benefit of the doubt but make them earn my trust.

  • @geraldogoko3494
    @geraldogoko34946 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much for this...I needed this

  • @hsaqer007
    @hsaqer0076 ай бұрын

    Thank you for such a wonderful message. A year ago I promised my girlfriend to get married by the end of the year & my family refused my engagement. I was depressed & disappointed for letting her down, yet she stood up by my side & said that we try again as it ain’t over yet. I decid to go all in & be the man. Thank you again

  • @jasonlopez4214
    @jasonlopez42146 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this video today I think I'm sliding into too much overthinking over reading and not doing enough thanks for the reminder back to doing!!

  • @CoachRix
    @CoachRix6 ай бұрын

    Priceless message… Thank you for sharing it, Ryan!

  • @GatheringJacob
    @GatheringJacob7 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the encouragement. Blessings

  • @IGetAround29
    @IGetAround296 ай бұрын

    There’s so many times when we think we’re actually moving the needle, but we’re just wasting time and moving laterally. This is the most important video anyone can watch

  • @loft006
    @loft0066 ай бұрын

    Dammmm.. Dude! You really hit home with me. Ive been telling people all the stuff that I want to do without ever doing them for the last 15 years. I need to tart something now! Ill be back to thank you if Im successful or if I fail. I just want to say that I actually started something....after Ill start something else. Wow Thanks

  • @marshalmattdillon
    @marshalmattdillon7 ай бұрын

    This message is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @MrRaylopez316
    @MrRaylopez3166 ай бұрын

    Needed this

  • @SuperRJ2012
    @SuperRJ20126 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this man.

  • @markflores9055
    @markflores90556 ай бұрын

    Thank you for taking action. And thank you for sounding us to start doing. I'm going to stop this comment and DO just that. Thank you. Thank you!

  • @user-fq4fy2ty7z
    @user-fq4fy2ty7z5 ай бұрын

    You are amazing Ryan, you make good content, you inspire others, the things you say are great and awesome. You do not show it in the way you talk or non-verbally express yourself when you do those things. Stop thinking about it, it is not true.

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson87207 ай бұрын

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZread channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,158 subs and > 900 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @davidcullen1260
    @davidcullen12606 ай бұрын

    Best thing I’ve heard today !

  • @Chazopia
    @Chazopia7 ай бұрын

    Bro, best reality check. Thanks!

  • @kevivtawar7716
    @kevivtawar77166 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this!