From someone that was so shy growing up and into my 20's this is tough. But, if you do not change, you get overlooked and stepped on by others. I was getting overlooked for promotions and I knew something had to change. I was traveling a great deal at the time and being tall and long legged, coach is terrible. I started asking at check-in if there were any first class upgrades for free. Once in a great while, I would get one and it felt amazing. It took a while and getting a different job and working with financial traders, who were all type a guys, that was my biggest break. They really helped me see the light and now today, I can talk to anyone and I am so thankful. Guys, it is not easy but a little bit every day, it is so beneficial. Great video as always!

@ryancairns139

29 күн бұрын

Good to hear man! I was so shy as a young man I couldn't talk to a cashier. I realized how detrimental that would be to my quality of life and took a job waiting tables (I was offered a back of house job and refused it) specifically to force myself to learn to talk to people, even when it was uncomfortable. I now have a great job where public speaking is a regular part. Cheers mate!

@PourMeOne

29 күн бұрын

@@ryancairns139 That is so great to hear, congratulations! It is not easy, it just takes a little time and effort on our behalf.

Order of Man, I just seen your channel for the first time and you had a FANTASTIC BEARD!! The video was 5 years ago ;), honestly though brother, I LOVE your channel, and I have not only subbed but clicked the bell too so I will know when you have a new video out! You Sir, are what I call, a REAL MAN! Love your channel, thank you by the way, men are perceived by society as bad and your channel is just "lovely" *is that right word? I think so, you just seem a lovely REAL MAN! not afraid to show emotion, and support men and that is so important in today's society!! I have had such a tricky childhood when it comes to my sexuality, I have always known my gender, and have always seen myself as a "boy" and a "Man", but society has always seen me as "Weak" "Gay" and not a "real man" So I am a Male Nurse, not many of us (in England, UK) but I am and have always been straight, but when I was younger I was always called Gay, to the point when you are 13 you end up believing what people are saying around you and I was very confused as a young lad, until I got a gf at 19 and very quickly realised I loved Girls ;) as you do! ;) However, I have seen the struggle other boys/men have had when it comes to their sexuality, gender whatever and it breaks my heart, so your channel is absolutely fantastic, breaking barriers and is just a SUPER POSITIVE channel to be part of, so kudos to you my friend!! Sorry if this comment seems a bit random, but I have a passion in supporting males in society, and part of my role as a male nurse, i'm a HUGE advocate in male nursing and getting more men into nursing, and ensuring men are seen as positive role models!! It always gets me so emotional talking about this stuff, because men seem to ALWAYS be perceived as the bad guys! :( We are not bad at all!! :(

This was awesome. At 32 y/o passive pretty much my whole life and I’m just breaking the cycle. I am still making progress. Mastering social interaction is key as a Man and becoming a Man. I wish the best of luck on your journey fellow brothers.

Good episode👍🏽

This was pure gold, mister. Thank you.

Copy. Brother thank you for this. Respect.

Peace gentlemen .. You know this dude Ryan, just don't miss! Another great topic brother. Ta.

Good points 🫡

No is a complete sentence

It is a tough deal out here. I live by God, man, woman child in that order. In essence, i must serve my Lord...submit fully. Shall I demand the same from my wife? Absolutely. I can hear it now LoL...male shovinest, toxic masculininty 😅 Although, not a laughing matter. In short, I tell my wife we are equal. However, when I make a final decision AND has Godly principles, done. And I mean done. My argimenrs with my wife are short. She must see arguments cannot be about emotions and feelings. We as men must respect these basic principlas, but cannot be the driver of a disagreement. As long as I am not in sin, my decion is final. Less than 5% of 'modern' women will allow this in their home. Happy wife,, happy life basically means beta males.😮

@BurpChap

29 күн бұрын

Sorry but this comment is not from a man, you are not like order of man at all, you are saying, although you are trying to be all kind about it, that Men are the "decision makers, and the "final sayers" no, we are equal, whatever gender you are, it does not matter, we are humans together, shame on you, posing to be a man of God, yet making out like your better than a woman, that God created by the way, not Man, GOD!

If you tell your wife the food was good and it wasn’t…. She’ll cook it again! Just be honest!

It’s comical to see the timidness in men today. Society is trying to get men to forget what it feels like to be a man.

@BurpChap

29 күн бұрын

nothing comical at all, it is sad actually. It is the way society is, Men are now no longer allowed to be men, we have to hide away!

Absolute flimflam. Unsubbed.

@nestorsojo9528

28 күн бұрын

Passive aggressive much?