Eating lunch alone at our school's cafeteria is the most awkward feeling that I've ever felt as a student with no friends.

@blobfish1829

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I literally skip lunch and just sit in the library because I don’t have friends to sit with.

@youcannotspeaktomeanyhow

3 жыл бұрын

Have you ever tried to just ask somebody to sit with them because even if you don’t talk at least you won’t feel awkward eating alone.

@mysoundofficial1047

3 жыл бұрын

Thats the worst tbh when I have to eat in school i eat in the school bathroom, horrible

@strawberrydaurto3366

3 жыл бұрын

Ah that is literally traumatizing for me, like no joke. I sat alone for a year but then the other two years I sat with a teacher in school during lunch to work on work! The best advice I could give is just be a little bit more open with people. I took baby steps, very small steps and now a couple years later I no longer eat by myself in lunch. Just be yourself and you will find your group, people you didn’t even think would be your friends might turn out as your friends. Be more open, in the sense of smile more, be more friendly towards people, and if your brave enough compliment someone! These helped me over the long run. Also just revisiting these videos once in awhile help a lot too! That’s what I’m doing lol

@gc2951

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe if you see another person sitting alone you can sit with them, or if you find a small group who looks nice you can ask to sit with them

Stacy's mistakes you should avoid: 1. Bad body language. 2. Make everything about yourself. 3. Too much negativity.

@optimicist7774

5 жыл бұрын

Jaime Rodriguez thank you brou

@jaysant6958

5 жыл бұрын

Jaime Rodriguez Thanks.

@lmao.3661

5 жыл бұрын

Man the title really contradicts number 2

@augustaverbian

5 жыл бұрын

4. Never learn how to play Fortnite 5. Crush her neighbor's garbage weekly 6. Never watch anime 7. Didn't have any K-Pop Bias

@Kohaku-om1wi

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the summary

There is another much more important rule for all this to be achieved: Love yourself. "When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you." - Laozi

@mdabdulrahman3097

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with u btw made any friends

@gabeguzman9478

5 ай бұрын

Not really

@pussycat9205

13 күн бұрын

that aint true

In conclusion, don't be a negative person. Be a ball of joy.

@Notyomamaa

28 күн бұрын

The fact that the popular girls at school called me a ball of joy and a ball of sunshine but I’ve literally never talked to them in my life 😭😭😭

But everyone should remember that there are people out there who just wont like you. No matter what you do, even if you’re completely innocent. So don’t waste your time trying to get them to like you.

@kierarose3966

5 жыл бұрын

Very true☺

@sameena713

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly, in my experience, those people eventually come around too.

@gautamgautamsuresh1218

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe , idk they change

@NobodiesFan

5 жыл бұрын

Currently trying to swallow this pill

@omniscientomnipresent5500

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, it's true

Be the person that your dog thinks you are!!😊

@dustinarroyo8005

5 жыл бұрын

De Lord Potato lol

@Stacy_white

5 жыл бұрын

Treat people like dogs

@earffquakee_

5 жыл бұрын

Alright lemme ask you how we can determine how our dogs perceive us?

@rabidmonkey1344

5 жыл бұрын

An animal abuser?

@theramchepser7644

5 жыл бұрын

My dog bit my ring finger it was almost fully separted I was rushed to the hospital.

For people who do none of this and have little to no friends: It’s okay. Sometimes people just DONT CARE. But sometimes they do. What you can do: Always be there for people who are there for you and be yourself. They befriended you because of how you are NOT how others are. So don’t try to be just like others around you, and your friends are allowed to have other friend too. I understand what this feeling can be like as someone who has lost friends due to my past mistakes and sometimes just for NO REASON. This is just how life is sometimes. But it will get better, you got this. 💜

@Snivybug

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for this.. :)

@complexx_scam617

8 ай бұрын

what if friends just stopped talking to you without a reason even though there its not your fault, you know you didn’t do anything that hurted your friend, why is it like that?

@SalamiSelimbo

8 ай бұрын

​@@complexx_scam617 Because sometimes we don't see people for who they are but for who we imagine them to be and it leads to situation you don't understand like when people you thought you could depend on always "forget about you" when in truth most of the times they don't even do it on purpose, it just comes naturally to them to forget about you and if they keep not doing anything to make an effort in the relationship too, even when you told them it's hurtful then you should stop engaging first with them and eventually if they never call you back and keep forgetting, you will just become acquaintance who knew each other at worst and see each other only when invited to the same party at best, it's sad but it's better like this and maybe it's not forever and someday they will come back thinking about you by themselves but better not count on it to be surprised and not dependent on doubtful hope.

@glennso47

6 ай бұрын

I’m 76 years old and I remember when my wife died in 2021 many of my classmates from school sent me sympathy messages but when I was younger they didn’t seem to have any time for me except to make my life miserable.

@sheebamanoj3273

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this bro. I will save this in my heart❤❤❤

Friendship is not just a word it's a feeling , all the memories that u and ur friends spent with each other . Friendship is very precious and is very important in life ✨

@sparklenights5421

Жыл бұрын

@@Jaball.. I get that, I've got trust issues and think I only need myself, but friendships are based on respect, justice and loyalty( which is trust and honesty) that is precious. But most people (NOT ALL, MOST) ive met, especially teenagers are the worst and suck.

@kythe4353

Жыл бұрын

I'm in this situation where a new friend joined our friend group but she hates me and says bad things about me to my friends and my friends seems to not care or not notice??HAHAHSH it hurts because i was the original friend.

@hindustanilegendyuvraj6523

Жыл бұрын

@@kythe4353 you be true and loyal with her. She will get her Karma u should not do like her Beleive on karma ...!

@sta982

Жыл бұрын

Yes

The person that everyone loves to be around, they have these factors. They tend to be genuinely interested in people They smile They're funny They remember and call people by their name They are good listeners They encourage people to talk about themselves They talk in terms of other people’s interest great informative content,shit load of value, keep up the good work!

@GiovanniSanvito

5 жыл бұрын

Somebody read Dale Carnegie's work here

@omaxshendy5732

5 жыл бұрын

and the last thing ..they never cut connections with people(being socially active with them with no demands or needs)

@danishteo6991

5 жыл бұрын

And that's just tiring... U can't be yourself and engage in all that

@youthsuf

5 жыл бұрын

J Bones So true. That kind of thing is rlly rlly hard to fake and act. My only suggestion is to genuinely have that personality by not acting , but just tweaking the way you see things ☝️👍

@sofiamadlangbayan1922

5 жыл бұрын

Dale Carnegie approves.

Personally I find it easy to make friends especially in school but having conversations or keeping contact with them is the hard part because usually we don’t share the same interests

@user-ud8lf8dz9r

2 жыл бұрын

tell me how to

@jaredwaynesantiago3811

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Nctzen

@randomdude611

2 жыл бұрын

Realtalk

@hxxdiec428

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-ud8lf8dz9r just what the video says basically. you know, have a likable personality. I'm very popular in school though I have no friends. I can sit with anyone I want, but I decide to sit alone. As I feel lonely sitting with people. To each is own, I'm sure you'll have a eaiser time.

@MScienceCat2851

2 жыл бұрын

I have social anxiety, and its impossible for me to find friends irl

no matter what we do, we will always be the villain in someone’s story

@kaziabirhasan1150

4 ай бұрын

be hero/heroin of your own story 😊😊😊

It’s sad for me to see all of you people in the comments struggling to make friends. I just wanna let any of you who feel abandoned or alone out there know that you are not nearly as bad as you think you are, and you are loved by me even if you don’t have anyone now. I love all of you. Please don’t feel sad, life’s tough but you can make it, please don’t give up ❤️

@madelinewhitley14

10 ай бұрын

❤🤗

@KingLarrY4k34

8 ай бұрын

I kinda hate it when you feel betrayed because i have an app called discord and some people i go to school with they always say they wanna fight me and that we arent friends but then when we go to school its all chill and i hate tha because im very emotional and ive been heartbroken by so many people and have been laughed at by so many kids. One time these kids took a picture of me and made me look like a old ugly women i hate it so much

@Buzzybee469

3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much buddy...❤❤

@TheRealCalijokes01

2 ай бұрын

Yea it’s bad out here

@inglouriousmofo

2 күн бұрын

​@KingLarrY4k34 that's rough and I feel your pain. This is where you show life you are stronger and better than them, keep growing, workout, do happy things and dont take life to serious. It's really tough for me to stay positive because my life and family are seemingly falling apart but I have to stay strong or things will just only get worse...

I want to remind everyone of this: even if you follow ALL the rules, even if you're perfect, kind and lovable and helpful, there still will be somebody who doesn't like you and that's okay. To avoid being desperate, love yourself always and give yourself the attention and approval you crave!

@user-ej6nz3yp9n

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that true

@sukhrajama9959

2 жыл бұрын

Yaaa

@user-oy6mz4zp5k

2 жыл бұрын

Hm.3 years ago,one girl in my class dislikes me ao much.She was popular in class and all my friends are her friends too. I just called her everyday and greeted her and just ended the call. It was weird.😑i was soo desperate. IDK how now she is one of my best friends now🚶‍♀Some people do change tho

@user-cb4sg3cq9g

2 жыл бұрын

I do all of these thing yet no one likes me. I guess I’m just supposed to be alone forever 😔

@stirrncook7889

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-cb4sg3cq9g no it's not gonna be like that it's only temporary

I laughed when I saw Kanye's face 😂😂😂😂

@orange9803

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@Lee-qy8zs

3 жыл бұрын

Please love the Holy Spirit :D❤️

@_R.A.N.D.O.M_

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lee-qy8zs ?

@helenhansen55

3 жыл бұрын

Haha same

@minaljain_makeup

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

I'm here to tell you something really important. It is not impossible to make friends. Like, i used to be alone at school. And i didn't even have anyone to text when I'm baxk at home. I felt like no one was matching my vibe, so i just never made friends, also everyone else already had friends so i thouth i didn't stand a chance. Once i stumbled upon this vedio . I reallg trued to make some progress in me. And i started focusing on people who seemed like impossible to be made friends with. Then i slowly started interracting with them. And, here i am , happier than ever. Now I'm never lonely, I'm really glad i never gave up. I just saw this vedio, and remembered that i had already watched it and came here to leave a comment.❤

I 100% agree & I can relate to the example you gave. I’ve always been pretty popular & friendly to everyone but I have noticed over the years that If im just passing thru or going about my business I can have a certain demeanor that can come off as intimidating at first glance. I never realized the importance it has until recently. It’s plays a big role in first impressions, meeting people, networking… I have made it a priority to actively think about and be conscious of in my day to day interactions. This has made a even greater improvement in my interactions and overall mood!!

@TheRealCalijokes01

2 ай бұрын

But how to look less intimidating? Think this my problem and being negative

How painfully ironic to see that if you’re depressed and in a rough place where you need friends the most is when you’ll have the hardest time making any🙃 which leads to fueling the cycle even more

@PichuElric

3 жыл бұрын

If your depressed and in a rough place, then obviously other people won't want to catch it from you, so it makes sense to not want to be friends with a depressing person. But if you already had friends from when you weren't so depressive and draining, I've seen people stick around to support because you were there with them before

@sophiesleeps12

3 жыл бұрын

That's why you keep the negativity inside and only talk about your positive feelings ...pretty sure that's unhealthy as heck. Didn't stop me :')

@tori4730

2 жыл бұрын

I mean it makes sense that people don't want to share the burdens of complete strangers, you have to wait until you actually get closer and become friends before opening up completely, and friends are not therapists either

@BTSArmy-kc7pp

2 жыл бұрын

Same buddy same

@jenza4

2 жыл бұрын

So will no one want to be my friend because I’m depressed?

I don't have a cheerful face and when I try to be joyful I just feel weird and not bein myself

@M20videos

5 жыл бұрын

Same!

@elsie4802

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah me to people always think I look mad and then no one approaches me but that’s just my resting face

@donkeykong3340

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@tindras9282

3 жыл бұрын

Omg same, i can’t like smile unless someone actually makes me smile otherwise It feels so fake and unnatural

@aaronherrera4240

3 жыл бұрын

Same bro people say I got mean eyes and when I look in the mirror I see why they’re slanted downwards always looking mad

Don’t try so hard to be cool or liked, it comes off as try hard & not genuine. Just be yourself, spread love and positive vibes

it’s really awkward if you’re in the middle of a chatty group at school lunch and you’re silent.

@Swo0sh21.

Ай бұрын

Sometimes but I personally like sitting with a group of people silently js like observing what everyones onabt

Lmao who’s here because social interaction doesn’t come naturally to you

@JuanVega-re1jg

3 жыл бұрын

Yhup

@Lee-qy8zs

3 жыл бұрын

Please love the Holy Spirit :D❤️

@dawidoo3o532

3 жыл бұрын

What's up

@Hey9846

2 жыл бұрын

haha same

@miepmaster25

2 жыл бұрын

I guess I watch this because i feel like i’m just after the wrong things after i spent a few years “improving” myself because I wanted to be “mysterious”, “cool” and above all, superior to other human beings

so what about stacy's mom?

@noahtayi3913

5 жыл бұрын

Your comment is going far

@LukaHauptmann

5 жыл бұрын

that's reassuring!

@pisanghangus2

5 жыл бұрын

What about it

@luableah7615

5 жыл бұрын

@@ImprovementPill legend. If only I could sub twice.

@hashiramauchiha2729

5 жыл бұрын

She's all i want, and i've waiting for so long.

You dont need everyone to like you, you need the right people to like you.

I will remember the rule so that i can break these and prevent myself from making friends because learning to be comfortable with my ownself alone and happy is the best, because at the end u will be alone, nothing lasts forever

I swear KZread is trying to roast me with my recommendations

@2KREDK

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@violetvettie4502

3 жыл бұрын

Tiktok always roasting me when i open my page it's all about share this to your friend all about best friend

@Brass_Buckle

3 жыл бұрын

With that profile pic I dont blame it BOOM GET REKTED For legal reasons I must tell you this is a joke

@fabianhebakana7675

2 жыл бұрын

😂

I have one other rule: "You have to consider them as friends" If you don't feel like you deserve them as friends, or simply don't think them as friends, you'll unconsciously push them away.

@blobfish1829

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@alimarri3347

2 жыл бұрын

So True

@user-ej6nz3yp9n

2 жыл бұрын

True 💟💟💟🖤🖤🖤😊😊😊💖💖💖

@blayd2425

2 жыл бұрын

I'm always so scared when it comes to that. I'm scared that I'll call someone my friend but they don't like me back

@user-ej6nz3yp9n

2 жыл бұрын

@@blayd2425 ohhh i had this

The best way to make friends is by talking to them first. They don't want to talk to other people, so you're doing the job for them when you do this. Make sure you listen to them and expand on what they are saying, don't only say things that have to do with you, like if the other person recently moved from Washington, ask them what it was like there, why they moved, and so on. The best person to start a conversation with is someone who isn't talking to many people or seems as lonely as you. If they are relatively popular it still works, it may be harder to make a long-term relationship. If you liked this comment or agreed then... LIKE 👇

@gabeguzman9478

5 ай бұрын

Yes, but sometimes it's a gamble because if you talk to them first and they don't ask anything about you or try to get to know you then it's just a waste of time

My old friend that isn’t my friend anymore did this she doesn’t realise how mean it sounds as she is just brutally honest and says what’s on her mind

@any.user.allowed.

Жыл бұрын

Did she have bad intentions?

@CreativeCookie13

Ай бұрын

I- I do this often, unintentionally :(

Make a video on introverts ... hit a like if u guys want

@funut2541

5 жыл бұрын

same bruh

@aftaabmuhammed3007

5 жыл бұрын

Introvert??

@AromonChannel

5 жыл бұрын

I'm introvert, i sometimes still got anxiety, but i just found something weird how to stop that anxiety, i just start thinking about my surroundings and stop to feel about environment, i know it's weird but to me it works just start using your brain, feel that you have a brain, and think all about possible income if you do this, but not just that, predict what people will do, just think don't let your feeling got you, just think idk how to describe this again think, and feel your brain

@nathanmanju5232

4 жыл бұрын

Ha

@ae.r3704

4 жыл бұрын

@@partlycloudy2526 so underrated

So basically don’t be a squidward.

@Kaiizerr_

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah... be more like Spongebob

@SquidCena

3 жыл бұрын

Squidwards cool. Oh wait...

@Gtmann

2 жыл бұрын

All Spongebob characters have something wrong with them

@albertalberto2288

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kaiizerr_ or patrick

@spooky5346

2 жыл бұрын

@@SquidCena Lmaoo

It's easy to make friends. Just act like you've been friends with the other person for a long time. My problem is that i want to be friends with authentic people. Those I'm surrounded with talk about others behind their backs and are highly judgemental.

Don't waste ur time to fit with people ,cuz real friend always accept u , no matter how u are

I always thought, "friendship has no rules." but, today i came to know, "its all about formality boi."

@ajjaja892

3 жыл бұрын

Boiiiii

@muhaiminrahi1301

3 жыл бұрын

Now i understand why i am alone.😂😂😂😂

@idkidk3424

3 жыл бұрын

I don't really abide by any rules I just talk to people you know? I think the first step is to be happy. If you're sad then find out why and find a solution to it. If you have depression that's a different story so just take your medication until you get through it I guess

I always thought the reason why Stacy doesn't have lasting friendships is because of her mother who is all everyone wants

@brazox

5 жыл бұрын

Kurostyle21 can somone explain this one pleasd

@chonacastillo4777

5 жыл бұрын

@@brazox yeah me too

@wildprodigy

5 жыл бұрын

There's a popular song called Stacy's Mom. So it's a joke referring to the song.

@notutuber0797

2 жыл бұрын

@@ImprovementPill 😂

@DeadpoolPlayz

2 жыл бұрын

Stacy's mom Has got it going on

Thank you! It's been a year that I have watched this I now have friends that are pretty loyal thank you! I used to sit in my class alone and can't even get sit into groups and I eat alone I used to cry when I just think that nobody will helped me thank you

1:00 I absolutely destroyed this rule, explains a lot

I broke every rule, I'm gonna start changing, holy fawk, this just gave me a boost on self awareness, thank you

@los3r426

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@suhtangwong

Жыл бұрын

Just be positive, and if no one likes you, well, just be positive 👍

Just watch anime and you'll learn everything about friendship

@SSJ_Doffy

3 жыл бұрын

@@madelynspam1507 I don't watch it to be popular, I watch it cause I enjoy it tf

@Sunflower28384

3 жыл бұрын

madelyn spam stfu

@TheDonkyGamePlay

3 жыл бұрын

Yes this definitely doesn't work

@frida_3196

3 жыл бұрын

Not really •_•

@donkeykong3340

3 жыл бұрын

Mitsuri San another zero two simp I’m getting bored of this

no matter how nice i was to everyone no matter how much i cared bout others instead of myself no matter how much i complimented them literally all my classmates all my life nothing worked out do we really need friends? im at the point to where i dont really care much bout friendships anymore no matter who it is, they really dont wanna be my friend so i’d rather just focus on myself instead of others

@LawAbidingSociopath69

Жыл бұрын

That's right

@rondonnis6588

2 ай бұрын

Well when your in your 40s I realised that and I didn't like people much in life before my 40s so it is easy to really hate people

Wow never realized how much Stacy and I are the exact same person. Now I understand a lot. I cant control to make everything about me and i always think what im going to say next even tough i shoud be listening to the speaking person. Thanks for the tips hope i could use them.

This mentality is the reason why depressed people feels so lonely. You should fake smile all the time, not talk about your problems and pretend that you are always happy... If you show your real emotions people abandons you...

@allygotchannel3563

5 жыл бұрын

I got transferred to new place at my work and for past 3 months felt really depressed. My boss talked to me about not being able to be a part of the team. Now I smile all the time a pretend to be super positive... I want to quit every single minute because I feel miserable and I really started to hate my work.

@guccion

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah that sound sad

@endgamez7621

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm

@simontj8800

3 жыл бұрын

@@allygotchannel3563 I hope your doing better and that you're happier and that you're not depressed at least at the moment I might be a year late but I hope you're doing better love

@swiggtyswoo9393

3 жыл бұрын

The reality is once you have people close to you, it's up to you to determine who you actually talk about your issues with. This I think is more so how to make and keep friends

I follow the “golden rules”, I just have a mental illness that convinces me that I’m a burden and I don’t deserve to have friends so I don’t talk to people anymore. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

@haziqsumagi2310

5 жыл бұрын

send me an email.. maybe we can be friend

@stxarryeyed9523

4 жыл бұрын

Same. Except that every single friend of mine left cause I self harmed.

@debbie6373

4 жыл бұрын

I have a lot of friends thinking their a burden and i can tell you it is highly possible that you aren't and even if, there is ALWAYS someone who doesn't see you as one. Stay positive and maybe try to open up and honestly tell people about that. They will understand

@TimmyTurnersDad.

4 жыл бұрын

Dingleberg!

@louiseleite3866

3 жыл бұрын

I suffer from Avoidant Personality Disorder and have no friends......tough. Hope you're well ♡

Thanks so much man... there was this one bad habit in my personality I always knew I had but I couldn't find it ..now I DID! I always interupt when some1 is talking about there story and start talking about mine.. I have this over talkative habit about mine .. I talk more.. litsen less Glad I finally realised it today 😅

body language no saying negative make them feel better ab themselves listen to them don't cut what they say. Observed and just listen. don't share personal emotions. Negatives

When you get anxiety every time your friend comes near you

@olivialew8175

4 жыл бұрын

Omg me

@jrd7_

3 жыл бұрын

my friend says i give her anxiety so now i don’t talk to her unless she comes up to me 🧍‍♀️

@richelleong1306

2 жыл бұрын

@@jrd7_ same there’s one there’s one friend that says that I’m making her uncomfortable and that word changes a lot I stop talking to people

@bluemorphors517

2 жыл бұрын

@@richelleong1306 same, sometimes I tend to overthink that leads me to some mindset changing.

@falcxn8824

2 жыл бұрын

That ain’t normal 😭😭

I always find myself pretty weird and I often ask myself how I still have a lot of friends, even some friendships that are more than 14 years old (I'm 18 btw) but the thing is, I have those friends because we listen to eachother's stories and we laugh and have fun. We introduce ourselves to other friends of friends and that gives you even more friends. Even though I find myself pretty weird I always try to be fun to hang around with, I'm friendly and I care about how they feel. Friends aren't just for 1 day so you should try to keep them. If you notice you're losing a friend because you're life's are changing, accept it. Friendship can't come from one person, both people need to put time in it. I've lost one of my best friends because we grew away from eachother but I still greet him when I see him. The point is, that you shouldn't worry to much about making friends, just be nice and it will happen eventually. Even if you lose a friend there are plenty of other who also love you

@LuneKidYT

2 жыл бұрын

great to hear your story, gotta say it rlly gave me better insight on friendship-making!!

@tangybeanff9641

2 жыл бұрын

This made my day🥲❤️

@abhijithrejeesh1917

2 жыл бұрын

Nice comment btw

@youssefayadi1684

2 жыл бұрын

bro you just improved my life rn i will try to follow your advice and tell you the results

@youratwinklingstar5644

Жыл бұрын

This is so true, almost the same thing happened to me. Thank you

am so grateful for modern day youtube. i’m so grateful that there are humans out there teaching other people how to be more human 😅 it just makes me feel less alone. 2011 me on would be so happy for this progress 🥰

My goal in high school is to become friends with everyone. I don't have to be close to them, I just want to be able to talk to everyone. I enjoy having friends! Plus, I just want to be known as the person who's friendly and open minded. I want to easily become friends with people and help others that have issues/struggle to make friends!!

I feel like I already do this (which is a good confidence booster!). My problem lies with consistency. I befriend someone one day and ask for their social media and the next day, I'm off to finding a new person. Repeat this cycle a couple times and you see me with a ton of acquaintances, confused as to why we're not friends yet. I realize that I have to actually text/hang out with them and talk frequently to establish a friendship (shocker!!! Lol sorry, I was sheltered). I'm still not oh so comfortable with it but I'm actively trying to have a regular hang out if I wanted to deepen a friendship.

@sleepieste

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate to your problem! It's a wonder to see something I've been struggling with, get put into words. Workplaces and school helps make friendships consistent, cause you're practically seeing them every day. Though, it has been a year since you commented this, so have your problem lessened? Have you gotten more consistent with it?

@meg5661

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate!

@emmaleia173

2 жыл бұрын

that's still me and I know that it doesn't work. I guess I am just scared of being vulnerable or I'm scared of starting conversations without following through which I often do :v

@randomperson3242

2 жыл бұрын

@@sleepieste hi! I just saw your message now but here’s a little update :). It’s definitely easier for me to stay consistent with reaching out to someone and befriending them. I realized I was scared of not being the ‘perfect friend’ to someone & that they’d spend more of their time with someone else that was better when they realize all of my flaws. But now I think friendship is based on your interests or accepting & respecting the other person’s beliefs. I have a solid friend group that I talk with almost everyday and some friends I’ve met through different means that I don’t talk with as much but I care for just as much ❤️. I just graduated college so everyone’s trying to find jobs & are starting to get busier but I noticed people appreciate it when you remember their birthday or greet them during holidays :). Now I find myself taking a mental note of who I want to maintain friendships with & continue to check up on them once every few months so I can maintain that friendship :) (& I realized a lot of ppl are scared to make the first move so I don’t take it personally & reach out first. If they want to maintain friendship w me, they’ll reply & be open to catch up for a bit. If not, it’s no big deal at least I tried) Sorry it’s gotten long but I hope it helped a bit!!

See that’s the problem, I can’t make other people feel good unless the situation creates it or impress them. I can only express my views and unbiased views with honesty and most people hate that, majority of people love to hear stuff that they want to hear and not the actual fact, is wt I noticed among numerous conversations.

@chiguernaoufal4446

5 жыл бұрын

read the book the 48 laws of power and thank me later

@rohitvarmabhupathiraju5238

5 жыл бұрын

Chiguer Naoufal sure will read it 👍🏼

@cloudlessvision4192

5 жыл бұрын

ROVA Honestly just be yourself, stay positive and stop complaining and if people still dont like you then that's their own problem and you should move on with your life 🤷‍♂️

@rohitvarmabhupathiraju5238

5 жыл бұрын

Cloudless Vision That’s what I have been doing

@DusBeforeDawn2008

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe don't bring up depressing stuff all the time and talk about stuff they enjoy as well. Do you ever talk about the stuff that interests the other person and things they enjoy?

U guys are lucky u get to go to school, u guys literally have the opportunity to make friends…. Don’t take it for granted like i did. I was homeschooled through high school. Worst mistake I ever made.

I genuinely have a hard time trying to be interested in other people. I realized that I'm often selfish, think of myself a lot, which is why I'm often shy or stand off-ish because I always feel like I need to be the main character of everything for me to give a damn. Talking bout myself gives me an ego boost, but it depresses me sometimes because i realized that I don't have any genuine friends around or don't even know how to genuinely spend time with those closest to me. I want to change this, and I'll be working on doing so.

@iregretmakingthis2934

Жыл бұрын

First step is realizing the problem

Stacy needed therapy and someone to listen to her for once and comlpliment her. Girlie was clearly depressed

Sometimes you're just not in a positive mindset but forced into a social situation. Faking it is just too draining. That's when you get judged and it creates a destructive loop and it's really not fair 😓

@preach6787

3 жыл бұрын

What ti do

Who sits alone in the cafeteria, awkwardly waiting for someone to come but nobody does 👎 ( I liked )

Just be humble, people love that

That's exactly how you get "friends". Friends that will let you down in hard times, friends that won't help you with your house moving, friends that are only around you when you fake happiness. Just tell people what's on your mind. Sure, don't complain about little things, but if you have a problem, talk to people! Being popular is by far not as important as your mental health.

@gogglestransparent9720

Жыл бұрын

Being aware that you're making conversations all about yourself and knowing you spread too much negativity doesn't really make you gain negative friends, you just get friendd

Your main focus should be being the best version of yourself and not trying to get others to like you. People should like you for who you truly are.

“as you look out not only for your own interests, but also for the interests of others” Thank you for this wonderful video

@chenoel498

Жыл бұрын

Wanna be friends

@smyrnasstory

Жыл бұрын

Sure

I require no approval from anybody. Thus, I have no friends nor require any. I learned the hard way. The modern version of what a friend is happens to be a low level enemy in disguise, waiting for you to show weakness. Upon finding that weakness, the, "friends," will attack you and take what they can from you. Being social offers very few benefits and a tremendous amount of negatives. Realizing this, deleting of that needless aspect of life out of my existence seemed the logical thing to do.

Improvement Pill is absolutely incredible ! Hopefully you’ll be my friend one day :)

@vinci_irl

5 жыл бұрын

cringe dude

This video slapped me in the face. Literally what I've been doing since my teens. This is why I have less friends.

Idk if this would actually help anyone much but my tips are: - Compliment people more but in the nicest way possible, please don’t make it sound back-handed or weird/random 😭 Especially if you compliment the smallest changes or details about someone while talking to them it would be a great way to make someone like you more! - Always be the first to text/talk or start the convo! You don’t always have to be but I’m sure most people would appreciate it! Because who knows maybe they feel the same as you do! - Literally talk about anything that flows through your mind but if it’s a weird ass topic or something real sus, best to keep that to yourself or things will get akward (would be fine with certain friends or close friends)

Ok so people who have depression Never get any friends, got it

Those are things indicative of a few deeper issues within us, so it's not enough to try to 'hide' this behavior, we have to work on ourselves and how we view the world so they can feel a naturally positive vibe instead of a forced one.

@adrxiyakhan5863

3 жыл бұрын

true i always fake my positvity and i hate

I dont need everyone to like me, just one specific person

No matter how much generous, how much polite, how much kind you are to that person or anyone, you cant get them into your circle. Its people. You cant control them, so best advice is use your mind, find out the "real ones" and set it as your task. Dont waste your time on ones that dont seem to even like you a bit even after your tiresome act of kindness and innocence.

People want to be heard and feel valued. Thats key

Improvement pill ! I want to thank you for everything,all your videos are just everyone needs , I will Love to take all your courses . Once again thank you !

I keep on screwing things up with my friends and I don’t know how to keep a stable friendship so I think I’m going to binge watch some of these videos haha

@qy-exotic7717

3 жыл бұрын

how u doing

@renee187

3 жыл бұрын

Jeongin as your pfp🥰

@kratos9643

2 жыл бұрын

Hey ... anyone wann be friends...I know asking in social media is bit weird ..😅

@heypassthecheesecake4413

2 жыл бұрын

@@kratos9643 do you play Minecraft?

As an introver person i find this video super usefull, i'll do everything you said not to do so people wont talk to me😌

they're the one who's breaking the golden rule several times, that's why i back away from their negative energy and end up having only a few friends

Thank you, man. You helped me clear out a few things in my life. This three video was definitely educative. Looking forward for the fourth one.

This isn't Stacy... This is my ex-friend. Hah

@TheBookishKaz

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh 😂 we all have a stacey

THIS IS THE VIDEO THAT I REALLY NEED FR

Your every step is relatable

You are doing very good job bro... Because of u I am what I am today... U give very practical advises which I have applied throughout my last 6 months.. Keep making vids like this... Hats Off..

You guys are always spot on for what I need, and you’ve helped me a lot, thank you so much!

Friendship Day is one of the worst day of my life especially when u aee social media posting besties story

Thank you for your explanation 😊

This actually makes me regret all of the things i have done. Thanks....you taught me something.

@shiwoshiw0._.

Жыл бұрын

same☹️

Wow. This course helps me understand the big concepts in the book “The Like Switch” much better now! Thanks.

Great work 🥳🥳🥳 Thank you 💜💜💜

so helpful , I will try to apply every rule next time

This video has opened my eyes. I have lost 3 friends this year and all of them were caused by me doing these things.

Dude this is THE BEST channel i've found in a long time! Super helpful thank you so much 😁

Its true, I hate when im telling someone something about myself and they just cut me off and start to talk about themselves as if my story didn't matter. Thats why I don't do this to others because its truly a bad feeling.

Dude, you just described me without the self talk

Oh damn, I broke the Golden Rule so much last year. I was really depressed and my self esteem was plummeting, and I didn't try to hide it. I didn't try to fix ot, either. At the same time, I was always talking about my own interests (I think I was looking for validation).

Omg my face is naturally like bored af looking like levi lol

Whatever you do some people will always dislike you and you can't do anything about it

I have a resting face, even when I feel distressed and forward my eyebrows, it’s so subtle it’s not even there. So I try too smile and comment on everything my not close friends say.

So pretty much what Dale Carnegie wrote in his book "how to win friends and influence people" lmao

@machrx5

5 жыл бұрын

lmao how can you expect people to read books in 2018

And there are moments where you have to talk about your feelings and that’s the moment where you discover your real friends.

honestly, this just made me feel worse about myself plus knowing that i need to fake emotions to gather friends that won't last forever

@_hey_229

2 жыл бұрын

I understand u. I hope i will find friends.

@internetuser4759

2 жыл бұрын

exactly

This is a really helpful video as I am too shy or scared to interact with a friend I wanna make. Now I’ve learnt that that’s useless.(not t he video, my attitude)

1:07 Mistake #1: Bad Body Language 2:05 Mistake #2: Make Everything About Yourself 3:36 Mistake #3: Too Much Negativity Such an awesome video, thank you so much! I’m loving this course. I love the quote from the book “The 5 Love Languages” by Gary Chapman: “Life’s deepest meaning is not found in accomplishments, but in relationships”. It’s so true and your course is helping me to find new relationships, thank you!

@zgonner4211

3 жыл бұрын

100th likes and the first reply 😂

@hamzamehmood5606

3 жыл бұрын

101th like and second reply

This was a helpful video uploaded right when I needed it. Thanks!

This video was vwry helpful, I noticed that i resonated with some mistakes that she's done and now i will look after to not repeat them agayn.

Oh no I broke the golden rule but I will try again tomorrow on getting my friend back your such a nice youtuber:)

@PradHuym

Ай бұрын

Did u get ur friend back?