‘The boss isn’t always right, but he is always the boss.’ The story of human society there.

@nanny287

2 ай бұрын

Sometimes the “boss” is a fool you have to smile to and nod to. If we didn’t, would it help? I think not.

@williamgilley7061

2 ай бұрын

But there is a higher power that all answer to

@maxsch8454

2 ай бұрын

@@williamgilley7061 🤣🥱🤦‍♂️🤡

@HR-rt9nh

2 ай бұрын

here comes the new boos...... same as the old boss......

I only worry about things that are within my control. Anything outside my control I just take as it comes. Most people I know seem to be the opposite.

@DesertRat332

3 ай бұрын

Works well when rock climbing. Don't worry about how high you are or how far you would fall, worry about your holds and your protection.

@AbeFroman-zx5hs

3 ай бұрын

You are right about the latter and in denial on the former.

@8964TS

3 ай бұрын

I don’t think you’re using “in denial” in the right way. I can’t think what I could be in denial about.

@AbeFroman-zx5hs

3 ай бұрын

@@8964TS ‘I only worry about things that are in my control’. Denial: “refusing to admit the truth”.

@jakemaattanen

3 ай бұрын

Easier said than done.

There is a difference between planning contingencies and merely worrying.

@Andreschannel_SA

2 ай бұрын

This comment is so true. If you can't do anything about your current problem, move on. Solve one you can.

@paulw5039

Ай бұрын

The older I get, the more I've come to realise the validity of this: "Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

@puntabachata

10 күн бұрын

He could have just said "that's what you're here for"

The best advice I ever heard regarding worrying is that “worrying is like praying for what you don’t want… And I resolved to not be a worrier… because I’ll be damned if I’ll pray for what I do NOT want!!!!

@arcanondrum6543

2 ай бұрын

Not bad. But we all have the power to make changes and "not worrying" is one of the excuses I hear from too many who are lazy enough to do nothing while evil prevails.

@temite80

2 ай бұрын

Or more simply "worrying is like praying".

@suzannesanchez4864

2 ай бұрын

One should pray and include God in your life.

@paulw5039

Ай бұрын

@@suzannesanchez4864 Which one? There are so many of them.

I adopted the Mad Magazine 'What, me worry?' philosophy when I was about twelve. It drove my mother crazy.

@createone100

3 ай бұрын

Mark Rylance is a BRILLIANT actor!

Mark Rylance, a superb actor.

@ThePerpetualStudent

3 ай бұрын

So underrated. He is phenomenal!

@ianmiles7916

3 ай бұрын

@@ThePerpetualStudent not in the UK. He is one of, if not the best theatre actor. Think he went to Hollywood to top up his pension. He is not a fan of film acting..

@ThePerpetualStudent

3 ай бұрын

@@ianmiles7916 I did not know that. Appreciate the info. I can see him not being a fan of film acting, especially everything that is attached to it.

@ianmiles7916

3 ай бұрын

@@ThePerpetualStudent He is in a Series called Wolf Hall & Dunkirk. I think he mostly does Shakespeare plays.

@mmmmmmmmm4334

3 ай бұрын

Well said…see The Outfit … he stars in it … excellent!

Am i the only one thinking the greatest regret at the end of my life is gonna be "Damn! It's the end of my life!"

@joe18750

2 ай бұрын

I think you're right. I don't think there's any great revelation(s).

"I have to die. If it is now, well then I die now; if later, then now I will take my lunch, since the hour for lunch has arrived - and dying I will tend to later." - Epictetus

Nah, the biggest regret people have in life is always, always, always that they didn't spend enough time with loved ones

@orangewarm1

2 ай бұрын

What if you have no loved ones?

@cosmobuttitta6451

2 ай бұрын

@@orangewarm1love first, the loved ones will make themselves known

@abdirizakyusuf5028

2 ай бұрын

Bull shit........all this hippie gay bullshit of loved ask yourself if those who love you regret not spending enough time with you.FUCKIN Americans you make me sick.

@rightwingkeyboarder4391

2 ай бұрын

@@orangewarm1 Another regret: not meeting enough people to be able to find loved ones/not being loving enough in general

@brotherjon1004

2 ай бұрын

Unicorns and love have never been found in my life.

One might argue that at the end of one’s life, there isn’t anything left to worry about. One looks back over a road already travelled. From that perspective, I’m sure many worries seem futile, because the outcome worried about is now known. One didn’t know that at the time, of course. Which is the point. Everyone gets a first class degree from the university of hindsight.

@DeclanMBrennan

2 ай бұрын

Possibly towards the end, the worries about which road to take, get replaced by regrets for the road not travelled - neither are particularly useful.

@michaelmisczuk1188

10 күн бұрын

Great last line.

Worry/stress is the number 1 killer

Worry means you suffer twice. First you suffer worrying, then what you were worried about. If nothing happens you worried needlessly, and keep suffering until something does. Those that do not worry suffer only once at most, and then for only a moment, living joyfully until the next time✌️💚🖖

Good of you to underline this. Surely it's one of the best lines in the movie history and also from the philosophical point of view.

I thought bridge was excellent movie Tom Hank Sir Mark Rylance wet excellent actor have a bless day

If we could all take this attitude into our hearts, we would all have more peaceful hearts.

@KeithLevers-vt5dg

3 ай бұрын

It's called being stoic.

@gustavgnoettgen

2 ай бұрын

We would also be hungry if we never worried.

These days there are still classic movies made but they're not commercial enough for the wider distribution. Just imagine an action figurine saying: "Would it help?"

An excellent movie, and excellent actors.

I keep telling my wife (a born worrier) that worrying is thinking about something you can’t do anything about, because if you could do something about it you would and then you wouldn’t be worried anymore. I’m 62 and when I think back through some of the things I have worried about in the past I realise I’m still here so those things couldn’t have been that bad. Perhaps that’s why generally the older people get the less they seem to worry about stuff.

One of my favourite films, two wonderful actors ❤

The one regret everyone has at the end of the lives is that the parties always come to an end.

@andnowi

3 ай бұрын

What parties?

@pomx2900

Ай бұрын

The party continues, it's just that you have to leave.

@andnowi

Ай бұрын

@@pomx2900 you're right, I'm sure you would stay if you could, it's just not like that sometimes

How I wish I could take the attitude of "would it help"

@classicaldeb

3 ай бұрын

You can! You are the creator of your own life.

@perfect1150

2 ай бұрын

@@classicaldeb If only it were that easy

@classicaldeb

2 ай бұрын

​@@perfect1150it is! Read The Secret and delve into The Law of Attraction. You will see it become true for yourself!

I often hear people say that they would only regret the things that they didn’t get to do. If only it was that simple. Many of the things we would like to get to do cost money, the kind of money most simply do not have. I would like to visit many places around the world, but i can’t afford it. I would like a big house, and a nice new car, but i can’t afford it. The list goes on. It is acceptable to regret not doing things you wanted, if finance and time allowed you to. But i could never regret not doing something i could not afford, or had too little time to.

@ireallylovegod

3 ай бұрын

I know a chap went to Morocco on a moped , it's doable. You don't need half of the stuff you want you just want it .Rich people get just as depressed as the rest of us , wheras the poor people of Morocco for example as super happy. If i hadn't seen such riches i could live with being poor, rings more true today than ever

@cappystrano1

2 ай бұрын

The world is in your backyard.

@jackdillon5903

23 күн бұрын

I don't think not buying a nice car or a big house are the regrets people have near the end of life. More travel is a likelier regret, I think. Most regrets about "things I wish I had done" are: asking that girl/guy out back in high school, told (person) what I really thought of them, spent more time with (person), etc. None of those really cost much money. No one wishes they had played more video games, watched more TV or been on their phone more. Not even younger people with terminal illnesses.😢

The older Hanks gets the better his films.

I am reasonably confident that worry did my mom in. I said to a family member that she probably worried herself to an early grave. 😢

When I had to take family leave from my job I talked to quite a few people about it, especially more senior employees. The number one thing everyone said was if they could go back in time they would spend more time with their family. One person even took it a little farther and asked me if I knew what the one thing people never say was. That was I wish I spent more time at work. FLY NAVY!!!

Great movie! Great story!

“Cowards die many times before their death, the valiant taste it only once" Shakespeare

Worrying about something often ends up providing either and answer and reducing the impact of the problem. Throughout my life I’ve found worrying is extremely useful in addressing problems. It does help.

@ireallylovegod

3 ай бұрын

Only up to a point ,many people worry when worrying cannot supply an answer or solution ,knowing the difference is key .

@josephb4235

3 ай бұрын

Worrying is like paying a debt that you don't owe.

@davidm4566

2 ай бұрын

Worrying about something rarely helps. Even if the thing we worry about comes true, you just gave away your peace and let it take more from you. Sometimes the worry of the thing is even worse than the thing itsef.

Great movie. I remember something about he tells Hanks that he could tell whether they were going to shoot him by the way his handlers greeted him. I think they indicated he was going to live.

Such a great movie

They never stood their ground.

.....a pure Stoic

If you live your life, as people did in the past to a much greater extent, with a perception of how comfortable you would like to be on your deathbed you can keep those regrets to a minimum.

You can worry too much, and you can worry too little.

worry is the by product of thought

Always remember= today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. Quote on felt wall tapestry at grandparents house every time you came down the stairs it was there staring you in the face. 😊😊

I got sent to therapy when I was 14 because I didn't worry about anything. I didn't concern myself about anything. Nothing bothers me...Later in life they found my amygdala is .5 times smaller than average. It's also why I don't have fear of anything. I have never understood why people get embarrassed or worry or have fear of things. Logical actions precede logical outcomes. If they become illogical, walk. I had a girlfriend in college that would get upset with me about not getting angry about anything. I explained to her then that I hold no hope for anything because that is a human emotion that makes us weak. If you build the sandcastle and it falls, it fell. Go eat an apple or ride a bike.

Excellent, under appreciated movie, “Bridge of Spies”. I remember Frances Gary Powers getting shot down over Russia and the eventual swap with a Russian spy. It was a big deal and the attorney took a lot of crap for defending the spy. But it was a necessary part of the process

Personally, I don't really care about what ever comes up because I have to deal with it so just do what you gotta do.

Excellent movie

@roshanmashoor766

3 ай бұрын

If you don’t mind ! Name of the movie please

@perfect1150

3 ай бұрын

@@roshanmashoor766 Bridge of Spies

watched this yesterday, asked myself today when something started to worry me, would it help?

Many regrets, but eh, they taught me lessons.

Quality movie!

Great movie

It's amazingly simple, but I find it very hard not to do.

Unless you believe in the afterlife, regrets never leave this place we call Earth. So why travel with them during our lives. Acknowledge them and learn from them but don't travel with them. There are enough people out there willing to spend time with regrets. So regrets are never lonely.

Watched it. Lovely movie

Too true, but how do I stop?

@ritahorvath8207

2 ай бұрын

I can't stop. I have to make a trip at the end of the week, and I can't stop worrying .

@jackdillon5903

23 күн бұрын

Focus on the present moment. Most of our worries are about perceived problems that will happen in the future or that have happened in the past. The past cannot be changed so worrying about it won't help. The future doesn't exist yet so why worry about something that doesn't exist? If there's something you can do right now to solve a problem, then do it. No need to worry. If there's nothing you can do to solve a problem, then accept what will occur. No point in worrying.

The main regret I hear people say at the end is. I wish I had traveled more. I wish I hadn't worried so much. They apologize alot. They wish they would've given more.

He should have worry before he did all that.

Would it help?

Boy, I’ve. Even worrying about everyone and everything my whole life…..😢… I guess I fucked up.

The only regret I have is that I wish I'd spent more time in the office! :) :) :)

American Forrest Gump with Soviet Forrest Gump.

Yes, it probably would.

I regret seeing what KZread shorts were about.

ultimately, it doesn't matter.

@ireallylovegod

3 ай бұрын

Ultimately , no , but in the meantime yes it does ,depending on what "it" is.

Like I tell the wife, "Don't sweat the small stuff".

I whish I would have learned more!!!

My hero😂😂😂😂

“Then out spake brave Horatius,
 The Captain of the gate:
 “To every man upon this earth
 Death cometh soon or late.
 And how can man die better
 Than facing fearful odds,
 For the ashes of his fathers,
 And the temples of his Gods” Thomas Babington Macaulay Horatius

go from worrier to warrior 😁

What movie is this?

@tannhauser786

2 ай бұрын

‘Bridge of Spies’

What movie is that?

@kenoliver8913

2 ай бұрын

Bridge of Spies

@philbarone4603

2 ай бұрын

@@kenoliver8913 Thank you Ken!

This is why I shouldn't watch social media. LOADS OF CRAP

@jackdillon5903

23 күн бұрын

That sounds like a regret.

Ah to be able to choose not to. Worry is often like breathing.

And that one regret is...?

Moksha !

How not to worry when It is part of who you are?

@jackdillon5903

23 күн бұрын

But it isn't. Worries are thoughts and you are not your thoughts. I'm not a therapist or self-help guru but many suggest journalling as a strategy to help. Write "Today I had a thought that said..." and journal it. We HAVE thoughts that we can carry around with us. But we can also put them down like the baggage that they are. I'll stop because this is just a KZread comment and no one should take too much advice here. 😊

Only good people worry.

@ireallylovegod

3 ай бұрын

But we worry TOO MUCH , about stuff we cannot control.

Not squatting 800 lbs for one more reps.

Robots, fictional characters and psychopaths don’t worry.

Is it living in the first place😂😂😂😂

I have always been a worrier - and it made me good at my job. I was always thinking of what could go wrong and how it could go wrong - so - if it did - I'd thought of that. The thing there though - is that I also learned not to worry about things I could do nothing about. If I could do something about it - I did - if I couldn't I ceased to care. .

@joe18750

2 ай бұрын

So, in your case, it helped. In his case the forces were so big and reached so far, it wouldn't have helped.

That they didn’t spend more time at the office. 😂

@Name-ps9fx

3 ай бұрын

Would it have helped?

Time wasted?

it kinda would help if he stayed with the allies?

I don't know what this film is.

@davidyoung5114

3 ай бұрын

These clips are from the 2015 movie BRIDGE OF SPIES, starring Tom Hanks and Mark Ryland, who won the Oscar as Best Actor in a Supporting Role for his performance. Directed by Steven Spielberg, it tells the story of Gary Powers, the American spy-plane pilot shot down over Russia, who was exchanged for a convicted Soviet spy (Ryland) and the American lawyer (Hanks) tasked with defending Ryland's character. It's a very good movie, and you should check it out!

It’s United States citizen, not American citizen.

Message : if you area spy never go home Would it help? Lol 😂

The voice and face of the BFG! Big Friendly Giant. You little fragglefrump!

Nobody should have a boss, we’re all just humans.

@joe18750

2 ай бұрын

You're obviously under 25 y/o.

If you need an ACTOR you need a BRIT.

The biggest regret for eLouai should be ignorance of the rules for subject/pronoun agreement

The paranoid are always the ones who survive

nice clip tick -------------- funny scene in a norman wisdom movie ---------- norman accidently ends up in a british commando unit WW2 ----- then captured about to be executed by gestapo german ... would you like one last cigarette no uummm told my wife i was giving up smoking but thank you ....... ...... fire ............... wont spoil ending .... ------- /// why worry .....

“You ever talk to an old person? I mean a really, really old person. They always have this exhausted look on their face that says, I can’t believe I’m still here! I would’ve eaten so much more ice cream. Why did I ever consume kale?” ― Jim Gaffigan, Food: A Love Story

Great movie