HE did not make you a better person. YOU did. YOU let his assault on you change you for the better. YOU decided to respond to his evil selfish act in a compassionate and sympathetic way. Please do not give that molester any credit for all of the good that YOU did for yourself. You're amazing and good and you are a survivor. Proud of you.

@melreal7881

7 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing.

@pfb74

7 ай бұрын

Yeah Jack it was all you. But I completely understand what you mean by that.

@kathyborthwick6738

7 ай бұрын

💯 % correct!

@jtabal100

7 ай бұрын

Yes not everyone responds the way you did

@hungup1984

7 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly 💯

When he said “my moms story isn’t mine to tell”. What a respectful son. Great interview

@bldbar118

7 ай бұрын

😊

@LaKwahsLament

7 ай бұрын

Seriously…that’s what you got out of this

@karatsurba4791

7 ай бұрын

Hmm ... Isn't that obvious, since perception n perspective are different. Thanks for sharing ur thoughts

@ashleygthompson6313

7 ай бұрын

@@LaKwahsLament I’m sorry do you want me to write a long paragraph detailing everything I enjoyed about this interview? Not going to happen. I watched the entire thing & enjoyed it. Why don’t you leave a comment Juan & hop off mine. Have a great day

@AlexandriaBigbum

7 ай бұрын

​@@ashleygthompson6313calm down. You big mad 😂😂

This man is pure love, despite all the pain, horror and evil he experienced in his life. Admirable. One of the best interviews on SWU.

“ It would be a crime if you stopped doing your interviews “…….highest compliment Mark.

@generallyspeaking850

2 ай бұрын

❤️‍🔥

A grew up in Waltham and my brother went to school with Jack. He sent me this video. Mr. Dacey was also my teacher and we all were shocked when he was accused of the abuse. This is the first time that I am hearing actual accounts of what happened Jack, you are an amazing and strong person for telling your story. Don’t ever let anyone tell you any different!

@jeanine0125

6 ай бұрын

Thank you, your comment helped me find the trail information. And also found the article saying he died in 2007.

@dolphenwulf2431

5 ай бұрын

God Bless you Jack. God bless.

@ChelseaMiddlebrook

5 ай бұрын

Do you know his last name or socials? Would love to keep up on him

@goldseraph7051

5 ай бұрын

You'd be surprised how many teachers, coaches etc in the school system are grooming minors. I was one of them for four years my business teacher tried and tried. I don't know where I found my wits about me because I had no support from my parents. I did not comply. Nonetheless, it did affect me in a way that I do not like to stand close to people; even my own family.

@kristintucker5230

5 ай бұрын

@@goldseraph7051 I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you can find inner peace.

This interview cannot get lost down the timeline. One of the most profound and impactful interviews to date.

@christycorreia1963

7 ай бұрын

Agreed

@commercialzone4141

7 ай бұрын

💯 % agreed.

@kevinlynch2248

7 ай бұрын

I agree with you and I have a feeling I'll be coming back to this one more than once.

@karenvickers9172

7 ай бұрын

Absolutely...This guy is totally awesome!! Definitely has a head on his shoulders,,especially after all he's been thru

@amyzzz8910

7 ай бұрын

Agreed!!!

Jack, I came across your video again and it still holds truth. I too was molested as a child by my cousin for over 10 yrs. I had no self worth. I was feeling guilty not telling anyone, letting it go on for so long and thinking it was my fault. I was groomed immensely. I had what you call the “Stockholm Syndrome”. I know now I was the victim and he the predator. I’ve been sober for 14 months. I’ll be 56 the 29th of Feb. It’s taken over 30 yrs. to finally be at peace. I’ve forgiven him and I’m gonna be ok. I hope all is good with you and your son. Stay strong and God Bless You Jack. ❤❤❤

@kikiwilliams6944

3 ай бұрын

Happy Belated Birthday 🎉🎉 ❤

@JohnR.Luv2luvu

3 ай бұрын

@@kikiwilliams6944 thank you

@JohnR.Luv2luvu

2 ай бұрын

@@kikiwilliams6944 thank you very much

Nobody has ever understood or explained opioid addiction like he did. I've said it so long as to why. This man is amazing. I struggled for 15 yrs from opioid abuse for similar reasons, been clean 5 . So glad I made it out

@melissawells5779

4 ай бұрын

Me as well❤❤❤God bless we’re alive, clean 12 years

@jillkennedy3729

4 ай бұрын

Congratulations ❤😊 my sober date is August 12th, 2012. I'm SO happy and proud of you for making it out.

@missrhib

2 ай бұрын

Congrats on sobriety! 👏🏽👏🏽

@jillkennedy3729

2 ай бұрын

@melissawells5779 God is good!! Congratulations to you for your sobriety!! 🤍🎊👏🤍

@leonablack-walker1036

2 ай бұрын

POWERFULLY BRUTALLY F A C T S !!! Spoken honestly from the heart. Thank You. 🙏 ❤❤

Give this man a medal for his storytelling, redemption, and a contract for reading audiobooks!

@donteverfckwithmyvibe

7 ай бұрын

I like how his voice sounds as well; I'm glad I'm not the only one

@kelleyotoole4320

7 ай бұрын

He has a gift with words for sure!!!!

@user-sz8iw4mb6b

7 ай бұрын

he definitely has a way of speaking that makes you want to engage with him and listen, he would make a great motivational speaker!

@christinaheagy4602

7 ай бұрын

Well, he IS a trained actor! Maybe he will see this and pursue that!

@rebeccamarkey2760

7 ай бұрын

YES! I want him to know he truly has a gift!@@user-sz8iw4mb6b

I went to school with Jack and he was hands down one of the absolute nicest human beings. Watching this, listening to your story is so beyond impactful, I can’t even put into words. You are helping us out here with being ok with opening up about our traumas. We are all definitely not alone. No one can ever take our power from ourselves and you sir are reminding me and all the rest of us just that. I give you all the credit in the world Jack! Inspirational. ❤

@JulesDior

6 ай бұрын

Nice guy wish the best for him in his life journey 😊

@SSNorway

6 ай бұрын

Hi Heidi. Norway 🇳🇴 calling. Sorry to bother you like this in the comments on this very important health and recovery interview. But as I'm listening to this really profound story and his mental and personal travel, I started thinking 🤔 my my. He looks Scandinavian... So before I start googleling, maybe you have some facts about the area you live in, in Massachusetts? Maybe some places and names, or surnames. That'll give me some pointers 😅 appreciate all help. It sounds like a lovely family. ❤

@sallylink6329

6 ай бұрын

He seems like an awesome guy, no matter what we do, how bad our lives become or our past, Jesus Christ is the answer & I know this from experience! He looks over & forgives all of our flaws & mess ups & loves us so much that He gave His life for ours! I’m so happy that I know Him & He knows me! ❤ & 🙏🏻 to all

@sbthomas00

6 ай бұрын

I never met him or had similar experiences, but I’ve had my own traumas and this story was so inspiring! Much respect to you, Jack. Best of luck 🙏🏾

@carolynloughran5450

6 ай бұрын

@@sallylink6329 Jesus Christ is not the answer. For you maybe…but that’s not everyone else’s story. Don’t be so presumptuous….we’re not all religious. I’m an atheist and have 13 years of sobriety that I’ve achieved from a ton of hard work…and support from loved ones….and medical care. My sobriety is no less important because I didn’t seek help from “Jesus”.

"to the right person... this can save their life." Thank you, Mark. Jack, I'm on the other side of the world, after seeing this, I Think, I may have found the inspiration to finally go clean. Thank you.

People who do these unspeakable acts on children and even adults have no idea what permanent damage they cause even if it's just a one time thing. I'm going on 52 years old and still struggle with my past. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to all of my survivor brothers and sisters. 😢💔❤️‍🩹🙏🙏🙏

I grew up with Jack. Absolutely awesome guy. One of the most genuinely nice people you will ever meet. It's amazing to see him thriving like this ❤

@jackdoherty1412

7 ай бұрын

Chris, thanks so much for the kind words. And I appreciate you taking the time to watch this video, it means the world to me brother.

@chrismoser9676

7 ай бұрын

Man I'm so happy to see you thriving. You deserve the world man! You've always been an amazing person!

@mondizzle2965

7 ай бұрын

​@jackdoherty1412 I hold you in a high regard...you're one of my brothers and I love and miss you man. I hope you truly know that.

@microgers206

7 ай бұрын

Man I wish I could get clean and get my life back. Thanks for doing this interview @jackdoherty1412

@findingmywaybacktome9312

7 ай бұрын

​@@microgers206 You CAN get clean! Give yourself the chance! Life is so much harder in active addiction than it ever could be clean & sober. I found my 41 y.o. husband dead on 10•30•21 from a fentanyl overdose. You deserve so much better & so do your loved ones 💜🙏.

I was molested by my step father from the time I was 8 years old until I was 12 and I pretended to be asleep every time he would come into my bed. When you described the feelings and the effects that came with not stopping the molestation, I broke down. Because to this day as an almost 21 year old woman, it effects me so much that I didn’t tell him to stop or maybe my body reacted in a way that made me question if I wanted it to happen. I’ve never had anyone understand or put into words how that feels. Thank you so much… I am so sorry that you understand what that feels like but it is so healing to hear someone else talk about it.

@Hurkmaniacs

7 ай бұрын

It takes courage, to share that here.

@carolinefeherty4061

7 ай бұрын

Sweet girl it is NEVER a child’s fault. Pedophelia is a mental disorder DSM 5. The only person that could stop him was adults. He Parents and your Mom. You are brave, strong and loved. Focus on those that love and protect you and those that you love. Not on those that hurt you. My son was CSA in his fathers house by his bigger, older step-brother. He left us because of self blame and shame. It is NOT a victims to carry. NOT your shame or blame. It is the pedophiles shame and every condoning adult allowing it. Every child deserves to grow in safety. I am a grieving Mom, school teacher and also formally trained victims advocate. I will say what victims should not say. It is almost unsayable. You are brave and you help others to be brave. There is strength and power in our voices. Pedophiles rely on silence! I am angry with adults that don’t protect their children. 🤬Maybe by talking I can help a Parent to protect!!! ❤

@viktoreisfeld9470

7 ай бұрын

This kind of thing happened to me too when I was much younger (4 years old). And, it really confused me too. One of the things that really helped me process my feelings was having a professional tell me that it is very common to feel guilty about it and wonder if you were some how asking for it. Nearly everyone that goes through it feels like that. We are human and sex feels good. So, of course when it happens it feels good and is stimulating. But, that doesn't change the fact that you were a victim and a child and unable to consent or even really understand what was happening. Even if you did ask, you were not able to ask. I hope you have, or can find, someone to talk through it with.

@panninggazz5244

7 ай бұрын

14:24 devil he did know vs devil he didn’t know. That says it perfectly.

@Belovelyava

7 ай бұрын

You’re a survivor. Sometimes we have to do things we don’t like to survive. You are here,so you obviously choose correctly. It’s okay,hold your head up,you didn’t do anything wrong. I hope you continue to heal.

This guys a hero. Maybe hero of his own history but still having the balls to do an interview like this will help a ton of people

What an unforgettable line: " I went with the devil I did know to escape the devil I didn't know." Powerful right there. All this is still so damaging for Jack; he didn't make eye solid eye contact while talking. What an incredible story of triumph over trauma.

@megancolasono1108

3 ай бұрын

I never realized it until you said this. But the way he looks off and around is exactly what I do with my eyes when talking about the horrible things I went through as well.

@jayway5226

3 ай бұрын

@@janetjones7600what????

@alexandrashirk6533

3 ай бұрын

@janetjones7600 wrong Jack Doherty, the man you’re talking about is a black man. Fact check yourself before making such wild accusations.

@echospaw899

2 ай бұрын

He made a lot of "solid eye contact". Yeah, he looked in one direction and the other at times, he was looking into the camera often. I understand where you're coming from, but, I think you weren't completely paying attention.

@GeekGamer666

2 ай бұрын

There are other reasons for not making eye contact. Autistic people are uncomfortable making eye contact to a varying degree. I can do it by cheating and looking at a point on someone's face so I'm looking in the direction of their eyes, other people can't even manage to look at the face of the person they're interacting with. Note that I'm not suggesting that Jack is autistic, I'm just using this to highlight the point that there are other reasons for certain behaviours that you might not immediately know about so it's important to remember not to make assumptions.

This guy makes me wanna be a more loving person. He endured things that could have turned him into a monster but he seems so kind and genuine.

@billred3820

5 ай бұрын

He was a fucking monster

@Ireallyreallywishiwerenthere

5 ай бұрын

Because he had such a wonderful mother ❤ wish I had the same lmao

@fullredplatinum

5 ай бұрын

they did turn him into a monster, they made him into a drug addict snake that didn't notice one of his drug partners were killing herself on the phone with him. He managed to get clean up and sober but he was a monster for a portion of his life.

@jackdoherty1412

4 ай бұрын

@@fullredplatinumI was a monster for a long time, and I own that part of my life. If I could somehow change the hurt I’ve caused I would, but all I can do is reflect and make sure I do not ever behave in that manner again. I do the best I can.

@faith4390

4 ай бұрын

​@@jackdoherty1412Great introspective look at ones self. Very hard to do but some are capable.

One thing this man fails to realize is how GREAT and wonderful and self aware he is. He gave everyone so much credit, even his predators (BOTH of them), but he never credited himself for getting to where he is and to express himself so eloquently. He needs to celebrate himself and give himself a pat on the back... I pray he remains well and true to himself. God bless ❤

@rogergr5019

5 ай бұрын

Same thoughts ❤

@BrandiMiles-vf3dc

5 ай бұрын

Such a gracious person.

@alexsheppard153

5 ай бұрын

Was the first situation a predator? He said the first situation was exploration with another person? Was that person also a minor? If so, it may have been normal exploration among minors of the same age. If it was an adult, of course, it was predatory.

@CCelia1953

4 ай бұрын

​​@@alexsheppard153...I understood the predator in the first instance was his "trusted" coach😢

@lmla46

4 ай бұрын

​@@alexsheppard153 first situation was 2 boys experimenting sexually. Friends. He was doomed to be preyed upon, but ha, he came out on top and became a better human, better man, better friend, better son, better neighbor for it! Bad can always be turned into good.

@Jack ~ I am going to be 74y.o.this year. I am a survivor and have *ALWAYS* thought of myself as less than. Since listening to this video I have made a commitment to myself . . . I am going to (try) to tell myself I have value, that I matter. I'd love to love myself, forgive myself, and be gentle with myself before I pass away. One thing I know for certain, without any doubts . . . absolutely everything happens for a reason, there are no coincedences. Thank you for allowing Mark to interview you. No coincedence I heard exactly what I needed to hear today. I wish you well

@angienicolegonzales2066

3 ай бұрын

@gretchenlKlein you are beautiful and amazing and you have ALWAYS had value and you have ALWAYS mattered no matter what you’ve been through. Always remember that 🩷

@GretchenlKlein

3 ай бұрын

@@angienicolegonzales2066 I'm going to write your response down and carry it in my bag! A constant reminder ~ *THANK YOU*

@fritzfxx

3 күн бұрын

That's a good commitment, gretchen. You can't do good things without goodness inside yourself

I had Jack in my head, last week. It was a hard week. I was bawling my face off and in came Jacks voice . I thought i was damaged goods. No one wants damaged goods. But THIS video, is what came in my head, and knocked the negative out. Your videos and their stories, change lives. In amazing way. I am truly grateful for this channel. Thank you

@jackdoherty1412

3 ай бұрын

This is such an amazing thing, thank you so much for taking the time to not only watch my interview but to also let me know it helped through a rough week. Means the world to me!!

@brendamorris7263

3 ай бұрын

Jack, just keep love in the forefront… be the kind of man you would have loved to have had for a Dad… and protect your son from the evil in this world. You are an amazing, awesome person. Please stay clean and be a “Hutch” to as many as possible. God loves you or you would not have survived. You are here by His grace and purpose… and you will always matter.❤

“Tell me a situation that love does not help” will stick with me. Thank you, Jack.

@loveinthematrix

7 ай бұрын

Seriously xx

@NorthernGreenEyes

6 ай бұрын

♥️

Been a therapist for over 20 years and this story and Jacks insight and healing brought me so much hope! You’re amazing Jack! Keep going❤ God loves you!!!

@melaninmonroeeee

6 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🤎🫶🏾✨

@pauliuscs

5 ай бұрын

This only proves gods are not real, but people are, it is people that fix things not magic men.

@ixxgxx

5 ай бұрын

I like the one where the guy kills his perp. but they are equally powerful.

@nicholasross8580

3 ай бұрын

can you please leave YOUR religion out of it? ... a product of rape, abused at 4 until 12 then again til 14, addicted to drugs....and this was all god's plan? your license should be put into question for this insanity.

@DamePiglet

2 ай бұрын

​@@pauliuscs it proves that men do terrible things. That's all. You're projecting your angst.

Hurt people hurt people until they find hope and learn they are enough. Then they can do immense good and break the cycle. This is the hero's journey. Every one is a miracle.

“What is a man” you sir are a beautiful example of one. I was totally engrossed in your story and blown away by your honesty. Thank you for sharing ❤

I'm a recovered opioid addict. While watching these presentations, on numerous times, I've called BS on things people said. This man is the most honest and sincere testimony I've ever heard. May The Most High God bless him and keep him during the rest of his days.

@faith4390

4 ай бұрын

HalleluYah!

@helgaleiteevora2987

3 ай бұрын

​​​​@@Jaspergiraffelmbooo why tho? What does your questioning her beliefs accomplish? Like what is your end goal? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. But somehow you pinpointed just that in their comment to push your hatred towards God. Shat-up. May the cookie monster bless this man. He is currently too busy to address your question though so no need to ask me where my cookie God was.

@JusticeWithMeEmmaMarie

3 ай бұрын

Called BS on ppls life experiences and abuse? 🤔

@Cagney68

3 ай бұрын

​​​@@Jaspergiraffe- Same place He/It always is: nowhere.

@terryr97

3 ай бұрын

What purpose does it serve you in causing doubt or arguing against other people's belief? Does that make you happy? Really, such a waste of your time. Put it to better use. What other people believe is not your business.

I'm also an SA survivor from a young age and turned to IV opiates to numb the pain. I've been sober 13 years now, and everything Jack said resonates with me. I hope people hearing this story know that the junkies in their lives and the junkies on their streets are medicating hidden pain, and there is more to everyone's story than meets the eye. May we all be kind and find ways to help each other.

@natalie5707

7 ай бұрын

Proud of you stranger!!!! 13 years is bad ass!!

@TheCursingYogi

7 ай бұрын

We numb to survive because we are usually the type that can’t hurt a fly- Our minds can’t understand how. I love you unconditionally for sharing this moment of reflection with a fellow friend 🫶🏻

@Jessica-ro2bi

7 ай бұрын

Sending you loving kindness.

@donnasteele6399

6 ай бұрын

13 years sober is amazing and I am so happy for you. I am in recovery myself I have 1127 days. Yep, I’m still counting those days. And that’s OK I might count those days the rest of my life. But every day I stay clean and I stay sober I have a fighting chance of living to see another day.😊

@takyrica

6 ай бұрын

❤

When Jack says that Dace made him a better person...😢I actually think that because he knows that he was conceived through trauma and was shown love by his Mum and family, he would have already been made aware and have had the narrative that good can still come out of bad situations...truly a great guy and big ups to his Mum. Bless you both ❤

You are a caring , well spoken, handsome young man. I pray all good things for you. You certainly deserve it.

Only 1/4 way through this video and I'm already speechless. From the moment he said his moms story wasnt his to tell, I knew this man had something so pure and beautiful inside of him despite what traumas he has endured. He truly is beautiful soul.

I'm 14 minutes in and I am so impressed at how emotionally smart and analytical this person is. Wow! 42 minutes in....he is so honest. There is no BS there. No excuse.

@marylougeorge9890

7 ай бұрын

He really knows himself quite well. That takes courage and hard work.

@SlapShox-vp4fp

7 ай бұрын

He called his mother by him twice..

@mindsigh4

7 ай бұрын

@@SlapShox-vp4fp i don't understand what u wrote

What a humble, authentic guy. he shares in a way that the trauma is real, but the good outshines all else. So uplifting!

I can only wish the very best for Jack. He didn’t play the victim, he took responsibility for his actions, he made a conscious decision to change his life for the better. Well spoken, kind and you can feel that he has a heart full of love. May god bless you forever. You are and will be an amazing person and father. You are another Hutch. You will be a beacon for others lost.

When he said “I chose the Devil I know for the Devil I did not know”….. it opened up secrets I have struggled with for almost 60 years. I hope you’re ok. You’re special.

The ability Jack has to turn an evil act that caused incredible trauma into a positive is something so rare and infinitely precious. Jack, you are an inspiration and we are all blessed by you sharing your experiences.

@angelaharris2659

6 ай бұрын

This ❤

@Ealene

6 ай бұрын

HE didn't turn it into a positive thing. Recovery did.

@vincevirtua

6 ай бұрын

Did you actually watch the whole thing, he was ok with a woman being dead? I sympathise with what happened to him as a kid, but he was a coward and selfish as an adult.

@karinarnaud4093

6 ай бұрын

​​@@EaleneYou're saying it as if recovery is something that happened TO him of which he was the passive recipient. Recovering is only made possible if we change our thinking. Reframing his experiences and seeing the gift in every dark situation, is an incredibly rare ability. I would say that that played a big part in him recovering to the extent that he did, which only the smallest percentage of heroine addicts ever achieve.

@karinarnaud4093

6 ай бұрын

The operative word being "was". Addicts often lose their values, morals and who they are, anything to get their needs satisfied, and that almost always means being selfish. He has recovered and is brutally honest about his past actions and choices. He's not blaming anything on anyone other than himself. In other words, he's a changed man who takes responsibility for what he did. Summerhill's comment is an acknowledgement of the person he is now. Why would you still judge a person on their past?

Idk how I stumbled upon this but with tears in my eyes I just want to tell this man how truly incredible he is. All I could do is hope I bump into a Jack one day just to tell him how much of a light he is!

@jackdoherty1412

4 ай бұрын

I truly appreciate the kind words, it means a lot to me. To go out of your way not only to watch my interview but also comment such a nice thing is incredibly humbling.

@TheDazha14

4 ай бұрын

No..thank you my friend!!! You are simply an amazing human and inspiration to us all!

@Automobiliana

3 ай бұрын

⁠​⁠@@jackdoherty1412Me too have tears in my eyes while I write this. You have found the light, god bless your heart. ❤

@jenniferdnoseworthy2348

Ай бұрын

Things were rough the past few days. I’ve been basically alone for going on 5 months now, recovering from a broken kneecap. I live alone. Spent days crying, days pissed off, days stewing. I’ve been living my life, with things I can’t talk about for a long time. You are so candid and well spoken, your thoughts are orderly and you make yourself understood without too many words. I’ve been completely fixated on what you’ve been saying. You’re just marvellous you know that? I see a beautiful heart, a very relaxing voice, a brain that is functioning so well for what you’ve been through, all wrapped up in a good looking package. I hear your accent now and then and that’s cool too. A boss once told me your accent is the only part of your culture and heritage you can take with you haha. I’m from Newfoundland, I get it. Continued success in your life. ❤⭐️🇨🇦

@jackdoherty1412

Ай бұрын

@@jenniferdnoseworthy2348 rough days pass, I know it’s hard but try to notice the things you have that you’re grateful for. I appreciate you reaching out it truly means a lot to me. I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time right now and I hope you’re able to recover quickly from the knee injury. I am currently working on a new project that may help people on a more consistent basis on my KZread channel.

I just want to hug him. It made me tear up hearing him talk about hutch and his appreciation for others. Theres not many people that openly express their appreciation. He has been through so much but is still so loving and that motivates me. I hope he has a great rest of his life ❤

@Shotbyfame

4 ай бұрын

I’m literally at that point right now! We all need to find our inner Hutch!

You kept yourself physically safe that day, Jack. Horrible that you had to make that decision as a 13 year old boy -- you were in an unimaginably vulnerable and dangerous situation, you did the right thing that day. May you be blessed every day for the rest of your days.

@917hazel

7 ай бұрын

What a beautiful comment. Thank you.

@marylougeorge9890

7 ай бұрын

Yes. He definitely kept himself from harm. Scary to imagine being alone with someone who’d shown you their anger.

@alliet808

7 ай бұрын

Amen to that ❤

@TheMicturation

7 ай бұрын

dont know if one could say he did the right thing that day,it definitely had a negative affect on his soul not standing up to the deception and letting it,the deception, proceed. not knocking him as one cant judge if never in that position he was obviously in a state of shock realising this guy,his coach,trickd him into makin a young boys dream come true,i cant imagine the level of shock as a guy an only 13 years of age an an admirer of girls myself being trapped in this level of deception,its unimaginable.becos the 13 yr old mind is not mature enuff to process what is actually goin on in that moment,so even if he did halt that demonised individuals intentions that day there is no way of knowing his life woulda turned different,he will never know,but he has learned to let it go and forgiven himself which is the life learning lesson here i feel

You’re someone’s hutch now, Jack. Proud of you and your accomplishments. Keep going ❤

This is the ONLY show/series/entertainment I watch on any platform. I don’t watch tv at all. I watch soft white underbelly. This interview is by far my most favorite and impacting one. Thank you so much to you, Mark for what you do and to Jack and all the others who have shared their stories. Jack, you ARE, in real time, embodying what Hutch was for you! You are beautiful INSIDE! You both do know how impacting this is!! Thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart! ❤❤❤

@JohnDoe-mp1zk

3 ай бұрын

it never gets to you, listening to so much misery

This guy has done all his shadow work, and he is grateful for it. This guy and his story matters and learnt life’s story the hard way, what a great story he told, and he lived to tell the tale. Thank you for your story, impactful.

This is hands down the best interview I’ve ever watched! The way Jack is able to take his pain and turn it to positivity is incredible! You kept asking what was the definition of a man, n it’s you bud! You’re a hell of a man Jack! Much respect

@musicwith9lives

4 ай бұрын

Totally🎉 What a humble beautiful soul, he is!

@mulvaney04

4 ай бұрын

Jack needs a movie done on his life. His raw honest and self awareness is so compelling. You're a warrior Jack.

This man gives the impression of being a kind, gentle, and genuine soul. He went through a lot but does not seem resentful. We need more people like him.

@tmm226

5 ай бұрын

He is not people, he is a man...

@CCelia1953

4 ай бұрын

❤we don't nééd people like him, we need to be as gracious and self aware. Much love to him, the same age age range as my two sons that went through many same scenarios as him🕊️💕❤️

@davestephen8679

2 ай бұрын

He needs the gospel as we all do

What another amazing beautiful interview. As a mom of boys - his story made me teary. He is a beautiful soul. I think Jack’s grandfather is looking over him.. and I pray he finds his path. His story and soul will help so many.

This is amazing example of a true man. Amazing integrity.

I am speechless. This may be the strongest man in the world, being able to move forward and speak of his journey in such a clear, concise, and brutal way. Incredibly impactful. He has the ability to help so many people move forward. I hope he uses his gift.

I had to comment, I had to. This video blew my mind. The way Jack spoke with such honesty, humility and courage. Such beauty in his love and compassion towards others, especially Hutch. What an incredible, beautiful human you are Jack. Thank you, thank you for sharing your story with us. You are a true inspiration to so many.

@juliemorrison2553

7 ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking! I plan to share this with some people hoping it shines light into their dark places the way his story brightened mine.

@bpxdurangoinc7013

7 ай бұрын

This man is hard to like. He is a criminal and he has caused the worst damage to others

@chrismoser9676

7 ай бұрын

I grew up with Jack. He has always been the most genuinely nice person you will ever meet. He was super popular & always looked like a movie star but was always the most down to Earth, kind person. He's to this day a great guy

@chrismoser9676

7 ай бұрын

​@@bpxdurangoinc7013I hope you're not talking about Jack. He's a fantastic person. I know him personally, and everyone that does will tell you he's a great guy

@ritatorrez552

7 ай бұрын

​@@bpxdurangoinc7013he literally had Buffalo Bill tying him up! He is a Survivor and he is a repenter

Jack you have over 1M views ❤ “I matter.” Phenomenal interview. You talked about going to therapy and rehab which is a blessing in itself on your road to recovery. If I could have two wishes I would wish for therapy and rehab. I’ve been sober almost five years. Never was addicted to hard drugs. My drug of choice was alcohol. I’m new to Mark’s channel and I can’t get enough. This channel is my therapy for now. I’m self medicating in a way. I can’t talk to my family and there’s a reason I’m single -I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with all my baggage. Everything you went through made you who you are today. A better person a better you. That’s all I want. To be happy in my own skin. It’s hard to get help with no insurance and no support system. Taking one day at a time. Ty for your story. I need to find Hutches interview next. He sounds amazing. You left a great impression on me and I’m sure many others. Congratulations on being a dad. Your son is very fortunate to have you as a father. God bless.

Thank you for opening up with this video. Even though I didn’t go down the same path doing substance abuse, it ended with me trying and luckily failing to take my own life. I’m still thankfully for the police that took me down to the station realising what just happened and getting me in contact with all the right people for getting therapy. People like Jack telling their story, thanking others for making a positive impact and telling others they mater make all the difference. I wish you all the best, and thank you for making a positive impact on my life.

This man and his story is the true power of redemption. SWU is absolutely necessary Mark. Your work is changing lives, period.

@marylougeorge9890

7 ай бұрын

Yes! I was so happy to hear Mark getting the credit for his work. Only a person who neglects to listen with their heart can only think extortion.

Jack, when you reached out to the camera and said "you matter" and then Mark agreed with you, I was overcome with breath taking sobs. I didnt even know how much I needed to hear that. This whole interview was a gift. Thank you.

@izzy8823

7 ай бұрын

I was reading this comment when he said that ...cool coincidence..

@heatherhall3452

7 ай бұрын

I was reading your comment 💞🙏🏽

@zavino863

6 ай бұрын

@warypoppins I will tell you as well “you matter” sending you a big hug.

This interview hit me profoundly. I had a very similar experience with a teacher and “coach” at age 13. During the last 5 years I feel the need to talk about it. Years of therapy helped me deal with the usual aftermath of that experience, but why now? I Didn’t have any issues with drugs or alcohol, but my little brother did. He ended up dying from an overdose. You sharing your story touched me. Thanks.

One of the aspects he taps into is the duality of the human experience; it astounds me every damn time! Profound interview. I cannot rave enough. 🤞🏽

As a person from the East Coast, this guy’s honesty is a quintessential example of how we grow up back home on the East Coast. I admire him so much for laying out all of the painful experiences, so that we all learn from them. This guy is an amazing man and I wish him nothing but great things in this life.

@artistrybyjennifer

6 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing... I'm pretty sure we all have a " scully" here also lol.. 🤍😘

@meganngeorge

6 ай бұрын

Fellow New Englander. Absolutely agree.

@NorthernGreenEyes

6 ай бұрын

I doubt this is exclusive to the East Coast but I understand what you all are saying. 🙏🏻 best of luck to you all.

@sciencenotstigma9534

6 ай бұрын

@@NorthernGreenEyes. The story had an East Coast flavor and this speaker has characteristics that are unique to East Coast culture. I think that’s what was meant, not that honesty only happens in that subculture. I had a foster parent from the East who was very influential to me (and others) and I see what they’re talking about! ❤

To be able to face the darkest part of yourself and be honest about how dark you can be and move forward takes the most incredible type of human. The world needs more Jacks.

I have told so many people about this wonderful story. Jake possesses a calm honest nature that makes the whole recounting just incredible. His empathy for all is so apparent. It was a real inspiration to see his outlook and mature nature retold through his life experiences. He gives so much credit to others and I hope he realizes how much he deserves for his actions. One great human being. I hope the rest of his life is heaven.

I’ve come across people like Jack who choose to see the good in everyone and everything and back in my young age i’d always thought they were naive. But I now realize that people like them, as Jack said, are rare gems. And we should cherish and hold them close and safe if we ever have the pleasure of crossing paths with them. Thanks for a great video Jack and Mark.

As an SA survivor... it hit me hard when he described viewing the abuse like he was watching a movie and not in his own body. Im also an addict. Thank you brother

@kelis8883

5 ай бұрын

Yes! So awkward...I don't like to put a name on things sometimes but look up disassociation disorder I feel like I'm watching myself all the time a complete outta body experience...prayers for your recovery!

@indigomoon777

4 ай бұрын

Disassociation

@Mushroom321-

4 ай бұрын

Definitely relate with the disassociation...🤔

“The whole time I was whole, I just didn’t know it” THIS!!!!! I am forever changed by this interview. Jack the way you spoke with such eloquence shows that you have done the work and you are WHOLE! I wish nothing but the best for you and anyone attached to you in this life and beyond. Mark you do amazing work! Bless you both ❤

@mariesprowl2348

5 ай бұрын

Yes I loved that particular insight he experienced.

He is soooooooo gorgeous !!! And the amount of strength to tell his story !!!! I’m in LOVE

@marcinorris2462

7 күн бұрын

Yeeessssss

"By your testimony people will be saved" Thank you for another success story! You are enough and you do matter❤❤❤❤❤

Wow! This is what internal healing and the tough self work looks like. He is calm, introspective, self aware and poignant. Thank you Jack for being vulnerable, real, and honest. You're a success story, you're worthy, and deserves peace and wholesome love. Keep on keeping on

@suzycreamchez123

7 ай бұрын

Well said. Thanks for expressing the thoughts of many of us so well.

@katforgiven6411

7 ай бұрын

ALL YOU YOU/us deserve peace and LOVE and respect and I pray that you get it. Bless you all.

“Once you learn how to ride a bike, walking somewhere just seems so ridiculous!” Wow! I legitimately FELT that!! Our stories & our REDEMPTION are so similar, Jack! May God bless you & your beautiful family!

The level of self awareness this man has is what we all should strive for. "There isnt a situation that love cant fix!" Wow "I matter"

Such a powerful interview and presentation. And what a beautiful soul Jack has. The world is a better place with him in it, just like Hutch. He's helping people by showing such a kind and generous spirit. One thing I would like to add is that SA can happen in ANY situation. It doesn't matter if you have both parents. But I understand that having both parents is a tremendous advantage for most people. Thank you for publishing this!

This is a person that truly worked the programs , paid attention to what real Counselors and Therapist said to them, absorbed the information, learned to COPE and came out the otherside a better person. This is the result of hard work. ❤

That is undeniable one of the best interviews I've ever watched. That was real. What a wonderfully well spoken introspective person. "He's a unicorn"

@SandyMay61

5 ай бұрын

He’s a Hutch!

I came across Soft White Underbelly by chance a few weeks ago. It has been the best channel I have ever watched. As a social worker, I hear stories like this everyday. The power of resilience is amazing and hearing these stories shed some light on how many persevere. Thank you for the work you do!

Jack has beautiful blue eyes. He also has a kind soul. What a wonderful young man!

Secrets make us sick. Thank you for sharing your life with the world. You just made an impact for those suffering. Blessings, Jack.

I did not want this interview to end. Jack, you are loved. I hope that you realize the impact that you’ve made by simply speaking on this channel and I’m sure that you will go forward with many more positive impacts on our society.

This interview I've scrolled by multiple times but just now watching. The self awareness this man has is amazing. I love his story telling, he seems king, gentle and humble. I wish him nothing but life-long happiness!

Wow. One of the very best interviews I have ever seen. This guy is amazing - self-aware, accountable, loving, respectful. He is the definition of his question - what is a man. It's him. Many many thanks for interviewing this wonderful human being.

This is dark man, what an incredible disposition this man has. Can tell he’s a great man, this is the exact reason why you don’t mess with people and always treat them with respect, looking at him you would never guess something this sinister could’ve happened to him during his childhood. Respect everyone, always.

I like how Jack had so many good things to say about other people and wasn't willing to badmouth anyone and at the same time held himself to a high standard (probably higher than he holds other people to) and took complete responsibility (and then some). It's a good character trait.

Jack, you are one of the most eloquent speakers I’ve seen on this channel. You describe things so clearly and it is apparent you are wise beyond your age. I’m happy you have been able to come full circle and live a good life despite all you’ve been through. Many blessings to you!

I know I’m not the only one that immediately looked up Hutch after this video.

This man is so good and so inherently kind. The staggering amount of empathy he shows towards everyone, including those who damaged him, is incredible! I think it’s because of this empathy he was able to work through all of the pain and suffering he endured. He is so honest and self aware and even when talking about his own shortcomings he doesn’t try to shift the blame. He owns everything- the good, bad, and the ugly. I am seriously rooting for his success as it’s clear how much work he’s put into becoming the man he is today ❤

@seungminwhatisyourproblem

7 ай бұрын

He's not good. You can be surface level kind but to be that selfish as a drug user is just callous.

@thegmom7812

7 ай бұрын

​@@seungminwhatisyourproblemwhat do you mean ?

@zdrumdude

7 ай бұрын

@@seungminwhatisyourproblemwhat are you talking about stoner?

@BeastYouTube-nb1wp

7 ай бұрын

he reminds me of myself good looks and well built body i looked 18 already when i was 15-16 prob why no one really tried any funny stuff but iv been told by many people and friends threw out my life that i give off this safe aura even they feel safe around me i was like what do u mean ? he said like for eexample he dont have to worry about my starting sht and calling him for help to back me up ect, funny my homie at the time who said that much older then me and been threw a dark life drugs, he used to be in a nazi gang even has the tatoo on his back had no idea i have never even had a fist fight in my life befor, what sht am i gona drag you into lol? he didn't believe me at first.. to this day im 29 and i have never lifted my hand to anyone my whole life nor have i ever been beat up or bullied its weird cause i had soo much anger and hate growing up mainly towards myself i guess. and im by no means a wimp or scared i even when to see a psychologist about my excess testosterones lvls and why im 15-16 and i look like im 18 naturally big exo skeleton eect... i could have fuked sht up if i wanted to but i just never did some how. I played rugby so i knew i was strong physically, i just avoided all the drama and bad vibes somehow, i was molested at a young age by my older brother there was truma i experienced, as big and strong that i was my heart was even bigger i guess lol. Big friendly giant i was never a threat to anyone and drug use lead me to my far bottom befor i realized how damaged i was and started to piece everything together and now i know exactly what happened, why it happened and who did it aswell it gave me closure knowing now and be able to understand

@BeastYouTube-nb1wp

7 ай бұрын

homie is tweaking@@thegmom7812

My mom had a spirit like Hutch. She took her own life back in 2016. To sum it up, there’s lots of big reasons my mom was referred to by everyone in our town as an angel long before her passing. Thank God for people like her and and Hutch. Their kindness, love and legacy lives on in all the lives of the people they’ve touched. Thank you Jack for sharing your story, you’re more of a Hutch than you realize

How on earth good can come out of such terrible tragedies is a true mystery of human life - what a deeply moving story ❤

I am so sorry that this happened to you. It breaks my heart.

Now, 60 day's sober from alcoholism. Your videos help me so much Mark thank you

@moondog9086

7 ай бұрын

Congratulations!! Keep on fighting the good fight!

@itzellluna5079

7 ай бұрын

@@moondog9086 thank you so much 💞

@Tallgirlsrock

7 ай бұрын

That's great! ❤️

@tammyburke9453

29 күн бұрын

I'm trying to get 1 day

This is one of the most incredible interviews on this channel. What a valuable insight into how trauma Impacts someone for the rest of their lives. How brave he is for telling this story. I am blown away.

@magdawa787

7 ай бұрын

Tak, ta rozmowa jest wyjątkowa.

@mbbeautea6986

6 ай бұрын

Me too. Completely amazed and awe inspiring

Well said, Mark. Your interviews are indeed a mirror of our society. Anyone commenting that you’re “exploiting” your subjects are simply unwilling to accept societal reality. This country is hard…and to those living the great lie of “Leave It To Beaver” living…God bless them. But we truly appreciate you, Mark. Thank you for sharing reality and giving a voice to these individuals who don’t think they matter. Just like Jack said…they DO matter…regardless of the hell through which they’ve been.

I raised two boys as a single mom and I will swear on my life that boys must have a consistent father during their lives to become great men. My boys struggle without this essential relationship. So many boys would not suffer coming into manhood if they had the male influence of a father. Thank for this interview Mark.

@benhudson4014

4 ай бұрын

So true the lack of men in families is one of the causes of the pandemic of mental illness that's being caused by pharma, war, and these times,

Beautiful! My son is 38 and still living your past. I’m going to ask him to watch this.

@billiejocowell3242

4 ай бұрын

My son , 38 too, 12 yrs prison off and on, he’s been clean for 6 yrs has a lovely girlfriend and has the rest of his life ahead of him. One thing I did was never left him, just keep loving him.

"Everything we do is either an act of love or an act of fear. (Once you see that. You have no choice except to be loving)" Mark you made that quote even stronger. Much Luv to all.

I’m from Massachusetts and there is a huge opioid problem here just like many other parts of the country. Sharing his story was very brave and insightful. He seems like one of the lucky ones who pulled himself out of a very dark place. Talking about these things really does lead to healing.

for me this is the sincerest interview I have ever watched, there is soul in it, really life changing especially when the right person watches it.

Sobbing, what a beautiful man! So we’ll spoken, felt everything he said in my soul.

@tamzenkarma

4 ай бұрын

Me too 🙏💜🕯️

My favorite interview. If someone watched this and felt no impact, they need to check their pulse. We all can impact this world in some small way... He said beautifully how much these interviews can change a heart. I hope Jack realizes the impact he's made. Without any reason to feel proud of him..I feel proud. May he receive the blessings he deserves, and continues to speak words that help others, and in doing that, he continues to heal himself. Today will be a better day after watching this. Thank you both!❤

Wow this is a great interview. Something about this man is just so touching. His self awareness and ability to take accountability is just incredible. This seems like a very thoughtful interview. You can tell he has done the work on himself and I think that is something to be really proud of.

Wow! Jack - thank you for your honesty. I've known a few people who made it through these difficult situations and eventually came out okay and now I know about you. I'm going to refer people to you and Hutch. Just hearing that you can recover from sexual abuse and drug addiction, lead a fairly normal life, and help others is the message people struggling need to hear. Love is the answer. Mark, thank you for doing these videos. If I wasn't living in poverty (in my 60s), I would help fund your valuable work. Maybe things will financially get better, and I can one day help. I grew up outside Detroit but live in Charlotte, NC. I have a background in Social Work and Sociology and know how important it is for people to hear recovery stories. I wish I was in CA helping you.

I was not shocked at all to hear that this man's life was touched by Hutch. My life was touched by Hutch and the only place I was exposed to him was here, thanks to you. You're doing great things by shining a light on the people who don't move in everyone's circles at once so that they can impact us one circle of people at a time. There's a lot of love in this guy's words, and a lot of love that comes through in the work that you do. Thank you.

@yellowsubmarine7073

7 ай бұрын

Agreed 💯❤

@marylougeorge9890

7 ай бұрын

Beautifully written. ❤️

The clarity Jack has is incredible. This is so powerful because it shows that an unexamined life is not worth living. Powerful to see how one man can transform his life through investigation. Thank you 🙏🏼

You remind me of my son with a similar story to tell and his birth dad too. Sending so much love, and understanding. Please do not question or blame yourself. You're a beautiful person!!❤

The fact is this man can turn it around into seeing the good of it and being a better human being is amazingly shocking and admirable.

Mark, I don't think I've ever heard you get as emotional as you were in this video. I think the fact that Jack not only told an incredible story but did a mini interview with you is a great reflection of how deep his intentionality with people is

The self awareness here blows my mind. This interview is one of my top 5 from SWU, and that's saying a lot. Great job.

@nikirrae8495

5 ай бұрын

I feel this type of self awareness is rare

Probably the most beautiful video I have seen of yours. Thank you for inviting these people to share their story.

The biggest lies are the ones you tell yourself. Jack is an amazing example of someone no longer buying their own bullshit. He openly owns it all. Truth. Well done.