I know: At the very moment I'm writing these sentences, there are already 82,012 comments to this video. I might be too late, because no one ever will read this. But I have to do this. For my brother. 13 years ago, I was 17, my oldest brother just got 30. (Disclaimer: I was always the little brother, of course. Always too young to hang out with the friends of my older "cooler" brothers.) But when I got 16/17 he accepted me as a real man. Brother. "semi-mature"-guy. From 2005 to 2007 we did a lot of things together. He invited me to his home. When he did this the first time, it was one of the proudest moments of my life. Hanging out with the real dudes. Wow. You can't imagine how proud I felt. :) In 2007 my brother had to go the doctor. He had breathing problems. Long story short: He was diagnosed with lung cancer. Incurable. His lung cancer was so "rare", even doctors from the US (Hopkins Medicine School? I'm not really sure) wanted to analyze his illness. (I swear: This is no bragging. This is just the truth and extremely sad.) He knew that he will die. We all knew. In the last months he made the best out of it. We both did. We played a lot of guitar and sang together. And so the circle is complete. :) The last song we played together was this one here. We both sang. And I played the guitar. I think we did it roundabout 25 times. We stopped because we had to smoke. Yeah, he had lung cancer. He shouldn't smoke of course. But in his last days he didn't care. Nevertheless, after the last repetition of the song and when we smoked the last cigarrette: I cried as fuck. He didn't. He was so strong and happy that we shared these last "drunken moments" together. We made the best of these last days. And now: After 13 years I can finally write about it. I love you, my brother. And I will never forget you. I promise. Jani, mach's gut. Ich liebe dich. Please folks, I don't need a like/thumbsup/whatever. But please dot it for my brother. So that maybe some other people will read this and give a little smile to my brother in heaven. Love you! And: Thank you, The Fray! (Sorry: I'm not a native speaker. Here are definitely a lot of grammar/vocabulary fails in the text.)

@tacoemporium2500

4 жыл бұрын

Your brother seems like he was quite a special and unique person and I’m glad you was finally able to share your story with everybody. Keep fighting to honor your brother and continue his legacy because you’re going to do great things in your life (: my condolences to your brother and I hope he rests peacefully

@AndrewCharles1

4 жыл бұрын

I read to the end for your brother. And for you.

@nicolasfohn1761

4 жыл бұрын

Wow dini Gschicht hed mich echt berührt😪 Ich hoffe, dass es dir guet gaht.

@kikitokiru3625

4 жыл бұрын

Hey, ich möchte dir nur kurz meine Mitgefühl und ein Lächeln an dich und deinen Bruder senden. Machs gut.

@mrgameshow7768

4 жыл бұрын

I'm crying

Teachers: “get in groups of 3” The 4th homie:

@putrixkx2251

4 жыл бұрын

lmao imma make this a meme

@reyblade1546

4 жыл бұрын

Literally just saw this on insta

@eviepress8560

4 жыл бұрын

I CHONKED

@fabienne4348

4 жыл бұрын

I am the 4th homie everytime 😂😭

@crimsonshadow8020

4 жыл бұрын

This hits a little to close to home

I listened to this song on repeat in 2019, falling apart after losing my husband to an addiction. We were both addicted but I chose to get sober, though I begged him to stop he didn't. We soon grew apart, I felt every pain. There was no changing him there was only fighting. Soon the fighting became a fight to save my life. So many times I wanted to relapse just to be closer to him. I watched us turn into people I didn't recognize, he went missing and only his skeletal remains were found. Five years later, I'm still sober. I come back here to read the comments and hope to read stories with happy endings. Keep fighting, life is worth the living. God bless. 🛐🙏🏽💟

@M4D3Y3BR0WS

Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story and I hope you‘re doing ok. I hope you felt some relief. I also wish, I can walk your path. We carry their history on our shoulders with pride, we got this!

@joshmbw825

Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss, words can’t describe how much I mean that. I lost my wife to addiction just a little over a year ago. We were both addicts. We both got clean and we both relapsed. Unfortunately she didn’t make it. I’ve been sober since. I hate that, that had to be the lesson for us both. I hope it gets more bearable at some point. I wish you well.

@TheCurtisdavies

Ай бұрын

god what a story... I hope you're still doing well, i'm proud of you

@snagsTS

Ай бұрын

Hardest fight of my life. I'm so sorry you lost your husband, but I'm thrilled to know you won the battle.

@Eriny94

9 күн бұрын

Bless you

I'm not sure whats worse...the fact that the world feels empty without you....or the fact that I know I will never accept that you're no longer in this world.

@melissahall-delmoral8900

2 ай бұрын

I’m right there with you! God bless and stay strong

@spkanava

Ай бұрын

2004

@newla6899

26 күн бұрын

Keep breathing my friend, you are needed, ❤

@colleenhairdwyer4711

21 күн бұрын

😢

@michaelduckworthjr7209

15 күн бұрын

I can relate so honestly and emotionally to this statement ❤

My son killed himself almost 7 months ago. He battled depression and anxiety for over half his life. He was in counseling with both a psychiatrist and psychologist. He turned 20 the day before. Please know that there are sadly some things that you cannot change. Take care and talk to others. Suicide is a horrible way to lose someone. It is so hard not to second guess everything. He clearly had friends that love him as you do. The memories and love will be with you always. I hope you find comfort in that fact. I’m going to listen to the song and release some sorrow before I have a friend come over. Read all the words in the video. And follow them.

@So-jq9ll

3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry to hear that😔

@cmorche

3 жыл бұрын

Colleen, I'm so incredibly sorry for your unimaginable loss. I think we can all give and use a bit of love from each other, and if you feel comfortable talking about it with me over email or something, please don't hesitate to reach out. My email is the first letter of my first name, and then my full last name followed by @gmail.com Remember that he will always live on in your ❤️.

@emersonranes7715

3 жыл бұрын

Im losing myself, leaving alone and feel so alone. The battles within myself of surviving every day, the cries of the night and the hope of an helping hands. In the end I just feel numb after the struggles that I encounter. The problem is people tend to listen only and let you alone face it. Lucky for me my feet is standing still what I worry is how long I last.

@nathanbeaubrun6751

3 жыл бұрын

Big oof

@KitKat-wt6ed

3 жыл бұрын

@@emersonranes7715 me too ❤ Every day is a battle and I am sick of living with it. It's not really about others, though they don't get it, it's more around not being able to tolerate it anymore. I am right on the edge right now.

I can’t remember this song being that deep..

@morganfreeman256

3 жыл бұрын

I get you man👌🏻

@orangecrushprod7607

3 жыл бұрын

Love the vids, but yeah its very deep

@nathanbeaubrun6751

3 жыл бұрын

Oh shit can u make a rebuld for an mls team.

@TheValleycakes

3 жыл бұрын

Actually kinda hate that this song is only about the singer having fights with his brother but they get along now. Everyone else thinks its suicide idk kinda annoys me. Love the song tho

@FootyManagerTV

3 жыл бұрын

Valerie Knowles I feel people can interpret songs and lyrics in their own way though, the beauty of music.

My father passed away two months ago, and today is the first time I cried. Something about this song just hit me

@vocalsunleashed

2 күн бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss 😢 My dad passed in 2009 when I was 13 and it still hurts so bad...

2024 anyone?

@jastincantalejo4542

2 ай бұрын

present

@SirJeffreyWhittle-wl2qb

2 ай бұрын

Wsp bro

@VivianVertulfo

2 ай бұрын

🫡

@Lilpeniscup

2 ай бұрын

Yup always here

@tomporras7400

2 ай бұрын

bsbnas

Praying for my brother right now hoping he will survive cancer 😞

@its.just.me__d8627

3 жыл бұрын

Praying with you🙏

@Tworonnn

3 жыл бұрын

He'll get better the soonest 🤗

@ajayaltman8114

3 жыл бұрын

Hope everything goes good

@ArtisticMissionary

3 жыл бұрын

Oh bless you I hope and pray that he can fight through it 😔🙏

@odinudin4313

3 жыл бұрын

Hope it all goes well ❤

"It's a beatiful day to save lives" Derek Christopher Shepherd. Miss that guy.

@lazarlazar5351

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry

@katieg5677

3 жыл бұрын

omg me too

@NotoriousChino

3 жыл бұрын

deadass

@daniella1708

3 жыл бұрын

yes omg

@jilliankatee

3 жыл бұрын

🥺

I lost a friend yesterday. Didn't see it coming. I wish I was there when he needed me. He always was for me.

@charliedays

Ай бұрын

Worst part is that you don't get to know when those who are close to you are at their lowest points in life. Usually, they'll show as if they're happy, and then you become aware this wasn't the case. Quite sad!😟

@spkanava

Ай бұрын

2004

@sammywashereLOL

Ай бұрын

I hope you’re doing well and in a better place brother

@elbacalla2004

Ай бұрын

Damn, sorry for you friend, you and the ones around that were his beloved ones

@petrastein2531

Ай бұрын

"Trading Yesterday" or "Arrows to Athens" or just "David Hodges". Their/His songs heal, I promise. Take care, my friend!🤍

Lyrics: Step one, you say we need to talk He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk He smiles politely back at you You stare politely right on through Some sort of window to your right As he goes left, and you stay right Between the lines of fear and blame You begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Let him know that you know best 'Cause after all, you do know best Try to slip past his defense Without granting innocence Lay down a list of what is wrong The things you've told him all along And pray to God he hears you And I pray to God he hears you And where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life As he begins to raise his voice You lower yours and grant him one last choice Drive until you lose the road Or break with the ones you've followed He will do one of two things He will admit to everything Or he'll say he's just not the same And you'll begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life

"It's a beautiful day to save lives." -Derek Shepherd

@odetojoy7645

3 жыл бұрын

samee but listen to this song TIme by The Impures, is good :))

@adversityluiss6614

3 жыл бұрын

I just started watching grey's anatomy

@shaelynnrussell2872

3 жыл бұрын

No ur gunns make me cry😭😭

@joana8419

3 жыл бұрын

😢

@kahiyadel3237

3 жыл бұрын

@@adversityluiss6614 its sooooo good

Every year i came back And every year this song hits harder.

@bffbfjghbfkj

3 жыл бұрын

Same here man. Hope you're doing well x

@easft1267

3 жыл бұрын

Its acc crazy

@gwenfancello5384

3 жыл бұрын

Be well my love x

@RightHookRandy808

3 жыл бұрын

Stay up my guyz we got this 💯

@thornhill-mw7nn

3 жыл бұрын

Mood

Stop asking "who's listening" or "still listening", we never stopped listening

@grumpyoldmen2502

Ай бұрын

thx

@landoalfonso-pc9td

Күн бұрын

​@@grumpyoldmen2502please wake me up in the dream call my mom Rebecca juco and ALJON juco my angel Nicole juco I love you too my friend Nicole juco

I once lost someone I was sure I couldn’t live without. If you’re reading this please tell her,him,them that you love them . One day you will have to live without them or you will get lucky and pass away before them and anyway it goes you lose. Love them ,hold them , cherish every waking moment you have with them as long as you can . Good luck out there …

@rcyadav9746

Ай бұрын

Teacher

The more you grow up the more you understand the lyrics of sad songs.

@mikeyeditzs5140

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@xsqlt2933

3 жыл бұрын

Aggred

@Ur_favbrunette389

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@eastsidebreaker6481

3 жыл бұрын

It makes you let the little annoying things your family and friends do go. because life is so short shitty and precious lol

@a-terrible-fate532

3 жыл бұрын

most definitely, How to save a life came out when I was 16 and I still enjoy the song a lot.

I remember when my close friend killed himself. It was the toughest time in my life. He was only 12 at the time and his dad really abused him, and some days he would go without food. I remember getting told about it and feeling devastated, but I felt bad about myself, I couldn’t stop thinking about what I could have done to help him, and it has for the last few years. I’m currently 14 and there is not a day that doesn’t go by that I don’t think about him. I’ll always remember his smile, and the time we got caught drinking beers in my garage. I loved you Tom like brother. I remember reading his note that he left out on the table before he left. All it said was “it’s not your fault. I just wasn’t meant to be here. Just don’t get beat up over me. You’re all better off without me.” Reading that cracked my heart. I wanted to tell him how much he meant to me, and how he was the brightest thing in my life. This was always his favourite song and he always listened to it in the morning on the way to school. Tom, I just want to say that wherever you are, I hope you fit in there, and get the love you truly deserved.

@justyami

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, that hit deep.

@wyl7831

4 жыл бұрын

May your friend rest peacefully

@kampblazesnake4190

4 жыл бұрын

Reading this comment, reminded me of most of friends experiencing this on their own and couldn't tell anyone about it, because they were trapped and had no where to escape the worst. I offered many suggestions to them and they had an idea of trying to hold themselves out and need to find a way out as quick as possible. I wish, I could help that person with his father also abusing them, because of not being better than other people in his class and must get the highest grades in the school. It hurts to not do anything for this person, so all I can do is keep in contact and pray that they'll be ok. It's so saddening to hear such stories on young people having to experience such a traumatic parts of their life, which having to mentally and physically hurt themselves to the core of no return. Just remember that your friend will always be in your heart and you couldn't read his thoughts, even if you wanted too, but stay strong for him, no matter.

@ks8668

4 жыл бұрын

Aww I’m so sorry

@blickstacybazza

4 жыл бұрын

I’m genuinely crying. Going through that must’ve been tough. I can only imagine the pain u have gone through

10代の頃、大切な友達を自死で失いました。毎日悲しくて喪失感や悲しみを乗り越えられずにいました。 そんな時にこの曲を聴き、歌詞の意味を理解し、大粒の涙が止まらなかった。当時の自分の心境に寄り添ってくれた大切な曲です、私はこの曲に本当に救われました。 私自身も薬物中毒と鬱に苦しみました、いろんな心境とこの曲の歌詞がリンクします。素晴らしい曲、ずっと聞いています✨

@ahmedhr6248

29 күн бұрын

احسنت بالتغلب على الأدمان والضغوط النفسية قلة من يستطيعون الأبتعاد عنها 🎉👏

@mN-ow6dk

28 күн бұрын

@@ahmedhr6248 Thank you！

Every time I hear this song, it reminds me of when I was younger & my mom would always sing it word for word. I never really understood why it meant so much to her, but at the time… her best friend & coworker (Rhonda) she drove to work with EVERY SINGLE DAY got diagnosed with like a severe disease or cancer & was told she only has a few months to live. So my mom & her went on a cruise & they traveled a bit together before her untimely passing. It’s bittersweet cause now as a 27 year old I understand it more. I lost my best friend when I was 21 & my grandma when I was 25. I’ve lost over 7 friends unfortunately & this song just reminds me of all of them. It probably has nothing to do with anything I’m talking about or relates at all. But it cool how music is like a lil Time Machine & I can genuinely go back for a brief moment to remember when times were simpler. It’s funny how it somehow correlates to now every time.

@steelokey

Ай бұрын

Not to mention I just lost my uncle at the start of the year due to lung issues. I guess I made these comments to maybe give someone the same feeling I get when I hear this song. It’s something I’ll always cherish & music like this is what made me always want to be a musician. I love how everybody has different connections to the same sojg

@spkanava

Ай бұрын

2004

I'm only 17 and this January I lost my dad from a drug overdose. I never knew he was doing drugs this was so sudden but he was the kindest dad ever, I guess he just had some problems, I love you dad I'll stay strong for you. EDIT: It's been three years since I posted this and the support and attention on this comment has been unreal everyone. I'm in a lot better of a place now than where I was back then, time is definitely one the best medicines. It'll always hurt to think about, but having good people in your life really is key. Keep going and don't give up, even if it seems that all hope is lost because things will eventually get better, which everyone's immense positivity help me realize. I can't thank anyone who left a kind comment enough for the sincere words, you guys have no idea what that meant to me I never expected this much attention. Thank you all so much and continue to stay strong!

@daniel1wengler

7 жыл бұрын

skittle63099ify i wish u the best of luck in the Future!! Stay strong homie! !

@Damixx111

7 жыл бұрын

Playstation Gaming Holy shit you're actually the worst

@ellenweston3932

7 жыл бұрын

Playstation Gaming people like you genuinely need help

@stormtv7985

7 жыл бұрын

skittle63099ify u stay strong and be ur self he will always be by your side so just remember

@ButterNautTheKing

7 жыл бұрын

Playstation Gaming 😡😡😡😡 I don't normally get angry but what you just said is the most cruel thing possible. Who the hell do you think you are?! Don't even try to argue. She lost her dad! And you make a joke of it. And wish terror among her family. YOU BELONG IN AN INSTITUTION. Somebody help me out here!!!

my wife died 2 months ago, after a hard year with endless hospital visits, chemo therapys, operations, everything. she was only 30 years old. I love her so much and miss her every day. still dont know how to handle it, when the woman you love more than anything else die in your arms. everyone please stay safe and healthy.

@Gomezgamer-bi2es

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to hear that

@ArcadiaOccult

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry sweet pea... "Runes of comfort for the bereaved" by Ralph Blum "I am the life and the light and the way- The Earth is my garden. Each of the souls I plant as seeds germinate and flower in its own season, and in each I am fulfilled. There is no cause for grief when a bloom fades but only rejoicing for the beauty it held and praise that my will is done and my plan served. I am one with all creatures and none is ever lost, only restored unto me having never left my side at all. For what is it mortal cannot be separated from its source. I am with you all, And each of you is a channel for my light. Feel My Love enfold you now and forever more."

@par0x234

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you guys, im really grateful for your words 🙏

@Gomezgamer-bi2es

2 жыл бұрын

@@par0x234 np

@dingdongdankest1402

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong, man

I was a suicidal person before. I finally found hope, peace, and JOY in JESUS CHRIST! Depression sometimes still kicks in, but JESUS Gives me hope, not only in this LIFE, but also in the next life. 💗💗

@benjiefields3499

2 күн бұрын

I'm glad you found God

Anyone who has lost a loved one to suicide or self harm, we all come back to this song and we will spread the message.

I'm not depressed. I just liked this song for years.

@vixsensoul1627

4 жыл бұрын

Right brother

@thephilosopher5799

4 жыл бұрын

Wish I could relate

@100PercentBudder

4 жыл бұрын

@@dizzee6089 Yo, it aint that easy... People are different and it's hard for some people to even say anything at times... that comment is really insensitive regardless joking or not. Even with the new gen being "soft" this isn't a topic to joke about. Sorry if I triggered anything, didn't mean too. Just explaining

@dizzee6089

4 жыл бұрын

@@100PercentBudder I was initially trying to troll but... that really opened my eye tbh. I see the error or my ways and I'll delete the comment. Sorry

@100PercentBudder

4 жыл бұрын

@@dizzee6089 That's really big of you. I don't speak for everyone in the comment section, but I did feel people would have gotten hurt reading that. Thank you for deleting that comment! Most people would have just kept it to be "funny". I'm glad that you understand.

My sister died on Thursday after a very long and difficult illness, this has been very therapeutic

@Mongolianturd

4 жыл бұрын

Nathan Guillemette sorry for you lose brother

@krishnapremchand1499

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for ur loss

@EL_PROTO_187

4 жыл бұрын

fuerza hermano

@guaymichael8624

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss. Sending love!

@dafyddlloyd868

4 жыл бұрын

I lost my sister too...I am terribly sorry for your loss.

💜2024 And this gem continues to shine 💖💎🔥

@psuter327

2 ай бұрын

Why is this the 6th time ive seen you comment on a video this week (no hate)

@supercarluv

2 ай бұрын

Made me tear up.

@MasterCringe-shorts

2 ай бұрын

I CANT ESCAPE YOU STOP

@user-ub5bf9ue1k

2 ай бұрын

Old but the best❤❤❤❤ Seattle rocks❤❤❤❤

@morningmetro

2 ай бұрын

stop commenting on good music for likes :/

Yes.

@buildev22

3 жыл бұрын

Same here man

@willie9351

3 жыл бұрын

Same man

@katekowalsky

3 жыл бұрын

13* & 28* but still so painfully accurate

@vktism8222

3 жыл бұрын

Same..

@brianpalay

3 жыл бұрын

This song came out when I was 21. Just wait until your 30s.

Why does this song hit differently 10 years later

@GiantAlmightyBalls

4 жыл бұрын

because burnley are gettin the drop you dosser

@MinaxSkate

4 жыл бұрын

its just something called nostalgia

@handsthai91

4 жыл бұрын

10 years letter i know this song, I remember.........

@newrocker6730

4 жыл бұрын

Minax this song is great in general

@drayyoutube5843

4 жыл бұрын

Because today has much worse music.

Suicide only passes your pain to others. stay strong 💪 you got this

Substance abuse is real. I was a meth addict. Went to prison for 5 years. I'm clean from meth since 2010. Now Im battling being a alcoholic. Please don't ever feel like you haven't done enough. If I'm not ready I'm not going to change. I do feel and see the.love snd my family and friends but I'm not ready to surrender. We love you for your courage to help but we dont have the courage to stop. God Bless us all.

@alexanderpeck3712

Ай бұрын

Well said. I too lack the courage. Unfortunately, I've been numb for a very long time and don't have the will to face reality. I hope someday I can process feelings again like a "normal person" Til then pray for myself and those around me as I will you.

@spkanava

21 күн бұрын

2004

Heres the lyrics: Step one, you say we need to talk He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk He smiles politely back at you You stare politely right on through Some sort of window to your right As he goes left, and you stay right Between the lines of fear and blame You begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Let him know that you know best 'Cause after all, you do know best Try to slip past his defense Without granting innocence Lay down a list of what is wrong The things you've told him all along And pray to God he hears you And I pray to God he hears you And where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life As he begins to raise his voice You lower yours and grant him one last choice Drive until you lose the road Or break with the ones you've followed He will do one of two things He will admit to everything Or he'll say he's just not the same And you'll begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life

@thecrazysideofpets5071

3 жыл бұрын

Perfect bro your amazing for putting all of that I know that took a long time good job 👍😎

@chesphendshil8270

3 жыл бұрын

@@thecrazysideofpets5071 They copy pasted

@aimeestenekes3746

3 жыл бұрын

@@chesphendshil8270 r/whoosh

@memeicaluniverse2108

3 жыл бұрын

@@aimeestenekes3746 lol

It's really depressing to see how many sad people there are around the world :( I hope everyone finds his happiness soon

@b.t-bootsncats964

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I've been thinking another killing myself just to stop the pain. It hurts too much to live. My mum won't take my to any psychiatrist or therapist so it seems like the only option 😖

@Bambale178

4 жыл бұрын

@@b.t-bootsncats964 no it's not an option, don't you ever think like this again! Each one of use has the gift of being alive don't waste it. Get better; listen to music, stay healthy and find your purpose, don't give up on yourself we need more people to turn this world around to the better side, so please don't let us fight this fight without you.

@ofimportance5458

4 жыл бұрын

There's almost 8 billion

@stefandomandzic7861

4 жыл бұрын

thank you i hope we do too

@tannerunger3338

4 жыл бұрын

Dojocho listen brotha.... Life is fucking rough isn’t it? Sending you love, motivation, and strength from Texas, USA. Get yourself right. Deal with the pain, go cry, punch a wall, break a mirror. You’ll be alright my brother. We’re all in this bs life together.

Jesus loves you all

I know there's a lot of comments about deaths and how they've impacted people, but I wanna flip it around, try and give some smiles. Its not a long story but recently I saved my bf from suicide, and its probably the best thing I've done in my life, not cause I get to have a bf but because I managed to save someone's life, that's not something you experience everyday (depending on your job). Unfortunately there's a lot who can't say the same for people they've lost, but you need to keep your head high and keep going forward, people truly die when they're forgotten, they may be gone but you can carry forward who they were and what they stood for, its the best any of us can do, but its better than losing hope, you need to stay positive in this world, or you'll lose yourself. I know a lot of that is cliche but someone out there might've needed to hear it ❤, stay safe

My best friend killed himself a week ago. He was only 17. I'll always regret that I couldn’t give him a hug and make him know how much he meant to me. If only I had seen what was in front of my face

@joshuabinet3017

3 жыл бұрын

Strength

@Tristan1886

3 жыл бұрын

Omg... I am 17.. I'm so sorry for your loss. I beg you to not put the blame on yourself, you can get through this :) stay strong!

@joshuabinet3017

3 жыл бұрын

@@kam2894 I can assure you that to the people left behind hugs will never be enough to bear your loss

@dramaqn3032134

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe his story will save a life, your story

@gigasquid2040

3 жыл бұрын

lol. F in the chat

"the second you start blaming yourself for people's deaths, there's no coming back"

@missluciddreams3472

3 жыл бұрын

That is the episode I came from 🥺

@adielali943

3 жыл бұрын

Yess we have some scrubs fans

@gokuson4238

3 жыл бұрын

God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best!

@feiruznoxravenus2093

3 жыл бұрын

I'm still there ... and i don't think I can save myself anymore ...

@Zutakameku1

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah ...your right

Some battles are meant to be fought with someone, don’t be afraid to reach out

Reading these comments got me in tears. Peace and love to you all

@baz9653

9 күн бұрын

Bless you ❤

“As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.” -Audrey Hepburn

@trastokkerko1929

2 жыл бұрын

amen sa pungkol

@kjracz15

2 жыл бұрын

@@trastokkerko1929 pisti

@trastokkerko1929

2 жыл бұрын

@@kjracz15 bogo ka kaon igit

@RunDCM

2 жыл бұрын

Unless you’re Jim Abott.

@josefigueroa8681

2 жыл бұрын

This is a great quote

My dad went to sleep.. and never wake up... "and I would have stayed up with you all night" I miss you always daddy.. I love you..

@justjoepgames8418

5 жыл бұрын

I wish you the best, R.I.P

@jeffd1237

5 жыл бұрын

Your comment made me cry 😢 i feel bad for you

@dakingskween

5 жыл бұрын

You brought tears to my eyes. I'll be remembering you in my prayers.

@joannemynott7031

5 жыл бұрын

Be strong my love xx

@mhmdali2083

5 жыл бұрын

Omg I’m so sorry Rip I love you stay strong 💔 I’m sorry

Who is listening to this masterpiece 2024? Amazing!

Its April 2024, let's see how many legends are listening to this incredible song😉

@StopCrying63

Ай бұрын

😂

@spkanava

Ай бұрын

2004

@Kurai58

27 күн бұрын

May 2024😊

@Amir-Tianot

14 күн бұрын

May14 and still

@SkylarTrahan

12 күн бұрын

Oh look a bought account

We are all not in the same boat..we are in the same storm. Some have yachts, some have canoes, and some are drowning..be kind and help when you can.

@yahlidan9710

3 жыл бұрын

So many languages in the world and you chose to speak facts

@aoibhh

3 жыл бұрын

@@yahlidan9710 No they're speaking english

@andersonscott3326

3 жыл бұрын

@@aoibhh please tell me you are joking

@helenemcintyre4940

3 жыл бұрын

Amen...

@mint.m273

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

I'm a psychologist who works mainly with teenagers with severe behavioural, emotional, and addiction issues. The lines about 'staring right on through' and 'pray to god he hears you' always hit hardest for me. Kids with a life of trauma; their whole perception of reality is warped. Whatever you say, they hear it differently. Whatever you point out, they'll have an excuse. The more you push, the harder they lash out. Some will become violent, some will act dumb and distract, some will cry, some just stare numbly at you and those are the hardest because they are the ones who learned nothing they do has power and they've given up. It can take years to get to the point that they trust you enough to even hear the words you say and believe them. I had one former client bring me a shotgun shell and tell me it was the one they were going to use to kill themselves after a really bad day. I didn't know it, but the thing that stopped them was me asking them to give themselves 24 hours before making any decisions. I keep that shell on my desk as a reminder that sometimes I can make a difference because too often I can't.

@genivievefloro3458

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for helping them..helping them understand what they are feeling..

@itzdepict633

6 ай бұрын

Youve just made me realise how fucked up i am im 17 with numerous addictions i cant take advice bc i see it as threatening i had a gd childhood but it was very traumatising at the same time and its completely fucked me up now

@Steadyaim101

6 ай бұрын

@@itzdepict633 hey friend. I'm glad my perspective can help. I get what you mean when you say advice can be threatening, and sometimes you will have to trust yourself over others. But if you could take some advice from an internet stranger haha, its my experience people almost always have good jntentions with advice, they just don't always know how to give it well. But trust when the people in your life say they love you, they do. They won't always jave the answers, even when they think they do. They won't always know how to show they love you, but they want to. So talk to them, say what you need, and when they mess up, forgive. I hope you have a great life where you're in the driver's seat, not addiction!

@lando80

6 ай бұрын

Kids these days

@focusforwardacademy2791

6 ай бұрын

I grew up one of those kids blesses I found football but that only made it easier to hide my emotional trauma I eventually had a daughter I doted on but still had one foot in them streets well I went on to get custody of my daughter and son@8 and 6 my son is amazing but my daughter is exactly how u describe u made me cry and I thank u cause I needed it…. 🙏🏾 thank you

Who’s here in April 2024

@natalieboo4294

Ай бұрын

I am 👋🏼 😂

@FellaSarah-tu4zx

Ай бұрын

Me😢😢😢😢😢

@MatayahCree

Ай бұрын

MEEEE

@ambersosa9310

Ай бұрын

Me😂

@rocchineri

Ай бұрын

🎉

Life is hard. But you cannot let hardships hurt you or others. Things get better, way better, the smell of nice rain, the feeling of hope, kindness to others, no matter how hard it gets you will make it trust me your way stronger then what your going through trust me, have a good one and stay on top❤️

LYRICS Step one, you say we need to talk He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk He smiles politely back at you You stare politely right on through Some sort of window to your right As he goes left, and you stay right Between the lines of fear and blame You begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Let him know that you know best 'Cause after all, you do know best Try to slip past his defense Without granting innocence Lay down a list of what is wrong The things you've told him all along And pray to God he hears you And I pray to God he hears you And where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life As he begins to raise his voice You lower yours and grant him one last choice Drive until you lose the road Or break with the ones you've followed He will do one of two things He will admit to everything Or he'll say he's just not the same And you'll begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life

@David-xz6cs

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks president

@xfrdn6273

3 жыл бұрын

@@David-xz6cs *Left knee

@halamadrid2370

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mr Biden

@babyraven521

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWeduM2wZJe8iNY.html

@smilydude3332

3 жыл бұрын

@Yare Yare how dare u rickrolled me?🤣

"It´s a beautiful day to save lives"

@jenniffermoreno4120

3 жыл бұрын

Miss him

@jacobpuckett9075

3 жыл бұрын

It always is

@justicevaughn1240

3 жыл бұрын

I miss derek!😭🥺

@cateering

3 жыл бұрын

I used to watch Grey’s Anatomy as a kid with my family, and my mum always mentioned this quote. I loved it so much.

@rakiahbaker5589

3 жыл бұрын

💗💗💗

All I wish for right now is strength for all those who has something heavy going on. You're life is worth fighting for. I hope you choose to love your self when no one does.

Xxxtentacion was my cousin, we were really close he used to love this song when we were younger he showed me this master piece. I will always cherish that moment I love you all

@_mc_hon_3219

2 күн бұрын

Wow really?

Reading all these comments with the song in the background really hits different...

@agenericguy1014

4 жыл бұрын

Simularbre Ikr

@jerseybound717

4 жыл бұрын

don't it ever.

@longevities

4 жыл бұрын

im just here to ask people are they dead yet

@thedarkryan5568

4 жыл бұрын

Yes...😞😭❌🤔🙂 Never Give Up❌🏳 even if we are sad💦💧, we must get & take Happyness😀😃😄 and Serenity🚀🌅❗

@nekro6897

4 жыл бұрын

Simularbre boomer

This song goes to my friend and boss, Hugo, i hope you're okay in heaven. Covid-19 took his life, I miss you buddy!

@user-no1mx3xb7x

4 жыл бұрын

Raul Neiva I’m sorry for your loss covid 19 is horrible and takes so many people’s life daily

@aandrej

4 жыл бұрын

Raul Neiva you miss hugo boss

@dom5175

4 жыл бұрын

like, the underwear?

@hardwirecars

4 жыл бұрын

@@dom5175 the guy that made the nazi uniform (they dont like to talk about that part much)

I had a lovely aunt which loved me a lot and I loved her a lot. She had a big house and as a kid I was always there with my cousins playing with her in her room. She was always patient with us and always gave me money, so I can buy me some things. We were always up early in the morning, so we can watch movies together. And always when we were with her, she gave us a cup of tea and she would put so much sugar in that the tea always leaked out of the glass. It was just hilarious. By time the family left her for a new house and she stayed there alone. A sad old lady who was just by herself and hoping for someone to knock on her door. I had the honor to knock every summer on her door because she lived in my parent’s homeland, so I was there for holidays. When my brother had his wedding our house was too crowded, so i went to her house, sleeping there for 2 weeks. This was one of the funniest times of my life and also one of the sad times because I was sleeping every night alone in the room where we all used to play and where we all used to laugh and spend time with each other. It was just a depressing silence. Anyways I would go downstairs to her always and make jokes with her. As the holidays ended I knew that this will be the last time I would see her alive, because she was very old and sick. She just had one eye due to an accident, so it was more difficult for her, but this handicap made me love her more and take care of her more. She was just happy someone was in the same house with her and that’s all. As I left the house we hugged each other the last time and I knew that’s going to be the last time we are going to see each other. I said “don’t forget me” and she laughed and said “make sure you don’t forget me” :). As I walked to my house I looked at the ground all the time because tears were just going down my face and I couldn’t withhold them. I am a young man and it’s very difficult to speak about my feelings because everyone will perceive it as weakness, but I think that you understand me. I loved her and I hope she is in heaven :)

@usernotfound1191

3 күн бұрын

That's a beautiful story

The Fray will never ever be the same without Isaac Slade. This song is indeed a true masterpiece. ❤

Hi everyone, Following my post 10 months ago. I would like to say I've beaten the cancer for the moment, following the forequarter amputation in February :) Thank you all for your prayers as they were what kept me strong and gave me the stamina to go on in life :) Love you all ❤️

@brandyplays6134

3 жыл бұрын

god bless you my friend..im happy for you:)

@coco128431

3 жыл бұрын

@@brandyplays6134 thanks

@benjaminyes6308

3 жыл бұрын

Hooray!

@liljohnson7141

3 жыл бұрын

No way I was watching this video crying and cried to your story a few days ago and I see this so recently I’m so proud of you right now

@coco128431

3 жыл бұрын

@@benjaminyes6308 :)

The older we got the more we realized how deep the meaning of this song was.

@craigface1671

3 жыл бұрын

Fr it's crazy it's been 10 yours😭😭😭

@thedarkhamster9691

3 жыл бұрын

Fax tho

@craigface1671

3 жыл бұрын

@@thedarkhamster9691 😭😭😭😭 back the you could walk anywhere with no worrys now you got to worry about gitting killed or just jumped sad world i want that all back

@craigface1671

3 жыл бұрын

@Temptation Gaming hi son

@sashamarie8985

3 жыл бұрын

I use to listen before I knew the meaning it really helped me I was suicidal

I am so glad he wrote a song everyone can say " I Understand ".

This song reminds me of an old friend who died of an overdose while we were on the outs. I often wonder if he'd still be here had I made different choices. The ones who pass on are released from pain, but we are left behind to live with the guilt.

"The second you start blaming yourself for other people's deaths...there's no coming back." "Yeah...you're right."

@georgecayman7725

4 жыл бұрын

Scrubs. Sigh. I miss this show.

@cantthinkofaname521

4 жыл бұрын

I wish scrubs was still on the air.

@Pyrowman

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ted for making us all laugh.. R.I.P. Sam

@iamnoone3040

4 жыл бұрын

Yes that's right. As a sentient being, you make the choice. Is it correct or incorrect? Leave emotion out of it (if possible) & trust your instincts, (no one trusts themselves anymore) and own up or breathe a sigh of relief. Four. I own four. Caused directly or indirectly. Yeah, you can't come back.

@diggestbik3238

4 жыл бұрын

Scrubs was the best medical show and thats fax

If you're reading this, you're alive and I'm happy that you are if your reading this, you are alive. you are an amazing unique person and i’m proud of you.

@iloveobbiesxd

4 жыл бұрын

God bless you.

@aislingsanden-hussey8147

4 жыл бұрын

sometimes, you need that and it doesnt have to be because you dont want too live anymore you just need some one there fore you. even a complet stranger. Thanks!

@estelleclero8279

4 жыл бұрын

phong hoa awn thank you 🥺

@samharries9447

4 жыл бұрын

Shut up

@-slimbabyroblox-526

4 жыл бұрын

John Hayden why do people like you think you can shut out the positive 😐. I wish you could understand why people are like this 😕.

i used to listen to this song around 2014 when i was a depressed teenager, and by the time i turned 18 i didn't even remember it's existance. i had a cousin who commited suicide in 2020. today i randomly remembered about this song and i am now watching this video on repeat and singing along while crying and i just miss him so much

Step one, you say we need to talk He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk He smiles politely back at you You stare politely right on through Some sort of window to your right As he goes left, and you stay right Between the lines of fear and blame You begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Let him know that you know best 'Cause after all, you do know best Try to slip past his defense Without granting innocence Lay down a list of what is wrong The things you've told him all along And pray to God he hears you And I pray to God he hears you And where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life As he begins to raise his voice You lower yours and grant him one last choice Drive until you lose the road Or break with the ones you've followed He will do one of two things He will admit to everything Or he'll say he's just not the same And you'll begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life

this song never fails to give me chills

@JudyinAL

7 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@beutzi240

7 жыл бұрын

August 1st

@kwesihunter8262

7 жыл бұрын

ikr... still one of my favs

@Lol-bx4pw

7 жыл бұрын

The drummer (Ben Wysocki) my moms bf nephew!! So cool right?

@sophianaadare972

7 жыл бұрын

yeah wow. "if it makes you feel any better, you *are* the illegitimate half brother of the guy we actually do care about"

I lost my daughter when this song came out, it played on the radio ,while leaving the hospital with empty arms ..this song has always brought me to my knees

@danielletenia9986

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry, I can't begin to imagine that pain

@proudindian762

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss.

@playafromdasouth6

2 жыл бұрын

i don't know what's goin on in your life, but please stay strong and keep your head up always...cause the stars are up there and not down there

@n0fear15

2 жыл бұрын

stay strong so sorry for your loss

@mustaphazhiri4742

2 жыл бұрын

The life can Win for you this is just for restart Again.. Love

Battling with depression & anxiety. getting help ❤ this song it got me thru some hard times. 2024

RIP to my best friend Sammy🕊️ i love you........fly with the angels 🥺❤️you'll be remembered.....29.04.24......Chao and Steph 😊

almost 10 years ago, when i was still a teenager in highschool, being bullied by classmates was part of a usual day so i would make myself small and silent. All of this made a depressive teenager and it was getting darker as it went. I was losing interest in going to school. One day out of no where two people came and sat next to me (where i would always go during breaks) they sat next to me and lightly tried to engage a conversation, not wanting to engage i would continue reading. so they sat next to me and continued talking together. everyday they came and sat at the same spot, next to me, and they would talk together. After some time i slowly started talking to them, and in no time i had made new friends and my days were starting to become brighter. By doing this simple action they might have actually saved a life! one of the two became a very good friend. I am glad she was there for me, and to this day she does not know how her actions affected me in a positive way.

@ramimani2357

2 жыл бұрын

Great to read 😀💛

@AceOriginalYT

2 жыл бұрын

That hit me, I was bullied alot and broke down alot at home, I'm 22 now but awhile ago I overdosed because of how heavy the weight of the world got, but my mum was there for me and still is, if it wasn't for her ringing an ambulance wouldn't be here, something inside of me wanted to just sit there and let it happen but there was no way I could leave my family with that pain, and i may not know you but it'd great you're still here on this earth, keep your chin up

@liavbenbasat5479

2 жыл бұрын

Wow bro. I'm really shocked. U are so strong my man Proud of you

@savesoul4243

2 жыл бұрын

god bless you

@sugarmilkgaming4711

2 жыл бұрын

awww, God bless u

This goes out to my best friend Jordan who lost his battle to depression and took his life last summer

@clouded7170

4 жыл бұрын

Radioactive Skull Im so sorry for your loss. But he’s in a better place now.

@patrickkehoe6707

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss buddy We are here for you

@ericgiraudeau6065

4 жыл бұрын

sad ,im healing the same illness since 17 years ago with a part of paranoïa, i feel better now but i know how hard is to live with depression troubles..

@Walter-white891

4 жыл бұрын

I didn't know depression was a battle

@xKitrye

4 жыл бұрын

@@Walter-white891 what is it then?

2024 this song still breaking my heart...If we only knew how much we needed to be there...God rest you cuz I miss you always 💔

⚠️your life is very important some of you guys dont even realize how important to someone you could be the most important person in the world to someone but you wont be able to see that because you dont think your important even tho you are everyone had importance and we all have purpose even if you dont know yours yet. remember you didnt come this far just to come this far❤⚠️

This song is proof that music is life-changing/ life- saving.

@alexamelchor2787

3 жыл бұрын

Actually true. I’m 13 I rlly don’t like the upcoming music

@alexamelchor2787

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@youknowwho_sid

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexamelchor2787 I’m not much older than you are but you’ll be glad you found this song at 13. I wish I found this song sooner, I’m sure everyone else feels the same.

I lost my brother last February this year. He was just 15. I woke up and went home to his lifeless body. He took his own life. I can still remember how I fell down to my knees as soon as I heard that it was all real, screaming for help trying to digest the fact that he's gone, forever. Suddenly, it was all blurry. It's the pain in your heart that you can literally feel physically. I can cry for his name, but I can't utter any words no more. I can't describe how devastating that situation was. The only thing I know is that my tears keep on streaming down my face nonstop but I didn't care, I just want him to wake up. To tell me that he's fine. That he will stay by my side. That he won't leave us for that reason. It's unbearable. It made breathing a very tough thing to do. To anybody who's reading this, just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today: You matter. You're important. You are loved. And your presence on this earth makes a difference whether you see it or not.

@moonspeech82

3 жыл бұрын

I feel ur pain , lost my bro 4 years ago . All the memories , the mistakes , the good times the bad times , he was my best friend and real life brother.

@xx-footcmpsf.c3693

3 жыл бұрын

@@moonspeech82 🙏

@alwaysaskingwhy

3 жыл бұрын

It will get better❤️

@yuji3171

3 жыл бұрын

@Verónica López Gómez go over to their house if you can, try and comfort them and inform a guardian

@joemomma9903

3 жыл бұрын

U don’t know how much u saved me

Omg. I've loved this song for years, and tonight I just got what the song means as I'm listening to it and it's speaking to me about forgiving a person I'm dating. So beautifully done you guys. The words of this song are universal and transcendent. Forgive, talk, open up, love, release... They're in the video. EXCELLENT!!

@animesenpai5394

Ай бұрын

Very much true sad song don't exist in this era😢

I miss you Son ! The day your heart stopped is the day my heart broke.RIP Michael Allen Jacob Baron 03/03/95~02/20/24.

RIP Adobe Flash Player. Everyone's childhood best friend.

@mehahaha7137

3 жыл бұрын

Sad

@johngoggin2769

3 жыл бұрын

Sad😔

@syukriazmi9722

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽

@simranathwal747

3 жыл бұрын

F

@lay10vids

3 жыл бұрын

*f*

Lost one of my best friends to suicide 7 years ago. This song came out when we were in high school, and it reminds me of the good times we spent together. I unintentionally come back here once a year to reminisce, usually after midnight, when everything is quiet. Today is one of these days. Luis, wherever you are, I miss you man. I know life was a burden to you, but you are still alive in our thoughts. RIP

@ajminshahijani793

2 жыл бұрын

big hug my friend.

@17-.-

2 жыл бұрын

sorry bro

@eduardsonjeciel3193

2 жыл бұрын

Sending hugs

@jessicalopez637

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this. I just lost a best friend from high school from suicide. He served in the air force. The last video I have with him we are singing this song. I came here to find some piece of him. Seth, where ever you are. I’m sorry I failed you, I will love and miss you forever my friend.

@avagushea153

2 жыл бұрын

sending you a hug. i’m so sorry

Bottom line is you never know what’s going on behind closed doors with certain or most people always try to make life for people love care and cherish even in so little time at some point we’re all on the virge I’m doing something to ourselves or other people all because the life we had or how we’ve been treated most of our lives so just try to do your best with yourself other people

Id just like to stop everyone for a moment to leave you with this thought.. do you see all these connections in the comments? All of us have lost someone, and all of us are sharing, being sympathetic and expressing, relating to one another. The world doesnt have to be as cold as it is, if we simply remember were all living with our own stories, stories we dont know. Peace be with you on your journey. Peace. Love. Positivity. ❤️

@lisam5248

Ай бұрын

❤

I dedicate this song to my best friend ever, whose life I couldn't save. May you be in peace, J.

@EfersonBorges

5 жыл бұрын

​@MLG SHREKER I feel no need to make up a story to get likes. It is true. Thank you for your condolences, and have a nice day.

@larafox3246

5 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry - I lost my best friend too. If you ever need to talk I'm here.

@hyp3rsnip3s37

5 жыл бұрын

Rip j

@tvkakuofthecancer7633

5 жыл бұрын

Eferson Borges F for your friend hes in a better place and hopefully hes watching over you andif you don believe in religion then im sorry for your loss man

@langfinger6347

5 жыл бұрын

🕯

So... who else just randomly decided to start listening to old songs again?

@bigknut6353

4 жыл бұрын

Dafuq?

@hundragant

4 жыл бұрын

you're freaking me out XD

@Tommygun_gg

4 жыл бұрын

I started with we are young

@kjjones4104

4 жыл бұрын

Better than what I'm hearing now.

@exilf92

4 жыл бұрын

@Littleton Begone millennial. This is old in the context of older gen z music.

Lyrics Enjoy Step one, you say we need to talk He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk He smiles politely back at you You stare politely right on through Some sort of window to your right As he goes left, and you stay right Between the lines of fear and blame You begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Let him know that you know best 'Cause after all, you do know best Try to slip past his defense Without granting innocence Lay down a list of what is wrong The things you've told him all along And pray to God he hears you And I pray to God he hears you And where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life As he begins to raise his voice You lower yours and grant him one last choice Drive until you lose the road Or break with the ones you've followed He will do one of two things He will admit to everything Or he'll say he's just not the same And you'll begin to wonder why you came Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life How to save a life How to save a life

My old man told me, this is when I was a kid you gotta keep your head up son. Always remember we all love you. Everyone is supportive and you always need someone when you're feeling down. So when I'm feeling flat I'll listen to this song. How to save a life its true. Never alone. 😊

Me: see you tomorrow Friend: gets offline Friend: last seen 4 years ago Me: *where* *did* *I* *go* *wrong?*

@agenericguy1014

4 жыл бұрын

Polite Gentleman heh,I dunno either. My friend has stopped chatting with me either

@shaunosmorrison8385

4 жыл бұрын

That hits right in the feels. First person I added when I started playing Runescape logged off one day and haven't seen them since, last logged on 5-6 years ago

@agenericguy1014

4 жыл бұрын

Shaunos Morrison Dang,that must’ve hurts a lot

@shaunosmorrison8385

4 жыл бұрын

The song "It's been a long day, without you my friend" comes to mind when someone hasn't been on for years

@agenericguy1014

4 жыл бұрын

Shaunos Morrison Have u tried messaging him/her again?

This is empathy 101. If a depressed person is suicidal it is never because he/she wants to die. Its just that living is to hard in his/her perspective. The art in saving someone is in showing them alternatives while starting from their perspective.

@hydroexcel7457

2 жыл бұрын

This comment is ridiculously underrated. Please, take my heartfelt thumbs up!

@kalinature4545

2 жыл бұрын

its true, i don't wanna die but i felt living is hard

@myr8902

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. At my age what I've been through may be trivia to another not including the part with my Daughter. Life seems to be Daunting when your not able to sort out your problems. On the other hand it's only Daunting if you care so as you may see these two things are very confusing and important.

@unculturedswine5583

2 жыл бұрын

Are you speaking from experience?

@ojjordan7904

2 жыл бұрын

Boy are you wrong!

Who always come back to this song when they’re depressed

My grandma died recently. She was the only family left in my life. My father and mother died when I was a baby. Mother from cancer and father from a car accident. Grandma raised me and helped me go through the struggles of not having parents. Her dying left me feeling so empty. This song always brings me to tears. :'(

@kappn3520

7 жыл бұрын

miksuaka ;-; I'm sorry for your loss

@chloeheffernan1369

7 жыл бұрын

miksuaka your friends will help you through this :'(

@Medjuza

7 жыл бұрын

Feel better soon man

@miksuaka

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the well wishes :) I'm getting better slowly but surely.

@emmajones-palmer2303

7 жыл бұрын

miksuaka xxxxxx

I was suicidal 8 years ago due to my family financial issue. There was a time when I only eat four times a week to save money. Had to apply to economy scholarship to survive. I feel so helpless and depressed at that time. 8 years later, I'm not successful yet but I finished my univesity, promoted as a manager and I am proud that at least my brother could go to univesity without the hardship I got. I remembered I used to listen to this song to feel better. Just hold on. It'll get better. I promise.

@harrydunn1848

4 жыл бұрын

Yep I’ve been there Alex. 2012 was an horrendous year for me & our family business. I considered all the bad options. Luckily I had the balls one day to get in my van & go & talk to my Dad. He saved my life that Saturday morning without knowing it & a whole lot of pain for the rest of my family. 8 yrs on & I’ve had some good years since then & some bad obviously. I’ll now always talk to someone who needs to🧐

@jonathan8667

4 жыл бұрын

Hit the quan

@Massacheefa

4 жыл бұрын

You have our full support ❤️❤️

@indfnt5590

4 жыл бұрын

Axel Alexis And to think the people that plunged this nations youngest generation into life long debt are millionaires and running the largest corporations in this country. Or in gov positions like DeVos, the idiot Trump put in. They will be held accountable in due time. And we will be there to see their trials. ☝️😤

@lozadoaleyda9900

4 жыл бұрын

Are you ok now? I pray you are

i remember hearing this at 10 and thinking of my mom and breaking down; now i’m 20 and i don’t think of her often or have a good memory, but tonight, i’m remembering her and the little girl that lost her mom to addiction. and im crying a lot

@grais3

Ай бұрын

hearing this as an adult, comprehending all of the lyrics, it completely hit harder

I hope someone on my family notices how hard to deal what I'm dealing with. I've been fighting for 5years with this and its getting hard

@marvin5832

2 ай бұрын

There will be better times

@noelmosqueda9820

14 күн бұрын

No te desanimes platicar con alguien te hará bien nunca estarás solo pide ayuda busca amigos si tú familia no te apoya hazlo por ti mismo, siempre se puede y verás que saldrás de eso te lo que he pasado por muchas cosas difíciles en esta vida

this song is so catchy but I get emotional listening to it ;-;

@truezaa8064

8 жыл бұрын

If you like anime you should watch attack on titan :p

@ylja6737

8 жыл бұрын

+obey Doge you should also watch death note it's amazing

@grace-mm7zc

8 жыл бұрын

+obey Doge such sad very cry

@tombkings6279

8 жыл бұрын

I can't obey DOGE

@kira_uwo

8 жыл бұрын

same

“If you love someone, you tell them. Even if you’re scared that it’s not the right thing. Even if you’re scared that it’ll cause problems. Even if you’re scared that it will burn your life to the ground, you say it, and you say it loud and you go from there.” -Mark Sloan

@connerpierce6910

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this! Stand up straight with your shoulders back :)

@adventurefishing101

3 жыл бұрын

Hmmmm neat

@tylersoto7465

3 жыл бұрын

I have major depression and anxiety and I can't even do any of that and been trying for years to even feel love at and ask myself why what's the point of anything

@zedisded2501

3 жыл бұрын

@@tylersoto7465 yo tyler my guy. I'm here if you need to talk. Lets run some among us or something, fuck it.

@cherthompson2546

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

It screams adult me reminiscing about my childhood days and how I've come this far in the game of life.

"I would have stayed up with you all night, had I known." If only victims of suicide knew how many people in their life would have said this to them....

@kittybeckett9661

3 жыл бұрын

At that darkest moment when they need to be reminded they aren't alone someone isn't always there, many people can then spent their lives wishing they could have been there at that moment

@ShainaCilimberg

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I had a friend in 8 grade who died in a mother-daughter suicide

@Gardner924

3 жыл бұрын

My SIL killed herself and I always think of this line, it kills me so much that she didn’t reach out or call me thar night. I love and miss you so much Christa!! You deserved so much better, we both did, wby didn’t we connect more on that and we both could be living a fun and happy life. I get so mad at you sometimes but I hope you are at peace now. I remember vben they were trying to determine suicide or accident I was hoping for suicide so I would know you are at peace. Love you.

@Gardner924

3 жыл бұрын

I agree people do need to show feelings more but you are not fighting the dark alone! Please don’t think you are. Reach out to a hotline if need be but believe me there are lots of people who care.

@jakeburton6057

3 жыл бұрын

wow. impressive. you, like I, must have thought deeply about this.

I'm a 28 year old man and when I need a good cry I watch this video like 3 times in a row. I'm not ashamed. Just had a good cry, it was nice.

@yas3243

2 жыл бұрын

I have the same age and a I am doing the same now 💜

@PatsRC

2 жыл бұрын

@@yas3243 stay strong you're loved ❤

@rualduck2522

2 жыл бұрын

hope you're doing well

@aidanrrknapp

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes a good cry can let out so much pain. I feel you brotha

@mannymeat6454

2 жыл бұрын

me too holy shit

I’m a bit embarrassed to say this, but I’m gonna say it anyway. I don’t know what my issue is, but I constantly see a lot of negativity on myself. I show a lot of positivity towards my friends, but I struggle badly to do the same thing towards myself. I feel like I have a lot that I should be happy about, but a lot of times I just find myself feeling empty, forgotten and uncared for for no particular reason. I wasn’t like this in high school, in fact, my senior year was the best year of my life, but it’s been 2 years since I graduated, and my life has been very uneventful since then. Nowadays I’m just a full time Walmart employee, and I do see some old friends now and then. But when I say hi to them, they say hi back, but it feels like a manner of “I kind of forgot him, but I’m not going to let him know.” My coworker keeps telling me that I should start thinking more positively about myself, but I keep telling her that’s hard to do as someone who constantly struggles with self hatred. She says I should look in the mirror and say things I like about myself, but I do a better job thinking of things I don’t like about myself. Examples: I constantly live in the past, I live my life in regret and easily feel guilt even for minor mistakes and times where I’ve been forgiven, and I let bad moments of my life overrun the good moments (ex. I got my first major role in a school play back in 2021 and it was a blast to play, but in my last show, I went on stage with a face shield [it was during the COVID era, so we had to wear face shields back stage] and I was very mad at myself afterwards and was being a jerk to everyone who was being nice to me. I apologized to everyone the next day and they forgave me, but even 3 years later, I cannot forgive myself). I have never had any suicidal thoughts, but I come here because I see a lot of encouraging comments and I think I could use some. I apologize if this whole paragraph sounds like self pity. But I would like to ask that everyone continues to spread positive vibes for each other.

@Splash17672

3 күн бұрын

La mejor forma de empezar a pensar positivo en ti, es buscar que aspectos quieres cambiar claro todos somos unicos y especiales recuerda eso, no eres la unica persona que pasa por estas cosas si? yo te recomiendo que hoy te calmes y cuando duermas pienses en que cosas quiseras cambiar de ti, todos podemos cambiar con nosotros mismos pero lo principal es encontrar la raiz del problema, un saludo amig@ ❤

@phoebe-wk4uu

2 күн бұрын

I understand and I know how hard it is to fight but you must talk and carry on because people need you in life and even though I don't know you I'm sure your an amazing person and I feel the same way sometimes but it will end I promise dont give up xx❤

@blackscreen1810

Күн бұрын

Broncos country let’s ride!

My best friend in high school committed suicide when we were both 17. She came from a rough home life and had an abusive early childhood and suffered from severe depression and PTSD as a result. She was my very best friend and the only person who truly accepted me for who I am (I’m learning disabled and got bullied relentlessly). I always told her I loved her and was always there for her. I also stayed up with her all night over the phone multiple times a week but I guess it wasn’t enough unfortunately. Her death really affected my mental health for a long time and I became suicidal myself. Thankfully, I am better now though. I will always love you and miss you Jessica. I’m sorry I couldn’t do more to help you. 😢❤

this song is basically instructions on how to talk to a depressed person, basically how to save a life.

@ashleewhittlesey7874

3 жыл бұрын

I thought it was about addiction. Pretty sure it is. Trying to save his friend from the grips of addiction

@tylerscape

3 жыл бұрын

Omg you are right! They should have made it the song name or something haha

@kimneilson3156

3 жыл бұрын

'Basically' doesn't cover it.

@Olderaccount17

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashleewhittlesey7874 The lead singer was part of a mentoring program or something of the sort for troubled youth. Apparently, he connected in particular with a young guy (he was 23, I think) who was also a musician and was struggling with depression. He ended up commiting suicide, and so the vocalist wrote this song with him in mind and you can tell he regretted not being able to figure out what kind of support that guy needed.

@razornz007

3 жыл бұрын

@@Olderaccount17 ah geez man...that hurts my soul. I'm 34 and have had clinical depression since i was a kid. Also adhd, borderline personality disorder, and generalised anxiety disorder. It's a lot to try and manage when I'm not a functional person to start with. I've spent a not insignificant amount of time thinking that if it weren't for the preferencial treatment i got for being white, I'd very likely already be dead.

"It's a beautiful day to save lives people" ~Derek Shepard

@anetajudasova1523

6 жыл бұрын

MzQueen Lee Let's have some fun ❤

@laurarodriguez5011

6 жыл бұрын

MzQueen Lee 😭😭

@haifaalrasheed2995

6 жыл бұрын

UR COMMENT GAVE ME CHILLS

@mayaharrison5278

6 жыл бұрын

MzQueen Lee OMG WHYYYY

@florian3298

6 жыл бұрын

=,(

The part that says" I would have stayed up with u all night had I known how to save a life" kills me every time..... RIP George Ace Garcia