Judith is a Godsend! I just purchased both her books on Amazon. I’ve finally found help for this problem I’ve had my whole life….

@BarryKibrickOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Take care dear Linda.

Oh, so happy to come upon Barry Kibrick here! When I lived in LA his program was my favorite thing on TV. Subscribe everyone! Barry is always so well prepared and asks great questions and opens up his guests with his welcoming, safe-space graciousness. This is like a reunion for me!

@BarryKibrickOfficial

6 ай бұрын

Gary, your kind words made my day. Email me at: barry@barrykibrick.com and I'll catch you up on what I'm up to and where you can see other shows.

I’m definitely an empath due to my narcissistic mother but I’m a mother now and I take on my son’s disappointments and he same with my daughter, they are both grown and left home, but I so have the need to fix it for them to be happy,so when they hurt ,I hurt , then it causes me anxiety and depression, but I just can’t reason with myself to not feel this way,

@BarryKibrickOfficial

2 жыл бұрын

Wendy, I have a feeling you are doing much better than you realize. You are a very caring person and obviously very empathetic. Usually, it means you're doing well for others but since you internalize their pain you feel depressed. Think of it as the price you pay but instead of with dread, do so with joy!

@wendylock5507

2 жыл бұрын

@@BarryKibrickOfficial thank you so much for your response. But the anxiety and depression is taking control of my life that I don't know what to do. I feel frozen with fear and abandonedment. Therapists and various medications haven't helped. I live in the UK and the NHS has done all it can for me. I feel like I can't go on ike this. My body trembles and I shake and my inner child is screaming out help I can't do this anymore and my adult self can't deal with it

@josephineananda

Жыл бұрын

​@@wendylock5507 Have you listened to Gabor Mate ❤?

Being an empath I used to shout when I am not heard. What to do Judith when we keep on consistently making the other person understand our needs and still we aren't heard rather ridiculed.💖💖💖

Empathetic man here. Thank you for the recognition! 💗💗💗🌈

@BarryKibrickOfficial

5 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed Jeffrey. Hope you subscribe to our channel. Barry

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

You are not sur just sensetive

@jeffreyblagg6777

2 жыл бұрын

@@athonyhiggins3117 both

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeffreyblagg6777 both what

@jeffreyblagg6777

2 жыл бұрын

@@athonyhiggins3117 both sensitive and empathic

I'm just learning that I am an empath

Not to overpost but Judith Orloff's books have been such a help to me over the past decade. I was so excited about seeing Barry I got distracted. So, yes, if you are like me and going to a restaurant makes you feel like you are eating at every table in the room (ugh) and every time you talk to someone you feel every flickering moment of doubt or insecurity which might be totally unimportant to them, I highly recommend Dr. Orloff's books. For those saying "I can't change I think that is true. But you certainly can learn to live with your gifts and sensitivities just like the rest of the world manages with their own. Empaths are super people pleasers and Dr. Orloff will help you find your boundaries and be able to work them into your life without hurting anyone (our huge fear in life, right?)

I have been studying fibromyalgia for 15 years, I was desperate to find out why my life has become one of illness...Everyone I know with fibromyalgia fits somewhere on this Empath level...we absorb negative energies like a sponge! There are ways to protect yourself, perhaps they learn and feel better!

@BarryKibrickOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

Michele, I hope you've found a way to protect yourself because you are so right on. I've done some topics in addition to my conversation with Judith. If you subscribe to the channel you will find many of my recent episodes deal with how to protect yourself from certain feelings. All the best, Barry

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

@@BarryKibrickOfficial don't be fooled by this women

@nicolemurphy2629

Жыл бұрын

She is spot on about attractiveness A male empath who is 'vulnerable & strong' is hyper attractive! I met one once ❤

@tinamicheaux

8 ай бұрын

I am empath. I would always feel others hurt and pain. For years ppl would come to me and I would always encouraging them mostly women. It was draining and in my spirit I knew. I had to limit conversation. I had a girlfriend who, re-entered my life and I found myself being angry. My attitude and my mood was changing my Reiki instructor told me it was her energy. I was mirroring her energy. I came across this video because I’m searching on how to heal and keep myself cleanse, and self-care for me. This was a great help I will be by in the book..

Although I dislike the term "sensitive" I was drawn to this interview for a reason and listened intently especially when Judith spoke about the child empath. This certainly explains a lot for me...

What a wonderful interviewer, really appreciate this woman and her teachings, it is what I needed

Barry is such a smart interviewer and the doctor is very wise. Great interview! Thank you.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

2 жыл бұрын

Andres, your kind words made my day. Hope you'll subscribe and catch all my shows. Take care, Barry

Observe not absorb.....

This is the first time that I've heard the term 'Empath' and I am just shocked -completely shocked - that there is a term for "the way I am". I just can't believe that there is a way to make sense of the way my mind works.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

6 жыл бұрын

so thrilled it helped.

@teeturner

3 жыл бұрын

👌

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

No you are not please grow up

@paulfesler7052

2 жыл бұрын

@@athonyhiggins3117 why would you tell someone that?

I recognized a couple of years ago that I could feel others pain, especially emotional pain. I think being an empath is certainly why I was involved with 2 men who were narcissistic and extremely sociopathic. I can sure agree with Dr. Orloff's statement that these predatory types are drawn to people like me, because we are vulnerable. I am one of those "closed now" empathy's now, and it hasn't made me feel any better about my past or my future. I'm going to order the book...I'm a Christian and I hope there isn't to much of eastern mysticism in this book for me! Thanks for this video.

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

We are all capable of engineering rubbish thus us a con

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

Don't have to be an empath to know what Boris johnson us up to please grow up

@F15CEAGLE1

20 күн бұрын

The beattitudes.🎚️

"The power to be empathic in the midst of adversity.." So well put : )

@BarryKibrickOfficial

5 жыл бұрын

You got it so right!

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

Please this is baloney

Too much information coming at once, I am an artist and start to "spin out" and become exhausted from the overload of energy. thank you for this information.

This quality interview brings so much clarity on a very little known psychological condition. Thank you for the hard work of the interviewer and the awesome insights and expertise of Dr. Orloff on the subject. Both are wonderful and this engaging conversation in itself is healing

@BarryKibrickOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

N. D I’m glad you enjoyed. Feel free to connect with me at: barry@barrykibrick.com

Such a relief to be heard through this interview

Thanks for the upload,great interviewing and great guest 👍😊

@BarryKibrickOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Roll. Hope you'll subscribe and check out all my others. Take care, Barry

this makes so much sense

I have recently been telling myself that I need to develop a thicker skin, sorry can't do it, thank you for explains about this.

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

Please you are just sensetive

wow I am so amazed! You are such an amazing interviewer. Best one I have heard in my whole entire life and you mentioned points I thought to myself before.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

2 жыл бұрын

Dear Parvati, thank you for your kind words. You made my day.

This interview was very inspiring and enlightening to me. I am and have always been an Empath. Barry, you do the most thoughtful interviews and my husband says you are the most prepared interviewer he has ever seen. Thank you for your professional and caring work.

@irenekubitsky1317

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, you are so correct. I have just been reading a book that explains more research on this issue, called "Sensitives and Introverts". The name is: "Quiet, The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking?" by Susan Cain. It was an very informative. Judith's book is more practical, however a combination of both books brings a larger perspective on this very important subject.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

6 жыл бұрын

And thank you dear Irene for such kind words. Sorry I just saw this now. Barry

Judith I' ve learned from you...so much!

This lady is awesome

so true, Doctor has told me not to watch the news. so sad:(

Thank you, so much.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

You’re very welcome. Have a blessed holiday

Medication, so true, all medication makes me feel ill that is why I use herbs etc...

@heathersmith5726

6 жыл бұрын

Margaret Lynn Atkinson spiritually it’s called pharmakia, in Greek whoch essentially translates to witchcraft/sorcerery. Pharmaceuticals take over the body. I know I never fare well

What is that painting on the wall?!? Painting, I loooooove you.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

That painting is by the great artist, and my dear friend, Kamran Khavarani. See all of his work at www.khavarani.com

I'm a empath but I also had a traumatic brain injury when I was 13 I'm 56 now . I've tried to not take in all the negative feelings that others are feeling . I walk away from people that I feel it from .but I can't walk away from it at work . I love my job and I don't want to lose it . But my supervisor that just started.... I can feel her energy towards me . And I just can't seem to block all her bad energy she throws at me. What does one do in a situation like this ? I think it's the hardest thing for me to learn being a empath .

Exactly right, misdiagnosed. Go to ER and they cant find anything? I need this to help manage my life.

@BarryKibrickOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

Guinevere, so very common. Glad you found Judith helpful. Be well, Barry

@guinevereofbeauty1581

4 жыл бұрын

@@BarryKibrickOfficial Thank you⚘

@BarryKibrickOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

@@guinevereofbeauty1581 Subscribe to my channel and you'll see many new episodes may also be very helpful for you. All the best, Barry

Thank you for this heart sharing. My main challenge is that I know and feel ONE with all at all times, thus there is no other...how do you have boundaries when there is no real boundaries in Oneness? And is it that one is absorbing other’s energies or is it just our own reflected in the other as we are ONE and so spiritually there is no other...thank you for sharing your insights 🌹💚🙏✡️ love grace and blessings to all 😇

@BarryKibrickOfficial

5 жыл бұрын

And dear New Earth, your insights and depth is so refreshing. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Barry

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I'm an empath, and i don't know to how shield myself, i don't just observe i absorb and i do not know about that there is a survival guide of an empaths but .

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

You are not an empathJust be normal blessings

Om Sacred Response-ability

Do you know of any books to learn about, and teach children, who are Empaths?

@BarryKibrickOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Just checked on Amazon and there are a number of books for empathetic children. Check them out and see what is best for your child. Barry

💯 me

what about those empaths who can absorb and utilize both Positive and Negative energies, and overcame the disadvantages of being an empaths, and go beyond its limitation.

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

No such thing as an empath grow uo

Ma'am, you better re do your research on empaths, especially on mastered empathic ability that is different from ordinary/normal empaths.

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

This is a con

@athonyhiggins3117

2 жыл бұрын

No you do not have a higher power don't be fooled blessings

🙋 please this is rubbish