I don't have to go all of the way to China to be held captive and feel trapped ... going to my in-laws works just the same.

@thanos1242

5 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣😉😉

@unserrano

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 good one !!!

@AIvey

5 жыл бұрын

Your funny 😆

@MH-me9eh

4 жыл бұрын

Chinese coworkers...

@j.i.s.l178

4 жыл бұрын

😶

So basically, Chinese hospitality is the same as lonely-grandparents hospitality -- "Thank you for visiting, now you must entertain me."

@brandonroberts13

4 жыл бұрын

:(

@saraandstuartshannon2160

3 жыл бұрын

You should play it smart. I would always go to visit my grandma whenever soap opera is on. Would eat it, help her with lunch after that, eat the lunch, and went home after 🤣🤣🤣

@williss1192

3 жыл бұрын

Good example

@chaxologist2961

2 жыл бұрын

In other words, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions."

@youssefchaoui2940

2 жыл бұрын

that actually genius

You know hospitality has gone too far, when it makes someone with a UK flag headrest groan at the thought of drinking tea.

@MissCookieMonster102

2 жыл бұрын

He's not from the UK though

@jimjohnson6944

2 жыл бұрын

@@MissCookieMonster102 I think he knows that mate. All the best

@TheRealEnglishTeacher

Жыл бұрын

There's a difference between tea and English tea.

@kovy689

Жыл бұрын

@@TheRealEnglishTeacherIf you’re talking about the setting, then yes. But English tea originates from China.

@HarisHuskic-gp1ni

9 ай бұрын

Yes but china's standards for tea could be 50% grass for the extra fiber lol

I've been to "the prison of hospitality" many times,its so awkward - you just want to leave but food arrives and everyone expects you to eat it and sit down and relax when you rather be on your way and perhaps have limited time left...Happens in many places (im thinking colombia and turkey come to mind to begin with) ..great videos! want to visit China and am watching your videos with great interest !

@Doedoedoe90766

3 жыл бұрын

Here you have the hospitality .i. asshole what about the famous food of southafrica ... nobody there likes you...

What You are telling about being a "hostage of hospitality" would happen pretty much also in Your family. I will never forget that everythime my grandma called me on phone, I knew I would loose at least on hour of replying "Hm" and "Yaya" by hearing same stuff for the 5000th time - I did not cut her off because she was lonely and I was living far away, meeting her only once a year. Long time ago, RIP. It is the downside of any kind of relation: in some way You become a hostage, which is good as long as You love it. But when that goes away, You have trouble to get out without insulting that person ...

@Useaname

2 жыл бұрын

You'll be old someday. Maybe with no one to talk to. Good luck. You'll deserve it.

Winston, I'm an introvert, and 'small talk' is actually quite agonizing for me. I felt your pain. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Hope you and yours are doing well. xo

@MrMajsterixx

2 жыл бұрын

ur not introvert if u actally wished to be able to enjoy that, you are just untrained in social interactions.

@stillamitchinmybook6320

Жыл бұрын

Im an introvert also and deff felt his pain lol

@BringBackSOAD

Жыл бұрын

Same! Small talk is cruel and unusual punishment

My wife's family lives in this rural ara just like the one you showed. First couples of times there i thought i was going to pass away. It really tested my limit on how tolerant you can be when nothing is right, from the water to the toilets to the food it makes you SO irritable. You can't just tell them it's gross because it's insulting and they think it's perfectly normal eating this weird stuff but it makes my stomach turn upside down. And if my stomach aches and i can't get a break the toilets where it's actually colder than outside, and in the summer it's like being in an oven or a sauna. My wife would NOT be supportive because she thought i should accept her way of life or whatever. I felt trapped i can litterally not go out by myself they will follow me everywhere to "help" me which is actually a very nice way of treating people but i'm not chinese and constantly beng around people and wasting time drinking tea is not my idea of fun. This year was better i'm getting used to it a little bit and start to know the place so i found better food.

@jha5301

Жыл бұрын

you sound like a prisoner who gave up the fight for freedom

@Ceramic_Discs

10 ай бұрын

I recommend that you get divorced ass soon ass possible . Save your own ass Bro 😢

@apples874

10 ай бұрын

You must have yellow fever. No normal person would put themselves through this

@marcusali1783

10 ай бұрын

Why move to China and marry a Chinese women if you have such a major problem with their culture and way of life?

@jizim8947

10 ай бұрын

Sounds like a real hoot... not, 😂😅

My brother in law as a diplomat in China nearly fainted when at a dinner a lid was lifted off a dish(for a colleague) and there was a cooked wolf pup, but with all its skin and face put back, " sleeping" on a bed of rice. I think I would have screamed and passed out all at once.

@AnkitYadav-td6mg

3 жыл бұрын

LOL WTF! 😳😁

@SkandalRadar

3 жыл бұрын

I'll better stay with my beef roulade with red cabbage and dumplings and a big mug of Augustiner beer. Cheers and Greetings from Germany. :-D

@parnamsaini4751

3 жыл бұрын

Beatrix..extremely brutal.

@XanVicious

3 жыл бұрын

I think I wouldve thrown up on the spot.

@williss1192

3 жыл бұрын

F*ck! I wouldn’t eat it. Isn’t it just a cooked animal with nothing added inside? Lol

I am Chinese American, I learn a great deal about China from your video, I took most everything as NORMAL until you pointed it out differently. You covered the ENTIRE China OBJECTIVELY. Great videos.

@itsbonkerjojo9028

11 ай бұрын

Great comment

You tell a good story. Had similar experience in Cambodia. Trapped and truly torurous!

That sort of hospitality was probably much more fun when everyone was hooked on opium.

@mattymcsplatty5440

3 жыл бұрын

agreed

@sd-wc9ep

3 жыл бұрын

Everything is much more fun when you're on opium

@We_Want_It_All

2 жыл бұрын

@@sd-wc9ep until you're eating your own shit thinking it's chocolate pudding

@aikafuwa7177

Жыл бұрын

You got the British narco-state to thank for that!

@13infbatt

2 ай бұрын

Who’s your opium guy ?

Just got back from China and this made me laugh with how spot on it is

I think the one thing I absolutely hate about Chinese hospitality is the "force feeding" part. They literally pick up food from plates with their own chopstick and put it in your bowl. The more you refuse their "help" the most they want to "help" you. One, I'm an adult so I can decide what I want to eat and how much to eat. Two, I don't want the dirty food that's touched your chopsticks to go anywhere near my plate.

@serpentza

7 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's something that urks me too

@FirstLast-gi3ei

7 жыл бұрын

Just tell them you are uncomfortable and don't want that, and explain it is not normal where you are from and that you appreciate the gestures and you are not being disrespectful. You must speak up for yourself in life.

Haha! I love this because after just a year in China I know exactly what you are talking about. You are absolutely right. Chinese people are some of the kindest I have ever met. I always say this. But whenever a new Chinese friend invites me to their home I just mark off that day as done because I KNOW they will have me there all day. And we may be doing nothing for hours but the moment I say "Okay I'm gonna go" they start protesting about me leaving too soon. I couldn't understand it first but now I do, and I just accept it. It's their way and I really do love them :)

@user-tc6lf5dv4q

7 жыл бұрын

Yes， thank you for understanding,in fact ,you will used to it.If you really in hurry or have your own affairs.Just say that in a mild way，they just want to show their hospitallity ,normally,it's their way to treat guests.

@bookersbay

7 жыл бұрын

They are 'Great'...., are they not..?

@Manuel-oe4gv

6 жыл бұрын

*Good to know that. I though they're hospitality on for white ppl*

@jsnlgrrtt

6 жыл бұрын

Rhonda B

"They get to brag about you for weeks, months or years really" lmfao

Winston, I lived in China for about 7 years in the mid 90's and still travel there a couple times a year for business. I must say that I thoroughly enjoy your channel. Your content is exceptional and gives me the current perspective of how the times have changed. My family and I were just in Shenzhen and Hong Kong last weekend for vacation. Hopefully, we'll have the opportunity to grab a beer one day. Cheers and keep up the great work!

As a Chinese, I should say that I'm also not getting used to the rural way of hospitality and all the weird things regarding their face. For example, if you show them around in big cities and having a CLEAN meal, they will say: hey, well, the tall buildings in the city are crowded and the meal is not fresh so they are not as good as my village because what I have is always the best. BTW, cow stomach may be strange for westerners just like Escargot is strange for Chinese, though I like to challenge all kinds of food lol

@BenRangel

7 жыл бұрын

I'm glad places like that still exist. It's a bummer when you visit someone in a different country, hoping to have a local, home cooked meal, and all they want is to take you to a japanese restaurant and talk about how they wish they lived somewhere else.

@lkrnpk

7 жыл бұрын

Yes, if the food is terrible than it's a problem. I am from Eastern Europe but thankfully my mom turns into a chef when my sister and her husband (who is from the city) shows up. Her food is not bad on daily basis anyways, but it always surprises me how much better and more diverse it becomes when they visit :D But yeah, I guess it depends on the person, how critical they are about their own home made food etc. My mom would never make something non-traditional that she has not done before and that has not gone through the extended family food criticism club.

@user-tc6lf5dv4q

7 жыл бұрын

+John Holmes1 good is always a relative words!

@saintjohn7263

7 жыл бұрын

The thing is Escargot is weird for westerners too! Lol. But I agree I like to try everything once.

@Hamsterzilla1349

6 жыл бұрын

Cow stomach isn't strange at all in France or Italy... "Westerners" don't really exist.

Winston is a "中国通",he knows China very very well. He is right, the guy was showing off or took advantage of Winston to bring him a "big face" or make him important in his village. This guy is called "土豪"， that means getting rich in one night. The reason he can get rich in one night because he is more aggressive than others. In the video, he showed too aggressive. He did not care what his guest---Winston's needs and Winston's feeling. He was generous, but he was impolite and he was using Winston as a token at the same time. But that guy doesn't represent most Chinese. Most Chinese are very generous and respect their guest very much as well. When they realize what their guests feel or need, as hosts they will adjust their arrangement as much as possible. They will never take their guests as "prisoners" to make them feel uncomfortable.

@mingjuzhu1207

7 жыл бұрын

I do not why he goes there. Did not he know that there are different kinds of persons? Before you go deeper in the relationship, we should first to find if we two have similar personalities or if the person has some problems I cannot stand. I think he deserves the result. We Chinese actually will not meet some strangers, because we think we should first know each other and then be friend

@xmarkx71

5 жыл бұрын

Mingju Zhu how can you get to know someone if you won’t talk to them nonetheless show empathy and compassion towards them!

@andycrowley6442

4 жыл бұрын

@sweetfreedom ca -u idiot! 😜🙄

You really nailed it in this video. Great points.

Very good video Winston. I like your channel, bro. I can relate. My wife is also Chinese from Shanghai and many times we have been invited to some restaurants to try some foods that I would rather not eat, but I have to show being grateful. I know the feeling brother.

I appreciate that he shows the positives and negatives from his experiences . Keep it up dude!

@alessioskomneos655

7 жыл бұрын

mostly negative just watch his other videos

@marcduchamp5512

7 жыл бұрын

Christopher Dixon some mainland chinese people have hard time adjusting what is common sense and what isn't. Takes another 30 years to catch-up to the standard outside...

@okbutthenagain.9402

7 жыл бұрын

+Yang Liu. Well done for proving his point.

@David-ux5wn

7 жыл бұрын

+Yang Liu. I've been living in Chengdu for several years now. Please tell me... where is that 5000 years of culture and history? The great wall looks like shit in most places, ancient temples, monasteries and palaces torn down... In the center of Chengdu there used to be a palace from the Shu Kingdom. Now there is a statue of Mao. It seems to me that very few people in China actually care about culture and history...

@alessioskomneos655

7 жыл бұрын

David fuck off western spy can't squat properly like real slav and asian lol jk

Heya. I am a German National, living and having lived in China for 9 years now, previously visiting china for over 20 years. I have in the past watched several of your videos and enjoyed most of them. But as some other people pointed out, as of late it seems you are not happy in your situation. I understand that you do not enjoy the rural hospitality routine. But as I myself have gone through it many times, I can only say I enjoy it every single time. My Chinese is acceptable, enough for basic conversations about basic things, not good enough for technical or poetic items. This combined with the various accents in rural China makes these occasions very challenging. I remember 29 years ago, when I first saw the food preparation, the type of food and such, I was shocked. But over the years I have come to enjoy it. I personally find each and every visit thrilling. Every time I learn something new, every time I find another new custom or thing that I may have missed before or have never seen. Maybe the secret to enjoying it is wanting to know as much as possible, and thereby asking as many questions as possible yourself. The thing I regret at those times is that sometimes the communication, specially with very old rural Chinese is very very difficult, due to the previous mentioned dialects. Either way, since I have enjoyed your videos in the past, but as of late they do seem to be a bit darker, I hope you find a renewed sense of happiness to bring some of the optimism from earlier videos back into your life. Good Luck and Save Travels Andreas aka Fei Long.

@earth2mike

3 жыл бұрын

He's ungrateful... If it's something different from his beliefs his brain automatically declares it as wrong... Why live there in the first place, it's a case of "when in Rome"... I understand he is in the States now, I hope he is finally happy... This time he better keep his rants to himself...

Welcome to another video, always gets me and that music too. damn you :D

OMG ! You are so right, highly appreciated the hospitality but sometimes it's too much. Here is an example I went to iran to visit some family memebers dude! I felt like I'm 5 years old kid. Cuz they control you by asking where you going or oh no we are not going there we will go somewhere else. Honestly If i was there and never had come to Canada i would have done the same to you lol sorry but its truth . Anyhow thank you for uploading such helpful videos . I'm sharing them with family and friends .

@j.i.s.l178

4 жыл бұрын

🙄

@idontcare9797

4 жыл бұрын

Why do so many canadians go to Iran?

@MusicHDUniversal

4 жыл бұрын

@@idontcare9797 they are making the biggest mistake of their life

Seems like being stuck at grandma

@nate5124

5 жыл бұрын

Showsky sounds exactly like it 😂😂

@gyrocompa

5 жыл бұрын

Except your grandma loves you. i doubt the Chinese host loves Winston ;-)

@Homeskillet-mk6bj

5 жыл бұрын

Was thinking sort of the same thing

@xvnbm

5 жыл бұрын

Previous time I visited her, I tried to keep it short and leave when I've drunk my coffee, but then that old rat gave a present to me and my girlfriend and we couldn't leave right after receiving a present.

@PoTommyPo

5 жыл бұрын

z ahio Goddamn, no love for gran-gran? 😂

It happened to me too in a remote part of Guangdong. Swim bladder of a fish....yes, I ate one. Tasteless and rubbery, but at least I was polite :).

I’m enjoying his series. I used to be like him I always wore suits or dress wear. I live with a bunch of med students from China in Chicago and told them I was telling them I am interested in traveling to northern China. They recommended southern China and how northern China was cold and wet like Chicago

same here in Vietnam, but you can get out of the trap by being firm and using a number of ready made polite sentences. You'll get the formalities required by observing and asking locals. Here you are allowed to dislike something, it wont offend them, and it's part of their entertainment to see how you'll react. They know their food is shocking, and that's why they brought you here, and they'll understand if you refuse because even local kids would refuse such kind of food that that takes a long time to get accustomed to (matured eggs, silk worm larvae, dog meat, super strong alcohol....). 1) they have to understand clearly the purpose of your visit (tourism, making videos, exploring etc...) 2) you can establish your schedule with them given the priorities you laid out in (1) You could simply have said you came here for sight seeing and would like to get out taking pics of their beautiful village instead of drinking tea. It would have made them proud all the same.

Damn, you hit the Murphy's Law of Hospitality jackpot.

You can always say "thanks, but no thanks". I grew up in a very Chinese city just outside of Los Angeles. I spent my entire young adulthood eating and doing things I didn't like. Finally, I snapped and started to just say no thanks. The whole hospitality thing gets way old, especially when you seriously don't want to eat something that's fucking gross. Sure, it's weird at first, but it's better than constantly being someone's bitch and being too afraid to be yourself.

Hello Winston, I’ve been living in Rongjiang, Guizhou and I understand! You’ve nailed my thoughts exactly! Love your videos!

@serpentza

6 жыл бұрын

Glad you understand

He just trying to be nice in his way, they are not well educated person. He treated you like you are new comer. Same way he will do to chinese people even to a relatives. This is the culture of elders people in downtown city. He was just too excited to meet a foreigners which he never going to have chance to do the hospitality again

@inthefade

5 жыл бұрын

Did you listen to the video? This is exactly what he says. He spends literally half of the video saying exactly what you just said. He gives a full appreciation of the generosity, but says it is double-sided, which it clearly is.

@nvmffs

5 жыл бұрын

What do you mean downtown city?

@eastcoastenzo3654

4 жыл бұрын

Why are you trying to explain this. He was extremely nice to Winston who DOES NOT deserve it.

@hannah5245

4 жыл бұрын

Being nice is not a problem. There must be a line. Cut-off point .

Having lived in Taiwan for 16 years, I completely understand and can relate to your video. BTW...At least you didn't have to eat testicle soup.

@aikafuwa7177

Жыл бұрын

He probably ate that too many times already!

Hey Winston, this is something I can relate to, even though I am Chinese. City born, city bred, I am not used to the rural hospitality sometimes...

@marcduchamp5512

7 жыл бұрын

changying jushi Yes agreed!

@shaileshdas

7 жыл бұрын

I experienced it this spring festival. It was new for me and I loved it. everything was fine except the home made white wine. It had very strong fragrance. I dont ever want to drink it again. I sipped it very slowly with my nose closed as it was making me wanna puke due to very hard fragrance. Later in evening I was again offered a different kind of alcohol and I couldn't refuse it. an hour later I puked all out and was drunk as hell but felt very ashamed and they were apologizing.

@emmanuela.2932

7 жыл бұрын

It's the same everywhere in the world. Rural areas are like that, no matter the country. Accept it, and adapt you to it.

@foljs5858

6 жыл бұрын

+Changying Jushi That's because you are a nouveau rich who thinks he's better than the villagers.

@michaelxz1305

6 жыл бұрын

do city Chinese consider a plate of fried pure fat a delicacy too?

Been following your work with c milk for a while now.. your videos keep getting better bro. About 10 years ago I wanted to work in China, life lead me to California instead. So hearing your stories is like indulging in a parallel reality that I could’ve experienced.

"i just rather go and eat a bloody kfc" that's me in China, every time

I think you explained perfectly....they will never accept or understand that we dont eat intestines .... they think it`s delicious and that is the end of it

@markb6139

7 жыл бұрын

Yeah, we eat all of that stuff here too. The only difference is that all the scraps of a carcass and the innards are usually grounded up and used in different things, especially prepared food and fast-food, like sausage, nuggets, ground meat, burgers, beef/chicken flavoring, etc.

@VenturiLife

7 жыл бұрын

Most hot dogs etc. use cellulose casings.

@legaleagle7226

7 жыл бұрын

No. mate, its called tripe and it was common in England, and probably USofA once, until we became too 'genteel' and 'refined' - or in other words, started to turn up our noses at what was seen to be 'common' or 'peasant' food. Truth is, intestines or stomach can be quite tasty, and not too bad if properly cooked (otherwise too chewy as often happens)

@rafski-travels-1984

7 жыл бұрын

We used to eat offal in the west and offal is eaten in most places around the world it is just the west have become removed from certain cultures namely our rural heritage and instead opted for vacuum packed chicken breasts with pasta as we sit by our computers at the office. Offal is more nutritious than normal meat and it is a delicacy that should be enjoyed sparingly to suppliment our diets, especially in colder climates.

@legaleagle7226

7 жыл бұрын

+ 3nien Don't forget 'black pudding' which is really a sausage made from blood. Very popular in the north of England once. The Germans call it blotwurst I think

Ignore the haters man, I for one really appreciate your videos where you are honest. There is no need to sugarcoat everything in life just to please a few individuals, keep making good videos like this!

This chap makes great videos, doesn’t hype them up over the top, very informative. Stumbled on them by chance. I’ve no intention of visiting China but they’re still great viewing. 👍👍

It's a great KZread channel, you do a great job and I appreciate your window into real China.

9:30 as a chinese person i think this is one of the main reasons. Hospitality also plays a part but they wouldn't do the same things for a black guy (sad but true) being around westerners (Whites) makes them feel important.

@tactiti0n

6 жыл бұрын

Some people like attention. If you see it for what it is and it doesn't harm then it wouldn't really matter right? Being a token white guy has its benefits.

@Smacktee

5 жыл бұрын

I am a black British and had exactly the same. Presentation is a big part of perception. Earlier this year, I visited Yantai, I virtually did not pay for anything because people were so nice that in fact, they were prepared to fight me if I stopped them from paying for things i needed to pay for. Even the hotel I stayed was not paid for by me. Maybe I was lucky then but I've had same hospitality in other cities too. I'm currently planning my third travel back to china this year.

@johnpineapple3329

5 жыл бұрын

I’m sure you are a victim in some other way?@@Smacktee

@Smacktee

5 жыл бұрын

@@johnpineapple3329 Absolutely not. There is a lot more to my answer but I will leave it at that. Just curious tho, what made you decide you wanted to cook with a kettle in a Chinese hotel?

@Smacktee

5 жыл бұрын

@tink86 L for the location you went, I will be of the opinion that they would be quite genuine when giving compliments. Other location such as Guangzhou will be quite different. And you should know this...Chinese people act different to one another depending on where in china they are from, you will also find sometimes friends who will go through anything to stick up for you even against other Chinese.

I dont think C-milk does it to show off, i think he does it so he can experience something completely different from normal. Thats why i try weird shit. Not specifically to say i did it, but so I experience something that very few westerners have. And a side effect of that is of course bragging rights.

@RicknMorty85

7 жыл бұрын

I agree, C-milks expression when eating different delicacies seems genuine, he doesn't seem like the person who would lie about it. He's pretty straight forward so if he truly disliked the food, he would probably tell it straight just like all his other videos, he doesn't sugar coat anything and he just tells it as it is.

@StephenMortimer

7 жыл бұрын

Cmilk is a masochist !!

@serpentza

7 жыл бұрын

+Paulius Zenevičius I think it's the bragging rights he's really after haha, but yeah let's see if he responds to the challenge :)

@StephenMortimer

7 жыл бұрын

serpentza C-milk don't DISAPPOINT us !!

@websuspect

7 жыл бұрын

I have a pretty strong stomach, I could not handle the beefhide, Onions, Bloody goose, Mixed random Greens. and Bamboo shoots. Alls it was missing was three dicks!

I love your older videos! It just feels like I’m watching another time😂fragments of a different time and part of your life…I also just love the driving talking videos I’ve watched a few now and they are awesome

Been in China for 2 years and over the past two years I've gotten a bit sick of the traditional hospitalities. Especially the feeling of being trapped and are forced to eat (Being forced to eat is torture). I'm quite like CMilk, love trying all the weird foods too, however my stomach can only hold so much food.

You can refuse you know, just say what you there for, tell them you have a schedule.

@djuraster

7 жыл бұрын

you dont get it, you have to be here

@StephenMortimer

7 жыл бұрын

Just tell them "No Wei" ??

@zhenglu4102

7 жыл бұрын

tell them i m sorry，i want to 。。。

@YTofuable

7 жыл бұрын

+Stephen Mortimer LOL

@changdaxu4598

7 жыл бұрын

thats considered extremely rude

That's the drawback to being honest, but if you were really honest with yourself, this wouldn't happen. Being kind is not always being honest, and I suppose the reverse is true.

Thank you for sharing your experience and your thought, Winston! I truly relate to your experience, almost feel tortured myself even just listening to your story! Still, this is very informative and we're learning more. Thank you again.

soulless concrete houses? I've never thought of it that way and my father came from a village from China. It is true! Good description!

I lost it at sand peanuts lmao xD

Honestly Serpentza, the more I listen to your videos the more I start to hear the clear clarion call of the homesick westerner. My wife's Russian and I can last two/3 weeks in Russian villages before I'm ready to come home

One of the best vids. Can hear the passion

Hey Winston, Im Philip from Germany and in the past weeks I watched loads of your videos. This one made me cry with laughter. You do a great job man. Especially when you have to get rid of some emotions makes your videos superauthentic and a pleasure to watch. Keep it up :)

Being one myself, I love it when longtime expats spill on what bugs them about their new country. So much to love, but nothing like a good vent on the irritating bits to get one's sanity backs.

Makes you come off as very ungrateful, but at the same time very honest. I can see how it would get old, especially when you're in a hurry.

@sunnyzhao3353

7 жыл бұрын

+ James Wang: It's funny. What about Chinese talking shit about America to Americans in the U.S.? And how would Americans treat Chinese then?

@arcijs26

7 жыл бұрын

It doesn't. And it's better to see the bad truth than the sweet lies

@proudinfidel2194

6 жыл бұрын

Andrew Ihle South Africans are very honest in their opinion.

@Lilliathi

6 жыл бұрын

+sunny zhao Westerners talk shit about their own countries a lot, especially Americans. The rest of the world isn't as insecure about their country as some of the Chinese seem to be. Ease off on the nationalism, it's silly.

@magma2680

6 жыл бұрын

+sunny zhao would say they'd treat you better than a chinese person a lot of the time if you did the same.

Thanks dude. I am really enjoying your channel!

I am addicted to your videos. Please keep them coming. Your insight is appreciated! You crack me up sometimes as I also hate sitting still in one place for too long!

Regardless of the subject matter I could listen to your soothing voice all day

Honesty used to be considered a positive trait yet the hateful comments would lead one to believe otherwise. I completely understand what he's talking about, my wife refused in advance numerous times to go out due to the obligation of 'returning the favor' that would be expected, not because were cheap, merely because it can become extremely time consuming. What was hard for me, was that it seemed to be always about 'try this' rather than "what does your husband like" so I went through a lot of napkins and appeared to have a small bladder to those around me :-) Like Winston, the hospitality was always appreciated however at times all I could think about was the phrase "to much of a good thing" and would find myself extremely bored if it dragged out. Christ, even here in BC, I only accept going to her brothers on occasion for tea due to it being a 3-4hr commitment. Am I implying that I don't appreciate his hospitality, hell no, it only implies that I would prefer it to be a 30min-1hr visit instead. Do your thing Winston, fk the haters....but lay off C-milk or I'll tell his boyfriend (Prozzie) to kick your ass. Who am I kidding, Prozzie's got no game and C-milks out of his league. Just kidding guys, Proz "ohhhh Canadaaaa", just busting your balls bud, cheers

@serpentza

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for understanding mate!

I also made mistake of saying I liked pig trotters, so with one friend he only brings me to restaurant with pig , and always orders it for me , sometimes 2 dishes worth, He doesnt understand why I dont eat 5 lbs of feet

Just subscribed to your channel Serpentza. I have to know more about my ancestors the Chinese race & I find your information really really good! Thank you Winston! 😄👏🏽👍🏽

I kept wanting to say "But Winston, how do you REALLY feel about the food?" :)

Stay awesome Winston! Please sir, can I have some more stories

I had a friend who was a middle manager in a utilities firm in China , she kept inviting me to company dinners and her boss was always there . He was a bit domineering towards me in front of everyone....I went to three or more such dinners before I figured I was being used for ‘face’ whether by my friend or her boss I don’t know for sure

Very interesting video. Thanks!

Being window dressing gets old very quickly so after 10 years I'm sure the smiles take tons of effort. As far as hygiene and sanitary standards it's tough when we are accustomed to 1st world living. Your perceived cool life has heaps of behind the scenes work , sacrifice and compromise from what I can see. Its awesome to vicariously experience from my lazyboy air conditioned abode , sipping on a quality beer out of a clean glass. Thanks.

@serpentza

7 жыл бұрын

+Master Q thanks mate, I'm glad you understand!

I know exactly what you're talking about! Honest video. Thanks.

Wow very interesting to hear this perspective. Great video!

Sounds like touring through the Middle East. A friend was touring through the back roads and hinterlands of Palestine and Lebanon and many courteous people invited him in their homes. They all lavished him with tea loaded with so much sugar that you can see a lot settling in the bottom of the glass. Nobody believed him when he said he does not like sweet tea, but prefers it straight. Kind of like touring through Mississippi and telling the people there you do not like sweet tea; they just don't believe you and they try to push that swill on you.

@mutalix

5 жыл бұрын

Middle Eastern culture can be a bit stifling lol

Even this video bored me. I can't even imagine the excruciatingly long day you guys had.

Their dumplings are one of my favorite Chinese foods, especially homemade.

Enjoying your show bro. Thanks for sharing your insights on China. Fascinating.

@serpentza

6 жыл бұрын

+david gimber glad you like the vids

ah, ah, that was the funniest post I saw yet on your channel. good show!!!

Hi Winston:. Is it my eyes or you are indeed driving pretty fast. Thank you so much for your 10 year awesome experiences in China . G-d bless you. Your Chinese car seems to respond great to your exceeded driving. Have a safe journey Winston. Greetings from Catalonia Spain

@SkandalRadar

3 жыл бұрын

In Germany we consider this speed as snail's pace. :-D

Oh have you had yak milk tea yet? It’s more of a Tibetan thing but if you love drinking butter you should try it.

these videos got me through a really rough time while i was very sick. looking at them now is just blasting me with a nostalgia feeling, even though they were shitty times.

Thanks for sharing!

Hearing sand peanuts makes me drools 🤤 bcus in my hometown we roast peanuts w volcanic sand 😋 they're fresh

International connection-- you are so honest 😂

I am learning a lot! Thank you!

Great content. Superb storytelling .

"They want to show you their good hospitality and this is what you'll get every time" LMAO

To avoid all those foods you can claim being vegetarian, although, in my experience, it might be difficult to explain the concept of being vegetarian to them as well.

@mariemaier5630

2 жыл бұрын

Just show them Earthlings and Dominion. Then they will understand.

@chrisrebar2381

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, tried to explain that in Hong Kong, got served chicken ..... “Chicken?” .... “Yes”, the waiter said “vegetable”!

Thanks for this video. I've been in situations like that but didn't know how to explain it quite so nicely. I'm not crazy after all.

LOL at the calling C-milk out. Too funny! Stay true winston

what's the positive of their hospitality? the saying good bye part?

I had meals cooked for me when I worked in China with the Chinese Armed Police Force [aka zhonguo wu jing]. We worked in the country side and I was given pig stomach once or twice a day, every day for a solid month. When I finally grew tired of eating it, I complained and said I'd eat anything else but pig stomach. Lol. I got goat stomach the very next meal. I'd rather eat the pig stomach. I eventually got use to eating it and after a year started enjoying it. But I totally understand and relate to what Winston is talking about in this video. And Archie Wei is right about being able to refuse hospitality....you just need a believable excuse so as your host doesn't come off as "losing face"

@barrelrolldog

7 жыл бұрын

for real you develop a taste to the food. i eat blood now like its not even a thing. some things i still would steer clear of though.

@ChinaMaike

7 жыл бұрын

In 2004 /05, I was managing a small gold exploration program on Hainan Island for a joint venture between a small Vancouver based junior mining company and the Armed Police Force which used to call itself the "Golden Army". They are a group of former army personel and Chinese geologists that essentially do most of the small scale gold mining throughout China and other small Asian nations such as Miramar. China is not really a communist country but more of a military dictatorship. China doesn't have a military; rather the military belongs to and answer to the communist party and not to the people. Most people in China do not consider themselves communists.

@pyx_out3215

7 жыл бұрын

Mike Jerema.. well china never acts really like a communist state in the 21st century in real life to be honest..

@pyx_out3215

7 жыл бұрын

Mike Jerema.. the military acts the same anywhere else on earth.. it is to back up the government most of the time

@pyx_out3215

7 жыл бұрын

Mike Jerema .. even if you were offered disgusting food (in your opinion)..you always have the chance to pack your own meal for work

I've watched about 80% of your, c-milk and advchina's videos. this is by far my favorite one and the funniest. not sure whether your face expression came from boring driving, broken ac, or memory of the story, but the effect is excellent. just can't stop watching your channel. cheers.

Very good one and very interesting.

You are making me nervous!! Don’t record and drive in China! You’ve shown us how reckless the driving is there.

how fast are you driving!¡? lol!!!!! it looks so fast.. is that just the camera doing that?

found your channel randomly, been watching them ever since, such a great documentary. love the honesty, Im Thai, used to live in Australia for quite sometimes and now Im back to my country. I have experienced similar culture differences. keep up the good work. cheers!

one of your best videos !!

Chinese hospitality , A freeloaders Dream! I love this guys vids :)

I'm entertained hearing about but sympathies of the ordeal. Come to North Carolina and will treat you right. Good food and good hospitality.

Yup! Been there. And felt guilty for feeling irritated about being forced into a position of choosing between "being polite and grateful" and valuing my time and freedom.

I absolutely love your video's

Seems like after 10 years there you are having trouble “staying awesome “ 😂

"oh sorry, i'm vegetarian", whew dodged a bullet.

@anonimato1987

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think Chinese people know or can even imagine some one not eating meat haha

@kakhakheviashvili6365

4 жыл бұрын

@@anonimato1987 i think they can. Because historically before CCP they were buddhists and knew hinduists well, and some branches (denominations?) of both of these religions preach vegetarianism.

You are awesome, Winston!

My wife is Chinese and I've been to China many times, everytime I get off the plane I think who's grilling? Then I remember that it's going to smell that way the whole time I'm there, and then you smell the water from the taps and realize it's not proper to piss in, public bathrooms smell from 100 yards away, it took me an hour once to find a toilet that I didn't have to squat to use which I never did and always got sick, 11 hour plane ride after puking and shitting through the eye of a needle at the same time for hours makes me remember why I haven't been back and hopefully never have to, my wife's family is upper middle class and thankfully we only ate at top notch vip room restaurants and hotels, where the food was actually really good strange some times but good, but even so I always got food poisoning.