i have observed this that Toppers in aiims have a separate group which they make ot kinda elite and others are left out. You will see toppers who are rich will attend weddings of eachother's family, go on trips etc but others are just left out. There is groupism going in aiims and no one except students are responsible for it. People from poor backgrounds disappear, i swear!

@shiza7291

Жыл бұрын

Is it happens only in aiims or in other medical colleges too?

@ayushinkarya3202

Жыл бұрын

Yes, u r totally right!! 👍🏻👍🏻 ARS, Nishita Purohit, Vanshika etc. r examples.They have formed a separate group. Recently they attented ARS mom-dad's anniversary together, which is in a way gud thing. I m not pointing personally anyone but yes this is the harsh and real truth.👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@ttube9842

Жыл бұрын

@@shiza7291 it is a toxic thing almost everywhere. I am not sure about every college but i am sure about most of the colleges be it medical, engineering or other degree colleges.

@riptikarajak7656

Жыл бұрын

​@@shiza7291 west bengal tumeh final yr mai bhi single room allot nehi hota hai..1st yr mai to ek kamre 4 or 4 log rehete hai

@subhamsuman1740

Жыл бұрын

Pehle aisa nahi tha

can we just appreciate her honesty 🥺

@vaibhavverma3742

Жыл бұрын

These things happen so often...i don't know why people don't talk about this...i once did a study on our final year students 76% students had mild to moderate depression and most of them felt alone ...problem is nobody wants to take charge of these things.. 😞

@courage5904

Жыл бұрын

Nahi

@sanjayjha5428

Жыл бұрын

@@courage5904 chup re

@krishnanshraut

Жыл бұрын

Bohot galdi reality batai 😂👍🏻

In the era of faking and vlogging clg like making it a unreal life there's someone who talks so real and true things .. hats off to you for being so open

@diyaofficial366

Жыл бұрын

Soo truee

Being a 3 rd year mbbs student,I can definitely relate to this .. People do feel lonely in the medical college at some point or the other ..they tend to lose friends at pointless issues.. but then u have to be strong and stay connected with your parents to gain positivity and sail through 😌

@flipthescript-surojitdas7529

Жыл бұрын

I can resonate with you.... A fellow 3rd year MBBS student.

@jivisha_

Жыл бұрын

Which college!?

@saumyamedshell5583

Жыл бұрын

@@jivisha_ GMC fzd

@vaibhavverma3742

Жыл бұрын

I can so relate to this..this..thing isn't just limited to aiims or govt colleges..i guess people in medical colleges somehow behave this way..they somehow inflict an inferiority complex over the other person so they feel they are good enough.. Sometimes at the end of the day.. I feel it's just rat race..and i just want to break free... 😞

@prabdeepsinghMBBS

Жыл бұрын

Hmmmm probably Frnds bass naam ke hote ha max, toh make positivity & Almighty God as your everything & parents toh ha hi 😄 toh chill Maro ✨

She is true She is not in any pictures with Aryan bhaiyaa or any other toppers group

Hey Rashmi , I am final year student @ lady hardinge and I just wanted to say that I can relate to each and every word that you said. I am also sitting all alone in my room right now , just saw your video , much power to you because I can feel whatever you are saying . I can see that pain in your eyes . I had great friends in school but in college like you said that if you don’t get that vibe with anybody . I try to stay strong on most days but some days I feel like it would been much easier and fulfilling if I would have even one person with whom I could completely be myself where I could get the warmth I needed . Lots of love and warmth to you 😊

@cyamantakashyap4967

Жыл бұрын

@Peer Asim nissar 0

@Rajeevkumar-nw9dt

Жыл бұрын

Hihihi I am here😊😊😊😊😊

@Jivan____1

Жыл бұрын

Kyahi h ye sab v feel krne ka tym rehta h aplogo k paas

@ramkrishna5107

Жыл бұрын

@@Jivan____1 Bhai agar tu ye sab nahi samejh pa rha hai to acchi baat hai.. God Bless..tum kabhi is sab me na paro...but you should understand that it is reality aur sayad tum abhi itne mature nahi ho ki samejh sako ye sab

@Jivan____1

Жыл бұрын

@@ramkrishna5107 maturity ka to pta nhi. but apn simple concept rakhte h ki kaam itna h ki usko karne me tym hi nhi milta ki kuch loneliness jaisa kuchh feel kre

Thanks for sharing , I can relate so much, I had been like that 2 years ago, isolating myself just to be a topper. But now I realized I want a happy life not a topper life. Its okay being average but the actual wealth is having good people around, making real life friends that will always support you and you will support them. Balance banao guys, when you go to college study like a champion but don't forget to socialize. pls share more experiences from college and how and what you suggest us to do in 1st year. In the end its life and no one wants a sad life.

I literally can feel what you tell di..I am preparing for neet UG..so I made myself a little isolated...it feels like I lost many things 😔...but I believe in universe🙏 everything will just worth it

@shipraverma9685

Жыл бұрын

same here🙂🙃

@divyasree.y2003

Жыл бұрын

Same.. I hv 2 best friends. Bcoz of my preparation for neet I maintained little distance but they completely left speaking to me. Things like this are so depressing. But nothing is more than achieving our drms. No matter what let's keep going everything will reach us at the right time.

@Jaeshin123

Жыл бұрын

going through the same situation...just hope that God gives us strength to survive

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

What she said.i don't understand.🥺

@anuja8704

Жыл бұрын

soo true, lost so many friends during this preparation time. M a dropper for neet 2023, seeing those friends making new friends enjoying their college lives gives me so much of FOMO, but at the end its going to be worth.... our dreams are more important than anything else

Literally I'm able to relate to each and every single word of you . I was exactly in the same situation in my engineering college too...💓

My god. I haven't related to anything how much I related to each and every word you said. There are a lot of conversations about mental health pre NEET but no one talks about the part when you get selected and enter college. Everyone just assumes that getting selected in a good government medical college brings all the happiness and satisfaction one needs. It is especially difficult when don't find the type of friend group you were hoping for.

All that feelings I could see it on her face and I could also feel every bit of them. Thankyou for being so brave and Kudos for speaking ur heart out. U r never alone, we all r with u always. U r the voice of lakhs of students!! Be brave, be bold, be beautiful and just be you. U r ur biggest asset. I wish u all the best. All my love to u Rashmi❤️❤️. Keep smiling always 🌼🌼🌼🌼

Thanks Rashmi for making students aware of mistakes and experiences that you want your juniors to avoid . It takes a lot of guts to speak of these things publically and you really did it . You should be really proud of urself . Best of luck for your future . You will rock it ...

@RASHMIAIIMSDELHI1722

Жыл бұрын

Thankyou

Being a 2nd year student I could relate to each and every word… It felt as if you were narrating my own story.. It’s your friend circle that makes a place cherish-able and if you don’t have people whose vibes match with yours then the place is a living hell for you.. The phase I am going to is such that I feel my preparation days were a 1000 times better than this…

@bhaskerkumar1424

Жыл бұрын

seriouly mbbs is not what we think then why lakhs students die to get a med seat i dont understand , i am a dropper but after knowing the harsh truth that even after studying this much we cant even have a single true frnd, i feel like quitting my neet prep. btw this is Anjana, i am still confused dont know shall i continue or if not do i have other option...

@aakashapurv8472

Жыл бұрын

@@bhaskerkumar1424 see the thing is there’s always 2 phases of the coin and everything has its own pros and cons… these demerits mentioned above are real yet they are no reason to quit preparing .. you do find great people here.. and how much ever I rant about mbbs I know that I am gonna be a DOCTOR… this keeps me going .. and this is what should keep you going… ✌🏼

@bhaskerkumar1424

Жыл бұрын

@@aakashapurv8472 yeah you are right but i needed something which can keep me going like the main reasons why i should choose this field medicine takes years to become a successful doc tho i am not giving up kyuki bio student ke pass yehi neet ek best option hota h 😶

@aakashapurv8472

Жыл бұрын

@@bhaskerkumar1424 it’s all worth the feeling ki doctor banne wale hai…

U r not alone...we are with you 🥰

I love her honesty more than anything!! Thank you so much , there's so much to learn from you!

You are brave 👏👏nobody ever shares such sides, usually medicos share the ideal, vague side. It really takes A LOT to express these things 👏👏👏 thankyou ❤️

i used to be obsessed over the toppers life who get aiims delhi and even my dad used to tell me how they’re going in parties and enjoying all events. But now I’ve realised, choose what you can handle, everyone’s way of life is different. Life goes on either way. Thankyou for sharing your experience Rashmi di! All the best for future endeavours🤗

@mitalishinde6890

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely agreed. Btw what are you studying if you don't mind asking ??? Cool music playlist btw

@vanshikaandriyas9094

11 ай бұрын

@@mitalishinde6890 oh thankyou for liking my playlists 😆I’m actually hoping to join mbbs at cmc ludhiana very soon. Just got a seat allotment yesterday. Goodluck on your journey in medicine as well!

Great video!! So true and absolutely relatable. Glad someone had the courage to share their experience, Hats off Rashmi!!!

I am not a AIIMS student neither mbbs student. I relate to you totally. The college life is weird to connect to people because honestly somewhere vibe’s doesn’t match.

I am in 2nd year .... totally relate with every line specially friends and I don't have single friend who see pain and loneliness in my eye and smile... currently suffering from all these things but after this video I feel motivated I am not alone who suffering from these things .....we are strong and emotional people who thinks too deep

Her voice at last shivered🥺 feels like she really had a bad time back then...I just wish no one else face such things. 💛

I could notice u clearly didi, that u were trying to control the tears from ur eyes and looking down to hide them , but don't worry didi ur gng to become a great doctor 💓😊 and love u

Didi this is the same situation I am facing in my BSC government college. Currently I am in final year. Our first year started in 2020 at that time I tried to make a lot of friends. I am a neet aspirant. I felt that in my free time they will be there with whom I can share my thoughts, my feelings. But as time passed by they all got their new friends some in college, some in tuitions, some have relationships. I was just left out by them as such they don't even know me. In college functions also I have to go alone and enjoy alone. As I don't want to show it to my family that I don't have friends in college. But I don't mind this things. Yes obviously it hurts some time that why everyone has such a big group of friends and I don't have a single one to chill with them and to talk with them. I have friends online but no one in college. I am still preparing for neet and hope to get a government mbbs seat in top medical college of west bengal. Dreams are more important than making friends.

@Shizuka1809

Жыл бұрын

Same condition 😭

@Shizuka1809

Жыл бұрын

I am also from WB ...I have no friend 😭

@aafreenziya2405

Жыл бұрын

2023 aspirant?

@Shizuka1809

Жыл бұрын

@@aafreenziya2405 hmm

@priyajinagal2189

Жыл бұрын

Same situation.. am also in bsc final year .. 😔😔

Thanks for showing reality Really needed now🙂 Lots of love

Thank you for being so REAL and Genuine♥️♥️

Well said Rashmi! Everybody is unique in their own way. So never think U are less than anyone else. Keep going!!❤️❤️

It's okay, and u are not less than anyone. This thing happened with me in school. Even I used to score great but I thought that maybe first three toppers are more intelligent. So I never talked to them, but i always used to think to go in their group.

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

What she said.i don't understand.🥺

@rahulkamboj1876

Жыл бұрын

Right you

di, when I watched you, I also thought, u are so much happy in ur life, but now I knew reality that's not real happiness which we are show off ...thnks for sharing ur experience

Its basically like a cycle and recycle. When we complete 10th standard,it seems that the higher secondary years would be damn exciting, but then eventually things start taking a negative turn. We think college life would be great, but then the same happens. We then become fully matured adults with a job and we start envisioning a wonderful professional life, but then again it slowly progresses along the direction that we had never wanted. Life is complicated 😪 So its best to adapt accordingly, keeping in mind the situation and the environment!!!! Despite all the negativity around, we still have happy and successful people all around!!!!

Your life is someone's dream So don't think that you are alone or whatever We all are always with you

@seren5483

Жыл бұрын

What is up with y'all always telling this "your life is someone's dream" Like? Go work hard like we did, like we burned our night oil. It's someone's dream doesn't mean that i can't tell you that this dream is also a nightmare? Are we not allowed to show how mbbs life is filled with loneliness and other shit just because we got a college?she isn't thinking she is alone, she actually is alone, how can you be so weird that someone's tells you about their struggles and you tell them that they should be happy that atleast they got a college?

@Vinblastin

Жыл бұрын

@@seren5483 then why you choose this stream man !

@seren5483

Жыл бұрын

@@Vinblastin Because I wanted to? That's really the dumbest thing someone has asked. What the fck are you even saying? We work a certain job because we like it doesn't mean it's all rainbows and sunshine? When she shows her better days, she is going to show the dark days too. Life isn't la la land, medical is definitely more stressful, it has it's perks but they are always outnumbered by the cons. It's weird to ask someone this question. It's like someone telling you that they are tired of life and you will tell them "why choose to live? Just d!e"... I really really hope you aren't a neet aspirant or a medical student because the way you think, talk, you will be a horrible doctor .

@rishitagautam7905

Жыл бұрын

@@Vinblastin Sharing the dark side and negative aspects doesn't mean that they don't love their profession.If high moments of prople are appricieated then low moments should also be equally accepted. Her vdo might save other college people who are trapped in this vicious cycle.

@ramlal1567

Жыл бұрын

@@Vinblastin Baitho beta Bahut kuch samajhna hai zindagi me

power to you girl you're not alone we are with you you know what i also had gone through the same ✌️and it makes us strong so no worries

Never seen someone being so real about one's journey... Really loved it and somehow as a loner found it relatable...(about the part of skipping Shimla trip for studying and later regretting it). Lots of love 💙💙💙

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

What she said.i don't understand.🥺

@vimlamehra7242

Жыл бұрын

@@nith4366 subtitles h english mei 🙂!!!

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

@@vimlamehra7242 subtitles r not showing for everything she said.

@aaishafirdous7983

Жыл бұрын

I did back in school (skipping trip) I still regret it.

@purnimarajak5465

Жыл бұрын

@@vimlamehra7242 ..

Dii u are someone special and I can feel ur emotions even though I have not gone through 😍stay strong and more power to u 💪👍😍luv u dii

Thanks for sharing the reality rashmi....so proud of uh❤

Soo honest yaar Loved it ♥️

Totally relatable ..every medical students story 🥲

Your words and sounds expresses ur pain. But u are brave that u had managed to find ur solution. Cheers to you and don't feel inferior. Just keep going.. u gonna do great..

@RASHMIAIIMSDELHI1722

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for understanding

I want to add more that I never saw someone to explain in such an honest way you did dii...Amazing You will get everything you love di I pray to Allah.

It's same story in every college. There is popular group who just are shitty people's giving each other confidence. I just hate them and their vibes . It is depressing when you can't talk to people's and can't connect to them. I am dealing with same issues and it's affecting my mental health and my studies. I lovee to hear from you. Thanks for sharing ❤️

You being so real and honest this is something we wanted to know your side of story keep posting such videos and it's perfectly OKAY to be a loner✨💗

Thank you diii.... U are most genuine person ever.... Kahi na kahi mujhe lag rha tha ki aap inn saab ke bare me bataengi iss video me.... But then I thought shaed nhi ... But u did it... It shows how strong u are... Lot's of love dii ❤❤

Want more from uh rashmi di...please sharing ur experiences it will help us a lot

Much more power to you di.. I wish a very happy and cheerful life for you. May god bless you.❤❤

I don't know why but di ur voice feels so soothing to me.... Don't get disheartened u are inspiration of many of us... 😀

Best video of telling bitter ignored truth , proud of you 👍👍🙏🙏💛💛

❤️❤️ Take care dear😊! Every where, in every field, in every career there is struggle and that one our story😊 that is just unexplainable 😊.....

This is so true iske baare me zyada koi baat nahi krta... I suffered from this in my 1st year during online classes... Thankyou for talking about this dii ❤️❤️

Really appreciate the way you expressed yourself ❣️

Hey this is dermatology resident here. I could see my younger version in this video. I can feel you. I remember one day I went to psychiatry posting alone when everyone else went to a concert and the HOD asked me why are you alone and I told him, he said bachha why didn't you go then? So I realized over time that the fault was mine for not being so open, for being a nerd and a bookworm when I could've easily cleared my exams with half the effort I put, for thinking that I have to get the best marks, when in reality that doesn't even matter. I see so many of my batchmates who literally used to come to college just for the sake of it doing much much more better than me because life isn't fair, opportunities doesn't come for everyone. What I've learnt is don't take your life so seriously, padhai hoti rahegi, exams atey rahenge par ye waqt haina, ye early twenties, ye excitement, ye energy, ye kabhi wapas nai ayengey. It doesn't mean that you don't focus on your studies but you have to make time for everything. Because trust me 5-6 years down the lane you'll be left with nothing but emptiness and bitterness for the life you've lived and will continue to live. Don't expect life to get better after college, in fact you'll be very depressed competing for pg seat, and then comes pg life which you must know is hell. So this is the only time when you'll make genuine friends, after this your mindset is corrupted by maturity and life becomes bland, there is no friendship but just colleagues. Sure you'll have more money than you have now but with that also comes this vague but persistent question: “Why am I doing this? ”

@jimmyhendrix5905

Жыл бұрын

where can i contact you mam/sir to solve my derma vs radio dilemma? please help…

i can relate to this also in 11th and 12th now initially no one used to talk to me in coaching as i am not from that place and i also ignored chattering because of my low scores in exams....but after 1 year in 12th i score the highest that helped me too much to boost my confidence

Hello dii....yaa di I can connect what you said... I mean literally it's exactly what I have felt...but as you are a singer you know you're going to be joyful soon....love you dii ❤️❤️❤️

hey dii ! be strong we all with you

Rashmi didi apne sahi bole ...i always think aiims delhi is royal life by always seeing you. Feeling very heavy hearted seeing this...my respect for u even increased more now...rahi baat rank ki aap hi hamare liye air 1 ho because ur patience and dedication apko uss rank 1 ka hakdaar bana ta hai...i never comment on any KZread videos but after u said this in video that u r a loner i feel u r my own family member felt ki i could seat near you and listen all your stuffs and entertain you...i being ur Lil sister love you so much didi mai dilse cahati hoon ki u get a lot of interactions from many youtubers and enjoy life to fullest...lots of love didi don't be sad didi like this nahi to issme aapko dekhle sachme mujhe rona a gaya...u r my idol...be happy

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

What she said.i don't understand.🥺

@LEONLOVESMUSIC

Жыл бұрын

@@nith4366 one day ull!🥺🥺

@lifeisbeautiful9945

Жыл бұрын

@@LEONLOVESMUSIC actually nith ko sirf english aata hai isliye wo esa bol rha h bhai

Thanks for sharing your experience di

Thanks for speaking ur heart out…much love to you❤❤

This is kinda so true . There are some type of people who love to build connections and bonds but without any supportive environment they just couldn't.

I like the way you explain complex things of MBBS🙏

Sometimes just instead of all those facility and stuffs we need a single genuine person who understands our shit whats going in our life and doesn't motivate but stays there and there always........I have really a good friend whom I can talk whole day and still feel more to do......and that's what friendship is

Am a neet aspirant 2nd year dropper at present... Even i loose most of my school freinds,close freinds ...i literally have no one to talk to share my fellings...but after listening uh i realise god is training to survive in College life🙂

@niluyadav5748

Жыл бұрын

Same sis

@suja605

Жыл бұрын

ha acha hai.

@kajalwankhede118

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@saleeth9301

Жыл бұрын

Same yaar🤐

@kevikanamdev2312

Жыл бұрын

Same here

U r a type of inspiration...well....u r a medium jisse mai prepration phase me aims jiti hoo....n mai apse milna chahti hoo after selection....I must say u r so clean hearted.... honest....t.c....

I am so glad that you came out of that loop hole.. That's so frustrating.. I hv a very close friend of mine who is doing pg in medicine in rml hospital under LHMC.. And the environment is so bad.. He works day and night without any break doesn't even hv breakfast.. No time for lunch n Dinner.. No sleep schedule nothing mental health is at the worst stage.. Still seniors n sr doesn't care and scolds them for every little thing but doesn't come forward to help.. And with that they have thesis to complete.. Fuck.. N if you fell ill its hard to recover.. Doctors specially one who work in ground level are suffering the most.. N there's no hope that it will change..

@RASHMIAIIMSDELHI1722

Жыл бұрын

I understand, it’s so scary

@praptikakoti9804

Жыл бұрын

@@RASHMIAIIMSDELHI1722 r u preparing for pg? Which year r u in?

Don't feel FOMOS. This is very normal in MBBS. Everyone is mature and choosy so that they don't always get their cup of tea 😀..... Keep grinding keep going 🥳🤠

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

What she said.i don't understand.🥺.

@misschoudhary436

Жыл бұрын

@@nith4366 why?

@lifeisbeautiful9945

Жыл бұрын

@@misschoudhary436 he dont understand hindi thats the reason i think

@misschoudhary436

Жыл бұрын

@@lifeisbeautiful9945 bt she use a bit of hindi vrna to english m hi bol rhi ye to

I am a neet aspirant from kota.. And I'm already alone....i can relate to almost everything she said... I didn't make any frndz here...don't feel like talking to even one person cuz....feels less confident and I do feel lonely many atimes ( it's just me my books,my room and lonely nights) And I know sometimes how much it takes from you to stay happy like this....(these emotions and feelings can't be put in words) Knowing this from u that even in your college life you felt this just wanna say *she's really strong!!* ❤🌸

Dii I have gone through same feeling 🥺 don't b disheartened one advice forget everything and strt communicating to anyone ❤️

U totally explained my school life and lots of hugs to you rashmi Di 🫂😘

Yess diii.... Your life is best... because you are living your dream life 💙🙏

@nith4366

Жыл бұрын

What she said.i don't understand.🥺

You are so awesome and your works are dam cool 😎

I have been watching your channel since 2020 and you have been an integral part of my preparation journey and a constant source of motivation and i could connect to you more bcz i do have the same strength of overcoming downs of my life... This year finally i cracked neet with very good mrks..... Hope i can meet you or even talk to you

Can completely relate. Been there, felt that 💯

It happens everywhere we have to deal with it. You automatically connect with people of same vibes same background or similar nature

LOVE YOU BETA FOR YOUR SHARING OF REAL EXPERIENCE OF LIFE.

Till class 8th I had only one close friend of mine coz same reason I am also a loner and I don't enjoy involving myself with every kinda ppl. But from class 9th my school was changed and I never had that tipical school memories and school life that mostly people usually do. 4 years from class 9th till my 12th I used to sit alone, eat alone, only used to to exchange hi..hellos with my classmates while others were grouping n having fun. At the start I used to feel hella lonely all the time but right now I m so used to it that I am chill with all this now. I m currently preparing for neet and if my college life would also be the same that I would have to a loner than I will be chill with that also..I don't expect it to be like what everyone generally gets..So don't worry You R Not Alone.. PS :- being lonely is sad..but being Alone is powerful 😇

Arey didi akele rhna hi shi hai yr... Jitne logo se judoge utna hi bwaal ... Its my opinion... Be the king of your life...

@suruchi_sinha123

Жыл бұрын

True , abb vibe hi match nai karegi to kya hi hoga

@aryanhassan4659

Жыл бұрын

Aisa nai hai...mai bhi yahi Sochta tha..pr life aise nai chalti...I got depressed...and had a terrible feeling everyday I woke up for 3 months....

Thanks for such honest video! Love your channel! ❤

Dii pls share your whole experience with uss....... literally want to know it.... thank you so much diduuuu ♥️💯

Aap sabse different ho you are unique in all girls 😊😊😊

Thank you Rashmi for Sharing your heart out ❤️❤️❤️ Happened with me also 🤗🤗🤗but no hard feelings for anyone not even for self.

Didi...dont worry...dont feel sad or low...just be yourself...be happy...and i am with... you....

u r not alone we are with u have a big family diiiidii

I'm an neet ug aspirant currently in 12th. The clg I've ever wanted didn't actually turn out the way I visualized it. There's a foundation batch in our clg which they call "aiims batch" and we are regular batch. Actually our clg has 8 state board divisions and 1 cbse division.( I'm in cbse div) at first when I discovered this class system oh lord I was completely shattered in pieces. As if everything is collapsing. But today, I wouldn't want my life to be any different. I don't want to be in that aiims division. My class is just perfect. The friendships I made here, I'm sure will last long. What I want to tell you from my story is, trust the universe. You really don't know what plans it holds.

You are not alone in this journey... God wants you to stay closer to your self..may be .. I can feel you .. What if you get a better life in your pg..or something you do after mbbs ....I am proud of you 🦄

No worries this happens with all ... almost everyone .. if we see person talking to everyone.. laughing . Deep inside he or she. Will also sometimes feels alone ....but u are the one who is fighting from this .. best of luck for further 😘😘..

See guys that the issue with PREMIUM Institutes like AIIMS, JIPMER... ETC wha sirf rankers he jate hai, In facility wise that's the best u can get from such Institute but agar tu imagine kar raha hai ki maze honge to bhul jao, see toppers aur backbenchers ke beech mein zameen Aasmaan ka farkh hai, maza ayega lekin utna nhi jitna tum soch te ho, agar koi dost ban bhi gaya ya koi group ban bhi gayi to it will be like " Jo karna hai jaldi karo mujhe ye chap complete krna hai" Woh atmosphere nhi hoga. BEST EXAMPLE is YT pe aiims college fest aur baki koi bhi medical clg fest compare karo, aiims ka decorations may be sabse achha ho pr u have to focus on bacche jaha aiims ke bacche MR BEAN jaise steps kr rhe hai dusre clg mein hip pop mtlb khulke naach rhe hai.. It was just an example kisi ko hurt nhi krna tha..

@rahulrao803

Жыл бұрын

dance wala point ,mai bhi yeh hi soch raha tha

@shrimp2190

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely yr

Daily I learn new about medical life.... And i get tense that what will be life and then I just want to leave neet preparation due to depression of all these things

The best thing is...ki jb hm khud realise kar lete hain ki hamare andar kami kya hai....and us par work out krte hain...then things become meaningful..kudos to you and all the best... won't go in details ...bt you know what i mean

I could see myself in this video. Being an introvert, it's hard to connect with people. I have been to a school for 12 years (from kg to grade 10) and I've not made a lot of friends. the thing is, i never tried. and i don't want to 'try' and get friends. i had 2 friends, who was always there for me, and i was comfortable with them. that's it. and then i came to another place for higher secondary education, i was so lonely, lonelier than i was in grade 10. koi nahi tha, literally i was talking to my old friends online all the time. phir bhi kuch dost bani thi, best friends, comfortable log toh bilkul bhi nahi he. still, i don't hate what I'm. I still don't think I'm that lonely. i have two friends, which i made outside school, one when i was like 3 and she stuck to me till now, I'm 19. 16 years❤️ and another one i met accidentally online by 2017 i guess. she is still there with me. and now, I'm not physically seeing them cause of my neet preparation, but I'll be, after this year. I'm very comfortable with them. and only them.we have hell a lot of fun with our own trips and stuff. i miss them.Even though i really wanna go to delhi, if possible AIIMS, I'm really scared I'm just gonna end up like my higher secondary school. but even if i do, it's okay. my friend is also doing preparation, for neet 2025 actually (she is planning to drop a year already) and i hope she can join me in delhi. and even if she don't, I'll still be fine. I actually really like being alone, and I've never been that miserable alone. thoda sa underconfidence he but I'll work on it. friends and all, ye sab toh luck pe upar he. even some extroverts struggle to find friends in college life. i already have good friends. college me ho bhi nahi toh bhi I'll manage. I'll have to prepare for usmle from then😅😂🥲

@WorkForUrself

Жыл бұрын

Ur nw 19 nd ur in 12th? Which attempt is urs at 23?

@Jaeshin123

Жыл бұрын

yes being an introvert I can relate...I think for some reason it's our parents fault too because for me personally they are the reason I have social anxiety...because like they are over protective and there's a saying too much of anything is dangerous..that's my case my parents never let me talk to anyone and spend some time with them and that's why I don't know how to communicate with someone ...I have a very bad luck in friendship it's not like I didn't have friends but the thing is no one was close to me

@shree7484

Жыл бұрын

Hey. Are u neet 2023 asiparent

@suja605

Жыл бұрын

@@WorkForUrself 3rd.

Being in 2nd year......I can also totally relate and have suffered the same.......the groupism.....the toxicity and at the end we r left alone by just one two close friends.

Relatable. Hostel life made me realize the importance of mental health

So proud off dii 👍👍....

Thank you so much for sharing very good information which will help to all students in their student life of any course

I relate to everything you said. And funnily I am sitting alone in my hostel room of my medical college too.

Hey Rashmi, so relatable! But you know, it's very intrinsic to our fraternity yaar, we faced that too and it's unfair, we medicos are very alone in our journey, it's just sad. I really really appreciate that you are portraying the real side of medical college life so that future aspirants can make informed choices atleast, they won't simply jump onto this just by the rosy pictures they have in their minds painted by coaching institutes and everyone who's selling that dream.

@jeetpodder8947

Жыл бұрын

I'm also confused brother...... I am a fresher and this year I cleared JEE mains and getting nits / IIITs....... And also thinking of taking a drop for neet only because of stable life in future ( money matters ) ...... I don't know whether I am right or wrong ...... Pls guide me

@DrAkashraj

Жыл бұрын

@@jeetpodder8947 If money is your motivation for Medicine, absolutely don't !

@jeetpodder8947

Жыл бұрын

@@DrAkashraj woh log Kitna cool zindegi ji rahe honge after mbbs and md..... Aur Mai 🥲 .... I lost myself totally..... I don't know what to do in future...... Maine 11th & 12th Mai neet ke Liye padha....but last me family ki financial condition sahi krne ke Liye JEE ke Liye 3 months padha ( mbbs course is very long ).... and I gave JEE .....but now I'm suffering from FOMO ( fear of missing out ) so that's why and off course money is the additional reason

@San-911

Жыл бұрын

@@jeetpodder8947 the grass is always greener on the other side of fence. Life is too short to regret. Make your rebirth with a different attitude.

@anasuyamahato7069

Жыл бұрын

​@@jeetpodder8947 I am also confused between jee and neet what should I do???

Thanks for being so honest ❤️❤️

Didi I completely understand some people could not connect that easily but what think ki wo atmosphere hi aisa kar dete hai . Agar koi left out rahjata hai toh as a college mate one should always try to include them thoda comfortable feel karwana hota hai bas . Aur Haan ye rankers wala baat bilkul sahi tha

Love for AIIMS delhi ♥️

I can totally relate to uh di....I m always under confidence sometimes i feel vryyy low too

Tq sooo much di❤ for sharing your story☺

thanks a lot for sharing experience didi ❤❤

Don't loose hope.. you have already achieved a lot.. getting into AIIMS is a dream of many.. you r already a champion.. and try to make a senior friend who can guide you (who himself or herself a good person).

Usually we are live in a world where people like to be more extroverted. And we introverts gets a little more time to process the whole thing to connect them

@kaneswarsarma4357

Жыл бұрын

Yeah exactly