Only a stutterer can understand how hard it is to even say our own name or speak of trivial matters which others don't even give a damn

@almondmilk3014

3 жыл бұрын

It’s like being trapped in your own head

@melanigeza2428

3 жыл бұрын

The struggle is real

@sheryarsher9366

3 жыл бұрын

how much suffering we face when someone asks for something or thing to say of go in front of crowd

@soumitrabaidya9938

3 жыл бұрын

💯 % agreed

@Sooraj162

3 жыл бұрын

I agree that !

it isn't just a stammer though, it affects lot more than just your speech, it affects your mental health, lots of people who stammer suffer from high levels of aniexty and social aniexty. also depression is also common in people who stammer. shame is another feeling that stammerers have to go through. also the fear is one of the worst parts about the disorder. it wouldn't be classed as a disability if it was just a stammer. it affects alot of people's daily lives.

@shakeelahmed-wv8oh

7 жыл бұрын

bro u rock the show .its highly motivational ..i too tried it sometime speaking publicly ...gave me more confidence ..well the person who is going through the prob can only know wat they r hoing through...thanx for such a brilliant speech..stay safe be happy

@TheRyanos

7 жыл бұрын

thats completely true. stammering in my case has made me a very socially awkward person as i am afraid i will embarrass myself with the stutter. i has closed so many opportunities down for me and has had many more negative side-effects than just not being able to speak properly. the depression is the worst.

@jordanhalkier81

7 жыл бұрын

Slaying Greyjoy yeah my stammer has affect my social life too, I am always very scared about stammering in front of new people because of being misunderstood or judged because of the way that I speak.

@pakistancorner8460

7 жыл бұрын

yes this is 100% true .. em suffering from this all :( embarasemnt

@mechcavandy986

7 жыл бұрын

What I have is more of a speech block. I don't stutter. It's worse when someone asks me a question. When I was a kid, if someone asked me my dad's name or where I live, I couldn't get it out. Speech therapy in school didn't help. When someone asks me the name of a person or place, my mind is running overtime about the person or place. It's like I'm seeing a description of them in my mind. It's like an over load, and I can't get the words out. I believe it comes from low self esteem. When I was in my 20-30s, I had a lot of confidence and it went away.Now, it came back in my 50s and I can't control it. I'm 63 now, and I avoid a lot of conversations. I dread people asking me questions. When I was a kid, is there a medication, like an anti depressant that can help? It's not a habit. And it's not something I can cure wth tongue exercises, etc. I wasted a lot of time on that growing up. Maybe hypnosis would help. With most stammerers / stutterers, there was some traumatic event that happened to the patient in their childhood. Some may have lost a parent or loved one in their early childhood, and this memory causes them anxiety or something subconscious. Has anyone tried hypnosis as a treatment? I hope someone can help me with this. Thank you.

I was a stammerer however overcame it by facing my fears. When people said try talking slow I spoke fast. When people said don't talk much, I talked a lot even if I was just blabbering most of the time. Now I earn my living by talking.😎

@babbusingh9272

3 жыл бұрын

Give me your contact number

@Bethlove2023

3 жыл бұрын

Please give me ur contact number, i am 29 year old in a professional job and I am suffering from statturing

@satishgiri4950

3 жыл бұрын

Bro plz help me too give me your contact no

@jfancycraftltd4438

2 жыл бұрын

Really? Am scared of facing my fears

@jfancycraftltd4438

2 жыл бұрын

Please can we talk on Instagram?

I used to stutter to the point of not being able to speak at all. I overcame stuttering and I thank God for the experience and lesson and the cure. This is How I stopped stuttering: I was at work and I couldn't speak and I knew it. In that moment I became so upset and then I decided that I don't care how bad I stutter and how embarrassed that it may feel or how horrible my speech may be, that I was going to speak anyways. When I made that decision within myself, the fear and anxiety and paralysis went away and from that point on I could speak fine. For me stuttering was fear of not being able to speak or fear of speaking that was a self-fulfilling event. I had to confront the fear. Once I decided to speak in spite of the fear, the fear went away.

@umarusman857

3 жыл бұрын

My son is 13 years and stammers a lot.Because of this he is losing his confidence .Reading your comment gave me hope that one day he will be able to talk fluently and overcome his stuttering Insha Allah

@babbusingh9272

3 жыл бұрын

Give me your number plz

@Stoneface_

3 жыл бұрын

@@babbusingh9272 who?

@TPM3RD

3 жыл бұрын

@@babbusingh9272 5599337873

@TPM3RD

3 жыл бұрын

@@umarusman857 The anxiety is a big part of stuttering. The anxiety must be confronted directly. The anxiety is basically telling you that you can't speak and then you wonder if maybe you shouldn't speak. It is a spirit of fear and is only there to cause turmoil and turbulence. The only way to be free is by courage and faith and daring. Often times it is indignation that has to give rise to determination...perfect love casts out fear. The eternal hope of Jesus Christ gives me courage and inspiration to face my fears.

childhood with stutter is like dancing in fire. i am glad you can over it . i will also try public speaking.

@WorldElectronica

6 жыл бұрын

More like crying depressed in the corner

Hats off to yr confidence man...u really spoke well....And thanx 4 encouraging all d stuttrs who r facing this problm...😊

@healSTAMMERING

6 жыл бұрын

how to overcome stammering(stuttering) and any speech disorder ? - part 1

@ahsanmehar2954

3 жыл бұрын

Can I contact with you ?

this is so true.....self confidence and enormous PRACTICE almost always eliminates stammering.

@aronpop1447

6 жыл бұрын

D34DLi what kind of practice?

@michealnadar8709

3 жыл бұрын

@@aronpop1447 reading in front of the mirror, by saying tongue twister and practising abdominal breathing exercises

@michealnadar8709

3 жыл бұрын

@@aronpop1447 I am also an stammer and I am practicing this daily for 1 hour in the morning each day.

I've been there and "the worst has already happened and from now this gets better" is the best approach. Nice talk.

Great speech Abhi. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I have been stuttering for the past 18 years or so and I'm really fed up of it now. It has become a hurdle for me while going for an interview or initiating a conversation with a stranger and especially telephonic conversations. I've been frustrated numerous times due to this speech impediment. However your speech has infused courage in me to accept my stuttering first (while controlling my frustration and ignoring all fools) and then use the brute force to fight it back. Looking forward for brighter days. Thanks and good day pal

I'm also stuttering ...but now I am working as CEO of one of the great company...ignore it guys and accept the new challenges ....

@saumyajain9436

5 жыл бұрын

really??? how you move forth interviews..?

@theboxer5

5 жыл бұрын

Haha. What great company? LOL

@basumenasinakai6162

4 жыл бұрын

Shashank Prabhu how is it possible sir

@dineshbabu-sv1ty

4 жыл бұрын

I want job urgently, can u sir?

@rajinisathishkumar

4 жыл бұрын

Excellent

From somebody that has suffered from stammering though my young days through my entire schooling career and university I have also come a long way . Practice practice practice . Identify your fear and run straight into it . My fear was always public speaking and now, I still have that anxiety, but it's normal and not as intense because I have understood and faced that fear that once disabled me . Fear is a death of living fully . It stops you. Fight it and shine . And most importantly, enjoy the fight and love yourself in the process. You are unique and special . The world in in your hands . God bless

@sambhrantdas8716

3 жыл бұрын

How have you overcome it?

hey... I also used to stutter a lot, but through small roles in play at school to participating in debates. I have improved a lot. I still feel some days that I cannot do it, but deep down I know that I am no less than other people. Because of this I have worked with one the top company in the world and has handled many international clients. I have almost never failed to impress at an interview even though I stutter now also. Great video... It really brings cheers me up and a small advice to all. Deep breath really helps a lot.

@mathersmarshall8235

7 жыл бұрын

You're great.I'm afraid of participating in debates and making a speech.I don't know how embarrassing it'll be if I stutter on the stage.I cannot handle it.

@praddybishti

6 жыл бұрын

Hey Rohit, Can you please give your contact number to me. Or just ping me on 8446198912.. I only stammer when I am having team meetings or professional calls (because of nervousness). And normally I dont stammer . I need your advice

@puja.7941

2 жыл бұрын

iam confident everytime Bt when i give presentation infront of crowd my mouth cannot speak a word even by name also even i try to speak bt i cannot..... what should i do now. Plz help

Hats off man Doing really great job.

Amazing Speech Abhi..You are really a hero.

@internationalatheist4406

3 жыл бұрын

Thnks😂✌️

@internationalatheist4406

3 жыл бұрын

BTW I am too a stutter machine

@buenhombre5529

3 жыл бұрын

@@internationalatheist4406 how you did to eliminate it ?

salute to your confidence abhi, I stutter in childhood but nobody help me out I always escape myself thanks

@LuckySinghtrade

5 жыл бұрын

Hi ma'am I also stammred how I will get cure pls help me out

@Rajakumar-fp2hw

2 жыл бұрын

Hi ma'ma give me some tips

Been frequently stuttering for 25 years now. It kills me so much. It makes me afraid to talk and I never opened my mouth unless it is a necessity. It makes me feel less. It makes me feel I'm not normal. It makes me feel different from normal people to the point that I don't even understand myself. The thought is clear in my mind but I'm struggling to express it verbally. I hate being laughed at when stuttering tries to interrupt me from expressing myself. I feel helpless. I feel hopeless. Sometimes, I question myself why am I like this. I have never opened this to anyone (I know that they know that I stutter) and I've been thinking for therapy but it never came to realization. But in all of this, Lord I will praise you and worship you for everything. No disorder nor impairment can refrain me not to be grateful everyday of my life. To those who stutter out there, change the way you see yourself. You're God's masterpiece.

@silvere.9265

5 жыл бұрын

I will pray for u..

@eyitayosulola9492

3 жыл бұрын

Pray for me too

@sanskarchourasia6856

3 жыл бұрын

This is coming from a stammer, I can totally understand brother what you go through. I used to feel the same but SELF PITY HAS NEVER DID ANY GOOD. DON'T BLAME GOD MAN. DON'T USE HIM AS A SCAPEGOAT. I JUST SAY ONE THING EXPOSE YOURSELF TO SPEAKING, DOESN'T MATTER HOW YOU SPEAK JUST INCREASE THE NUMBER OF TIMES YOU FACE YOUR FEARS AND INSECURITIES. DO IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN SPEAK SLOWLY BUT SPEAK. DON'T BACK DOWN, LET PEOPLE LAUGH LET THEM HOW LONG THEY CAN LAUGH, REMEMBER ONE THING AFTER SOME YEARS YOU'LL ALSO DIE THE PEOPLE WHO LAUGHED AT YOU WILL ALSO DIE, NOTHING IS PERMANENT. PLUS WHEN YOU'LL DIE AT LEAST YOU'LL BE PROUD OF YOURSELF THAT YOU DIDN'T QUIT BUT THAT AIN'T HAPPENING COZ IF YOU WILL EXPOSE YOURSELF CONSTANTLY TO SPEAKING ENVIRONMENT, AFTER SOME ATTEMPTS YOULL SHOW ALOT OF IMPROVEMENT SUDDENLY AND THIS IS NOT THEORY THIS IS WHAT IS HAPPENING WITH ME IVE IMPROVED ALOT THOUGH I STILL STUTTER BUT ITS MINOR STUTTERS. AND WHAT I THINK MAJOR PART OF IT HAPPENS BECAUSE WERE UNDER CONFIDENT YEAH YOU HEARD IT RIGHT, INVEST IN YOURSELF. I HOPE YOU'LL SEE THIS MESSAGE.

@johnjayluyao4768

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks man. That was a big dose of motivation. Keep safe.

@sanskarchourasia6856

3 жыл бұрын

@@johnjayluyao4768 I didn't thought you'd reply this fast, nice to hear from you man, I hope you're doing great in your life. You too take care brother 🙏

Well done Abhi. It was great to hear your story and wish you all the best. I wish I had made a speech when I was 11. I still think about it today. That may have meant I stopped stuttering at a much earlier age. It took me over 30 years to break free and now I am on KZread :) The stutter made me depressed and was lonely. The more people that do videos the more likely people who stutter can see that its really possible to break free.

Loved your speech Abhi,u were really amazing!!

I am so glad to hear this...

His problem was not stammering, but fear

@kallurathore4733

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@aryangupta16176

2 жыл бұрын

Ya u r right,it almost with all stummers

a very very nice speech. great bro.

Indeed a great speech and a best advice... great.. thumbs up

Inspirational speech buddy🙌🙌

I am a stammerer too. I didn't know why I stammered all these days. I developed certain modifications to my breathing patterns, speed of speech and other relaxation techniques. I am able to control it much better than my painful initial years. For those who follow IPL, this person on the video looks like Riyan Parag from Rajasthan Royals to some extent.

@harshdaga2258

Жыл бұрын

What modifications could you please elaborate

Great speech bro... I also stammer and it scares me when I talk to someone because I do not want to be mocked at when I speak.... Thanks again man... Go Brute Force 💪💪

@Mistakeainttyt

3 жыл бұрын

True

One of the best speeches herd ever 🤩

I am stammer. You give me alot of confidence today . Heartly i want to say Thank you so much

This is accurate based on my personal experience. Public speaking during high school and theater during college helped me a lot with my stammering

It's comforting to look in the comments and see that everyone's problem is more the fear of stammering in front of others more than the stammer itself

This guy spits the most real truth

A very good speech bro.We shall surely overcome stammering with self confidence.

This is a very inspiring talk. I stammer and relate to you somehow. But i still haven't eliminated stuttering in my speech which will happen soon. thanks for helping me take the initiative to face my fears

@utkarshraj1024

3 жыл бұрын

Do you stammer now ?

What a well performation

You're an inspiration

Heye same Abhi...you are like a motivate to us.same you like stammer just me also.....some time my breath is very small so i didnt speak very well...your communication to people is good....thnks for your motivation

Great sir.

great inspiration for stammerer.

I promes I will distroy my stuttering 👊🔥

@yashmishra5796

3 жыл бұрын

Same goes with me also bro i will destroy it ....

Inspirational speech

salute to your confidence abhi, I stutter in childhood but nobody help me out I always escape myself

@vishalsemar4893

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree nobody helps you I have also stammering problem

Thanks a lot!!!!

Very Nice!!

Love you sir....they feel pain of stuttering problem who suffer from it...

Good speak

Thanks TEDx to escalate this issue. I know how it is Painfull because I also have same problem till 2019, Infact i stammer so much. But, Then I know it is curable Afterthat, I start working on that and by god grace i can cure my stammering💯💯

Nice speech brother im also stammering guy..i face all problem too..i recover soon while keep practicing..practice make all..

Thank you so much sir

Bahut achha sir 🙏

just thanks you guys

To all stutters read few pages of book everyday loud. And practice it everyday. Stuttering is just the fear in your heads. While speaking speak slow and beleive me you will see the results

Hats off...

I wanted to speak on TEDx soon, I know that I overcome this situation

Please bring TEDx to Nigeria. There's a whole lot of audience hete

My stuttering fades away whenever I’m holding a microphone or whenever I do public speaking, but it comes back when I am talking individually to people😂😂😆 don’t know why🧐

@anupriyafageria709

3 жыл бұрын

It happens to me also Same

@buenhombre5529

3 жыл бұрын

All stutter have the same situation

@TheBrandC_J

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. When i hold a microphone I wish there could be a permanent cure for this . It's so beautiful to be able to speak fluently. 😭😭😭😭😭

@vinodm2410

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBrandC_J Yes it’s so beautiful to speak so fluently

@JSTheOperator

3 жыл бұрын

That's so crazy! Mine is the opposite

You are absolutely right about not caring if people like you. There is a saying: You walk into a meeting with 10 people you don't know. As soon as you start speaking 4 of them don't like you. By the end of the speech another 4 don't like you. Only 2 like you at the end. If you are OK with that, then that's the answer. The point is you can't please other people all the time. You just have to be yourself and not be dependent on other people's opinions.

Osm speech ever u r great bro..... 😇

@healSTAMMERING

6 жыл бұрын

how to overcome stammering(stuttering) and any speech disorder ? - part 1

hope one day i will speak like you . i think i'm mentally strong i love to face challanges (like exam and other daily things) . but this stammering thing completely destroyed my confidence.

I am also Sutter now I am 20 year old still I am facing problem in my speech and feel very difficult when I used to talk with my friend even family also Thank you so much for this video it's really motivated me now now I will try my best to outcome from my stammering problem 😢😢😌

@wayfarer4015

3 жыл бұрын

Join any SHG. It will help you. There are many groups

Sir you are heaven freind for me

Thanks sir.

what a speech abhi very inspiring...can you help me I am also ... from Ahmadabad and suffering from bad stemmer

Thank you

I stutter too. It helps when you move. Its' hardest when you're supposed to stay still.

Thanks 👍.

Excellent speech

well done Abhi! your an inspiration to so many! i could relate to everything u said.

Good job bro...i have gone through this ..but now i m ok

I'm 22 years old I'm still stuttering i don't know why😭

@buenhombre5529

3 жыл бұрын

Yes normally

@mortalgod8892

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😇

Thanks

I have stammering problem. When I was in class 8 I had participated a lot in speech conceptions and guess what my problem went away. But in 9th and 10th I had stopped to participate in these and now I am same as I was. It means that I have to participate continuously .

Thankx alot... M having stammering problem from 13 years... Actually more than 13 years and it's still not cured

I can feel you

i've be stuttering in my whole life.but now at 22,i fell like that, it's increasing day by day where people would like to say that,i can overcome this problem.. but no..now,I'm so depressed and very tensed.. i think, it will create a great effect in my career. and it's happening.. in serious moment like interview, restaurant, shopping,unknown person, i can't talk fluently.. i try my best to be calm and cool in these situations, but can't control.. unreasonably feel more panic,excitement, depressed in every moments.. normally, i can speak fluently .slightly stuttering but ignorable..but on these situations, i try to talk easily,but that moment i can't deliver fluently.. something obstructed my talking related nerves then..

@lydia1339

5 жыл бұрын

I feel u .. i'm the same actually... Each time I present a project in uni or smthg and my stuttering appears or in an interview .. I ended up crying at home and hope if I simply could talk normally .. I've been depressed by it countless times ... But now i'm facing it.. I wanna over come it ... I'll try to speak in public More .. and trust me it helps ... It's decreasing little by little .. I hope i'll get rid of it one day ... So don't give up u too... Btw i'm 21 hahah so nearly the same age hahah ... Good luck And don't be depressed

@kajolchowdhury9196

5 жыл бұрын

how?

Iam also suffering from this thing.. Its my dream that one day i also want to speak in the stage of tedx in front of many peoples 😇😇🙏

I'm a stutterer.I am rejecting from interviews on these 5 years after my graduation.the intensity of stuttering varying up on persons.

Life is not easy for everyone but I feel somewhat, money makes life easier irrespective of your issue. Poor people can't get the equal opportunity and working hard, bringing confidence where there is no opportunity is all waste, they need to drag themselves till their luck comes and bring them up but still not everyone is lucky.

I also stammer

Thanks sir.... D video is vry inspiring.... M good at public speaking but i always back out coz i stammer.... I want to overcome this... Please help me sir

Speak confidentently in private but in public I shattered, specilly interview and talk to senior

Great

i also stammered and stuck ... you cant imagine from which condition majorly mental condition. I gone....It is even bigger then the curse..It has distroyed my mentol health.

I am trying to cure my stammering

@LuckySinghtrade

5 жыл бұрын

I am also facing lots of problem

@This_tub

4 жыл бұрын

@@LuckySinghtrade wear a headphone in 1 ear.

@kallurathore4733

4 жыл бұрын

@@This_tub why🤔

@This_tub

4 жыл бұрын

@@kallurathore4733 it cured my stuttering shorterm, lead to confident to cure stuteering long term

@kallurathore4733

4 жыл бұрын

@@This_tub so wearing a headphone in 1 ear help stuttering

I'm not able to pronounce some specific words like s, sh, Ra, ri, ta.... What should I do ?

awesome speech :) I'm a proud stammerer

I only stammered when I am nervous like in front of parents or teachers but when I talk to my friends or any shopkeeper I am not stammering

@kaushalkumarsingh6063

2 жыл бұрын

Bro can i have your number? I wamt to talk to you

Stammering and stuttering are different things. I too have a stutter and I am doing self therapy at home.

@manthanpathak5780

6 жыл бұрын

@Archana Jn ] Hi Archana, I'm a recovering stutterer and what you say is highly confusing to say the least! Please explain what you believe to be the difference between stammering and stuttering...I'm quite certain they are in fact the same thing. North Americans use the term stammer and the rest of the world (Europe at least) use the term stutter to describe the condition.

@jayathakur8525

6 жыл бұрын

Self therapy ?? Can u tell me what kind of tharapy ..i also stammer ..

@unitedkamp270

5 жыл бұрын

@@manthanpathak5780 indeed, I think they are te same.

@Fatima-pq9nc

3 жыл бұрын

@@manthanpathak5780 please tell how you recovered from stuttering

It's easy for a stutterer to do public speaking. The problem occurs when he engage in conversation

@sanjay-wk2ud

4 жыл бұрын

Right I have same thing to say . To interest with other prove difficult.

@chiragprinjha5271

3 жыл бұрын

Yes..

@fstorms

Жыл бұрын

This is absolutely not true

Abhi bro loved your confidence on stage. Know how it feels to deal with this curse. Anyway to contact you and just get answers to some questions which have been troubling me? Regards A fellow Stutterer

@deepakbhagat1788

7 жыл бұрын

hey hi....I am also suffering from stuttering, how to overcome from it.

@amnaanjum3501

5 жыл бұрын

Hello, I'm also suffering from stammering.. I'm studying in a medical school.. I face a lot of difficulties in giving my presentations.. Plz tell me how u practice.. Either u chnge ur speech pattern.. Plz tell me sir.. I need ur help

@Prashantsingh-nn1hv

5 жыл бұрын

@@abhiruparelia sir i stutter when I pronounce my name..

@buenhombre5529

3 жыл бұрын

@@amnaanjum3501 what about your speaking ?

i also same problem brother

As a 63 year old stammer, I have been fortunate to have my mum who pushed me to be to outgoing saying its other peoples problem not yours. I still have a number of challenges though. Saying my name in a business meeting (I cant use an alternative which is one of my workarounds when I stammer). On a similar theme, I wont read out stuff, I struggle with that. When I do business presentations I rarely read from the slides but use my own words. I am confident speaking in public but that confidence goes very quickly and turns to fear if I stammer alot and feel that others are embarrassed or frustrated by my stammer.

My appeared after I lost a family member

sir, how y have improve n overcome stuttering me suffering from stuttering pls pls sir how to overcome

Then why Drew Lynch still didn't cure his stutter. He is comedian and famous youtuber. He have comedy gigs very often so he put himself in very difficult situations

@saumyajain9436

5 жыл бұрын

u do not know what situation was he in before...If he has even improved 90 percent than that is a big thing for him...with time he will overcome that also

OSU!!

I think while talking if we follow some rules we can overcome this problem.

i have serious problems with stutterings. i getting the stuttering when i hard is difficult and i get counciousness in the publics

Believing in yourself is everything guys.. And else stammering is just a joke

So you have to out of your comfort zone, engage in something you have no choice but speaking.

what you actually did?

👍😭😭😭🙏🙏. ..pls god help US ..I have also strammering problem. Im pursuing ITI course .I can't introduce myself clearly