The Biggest MYTH About Your Things.

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The research is undeniable now, our stuff is directly linked to feelings of stress, unhappiness and even dissatisfaction with life. What can we do? Let's talk about it today!
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  • @TheMinimalMom
    @TheMinimalMom Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and sharing with your friends and family! Here are a few links mentioned in the video: Full Silent To-Do List Video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dKiko8SdppfKaZs.html Goodbye Things by Fumio Sasaki: amzn.to/3YdBHjY Research Mentioned on Stuff & Stress: www1.racgp.org.au/newsgp/clin... Full Hierarchy of Happiness Video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYaGltawqqyzk7A.html

  • @tmo3973

    @tmo3973

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dawn. I can't wait to watch them after work tonight

  • @samanthavandenbosch1621

    @samanthavandenbosch1621

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Dawn ! I am struggling with the fact that I have been feeling like I need to prove to myself ( and others ) that I'm NOT lazy , and I can handle it all. Smh I'm not lazy , but I can't handle it all. We have a huge house ( 7,000 Sq feet w basement ) and a 3 stall garage. I need prayers 🙏

  • @gigic130

    @gigic130

    Жыл бұрын

    Excellent video Dawn! Really great insights into the human psyche and how society/the Joneses/marketing flips our superficial needs over things that truly give us meaning.

  • @iloveallah3519

    @iloveallah3519

    Жыл бұрын

    Last one year and half, but not any more.

  • @EntertainmentByLaura

    @EntertainmentByLaura

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi, did I really win a prize here?

  • @noracarreiro6242
    @noracarreiro6242 Жыл бұрын

    My Mom is a hoarder. She has refused help for years. Her famous quote is "I just need to organize everything" she spends her days sorting and "organizing" her stuff at 81 years old. A lifetime of sorting and organizing. my teenage children have never been able to have a sleep over with their grandmothers bc of "the stuff" . materialistic clutter isn't treasure, its a thief of life and joy.

  • @kimberlywallace6102

    @kimberlywallace6102

    Жыл бұрын

    My Mom is the same way (she is also 81yrs. old), but she doesn't do anything with the stuff. When I have tried to help her, she will follow me & ask me why I am doing that to her because I do complain about it. I have found stuff that my husband & I bought her several Christmas's ago to help her out, but we couldn't find it after the holidays. I now know why, she has a third bedroom that she will pile the stuff in & she forgets about it. I hate it & I know she is depressed because of all the stuff, but she will not let go of anything & because of this I will focus on my home. I don't want to live like that at all. Dawn's videos has help me a lot to stay focus & gain control of my home.

  • @jenrod1989

    @jenrod1989

    Жыл бұрын

    My mom is the same. 77 yrs old. But we can't even come over for dinner any more. I tell her it is stealing her joy. Her excuse is well, I don't have any storage for my stuff. I keep telling her well. If you didn't have so much stuff then you wouldn't have to worry about storing it. I worry about her all the time and all this stuff.

  • @lauriesmith7517

    @lauriesmith7517

    Жыл бұрын

    You're absolutely right. Sadly, when your mom is gone, you will be the one having to deal with all her stuff while you dal with your grief. I hope you have loads of siblings to help! Could it possibly be a family project to help Grandma "organize?" Even just clearing the rooms she spends the most tine in (probably kitchen, living room, and bedroom) would help a great deal and make her remaining years safer.

  • @margaret1336

    @margaret1336

    Жыл бұрын

    My MIL is a hoarder and I hope that there is a special place in heaven for the children of hoarders. ❤❤

  • @keliawest6165

    @keliawest6165

    Жыл бұрын

    My mother in law was the same way. She said we can deal with it when she is gone. The one thing that has helped, was telling her she couldn't come home if she fell cause she couldn't get around. She still has a long way to go but her living room and kitchen is a lot better

  • @harshikaswarup3879
    @harshikaswarup3879 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been a sahm 17 years and have two kids. Shopping addict untill I just couldn’t bear my house anymore. It started last year and I started minimizing- slowly, day by day. Gradually… I’m now recovered shopaholic. And my house is absolutely clutter free . My biggest gain from it is the huge amounts of time I have now! Lots of free time, no anxiety, less labour, and a wonderful sense of detachment from material stuff. It’s truly life changing.

  • @criseldavilla8005

    @criseldavilla8005

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way and it hurts my feelings so much time wasted 💔

  • @tinalettieri

    @tinalettieri

    Жыл бұрын

    So, what are you doing with all that extra time? It's great but if you don't fill it with purpose, you will revert.

  • @karlabritfeld7104

    @karlabritfeld7104

    Жыл бұрын

    Where does your insecurity come from that you feel the need to buy so much stuff that you can't even afford?

  • @joycebegnaud9645

    @joycebegnaud9645

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m working on getting mine clutter free, I regret wasting time getting things I thought i would need or do something with. Now I’m donating, because it’s just not worth the stress. My son just took several things to donate for me to a collection bin. I’m just giving it all away. Maybe others can use it, but I want a more simpler life. Less things in it as much as possible. Still got lots more to do.

  • @elifmemisoglu4204

    @elifmemisoglu4204

    Жыл бұрын

    This is me, I keep buying things to make me happy. I’m not sure where to start.

  • @user-rp4of1yw5f
    @user-rp4of1yw5f Жыл бұрын

    I saw the greatest quote somewhere: “All that clutter used to be money and all that money used to be TIME.” I have been living for this idea recently. It helped me shift my mindset away from having more and more stuff and toward appreciating my time with my family!

  • @Saral_Lekhi

    @Saral_Lekhi

    Жыл бұрын

    Lovely

  • @D11r41k

    @D11r41k

    Жыл бұрын

    Deep!!

  • @TerryMundy

    @TerryMundy

    Жыл бұрын

    I'll bet you go outside and sit on the porch and whittle twigs and count the cars go by. People like me rebuild used computers to give to charity organizations to help people. And tinker to improve my work skills to earn more money.

  • @llkg9

    @llkg9

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TerryMundy Or... while you're tinkering/working to earn more, OP is out enjoying life because she doesn't need to put in extra time.

  • @ELisa-qf2mw

    @ELisa-qf2mw

    Жыл бұрын

    In fact, when I declutter and find myself thinking of the amount of money I or someone in my family spent on those (now) useless and unwanted items I am letting go of, the spark of anger and regret I feel is actually helping me to get rid of more items and/or decide to toss in case of doubt.

  • @kaylaeilmas9600
    @kaylaeilmas960011 ай бұрын

    I have said for years that the clutter is literally killing me and no one took me seriously! This video validated everything I’ve felt over the years. I know it makes me physically ill and it’s paralyzing. I feel so overwhelmed and I waist so much mental energy on the stuff. I know that it would be easier to cook if I actually knew where things were in my kitchen or at least don’t have to clear a surface just to cook. I have food clutter too. Maybe showing this video to others will help them see where I’m coming from. I’ve even asked “what’s more important? Me or the stuff, because it’s killing me.”

  • @iammedusa2600

    @iammedusa2600

    11 ай бұрын

    You can take control. One cupboard at a time. Do you know how to eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Try one shelf in one cupboard. Then congratulate yourself!!

  • @brg2743

    @brg2743

    8 ай бұрын

    Take a picture of one flat surface. Do one flat surface. It might be good to clean a one foot square on the kitchen counter to start. Take a picture after it is done. Keep that spot clean everyday so you can cook from there.

  • @mindysueloowho
    @mindysueloowho Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been subscribed to this channel for YEARS! …so I’m not just trying so “suck up”. But this is honestly the BEST KZread video I’ve EVER watched. In the years of following you I downsized from a 5 bedroom house to an AMAZING one bedroom apartment. I got rid of 95% of my “crap”. I am lieterally off anxiety medication AND I’ve gone back to my faith and started learning my worth. Sometimes I get frustrated bc I want to scream it from the rooftops, but nobody REALLY cares to follow through 😂 but it’s made my life change in ways I cannot even try to explain ❤ Thank you!

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow Melinda, this gave me goose bumps, so awesome to hear! Thank you!!!!!!! - Dawn

  • @spinner2291

    @spinner2291

    Жыл бұрын

    Praise God! What a great comment!

  • @LastingHope

    @LastingHope

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, what a fantastic testimony ❤️🙏🏼❤️

  • @liliandaven5380

    @liliandaven5380

    Жыл бұрын

    im so glad to hear that! I would recomend listening o Mike Winger here on KZread...he has SUCH great content on faith! And he is really funny and wise=) Keep up the great work! Bless from Sweden!!

  • @gracehendricks7925

    @gracehendricks7925

    Жыл бұрын

    I couldn’t agree more that this is Dawn’s best video and if friends and family only watch one of her videos, it should be this one. It’s such a valuable and important message! It’s a constant battle even for those of us who have been practicing minimalism for many years. You constantly have to battle the things coming into your home even when you know all the “rules.”

  • @savannahroserecipes
    @savannahroserecipes Жыл бұрын

    As a young adult who hasn't accumulated a lot of stuff yet I am so grateful for your videos, you keep me from getting things I don't need! I always ask myself, "what would Dawn do?" When I am tempted to buy something that I don't need. Thank you!!

  • @kayelle8005

    @kayelle8005

    Жыл бұрын

    Savannah I so wish I’d had someone like Dawn and Dana advising me thirty years ago. I would have saved so much time and money, and it’s the opportunity cost associated with the time savings that are the most valuable. All that time shopping and then managing the things I bought that I could have spent with family and friends and in creative pursuits. I wish you much success with your WWDD approach.

  • @psymompa

    @psymompa

    Жыл бұрын

    As a 40 something with two teenagers, I wish I had started from the beginning and just not brought in so much stuff into the home. Would have saved me so much money and time.

  • @rosiehelminiak2947

    @rosiehelminiak2947

    Жыл бұрын

    @kayelle8005 I completely agree with you! I wish I had these resources years ago. The young people who hear this message and take it seriously will be so much further ahead. I'm glad to have the information now, and the movement towards simple living, so I can get good guidance. You're never too old to learn, right?

  • @susanbertrand8620

    @susanbertrand8620

    Жыл бұрын

    So smart! Learning to live below your means is one of the top 5 life skills you can learn, you might want to grab or borrow a copy of Essentialism by Greg McKeown. I wish I had that book when I was younger…but I have it know 😊 Susan

  • @anniefenter8697

    @anniefenter8697

    Жыл бұрын

    I need to remember WWDD every time I start to shop!!!

  • @judithscharf6318
    @judithscharf6318 Жыл бұрын

    I started Swedish Death Cleaning in 2018 and embraced minimalism in 2020. I gave my children anything I was not needing that they wanted and then sold, donated, Freecycled or threw out the rest. It’s a never-ending process. I am very cognizant of monitoring how much I use the things I do have and whether or not something new should enter the house. Keeping clothing, unfinished projects and the like do send negative messages like, “You got fat,” “You are lazy,” and, “You don’t finish what you start.” I got rid of all of those things and my house is a haven to come home to.

  • @openyourmind3763

    @openyourmind3763

    Жыл бұрын

    Your comment impacted me! Well said. Thank you. I work on this in stops and starts but definately want that freedom. It feels hard when family is not on board but at least I can keep working on my stuff.

  • @stuffchat

    @stuffchat

    Жыл бұрын

    Your comment impacted me too. I had a good laugh at the "you got fat!" message :D :D

  • @sapsey72

    @sapsey72

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, you just opened my eyes to what everyone means when they say your stuff sends negative messages!! My brain doesn't handle generalized concepts very well. Sometimes, I need specifics, no matter how brutal they may be, lol. May God keep blessing you!! ❤

  • @annbeth6730

    @annbeth6730

    7 ай бұрын

    What an inspiration you are. I’m slowly decluttering.

  • @MaryKane-qv5vz

    @MaryKane-qv5vz

    5 ай бұрын

    I have donated some excess clothes to charity store and can now see very neat shelves and presses. Praise the Lord.

  • @janethunt4037
    @janethunt4037 Жыл бұрын

    "My mental health & how I feel in my house is more important than the stuff." You nailed it!!!!!!

  • @gretchenhennessey6815

    @gretchenhennessey6815

    8 ай бұрын

    If only I could get my family to understand 😢

  • @julies1795
    @julies1795 Жыл бұрын

    My friend died Saturday. And I thought we had all the time in the world. Stop messing with your things and clutter and start living your life with the people you love ❤️. I miss her so much. And we didn't get enough time together 😥 Well you think of things like that. You start to realize. Nothing really matters except your family and friends. All this stuff. Is just stuff. She left it all behind. And we have nothing but our memories.

  • @teresabell1014

    @teresabell1014

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @sheilaschifano7713

    @sheilaschifano7713

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry Julie. ❤

  • @nancyratterree1497

    @nancyratterree1497

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @ChristysChannelYall

    @ChristysChannelYall

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss. We just found out my son’s doctor died Saturday too. We loved her so much. It’s so sad when you just think you have all the time. 😢

  • @StevieLeeTaylor

    @StevieLeeTaylor

    Жыл бұрын

    Julie I’m so sorry to read this. You are correct - spend more time with people less time managing stuff. Take care of yourself while you grieve your friend.

  • @Georgie0829
    @Georgie0829 Жыл бұрын

    You are lovely, Dawn. There is a reason that for centuries holy men and women have taken vows of poverty: they saw material possessions as distractions from the time they had on earth to become "Perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect." The world is waking up to the need for minimalism. Minimalism is helping me be less attached to my stuff and to store up treasures in heaven, not on earth.

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤ I'm coming to a similar conclusion

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful! Thank you!!!!!

  • @paulaainsworth3681

    @paulaainsworth3681

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen. Why has it taken me 64 years in earth to catch on! My mother was a depression child and poor and I've learned my behavior . Now it's my responsibility to complete what I've tried to work in for years , only to be back in my stuff. I kive Dawn's videos!

  • @MaccMummy

    @MaccMummy

    Жыл бұрын

  • @karenc1733

    @karenc1733

    Жыл бұрын

    that’s a great observation. Im very fear-based and it scares me to get rid of all the new and nearly new items I’ve hoarded over the years “just incase”. It doesn’t help to donate because it’s also all about “what if I have to buy it again?”. I am on a low wage and always worried about “lack”.

  • @darb138
    @darb138 Жыл бұрын

    Love this. The older I get the less stuff I want. It’s a freedom and if people could see this it would be life changing.

  • @julieibbotson5345
    @julieibbotson53459 ай бұрын

    so true. I started a serious decluttering journey about a month ago. A month in, I'm looking around my home thinking "Why on earth am I hanging on to THAT!. I work from home, I've become such a declutter freak, I have to discipline myself to sit down to work first, get what I need done there, then reward myself with a spurt of decluttering. And Dawn is so right when she says, small chunks make a difference. Last night, I only had time to declutter my utensils drawer, but what a difference it has made. Every day, I truly feel like I'm getting more time back. everything is just easier. The other night, after dinner, I baked a loaf of bread and made a cake. This is something I had stopped doing because I knew my kitchen would be too hard to clean afterwards and the thought of that just made me shudder. Now, I can cook with ease and I've cleaned up before it's out of the oven! Dawn, from the other side of the planet, your channel reached me and you have truly changed my life. Decluttering is SO much more satisfying then shopping!!!!! I said to my son a month ago, "isnt it nice being in a clean house?" he said "yes, but can you keep it this way? THE ANSWER IS YES!

  • @mylifesings-mariaklingshei1786
    @mylifesings-mariaklingshei1786 Жыл бұрын

    I started tearing up when you kept saying “you are worth more than the stuff.” You are like a homemaking/decluttering evangelist! I’ve come a long way and I keep listening because I truly believe you care about the well-being of others, myself included. I was born and raised a MN-girl, too😊

  • @aprilk.7497

    @aprilk.7497

    Жыл бұрын

    SAME! You brought me to tears Dawn, towards the end of the video. Very inspiring! Thank you!!

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aprilk.7497 Well I definitely wasn't trying to make anyone cry today, but I do think it's important!!! Thank you for watching, I'm very grateful!!!! :)

  • @sonialinsey8083

    @sonialinsey8083

    Жыл бұрын

    I forget which channel I saw it on but the woman said “don’t choose “things” over your mental health. It’s something I keep repeating over and over while decluttering, and it’s very helpful. This is another mantra to add to the mix.

  • @julianapaiottischychof

    @julianapaiottischychof

    Жыл бұрын

    me too

  • @ANN.B.3476
    @ANN.B.3476 Жыл бұрын

    Many years ago I managed 4 sets of dishes, one for each season. I had a full china cabinet, overstuffed. One day, in Bible study I think, the lesson was on God meeting our needs. I closed my eyes and remembered all those dishes. I thought, if I were blind ( no disrespect intended here) would it matter which set of dishes I ate off of? No, as a matter of fact a paper plate or bowl would serve me well. I, with joy gave away 3 sets of dishes and kept the plain white ones. They'd serve me fine and I could just get seasonal napkins. Thanks for this video. It's so helpful and a confirmation.

  • @lindae6461

    @lindae6461

    Жыл бұрын

    Seasonal napkins are good for decoration too. When the season/holiday is over, the napkins used for decorating can be used as napkins. No clutter to hang on to for a year or more.

  • @user-tc4jv1vr9m

    @user-tc4jv1vr9m

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you never have guests? And paper plates are not great for enviroment.

  • @holyexperience1976

    @holyexperience1976

    Жыл бұрын

    I got 50 and 75 cent dishes from Target's and Walmart's. So, no fancy dishes here. Waiting until I get out of a roommate situation into my own place to use them. Edit: Those are the easiest to clean, but I would not recommend using knives to cut stuff or tomato based products on them.

  • @amycopeland1701

    @amycopeland1701

    5 ай бұрын

    Wow! That's actually not a bad idea- buying seasonal napkins with one set of dishes.

  • @Ghfdddcghh
    @Ghfdddcghh Жыл бұрын

    I’m in the process of decluttering my company’s 2600 sq ft shop with 15 years worth of collected junk. Despite sometimes feeling overwhelmed, I just keep chipping away at it every day. It’s amazing what can be accomplished in a month. Also, I don’t know if anyone has noticed this, but whenever I see a business / shop / house etc. that has been decluttered it automatically looks more valuable and wealthy.

  • @JenniferKelly427
    @JenniferKelly427 Жыл бұрын

    Store pickup makes a huge difference! I save between $20-40 a week with grocery pickup because apparently I'm an impulse shopper. I made the mistake of going into a new grocery store and I spent $60 more than usual. Now I will only do pickup for groceries. I also noticed online I'll buy random items I don't necessarily need to get free shipping. That's something I'm trying to work on. To wait until I have enough items that I actually need and get free shipping, versus looking for inexpensive random items I don't need to hit the threshold. Funny, how they price items so you'll be 3 cents short from free shipping. Last time I checked they don't sell items in that price range. 😆😆

  • @MaryJordon1
    @MaryJordon1 Жыл бұрын

    As an older woman with same problem I would like to offer my side of the story ! As we age we have less energy to attend to wading through stuff of the past which is difficult. We are alone with our memories! We look at things and remember! Some of our family have passed away and still grieving. So there is still a lot to deal with. It needs constant help of family to work as a team to help each other. Also may I suggest that instead of gifts we donate that money to people who are in need.

  • @janiceyoung5958

    @janiceyoung5958

    Жыл бұрын

    I am in the same situation. I'm older and don't have the strength and energy to do the hard physical and mental work that clearing a lifetime of memories entails . I'm working on it, and this message from Dawn was a real eye opener. Thank you for your message.

  • @charmingintrovert3240

    @charmingintrovert3240

    Жыл бұрын

    This is a friendly reminder to start early in our 30's, 40's and 50's to get a handle on our inventory while we still have the energy and stamina. If we wait too long the excess reduces our quality of life in our own homes and those that come after us who will need to dispose of it all on our behalf.

  • @lindamusser7370

    @lindamusser7370

    Жыл бұрын

    @@charmingintrovert3240 amen! Some stuff gets harder to part with the longer you have it.

  • @sarac.3259

    @sarac.3259

    Жыл бұрын

    @@janiceyoung5958 It really is tough - I think many of us have things reminding us of people or happy times. I am trying to pass on things which I don't actually need, to charity shops (goodwill, I think) so charities can benefit, and I have less stuff! Dawn is brilliant. I think this video is fantastic. Let's do it!

  • @sonialinsey8083

    @sonialinsey8083

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes to the donation as a gift. Or a nice letter. My mother in law sends us gifts every year for birthdays and Christmas and tbh we just get rid of them. They don’t match our style, they’re things we can’t use, etc. It’s awful to have to give/throw away things that are brand new.

  • @mwebb3014
    @mwebb3014 Жыл бұрын

    My SIL’s mother died unexpectedly a few months ago. Due to dire financial needs, her dad needed to sell the house asap. Very little sold in the estate sale so they ended up putting most things in a dumpster as thrift stores only accepted a few things like books and furniture. Into the dumpster went journals, photo albums, kitchen things, clothes. Oh my, it was all so heartbreaking because her mother kept everything she ever touched and never culled out the important things. I am trying so hard to declutter down to my most favorite items because I do not want to burden my kids with an overwhelming house full of random stuff. Great video Dawn!!

  • @susanf4857

    @susanf4857

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here!!

  • @kokoriffic929

    @kokoriffic929

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here! After spending months cleaning out my MIL’s townhouse (endless sorting!), I knew that I didn’t want to pass on this same burden to my loved ones.

  • @donnaevans8420

    @donnaevans8420

    Жыл бұрын

    I could not have trashed those journals & photo albums..

  • @daphneburgess8642

    @daphneburgess8642

    Жыл бұрын

    After clearing out a few homes now my husband and I have said "We are not doing this to our children!"

  • @loriar1027

    @loriar1027

    Жыл бұрын

    That is so sad!! It’s almost a metaphor for life. Too often we equate having stuff with wealth or comfort but it never really is that.

  • @angelasnodgrass6621
    @angelasnodgrass6621 Жыл бұрын

    The woman who lives across the hall from me came over and sat down in my dining room. She said your home is so calm and peaceful. I smiled and said thank you. I love my home.

  • @brg2743
    @brg27438 ай бұрын

    The more stuff we get rid of, the lighter the house becomes. It is just easier to take care of it.

  • @frameofmymind
    @frameofmymind Жыл бұрын

    You truly are a blessing! I'm a daughter of not one but two hoarders & shopaholics... So my whole life was: "it might come in handy", "times are getting worse, keep everything! (e.g.clothes with stains and holes for 'home/garden use'...but the pile was getting bigger&bigger, oh or manson jars, they had tons of them)", "xyz gave you that, you should be grateful", and one that I was struggling the most with: "you can't just throw it away!!"😱. And it all stuck with me to my adulthood. And suddenly you give me the permission to throw out things we don't need or I hate... Oh my, what a joy was it!! This week I finaly got rid of things I absolutly hate. Hallelujah! I can now throw out stuff without a sense of guilt (almost ;) )...its like a revelations! I just can't thank you enough for changing my life with your smile & kind heart...like a Mammy we all need❤️. God bless you, you are indeed changing the world. Greetings from Poland - your gospel came even that far ;) 🇵🇱

  • @meh5069

    @meh5069

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you find more and more empowerment to get rid of things that don’t serve you❤ you should also check out Marissa Zen here on KZread. She talks a lot about sentimental de cluttering as well

  • @sonialinsey8083

    @sonialinsey8083

    Жыл бұрын

    “Times are getting worse” is a take I hate that people have nowadays. No, they’re not. If you have this view, ask yourself if this particular thing would come in handy during the apocalypse. Most likely you will say no 🤣. You won’t need an old letter opener in the apocalypse. You won’t need old dolls, bottles, etc. Very few things that we use now would come in handy in a situation with no electricity etc.

  • @consciouscitizen6211

    @consciouscitizen6211

    Жыл бұрын

    Big hug, well done you xx

  • @frameofmymind

    @frameofmymind

    Жыл бұрын

    @@consciouscitizen6211 thank you, Stranger ;)

  • @frameofmymind

    @frameofmymind

    Жыл бұрын

    @@meh5069 thanks! Take care :)

  • @thelmakatherine5396
    @thelmakatherine5396 Жыл бұрын

    The more simplified my home becomes, the more I feel my anxiety and depression fall from my shoulders.

  • @debh4999
    @debh4999 Жыл бұрын

    Dawn, Every time I see a new video from you, I get more and more motivated. I am a 66 year old grandmother who is still working full time, but I have been on a decluttering mission since the first time I saw you on KZread. My husband doesn't give me any credit since it is only one box at a time going to charity, but I am not giving up! I am waiting for the day that I can look around my home and not feel like I am overwhelmed. You are a true inspiration. Keep up the good work🥰 Debbie in PA.

  • @TerryMundy

    @TerryMundy

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep getting rid of things. Eventually your house will look like the inside of a bus station with only a couch to sit on.🤪

  • @terischeunemann1420

    @terischeunemann1420

    Жыл бұрын

    That's how I declutter, one box or bag at a time. We'll get there and it will be great! 🙂

  • @Jessica_Jones

    @Jessica_Jones

    Жыл бұрын

    You can do it!! 📣 🎉

  • @debh4999

    @debh4999

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TerryMundy LOL! I hope so.

  • @tinalettieri

    @tinalettieri

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, so what's the Judge doing about it? Is he helping you? Keep up the good work but tell him he needs to pitch in. I see why you needed things to give you comfort and a sense of yourself.

  • @KarmicAngel
    @KarmicAngel7 ай бұрын

    I used to shop to fill some imaginary void. I finally can't take it anymore and have recently started purging.. I have given away so much stuff, donated and trashed things. I love waking up now to no mess other than what I still have left to get rid of. I look forward to getting stuff GONE. Once I completely declutter, I am going to go thru everything again. Also and going to ask my family not to buy us any holiday gifts as we really don't need anything!! A nice card or sweet note will be more than enough for us. I'm 55 and it's just my hubby and I with our little dog. I cannot deal with anymore stress of stuff. If we don't need it, use it or love it.. its gone.. I have been binge watching your videos for added motivation but really, I was becoming such a "B" and my hubby dieant deserve that. Stuff is stuff.. we don't need extra anything

  • @jamiecorisis6122
    @jamiecorisis6122 Жыл бұрын

    I deal with health issues and it’s just so helpful in this healing process to know my house is organized, calm, decluttered and all I have to do is rest and heal!

  • @loriv8445

    @loriv8445

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you Jamie 🙏❣

  • @jamiecorisis6122

    @jamiecorisis6122

    Жыл бұрын

    @@loriv8445 ❤️

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 Жыл бұрын

    As a long time minimalist and simple living person, it's the best thing I have ever done for myself. As I get older, it just makes sense.

  • @reneegagnier3226
    @reneegagnier3226 Жыл бұрын

    "You are more important than your stuff." Very powerful statement.

  • @shiyunwong1487
    @shiyunwong1487 Жыл бұрын

    I find decluttering hard for me (with adhd) but the maintenance is the real fight. With 2 young kids it just feels like a constant battle against clutter and as soon as I clear a surface , it gets cluttered again in an hour

  • @lilyankay2116

    @lilyankay2116

    Жыл бұрын

    My daughter is abit of a hoarder and I think she gets it from grandparents on both sides Lol 😂 she holds on to things I’m like “you’ll never ever use that again” I’m gonna declutter their room next weekend. She wants to wear her favorite size 8 clothes and she’s almost 11 🙈

  • @MicheleForce
    @MicheleForce Жыл бұрын

    One of your best videos ever - very powerful and straight to the point. Everything you have always said about the Silent To Do List rings SO true in my life and was a monumental turning point for me. My house is about 80% decluttered and the difference in my overall countenance is simply unbelievable. IT WORKS. If any mom is feeling overwhelmed (like I was for so long)… DECLUTTER! Keep preaching the gospel of decluttering, Dawn, and reminding the world that marketing is full of lies. 😊

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Michele! This means more than you know!!!

  • @Elizabeth58886

    @Elizabeth58886

    Жыл бұрын

    This was so inspiring. And when you said you’re sorry about the things that have happened to us, I felt like you were talking right to me. Often clutter starts piling up when something tough happens in life. And then you get behind and it feels almost impossible to get it cleared out again.

  • @mytreasuredcreations

    @mytreasuredcreations

    Жыл бұрын

    When I feel overwhelmed, I declutter something. 😂

  • @natvtxn1213
    @natvtxn1213 Жыл бұрын

    Following a divorce I had to purge tons of stuff. It nearly killed me emotionally because of the attachment of things that I identified with as my life as it was, raising my kids, as a family, as everything I had known. I moved several times after that, each time purging more and realizing I didn't need more stuff. I had just what I needed for the space I had. I can not stand clutter. Even a small pile of papers start stressing me. I am not OCD, just realized how the more simple things are, the less stressed we are. Years ago a Korean friend told me they used neutral colors throughout their home for calmness. I thought I'd try it in my bedroom and sure enough, I always felt calmer when I entered, because the decor was minimal and there were not alot of distracting colors. I eventually re-did my entire home to reflect the same. I came to the realization a long time ago that I may want something, but I might not actually need it. I don't want my closets overflowing with stuff that I rarely use.

  • @JaneH3675

    @JaneH3675

    Жыл бұрын

    Your comment means a lot to me. I'm about to re-paint my bedroom and want neutral colors. I've also had to declutter so much of my things and many were sentimental. Time to let it go and just live in this moment.

  • @Rosie_C

    @Rosie_C

    Жыл бұрын

    I need to remember that about the colors. Thanks! I don’t like bland, but I think I go crazy with the colors sometimes. I changed my bedroom decor for Christmas to a simple white with subtle red plaid comforter and such, but I kind of can’t wait to go back to my pale yellow set.

  • @sct4040

    @sct4040

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree. Whenever you want something new, go shopping in your closet.

  • @lauriepowell3959
    @lauriepowell3959 Жыл бұрын

    Yep, my stuff is/was making me sick. It also was a big indicator that I am often ill, depressed, unmotivated, hopeless, overwhelmed, etc, etc. It’s now 2:45 a.m. and I woke up an hour ago (not unusual) and started surfing KZread. This video and two others you have made got me out of bed with a ❤ BIG BLACK TRASH BAG ❤ My bedroom floor has been covered with “important” papers that I pulled out at tax time and started sorting. My three cats had unsorted most of the bags and boxes, so it looked worse than when I started LAST SPRING. You get the picture. I put the iPad on the floor and listened to you and just started filling bag with trash only. Formerly buried books, checkbooks, seriously important/need to keep papers and files went on my bed. Now I am putting them in the shelves where they should live. 😊 I left piles of what-the-hell papers against the far wall because I didn’t need to get distracted. I am thrilled to report that in under an hour I made major progress, threw out a huge bag of trash, and can now happily go back to bed knowing tomorrow I can finish sorting and tossing the rest of the papers I was afraid to even look at. All of this in ONE HOUR. I wasn’t going to sleep anyway! Thanks for your love, support and inspiration.❤ It was just what I needed. P.S. Good on Melinda 🎉👍 👩🏻‍🎨 Laurie (age 70)

  • @alexandriarenee.
    @alexandriarenee. Жыл бұрын

    This explains why my husband and I have been so stressed and honestly at times depressed. Our home flooded during hurricane IAN. It’s been such a process but now that we are slowing getting back into the house / finishing projects… stuff is EVERYWHERE. We know it’ll be a continued process but can’t wait to have peace when living in our home.

  • @blujeans9462
    @blujeans9462 Жыл бұрын

    This is SO true! Keep spreading the word. :-) I even retired a year earlier than I originally planned to because I couldn't wait to get started on decluttering 4 years ago - after 37 years of 'amassing' stuff. About 2 or 3 years before retiring I was just stuck in a perpetual procrastination mode. I didn't have the ambition to do anything. Now that my house is so near exactly what I always wanted, I dismissed my plan to sell it as soon as I retired and want to enjoy the fruits of my labor a bit longer. :-)

  • @texasmimi5566

    @texasmimi5566

    Жыл бұрын

    Cool. It IS a "whole 'nother" feeling, isn't it? Like a new house/home. Like putting your house on the market to sell and having to update it to get top dollar, when done the way you want it it's like "why did I do this for someone else and not for me to enjoy"? Dawn is right, WE are worth more than the stuff".

  • @blujeans9462

    @blujeans9462

    Жыл бұрын

    @@texasmimi5566 so true!! :-)

  • @SoundofSilence492

    @SoundofSilence492

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha. Almost same houseboat but not as much overboard yet. But with each project I say to myself well, why do I want to move now? And where am I going to in such a rush? I'll just have to start over again updating painting and renovating somewhere else. And moving is horrendously expensive, I'd better make sure I know where I'm going, and that it's not from the frying pan Into the fire. I do love my house and 2 acre suburban lot, though I don't like the small "city" it's near.

  • @blujeans9462

    @blujeans9462

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SoundofSilence492 totally agree! I keep looking at homes in the area of my choice, but they need all the things I've just spent a boatload of money in this house: new roof, electrical, flooring, painting and windows! Frying pan to the fire, as you say! :-) And who knows what else is lurking behind the walls. I've lived in my house for 37 years - no more surprises. :-)

  • @gapeach51170
    @gapeach51170 Жыл бұрын

    My car is 12 years old and paid for :) I just paid someone $125 to detail it and it feels like a new car. :) A lot cheaper than buying a new one...haha

  • @suebarnard1734

    @suebarnard1734

    Жыл бұрын

    Go you!

  • @intherockies

    @intherockies

    Жыл бұрын

    You can also replace things like headlight covers or get the windows tinted since all newer cars do this plus it saves on your air conditioning running as much because the heat is blocked some. There's also less glare when driving. My car is a 2008 so 15 yrs old and paid for..would I like a new one, sure, but I don't want to pay those crazy high prices.

  • @kafemocha5016
    @kafemocha50167 ай бұрын

    I’m the daughter of a hoarder who’s life is completely controlled by her stuff. The fear of becoming her is quite real. The less I have the happier I become!

  • @beavadakkoot
    @beavadakkoot11 ай бұрын

    After living 24 years in my parents cluttered home (not all year were that bad, some were more than others and they did de clutter some years), and moving out with my husband into our minimal apartment with only what we need, clean surfaces, I feel SO MUCH PEACE ❤

  • @ElizabethDohertyThomas
    @ElizabethDohertyThomas Жыл бұрын

    That video you did on our stuff judging us was ENORMOUS for me as a new energy boost to rid my house of things that never quite "got gone" with dozens of prior attempts. I can testify that now when I open a certain drawer, or closet, I get joy every single time because I'm proud of how calm it is and how it's only filled with intentional items.

  • @tmo3973

    @tmo3973

    Жыл бұрын

    Could you please post a link to that?

  • @JessicaMcCafferty94

    @JessicaMcCafferty94

    Жыл бұрын

    That video was a huge mindset shift for me. I'd put some weight on and was constantly trying to shift it whilst refusing to buy clothes that fit my new weight. After that video, I went out and bought a few bits that actually fit, donated the worst fitting and most judging clothes and guess what....ever since then I've lost the pounds and I'm back to my previous weight! Sure it's annoying that I've had to buy more clothes than had I continued wearing too small things, but I'd still be there now!

  • @SoundofSilence492

    @SoundofSilence492

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JessicaMcCafferty94 Hmmm. This happens to many people, I wonder if there is something to it? Maybe we subconsciously have mentally outgrown those clothes? We really don't want to wear them? So the extra weight keeps us from having to?

  • @wendyb171
    @wendyb171 Жыл бұрын

    I recently moved and it was a hurried, unplanned moved so things were not sorted beforehand. I’m now able to sort through items and I’m embarrassed by the amount of stuff I actually have! I donated 8 bags of clothes so far. I’m slowly going through boxes of everything as I unpack and it feels freeing to be rid of stuff! You’ve helped me stay motivated!! You’ve also helped bring me to a place where I don’t want to buy unnecessary stuff. Thank you!!

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    Way to go Wendy! It's a lot of work but SO worth it!!!!!

  • @stacygirlbrogden8478

    @stacygirlbrogden8478

    Жыл бұрын

    Wendy I remember a move that I made to a house that I only stayed in for one year. The garage stayed packed with boxes upon boxes of things that I never unpacked. I soooo wish I had just ditched that stuff then. TBH that junk followed me for another 15+ years. And mocked me every step of the way. 😞 I'm just now (at over 50) "getting" the Dawn attitude and it's so freeing!

  • @wendyb171

    @wendyb171

    Жыл бұрын

    @@stacygirlbrogden8478 I had the same thing! Stuff in boxes I hadn’t seen in 12 years! Crazy! And so many others in the community can use it. So far 80% of my clothes I got rid of went to 3 friends. The rest to donation. And many of them had tags still attached. Ugh

  • @krisy-in-italy

    @krisy-in-italy

    Жыл бұрын

    I really needed this these days. I just sold my home so recently started packing and although I’ve only lived here 3 years the STUFF! I have less than 2 months to sort and pack. I’m doing all my own packing so I won’t be moving anything I don’t absolutely need. I’ve already found a few items I had already forgotten I owned! This is humbling. Thank you for the pep talk. I can do this! 💜

  • @susano7587
    @susano7587 Жыл бұрын

    I SO appreciate you! This past summer I sold my house that I owned for 23 years and raised my 3 children in. Additionally, I had inherited tons of things from parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles. I moved into a 2 bedroom condo and I did manage to get rid of ALL THAT STUFF. I couldn’t have done it without you and the Swedish Death Cleaning book. Thank you!!!

  • @greenpaula45
    @greenpaula45 Жыл бұрын

    My 82 year old mother is a hoarder, and I can feel the tendency to be that way. The past 10 years of my life have been very difficult, and many things in my home were just left 'to deal with later'... Later has finally come. My issue now is being patient until I have time to get at it all. I have been doing 15 minutes here and there or an hour or two here and there. I only discovered this channel a month ago, and I am already feeling so much better in my home. It truly does make life feel more peaceful. It was down right exciting when I got my kitchen counter cleared of the things that just sat there day in and day out. Thank you for your crusade of minimizing. I may not become a minimalist, but I sure can get rid of much more than I thought I would before.

  • @MompreneurDiary
    @MompreneurDiary Жыл бұрын

    My brother is here and he's helping me get my life together

  • @sarahmiranda7130
    @sarahmiranda7130 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos. I always feel motivated...and sometimes I will pause your videos and go do the things....lol, it can take me hours to finish just 1 of your videos. Play, pause, clean, play, pause, clean, repeat.

  • @bubbaloo_loo_loo
    @bubbaloo_loo_loo Жыл бұрын

    I think the really sad thing is that marketing is creating a "problem" that you have that you didn't even know existed and that their product will fix it. They are actually telling your subconscious that your needs aren't being met.

  • @rainbowmandalalove9569
    @rainbowmandalalove95696 ай бұрын

    I just watched this video today on my birthday and I want to say thank you and to say thank you to everyone who has commented! I am committing to throwing out a little trash every single day, and to decluttering my home every day, one small area at a time. I am committed to creating a clean, clear and pristine home environment so that my two young children don't grow up in a messy, chaotic and overwhelming home environment. I want my home to be a safe haven, sanctuary and peaceful refuge, that nourishes our spirits, brings joy to our hearts and brings peace to our minds. Thank you! ❤❤❤

  • @laurenburger8821
    @laurenburger8821 Жыл бұрын

    I have been watching your videos for about 3 years now. You have honestly changed my life and my relationship with my house and my stuff. I used to keep a lot “cuz you never know”. Since finding you, Dana and Cass I changed the way I think about stuff. The majority of my “stuff” I didn’t like or need. I take at least 2 trips to the donation center a month. Decluttering has become my favorite self care thing I like to do. I’m falling back in love with my house again.

  • @kakylong2
    @kakylong2 Жыл бұрын

    Dawn, Great video! I just had back surgery this past Thurs & yesterday (Mon), I was sitting in the living room for a few min & my Hubby litterally brought me 3 boxes to go through. 😆 I got through them, then went & laid back down. We got rid of a box of trash just in those few moments Crazy. 🤪

  • @NdnUrbanCat

    @NdnUrbanCat

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome!!!👍

  • @ntmn8444
    @ntmn8444 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, I’m 4:12 in, and already I’m realizing what my problem was growing up. That study basically answers my questions. All of them. I’ve been sick for years. I never slept well as a kid, I didn’t perform well in school, I didn’t make very many friends, and only as an adult, finally out of my house, did I finally get around to being able to understand the situation around me. I’ve gotten better at reading people than when I was younger and it’s led me to wonder why that is. I felt a disconnect before and now I don’t feel that. But it all makes sense, because I grew up in a cluttered home. Both my parents became hoarders when I was younger. So it all makes perfect sense! Your videos have helped me gain control. I’m trying out your method. I can’t wait to get rid of stuff finally!

  • @catshultz9045

    @catshultz9045

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve dealt with this too and can relate.

  • @HelenSinger

    @HelenSinger

    Жыл бұрын

    I had a similar thing when people didn't get rid of garbage right away. We shouldn't get used to foul odours. They should teach in school all these smells play a role in how we function really.

  • @cheristump9404
    @cheristump9404 Жыл бұрын

    Preach it girl! I’m sharing this with so many friends and family members. Seriously, thank you.

  • @jamiemayes5118
    @jamiemayes5118 Жыл бұрын

    I love the focus on the value of our time. It is so much more important to spend our time doing things that matter (could be different for everyone) than taking care of "stuff". Our culture is drowning in STUFF and we are escaping from that! 🤗

  • @angelawarren3600
    @angelawarren3600 Жыл бұрын

    I am so thankful to of come across your channel. You are just such a blessing to me and have spoken to my heart and the desire to have less when I was not able to put into words. Very few people understand when you try to explain this. And then I inherited my Mom's home when she passed and am having to deal with her 55+ years of "things" she'd accumulated. And then all the "things/gifts" we're given and feel obligated to keep them. It's just too much and gave me such panic attacks I'd start to cry and have to leave the rooms I could not deal with. Truly I pray I am able to get to this level of "stuff reduction" so I can breath and live a quality life I've not had in many many years. Hugs & prayers from Texas

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep going Angela, I'm so sorry for ALL of the stress this has caused you! Prayers for extra energy and clarity of thought as you work!!!!

  • @angelawarren3600

    @angelawarren3600

    Жыл бұрын

    @@neonkitty6366 Thank you Val for your sweet words of encouragement and inspiration!

  • @angelawarren3600

    @angelawarren3600

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheMinimalMom Thank you Dawn - for showing us the way and confirming what we know in our hearts is what the Lord would have for us to live a life closer to Him and in the way He had for us all along ; )

  • @consciouscitizen6211

    @consciouscitizen6211

    Жыл бұрын

    My partner of 14 years left me and I had to move out of the house we’d lived in - I had to sell 99% of my things, get my cats ready to fly and moved back to my home country, England. It was like pulling a band aid off and very traumatic for me.

  • @marilynmouton9818
    @marilynmouton9818 Жыл бұрын

    Best decluttering video I have ever watched. Thank you

  • @jessicalatorraca8507
    @jessicalatorraca8507 Жыл бұрын

    This ROCKS! 💟 Great energy, Dawn

  • @valetoxicus5927
    @valetoxicus5927 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been following for only a couple of weeks but you’ve already made such a difference in my life! I hear your words as I declutter and find the right home for the stuff I do use every day. “It has to be just as easy to put it away as it is to leave out.” “Everything in your clothes closet should be an option for today.” Thank you! After a life of believing I’m just messy, lazy, disorganized, and other negative labels, it’s so refreshing to realize I can do this! You’ve given real tools and real life examples. Even watching you “reset” a drawer in minutes is truly inspiring.

  • @susanf4857

    @susanf4857

    Жыл бұрын

    I think the same thing about decor hauls!

  • @Bekasharpe
    @Bekasharpe Жыл бұрын

    I agree with a previous comment! Your videos always motivate me to clean, organize, fold laundry, etc. I appreciate you so much!

  • @sariinthestudio
    @sariinthestudio Жыл бұрын

    I get so excited when I see your new weekly video! A recent video on paper clutter and your early cardboard file box system is what I am implementing. Paper is my issue. I can't wait to start now in 2023 with a new system that will work. I resonate with everything you put out. THANK YOU DAWN!

  • @tarayoakum9393
    @tarayoakum9393 Жыл бұрын

    I just wanted to jump on and tell you that saying "I love you" at the end of your videos has been such a blessing and encouragement to me. I have just recently started decluttering, and found your channel, but I didn't know how starved I was for the message of love and acceptance. This small thing you do is a ministry! Thank you for sharing your passion, and encouraging us out here along the way!

  • @neonkitty6366

    @neonkitty6366

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen and Amen!!! It’s no small thing is it. Means so much!! Val

  • @frankmatias6279

    @frankmatias6279

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your videos. You motivate me to declutter and since finding your videos we have let go of so much stuff. also stopped bringing in stuff. I look at things different now. you have a beautiful family 😊 thank you again

  • @kcotjo
    @kcotjo Жыл бұрын

    This was a great video!! So inspiring and true!! I have been telling everyone I know to watch your videos and be motivated!! Every day I try to put something into my donate box. I couldn't even tell you what I have donated since watching you because I don't even remember the stuff!! Thank you for being so authentic, genuine and real!! I need to get up and declutter!!

  • @michelletucker6790
    @michelletucker6790 Жыл бұрын

    Dawn, this video is GOLD!!! Thank you for continuing to share this information…it’s what lit a fire under me to really let go of stuff and is the reason I keep going further! I’m definitely sharing this video with others today because I want the same for them! ❤

  • @janajohnston1137
    @janajohnston1137 Жыл бұрын

    Amen! Preach it Dawn! That was truly a spiritual awakening experience as I am listening to you while decluttering my garage. I had to stop and really listen, and now I’m going to watch it one more time. I’ve followed you for years and made several passes in my home, but I’m just about fed up with the stuff and its impact! Thank you for your endurance to teach and encourage us! ❤

  • @SauerPatchGardening
    @SauerPatchGardening Жыл бұрын

    I could feel every word you said. You are so passionate about wanting this for us that you can see it in your eyes. I hope that people everywhere can see this, and get motivated from your enthusiasm. Find the strength to clean out 1 drawer or closet and find the freedom of what it means and what it feels like

  • @Megan-nt7dm
    @Megan-nt7dm Жыл бұрын

    I live by myself, don't live with my partner, or have kids yet, and I've been working towards simplifying everything. It makes me so much less anxious about the idea of combining my stuff with my partners, or having kids down the road. I'm already accumulating all of this good advice for how I want to raise any kids differently than I was raised, and just have so much less crap in the house. Going on a slow decluttering journey over the past year or so has already made me so much less anxious, and I sleep way better.

  • @SnarkasticSunny

    @SnarkasticSunny

    Жыл бұрын

    Good for you! And starting early/young makes it become a way of life, good habit, without the need to suffer thru the "decluttering 1,000,000 things" part 1st. Stick with it ~ it really IS the best way to live! There will be more things when you have kids, but that's ok & with places for toys & books & such to go at clean-up time, it won't become messy clutter. I taught preschoolers for many years & even 3yr olds can put things where they belong/where they got them from, if it's kept simple & is a daily routine. Adult helping put things away in right place is a good thing (they will copy what you do; try not to let 'em out of helping put toys away).😉 When clean-up is 2nd nature, makes it easier as they get older...more stuff = more to clean-up...less mess = more free time for fun stuff. (My expertise/degree ends about age 6, other than nieces, nephews.) You are off yo a great start!

  • @nalsbharat-ramnarine1146
    @nalsbharat-ramnarine1146 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dawn for all your wisdom and guidance in relation to minimalism and decluttering. I am such a huge fangirl of yours that I was getting my YT time for the day by listening to an audiobook and totally switch to click on your video just now when I got the notification of your new video lol. You are such an inspiration to us all♥️

  • @fionaatkins
    @fionaatkins Жыл бұрын

    Hi Dawn. I just discovered your channel a couple of weeks ago and I find myself watching more and more of your videos because they really resonate with me, and I’m finding them to be so helpful as I am going through a decluttering and organisational reset in my home right now. Thank you for your honesty in sharing your journey.

  • @treasureslayer3049
    @treasureslayer3049 Жыл бұрын

    This has been one of your best videos ever! It was like you’ve been watching me. When you said each item is saying something to you I was like this is my life. I resale things and it’s just overwhelming constantly trying to sort and organize, price, and on and on. I’m busy decorating my retail sites and could care less about doing anything at my beautiful home. I’m so unhappy and just can’t look at anything I have and like it. I’ve been diligently taking things out to sell with the promise that I’m not storing them for next year season and they will be donated but it’s so overwhelming. Thanks Dawn for speaking from your wisdom and heart on this video.

  • @jamiehowell9095
    @jamiehowell9095 Жыл бұрын

    One of your best videos yet Dawn, and that is saying something! I could feel your passion and heart through the screen. Thanks for doing what you do.

  • @aprilk.7497
    @aprilk.7497 Жыл бұрын

    Yo are SO SO right Dawn!! THANK YOU for this message! I needed to hear it!! I love you energy and excitement around decluttering and how it TRULY impacts every minute or our day!! Keep up the awesome work. I STRIVE to find the mindset you have or even small percentage of it! God's blessings from SE MN :)

  • @lisakraus1444
    @lisakraus1444 Жыл бұрын

    Dawn, I’ve followed your content for a while but never commented before. This video is so full of your passion and commitment to the ideas you are always talking about that your ability to communicate them is more powerful than ever. It’s amazing that this has become your ministry…and even a Buddhist like myself is invited in! Many thanks for sharing so much of such value.

  • @annaberg6505
    @annaberg6505 Жыл бұрын

    This is so true! I found your videos a few years ago in the beginning of my and my familys minimnalist journey and your advices are really helpful. And I agree, it is hard to explain the REAL change, it is no longer about a cluttered or decluttered home, it is a change in mindset, gratitude, happiness and inner peace that I could never imagine had anything to do with our STUFF.

  • @sunflowerbrown5823
    @sunflowerbrown5823 Жыл бұрын

    I was listening to this while laminating the last of my cute little hand made drawer labels for my art studio that I spent the past two weeks decluttering. It only took that long because I wanted to take my time and really enjoy the process of prettying it up! So an hour here and an hour there. One day all I did was put batteries in fairy lights and place them. 🙃I enjoyed it so much I've decided to take that slow approach in each room and really just show my home some love. Thanks to you I only have superficial decluttering to do now and giving each room a little refresh is so easy now! I watch a lot of home making channels here on youtube and now when I see someone post their 'new decor haul' from a store I think...better you than me! 😀 My last space to conquer is still the basement but I have made huge progress there that I think I'm ready to hang the new curtains soon! So satisfying and I don't feel yuck about it any more!

  • @janett9642
    @janett9642 Жыл бұрын

    What an amazing powerful message...and so very true! I can't wait to have this stuff gone and no longer dragging me down! Thank you for all that you do! You are making a huge difference to so many!

  • @LoveRosyHernandez
    @LoveRosyHernandez Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I needed to hear this! Amen!

  • @nbraker
    @nbraker Жыл бұрын

    BEST VIDEO YET! WTG Dawn for being so frank and open about the reality of clutter.

  • @patbruce3202
    @patbruce3202 Жыл бұрын

    I enjoy the passion I feel coming from your videos. Such confidence in yourself!

  • @noelletorres3986
    @noelletorres3986 Жыл бұрын

    I just had to take a minute to let you know that this is one of the best, if not THE best video you have made!! I love your light, your enthusiasm, your conviction, and your optimism. I love that you came right out and spoke truth. Our stuff does make us sick. I have watched many of your videos and have been so inspired by you. Thank you!! And on that note, I am off to declutter!

  • @ChelWagz
    @ChelWagz11 ай бұрын

    Dawn, just THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I put you on in the background when I'm working on my house. I honestly would just listen to an hour long video of you saying, "it's OKAY to let that go" over and over! You help me stay centered when I feel overwhelmed by the process. I've watched a ton of youtube folks talking about this but you hit a really special chord that resonates with me and makes me feel both motivated and capable. Thank you so so so much.

  • @helen1859
    @helen1859 Жыл бұрын

    A brilliant video, thanks so much Dawn ☺️. I've found that decluttering has made a big impact on keeping my house tidy and creating a lovely peaceful, calm ambience in my home. I love today's message on your video xx

  • @JR-wt5pw
    @JR-wt5pw Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your wonderful video and words of inspiration to get rid of all this unnecessary STUFF! You have helped me and so many others to get started and, more importantly, to keep going with getting rid of the clutter and excess in our homes. You’re absolutely right, life is too short to be weighed down by all this clutter. Thank you again!♥️

  • @Randomhapiness
    @Randomhapiness Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dawn!! Your encouragement is keeping me on track to keep pushing through simplifying my house. Ever since I started your videos, my stress around having last minute company has VANISHED because my main living spaces are tidy enough that i wouldn’t be mortified by a surprise guest. Each video gets me closer to feeling this way about the rest of my cluttered house.

  • @charissesantiago4930
    @charissesantiago4930 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Dawn! I’ve been following you for only a couple of years and I LOVE the content you share. This is the most powerful of all your videos!! Your heart for others radiates and your passion is contagious! Thank you for being such a blessing, teacher, and friend to us all. Someone referred to you as a decluttering evangelist and you truly are helping to save others and share truth. Tremendous thanks for all you do!🤗❤️🥰

  • @BarnaliD
    @BarnaliD Жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU! I needed to hear this. If I play this a thousand times, it'll still be a motivation.

  • @mallorylyman7747
    @mallorylyman7747 Жыл бұрын

    This is so true. I need help carrying my stuff out of my home. I'm done with it!! Also, I really love how passionate you are about this and helping other people

  • @carissatracy7044
    @carissatracy7044 Жыл бұрын

    YOU have changed my life with these genuine and real ways to declutter. It creates margin and time and stress really does melt away with each donation bag full.

  • @sherryventers7768
    @sherryventers7768 Жыл бұрын

    I love how you have been able to put words to our feelings about the clutter and how to create positive self talk

  • @archisandra
    @archisandra Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! Will start the decluttering right away.

  • @katemiller5990
    @katemiller5990 Жыл бұрын

    Yes I totally agree with you Dawn- even though it’s hard to put into words, a decluttered, organised home opens up space for the rest of life to happen.

  • @melissamoeller9608
    @melissamoeller9608 Жыл бұрын

    😢❤Oh Dawn, what would we do without you! This was like a therapeutic conversation with a dear friend or sister. I’m currently going through all of my belongings. It’s a long overdue journey, and fighting all of the messages and memories attached to things is a really difficult but necessary part of it. Thank you for your videos and encouragement!

  • @Autumncraftz
    @Autumncraftz Жыл бұрын

    I found this video, enlightening, encouraging and most of all motivating. The comment you made about the THINGS we have sending us a message was SO spot on. I had never thought of it like that before. But the less we have the less we have to think about and the pyramid! Such a good way of explaining things. I am in the U.K. and I could do with someone like you here to help me let go. But if I watch more of your videos, maybe I will be able to do this on my own. Thank you for your time and effort to help others.

  • @liaweiss
    @liaweiss Жыл бұрын

    This is my favorite video on the internet right now! Thank you so much, it’s a true blessing! 💖🍀🙏🏻

  • @dawnf.1703
    @dawnf.1703 Жыл бұрын

    This is so true!! We moved into our new house in the Fall and we finally have a place for everything. It is the most amazing feeling ever. My husband had a health scare (he’s good now) right after we moved and having a clutter free house makes it such a peaceful safe place to be. We still have to tackle the garage but now I feel like I can handle it whereas before it felt too overwhelming. There have been a couple things we got rid of that I wish we hadn’t but not enough to stop moving forward. Declutter your house! You will not regret it!! 🤗

  • @CalamityCJ
    @CalamityCJ Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate you and these videos so much! I DO feel like you come to my home and root for me when I watch these. Thank you for all you do for me and others!

  • @pinesseniorlivingcommunity5883
    @pinesseniorlivingcommunity5883 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, Dawn. I've been watching you for years and this was the BEST, most passionate, and clear presentation yet. If someone doesn't start decluttering after listening to this - well, I just don't know! :) you are a GIFT! Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @eleganceevolved8328
    @eleganceevolved8328 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!!❤❤❤❤ up decluttering now!!!!

  • @jesseeholton494
    @jesseeholton494 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this ❤ Also a MN-girl ❤born and raised! I think that's why I "hear" you so well... 10 people could say the same thing, and I obsorb 🚫 nada But Dawn starts talking and its like the epitome of Minnesota Nice 👌 I'm so comfortable when you talk 😌 Really helps me actually, take in the lesson you're trying to get across!!!!! I freaking love you❤ Thanks for being you🙏 and all that you do for us!!!!!!!!

  • @wesliegray1772

    @wesliegray1772

    Жыл бұрын

    So true don't cha know.

  • @TheMinimalMom

    @TheMinimalMom

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought you were going to say it's my midwestern accent ;) Let me know if you'd like to come over for some tater tot hot dish!!!! :) Thank you Jessee!!!

  • @anitabeaudoin5624
    @anitabeaudoin5624 Жыл бұрын

    Love your videos, Dawn! I look for them every Tuesday. haha They are sooo motivating to keep pursuing minimilism! Thanks for all you do! 🤩

  • @mamabird129
    @mamabird129 Жыл бұрын

    This video was suggested to me by KZread...I'm so glad I found it. I subscribed just so that I could find the video again for sure. Well, I'm so glad that I did because you are speaking my language. I've been burdened lately with belongings. We don't have a cluttered house but we have plenty of things we don't need. I've been slowly trying to declutter and adopt a more minimalism lifestyle. I've got a long way to go but I think it's worth it! Thank you for sharing!

  • @sarastewart3470
    @sarastewart3470 Жыл бұрын

    You have such a gift for encouragement 💙 thank you so much! I truck drive with my husband, we "live" in 80sf and constant decluttering is needed, lots of tidy ups but I feel like it's really teaching me how to keep what is useful to us today. The biggest thing that has helped me feel less guilt is when a product was supposed to fix a problem and it doesn't work out for me and I need to let it go, is that I couldnt have known that before I bought it and tried it. (So there isn't blame, it's not my fault) I hear Dawns voice in my head and I can let dodge the guilt altogether. What a gift!

  • @loreewalker8560
    @loreewalker8560 Жыл бұрын

    This is maybe my favorite Minimal Mom video that I've watched. And I love them all. Your passion for decluttering helps me to believe that there is some hope for me in this process too, and that it will be worth the effort to simplify. My life is so busy, and I am desperate for less stress.

  • @philippaappleby3838
    @philippaappleby3838 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a mum of 3 in the UK and you have totally inspired me. I've already read Marie kondo and tried to declutter when we moved house. But you have inspired my next level and also as a mum (mom😊) you have made it make so much more sense and given decluttering a purpose. Love it 🧡 thank you so very much 🧡

  • @christineharclerode3101
    @christineharclerode3101 Жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear every word of this. I am constantly getting rid of crap in my house, I don’t know where and how it accumulates so much. Thank you so much for saying this, it felt line you were right here telling me - just do it. ❤

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