The best way to deal with toxic people || Acharya Prashant, with NIT-Calicut (2022)
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Video Information: 14.05.2022, NIT-Calicut, Greater Noida, U.P.
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You are not born to be a family woman, you are born to be liberated. Liberation is bigger than everything. The only thing that will remain with you is the height of consciousness you could reach.
There is no obligation, no responsibility to stay put in an environment or with people who adversely impact your mental health. 👍
@himanshumaurya8794
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Joyeta jiiii aap iska hindi anuwaad kar diya kare,
@blazed2571
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What if it’s your job environment? Should I just quit? Why should I toxic person control my life like that 😢
We are not victim of toxicities ,we are supporter of toxicities
Every second loss to mischief is a second that you owed to your own innner progress, every second lost to toxicity is a moment stolen away from its right utilization .
Why are they still in your sensory or mental domain? Why do you see them? Why do you think of them? That's exactly what toxicity is. Something that cannot be avoided. Why are these people there in your life at all? Why do they need to necessarily be in your life? You are not born to be a family woman. You are born to be liberated. If toxicity knows that it would be thrown out of the window, it would change its ways. But it does not mend itself, because it knows it would be accommodated. Why do you accomodate it so much? You can support toxicity actively by displaying toxic behavior. Or you can support toxicity passively by supporting toxic behavior. Active or passive, support is support. We are not just victims of toxicity, we are supporters of toxicity.
Well said. There is no responsibility or obligation to stay in an environment that adversely affects your mental health, even if it is one’s own family.
"People improve by their own consent."
My respect and love to Acharya ji has increased thousand more times
The real principles of life have never been taught to us, what really matters in life is not your good etiquette but your deep wisdom. Stop giving values to things that have none.
I did not know why I never had strength against toxic people in life.. this video explains how much emotionally weak I have been in past and how strong I need to be for myself
@vandanarao8235
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As Swamiji said,ai am liberated!
@vandanarao8235
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I primarily feel we are attracting toxic people,we have a choice to fuel or get liberated.
You are born to be liberated. Do not indulge yourself in an environment of toxic people. If you are reacting against this toxicity. It will give them boost and the aftermath of this event will hamper your mental wellness.
Libration is bigger than everything 🙇🏻♀️🙏🏻😇✨
@sindhura1341
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We all know people will not remain with us always, only our higher consciousness will be with us !!! Still we are unable to do anything for our consciousness
Great analysis 👌 thank you guruji for such lucid, straightforward interpretation 🙏
That compulsion fuels the toxicity, as simple as that. Wow👍Excellent 🙏🙏
Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏
And that toxicity knows very well that it would be accomodated, will not be thrown out of the window. 🙏🙏
Here Acharya ji wants us to ponder on why we are actually there in the domain of toxic people, why we are supporting their behaviour actively or passively, is there some kind of greed or unfullfilment that we feel can be filled by them, the question is not to tolerate but to ask why you are actually there in the first place.
I am not born to be a family man but I was born to be a liberated man
Acharya ji's smile is so calming 🙂
Your blessings enriched my life.. Thank you so much Acharyaji..
I have heard hundreds of videos on insult but didn’t find so much clarity and wisdom on well-being and mental health. This is my first time hearing you. Heartfelt gratitude to the Acharya for this precious advice🙏🏻🙏🏻
Brilliant conversation 🙂 Pranaam Acharya Ji 🙏
Thank you Acharya ji
नमन आचार्य जी!
Koti koti naman Acharya Ji! Thanks for showing light and giving clarity.I m in deep gratitude that I met you through your videos..
Naman Acharya Ji 🌺🙏
Thanku Aacharya ji
Thank you...🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you so much Acharya ji🕉🕉🙏🙏
शत शत नमन गुरुजी ❤️❤️🙏
Wow!! The way u explain 🙏❤️
Thank you!
Pranam Guruji 🙏🙏
We never cultivated wisdom with intent. So true.
Pranam acharya ji
Feeling of compulsion is problem. Since we don't know our real identity .Toxicity breeds in environment . Tolerating toxic behaviour is a support of toxicity . Really matters in life is your deep wisdom . Stop giving value to things that is nothing . Somebody has to call that person . We should tell them that your behaviour is creating toxic environment that adversely impact everyone's mental health. Superb ,🙏👏
Acharya ji 🙏
Be safer physically and mentally.
Thank u 🌹 acharya ji
Thank you was going through the same issue. Feel better now
Thank you.
Absolutely right thankyou acharya ji 🙏
Toxicity is not something necessarily present in a person it breeds in an environment not really in person and if it is there in environment there are many people responsible for it. ~Acharya Prashant
Love u..... Dear 💕 one...
Naman
Dearest Ap🌺🌺
#truth 🙏🙏❤️❤️🤗🤗
🙏 pranam
Sir your concept is very true
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Why are you living with those toxic people, is it your obligation? Is it any compulsion? You are born to be liberated.
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What compulsion do u have to interect with toxic people
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Good sir
@himanshumaurya8794
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Good
Same problem me
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Sir please tell about narcissistic personality
Guruji....when we live with them
Itne gyani hote to sabko gyan nahi dete
Hindi bhasame ye sunna milta to khucch me samj pata
Guru ji i am also dealing with toxic husband and I have 3 year old daughter. Now after seeing your videos from past few months I got clarity and I have decided to stay far in seperate home and I have taken room on rent. Just few more days i am going to shift soon because my belongings are here in husband home. Guru ji he is not giving my gold and diamond jwelery which my father gave it to me it is with my husband but he is not giving me. He is telling me I will not give you. Guru ji when ever my husband use to Abuse me or beat me I use to call police. But police did not help me. So my husband is not giving my jwelery saying that you have given complaint against me so now I will not give jwelery. And police also did not help me till now in getting back my jwelery. Guru ji please Guide me. Because some one told me that as your husband is abuse you and beating you and not giving your jewelry so file court case against him. Domestic violence and 498 then only he will understand. So Guru ji Guide me. I am living in prayagraj and my parents home is in Hyderabad. Guru ji I have even decided not to go back to parents home I wish to live on my own with my daughter. Only confusion is that I am thinking to live in Hyderabad in rent flat because I think in Hyderabad I can get better job and better income. Till now I did not work but now I have to work I am just B. Com and after that I did fashion designing course. But I have confidence that in the field of clothing I can earn money. Even I have confidence of various other small scale business. I am thinking to do samll business instead of job because if I do business I can take take care of my daughter who is just 3 year old in a better way. Guru ji i got married in 2018 but soon after my marriage just with in few days i came to know that my husband was in to relationship with his own bhabhi. My parents also did not understand my problem and never they said anything much to my husband because my father is conservative he thinks that whatever you might be facing problem with your husband my father says never leave your husband home because you have Rights to live there. But I told my father that my husband is Devil and I cannot live in a hell. And I told my father don't worry I am not going in your home. I don't want my father home and I don't want my husband home. I will on my own in my Rent home. Guru ji on 30 may I have given money to the owner of that Rent home. And I shifting my belongings when ever my husband is not at home. Just a few days more all my clothes and utensils I will shift soon and I will leave my toxic husband home. But I know very well he will call endlessly as every time he does when ever I use to go back to my father home. Guru ji when I was 5 month pregnant my husband beated with jeans belt. My husband has done lot of physical violence and mental violence with me so I went back to my parents home in Hyderabad for my safe delivery. But after my delivery he came back to Hyderabad to take me back to prayagraj but at that time I was scared to go back but my father did not understand. So I went but my husband again did physical violence so with my one month old daughter I came to my father home in Hyderabad. I was one year in my father home with my daughter. So my husband use to call often and use to tell me to come back and I use to say no. And my husband use to say that your father is also not answering my phone call. Tell your father to Answer my phone call and I wish to come and take you and our daughter back to prayagraj because our daughter first birthday I missed and staying one year away from our daughter I realized that daughter needs love of both parents. So he came back in 2020 to Hyderabad and took me my daughter back to prayagraj. But my husband did not change his bad and cruel behavior and he was the same abusive. Since 2020 till now so many times called the police nothing happened. My husband also played many bad games against me he wrote a letter in the name of mother in law and gave it police that his mother is disowning him. And stating that the mother in law is fed up with daughter in law and with his own son bad behavior in that letting it was written that mother inlaw wants both the daughter inlaw and her son should leave the home because mother in law wants to Disown her own son and wishes that her son should got out of the home with his wife and daughter . My husband also played a game by sending leagal notice to my father saying that I am calling daily 100 and he wants my father to come her in prayagraj and talk with him and take me back to hyderabad for few days. And in that notice he mentioned many blames against me. So I gave the reply to the notice and after reading the reply he was very angry on me. Still he is abusing me and at the same time wants me to live in his home. And he is telling me that you have given money in advance to that flat owner and he is telling that I am challenging you that you cannot live without me not even one month. And our daughter who is just 3 year old is use to living in Air conditioner room how will you manage. Husband is taunting me daily that purchase Ac in your rent home. He even told me that he will create tamasha in front of the owner by saying that my wife is not allowing me to meet my daughter. So Guru ji in advance I told the owner about my husband bad behavior and even honestly told the owner that in my life this is the first time I am going to become a Tenant. So the owner told not to worry shift your belongings and live here. Guru ji I need to talk to you
@ishitadadhwal5276
2 жыл бұрын
Your husband is mentally sick(narcissists) for god sake leave him asap change your number never contact him again just sent him divorce notice take divorce is mutual consent forget about jewellery and alimony safe your and your 's daughter life . This type of mentally sick men never let you to live your life peaceful they want to control your life .
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@uniquescience7047
2 жыл бұрын
didi mujhe zyaada kuch advice krne ko to nhi h , but aap bahut brave ho ki finally ye steps lerhe ho...i hope the best future for you and your daughter .. your daughter got a great mom :)
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