I’m 51. Yesterday my 12 year relationship came to an end because I decided I couldn’t keep focusing on a one sided relationship. I finally got to the root of our issues and she was turned off by me as I’ve become bitter at work and I’m always negative. She’s 💯 correct. I went from positive and enjoyed playing rugby to being miserable and on the couch. I hate my stalled career and was trying to keep her through acts of service when I knew she had no desire for me any more. The good news is I’ve picked myself up after much worse places in my life and will go back to the gym and a regiment from my military days and start studying more to kick start my curiosity again and travel solo to where I want to go. I never got the kids and happy marriage I always wanted but have accepted that life can still be good when a person decides they want to change their mindset. Never give up on life. Fight for your happiness to the very end.

@randomno0

2 ай бұрын

Best wishes to you in your next adventure! I’m 50, have been with my wife for over 31 years and in the same situation (with exception to rugby.) The timing of your comment is strangely perfect and exactly what I needed at this very moment to motivate the quiet resolve for balance. Ray Dalio mentions leverage in this short video. In a healthy, balanced relationship, the fulcrum of leverage is approximately in the middle. That is not the case for me and her. I need to find happiness and discipline for myself towards that end. When I can regain my own balance and happiness, only then can I seek the same with another, if that is what brings more happiness and balance.

@jimbig3997

2 ай бұрын

Did she really have better options than trying to work things out with you? If so then fine. But I think we failed to defend our women from (((media))) and society-induced mental illness. Hope you at least let her have the cat.

@babyspice0206

2 ай бұрын

Leverage what? Time? Money? Relationship? 😅

@7budfox

2 ай бұрын

good luck my man. Peace from italy

@jimbig3997

2 ай бұрын

So your Ex, after 12 years, has better options than you right now? If so fine. But I suspect you didn't honor your obligations. We need to take care of our women and the mental illness that is inflicted on them by our society. I hope for her sake you at least let her have the cat...

Im 43. I have no kids or gfriend. I have a good relationship with my Mum. I set myself goals all the time to give my life purpose. I try to help people where I can, without it hindering my own happiness. I have managed to start loving being alone and spend a lot of time running or hiking in the mountains alone. Its very liberating and highly addictive. I used to chase girls and spend all my money on them, but now its just all on me. Lifes so much less complicated this way. I should also add that I am a big believer in quality of life. Maintaining good mental and physical health greatly enhances this, with deep sleep (when your body repairs itself) being critical to successful health. Having a decent diet with minimal alcohol and lots of water also greatly helps too.

@TheThinkingMathematician

2 ай бұрын

thank you

@ej7052

2 ай бұрын

True that. Health is so fundamentally essential to us all (imo) throughout our life, no matter a baby or a senior It's like we can't even live proper life without health

@focusdecorating3637

2 ай бұрын

@@ej7052Yes, absolutely. Long term good health should be a foundation goal of all humans in my opinion. But this is getting harder to do in the western world, because we are dealing with a mainly contaminated food supply with all the bad food out there readily available and constant adverts for it, its not easy.

@focusdecorating3637

2 ай бұрын

@@TheThinkingMathematicianCheers mate

@Zoran69

2 ай бұрын

No mention of God. God is missing in your life. Get to know God, you will be much happier 😀

I'm turning 49 soon. I was sick my whole life, until about 3 years ago. Managed to have two beautiful kids despite the constant hell, it made it worth the struggle. Now I have almost nothing, but yet I am the richest man alive, living a simple life in a cabin in the woods, content with the present, which is all anybody actually has. Philosophy, breathing techniques, psilocybin, and getting back up every time you fall, that's one answer for some, it was for me. I hope to help others in my remaining years, because it makes me happy✌️💚🖖

@DaytonFlyers123

2 ай бұрын

🫂🙏🏼💪

@focusdecorating3637

2 ай бұрын

Well done mate.

@noelmoodley2003

2 ай бұрын

Powerful

@WilcoxNotreallythere

2 ай бұрын

The spice melange will show you the way but children will change EVERYTHING.

I'm 54 my tips are #1 health maintain it as much as possible #2 share your life via a spouse, friends, charity don't fade away with nobody to remember you.

I’m 53 and I am totally in that not enough hours in the day to get things done. Had kids a little later in life so we dealing with the early teenage years, we have a special needs kiddo (mental health) so that involves therapy time, social service’s time to name a few. Add this to all the other day to day normal stuff like holding jobs down, running a household, 2 dogs to walk, feed etc and before I know it I’m done for the day. I never thought of meditation so I’ll give that a try. Thank you for the advice.

@biritsimonsen

2 ай бұрын

I'm 10 years ahead of you - 62 and the kids are 18 and 20. Special needs and LGBTQ. Pets. I'm single now and have my own business. Sadly, when people tell me to meditate (which I have tried many, many times) I just want to slap them. : )

@srini9653

2 ай бұрын

I guess I'm kind of in a similar boat. I walk almost daily for 1 to 1.5 hours. This is my personal time, get to meditate, some physical exercise. I'm getting calmer and feel like I'm gaining the control back. Hang in there!

Rarely I have seen an accomplished individual, giving free life lessons and advice at the scale you are. Thank you Ray!!

@Hs5687

2 ай бұрын

He Speaks with Benefit of Priveledge…

@moh6410

2 ай бұрын

i also believe you have more privilege than Nick Vujicic@@Hs5687

Thank you so much Ray. I’m turning 39 and this video has helped confirm a decision I made today

My advice for those in their 40s and 50s is to just stay physically active if you want to look good as you age. the less physically active you stay, the fastest you age and your flesh and muscles become flabby (hanging down). Go out there and enjoy the outdoors. staying indoors the majority of your time doesn't do any good at all and it just leads to a state of depression and laziness.

Im turning 50 next year n i wud lk to tell young ppl out there it does get better.. ur life will improve.. its just a phase.. not everyone move at the same pace.. just one little step at a time n keep pushing forward.. The key is not to give up

My life start from zero again at 49 after my mom and brother have been scammed their whole life savings. I hate them so much, life is tough, but luckily I have a gifted Mensa daughter giving me mental support. Now i have found a new job, hopefully things will get better after 50!

middle life is like middle management: pressure from all sides. definitely feeling this. have to learn how to triage and outsource many things as you can

Thank you for providing guidance in your books and social media. I am in my 40’s feel totally different challenges than my early years with in-laws, parents, kids and work.

Thanks Ray for the advice 🙏

Ray more concretely advise-1-Should you help your children whit money? 2-Are you happy whit your life? 3-Pay your debts and dont mess whit banks! 4-Shold you enjoy life or keep woking hard? What about adictions in life- sugar, cigaretes or alkohol or the big one-loans?

Thank you Ray.

That little little Laugh of Uncle g in between while explaining the Midlife Crisis...My father does it and I get to know the SCARY PART is yet to come😂😂😂😂😂

I'm currently 90 but I've figured out how to reverse myself to mid-40s, so this info is a lifesaver

@JulioCezar-we9zo

Ай бұрын

you need to try be the president. I heard they are now looking for old men like you

I am 57 and put Lord Jesus Christ first and central in my life. No any materialism can give me so much happiness and joy

@PaulWashington..

2 ай бұрын

Love Jesus. Never knew joy or peace before knowing Him, What a love. :)

This guy is a great speaker! Can fill two and a half minutes talking without saying anything

Great comments Ray, Thanks and have a nice week.

Thank you for sharing!❤❤❤❤❤

Ray is just an angel.. such a wise guy. Weather or not he knlws it, he is one of my mentors. He is so sensible, and truthful, and I love to learn from his experience...

Thank you Ray

Ray is brilliant.

These are some good points, and practices to implement.

Leverage got it, gonna 50x long my savings on binance tomorrow

Thank you very much Ray I appreciate your advice

Great, Thank you

Love this advice

Always golden tips! things that we know, but need reminders :)

Right on! Ty❤

I appreciate this advice

Mathematicians and economists will tell you: happiness is U-shaped. As a general rule, people are happy when they're young, becoming increasingly unhappy into middle-age, and then once through middle-age, start getting happier again. Apparently this phenomenon is so widespread, it doesn't just apply to humans - chimpanzees experience the same 'dip' in happiness in mid-life.

Thank you 🙏

Ray you are my hero. You teach me so much. But I must say you make the mistake most American men make. They talk like there is no difference between men and women. But this difference is huge, men and women deal with very different problems in each phase of their life. Women bloom in their teens and twenties . Men dominate in their 30s and 40s etc.

I'm in my mid 20s but I'm here for listening for the present & future

Thank you.

I would suggest reading Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle and building a relationship with our higher power Jehovah God. Also build good friendships and become a forgiving emotionally intelligent person. Eating well, working out and working on staying away from negative people. At 31 Im such a happier person since doing those things.

thank you my mentor,thank you so much.your reward is great in your other phase of life.

God has blessed me so much. Name of Adi Da

i’m in my 30s and i need to hear something to get me going. after my twenties going bust, i’m at a loss.

You are a good mentor. Thank you.

A very uniquely spectacular human being.

TLDR; -Meditate -"Get leverage" to get more done in the time you have

…word up dawg!

Thank you for care about those in 40s.

Do a book signing please Ray1 (day 1)

I am 53 years old , and just starting over with nothing . Because of a terrible marriage , I had a wife wich I still love but financially it was a nightmare. Now with no skill I am working a normal warehouse job . Any advice wi be appreciated

The goat 🐐

Mr Dalio. You are talking about leverage. In financially what is your rule of thumb? 20/80; 30/70: 40/60 So what is a good leverage which benefits you and lowers your risks. How you are making these decisions? What are your principles? Can you talk about this in one of your videos?

🙏👍thank you for the insight Mr.Dalio. Yes the power of leverage and intense introspection.❤😊

Please remind me to watch this in 12 years, thanks!

The phrase 'life begins at 40' is often misinterpreted as being the time for freedom and fun, when in actual fact, it is the time when the real slog begins and you are no longer coasting through life.

Thank you! 🙏

My biggest takeaway, Ray Dalio is a billionaire. He could have done anything with that 30 minutes to think about and execute this KZread clip. But he chose to help others. Has me reflecting how can I help others.

@MrLennart1976

2 ай бұрын

You realize he's getting paid for these videos right?

@TimberXX

2 ай бұрын

@@MrLennart1976 good point, think about the opportunity costs of his time. A KZread clip is pennies.

@MrLennart1976

2 ай бұрын

@@TimberXX It amazes me how many people don't realize that youtubers get paid directly for their videos. KZread is not what it was 15 years ago, it's monetized now. With a few hundred thousand views, he gets a decent payout from youtube for 2 minutes of saying nothing concrete.

good advice for all ages 💯

I am inventing a new meditational technique. It is a combination of technique that are out there. I would like you to try it out and let me know if you notices any changes. It is 12 mins long The first 3 minutes: You would listen to your internal thoughts with compassion, non judgmental non critical, like you are listening to your friend talking to you. but don’t get involved with your thoughts and idea. You are listening only. The second 3 minutes. Bring a feeling you have and wish to have for the day. For example calmness, peaceful. Bring that thought up and watch your feeling come and goes. Try to have that feeling come up in your mind and imaging how that would feel. The last 3 minutes. Place your thoughts on your breath coming in and out. Any thoughts come up thanks it and let it goes and refocus on your breath. All up 12 mins do this. Give one week and see how it goes. I am trying all these variation of meditation and it really helps

At 43, I have a wonderful wife, wonderful children, great career, lovely house, good exercise regimen. I'm getting POUNDED. But it's worth it.

I was at a place where I spent all my money on liquor and women, and the rest of the money was wasted. I have now stopped wasting money

I think when you reach 50s having a loving family and earning enough that don't need to skim the savings for the rising living cost, then take that as a win.

In 2024,don't set new year financial goals without consulting a financial adviser.there expertise ensure a solid plan for success.Building wealth involves developing good habits like regular putting money away in intervals for solid investments.

@carolpearson6397

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start.Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?

@frankhodges7637

2 ай бұрын

I agree, based on personal experience working with an investment advisor, I currently have $650k in a well diversified portfolio, that has experienced exponential growth. It is not about having money to invest in stocks,but also you need to be knowledgeable, persistent,and have strong hands to back it up.

@teresamartim6173

2 ай бұрын

How can I participate in this?I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financial future and am eager to participate.who is the driving force behind your success?.

@frankhodges7637

2 ай бұрын

Marie Ann Treloar

@frankhodges7637

2 ай бұрын

She has been my counselor and coach.

What is this ‘leverage’ he’s referring to and how does it work?

My advice: buckle up!

Ray write them down,,keep the best discard the ones that are too difficult to explain,until you can word them better,but fo not give up trying to teach.

Max was here

Sometimes, I can't meditate. That's when I run until it's hard to breathe. And then my mind and emotions become clear. I know what I need to do and what I can let go of. I'm not afraid anymore. I have come to realize the importance of having faith in my choices. Thank you so much. 🙂‍↕️😌

Meditate on that

I’m 40 and I have it all figured out

@user-nk8ww9ce9k

2 ай бұрын

hell yeah

Look up the autobiography Within Heaven's Gates by Rebecca Springer. Page 64.😇

He's the only billionaire guru I can think of. Bezos is too busy with his new woman.

*Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months,God bless Chloe Linda Henderson🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸..*

@aleishabryant

2 ай бұрын

Hello how do you make such monthly ?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🤦 of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.

@HendersonBarkley

2 ай бұрын

Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Chloe Linda Henderson.

@SAINT-uq5gw

2 ай бұрын

She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸

@SAINT-uq5gw

2 ай бұрын

After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.

@GodSent-hc4pj

2 ай бұрын

Wow that's nice She makes you that much!! please is there a way to reach her services, I work 3 jobs and trying to pay off my debts for a while now!! Please help me.

Buenas tardes Ray. Saludos cordiales de MÉXICO LINDO Y QUERIDO.🌄🐯🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽👍

Hormones more powerful than drugs 😆

Impeccable

recognize that you are not going to suddenly become rich, or famous, or popular if you aren't already.

Don’t chase money and fame but devote time to your family and appreciate this life if possible ….Ive found the spiritual life is the only sane life

I will give you best advice ever. Become free, look for a peace in life, create your own life, strive for the things you want, listen to your intuition and yourself not others, you know the best how to get that thing you want, stop listening to that nonsense from the internet.

My youth was spent nearly on disability - But nobody has an easy life. Due to that I feel out of touch with any version of normal. But overall - our culture is weak and stupid. Strength is about remaining calm as possible at any age and circumstance

Telling people to start meditating in their 40s or 50s is not a epiphany. Lol There are so many different forms, levels, and reasons to meditate. Most who haven't done internal work by these ages can't even find a starting point or purpose to really meditate effectively.

Meditation? Like you did at the Taylor swift concert?

@jessejames4967

2 ай бұрын

Was he really at a Taylor swift concert?

You must be right because you are rich.

Make as much money as early as you can.

A bachelor doesn't suffer these issues.

My middle life is combined with war in Ukraine 😞

It all sucks after 50. Kids are gone and your health sucks.

Leverage?

@dude4173

2 ай бұрын

Basically just means maximizing your time, output, or results. Google it

Free advice: FREE PALESTINE

It’s not an advice for the average Joe. We are stretched too thing. The unhappiness levels, aggressions, etc. are through the roof as a result. The need to make more and produce more for less has killed us.

Dang... its going to get even harder than this?

I don't believe meditating is truly going to help anyone as our currency & Empire currently collpases. Peoples problems, the threats they are currently facing and will be facing in the future, is much bigger than the normal historical midlife issues in years past. I assume meditation wouldn't really do much for people in Weimar Germany, Venezuela or Zimbabwe, not really.

Yap, add divorce on top of everything that drains you 😂 Gosh, I just need millions of dollars and peace haha

Knowing Jesus is love, joy ,peace like none other. Eternal Life is in Him and none other John 17:3 And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. John 3:3 Jesus answered and said to him, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” Jeremiah 29:13 And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.

Asking people to meditate with a business background/view was kinda weird.

I like Ray but like most of the wealthy that give advice, he only focuses on this life when it's short and ignores the next that is eternal. Read the Final Testament of Allah, His Qur'an and insha'Allah He will guide you to Islam. Those are the truly successful.

That was just a bunch of rambling word salad, people think because they made some $$ that all of a sudden they are Aristotle.

@delasantos

2 ай бұрын

ahahaha

Meditate, your advice is to meditate..... I want my 2 minutes back....

Stop spending money to impress other people. Get out of debt.

Man, people are desperate for the guidance of a father figure

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Why is this all just generic fluff. I guess it’s good if helps someone

@DuncanL7979

2 ай бұрын

Because it is more about his own personal branding and marketing than it is about providing people with useful, substantive advice.